Family: Question: I know this kid.. Well I don't know him.. Is he homeless?

Question: I know this kid.. Well I don't know him.. Is he homeless?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 01:03 PM PST

He could be homeless or just a bigger with a poor family. But I don't think he has a family. He can't be older than 10 or 12. I recently started working at my family's inn. It's a small place with a nice fireplace and you can rent a room and have a meal. It's like a bed and breakfast but with dinner. Anyway anyone comes in. Anyone. No one asks questions. They sorta just sit down. If they want to buy dinner and chill they can. If they want a room they talk to my mom. (I am a server) that being said, recently this little kid has been coming in every night. At first glance, he looks like a normal kid. A closer look shows how skinny the kid is though! He's super skinny and I don't know maybe I should be worried about him? He sits by the fire and leaves every night now. Once I caught him stealing though. Here's our problem. Yesterday night, he came in, sat down. Instead of leaving around 11 like normal..he disappeared early. I went to get some more non perishable items from the storage room in the back and I caught him stealing. Not sure what to do, I told my father who grabbed the poor kid and freaked out. I'm starting to think he's starving and was trying to get food and is maybe poor since he can't afford it. What do I do? Do I tell authorities or can I help the kid out? I really want to help him out even sneak him food or stow away a place for him to sleep..is this bad?

Question: How did this happen!?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 12:57 PM PST

So i put my little sister in the bath for her daily bath time (you probably understand). I gave her a toaster so she could have something to play with while she bathed, i plugged it in just to make sure she didn't lose it. I left for about 30 minutes and when i came back she was lying down wide-eyed and wasn't moving nor breathing. I called 911 and the confirmed she was dead, how did this happen?

Question: Am I being emotionally abused?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 12:49 PM PST

I have a really nice life. I have everything basically handed to me. But, when I do something stupid that sounds kind of rude, even if I didn't mean to say it that way, my parents blow up. Both of my parents have called me a spoiled little brat, and they say I act like I know everything. Sometimes, when my parents fight with me and disagree with each other, my dad says I'm going to cause them to get divorced. I don't want to run away or anything stupid like that, because I still need my parents. I'm not old enough to live on my own yet. I also love my parents and my brother, when I'm not fighting with them. They've also called me lazy, irresponsible, and other things like that (probably because I am).

Question: Should I move out?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 12:48 PM PST

I need some advice. My mom and I have not been getting along lately she was going to emancipate me but then realized she cant, she has given me her "blessings" to move out and said it will be on good terms. I will continue school along with night school. I'm getting good grades a/B's and wouldn't have to switch schools and I'd have a bus. I also should graduate on time with my class, and plan on doing college. I'm just nervous about the financial burden it would put on Justin and his dad (I have my own room there). He and his dad have been offering me and asking me to move in for a while now. I'd get a job but I can't until June because of night school. I'm just not sure if it's a good idea, I feel like if I stay here things will only escalate, Ken is angry he's going to jail for dui and takes it out on family. I defend my mom brothers and I which makes it worse and then my mom gets mad. It's a never ending circle. I have almost moved out a few other times but I never had my moms blessing and I dont want a repeat of last year. I want to move in with Justin and his dad but I'm scared that he would resent me for having to support me at first, he swears he won't but I'm just nervous. I don't know do you think I should stay or go?

Question: Is this really my fault?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 12:25 PM PST

This happens often with a similar situations.Me and my mom argue every month about something I always end up crying from grief and maybe guilt my mom never cries but is quite strong.We have argued since as long as I remember.Once when I was 4 I had trouble learning the alphabet and my mom was screaming at me and I was scared.She gives everything she can to me but we still seem like a very troubled family.Today was especially upsetting I sat next to my mom and she started to mess with my hair to try to get dandruff out which annoyed me and I asked her to stop several times she did not stop then she told me she will stop when she wants I said but it is uncomfortable and please respect my wishes.we get a little argument and in the end my mom gets quiet and just swallows and lays her head down when I came into the living room later she was still down when my grandma arrived she acted normal I haven't spoken to her.I feel guilty is it my fault what was she probably thinking how can are relation be put back because she does everything for me to live luxurious and it makes me feel bad if I hurt her feeling this often.

Question: Nobody understands.?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 12:22 PM PST

So i asked a question about my mom. Most responses were people calling me selfish brat or trashy dramatic teenager. they're all wrong. i'm neither, My mother enjoys hitting me, calling me worthless and calls me a ***** and a bratty teenager, i respect my mom, specially since my dad and mom got a divorce when i was three. My mom is pretty rude when it comes to asking her stuff, she is always on her phone and never pays any attention to me or my sister, shes on FB Talking to her friends when i wanted to talk to her about my depression and wanting to get a physiatrist for my depression and other stress, she says '' not now i'm busy '' I say busy with what and then i get the reply '' JUST LEAVE ME THE **** ALONE WHILE I AM ON MY PHONE '' So please before you leave rude replies, ask questions before you take it out on the wrong person, My grandma and aunt have to buy me stuff for school because my mom is too busy saving up her money for **** she doesn't need. Even on my birthday my family is rude to me, I am not doing this for '' attention '' or '' lying '' im just trying to find someone with a similar problem. I feel like my family hates me, i'm feeling shut out. my stepdad told me to '' go away '' ( and he was being legit ) and to move out. i want to just end it all.

Question: What is my moral obligation to help take care of my mother?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 12:10 PM PST

My mother is in old age and declining in health. She needs help at home. My mother created a trust to give half her estate to her favorite child. The favorite child thinks we should all help our mother equally. Out of the nine children, only the favorite and one other sibling are willing to help. I have financially supported myself since I was 12 years old and am now middle aged.

Question: My mom is getting on my nerves? :/?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 12:07 PM PST

I'm not trying to be rude. But she's so irritating. She's 38 years old and she is a very stressed individual. She has about 4 kids and I am 20, my sister is 18 and other sister is 13 and my brother is 17. I dont know what her problem is lately but she tries and picks fights with me all the time and then says I am the one doing it. And she always needs to be right. She is never like this with our brother and will buy him anything he asks for because he is so rude and "depressed." But when I was depressed she legit did not care. She is so concerned with her body and age. She got a boob job and gained weight and wont stop comparing herself to everything. Even me. She says stupid things to make herself feel better like "OH IVE NEVER BEEN THIS HEAVY" "SHE SAID MY HAIR WAS THICKER THAN YOURS." "OMG SHE CALLED ME AN OLD WOMEN." "I HAD A CURVY FIGURE WHEN I WAS SKINNY AND A BIG BUTT" she's ALWAYS bragging. Excessively. Ex 1: this girl in my class told her her hair was more coarse because she was older. And she started saying how the girl was being a ***** and calling her an old woman. She literally thinks EVERY girl is being a too faced *****. I just cant stand it anymore. Like shes almost 40 and she acts like a teenage girl. How do I deal with this? She isnt going to be alive forever and anything could happen and I dont want it to with me feeling this way about her. Dont get me wrong. I love my mom very much and she does a lot for me. But I dont understand why she has been acting like this. anyone with something actually helpful? xD P.s. me and my mom have school together.

Question: Hola tengo 14 años y mo soy alto de parte de mi padre son altos y de madre medianos?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 11:42 AM PST

Dicen que me paresco mas a mi mama pero quiero crecer un poco mas... Habra alguna forma? Que no seas pastillas tomables jaja se me dificulta muchisimo tomarlas y mo puedo 5ESTRELLAS URGE

Question: My younger brother wont respond to any of my texts, yet he constantly posts on social media...is it wrong to be angry about this?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 11:11 AM PST

He is off at boarding school so possibly he is too busy to reply however he isnt busy enough to stay off facebook and instagram. normally when a girl does this to me I stop talking to her completely and cut my losses but this is my brother. Am I going to far? He hasn t responded to anything...anything. I m honestly pretty pissed.

Question: What is this called?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 11:03 AM PST

My mum asked me to pick something off the floor so my dad could get down and I said "why does he get a special path and I didn't?" She gave me a really angry look and stormed over to me, grabbed my right arm, pulled me up a little and threw me over the other side of the floor. It really hurt my left elbow and I have a graze on it now. I went up to my room and now she has just called me down and is pretending nothing has happened. She never normally does anything physical, it's normally verbal and emotional. Afterwards, she always pretends like nothing has happened. It's really getting me down now. Is this abuse?

Question: My dad embarrassed me?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 10:06 AM PST

My dad, mom, my brother & his gf were at breakfast. I was telling them about my job search and interviews. Now my parents know i work from my phone as a counsellor. My dad blurrted "did you put your a phone sex operator on your resume!" i was in shock and i still haven't spoken to them. What would you do?

Question: How can i give custody of my son to my eldest daughter in another state.?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 10:03 AM PST

My son is on probation, he has being geting in to arguments with his dad at home and has just been kicked out of school. Me and him both agree that him living with his sister would be a better option. i live in TN and my daughter lives in CA how can i transfer custody and transfer his probation at the same time .

Question: Normal not to be upset over parents divorce?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 09:54 AM PST

I m 17. My parents will be getting divorced soon. My mother was very unhappy in the relationship, I feel glad that she can be happy, but akward because she might have to go live far away. My father... I m probably going to be staying with him. He doesn t know about anything yet. It s going to be very strange, but I don t feel sadness, not yet at least. I m not mad at anyone, even though my life will be a bit harder, it s probably for the best. I ve been reading experiences online, and I only find sad and angry ones. I ve always been emotianaly stable...even apathetic. Is this normal?

Question: Is this a good idea for my mother in laws birthday party? YOUR THOUGHTS PLEASE?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 09:49 AM PST

I was visiting my husband's mother and I ask her to see his baby pictures. She gave me her family picture album to look at. In it was pictures of her being crowned Miss YYY 22 years ago. Was she ever beautiful them as she is now. She had never told me about this and neither had my husband. None of her friends know about it either. It was quite an honor so I asked my husband why she never told anyone about it. He said she was embarrassed that she could not fit in the dresses she wore when she was crowned Miss YYY. She had a gorgeous figure then and now. It turns out she is only 1 dress size larger now than when she was 20. What a remarkable feat for a woman in her 40s that has had 3 children. I just hope I am that lucky when I am her age. She has a birthday soon and I would like to give her a party to celebrate her birthday and being crowned Mis YYY and invite all her friends. I think they would like to know and would be very happy for the honor she has received. However the LAST THING I want to do is cause her any embarrassment. Gals, please give me your thoughts on how or if I should proceed with this. I WILL NOT do this if she does not want me to. I will ask her permission before I do it. Would you be embarrassed for your friends to know you were crowned Miss YYY 22 years ago. THANKS FOR YOUR ADVICE.

Question: Is the age difference to much for this to work?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 09:45 AM PST

I am the president of a computer club. One of our members is a 15 year old girl Amanda. She is smart, pretty (think a young Christie Brinkley). She is the nicest person you will ever meet and wants to learn everything there is about computers. She is the kind of a person every parent wants as a child. At our meetings, usually her mother brings her to the meetings and since she lives on my way home I take her home. On our way to her house she keeps asking me to date her mother. She has told me many times that she would be the happiest girl in the world if she could call me dad. I am not sure I want to do this. Her mother at age 35 is 10 years older than I am. However her not married mother is beautiful. I guess it runs in the family. Do you think it is even possible a 35 year old woman would want to date a 25 year old man? My impression of her mother the few times I have talked to her is she also a very nice person. I don't want to embarrass either Amanda or her mother by asking her mother for a date and causing a problem. Advice please. Especially if you are a 35 (or close) year old woman. I would be happy to have Amanda as a daughter if things worked out. Her mother would really be a trophy wife.

Question: My mom said she hates me?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 09:42 AM PST

My mom nags and scolds everyday and today she exploded and said to me : I hate you I should not have brought you into this world You are not my son you are rubbish from the streets Go and eat **** Nothing you ever do makes me happy I dote on her so much.. I bring her to holiday every year.. She has diabetes i always stop her from eating sweet stuffs.. i always cook for her and now she said all this to me? I'm really very hurt and heartbroken now.. i really feel like leaving this house and never turn back... Im an adult... ( I bring her to overseas holiday every year)

Question: Why does this happen to me? Does it mean I am a pervert?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 09:36 AM PST

I an a high school senior with twin step sisters my age, my step mother's daughters. They are both gorgeous with a figure to die for. They like to come in my room in the evening so I can help them do their homework. I am happy to help them as I really like them. The problem is when they come in for homework help they wear their shorty nightgown and nothing else. Everything is visible. I would NEVER EVER have sex with my sisters. However my weenee sometimes has a mind of it's own and I get a b0ner. It is totally embarrassing when this happens. They don't know I sometimes do this as I hide it from them. When I ask them to wear more clothes when the come into my room, they tell me there is no way I should be sexually attracted to them. Does this make me a perverted sick guy?

Question: Where do I go ?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 09:34 AM PST

I am adopted and I live in NC. I recently moved in with my birth mother and my five other siblings (more on my dad s side.) I lived in Chicago for 5 moths and it was very different but that s my blood and I am an adaptable person. My adoptive parents are in their 60s and I have a 24 yr old brother here. I live an hour from the community college I go to and 40 min from work. All my old friends are away at college or fake as hell. I came back because I left in the first place on bad terms. I could live in either place because Im adaptable and both places are home. I don t know what to do because I initially hurt the people here because I acted out very badly and put them through a lot because I was sad and torn but now Ive met all these cousins, aunts, uncles, isters and brothers older and younger, I finally met my dad and now I have grandparents again! (my adoptive grandparents are deceased) I wanted to meet them my whole life and I am thrilled but now I feel like they think Ive turned my back on them. What do I do? My heart is telling me to move back to Chicago.

Question: How can I find my great-grandfather?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 09:26 AM PST

My grandfather wants to find out who his father is. He was a German solider during World War II, and met his mother in Troms county in Norway (probably in 1941 since my grandfather is born early in 1942). They never really spoke about him because it wasn't really a good thing to have a lovechild in that time, especially because he was a German solider. His mother is dead, so there is no information to get from that hold. I have tried to search for him in different sites (like ancestry.com etc.), but it is really difficult. His name is Loic/Louis (or something similar) Dinges. I hope someone can help me and my grandfather!

Question: I'm getting married soon. I want my stepdad to walk me down the isle, but that may hurt my bio dad. Can I avoid hurting his feelings?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 09:14 AM PST

Firstly, I don't know my biological father very well. I do feel a connection to him and I do think of him as my dad, but he just hasn't been around for a lot of my life. When I was a kid I think i saw him about 9 or 10 times in total. I've seen him a lot more as I've gotten older and I have a good relationship with him, but if I'm being honest I think of my stepdad as more of a dad than him. My mom and my stepdad got married when I was 2, but he's the dad I've really known. He was there throughout my entire childhood and teenage years. I saw him pretty much every day. He's the one I cried to when my first boyfriend broke my heart. He's the one that was there for my high school and college graduation. He was the one who did a lot of these things with me, so I really think of him as my dad. When my stepdad isn't around I always just call him 'dad'. I'm getting married in a few months to the sexiest, most amazing guy alive. I want my stepdad to be the one to walk me down the isle, but I know it'll make my bio dad feel bad. I don't want to hurt his feelings, but this is a big day for me and (as bad as I feel saying this) I want the man whose been there with me to walk me down. Is there a way I can make my bio dad feel OK? Is there a way I can do this without having anyone's feelings hurt?

Question: Im 45yrs old. My mother is jealous of my friends, I have set boundries so she kicks me out, I have to stay due to her health.?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 08:38 AM PST

Question: My dad died and I don't know why?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 08:37 AM PST

He was perfectly healthy, didn't have cancer or a terminal illness or anything like that, yet he passed away 2 weeks ago from Cardiac Arrest... Nobody is telling me what happened, and it's starting to really annoy me. My dad was 50 years old, NOT old enough to die from natural causes. It's just... My father was literally everything I had, my mom left us when I was 4, and I'm an only child. My grandmother (current guardian) won't let me in on what happened and I really need to know, I need closure, you know? My emotional state is terrible right now, and I want to know what happened. ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.0

Question: Will I get taken away from my family?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 08:33 AM PST

I had a person (I think she worked with child protection?) come to my house on Monday and she questioned all of my family (except my dad since he wasn't home). When she got to me she asked where I get my bruises from and I told her they come from my dad. Which is true, he would do something to aggravate me and he at some point would hit me and I normally fight with him. Last night he hit me in the head with a television remote hard and choked me a little. My mom thinks I won't get taken away since I laugh when me and my dad fight. I don't laugh, he makes threats towards me and I chuckle saying that he couldn't, but I normally end up being wrong. My dad abuses me physically, mentally, emotionally, verbally, and sexually. (He hasn't raped me, he just smacks my a** when he feels like it.) My mom abuses me verbally and emotionally. Though I only told the person about my dad's physical abuse and my mom's verbal abuse. I should have told her all the abuse but I couldn't find the words to start with it. She was wondering if she should still do something with my family or if she left us alone that I would be okay. But, would there be a chance that I would get taken away? I am 14 years old and I live on a farm so I might think most of this abuse (mostly verbal) is from anger because we own old equipment because we don't have much money. And come to think of it, my dad's sexual abuse is more towards inappropriate then abuse. I didn't mean to call it that, I'm sorry.

Question: My mom always lies to me?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 08:30 AM PST

I do homeschool and I always ask my mom for help and she just says "Oh you can skip that!" And now im starting to get in trouble for the work that im missing and my mom blames me for it! I mean,i know i should do my own work but sometimes i don't understand it so i ask my mom to help me. I then reminded her that she was the one who let me skip all that work and now she's yelling at me and making up lies about what she said. It makes me so mad because i've confronted her so many times about it and she still has the nerve to yell at me like that! What do i do?

Question: Did my dad lie? Why?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 07:41 AM PST

He said he met with a bearded guy we saw earlier. And he meets him everyday. But once we were in the market and the bearded guy passed by us and didnt even say hi to my dad! I have a feeling they never met. Why did my dad lie then? He said hes gonna introduce my dad to another guy soon.

Question: My parents think I'm an arrogant, pompous brat?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 07:17 AM PST

I've had an iPhone 6s for about 2 weeks now. It's my first ever iPhone. I've always wanted one, and I've finally managed to get one. When I received it, I said out loud "IT'S FINALLY HERE!!! I HAVE AN IPHOOOOOOOONE!!!!!" I've said "I have an iPhone" about 2 or 3 more times since owning it. My parents, who both own Nokia Lumia phones, think I'm "pompous", "arrogant" and a "brat" for owning one. It's not like I'm waving it about in their faces, ridiculing them. Are my parents right? Am I an arrogant, pompous brat?

Question: She took away my phone?!?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 07:15 AM PST

I live with my sister in law, my brother and my niece whose just turned . My brother is at work and I'm home sick. So my sister in law's rule is no school then bed rest. I'm allowed to watch television but I need to relax. (P.s) My brother doesn't want to parent me in anyway. He leaves everything to his wife.) I was texting my friends and she came to bring me breakfast and took away my phone so that I could get my rest. She said I could have it back after I get some rest. I didn't have the strength to argue and she said she'd check on me in a couple of hours.

Question: How much trouble could my brother get in?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 06:50 AM PST

My nineteen year old brother hates animals and finds joy in purposely hurting the neighborhood cat. There was an old couple driving down the road to their house and they have a reputation of running over animals. They almost killed the cat, but my brother jumped in front of the vehicle and threw a boulder at the windshield. They stopped the vehicle and the man got out of it while confronting my brother. My brother punched the guy and I managed to record most of it. How much trouble is in for my brother?

Question: Are my parents way to strict? they always need to meet the parents before i hang out with them its giving me anxiety?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 06:38 AM PST

they always take away my things i am doing good in school and trying my bst to get my grades up they always say because because i said so they always yell at me a couple times my parents said move out i dont wanna see u at one point i live with my grand parents they think i do stuff like hide there car keys if they could not find them i could not find socks today i had to go somewhere my grandfather said i hid them now i used to do that in the past when i was 10 or 11 but this is the present they need to expect more from me and my 2 aunts live with me there 27 28 with kids! they eat all of our food trash the house and they clean the house once in a while be they expect me to clean there mess too while my aunts sit on couch sleeping.. noq theres way more trying not to get into full detail but i did visit a doctor for this kind of thing he told me just to 'hang in there' i am 17 male btw

Question: Wh do we get emotionally attached to someone that doesn't treat us right ??

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 06:12 AM PST

Question: How did the natural order of the family fall apart in our modern world?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 06:04 AM PST

Question: Is my mom selfish ..? I'm 20 years old and she still wants to control me ����?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 05:55 AM PST

So in March I moved down here to be with my dad. Mostly cuz I thought it would be better for me and also living with my mom would be hell sometimes. She aggervated me and started fights with me no matter what I did for her. Then on the other hand she could be my best friend sometimes. So I haven't done a thing for myself for s year I blame my depression and everyday my mom has been saying how she wants me back home etc etc. well yesterday I found this massage school that I think I'm gonna enroll in and where she lives there is NO schools like this around. And I TOLD HER THIS,and she has the nerve to say " your brother said he would get you a ticket back for March" meanwhile I k ow my brother doesn't really give two sh*ts about me and just likes to shut her up ..... I just don't get my mom,she tells me she wants me to have a career then when I tell her this she's like "no there has to be something else to do" or "you're gonna stay there???" Things SUCK right now here for me but I feel like if I try to make things better it might not suck so much ......

Question: Do you think my parents are right about my friend...?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 05:52 AM PST

So there's this guy who is my old friend. He lives around 2 miles away from my house. He has his own bike, so he comes every day evening at my home to meet me and asks me to roam around with him on his bike. My parents have been observing him for a while, and it seems that my father thinks that he is not a good guy, he is probably "wasting my time" and instead of wasting my time I should "study". I think some reasons my parents don't like him is because he always come on his bike (which makes him look like a good in my town) and he drives it really fast which is dangerous. Whenever I go with him, my father starts yelling at me for going with him. Do you think my parents are right? Do you think it's okay to judge someone who drives fast? Do you think it's okay to judge someone who roams around in town on his bike in his free time?

Question: What's wrong with getting old?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 05:42 AM PST

Question: What do you do when someone isn't talking to you?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 05:29 AM PST

Question: How to cope when tested positive for marijuana? Please help?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 05:20 AM PST

Ok so I m 17 years old and in my final year of highschool. I m 2nd in the top ten academic achievers in my grade. I have smoke pot everyday since the 16th of November 2015 .Today the vice principal tested me for drugs and I tested positive for marijuana. He honestly didn t seem angry or disappointed at all. I was completely honest with him. He phoned my father, told him I tested positive. My dad is disappointed in me and I have to break the news to my mom when she gets home tonight. How do I break the news to her and how do I cope with it? I feel like I ve really disappointed everyone around me.. Please help.

Question: My sister and i had a fight. could you please help?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 05:17 AM PST

my sister and i had a fight 2 days a go and we haven't talked since then. i really feel like talking to her. we were so close. i share everything with her. so today i thought if apologizing to her even though it wasn't my fault. i mean someone has to say it, so i went to her room to apologize and she was sleeping and that is when i changed my mind. i don't think i should say sorry. it would look weird. what should i do? should apologize or do something else. cause i really am willing to do anything to make her talk to me. so any ideas would be greatly appreciated.

Question: Should I make my son take another drug test?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 04:52 AM PST

A few years ago my nephew died of an overdose. He was lying to his parents about his whereabouts and it turned out to be a devastating experience. A few nights ago, my 23 year old son answered the door at 10 pm while it was raining and was talking to our neighbor across the street. He didn t invite him inside or anything, but my son came back in and thenwent back outside, talked for a few minutes and came back inside.Then he grabbed his guitar and amp and headed out. He didn t look guilty or anything but when i questioned him about it being a drug transaction he became really mad and sarcastic. He is a college student, athlete, and made the dean s this for this past semester. However, he raps as a hobby and he talks about smoking weed and drinking in the club. He claims to have never smoked or drank anything (but that s hard to believe). I had him take a drug test before and he passed, but he "took" the test when no one was home. It is a strange situation. He doesn t usually go out much and reads in his room constantly. He never parties or goes clubbing. (he doesn t know how to dance) it s a confusing situation and don t know what to think. Hes in excellent shape and very built muscular wise. His personality hasn t changed really, but you can never be too sure these days.

Question: My parents had a falling out with my maternal grandfather and now I am feeling sad every holiday I can't see him, how can I get over this?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 04:23 AM PST

It has to do with my mother and her father having a fight but I like her father, my grandfather. I cannot see him on holidays because my mother won't go with me. When I asked if my aunt will take me my mother said I cannot go (she said if it is okay with your mother). I am 14 so too young to do what I want and my mother's brother who hosts the stuff is no longer very close to us. So I am missing out on seeing my grandfather and uncle-aunt and cousins though I still see one aunt and her daughter as well as my grandmother and her husband (grandparents divorced long ago). So long story short Christmas was miserable this year as it was like half my mother's family had died and Easter will be miserable since they get together at my uncle's and we won't be able to go. So what do I do? How can I get over this? They have fought since this time two years ago and two Christmas' back was hard also and last Easter. Thanksgiving is easier since we are with my Dad's side of the family out of town.

Question: Is there any way not to lose my best friend?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 04:01 AM PST

So I've met this girl last August and we rapidly became really best friends she is funny,smart,and I really know that she always wishes me the best !!! Recently , I expressed that I told her that I love her and she took it as a compliment and we sometimes talk about our future and I love to tell her that I really love her to be my wife she laughs hardly about the subject and sometimes if we are together she showers me with a kiss or two and she smiles . The problem is that she may have feelings for me and I sometimes can sense that but I have 2 major problems is that she had been out of a devastating relationship that destroyed her that's from her side and I am trying to get her out of there , and the other problem is that we come from a community where as much as we grow parents comes first with some basic decisions , Now my parents somehow don't like her family well , and worst of all she has put me in the dreaded friend zone. She told me she may have feelings for me but since the previous relationship was really bad she still doesn't want to engage in a new one anytime soon What do you guys suggest? 1-Stay only at the best-friend zone 2-Wait until she has enough feelings for me and we go together ? Anything else would be really appreciated For those who are wondering I am now 20 and I really want help Thanks

Question: I embarrassed myself with my son, any advice?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 03:43 AM PST

I am a divorced woman and live with my 13 year old son in an apartment. In the morning, I get up at 5, get ready, make breakfast, and wake him up at 6. This morning I showered and went into the kitchen for coffee. As I sipped it, the smoke detector low-battery warning began to beep. I decided to change it right away since I had time. I got up on a chair. As I was changing it, the towel I had wrapped around me slipped off. I quickly finished, but when I looked down my son was there looking at me. He said uh, sorry, and left. I feel mortified. Should I say or do anything?

Question: Personal question?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 01:33 AM PST

Is it wrong that I want my mother to be the godmother of my baby she is my BEST FRIEND she is always there for me

Question: From a parent, you tell us their experiences that were spanked at the time of the student in the story?

Posted: 24 Feb 2016 12:36 AM PST

Example; returning home I late to curfew Children; it's home, Parents; where did you go? No forgiveness today, come over here Parents took me to the living room, dropping the waist on the sofa. . .

Question: What activities should I do with my brother before he gets married?

Posted: 23 Feb 2016 11:38 PM PST

So my brother is about to get married and I'm so happy for him but I know things won't be the same. I've always been so close to him, that I want to make his last month's incredible, so what are some nice adventures or activities we can do together?

Question: Help with mom and summer?

Posted: 23 Feb 2016 11:09 PM PST

I want to wear a bikini. I feel like a baby in a one piece, and tankinis are the most annoying things on earth. 1. She wears a bikini but won't let me (I'm 14.) 2. She says pedos will look at me but won't they stare no matter what I'm wearing? 3. keep in mind. I'm not doing this to "Show off my body" I'm doing this because I feel uncomfortable in a one piece swimsuit. So should I be able to?

Question: Pearl L could you answer my question please?

Posted: 23 Feb 2016 10:38 PM PST

you seem like a smart person could u answer my question please? https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20160215005141AA6PXhp

Question: I need to change my mom s mailing address how can i do that for her?

Posted: 23 Feb 2016 09:55 PM PST

My mom is currently in a hospital because of her mental illness & she will not be returning to her current home when she s eventually released. At the moment a family member or myself is stopping at her house to get her mail but my dad/her ex husband has recently denied us access to the property. Until this issue is resolved i would like to change my mom s mailing address so her mail will get forwarded to me or another family member but i want to know if this is even possible.

Question: My dad threatens to choke me until I suffocate to death and throw me out of the window?!?

Posted: 23 Feb 2016 09:44 PM PST

I'm 12 years old and my brother has allowed me to post this onto Yahoo Answers. Thank you for understanding. Anyways... Help. Ever since I was 5 my dad has been verbally abusing me (most of the time). He doesn't care if he goes the jail or gets sentenced to death penalty. He just wants me to ~die~. Ok, He's a nice "dad" (some of the time), but I don't think Dad is the appropiate title to call him anymore. He's always been feeding me unhealthy food like McDonalds, which I'm quite sick about. Whenever I deny Mcdonalds he just says, "Ok then, starve to death." He even thinks Unhealthy Foods are HEALTHY! Not sure If he's secretly trying to get rid of me since he's trying basically trying to force me to get diabetes and high cholestrol. The only times I can remember when he physically abused me was when he grabbed my arm and hit my head. I'm pretty sure there was this other time where he hit me on the back. Hard. There was this other time when I kicked me out of the house for about an hour at about 12 AM. I'm not looking for any, "TALK TO YOUR COUNSELOR ABOUT IT" answers because I enroll in a K-6 school (look it up). My school doesn't have a counselor. My dad has torn apart my social skills. I have friends, but not as many as when I was younger. They moved on. I've been hiding this for over a year and I just want to let it all out. This re ally is depressing me. Honestly, I'm done with all his punishments. Hit me all you want. I'm going to talk back. I won't deal with any of your garbage. Yes, I know there are a bunch of these out there. I Live in the Northern part of US, not Australia. I'm trying to find the US Equivalent, though.

Question: Dads girlfriend is acting controlling?

Posted: 23 Feb 2016 09:41 PM PST

So I recently saved up to buy a bong for my boyfriend online. I don't smoke weed but he does. Anyway, my dads girlfriend was snooping on my debit card bills and found out I bought a bong and now she won't stop nagging my dad about how I smoke weed and a bunch of nonesense. I've been attending job interviews, and today my dads girlfriend called my dad talking about how I'm just gonna spend my money on weed, which isn't true at all. I've told her I don't do drugs and that she can drug test me if she wants, but still it makes me feel a bit resentment for her since she isn't my mom anyway and the fact of the matter is, even if i did smoke weed, she shouldn't be able to sabotage my reputation with my dad just because she doesn't agree with it. I just moved in with my dad this year, and I barely met my dads gf when I moved in. I'm 17 by the way.

Question: Tired of Enabling It?

Posted: 23 Feb 2016 09:40 PM PST

I have an older sister who has always been hateful, jealous and envious of my success and the success of others. I am 51 and I lived with her constant drama and until I turned 50. When I turned 50 I decided enough was enough. I gave her a choice, respect me and respect others or I am out of her life. She exploded as I knew she would. She tried to pit my parents and my other siblings against me. They did not buy that. They asked me to eat crow and apologize in the name of family peace. To that I said forget it. She knows how to "bully" and I won't be bullied. Apologizing enables her behavior. My baby sister turns 50 this may, She wants the entire family present. I won't go because I know my older sister will bait me and get me to go off at her so she can play the victim. I said to my baby sister I'll buy her breakfast and a nice gift. But, I won't ruin her day by getting into a big fight or holding my tongue so someone else can bully me and everyone there. Am I doing the wrong thing? FWIW, I used to cope with this crap by over eating. I've lost 70 lbs. since I turned 50 and I train like people who compete in triathlons.

Question: Couldn't help financially to my parents?

Posted: 23 Feb 2016 09:39 PM PST

I am girl (married - housewife). My parents educated me. I have done engineering. But couldn't get good job. Worked in small company for 7k for two years. Then got married. Now my parents regretting for educating me. At least they would have saved money for my marriage n all. I am too regretting for same. How should I help them. What should I do. Am I bad. I am feeling that I m failure 😞

Question: How do I tell my parents I can hear them having sex?

Posted: 23 Feb 2016 09:33 PM PST

Ok so my mom and step dad have been together for about 6months and I can hear them ... Ah hem .. Having "alone time" almost EVERY NIGHT. I have a room all the way across the house . And it s a quite large house I don t care if their doing it I just don t want to hear it how do I tell them to shut up

Question: How do I like myself?

Posted: 23 Feb 2016 09:26 PM PST

I mean like how can I build up self-confidence? Because lately, people have been saying negative things about me, like, "If a guy actually liked her, he would be gay, ya know?" and "Isn't that enough cookies?" Just mean diminishing things like that and I always feel so bad when I hear them. Nobody says (most) of these things to my face, but my BFF who hangs out with some of these people tells me what they say. BTW, I'm in 8th grade and I'm a girl

Question: Does my mom want to kill herself because of me?

Posted: 23 Feb 2016 09:11 PM PST

My sister and I got in an argument, brothers and sisters are allowed to ask favors, I do things for her and she does nothing for me. She tells me she gets mad because thats all I wanted to talk to her about but s\he never wants to talk to me or starts a conversation. Then my mom yelled at us, she entered my room and my sister left, and she started elling me how she wanted to send me to live with my dad so he can deal with this, and hat she wants to kill herself, then she started kicking grabbing and punching and kicking me. It didnt hurt, only the pinching. But everytime I look at her, I just see and remember that night. That s why I always come home late, I never want to be home and see her, I don t ask and answer her questions, conversations are at a minimum. She never apologized or said she never meant it. All she did this week was ask for a foot massage, ask me waht I was looking for 5 imes when I was looking for socks for school, and call my friends phone to ask where I am. Does she mean this? And why is my sister such a ******* little *****! She isn t grateful for ****, and it is her fault I want to choke the life out of everyone and blow out my brains. I won t do it. I am too weak. I feel selfish if I do, and I will get over the feeling in an hour like always anyway.

Question: My mom said she would disown me for talking to family, what do I do?

Posted: 23 Feb 2016 09:08 PM PST

My mom does not get along with my extended family (cousins, grandparents, aunts, uncles) on both her side and my dad's side. I am friends with all of them on facebook and on the occasion talk to them. My mom has been stalking me on facebook from other people's accounts and told me i have to delete them and that if she finds out that I've been talking to them, she'll disown me. I'm a freshman in college and I'm paying for tuition by myself. I can't afford to move out or buy my own car while volunteering and getting good grades in school. I really don't know what to do since she said this. I can't believe she said she'd disown her own daughter over this. I really don't feel safe anymore at home. And i can't talk to my dad because he doesn't have the courage to stand up to her even though he disagrees with her on most things like her strict curfew for me.

Question: Is my mom Too strict or emotionally abusive?

Posted: 23 Feb 2016 09:07 PM PST

every since i was a baby she was never there for me and neglected me half my life. then she she finally came back into my life she started out nice. Later all she can do is yell at me, and get mad at the whole family for about 20 min before she can calm down. My Grand Auntie who is older then my mom even "kisses up" to her just agreeing to my mother no matter what, telling me and my sister she cant do anything about it. My mom dosn't let me out the house to go practoly anywhere. I am a teenager now older then 13 and I cant even walk to the gas station or a friends house. She dosnt trust me at all and tell me to do most of things. When she dosn't get an answer right away she yells at me and calls me names ( brat/ narcissist/ pessimist/) tells me (I'm full of ****) and also "**** you" Im getting tired of it and she always telling everyone she does almost everything for me. Yeah she does stull but never listens to things I want most and instead buys me expensive items to make up for it. (one point she called the cops on me and dint expect me to go to jail but i did, not tat long though) (took my phone away from me in house arrest so which was my birthday and valentines day which I spent those days utterly alone in my room. Not to mention a whole week was out of school So i was practically isolated. Favoing my sister dosn't help. I need help I don't know what to do or think.

Question: What do i do?

Posted: 23 Feb 2016 09:02 PM PST

Ok so yesterday my aunt asked my mom if she could let her borrow $1000 so she could go buy a car and my mom said yes.. So my mom told my dad my aunt wanted to borrow money and if she could lend her money and my dad said no because she is always buying cars and that that wasn't our problem so then i went to work with my dad and today in the morning she told me that she got $500 from my money im saving up and the other $500 she got from my grandma's money so my dad wouldn't get mad at her and i got mad because she didn't even asked me she just got the money and i get mad because i get my money really hard i work in roofing with my dad and i don't get paid that much and im in the sun carrying hot heavy shingles to a trailer everyday and it just got me mad my mom did that without letting me know she said my aunt is going to pay her back but untill next month can someone tell me what to do?

Question: My mom called me annoying! Help?

Posted: 23 Feb 2016 08:54 PM PST

Hi I would really appreciate anyone's advice. My mom is plain out mentally abusive. She constantly makes remarks about how I look and bitches everytime she gains 2 pounds. 10 out of 12 months a year we get along but when we don't I feel horrible. A few nights ago she called me annoying. I would never let her see me cry so I just went to my room. She acts like a saint in front of my friends. And so all of my friends are like "let's go over to your house" and "your mom is so nice". But the truth is is that she is just mean. Another example is that I cleaned the kitchen like she asked, she said it was too clean and she knew I couldn't do it by myself and that I must have had help. And everytime I make a mistake or I do something she doesn't like she will be like " don't ask me for anymore favors" or " I'm done with you". Like I'm just trash or something. And it's not like I can say anything back to her she just says that I am the most disrespectful child she has ever met. Anyone who has any suggestions please comment.

Question: Why does my dad get so angry when he drinks?

Posted: 23 Feb 2016 08:51 PM PST

My father has been a heavy alcoholic since I can remember. He really doesn't drink liquor he only drinks beer. If there is beer in the fridge he will drink it no matter what time of the day it is. When he drinks he gets very angry at everythin . Even the little things get him mad when he drinks. When he doesn't drinks he is one of the most laid back people that you will meet but when he drinks he just bickers on and yells at everything. He cannot work no more because of his eyesight so he just sits in the house all day and watches TV. I just want to know why he gets so angry when he drinks beer. Thank You.