Friends: Question: How can I be more matures? |
- Question: How can I be more matures?
- Question: Where do you draw the line for white people to use the n-word?
- Question: Is my boss supposed to be telling me personal business about her life?
- Question: MY BEST FRIEND AND I ARE FIGHTING, HELP.?
- Question: Is this sexual assault?
- Question: What's the normal amount of friends to have as a teenager?
- Question: Why dont anybody like me :(?
- Question: Hey! I had a friend?
- Question: Why would someone risk ruining friendship like this?
- Question: Was I wrong for what I didand did he knew and played a role?
- Question: Is it ok to lie to your family or closest friends about not having any money when they ask to borrow some?
- Question: Afraid of losing it..?
- Question: Sick father/how to respond...?
- Question: Social Advice?
- Question: Was I wrong for yelling at my coworker?
- Question: Is it wrong to have sex with your best friends sister?
- Question: My friends parents hate me, what do I do?
- Question: I want to plan a real life adventure for my brothers 16th birthday.?
- Question: My best friends are moving, urgent?
- Question: This happened when i called him?
- Question: My coworker is noesy and butts into business that isn t hers. She made a rude comment to me the other day and gave an insincere apology.?
- Question: How do I become more sociable?
- Question: I feel awkward and insecure around my friends please read description?
- Question: Sorority Advice: to stay or to leave?
- Question: How to know if she is playing hard to get?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: My best friend is being a *** now i don't want to be his friend anymore.?
- Question: I don't like it that my friend Tara works so much I wanna see her I wanna be with her I miss her so much?
- Question: What should I do about my best friend?
- Question: Is Tara still my friend?
- Question: How to stop being jealous?
- Question: Why would these two girls at work be so rude to me and how should I treat them?
- Question: Can I ever talk to my friend Tara again?
- Question: Does my best friend think im annoying?
- Question: Is this serious? Should I report them?
- Question: I want to cut my friend off (De-friend him) but I feel bad for him, what do I do?
- Question: Can you have Tourette s but not tic?
- Question: Please Help! How can I change my life?
- Question: Can I call the cops on a homeless ADULT in my house?
- Question: Should I sleep over at my friend s house?
- Question: GUYS Help! Can't Understand Him?
- Question: How can I deal with this?
- Question: Awkward at school?
- Question: Why are my friends mean to me?
- Question: What should I do about my lazy friend?
- Question: 15 and really bored with life?
- Question: Math challenge?
- Question: Why were my friends so selfish?
- Question: I wanna help my bestfriend?
- Question: How to don't feel bad when your beloved stuffs or materials get something wrong?
- Question: When a guy doesn't want to ditch his friends but ditch his girl? please read my story and give me your thoughts?
- Question: Why is it right when other people do it but wrong when I do it?
- Question: Haven't spoken to best friend in 2 weeks- help?
- Question: How do i decline a trip overseas my friends are planning?
- Question: Why do people think my hands are pretty?
- Question: How do I tell my friend................?
- Question: What is going on with my friend?
- Question: Why do people hate and shun me for?
- Question: Am I being victimizied in this situation? I feel outnumbered.?
- Question: Is it weird to not have Facebook?
| Question: How can I be more matures? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 05:10 PM PST Here is my story (FAKE NAMES) I have a group of friends that all lean on each other for help. Me (Connie) Anna, my best friend, and some other girls.The two most innocent/naive out of us just got there periods. Me, Brooke and Angie (The good girl) don't have it. However ever since they got it the have been acting overly mature (It sounds fake). But honestly they are so immature. We have a plan to act a little older next week. (No philosophical answers telling us that we are perfect the way we are because I don't care.) |
| Question: Where do you draw the line for white people to use the n-word? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 04:57 PM PST Okay I say it to white friends, black friends, black people that I kinda know, when I talk about people with my friends, jokingly to white people on the streets. Is that over the line? |
| Question: Is my boss supposed to be telling me personal business about her life? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 04:55 PM PST Well I just got promoted to a different department and been there about a month. My boss is female and is very nice. However I noticed that she keeps on coming by my desk all the time and we end up spending lots of time just talking! The thing that shocked me is that he opened up to me about her failed marriage and how her ex husband was and how he put her in a bad financial situation. Now my boss is about 50 and I am 28. She also has spoke to me about moving me up to a higher position once I am am past my 6 month probation period and gives me free access to order things I need/want from Office Max and has included me in the executive assistants when I am only a sr admin. Is this typical |
| Question: MY BEST FRIEND AND I ARE FIGHTING, HELP.? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 04:49 PM PST Here's the fight, crammed into the smallest nutshell I'm capable of: We (my best friend and I, lets call her R) are in youth group together and we were texting the leader to see where we wanted to meet, I said the bakery because there's a cute guy that works there on Sundays and we've flirted, ect.ect. R says no I don't want to go there, I tell her "But there's that boy there!" and she says in response, "He probably doesn't work Sunday's(sic.) idiot i've never seen him there before...God you're so dumb sometimes. There's over 500 people working there" This isnt the first time she's responded like this, shooting me down and not caring at all about what I have to say. It's finally gotten to me so I told her not to talk to me, but the issue is I really miss her. She's the only one i can talk to about real stuff, and I don't feel like I have to be fake around her. Should I apologize even if it's her fault? Should I not even bother and stick to the fake friends? Side note: It doesn't help that she talks to me the same way my mom does. |
| Question: Is this sexual assault? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 04:44 PM PST My friend was joking around with a kid on the bus who I think was a year or two younger. He patted his head and said "that gives me a *****". He joked around like that, but he said that he was joking, and the kid never left. The kid sat there with him and talked to him, and seemed to be okay with it. Now my friend is on trial for sexual assault. I think it's kind of dumb since the kid was acting fine with the whole thing, and could have left at any time, or told him to stop. I mean this is high school, people joke about stuff like that all the time. |
| Question: What's the normal amount of friends to have as a teenager? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 04:38 PM PST I'm still a young adult, but I don't have many friends. I have about 1 friend at school, and in total I have about 5. Is this normal? Or am I just not social enough? |
| Question: Why dont anybody like me :(? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 04:36 PM PST i want to die. literally. i just dont get it, i never fit in anywhere. im real outgoing and friendly and smiley all the time but i am no more than a 'convienent friend'. people claim theyre my 'best friend' but never invite me to anything and then rub it in my face on snapchat posting pictures and ****. forget about boys, boys dont even talk to me. could something be wrong with me? am i crazy? i feel like im missing out on my junior high experience, on my childhood. i feel so out of place, i dont have a real best friend, im never ever invited to anything, nobody bothers making plans, nobody ever texts ME first. i spend every night alone. right now i feel like i dont want to live anymore. |
| Question: Hey! I had a friend? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 04:30 PM PST Hey, I had a best friend! I left her behind because I got a new friend. I don't talk to my old one anymore only a little! Should I talk to her more? |
| Question: Why would someone risk ruining friendship like this? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 04:26 PM PST I've known her for 20 years. She started being shady towards me recently. First she asked me to put a car in my name for her and told me she'd pay me weekly for it. I don't get why she couldn't just put the car in her own name. I didn't do it anyway. Then she got a job working for a modeling agency. She claimed that she could get me a modeling gig with her modeling agency but said that I had to pay $60 to the agency first as an entry fee. I gave her the $60 and she ended up giving $60 back later, which she claimed was reimbursed by the agency because I'd been accepted as a model. She claimed that the agency wants me to pay $200 to cover my first photo shoot with them. An hour later it changed to $400. I drew the line there because I'd never heard of having to pay money like that to a modeling agency. After 20 years of friendship she and I are no longer friends. Why would someone act like this after having been friends for so long? |
| Question: Was I wrong for what I didand did he knew and played a role? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 04:16 PM PST I met my best friend but becaues of past relationship issues w cheating I questioned my man about everything daily. He seemed to grow distant. I then put a recorded in the room and left. Before leaving he said I am very sensative & pick up on everything. He hugged me & said he loved me. Once I left he phoned a psychic & said he wanted to know how to get his ex back. I was shocked when I heard the tape. I questioned him & he pointed to the place in the room the recorder was. We fought & we broke up. Days later he emailed me that he knew all along & did not want to try again. He just didn't want me to think he ever wanted anyone other than me. What do you think? |
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| Question: Afraid of losing it..? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 03:48 PM PST Life is actually really good. I have good friends and people around me all the time that supports me. I remember when i was younger and wish for it.. Now I'm worried, what if i lose all that.. |
| Question: Sick father/how to respond...? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 03:35 PM PST i asked my friend how his dad is doing, and he said he was going to have exploratory surgery soon. I want to be empathetic and caring... how should i respond? |
| Posted: 26 Feb 2016 03:35 PM PST I am a teenage girl in highschool I get along well, have fairly exceptional grades. In school I get along with my peers, I have friends. However, it's hardto make friends. I notice how girls don't really like me, they get annoyed or bored of me. Boys hardly notice me. My experience with socializing is limited, I do poorly in continuing conversations with actual substance. It may have to do with the fact that i dont get out alot. The last time i went to a friends house was 2nd grade. Its not that Im not allowed to go out If i would ask my mom if i can hangout with my friends, she'll tell me shes too tired to drive me anywhere. I have to be understanding about that so its hard for me to even ask her. If i ask my father he will question me too much or say its family time. I should cherish my family, but honestly, for me its family day everyday. It makes me feel tired. I stay at home, which is good for my studies, but i am suffocating here. When my i spend free time with my mom, its only watching tv. "What do you want to watch today hon?" Its the same everyday. I have a very boring life: wakeup, school, home and study, watch tv. How do people even make best friends? Its not as simple as conversating. I could introduce myself, no problem, try to have a few good conversations and laughs. But for me i find it difficult to get past being acquainted or just friendly. I guess i just want someone to look forward to me or to have something to look forward to. |
| Question: Was I wrong for yelling at my coworker? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 03:35 PM PST My coworker logged me off a shared computer I was working on and erased my data and I had to start again I left the computer and was no where to be found for about twenty minutes. I yelled at her for messing up my work. |
| Question: Is it wrong to have sex with your best friends sister? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 03:24 PM PST So this happened last weekend and I kind of feel guilty about it. I went over to my friends house with two of my friends and we are all hanging out. Anyway his sister who's very popular might I add and attractive comes in . As to my friends leave my friend wants to take a shower so I was left in his room when he took a shower downstairs in the basement. Long story short we were flirting and then we had sex. It sucked it was my first time and I am only 15. Very awkward! Anyway I never told him should I and is it wrong |
| Question: My friends parents hate me, what do I do? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 03:04 PM PST So, basically my friends parents hate me because my friend and I got wrongly accused of trying to buy drugs in school. long story short, we didn t try to and the school didn t punish us or ever say that it was true. This happened in December, me and this friend were supposed to be going out at the weekend but my friend suddenly backed out of it, I asked why and he said that his parents didn t trust me or like me because of this thing that happened at school even though we were completely innocent. I think it s a bit judgemental to not let them out with me because of this even though it s not true, they think I m dodgy and a trouble maker (which I m not) even though they ve never event met me before or really even heard of me. What should I do? I want to be able to go out with my friend and for his parents not to hate me or not trust me. |
| Question: I want to plan a real life adventure for my brothers 16th birthday.? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 02:52 PM PST My brother is turning 16 in may and I want to put him through a real life action movie like in "The game". He'll be told in advance what's going on and I don't want to make things too hard. I did a really small version of this last year where he was running through the park sword fighting his friends and climbing walls but this year I want make things much more elaborate. Any ideas for challenges or stories? |
| Question: My best friends are moving, urgent? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 02:41 PM PST I am very heart broken as of right now. Today my friends (twins brothers, one whom I like) told me that their dad decided they were moving across the country this summer. Its a two day on night drive to where they will live ill just say. And were only sophmores. I don t kno how to feel. I cried so much today. I don t know what I m goin to do I love them so much, and long distance isn tmy thing but ill make an effort just for them. Can I get some advice or help, it would be greatly appreciated. btw I moved 9 times in my life and they never had so, if that helps anything. Thank you!! |
| Question: This happened when i called him? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 02:32 PM PST I called a friend and it went to voicemail saying you have reached so and so number. Leave a message. However the number mentioned in the recording was a different number than the one i dialed. When i searched for this new number on facebook it said it was a different person but who went to the same school as my friend. What does all this mean and what do i do? |
| Posted: 26 Feb 2016 02:30 PM PST She basically told me sorry that you feel I talked to you in a disrespectful way but I don t think I did anything wrong. Also as she was saying this she was rolling her eyes at me. I then told her that I didn t feel like she meant it and she kept trying to repeat the same thing. So I told her then you don t really mean it and then asked her to leave. As she was leaving she mumbled something under her breath which was so rude, if she felt she needed to say whatever she did she should have said it to my face. I didn t say anything though I just let her walk away. Now she s told the boss about me "being mad at her for no reason" and the boss came and talked to me and basically told me I should accept her apology because she never apologizes to anyone so I m lucky she did to me. I feel like she is being unfair in that I should just accept it because I m lucky she even said anything to me. Anyone with some insight would be of great help. Am I also in the wrong? Did I go about it unprofessionally? |
| Question: How do I become more sociable? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 02:10 PM PST I've never been much of a social person, but I'd like to be more social. I don't have a lot of friends, and the ones I have are just like me not really outgoing. Though I'd want to I just never really get involved in the social part of things in, for example my class (I'm 16). When I'm with a friend walking around in town and a classmate passes, the classmate usually only says hi to my friends, not to me. I've never really cared what others think of me, they either like me or they don't. But I think this mentality is makin me act rude to people around me, as I'm acting exactly how I feel like doing even when it annoys others. Should I force myself to be nice to everyone? Get involved in every conversation I see? How do I become a real part of my class and family? |
| Question: I feel awkward and insecure around my friends please read description? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 02:09 PM PST So im a 28 year old woman, with 4 close friends, 2 girls(lets call them jane and mary), and their boyfriends. We have been friends for 4 years and do everything together, and im also very close to their boyfriends, in a platonic way. 4 years ago I came to the US for med school from India. I tutored these 2 undergrad girls(who were 20 at the time), and we became close friends. They introduced me to their boyfriends(who were in the army at the time) and I got along with their group, and they made me feel welcome. Since then we became good friends.For starters i feel awkward as a fifth wheel, around them and I am still a virgin(not by choice). I am also 4 years older than mary, jane and both their boyfriends. On top of that, They all are born and raised in the US and I am from India and have a thick Indian accent. The final reason is that physically stand out, from the group and feel like the ugly single one in group. I am 6'4 chubby weighing 250 pounds, dark skinned indian(think minday kaling but a foot taller.) Jane is 5'8 white, with dark hair, tanned skin, medium build(not skinny but not thick or chubby). Mary is Asian 5'8 with similar build to jane(both with volleyball player type bodies). Janes boyfriend is light blonde, and Mary's boyfriend is a redhead(not ginger)boyfriends are both 5'6 each, lean(slimmer than their girlfriends), but ripped with defined muscles and a both have six pacs. Weve had many great memories together, and i enjoy spending time with them. Dont tell me to make new friends I have other friends. Of all my friend groups I feel closest to this one, and they feel that way about me. They made me feel at home when I first came to this country and have always been there for me Even though I love them, I feel awkward being the giant chubby woman, who 5th wheels 2 attractive couples. |
| Question: Sorority Advice: to stay or to leave? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 01:53 PM PST i recently joined a sorority this semester. I am still a pledge so we have 3 more weeks until initiation. From the beginning to college, I never had an interest of joining a sorority. It seemed like everyone was, so I thought maybe i would go through recruitment and see what i felt since there would be nothing to lose. My sorority is very good at my school I would say and since september they were the ones who i always liked. I have never had a big group of friends or been extremely outgoing. I have a couple close friends and am not shy or extremely outgoing so i guess in the middle. I like people in my pledge class and feel like i could be friends with like 10 of them as of now since i dont really know anyone too well but i dont know. Basically every day i doubt my decision of joining and wonder if I would be better off not being in it. We have so many events and I am so overwhelemed with meetings and trying to meet new people. They also party a lot and have events with frats 3 times a week that i feel like i am forced to go to since i want to meet people and not feel left out. Going out is not even something that i am excited about anymore like before. I dont really like being drunk that much and i wish we had more sober events. I have no time to do homeowkr really or even see my friends from first semester. What should I do? It is also extremely expensive and dont want to waste my money if i am not going to be completely involved. |
| Question: How to know if she is playing hard to get? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 01:46 PM PST or just not interested or want attention? for example:my friend tell that there is a girl he dates which is very weird. It is very hard to ask a girl out, usually make excuses but they only have 2 hang outs last month (no regular texts between dates) |
| Posted: 26 Feb 2016 01:44 PM PST So here's the deal... I am a girl, and we have a dance at the end of the year (we can bring dates). I was thinking of bringing one of my friends (who is a boy). My friend (who is a girl) was talking to me about the dance because she didnt know what to do to get a date. I suggested to invite my friend (boy) and have him bring some of his friends so that my friends will all have dates. My friend (girl) just said "oh yeah ill just bring him, i didnt even think of that!" I didnt directly say to her that i was gonna bring him so she didnt really know... I just think it is rude that she just decided she would take him even though it was my idea and she stole it. Now that she jumped all over my future plans I dont know what to do... should i say something to her or keep quite?? I feel like if i say something it would be kind of rude Advice please?!?! |
| Question: My best friend is being a *** now i don't want to be his friend anymore.? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 01:44 PM PST |
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| Question: What should I do about my best friend? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 01:34 PM PST My best friend is always with her SO. I am just like an afterthought for her. I want to spend time with her but whenever we try to arrange something she s always too busy or with her SO. I know that she doesn t have to be with me all the time, but I just want to see her for even an hour. I am her best friend and I feel like she needs to pay me attention too. |
| Question: Is Tara still my friend? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 01:30 PM PST Please refer to my previous question can I ever talk to my friend Tara again? |
| Question: How to stop being jealous? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 01:27 PM PST All of my friends are gorgeous and super athletic. And I'm glad they are but there's one friend in particular that I am so jealous of like I hate her for being so perfect. Her family's perfect, her skin, body, hair, a lot of guys like her and she's been friends with me the longest out of all our other friends. I just don't wanna be petty and be jealous. Maybe it's cause I'm insecure I'm not sure but how do I stop being such a jealous b*tch? |
| Question: Why would these two girls at work be so rude to me and how should I treat them? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 01:27 PM PST So I work in a male dominated career. There are only a few of us females at my job. Ever since I started this job two years ago I ve noticed these two girls have been pointedly rude to me. For example they don t include me in any of their conversations and seem to exclude me. I have been nice to them giving them compliments and trying to start conversations but whenever I do so little as speak they look at me as if I m some specimen. Today them and a bunch of other coworkers were looking at a photo on their phones. I heard them say the name name "Mike" which is the name of another of our coworkers. I said "oh Mike from our group?" And one of the rude girls said "No a different Mike." The thing is, I saw the picture though and it WAS the Mike we all knew. I confronted her later in private and asked in a nice way why she lied to me about Mike s picture because I knew it was him. She was so rude! She said "If you knew it was him, why did you ask? I lied because I think it s awkward and weird how you always ask personal questions and interject in other people s conversations. A lot of people notice it." Then she walked away. I was too in shock to respond. I have spoken so little to both of those girls in two years and have only tried to be nice!! Also what was so personal about a picture she was showing around the ENTIRE room? I am so upset. What should I do?? |
| Question: Can I ever talk to my friend Tara again? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 01:20 PM PST I said to Tara on Instagram I miss you Tara I miss you Tara I miss you will you please visit me? She replied and said I'm at work stop texting me Can I ever talk to her again? |
| Question: Does my best friend think im annoying? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 01:20 PM PST My best friend recently found another friend about a month ago and ever since he has been acting weird and not talking to me as much but instead talking to his new friend and one day i told him about it and he just says "I can do what I want" is he even my best friend anymore? He always says hes going to take a nap but i dont believe him |
| Question: Is this serious? Should I report them? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 01:11 PM PST I posted my opinion about free college online. A lot of ppl disagreed and commented and there were also ppl who agreed. I didn't attack any of the commenters bc I respect what they had to say. Next thing ya know this whole friend group goes onto another social media platform and starts trash talking me and putting words into my mouth. They said things like "time to take out the trash bc she's trash", "she's awful", "she's ignorant and a humiliation to humanity." Someone even went after me and mocked me, called me a b**** an claimed my posts were attacking someone when really I was going on a tangent about one of the presidential candidates in the US. They claim they wanna treat the situation like adults but they already talked about me online when I see their posts and no one said anything to me at all yet in real life. So now I have half the school talking crap about me and saying horrible things about me just bc of what I think doesn't agree with what they think. I never ever attacked them for their opinion. But this whole thing has bothered me so much like I honestly do feel like trash. Isn't this considered harassment? Should I take it to someone? |
| Question: I want to cut my friend off (De-friend him) but I feel bad for him, what do I do? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 12:37 PM PST I have know my friend Darius for years, ever since I was young. We have had many good times but I do not want to really be his friend anymore, he is boring, racist and considers himself white (although he is black) he hates black culture,trends,music,and people and that just automatically makes me not want to be his friend. I accept most people and him having a prejudice view towards black people makes me upset, and I m not the one to change people so I would be better off letting him be how he wants to be, and I want to cut him off but he is very depressed and suicidal he is also annoying and and has nothing else to do, and I honestly feel like I am his only friend, what do I do |
| Question: Can you have Tourette s but not tic? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 12:36 PM PST This guy I know swears a lot. I decided to ask him why he swears so much, and he told me it s because he has Tourette s. I didn t think he was serious because in the class I have with this guy, there s this other guy who has Tourette s and he tics a lot. So I thought this guy was joking. 6 months later, this guys friend told me that this guy has ADHD and Tourette s. Still, I have not seen this guy tic or inappropriately shout out swears. He just swears like a 10 year old who just learned what swears were. My question is, can you have Tourette s but not tic or inappropriately shout out, you just swear a lot? (I wonder how many times I said this guy. ) |
| Question: Please Help! How can I change my life? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 12:17 PM PST i am anti social to hell. I have few friends since I have nothing in common with anybody. When I try to talk with people it never goes well, and some people say I come off as annoying. I keep thinking that in order to be meow outgoing I have to be like others. Smoke weed, drink, etc. but I don't want to do that. Usually when I get these thoughts suicide is always a viable option when intone too hard on this so I try not to. What can I do to change this? How can I have more in common with people? I am a sophomore in highschool. |
| Question: Can I call the cops on a homeless ADULT in my house? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 12:12 PM PST So my brother is in his 3rd year of High School and has been hanging out with all the, what he thinks to be "cool kids": drug dealers, gangsters, thieves, and all of them. He basically has someone in my house almost everyday of his f*cked up teen-life, one time my dad and me called the cops on this black "gangster" dude, and he just recently got back out. My brother went to jail for one night after that, because they did find drugs, I should add. Yes he does smoke illegal, not medical Marijuana, and probably many other freakish drugs. WHAM! That black gangster guy, was right back in my brother's room, about a day or two after being released from prison. You know what he tells my dad? "Oh, I've learned some stuff in prison bro." is what he tells MY dad, after my dad commands him to leave our property. But, that's just a backstory on my brother. Now, he has a 21 year old homeless man who does drugs and stuff, with a bike as his only transport. He eats our f*cking food, drinks our f*cking drinks, and mind-f*cks with my brother. My brother just lets him do it, this is why so many of those criminals have been to our house, they even call him "Little Branon", yes that's his name. Do I have the right to call the cops on this homeless, drug dealing bastard? My dad is in the hospital currently, so it's up to me to decide what to do, and my mom honestly let's my brother hang out with these f*cking criminals. Please, I am begging anyone, please give me advice here. |
| Question: Should I sleep over at my friend s house? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 11:57 AM PST It is my friend s birthday party type thing and I got invited to sleepover, I get homesick when I go other places and would rather be in my bed. I would feel guilty if I didn t go. What do I do? |
| Question: GUYS Help! Can't Understand Him? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 11:57 AM PST I live in the same apartments as his grandma. He comes here everyday. I saw him with his friend in his car and when I got closer I saw him say something to his friend and as I got closer he looked down at his phone smiling/ grinning and his friend was staring at me? What does this mean? I've also seen him a out and he looked into my eyes about 6 seconds. We've had an argument and not talking now, because he'd make excuses to talk to me and helped me out with study materials when I didn't ask him. I told him if a guy is interested shouldn't beat around the bush and that he can't have a gf to be interested in me(he's with someone but Idk if it's serious) and he told me almost a year ago that he was happy with her and he's not interested in me. But he's always around and always trying to steal glances and looks to see if he can see me, i also have a gut feeling he likes me?So why is he paying so much attention to me? |
| Question: How can I deal with this? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 11:56 AM PST I'm going to be taking AP music theory and I have to sing for assignments and for the ap exam. I'm 15 and although I used to be able to sing, my voice changed a lot and it can only hit a small range of notes without cracking. I can either go really high and it sounds like crap or really low, but it's really hard to hit notes in between. How can I adjust my voice to this in order to do well? |
| Posted: 26 Feb 2016 11:34 AM PST So ever since I began to go to school I have always had a terrible time feeling comfortable and making friends.The only people who want to speak to me occasionally are girls (I don't have much in common with the boys interest).When I transferred to a new school this year I hoped I would feel more comfortable the class only has 7 people and we only go 3 times a week!Well I was wrong!I always speak in this strange voice with others that I feel I can't control and it ANNOYS me so much (it is like this akward scratchy voice and once I get home it changes) does anyone have any advice to get rid of it I have tried really hard but it doesn't work.Also only girls want to speak to me (which makes me think that people think something about me that is not true) boys completely shun me out and when I speak to them they have this whatever type of voice as if they really do not prefer to speak to me (which I am a boy for those that were wondering).To addition to this ALL my friends leave me for no reason and forget about me.Anyone have any advice? Another thing that got me angry is when I came for a shadow day (where you are showed around by students.And just FYI I am in 8th) nobody said a word to me but ignored me even when I interacted with them!But when someone else came they acted so friendly with them as if they knew them forever. I just want to know why things happen like that |
| Question: Why are my friends mean to me? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 11:17 AM PST So junior year Me and my best friend argued a lot and I disagreed with a lot of the things she wanted to do and things she said. Flash forward to this year, my senior year. My used to be best friend seems to be purposely leaving me out of the groups activities. I can't drive myself because I don't own a car, so my friends used to just pick me up and take me home, however here lately it feels as if they don't want to drive me anymore and try to keep me out of everything. I've been crying at least once a week all school year and I don't know what to do. My school already has very tight groups, and it's the second semester of senior year so I'm not sure what to do. None of my friends want to even talk about it because they either take her side or say they don't want to get involved. I've even tried hanging out with my ex best friend, and she acted like everything was fine, but then when we sit at lunch I feel like she tries to not talk to me or talks to everyone but me, even though I try to talk to her and keep her involved in what I'm saying. We all sit at lunch together, I have classes with at least one of them in every class and I have no one else. I don't know what I'm doing wrong, and it seems like everything is running smooth until one second later they're all mad at me. I don't know how to stop them from being so mean, and I feel completely isolated from my group of friends, I don't even feel like I belong, but I have no one else |
| Question: What should I do about my lazy friend? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 11:08 AM PST He's my best friend and we've been friends since middle school. He's 31 now and is totally lazy. He doesn't look for a job. He does make a few phone calls every day booking clients for his family's business, but that's it. He got a bachelor's in a pointless major and complains that he can't get a career now. Yet he refuses to go back to school and get his master's. His parent's pay for his condo and utilities. It's understandable that he can't drive due to vision problems. But that's no excuse. He sits at home most of the day and plays his guitar. I would not care about any of this as it is his life. But he calls me up at least a few times a week while I'm at my job. I always tell him not to call me when I work (he knows my schedule) but he does it anyway even though I rarely answer his calls. A couple times he has justified calling me while I'm at work saying my job has a lot of downtime. While that is true, it's no excuse for him to repeatedly call me at work because he's bored at home. What should I do? |
| Question: 15 and really bored with life? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 10:56 AM PST I m a girl. I live in a small town. I dont have many friends mainly because i just dont really connect with anyone at school, but i have a close one and i hang out with her a lot. But days just seem so long. Im bored. I hate being stuck inside a small town with no ability to drive, no ability to really do anything outside my own house haha. (In which i usually paint and create music) How can i make life a little bit more exciting? |
| Posted: 26 Feb 2016 10:52 AM PST A group of friends decide to meet for pizza, and one friend calls ahead to order the pies. However, three people in the group do not show up at the pizza parlor. The friends who do show up figure that they each add $3 to their original share, to cover the bill, which totals $70. How many friends eat pizza? is the answer 10 or 7? |
| Question: Why were my friends so selfish? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 10:48 AM PST I made a trip to Arlington with a few friends from high school last week. We were there cause of of my friend's gf lives there and she hosted us for a few days. We mostly hang out through the city but at one point I suggested to visit the national cemetery. You see a guy we were in high school with,a friend of us,who joined the Marines after high school was KIA in Iraq in 2005 at age 19. None of my friends were willing to go there,in high school they used to hang out with him and so did I. Yet none of them even thought about paying a visit to him.I went by myself then,it hit me seeing his white cross. However were why were my friends so inconsiderate? He died a hero while they were partying in college. I was in college aswell and while I also used to party I didn't forget those who died serving our country. |
| Question: I wanna help my bestfriend? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 10:13 AM PST My bestfriend recently broke up with the love of his life & since then he has been so sad and depressed and I don't know what to do to make him feel better. He doesn't think things will get better because he says he can't live without her. I feel useless please help!!! |
| Question: How to don't feel bad when your beloved stuffs or materials get something wrong? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 10:11 AM PST Please kindly help me to solve the problem in my mind! I'm not a materialist, I like simple things but useful. my materials I'm using like phone, computer, tablet, music player, earphone..etc, I don't care about they releasing the new one, just don't too old or hard to use. but I really take care of those stuffs, always keep it and make it look like the new one. but when something wrong happens on my stuff or someone breaking my stuff, I don't feel good and really angry, I want to destroy my stuff and don't wanna see the guy who has broken it anymore. I want to get the new one and don't wanna see the old one. the same feeling always happens when I just buy the new stuffs. example: In this weak I just got a new graphic tablet, but yesterday my friend borrowed it from me to take a look. he was wondering what it was and tried to bend it. when I saw like that I was angry and felt pity of my tablet. I tried to bend it again to make sure if it could break or not. I've been like a crazy man until now and tried to bend my tablet too many times and want to destroy it (the tablet is working properly). now I am headache because of the unimportant thing.......please help me! |
| Posted: 26 Feb 2016 09:56 AM PST Because he knew I was @ school he came to see me for a couple of mins, but he wouldn't tell me where he is. then he asked me and my friends to join his friends for dinner but he was replying extremely slow once i told him i already ate, he started to reply faster And then i saw him walk with friends, and it was just one guy friend, and his old friend which is a girl.. That scene was so awkward, he came to say hello but he didnt really offer us to come with them.. what the hell is he doing? |
| Question: Why is it right when other people do it but wrong when I do it? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 09:45 AM PST I don't have any friends in my class but mostly just acquaintances because they never got to know me when I tried to be their friend. Now when ever they have jokes and I try to do something funny they always tell me I'm a mean person and that I shouldn't be doing this or that etc.. when they do it all the time... I mean I'm just trying to fit in... They never liked me because I'm foreign.. so I was forced to make friends out of other classes with upper class people who told me they hate me because their jealous of me... I just want to know why it's right for them to make jokes but why is it wrong for me to do so? |
| Question: Haven't spoken to best friend in 2 weeks- help? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 09:29 AM PST We haven't spoken in ages since she has changed loads as she's got a boyfriend now. I really want to text her but I don't know what to say as I've seen her but not spoken to her, what should I do/ say? We've been best friends for ages so don't say just forget about her! |
| Question: How do i decline a trip overseas my friends are planning? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 09:07 AM PST my friends are planning to go on a trip overseas. They decided among themselves without my knowledge. one of them sprung the news today that it's a birthday trip for one of them and they decided to go to a place i've been to twice already. i'm not exactly interested to revisit that place any time soon, i would prefer to spend my money visiting a new destination. I don't want to go but I don't want to offend my other friend who will celebrate her birthday on that trip either. |
| Question: Why do people think my hands are pretty? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 09:02 AM PST Ok, so I hand long and thin fingers. A lot of people (ESPECIALLY my Pakistani moms friends) say that my hands are pretty. I don't get it, why do they say that? I think it's kind of weird. I don't get how hands and even my FEET can be pretty. I misspelled that, *have love and thin fingers. BTW, I am not doing this for compliments or something like that, I literally don't get it. |
| Question: How do I tell my friend................? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 08:18 AM PST My friend of 20+ years & I have been going to eat (about every 2-3 months) together for several years. Ever since her daughter turned 18ish she's been coming to eat with us. We can't chat the way we usually do because of her daughter being there. How do I tell my friend to leave her daughter at home? |
| Question: What is going on with my friend? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 08:14 AM PST So our friendship started as her offering to babysit my kids. I have always paid her well and she swears my kids are so well behaved. My husband and I got together with her husband and her for dinner once, and then we went out to a festival a couple months later. In between there, she has babysat our kids. We went to one of her son s birthday parties as well as her husband s surprise party during that time too. She would always bring up how we should have a girls night or a couple's dinner and game night. So I would say, "great idea" and then make it happen. I would text her a 1-2 days before and say "hey are we still on for game night on Saturday?" And then she would come up with some excuse. This happened several times, and I started to give up on us hanging out. The past couple of times I have asked her to watch the kids she has declined. That's fine, no big deal. Then her youngest son had a birthday party and posted pictures on fb, but never invited us, and claims that she "might've forgotten". We made plans again for tomorrow, and I asked her if we were still on, and I have yet to hear from her...she is ignoring me. What the hell is going on?! Please help. I guess what's confusing for me is that my husband said that maybe she is upset that she's only watching our kids and we're not hanging out...BUT whenever we make plans, she always cancels! Also I am wondering how things could have changed...? |
| Question: Why do people hate and shun me for? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 08:05 AM PST when I was in the Hospital i was in a coma for two weeks when i woken up I see my brother and our co-worker, he came to that damn hospital for my brother. and thing I have a Facebook comment from another coworker who added all of my family members and not me on face and she had no rights to comment on me all of the friends on Facebook are just for show why? |
| Question: Am I being victimizied in this situation? I feel outnumbered.? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 08:04 AM PST I m 22 years old and have been accused of stealing an iPod, clothes and hiding a passport on two of my friends. One I have been friends with for 6 years and have lately distanced myself from . the other girl for two years. I asked to borrow the iPod that she never used so I could play musc while I went for a run, my phone was an old Nokia and couldn t play music. The said iPod was returned and borrowed once more time after that. From that time to this month both of us did not think of the iPod , maybe questioned it once , but iPod ended up in the house I had lived in for the summer. I had my own means for playing music and did not use it, this girl was out of the country for four months and the iPod was forgotten about by both parties. accused of taking clothes and make . we shared a lot of clothes but out of the blue behind my back they stopped doing this returned thing to each other making me look like I had hoarded clothes . one pants I had I was told I could keep it as it was too small for her , and then asked for me to return it. This is rich as each of belongings of mine and has damaged items of mine. Haccused of hiding a girls passport, when I remember telling her I would put it on the shelf and made eye contact with her as people were drinking in the room that night. Am I been victimizied here or does it look sketchy? I have depression and am being made to face my problems when I was told this, but the depression has nothing to do with this |
| Question: Is it weird to not have Facebook? Posted: 26 Feb 2016 08:04 AM PST I'm 16 & have had an account for 3 yrs. Recently I feel I've gotten sick of it. I feel like it's only for showing off elements of your life to acquaintances, which I rarely care about. I dislike the fact that 260 people can find out really intimate details of my life by merely typing in my name. I'm a socially anxious person & I feel like people judge me based upon my page & how many likes/comments I get & it's really petty. I feel like deleting my account but worry it will make me look weird? I only know 3 people in my grade without accounts. |
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