How can someone be such a hypocrite? They say that would be devastated if you cheated on them, would be depressed and heart broken, or accuse you of cheating and look through your phone when there is nothing you are hiding at all and you would never cheat on them and you never thought about doing it even once, and then it turns out they have been cheating on you the whole time.

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It's kind of long so I apologize. My 20 yr old daughter had to move her stuff from her dorm room. I offered to help. She has been at her mothers house(we are divorced) for the past 3 weeks and her mother hasn't enforced a strict quarantine. There are 6 people in the house including 2 infants and my ex has her boyfriend come and go as does my son with his 19 yr old girlfriend. I've made it clear that I am not ok with that. My wife and I have been very strict. No one in and out if the house. I told my daughter I could not drive her in my car. I offered to glove and mask up and help empty the room but she would have to get a ride there and back(she does not have a car). My ex refused to drive her and it turned into a whole big fight and made my daughter very upset(she has anxiety issues). After her mother refused I decided to drive her with mask on in the back seat. I couldn't watch my daughter be treated like **** by her parents so I gave in and drove her. My wife(I remarried) is super pissed because I went behind her back. I told her as soon as I got home. If I wouldn't have called her she would have forbidden me to driving my daughter. My wife hasn't talked to me since Saturday. My ex is very controlling and my daughter wants to live with me and my wife won't let her. I'm in a tough spot, I feel like I have to choose between my wife and my kids. Any thoughts. 

Starting to get a little irritated. She makes me baby size portion meals and I told her I'm a grown man I have to eat more than that. Plus I be working all day 12 hour shifts. I make good money and I pay for the groceries myself so I'm not sure why my wife is trying to control the way I eat. I'm also a normal weight. No underlying health issues. Every once in a while I'll treat my self to a bowl of ice cream and she will even tell me not to eat that. Now she's telling me not to go to the grocery store anymore because of the virus we have 4 kids in the house we have to go once a week at least. I'm ready for her to go back to work because she has become very irritating I just want to be able to eat my dinner in peace after a long day of work without her bothering me about my food. Not sure if she is bored or what but this is irking me. She begged me not to eat once slice of bread after me telling her I was starving and needed to put something in my stomach after work I said fine I won't eat the bread I go grocery shopping every week and buy tons of food. We will not run out.

to live in an uber expensive house, squander every dime on pretentiousness and vanity, and focus solely on now, now, now without giving a thought to the bigger picture, which spouse should prevail? Should the couple live in the trailer park, or the swanky house in the expensive neighborhood? Marriage category Marriage

I'm 28 and my husband is 26. We've been married for less than six months. We are very close to each other and spend a lot of time together. However, he insists on gender roles. He's Kenyan and I'm black American. He told me that his parents lives very traditionally. My husband will not clean up unless I get upset. He may wash dishes every once in a while but that's the extent of his cleaning. He will let his clothes overflow in the basket. He will insist that I cook. He wants me to look pretty all the time. He wants to be seen as the 'man'. I have tried telling him numerous times and he has told me numerous times that he will change. Hasn't happened. He assumes that since I'm at home and can work from home that I should do housework. I pay bills just like him, but he keeps acting as if he's paying all bills and giving me money. What to do?

When my partner and I got together, he was married. I didn't know for the first few months. His wife had cheated on him and left him, and eventually SHE filed for divorce. I'm finding a lot in the Bible about "if a man divorces his wife," but nothing on men being left by unfaithful wives and what that means for their future. Is it still adultery if his wife left him for another man, and he he ended up with me? If so, what might atoning look like, since abandoning him doesn't seem like the Christly thing to do either?

Don't give me that "my murrige is perfect" nonsense.  With this lock down, you should know that the imperfections will stand out even more. At the very least, privacy please!  Like this one broad asking the question if sneaking up behind his dude to see what he's up to on his phone. SPACE woman!

My husband and I are working from home. Him in the bedroom at the desk for his job and me in the kitchen for mine. I get off at 4 so I decided to make a cake. I walk into the bedroom to ask my husband a question and he's on the phone with a customer. His phone was in his hand and his text message app was open. When he saw me behind him he closed the app. I look at him and turn to walk out. A few minutes later he comes in the kitchen to ask me did I need something and at that point I didn't want to talk. He pressures me and I finally ask him why he closed his app when he saw me. He said that he was texting with his daughters and he was done with the conversation. Then he asks me what I wanted but at that point I didn't want anything. What is he hiding?

My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years recently I had ask him if he's been watching porn in which he lied and said no and I then told him I know he was in which he admitted  he was . I was devastated and hurt. I know it's something that men do but it was just hurtful to find out . We've been having sex at least 3-4 times a week and I asked him why he would be watching and his answer is "I was horny" which I then told him"okay" I the asked him how often he's watching and he said every other day or every 3 days or so. In which I was shocked, I asked him what's the reason he started watching and he says he doesn't know. Honestly he's always on about my weight in which I must admit I did gain some  weight after having our 2 kids   but not so much into where I would be considered super fat just chubby. He makes me feel very insecure and that's why this hurts me the  most because I know the girls in porn are  pretty and fit. He's like I tell you , you should work out with me and do activity's with him. I don't know how to go on about this situation.. what do you guys think I can say or do. I'm just hurt please easy on the comments .

Me and my husband have been together for 7 years but he has always worked very hard. How do we share roles and continue the love because it's so easy to quarrel 

It's time for another day of your seedy material.  Lets hear it! Funny, YA brought this question back but deleted my other question about why they deleted this question.  Silly yahoo, tricks are for kids!

Can my mom pay someone to be my husband. I just finished school last year, and I have a job. But no guy ever talks to me because i'm unattractive and fat. (Guys said so themselves). But my mom always says I would be much happier if I had a husband, and she thinks I'd like a man. So she says she'd help me get one. Is this normal, do parents usually help their kids get a spouse?

Please spare me the lecture of how I'm a horrible person. I'm in a very toxic emotionally abusive marriage I've never cheated before but the depression became unbearable. I was so depressed I started getting physically sick with vomiting and bleeding. I started to confide in my friend who lifted my spirits and gave me a reason to wake up. We talked 24/7 for 3 months and then we had sex. Things were great between us until I started feeling guilty and then he got angry at me said I wasted his time and that the sex wasn't going to end until he said it was going to end. I was shocked to hear him talk to me like this because I have never heard him talk to me like this. I do most feel threatened. He texted me and said he wants to have raw sex and I said I don't want to do that br He said he's on the way to my house and he's not accepting no for an answer and he will see a side of him I've never seen before  Right now I'm staying at my parents house he knows where my parents live and I don't want them knowing about this or being involved. I pray he doesn't cause a scene I don't know what to don

She gets mad, defensive when I try to talk about it.  She isn't crazy about me, and I know that she knows that I am crazy about her.  I've read a lot, especially when I was younger, about why women are attracted to men. When I think about the advances from other women that I've turned down in the past 5 years, I feel like I regret it.  I've given everything of myself to this, and it's the only thing in life that I haven't succeeded at. Now, with the current situation, I have to be around her all the time.  It's hell to be around someone who doesn't like you. How much should I worry about our kids if I leave? Thank you if you have any sage advice

I made a post about this before. I live in Indiana. My wife of 10 years fled the state to Texas to be with a man she had known a week. She drained our accounts and maxed out credit cards, presumably spending money on restaurants, places to stay, etc. I filed for divorce and I'm seeking full custody. I want my wife to get help before even considering visitation. She is bipolar and off her medication. She keeps claiming her plans are to take the kids to live with her and this new boyfriend (he doesn't live on his own, lives with his parents, 4 kids by two women, all of which he does not have custody of). Since she has been gone, she has spoken to them maybe 3 times, each time telling them she is bringing them to Texas soon to meet their new step dad (wtf). I have an attorney who is confident that this will all go my way, but looking for some advice/reassurance from others who may have gone through this Want to mention that the boyfriend has a severe mental illness. He also had a girlfriend right before he met my soon to be ex wife, whom is pregnant with his child. My ex wife harassed the woman so much that she changed her number.  Would also like to mention that just last week my wife reached out and attempted to get me to send her money. She wanted a ride back to Indiana or for me to supply money for her to live somewhere there. Yep.

It's kind of long so I apologize. My 20 yr old daughter had to move her stuff from her dorm room. I offered to help. She has been at her mothers house(we are divorced) for the past 3 weeks and her mother hasn't enforced a strict quarantine. There are 6 people in the house including 2 infants and my ex has her boyfriend come and go as does my son with his 19 yr old girlfriend. I've made it clear that I am not ok with that. My wife and I have been very strict. No one in and out if the house. I told my daughter I could not drive her in my car. I offered to glove and mask up and help empty the room but she would have to get a ride there and back(she does not have a car). My ex refused to drive her and it turned into a whole big fight and made my daughter very upset(she has anxiety issues). After her mother refused I decided to drive her with mask on in the back seat. I couldn't watch my daughter be treated like **** by her parents so I gave in and drove her. My wife(I remarried) is super pissed because I went behind her back. I told her as soon as I got home. If I wouldn't have called her she would have forbidden me to driving my daughter. My wife hasn't talked to me since Saturday. My ex is very controlling and my daughter wants to live with me and my wife won't let her. I'm in a tough spot, I feel like I have to choose between my wife and my kids. Any thoughts. 

Or else, what should the wife do who reallt feels guilty of her act and for hitting her innocent husband without confirming the matter? Can she do anything to equalize the situation?

Everyone is disguised how I could still sleep with my girlfriend after her husband caught us cheating. Well he is now her ex husband. She is divorced meaning we can still do this without consequences.  I meant disgusted. 

The images in my head of utter devastation on our children's faces and hearing the sounds of their cries over the word divorce is heart wrenching. Lord knows I tried bringing back the wife I fell in love with married and had children with or how I didn't give up searching for ways to get her to realize all the **** she does an says hoping she'll get it and work on it like normal individuals. It was delusional wishful thoughts of the wonderful women I married who'll will soon return. I still love my wife but she's not the women I fell in love with and I have no idea what's best for our children. It's become much tougher putting up with her it drags me down and sucks the joy right out of me. When my children ask me to help them with out with things I know how to do or when they ask me questions to simple things I know I can answer but it's hard to function right when my heads on no stop problems I'm having with my wife.