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We've been married for four months, but I am feeling tired of the marriage. I love my husband very much but I'm just tired. We are both in our late twenties and without children. We talk daily and spend a lot of time together, but he insists on following gender roles but only to the extent that it's benefiting him. He wants to be the man and say that as a woman I am the flower and should be pretty. He wants me to wear this lingerie or have my nails done or this or that. He refuses to to clean without me making a fuss about it. Sometimes he slips up and say that a woman should do x,y, and z. He even sent me a video a few days ago with a man saying how a man should provide and maintain. Honestly, that's fine but he expects me to pay bills just like him. He sometimes ask if I can loan him money for his tuition or portion of the bills. He never gives me money. Nevertheless...When we dated, he cooked and cleaned and never asked me for money. I wouldn't say he ask for money often but he doesn't mind telling me about what I need to do as a woman.  I've talked with him about my feelings but he hasn't changed. On one hand, he wants me to be prim and proper but on the other hand, he wants me to pay bills or help him with his bills.  Advice?

I don't know what to do. My husband and I are in the army. He's been at an army school for the last 2 months, I've been more than supportive and loving towards him while he's been away. I've answered every phone call (could be weeks without one) and sent out plenty of letters and pictures waiting on him to come back. I had three roommates in the same house while he's been gone. His best friend and wife, and his friend from work. While he's been gone the couple have had many issues. They got in a bad fight, she hit him and he asked me to call the cops, so I did. Then she came back to apologize and I forgave her but told her to work on herself before she comes back again, like couple months from the incident... and we all agreed on that. The NEXT DAY she wants to come back and I told her no and told her why, that's when everything got out of hand. Her and the husband moved out, trashed the place, turned off the electric and water bill without us knowing, and the "best friend" got a call from my husband last night and told him I had been cheating on him with his friend from work. It's not fair. I've never given my husband a reason not to trust me but now since it's coming from his "best friend" he believes him. I don't know what to do when he gets back. I want to be with him but as of now he's just gotta deal with the thought of me doing that to him brew in his head for the next couple of weeks till he graduates. It's not fair.  Btw: I am an X-ray tech dealing with the same patients the nurses deal with. I know what it's like. 

Yah, I bet it does!

My husband tells me how i dont do anything, because i stay at home we have three children, an eight month, old and a 9!yr old, and a six yr old. he says i dont contribute to pay any of the bills. When he is home he plays video games for most of the day we don't talk when i ask him to help me with things he says yes but often times i do it myself for instance i needed help with a window stained glass seal i ended up doing it myself we got into a big fight today because i He bought a video game monitor i asked him to help me get a bed Ours is damaged and my back hurts and he said no i was so mad i threw something at him and by mistake i broke his hard drive and he told me i was worthless and how he hated having to be my everything my friend  and all that before you say well he was mad he told me how i was stupid and just a dumb housewife and how i don't do anything and don't drive he then said how people come from other countries and do better then me and get jobs and go to school He pretty much does whatever he wants in the marriage he helped his female co worker get to work everyday mind you i asked him to take me to the mall at that time and he said no and he barley does in 2019 Within a week i list my dad had a baby and my home burned i asked him to change his schedule because i was acting weird he gave me so many excuses why could not  but he later said how he never asked because he didn't want to be around me so my question is should i consider divorce

This is a much longer and complicated story, but I'm going to try to keep it short. My boyfriend stays up all night playing games, playing on the computer, doing whatever. So during the day, he sleeps. I think if we were younger and didn't have children, I wouldn't be bothered. However, we have a 7 year old, 2 year old, and 6 month old. I'm stuck having to take care of the kids alone during the day while he sleeps. Sometimes I'm able to go out to the store and he watches the kids, but it's after he wakes up in the afternoon or evening. I'm just tired of it. I've complained about it, but he just makes excuses. He has struggled with insomnia in the past, and while I've been supportive, I'm reaching my limit. I've given him recommendations for help like meditation and sleeping techniques. He also has melatonin to take. He refuses all of it. He has been out of work for months now, as we recently started working for ourselves. He says part of this is because he has nothing to do (thanks, Coronavirus), but that excuse doesn't work when we have kids...  Another part of this is mistrust. I struggle with trusting him because of past infidelity. I forgave him and have been moving past it, but I constantly struggle with it. The other night, I walked in on him in the office and he turned the screen off immediately so I couldn't see what it was. It could have been porn, which I don't mind him watching, but he knows that and should not have acted so strangely. I need advice/support? Idk..

He wont let me wear shorts when its hot out, he wont let me hang out with anyone, go to any bars, anything. But yet he wants me to trust him to do whatever he feels like doing because he is dying of cancer. I brought this up to him today and he got extremely mad and called me hard headed when im simply just being logical. He has stolen from me, had secret social media accounts behind my back and other things. But yet im suppose to trust him. If its not his way he gets extremely mad and uses his cancer as a pawn to get what he wants. 

My husband never hugs me or says I love you or acts romantic. I haven't wanted to have sex with him because of it for a few weeks. A few minutes ago he said you're trying to avoid me and it's getting old. I said that is not true. How do I get him to understand that if he doesn't try to treat me special it affects my sexual outlook toward him? It's like a fwb relationship. I want to be more than just a sperm receptacle. What can I say? Thanks for your answer Patricia. It was helpful and informative 

     I'm glad now husband and wife will sleep together without fearing of cheating. Because women who dress naked and look for sex she don't get a man because she will be infected with covid19. God sends calamity upon dumb people who have sex with someone who they don't marry. This plague will continue if they don't stop. 

My husband has this idea that he feels like that since he's a grown man of 50 he can just up and leave the house when he feels like it and not say anything to me. This morning I was working at my desk in the kitchen and he doesn't have to report to work until 11 so he was still laying in bed. He gets up, showers, dresses, and walks out the house. When I run to the front porch he's almost in he truck. I look at him strange and he steps out of the truck to say, "What?" I ask him where he's going and he said he's going to the store. I turn and walk back in the house. He comes home a couple of hours later and i question him on why he couldn't tell me where he was going instead of just walking out. He looks at me and says, "there's no need in bringing this back up because before I left the driveway I told you where I was going so why bring it up now." Then I question him why it took so long and yes, although he came in with a couple of grocery bags from a few stores that still didn't account for 2 hours. He then says that he told me earlier in the week he was going to go by and see his grandbabies since he hadn't seen them in a while. Yeah, but he didn't say that to me this morning. He then turns the conversation on me and said that this morning I got up, showered, dressed and left the house and he didn't run after me to ask where I was going. He knew I was going down the street to get a cup of coffee. I did it yesterday morning as well. This morning he just decided to leave without telling me.  Am I wrong here?

He was saying don't you miss me don't you want more. I don't know if he was having sex with them. I literally just saw the messages and I'm pregnant. I have no freaking idea how to go about this.

My mom made a man I know believe he was my dad for about 10 yrs of my life. He's known for about 5 yrs that he isn't. I'm 19 years old. Recently he has been letting me do work for him (cleaning houses) and paying me way more than he should. Like 300$. While I was cleaning I found a bunch of wigs laying around and felt weirded out at comments he would make. "You look good today" so I stopped all communication. I kept waking up to pvc primer all over my car and ended up getting a camera and it was him doing it. Me and my husband have been seeing him around our house parked a couple doors down real late at night when we get home from work. He lives 30-40 minutes away from me. Then he started blowing up my phone and offering me other jobs. He told me he wanted to kill him self because I wouldn't talk to him. Then again tonight while we were getting out of our car he pulled off and circled our home at least 5 more times to where I ended up calling the police. Should I be worried? Is he going to stop? And why is he doing this? I've always looked at him as a father figure and over the last 6 months he's been following me around and police won't help us. 

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Discovered my husband made a new Snapchat & asked him about it on Feb 1st, he denied he had access & (apparently deleted all evidence of infidelity) but at the time, he was able to convince me it wasn't used for anything. Fast forward to Feb 12th, I discovered a girl & nudes that were saved with knowledge that she has been cut off as of Feb 6th...(learned later) before that I confront the situation & he denies any relation with her & that he doesn't know her. My husband then started to 100% improve in the relationship since he realized what he did was wrong.... Fast forward to March 27, I learn this girl is actually a coworker & she claims 'they had a flirty relationship & liked the attention he was giving her, but that he did cut it off with her & she's telling me that he does love me & care for me' I don't know what to make up the details, it's been rough. The start of the relationship we agreed that infidelity shows you don't truly love the person & now that's out the window & we have a son & im just not sure what to do anymore but he feels remorseful & is ashamed of his actions..