In the real world people who cannot pay their bills get their phones turned off. It's ridiculous that she is 25 and cannot keep a stable job. She only has to pay $30 a month for her phone and the fact she can't afford that is ridiculous. I don't like the fact my son is having to pay her bills because he just got a new house and just got married he cannot those kind of expenses. The fact that he's only 22 and is mounds more mature than her is also unsettling. I told my husband her phone needs to be cut off and he was like " I can't do anything about it. That's between those two. She's on his phone plan not mines." My daughter said " you hate you don't have control over me . He's paying the phone bill until I can find work. Simple as that. Not sure how any of this effects you." I told her I wouldn't be doing that if I was him and she said " too bad you aren't him. I'm going through a rough time he knows I'll pay him back. Please get off my back about things that don't concern you". I told my daughter I don't want my son being taken advantage of and she hung up the phone and said " your control tactics aren't going to work on me or anyone else. Please get a life and don't contact me again stressing me out even more than I already am." I also don't like the fact that her boyfriend is giving her $50 a week for groceries . Find out through him  I'm pretty sure she can apply for food stamps and unemployment 

I'm in a bit of a bind. My children's father is not taking Covid Pandemic seriously. We are generally on good terms and he's continuously expressed his thoughts about how the pandemic is not a big deal and how everyone is overreacting. We have shared 50/50 of our boys, who are 3 and 4. Our 3 year old has a compromised immune system and a few weeks ago I expressed to him how we must ensure to minimize risk of exposure so that we don't compromise our children's health. We seemed to have been on the same page until today. On his scheduled day with them, he "forgot" that it was his day and told me he made plans to go have drinks with his buddies so he was not able to keep the boys. He doesn't think it's an issue to continually meet up with friends to socialize, and I feel different about it. I am doing my best to follow orders about social distancing, but how can we manage the difference of opinion? I'm concerned that by him actively socializing, he can expose himself and ultimately pass on to one of the kids.  

I have a doctors appointment tomorrow, I have my married name on my insurance card but I still have my maiden name on my license... Will my doctor deny me care? Should I bring my marriage certificate with my maiden and married name on it?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 years I'm 28 he's 37 and he's the type of person where his opinion is fact and he always has to be right. His opinion is superior to anyone else's and he will argue someone down to prove his point. He debates with me on every single thing I say. It doesn't matter what it is he's got an opposing opinion about it. My uncle and aunt are going through a divorce and I've talked to my boyfriend about it and he said he doesn't even know if he wants to get married anymore. He said If there is a possibility of divorce he's not about to risk it. He said "There's a reason why I never been married because I don't believe in divorce. I don't want us to get married only for us to get divorced years down the road" and I said no one can predict the future. Love is a beautiful thing though while it lasts and I would take that risk a million times over. What's life without risk. He said I don't care about taking risks and all that crap let me know know if you ever see divorce in our future because I'm not getting married". But it's not something anyone expects. No one goes into a marriage wanting divorce but sometimes it's the only choice and sometimes problems are really too big to be fixed and some people are just too toxic or Abusive. He said it seems like you are contemplating possible divorce if we ever get married. I said I'm not!!!

He was the love of my life. His drinking got bad and I had to leave him. We loved so hard and fought hard. It became toxic, both of us to blame for the words said. In the end, I left him while he was sleeping and took a plane home while on vacation and packed his belongings and dropped them off at his mothers home. We exchanged I love you so much via text and calls. For over a year, we texted each other nearly every month, almost a year has past. I still think about him 15 times a day. I miss what we shared. I will always love him, but he randomly texted me. Then he called. Told me he wanted to see how I was. Started telling me we could have had the best life together. We would have made the most beautiful children. Then he was sending me pictures of us together via text. He ended it with the song "Die a happy man"! I really don't know if this was really just a feel to see how I was doing, or he really missed me. He told me he missed our sex life, he missed my long legs, he missed us. He suggested when the COVID goes away to go somewhere together and see if we could be friends??? I told him that I didn't see that happening because I could fall for him again and it took me a full year to want to get out of bed after leaving him. Which it did. He's not good for me, but I love him. So I ask, is it normal for an ex to do this? He can date anyone he wants. He's very good looking. I don't think he was looking for a booty call from me. I just don't know a motive. 

I'm so tired of my husband, all he does is sits and never does anything. He's been working from home for over a month now because of the virus and it's been really tough being around him all day everyday I can't get a break. He talks loudly in the phone and he's just so annoying.  I'm 31 and we have 3 kids and I found out the other day that I'm pregnant again and with everything going on in the world I can't say I'm too happy atm. We have a 10, 7 and soon 2 year old and it's been tough since the kids schools are closed and they can't do their hobbies or play with their friends. I feel bad for them, they are bored of playing in the yard and want to go out.  I clean the house everyday and my husband messes it up, he leaves crumps and the doors open and when I tell him he just laughs. He's just so useless and can never do anything right and he's 34. I'm so tired after 10 years of marriage, what do I do?

My husband said it's emotionally abusive for a woman to keep nagging a man . He said for example if a man gets off work and wants to watch tv alone he said it's emotionally abusive. He said " if you ask me to watch tv with you and I tell you no just accept it and go in another room" . I never considered that abusive I only considered it abusive if she curses a lot at him

I heard women have to be emotionally satisfied in order to really get into sex. Every time we have sex I feel nothing no pleasure no anything. Granted  I lost my virginity to him so I have no one to compare him to. I don't know if it's a low sex drive or just him.   We have been together for 9 years have been in countless therapy sessions and every time I think he's getting better he drops back down again. I've never felt as low as I do being with him and this roller coaster relationship but at the same time I'm very scared to leave. I'm scared of the unknown I'm scared of starting over I'm scared of being doing life alone. He's all I've known since I was 18 and things would be a huge adjustment for me. I honestly don't know if I'm in love with him anymore. All of the arguing has taken a toll on my mental health as well makes me question my love for him. Even in the beginning of our relationship we fought a lot. But it's just getting worse and worse now. He used to be extremely controlling which what I wore who I was wrong. He's not controlling to that extent anymore but he does always argue me down about everything I say  His opinion always has to be right. In his world everyone is right and he's wrong  He was angry today because there was a lot of people In line at Chikfila and he was going off saying why can't all these people eat at home  He's mad about the virus and the fact that people are taking it seriously. He said everybody is over reacting and panicking and he still continues to touch doors with his bare hands and leaves his used work mask he uses in the hospital all over the car  When I told him he needs to not keep his used work mask in the car he said I can just not be around you if you're gonna freak about it.  I said what's his definition of abusive He said that nagging a man is abusive and pestering someone to watch tv with you is abusive 

Well, he was clearly wrong now.

AFTER the coronavirus is no longer a serious issue. 

So that the husband too gets something to explore with her together? But as she has nothing to exploreforthefirsttime with her husband specially in bed then,will her husband ever be special for her andwillher husband ever get the special feeling of mutually exploring something first time with his wife and to have good memories, just like the exes got to have lots of exploration with her creating permanent memories with her?  So, what special can she give her husband whixh she did'nt give anyone else till now? As nothing is left untried with allher exes? Yes, she marriedhim,but even marriages are not a lifelong commitment now a days, so tomorrow she may again marry someone else in the nameof modernism? So, what  special can she do for her husband ,specially in bed? Yes, she did "love" and intimacy with her exes also

Most guys won't say anything about having to wait so long between sexual opportunities, with the typical wife.  But what if your guy, when you finally came around because you finally wanted something, directly said "I have been wanting to release for the past 2 weeks, and you just never seem interested - so I no longer have that desire.  If you don't want me, then I don't want to even participate.  I would rather watch porn.  It gets me off better than you will ever even try to." What would you ladies say to that?

Because sex is sex....if he cant get over the fact that she got banged by her exes freely before marriage, then whats the big deal if they still bangs them..as itsnot a new thing for them...n they have been banging her from time when he did'nt even came to her life? And also whats there to be ashamed off if she still sleepswith them, as they already knowseverything about her body , her moans, her behaviour during intimacy, etc...so she has nothing to hide from them. So why is it a big deal if his wife still sleeps with her exes after marriage as its still her body and modern women saysthat their husband does'nt own them so they can do whatever they want with their body...So why does it becomes a big problem if a wife has sex with her exes after marriage? Yes, some may say its becausethey vowed to stay together or stayfaithful,etc. But if she informs her husband that today she going to sleep with her exes , then how isitcheating? She already informed her husband before doing this acts? If the wife liked sleeping with other men before marriage, whywould she suddenly stop it after marriage? As her body may try to urge her to sleep with her exes again? How willshe control that after marriage? Or will she forcefully control it? But how long will she be forcefully able to controlit? So, if a husband is marrying such a modern women who has lots of readymade excuses to sleep arond before marriage, then should he be ready to face it again after marriage as she will have excuses again

If I were a string instrument Just know to pluck delicately And set me down softly when you're done

I literally cant find an answer to this because searching just brings up why I have pain FROM sex.  I have a pretty normal married life, We are both pretty young, been together 7 years now we are 23 and 25. My husband doesnt have much of a sex drive anymore. I mean this is mostly okay, I didnt marry him just for sex, but seriously we are now averaging about twice a year. So our last time was in November it is now April and Im going crazy. For the last like month or 2, I crave sex so bad its in all my dreams, all my thoughts, I cant have a normal conversation with someone without getting lost in my head and getting distracted. Im so irritable and snappy and I can't control it! Just little things that don't even normally bother me just make me go off. The worst part has got to be the pain though. Im a throbbing, aching mess down there AND up. Some mornings are so bad, I need to curl up cry. Its not like I dont initiate sex or anything, I TRY, God I try my dang best. He just never wants to or hes not in the mood.  But seriously, is this pain and ache and craving normal? Like my breasts hurt so bad ALL the time but down there is worse. Like Ive gotten pretty good at hiding this pain but I dont know how much longer I can hide it.

My husband is a narcissist and after two years of marriage, countless infidelities, a child he created outside of our marriage, and two STDs (thank god they were curable), I have decided to leave. My question is should I stay in our home until I save up enough money to get my own place or should I be in such a rush to leave him that I sacrifice and just get a roommate just to get away. I would have to get a roommate because I owe 5k to an apartment complex because he wanted me to break my lease early to move out so we could find a new place together. If I stayed and stacked for 6 months I could pay it back and move anywhere I want but now I'm limited.  If I stay here he barely comes home any way so at night I have to house to myself but if I leave I would have to pay rent and security deposit that I can't really afford ( I have the money but it could be spent on other things like paying down the bills we accumulated together). If I stay there is absolutely no chance I will want him back so that's not an issue. He hooks up with random women (even during COVID-19) from dating apps, is financially irresponsible, and does coke and ecstasy on the weekend. We have no kids together. Another things is if I stay I don't want him to benefit from a clean house and me cooking (for myself) when he doesn't even pay bills but I can't kick him out cause he's on the lease so I would have to leave. What option makes better sense???? 

Me and my husband been together for 5 years and I really love him a lot.we have 2 baby's one is about to turn a year and the other is 2 years old. But the thing is my husband is a needy husband when it comes to sex. I'm not sure if he realizes that it wares me out as well when I am taking care of two kids and do house choirs, and than he comes from work make him dinner and than put the kids to bed maybe take a shower and than finally I get the chance to lay and rest and than that's when it starts when my husband becomes too needy for sex. I literally almost dead once I come to bed, well that's of course sometimes depends how much choirs I have to do at home sometimes I feel fine so we do have sex without a problem and I enjoy so does he but than of course there are days when I feel like a worn out towel lol and I understand he came from work and needs to loosen up and relax with his wife, but then on the other hand he also needs to understand that he has a wife that does "work at home "and has kids to chase after all day and gets tired and needs to loosen up after the whole day as well.Don't take this wrong way but I really love my hubby honestly but there are days where I am tired and he still asks for sex and I feel soo bad to deny it really makes me feel bad and I don't want to hurt his feelings bc when I say no kindly I can tell he gets hurt bc he won't talk to me much and he kinda just turns the other way around and won't be too touchy and friendly next morning.idk!!help

I was married to a woman for 4 years. I did all but go to the moon and back to try to please her. In the end, she said she didn't love me anymore, and to add insult to injury, she revealed she had been seeing someone else. She moved him into our home immediately after I moved out; I moved 19 hours away to a metro city to start a whole new chapter in my life. That was nearly 9 years ago. Since then, I have had absolutely no interest in finding a new partner (I haven't even been on any dating sites), and my social media sites are set to not accept contacts from any strangers. Instead, I have been immersing myself into studies and developing new hobbies and interests. My family gets on me from time to time and sometimes, I am tempted to make up a fictitious girl I'm seeing...but even then, I can't even picture what my ideal girl would be like! It's like I actually enjoy being single! Is it really abnormal to be adverse to finding a new partner, and instead focusing all my time and interests on myself? Honestly, I'm really happy this way!

Does it mean that the wife should give her body to other people, and if the husband complains about it then she can say that he should not mind what she is doing with her body because he should love her and her body? So who should love herbody? Her exes? Other men? Her FWB's?

I have recently separated from my wife after almost 15 years of marriage. A number of reasons have contributed to this. Mainly my stress levels and short temper have caused a horrible atmosphere around the children. I have trying to find out the root cause of this and have done some serious thinking. I have determined that it is all down to her mother. My wife is 4 years younger than me and we met when she was 18 and where eventually married when she was 22. I feel that her mother has never actually allowed her to grow up and be independent. After we were married we moved into a house that was close to where I worked nearly 200 miles away from where we are both from. After an extremely emotional farewell on the day we moved, the in laws turned up on the door step of the new house (to my surprise) and stayed for almost 6 weeks. When the children came along things got worse with the mother in law convincing my wife that she could not cope and ended up staying for months on end. I managed to move everyone back closer to home thinking that this solve the issue. Things only got worse to the point where they are in my house more than I am, they invite themselves on family holidays and day trips and nothing can happen within my household without the mother in law giving her approval first (my opinions do not matter) How do I make my feelings known without causing more upset within the house? Or am I actually loosing the plot?

I live in Houston tx I'm 30 and I work in a chemical plant I'm scared because in my area (Harris county) there's more than 500 confirmed cases and everyday is getting worst people is dying we are in a stay home order until April 30 but my company is still working even that they know there's a lot of people getting infected in the area. I'm really scared about going out to work and I have 3 important reasons.  1-I have asthma  2-I have to take care of my 5year old cause right now the school is closed until may 3-the most important reason is that my wife is 7 months pregnant. What's the point of my wife and my son stay home if I can go outside and get the virus for them so I want to know if I have any options in my situation any help or if I can get unemployment cause I don't know what to do I don want to lose my job I don't want to quit but I don't want to put my family or me in danger . What options do I have???

Suppose you were to find out that your spouse was a distant cousin? Your dad's half cousin? Would you remain married or no?

They knew their affair partner for 5 years, slept together twice, flirted, ate lunch together etc. sometimes he'd pull back during affair and see her out for lunch, but turn down sex when she'd make an advance.  He decides he feels guilty and stops the affair, moves house with family and moves four  hours away from affair partner, but keeps contacting affair partner, not to hang out or have sex, just to talk.

On Tuesday March 31st our water heater broke. My husband called his best friend to come over and fix it.  On Thursday my husband got a text message from his best friend letting us know he was taking his ex-wife to the hospital to get tested for coronavirus. She has been sick since Monday March 30th. Prior to taking his ex-wife to the hospital he had not seen her in person for 6 weeks however, they do share 3 children together who he has seen. His ex-wife is still in the hospital awaiting test results.  I have been having such sever anxiety I've been vomiting and having diarrhea from the anxiety since I found out about this. I have Type I diabetes plus sever allergies which is causing gunk to drip down my throat and a cough. I also have a heart condition which has been acting up quite severely due to stress. I have no fever, no hard cough, slight chest pain which I believe is caused by stress and my allergies.  What is the likelihood of my husband or I contacting this virus? If his ex-wife got sick Monday, we saw him Tuesday and he hadn't been in contact with his ex-wife face to face since 6 weeks ago. I'm worried his kids may have it.  Any advice?  Advice on how to de-stress?  Should I call a shrink or something? I've never been an anxious person 

My husband is a narcissist and after two years of marriage, countless infidelities, a child he created outside of our marriage, and two STDs (thank god they were curable), I have decided to leave. My question is should I stay in our home until I save up enough money to get my own place or should I be in such a rush to leave him that I sacrifice and just get a roommate just to get away. If I stay here he barely comes home any way so at night I have to house to myself but if I leave I would have to pay rent and security deposit that I can't really afford ( I have the money but it could be spent on other things like paying down the bills we accumulated together). If I stay there is absolutely no chance I will want him back so that's not an issue. He hooks up with random women from dating apps, is financially irresponsible, and does coke and ecstasy on the weekend. We have no kids together. Another things is if I stay I don't want him to benefit from a clean house and me cooking (for myself) when he doesn't even pay bills but I can't kick him out cause he's on the lease so I would have to leave. What option makes better sense.  Just to show you how irresponsible he is, he's even on dating apps and meeting up with women during this time where we should be social distancing and self quarantining. 

What can the wife do provided the husband is very good person and treats her very well...but he is emotional type and so he cant get past these things as itreminds him how she enjoyed the same acts with her exes and loved them so much that she goes out ofthe way to print permanent tattooes of her exes names on her body forever....and that will always remind him that he will never be the only best person in her life and is just a new body for her. And can she help her loving and caring husband to get over this situation which is createddueto her past permanent acts.....n yes removal of permanent tattoes is not an easy procedure. And what should thehusband do? Should he never have intimacy with his wife so that he never has to see her exes name on her body and private parts?

Because as people say past is past and it has no influence on present and the private life of wife is non of the husband's business.so everything will be past after sometime, if she cheats on her husband today and the husband finds it out the next day, rhen too she can say that it was in the past because it has already occurred before i e yesterday(past) not in today. So, is it a very good readymade excuse coming up fir the so called modern people....n if the husband complains about it then they can easily call them insecured, loser, etc for blaming them for past acts because yesterday which is a past act. And the sentence "past is past and its non of husband's business" applies here too..because in the sentence the time span is not mentioned..n past may a an act done a second ago also. Is it justified and is it modernism? If not, why? Why is it not justified, because its her personal life and her privacy..n the husband does'nt own her..so she can do anything secretly as its her privacy, privacy of a modern women. Nowz coming to risk of STD's.evennif she brings STD's for the husband n the husband's health detoriates, she can still stand proudly with her decision..saying she is not responsible for it..as the STD's was contracted in the past..n its her past(even if it was yesterday), and her past n her privacy is her business.she does'nt owe to share anything personal to her husband.because she is a modern women..n will get many supports from the so called modern people always.

And they casually gossip and laugh about the latest trends in entertainment, fashion and makeup?

Ok, so there is a right way and a wrong way to do marriage. Lets hear whats on your checklist! Maybe we can together come to an agreement on an all inclusive checklist where you can check off the items to make sure you're doing it right! Here are my suggestions: 1) At least 1 affair to spice things up 2)  Have many lovers before marriage so you know whats good 3) Buy wife a pink wig? 4) Share seedy back story If that's all you got, you seriously need to work on your insult game!