She seems to have this notion that if me or any of siblings call her out on something wrong, we're being disrespectful and she threatens to hit us if we ever do it again. I don't think that this is being disrespectful because she is actually a hypocrite. For example, she threatens to slap us (and has done it) if we don't wear socks in the house because she thinks it is somehow going to protect us from getting sick with this whole covid thing going on; yet she almost never wears socks. And when my brother called her out on it, she hit him and blew up and starting yelling that he was being disrespectful. However, I don't think he was wrong because she does this a lot and always threatens to hit us for it even if we simply forget to do one of the things she asks us, like socks.

I ordered a package like 2 weeks ago on ebay which was a new computer for several hundred dollars and i purchased it and the seller never shipped it or posted tracking or anything, and the estimated delivery date by ebay was yesterday so i'm really confused, next steps?? i've contacted the seller several times and they didn't reply 

So all of this really started with my oldest brother (he's 33, I'm 20). I'll call him "John." For years I would help John "finish" his relationships- meaning when he breaks up with the various women he dates, I was always asked to take their belongings back to them for him (sometimes even going to their house). Recently I was asked again to return some more belongings to a girl that lives closer to me than him (probably why he asked me to do it). This time I said no. I didn't think it would matter because I had to work anyway, and it all made me super uncomfortable. When I told him I wanted no part in it (dealing with crying ex's, screaming in my face, asking ME why the relationship didn't work out), he blew up. John told me that since he had helped me out with the child abuse I suffered from my mother (we have different moms), and since he co-signed on my car, that I should do whatever he asks me to do.  He has since called me unloyal, and I am now no longer allowed in his house (where my two other brothers live) and I am no longer allowed to see my niece (7) and nephew (4). Apparently, John does not want his kids around me because I'm "starting drama" and "negatively impacting" the children.  I absolutely took offense to this, and told him in no uncertain terms that HE is the one that brings loads of women around his kids, and HE is the one negatively impacting his kids (they cry and ask me when these women are coming back constantly.

I have nothing to do while my friends are still allowed to do normal stuff. I have to sit home and do school stuff but that only takes a few hours.  I have a PC and do play like 3h a day but after that my mom comes into whine about me playing too much so I just lay in bed.

I told her that I won't come over to her house until.. 1. She gets rid of the retard that she has stowed away in her bedroom being used as an ATM machine. 2. She goes to an apartment where she can have a $500 a month apartment that she can afford. 3. She goes to the Psychiatrist and tells him that she's addicted to opiates but way too smart to let the pangs dictate the dose taken or the source of the product.. And that she uses disabled people for money.. Happily gets her teeth knocked out so long as the guy she's with gives her money.. Hooks herself up with bad african American males.. In an attempt to manipulate them to cause harm to her family.. Believing I'd be too scared to fight.. And when one of them tried to go after my dad... And I kicked his a)ss.. She evicted me and my dad from her house saying that I upset the house. Because he was giving her money. Lol

I am a 13 year old boy who wants to move to my dad who lives in Georgia. I live in South Carolina and want to move in with my dad because my mom and my brother are really annoying and my mom is trying to take control of my life and what I do with it. I asked her once but she said no because she thinks my dad is a bad parent. Have you guys went through the same situation or have any tips on how to convince them?

I was just chilling in my room today and came out which is pretty rare jut I did. It was evening and I thought they were watching some movie but my mom was on my dad's thighs making out like really hard. When they saw me they stopped but they weren't ashame dor anything. They are 36 and 38.

Is it true that the sex that my dad had wither her after I was born was way worse because I simply messed up here vag?

They say step fathers are just as important as biological fathers.

Hello! My brother is graduating high school, but because of the corona virus the end of his senior year as been pretty much ruined. There is a good chance that they are going to cancel his graduation and just mail him his diploma. It makes me sad that he will not get to formally graduate high school.  So, I was thinking that I could throw him a small surprise party on the day (or around the day) that he is supposed graduate. It is just my parents, him, me, and possibly my Grandma (she has a plane ticket to come but you never know now). Since it would only be 4 or 5 people, is it worth it? How much should I spend? Any opinions would be appreciated...

So I'm madly in love with my man. We only been together for 3 months but we both had a crush on each other for over a year and finally made it work..with this corna thing going on I didn't wanna waste anytime so I proposed to him and he said yes. He's only 20 and I'm 27 I thought that his family would be happy but his mom is pissed she says that I'm not welcome at the home.. on Facebook she keeps writing sub post about me she called me a little trick and is friends with his ex girlfriend on fb but not me.. I want her at the wedding but my bf Saids she won't be coming she's mad because I stole some stuff from her when I stayed at there house one time I didn't mean to.. she also says I'm too old for her son she calls me a hoe.. but she has no idea what her son does to my body when she's not around.. please help??  I'm planing to get pregnant by him this summer and I want her to be 

My parents divorced when I was very little, not because their marriage didn't work out but some other issue was going on and it was best for them to just not be married, is what they've said. Though they stayed living together for all these yrs, they never remarried. For the past few yrs it seems like things have turned bad. Like they've disagreed on lots of things and argue so much. My dad even moved out of the bedroom and now stays in the living room. He told me that he's only staying at home because he wants me to continue having a father in my life. Plus we don't have family around either. They're always bad talking each other behind their backs to me. We never do things as a family with both of them together anymore. I've tried taking to them about it but they say that they're fine. I still have a quite a few months before turning 18, but I don't know how much longer I can stand them living like that.  Should I mention this issue to them or would that be a bad idea?

Hi guys. so I'm 17 and my girl cousin is 23 and acts like a kid almost. Whenever she has breaks at work she calls me.. every single time out of the blue and it's starting to get annoying because she'll say "i'm bored i wanted someone to call" like we're friends or something.. for the past week or so.  Yesterday she called me at 11 am (on one of these work breaks i assume) and i declined it since i was still in bed. instantly she gets an attitude with me, says she "never has to call me again" etc etc. It's just super annoying because i miss one phone call and now all of a sudden i'm on her bad side that quickly. When i tell her that she justifies it and it's childish. i'm 17 and i'm more mature than her. If we're on the phone and i say something she doesn't like she'll hang up and not talk to me for a few days over something as small as me mentioning corona virus and how important it is.  One of my pet peeves is when people (unless you're my BEST friend or someone i date) call me without warning. She acts like i'm in the wrong for declining a call. I honestly don't even know what to do because if i tel my mom or my aunt they'll judge and see her in a different light ...

long story short, I'm 30 years old. when I was 21, I used to these disgusting French Kisses with my 4 year old sister at the time. I knew it was wrong. However, I hate myself now and I feel depressed and angry with strong guilt. I want to say sorry to my sister if she remembers. It's up to her to forgive me. is there any way that I can forgive myself. I swear I feel suicidal sometimes because of the guilt and I can't change the past I have been obsessing about this for 7 months now

It's kind of long so I apologize. My 20 yr old daughter had to move her stuff from her dorm room. I offered to help. She has been at her mothers house(we are divorced) for the past 3 weeks and her mother hasn't enforced a strict quarantine. There are 6 people in the house including 2 infants and my ex has her boyfriend come and go as does my son with his 19 yr old girlfriend. I've made it clear that I am not ok with that. My wife and I have been very strict. No one in and out if the house. I told my daughter I could not drive her in my car. I offered to glove and mask up and help empty the room but she would have to get a ride there and back(she does not have a car). My ex refused to drive her and it turned into a whole big fight and made my daughter very upset(she has anxiety issues). After her mother refused I decided to drive her with mask on in the back seat. I couldn't watch my daughter be treated like **** by her parents so I gave in and drove her. My wife(I remarried) is super pissed because I went behind her back. I told her as soon as I got home. If I wouldn't have called her she would have forbidden me to driving my daughter. My wife hasn't talked to me since Saturday. My ex is very controlling and my daughter wants to live with me and my wife won't let her. I'm in a tough spot, I feel like I have to choose between my wife and my kids. Any thoughts. 

That's how I feel. I'm 24. Just recently taken guardianship over my siblings because my mom is irresponsible and got evicted. She lives with her friends and my 5 siblings live with my boyfriend and I. Prior to this time, my siblings have lived with me numerous times before. But this time... it's a little overwhelming for me. It was unexpected, I went to "visit" them, not knowing they were in terrible living conditions because my mom moved to another state to live with "family" . So I thought for once I could live my own life, but I drive 7 hours away to do a surprise visit and the family member they were staying with was just as worse as my mom. So I took all 5 of them home with me. Now they're here with me and I pretend like everything is fine but behind closed doors all I do is cry. I'm sad because I finally thought I could live my life for me and unexpectedly now have them back. Don't get me wrong, I absolutely love them but I am exhausted. And I feel terrible to even admit it. As a result, I'm being short and fussing at work, to my boyfriend, and friends. I feel like nobody understands what I'm going through. I feel by myself. There a running joke about me always being "strict" and "intimidating" that my siblings and my boyfriend have and it kind of hurts my feelings because they don't think I can be fun and relaxed but how can I when I have 5 other lives, all under 14, to take care of. And no other family to help. 

Basically, I'm a 30 year old man. I did something very horrible when I was 21. I used to French Kiss my little sister who was only 4 at the time. I don't remember why I would do such a thing. I was not sexually attracted to my sister, but this disgusting thing just happened. And I didn't even realize this wrong. But now I feel very broken inside and horrible because it was never supposed to happen at all. I hate myself big time. I don't know if my sister remembers it, if she does, I would beg her for forgiveness really

My Dad has not spoken to her since she was a month old and his wife left him. He wishes he had kept up but notes it was his ex who by seeking a divorce made the call not to have him in her life. So do I tell him or not bother? He is elderly now and his daughter is in her mid-40's. I did not tell the woman I was the son of her father (biologically I would be her brother I guess).

I can't stand when my parents are home from work they make me so angry and annoy me so much. I'm not really a family oriented person I prefer my space so much better. There just very loud, nosy and controlling. And obnoxious. The worst one is my step mom she has a travel job and whenever she comes home it's always a nightmare sometimes I feel like I can't breath because I'm just so annoyed the entire time. She's very loud and nosy. I just wish  I had my own place and got to live my own life without people embarrassing me and  are in charge..when your young you like being around your family but as you get older lol there honesty the last people that you wanna see! I love my parents of Course by why do they annoy me so much?? And with this stupid quarantine going on I can't go anywhere.. I could only hope that the money I make out of work is enough to save up for a apartment 

My brother dropped out of college after having one semester left to get his BA in CSE, wasting 80000 my parents spent to send him to college. He went straight into the Army, met a girl and 4 months later got her pregnant then got engaged. I've never met her. He's been in the military for 1 year and has barely any savings and can't even afford to buy a car so he took my dads. When he told me today, I told him I was disappointed in him. I told him that I think he is screwing up his life and needs to start making better decisions especially since he is going to be a dad. It was literally 6 months ago my brother was asking me for money because he spent all of his drinking and at strip clubs. I feel terrible that they want me to be excited for them but I'm not, I'm really not interested in being involved in their family. What's worse is my parents are feeling the same way. I wish I could be excited to be an Aunt, I'm not. All I keep seeing this as is another bad mistake that eventually me and my family are going to have to support him through. I've talked to his girlfriend a few times but she doesn't seem to be particularly bright. I think she just wants to be a stay at home wife/mom and let my brother work. I'm not a fan but I want to try to be. Any advice?

If I work one of those days, I want my child to spend the day with his grandparents rather than let the mother watch him while I am at work. The mother thinks I should be leaving him with her since she is off that day. But these are my days and not doing it out of spite but I want our child to bond with his grandparents too. Am I right?

Ok so every time I see my grandparents anymore all they tall about is "God". I'm not an atheist, I'm agnostic btw, but it just drives me crazy inside how overly religious they are sometimes. Here's just a few examples. Me and my grandpa were talking about coronavirus and risks of it ect, and my grandma says after we are done talking, "you just have to trust god". I'm just thinking in my head "where is god exactly while all this is going on? Is he on vacation?" Everytime I go in their house, or ride in their car they're always playing nothing but Christian music, we have to say grace before we eat, they're always talking about what the Bible says, what their church does, they don't allow any type of swearing around them, they don't allow any family to drink around them for any occasion, ect, ect. And I am an adult by the way. I love them both to death but sometimes it just makes it hard to want to be around them when they're just constantly pushing what I feel to be an outdated ideology and way of life on me. 

I'm an 18 year old girl. in case some older people answer , I respect my parents and live at their house during breaks because I'm in college . They pay for my college which definitely appreciate but sometimes my dad antagonizes and judges everything I do. Earlier I told him I was going to bake something later and he kept asking what and I told him i wanted to fry up something then we left it alone.later that day I came down to bake and told him i was going to make fried Oreos. He started acting crazy and was like "you can't do that, you can't use the stove unless someone's watching you" mind you I'm 18! And getting an apartment in a few months. Then we went back and forth and he was like "you don't even know how to make it, you don't have the ingredients and it gets messy and everything" and I showed him the recipe and everything he just kept arguing so I got frustrated.  I went to my room and 5 minutes later he texted me and was like "when you're ready to act like an adult then we can talk abt the fried Oreos" but he was treating me like a child So I just ignored him. Later I wanted to make popcorn and marshmallows and he was like "you can't eat popcorn AND marshmallows "do you know how much junk food you eat??" even though I like sweets I eat healthy too. It's to the point where I don't eat sweets in front of him. It frustrates me because I have some dark spots and Ik he feels like it's because of that. What should I do? He annoys tf out of me sometimes

I'm 27 and my brother is 21, my dad adopted my brother when he was maybe 9 or 10years old. My brothers relationship with his biological dad completely ended when he was 5 or 6 years old.  My brothers biological father gave up his rights to my brother to avoid back pay and child support. My brother hasn't had any contact with his dad since he was 5 or 6 years old. When my brother was a teenager he had lots of questions about his real dad and found out that his real dad was pretty much a dead beat. He seems to have a lot of hate towards his real dad.  My dad has takin really good care of my brother and has gone above and beyond for him to make him feel wanted, almost treats him a little better than he treats me. Which is okay with me because it must suck knowing your dad gave up on you.  We just found out that my Brother made a new email with his biological dad's last name and another social media with his dad's last name. I don't know how to feel about it, but I support him if he's happy. It sucks because I know it hurts my parents feelings, almost like spitting in their faces.  Does anybody have any opinions on this?

I am a single father trying to be a good influence on my daughters life, she is 5 years old and I hold her hand at the park and try to be a good mother figure as well in her life showing her affection and that I love her and all I get is random women looking at me strange and telling me that I'm weird for taking an active role in my daughters life. It's like women expect men to be deadbeat dads and anything out of the ordinary from that image is seen as weird and creepy.

I know coronavirus won't be eradicated until there's a vaccine but will the social distancing have been relaxed a fair bit by August? Or is she an idiot that is risking all of our lives for a fun afternoon at a park? It's outdoors so I plan to go if she has it and she noted worst case scenario she can always cancel. She originally was doing it memorial day weekend but she's moved it to the first weekend in August due to COVID-19.

I couldn't fit all this on the top but this is with regards to Easter Sunday my uncle is having my other aunt and my other uncle and their kids over as well as another uncle who doesn't have any kids. He asked my parents and they said no because of COVID-19 and we're just stuck at their Beachhouse just my sister Parents and I couldn't fit all this on the top but this is with regards to Easter Sunday my uncle is having my other aunt and my other uncle and their kids over as well as another uncle who doesn't have any kids. He asked my parents and they said no because of COVID-19 and we're just stuck at the beach house just my sister Parents and I. I'm so jealous that the whole extended family is getting together but us and I feel so sad. My dad's obsessive compulsive about coronavirus because he has a company to run and if one of us gets it and gives it to him then he could cause his employees to all die. This sounds like a really far-fetched scenario. My uncle noted everybody will be outside rather than inside due to COVID-19 for social distancing so he's using caution. We couldn't go last year because of a funeral and my mom's family and now we can't go this year because of COVID-19. I'm really really sad, what do I do with the sadness?

My dad and three siblings all have it but my mom and I had been taking my grandmother back to her home so we weren't home and they got sick and we're not sure if we may or may not be infected. So we're at a hospital hotel where they provide services for people been quarantined as we are quarantined right now. My dad and siblings we can't have funerals for as we can't gather for a service. It's just the two of us now how long we have to be in this hotel?