So I saw that my husband followed about 15 instagram 'fitness' models all the same build with big butts. (He has a lot of other pages that he follows but this was just what I noticed in one day) I've told him in the past that it makes me uncomfortable. But he doesn't seem to care and turns it around as I shouldn't be looking at what he's doing.(who he follows is public anyone can see it) am I over reacting about this? I haven't said anything cause I know it will start a fight. Should I say something or just let it go?

I have seen no good marriages in my life and no good come from them. I hate my parents for having children. No ever loved me or my sister. No one is happy being married. Having a girlfriend sucks too they only want money and will dump you once they find someone better. Why should put myself through hell just to make my loser parents happy?

My husband and I are both 40 with a one year old son. My husband was outside with our son and our 15 year old neighbor girl was as well, whom is a super sweet girl. When they were outside I walked out the side and caught them kissing eachother right by our child. I was in shock and I'm sure they were too. I ran in the house and was crying, the girl also got the heck out of there. My husband came in and said he was sorry it was a mistake and he loves me and assured me nothing like that will ever happen again. This whole week I can't get that image out of my head and feel like I should tell her parents about the matter but don't want to start anymore drama. Any advice would be very helpful for me thanks

We're sending the kiddos away for 2 weeks with the grandparents and we're at a loss as to what to do in that time. Sex is an obvious, but that gets old quick when you think of how many years you've been married, times how many days are in a year, minus a few days. We have been so child focused, we haven't even watched an adult movie in what seems like years. We censor everything. We want to reconnect as a couple and be a little adventurous. Any ideas?

I try to hard to listen to my wife but geez....when she starts talking about her day it goes on and on ! Women want men to be good listeners, but the more we listen the more they talk !! Why does it take 2hrs just to say how ur day went ! I can describe my day in 10mins tops !

So my husband and I were talking and then he made a comment saying I was sexy, which of course is nice. I then say that I just finished my period, and he says "oh sorry I have to leave for work in 10 mins". I had this gut feeling that he was kinda just saying that as an excuse to not do anything sexual, so I say to him "oh yea? When do you have to leave for work?" and he says "9:30". We look at the clock and it's "9:05", so he didn't need to go in 10 minutes it was more like 25 minutes. Also bear in mind he was totally ready for work (shaved, packed, etc). So I get mad at him, not because he didn't want to have sex (although yea a small part of me felt rejected at that) but just the lying. He then got mad at me because he said I was just imagining ill intent in his words and when he said "10 minutes" really he just meant "I have to go to work soon". I didn't accept this as a reason because clearly we could've had sex quickly for 10 minutes and then he would've had a full 15 minutes left to spare. Ridiculous. Then he says "well I still need to pack my lunch" and I say "I thought you already prepared it" and he says "yea I mean pack it into my bag". So literally he meant just move it from the fridge, to the bag, which would've taken maybe 30 seconds. Another bs reason. So am I totally psycho for getting upset at him? Or was he in the wrong? He just responds to stuff very instantly sometimes without thinking, and it makes him seem like a pathological liar. So after this happened he started screaming at me, despite me staying calm. To me it seemed like he was just manipulating the situation because I was clearly right. He then called me a b*tch and he kicked the coffee table, then stormed to work. If he had just said to me "hey I know I had a bit of extra time but honestly I kinda just want to relax - how about tonight?" I wouldn't have cared. I was more just hurt that he automatically chose the deceptive path, which I hate. Anyways I'm hoping that either I was the one in the wrong (although I'm fully convinced he's in the wrong for screaming and calling me derogatory names) and that maybe he just misspoke because of his ADHD? Maybe his angry outburst is because of that too? I do love him, and it breaks my heart to think he might be abusive, but if that's the case I have to protect myself. When he raged at me he genuinely did scare me, and the dog also got scared. But was that a result of my behavior?

I feel an intense attraction to boss.. he's married with a kid, but does not wear a wedding ring or have any pictures of her on his desk. He's complimented me on my hair before and my tattoos and flirted with me .. but also criticizes my clothes sometimes in a joking manner. He goes to church, and has been married for over 10 years. But his wife doesn't wouldn't go on vacation with him to fl and he even asked one of my coworkers to come with him. I have deep feelings for him and today he said he'd go over one of the projects we're working on with his wife. I don't know if he casually mentioned her to see my reaction or to remind me or himself that he's married.. I have the biggest crush on him and I know most people are going to tell me to keep it professional but a lot of people are WAY too judgemental. Please give me some advice and if you think he's jnterested in me.. I'm not trying to break up a happy home but if he's fallen out of love w her it could be worth exploring.. I just wanna know what to do

I'm not sure if it's just me but it seems to me a lot more people are getting divorced then in previous years. I'm 39 and about 3/4 of my friends are divorced or are in the process of getting a divorce. Did anyone else in their late 30's - 40's start noticing their friends going through divorces a lot?

My husband and I have been married for almost 15 years, he is very rich and successful. He took a very public job a couple of years ago and although I still love him, he is appearing to be more and more unhinged. I am most worried about our daughter who seems oblivious to what is happening. To make it worse, my husband has cheated on me multiple times and over the last couple of years more and more evidence has amounted to the fact that he had been doing it more than I knew. I am sad and I don't know how to tell him because I am worried he will make my life hell if I say so. What should I do?

Ok, let me be more specific. He and i have been engaged for 2 years. I've only been around his daughter less than 10 times. Custody issues. Baby mama dram, etc. His daughter loves me and even calls me mommy. I tend to tell her to call me mama instead, since she calls her mother, mommy. I'm still getting use to being a "step mom. And just recently he got joint custody of her, and is fighting for full custody. I kinda feel like everything is moving fast..

But didn't when her mother was there and waited for her to leave?

I look for love someday but I just can't bring myself to bother with marriage. It seems like everyone believes that marriage is the only way to have a closer bond. I would much prefer to just live with someone without having to go through marriage.

She said she wants a divorce and that it'll cost $100 and that when she gets the money she'll get it, and that i have one month to move out, she won't say i love you back or kiss me or show any affection/connection, and it's like she's trying to say stuff just to hurt me (such as i can't wait until i have the bed to myself, better get used to not having me to sleep with, etc.) She still uses my money, it took her a long time to be comfortable with my buying or paying for her stuff so i don't think she would still use it if she was going through with it, she's not the type of person to use people and i consider that to still be true today. She also still has us as married on fb, and instead of paying for the divorce she bought stuff. I really want to make things work and am ready/wanting to change now. She says it's too late and nothing will change how she feels. I understand how i hurt her, and all her past grievances (that i need to man up, communicate, be more affectionate, focus and try and do more stuff for our relationship, and be someone she can trust). Is it too late? What can i do? Could she be testing me? Please help, any advice will be greatly appreciated

I notice many couples argue a lot and try to divorce or their is cheating, yet there are couples they live happily.

Seems as though my wife is never happy. When he wasn't working she was complaining about how he needed to get a job. Now that he has a job and is working everyday she NOW has a problem with his job. Sure, he is only making $8 an hour at a burger place but he is only 19, he will find his way. I keep trying to tell her that he will find his way. She said that a 19 year old man should be making much more than 8 dollars an hour and she says that we didn't raise him to only make 8 dollars an hour. She said we raised him to get a good career. She said she wants him to either get a trade or go back to school. The thing is he is not interested in college, we sent him to college before and he dropped out because that wasn't what he wanted to do. Life IS hard without a degree but that's UP to him to realize. I cannot force him to go if it's not in his heart. My wife treats him like he's 10 year olds. Then whenever he goes out with his friends she is always complaining. Now she's saying we need to take away his car and that should make him want to go to college or get a trade. I feel as though that will only make him resent her. Our daughter went to college, she should be happy with that.

She said she is going to divorce me, but she spent money buying stuff instead of that and gave me till the end of july to move out, she said it is too late, that she can't trust me and only loves me as a friend now, and that she doesn't have romantic feelings toward me now. I'm trying to change my ways hoping that it really isn't, she keeps using my money, which i know she wouldn't do if she was serious about all this, that is her actions, but her words say she is done and nothing i do will change it. I know it's my fault for pushing it to this point, is there anything i can do, and is she really done, and how can i be more of a man for her? Also how can i tell her she is doing stuff that bothers me without attacking her or coming across as weak or needy or over stepping my boundaries

My wife has a diagnosed anxiety disorder and takes Prozac to keep her symptoms at bay (it doesn't work imho). To manage her anxiety/stress she uses OCD tactics like making schedules, routines, and habits so she can meet all of her responsibilities, expectations, and goals; only here's the catch, she has to be the one to set those things, no one else. Yep, if you ask favors of her, or you ask her to meet marriage expectations of sex, or you try to set family goals and ask her opinion she will not cooperate with any of it. It's her way or the highway... I'm okay with giving up most things, but giving up our communication is unacceptable. We used to work together and we would talk on our way into work together and on our way back home. Those were the best days of our lives tbh. Communication was sound and we were on the same page. When she got a better paying job though that communication broke down. It went from her talking to me on the phone after work then talking to me in the morning over coffee and now it's so bad that she just doesn't talk to me and she goes about her life like I am just a butler she can delegate 1/2 or more of the domestic chores to... I want to force her to talk to me but I know I can't. She has to be willing to give up some of her time to talk to me. But right now, the only thing she has time for is stuff that is destressing. That makes me mad because now I feel like I lost my best friend (only friend) and I'm forced to fend for myself now.

So I've had numerous posts over the past about my husband having issues. HE has bad anxiety, parents were divorced and he had to live in the attic of his step dads house while his mom had her new life with his three Half brothers. so he has some issues. My husband is on a lot of medicine for his depression, and over the last year doesn't want to be intimate with me. I do love him and am comfortable with him. But he shows no interest. Maybe once every few months hell try and I usually have to initiate and do all the work.We are only married a year..but lately he is becoming emotionally abusive. Everything is basically his way or the high way..and if I bother him and ask him to do something with me that he isn't in the mood to do, he will turn it into a fight. We just bought a house , we don't have kids yet, but im concerned for our future. My heart loves him , which makes it hard to leave, but I also am not happy and feel my needs aren't being met. Lately, one of my male best friends and I have become more close and I feel im on the border of an emotional affair. Im getting from him, what my husband isn't giving me. Attention. I also find myself wanting to spend more time with my friend because he gets me more and we have fun and its not stressful, as it can be with my husband. I take care of my husband, but he doesn't take care of me. If we are newlyweds and I'm already feeling this, does that mean were doomed. We tried counseling and he doesn't seem to change his ways.

I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 years and he will pop up at my house sometimes without telling me he's on the way. The problem with that is that I'll be in the middle of doing something and he will expect me to already be ready. Like yesterday he showed up in the middle of me cooking with no warning he was on the way. I told him numerous times to inform me when he is on the way but I keep running into this same problem

So every time my wife goes to to pick up or drop the kids at her ex he always says something slick such as comments on her booty or how he misses making love to her or how I cant put it down like him. I've ask him to stop several times but he wont. I'm thinking my step is to give him a good old fashion but whoopin.

I'm an Aries woman and I feel an intense attraction to my Pisces boss.. he's married with a kid, but does not wear a wedding ring. He's complimented me on my hair before and my tattoos.. but also criticizes my clothes sometimes in a joking manner. He goes to church, and has been married for over 10 years. But his wife doesn't wouldn't go on vacation with him to fl and he even asked one of my coworkers to come with him. I have deep feelings for him and today he said he'd go over one of the projects we're working on with his wife. I don't know if he casually mentioned her to see my reaction or to remind me or himself that he's married.. I have the biggest crush on him and I know most people are going to tell me to keep it professional but a lot of people are WAY too judgemental. Please give me some advice and if you think he's jnterested in me. Thank you

My bf have always talked about marriage ever since he was 18. He is now 23 I am 22. I met him when I was 16. We have been on and off we got back together 3 years ago almost. He proposed without a ring than told me the following month he isn't ready right now but he does want marriage. He doesnt mind if I get pregnant right now though? He beileves that a child is a bigger commitment than marriage. He said that he isnt ready right now because that is a promise you make with god. I dont know what he meant by that. I dont pressure him I only asked him once and it was the time he said he wasn't ready after he proposed I needed answers. I am honestly not ready for marriage right now either. He wants to get a house together first also. Do you think that is why? I'm lost

My boyfriend (28) of one year is a wonderful man, he's loyal, kind and loves me. But here's the problem. I sometimes feel very hurt by his words. Like when we talked about his friend's marriage and his words to describe marriage were "a golgen cage", "a ball-and-chain around his ankle". It hurts me, because I've never felt so sure about anyone, I know that if I ever get married he's the one I want to marry. And here he is, making statements like these. He also recently got a motorcycle driving licence (I'm not a fan but it's his decision) and his reason was because "he wants to feel free and be his own boss". I feel like he has some commitment issues and is desperate to prove himself that he's not tied up to anything/anyone. He also says things like "well, you've started dating an adventure lover". I just don't know where I stand. We've been together for a year, it would be nice to at least know if he'll eventually want to get married in the future (I'm not saying I want to get married now, but in like 5 years). I don't want to waste years of my life with a man who won't commit. I don't think of marriage as of a "golden cage", I think of it as a wonderful way to give my heart to the person I love the most in this world and as a prove I want to spend my life with them. It's very hurtful that he thinks if he marries me, he'll be trapped in a prison. How should I address this to him? He never wants to talk about things that are unpleasant to him but it really bothers me.

It's stupid stuff. He didn't ask me to prom 15 years ago, he didn't propose to me, he just gave me a ring that I ordered 6 years into our relationship, he made me get an abortion right after college, etc. It's these milestone things that I guess I wanted him to make a big deal about and I can't get them back. It was especially difficult expecting to be proposed to for years, him saying he was going to, and then it not happening. Particularly when I was pregnant. That really stung. Meanwhile, his brother proposed to his girlfriend in this amazing way, ending in a surprise engagement party, with a beautiful ring he had picked out himself and had engraved. They bought a house right away (we're still renting), and he took her all over Europe for their honeymoon. Now she's pregnant and he's elated and everyone is doting on her and I can't talk about what happened with me because it's a big secret and I'm just so jealous. I know he loves me so much, he just doesn't place importance on these things and he said when I tell him things are really important to me, it just stresses him out so he doesn't do it. I just wanted like, one moment to feel special. I want that high. It's so stupid and silly and I wish I wasn't like this, but I can't let go of the past and move on. I can't stop myself from feeling sorry for myself whenever I see a girl get proposed to or a dad-to-be putting a hand on his wife's stomach. How can I move on and get over this silliness?

My wife and I are 40 with a son. We have a neighbor who is 15. I told my wife one day after seeing her outside that she is an extremely pretty girl. My wife freaked out and told my I'm perverted. I really think this girl is and only meant it as a compliment cause she's so sweet. Do you see where she's coming from on this? Or do you agree with me?