Family: Question: My sister is away this weekend and she is the bad sibling I hate. How do I enjoy time when she’s away with our Mom and Mom’s toxic friends? |
- Question: My sister is away this weekend and she is the bad sibling I hate. How do I enjoy time when she’s away with our Mom and Mom’s toxic friends?
- Question: How do I get my cousins to see that I am a first rate relative?
- Question: Worried help my daughter went out with the women who don’t like me that much and my daughter hasn’t come back yet??
- Question: My boyfriend won’t let my son come around!?
- Question: Would you be upset if your son had a child with a different skin color than his?
- Question: My dad always insults me. Is this normal?
- Question: I feel uncomfortable around all dads?
- Question: How to cope being around people you don't want to be around?
- Question: My elderly father and I, his adult son, do not really get along. Is it sufficient for me to respect him without loving him?
- Question: Should we adopt a child?
- Question: What are some good tickle taunts for my siblings?
- Question: Custodial parent worries.?
- Question: I’m anemic and needed my prescription but my mom just made plans with her bf instead of getting it like she said she would is she selfish?
- Question: Is fighting and hitting normal?
- Question: I’m about to introduce my new Girlfriend to my family including my quite dominant cousin should I care or should I stamp my family position?
- Question: Are the words Brother & Sister the correct words to describe the relationship between Ivanka Trump & Barron Trump Since they both share a?
- Question: Mom read my journal and I can’t stop thinking about it.. need advice?
- Question: Things I wish for my mom?
- Question: My sister kisses my parents on the cheeks and lips but not me?
- Question: Is it bad that I hate my family?
- Question: Why are there schools and communities that are full of primarily black and Hispanic people together?
- Question: Can I have another mom and dad?
- Question: Why do some parents think that they can live off of their adult children for free.?
- Question: If my parents and my older brother are/were jerks all my life then aren’t I destined to be one too?
- Question: Can a family member give the oratory at a funeral for family member?
- Question: I am now not going to the beach this weekend. How do I handle the let down of not going when I could have seen cousins down there?
- Question: Why am I always excluded or outcasted!!!!!!!!!!!?
- Question: Should I move out?
- Question: Why am I the black sheep of the family?
- Question: What do I do I'm scare?
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Posted: 06 Jul 2019 01:55 PM PDT |
Question: How do I get my cousins to see that I am a first rate relative? Posted: 06 Jul 2019 01:54 PM PDT |
Posted: 06 Jul 2019 12:10 PM PDT What should I do my daughter went to restaurant with the women who don't like me her son and my daughter are same age and best friend I try to prevent my 6 years old daughter not to go. But she's so naive and want to go out with them now I'm worried and I don't trust no one. I miss my daughter and still in 4 hours she did not come back yet. |
Question: My boyfriend won’t let my son come around!? Posted: 06 Jul 2019 11:48 AM PDT I have a 9 year old great little boy but me and his father didn't work out so our relationship ended. Fast forward 4 years later I met a guy through friends and we hit it off pretty well even had a son with him who is now 2 years old. My oldest lived with his dad while myself and my 2 year live with his dad at his moms house. My issue is my second sons father won't accept my oldest son even tells me he can't come over to the house (even tho my youngest sons grandma said my son is always welcomed)my boyfriend gets real mad an walks around with an attitude whenever my son comes over. This all comes from him growing up not liking his own brother who his mom had from a different marriage. I was a stay at home mom but just got a good job hoping to move out but I feel I break my sons heart every time I tell him he can't come over... my boyfriend fav excuse is he has a dad so he needs to stay at his dads house so I don't want my son around feeling as if he's not wanted. |
Question: Would you be upset if your son had a child with a different skin color than his? Posted: 06 Jul 2019 11:19 AM PDT My dad's family doesn't like me cause of it |
Question: My dad always insults me. Is this normal? Posted: 06 Jul 2019 09:13 AM PDT He wasn't like this when I was younger, he actually used to be kind/the ideal father that kids really want, but now he's turning into a a very grumpy, abusive person. He always calls me stupid/shameful and tells me I'll never get anywhere in life, even though I'm an honors student with all As in school (I'm 16, a girl). He doesn't have many humane emotions and is always impatient. He also doesn't like animals very much, almost hates them to an unreal extent. If I tell him something as simple as the fact that I like cats and would like to have my own someday, he tells me, "that's all you think about? you're never getting into college, loser." He also tells me sometimes that he would honestly pray for me not to get anywhere in life because I don't deserve it, he's contradictory that way. He always compares me to other kids and tells me I'm absolutely useless compared to them, no matter who this other person is. He's threatened to kill me more times than I can count, and the smallest thing can make him angry. I don't understand; is it my fault for somehow not being good enough for him? I've tried studying harder but it doesn't seem to affect the way he treats me much. And because this is constant I have some mental issues now that make me not very confident, which is a target for even more of his insulting. In the state I live in, I'm not old enough to move out... is there anything I can do? Or is this something normal that all teenagers have to go through with their parents? |
Question: I feel uncomfortable around all dads? Posted: 06 Jul 2019 08:10 AM PDT my problem is what the title says lol, I'm sure me being abused heavily by my father as a child but idk it's just weird. I know not all fathers are bad, same goes for mothers, and idk if I'd make a good father even still it always feels weird. It's like I have a mix of a tiny bit of adrenaline and being nervous whenever I'm around fathers |
Question: How to cope being around people you don't want to be around? Posted: 06 Jul 2019 07:44 AM PDT They have issue with you and won't let you move out,if they have issues why hinder everyway for you to move? I'm not a person who can deal and be with toxic people each day who also have issue with you,tried to move before but of course they sabotaged that somehow.... |
Posted: 06 Jul 2019 07:37 AM PDT The reason we don't get along is that he is an alcoholic and I have bipolar disorder. This made for some fireworks in the past, but now we have settled into a routine. I do respect him and run errands etc for him, but I do not feel love in my heart towards him. Is the respect sufficient? |
Question: Should we adopt a child? Posted: 06 Jul 2019 05:26 AM PDT Our older children have moved out years ago and our youngest child is leaving for college next month. We are thinking of adopting a child or two since we have so much space in the house and we want to continue being parents. |
Question: What are some good tickle taunts for my siblings? Posted: 06 Jul 2019 05:09 AM PDT like silly things to say for fun? |
Question: Custodial parent worries.? Posted: 05 Jul 2019 10:38 PM PDT I was with my ex( noncustodial parent) and her husband, they gave me some help in a situation I was in today. We made a stop at Walmart, they both went in, me and my 4 year old son stayed in the car, he looks at me, says daddy, my teeth hurt. Tim ( exes husband) hurt my teeth ( throwing a punch to his teeth.) I made a video and asked him the questions of did Tim punch you in the teeth? Do they hurt? Did he do it again? He said yes on each and showed me again. I don t want to believe this is true, I m not sure how to handle this, yes I am very angry but I shouldn t let anger drive me cause I can t lose my son. I have full custody of my son. |
Posted: 05 Jul 2019 09:25 PM PDT |
Question: Is fighting and hitting normal? Posted: 05 Jul 2019 08:39 PM PDT Ok so my parents and my relatives fight nearly every day. My mom said to me it normal people fight and hit each other since everyone has problems. Is that true? |
Posted: 05 Jul 2019 07:41 PM PDT |
Posted: 05 Jul 2019 07:34 PM PDT father but they have a different mother. Or is Ivanka the step-sister of Barron. & Barron a step-brother of Ivanka. |
Question: Mom read my journal and I can’t stop thinking about it.. need advice? Posted: 05 Jul 2019 07:04 PM PDT Im a 20 y/o female, share a room w/ my sister and my mom.. no privacy. my side of my bed Is my bag & some other things. my mom ends up acting weird towards me for a week and ends up telling me why. She read it. a journal where I only had written in it once. says my bag was knocked over and just happened to find it laying open on the floor which is a lie. Everything was perfect in my bag as before. I find this out & i am embarassed. 2 pages of me ranting about my bf in anger. wish Id gotten rid of it but I honestly didnt care so much that I forgot I had written anything. the worst part is I lied. I was being dramatic and saying things cause I was annoyed at him for a fight we had. did not lie about abuse or anything that could get him in serious trouble . What I did was take my assumptions & write them down as if were true. example, I would write.. "My bf thinks I'm uglier without makeup".. "He jerks to *insert some girl I think he likes for some reason*" A bunch of "He has said this" & "He has done this" I know its terrible. thing is he never told me any of this but i wrote everything as if it was true & I knew these things when it was just me being crazy and paranoid. I got on Prozac & my anxiety mostly stopped, now my mom reads these things and thinks its true can't convince her otherwise. my bf probably seems like a terrible person to her cause I wrote a bunch of nonsense 1 night I was pissed. Cant get over it after 3-4 months advice pls :( |
Question: Things I wish for my mom? Posted: 05 Jul 2019 06:32 PM PDT I wish my mom would come back to life... Not have muscular dystrophy.. Not smoke.. Not have COPD... Be at least healthy enough and able to Work at Whole foods, at a bare minimum... And drive a car... And go get her GED and an associate's degree.. And come knock on my door... Hug me.. And occupy my spare bedroom.. And Come home to me. And tell me exactly what happened to my abusive dad after he died of lung cancer. :p |
Question: My sister kisses my parents on the cheeks and lips but not me? Posted: 05 Jul 2019 06:28 PM PDT I'm a guy with an older sister. Im 29 and she's 31. While my sister peck kisses my parents on the cheeks and sometimes the lips, she never kisses me saying it's gross. Should I ask her why she refuses to do so? |
Question: Is it bad that I hate my family? Posted: 05 Jul 2019 06:26 PM PDT I absolutely hate my family my mom has a thing against girls and is very snobby. I have to brothers she lets them do whatever they want and spoils them but treats me like ****.. i came home from work and thought that no one was home come to find out that my brother was home for hours the whole time but didn't let me in.. I just have no love in my heart is this bad? |
Posted: 05 Jul 2019 06:09 PM PDT |
Question: Can I have another mom and dad? Posted: 05 Jul 2019 05:02 PM PDT I am more than 20 years old but my parents never loved me, never did something or cared about my future. And I so want to feel someone cares of me like her own child, want to call her mom. Can I find a women who could love me as her own child even if I am not her child and I am not so young? |
Question: Why do some parents think that they can live off of their adult children for free.? Posted: 05 Jul 2019 03:45 PM PDT |
Posted: 05 Jul 2019 03:27 PM PDT I would never be the people My parents were. As a straight man I've avoided women my entire life and also not only for freedom and financial reasons, I didn't want to risk making a kid. My parents should not have become parents and married for the wrong reason with the right intentions. They were also narcissists. Putting me down and comparing me to others. Family made me uncomfortable. But the damage May be done and I'm later on life at 38. |
Question: Can a family member give the oratory at a funeral for family member? Posted: 05 Jul 2019 03:06 PM PDT |
Posted: 05 Jul 2019 03:05 PM PDT I really promise this time it is the last I will ask about this. I was going to go to the beach but was scared I would be disrespectful if we don't hook up with my cousins there but knew my parents were not going to want to entertain. Well the weekend is here and my sister is now going down so there won't really be room for me anyway. So I bowed out which was fine. Now I learn my Dad, and likely mother and sister, will be briefly seeing these cousins cause they are asking my uncle to come by and see their beach house. My Dad said it will be on the uncle's way out of town and thus won't be a long visit but still, I am going to miss out. I could go down for the day but it will seem obsessive to my mother. I am in distress, how do I get over this and enjoy my weekend? I saw all the cousins just two weeks ago at a reunion so it is not like I haven't seen them in long and they also saw me at a funeral in May. Yet, I feel the distress of missing out, I have FOMO (Fear of Missing Out). My parents have ruined me. They kept me from my family as a child and now when I miss out I am overcome by agony and hurt and flashbacks. I am flashing back to childhood. Mom and Dad ruined me and this weekend I see it. They lied and said the aunt wouldn't be there, now I see on her Facebook page she is. My parents LIED to me. The agony I cannot go on. I am 2nd rate in the family. I have no friends. I have no one. I am worth nothing. My life is totally ruined. I cannot go on. I am unlovable. I am destroyed. I am of nothing, no worth, my parents destroyed me. Yet I will live in misery. I have another 50 years of life ahead of me. I refuse any self-harm for it is against my beliefs. I have morals unlike my parents. They have kept me from the family, now I am a defeated and crushed soul. Pray for me please, whatever your beliefs may be, pray that this awful burdon be lifted from me, my parents abused me emotionally and these scars are far more long lasting then physical scars would be. I am an adult now, but a broken adult who cannot recover. One day please, pray that one day this burden will be lifted from me. I am here and I am young, I have many years ahead of me. I would like to have a family, I would like to be in the family club. I am not right now and I am broken. I am broken and alone. |
Question: Why am I always excluded or outcasted!!!!!!!!!!!? Posted: 05 Jul 2019 03:05 PM PDT I'm an autistic person who is always lonely and excluded from pretty much everything. Just yesterday my siblings and cousins were trying to go somewhere just to smoke. I wanted to tag along not because I wanted to smoke with them but so that I'm not at my grandma's house all by myself without any company. So I was standing by the car ( at this time everyone except me, my cousin and my siblings were leaving the 4th of July party that took place at my grandmas house) so when I was standing by the car my favorite cousin who is younger than me asked me if I wanted to come and when she asked me, my sister heard and she got so annoyed telling me not to come. My cousin felt a little bad for me and asked me if I needed company. At first I said yes but afterwards I said no because I could tell she really wanted to go with them so I went back inside where I was all alone and my poor tired grandma had to take me back home. It was late and I was the last one to leave. I was crying hoping my grandma would not see. Similar things happen like this when I'm in school too but why am I always excluded and outcasted? This always happens to me and it's making me hate life and school. I get so angry and sad when this happens and I really want to escape this life. Why me?!?!?!? |
Posted: 05 Jul 2019 02:40 PM PDT I've never had "my own place". I've bounced around my parents, my sisters and now my boyfriends house since I graduated H.S. (13 years ago). I've always wanted my own place. I have a steady job but I never did because my boyfriend never wanted to pay rent. So, I've always hung around town with him and now that the house is being turned over to him, he really isn't going anywhere but he isn't saving, he isn't making plans to get loans, he isn't doing much to make it nicer. It needs tons of work and even though we're not married I feel obligated to do some major renovations for as long as they've let me stay there rent free. I've paid all their other bills and buy food and do chores but rent is rent. What should I do? We are coming up on 14 years together... we've had our ups and downs but that's in the past. We put each other first now more than ever but I've always wanted more for myself. We are so different in so many ways. I feel I have to approach everything w/him with caution. He reacts before thinking, he doesn't do much other than the lawn every so often... He has tried to fix things in the house but ends up making it worse but doesn't ask for professional help. If yall could see pictures of the house, you would understand. I don't know much longer I could live this way. |
Question: Why am I the black sheep of the family? Posted: 05 Jul 2019 02:40 PM PDT I have always gotten along with my family never done anything to them. I have been excluded from family functions for the past 2 years everyone does stuff without me like I'm no longer a family member. I haven't confronted then as I don't want them thinking I'm hurt by it. What would be a logical reason for this? I've never done anything to them. I'm hurt by this and feel unlovable. |
Question: What do I do I'm scare? Posted: 05 Jul 2019 02:32 PM PDT when I was 6 years old I came to live with my aunt and uncle Ruben and Maria everything started so good months later Ruben started feeling on me some type of way I didn't like there on there 60. When Maria was busy Ruben would shower me because I was small and getting used to the new place where I was staying at I didn't meet my dad and my mom couldn't afford to have me and all my siblings. well Ruben started acting differently he would touch my legs and my chest it goes to the point where he started kissing me and stuffs I was small and Maria saw this one and all she did was hit me and blame it on me that I was turning her husband on. things continue where 2 years later he ended up rapping me I was scared and he started using that for this past years were he forces me to have sexual things with him so he doesn't lie to my mom about me i want to leave this house but they don't let me. I'm scared and I don't know what to do someone please help me |
Question: Would you make your 17 year old daughter cut her long nails? Posted: 05 Jul 2019 02:31 PM PDT |
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