Before i ask my parents "how long will i be grounded" i want to make sure its a good idea to ask. im afraid there going to say "no! why would you ask that you screwed up thats the last thing you should be worried about" the thing is i know im going to be grounded for a long *** time lol. I lied to my parents, they found out i smoke and they found out that im not a virgin. Btw im 16 about to be 17 the 20th. I just need help. should i even bother asking them how long ill be in trouble even though i know it will be for a while

My son who just turned 15 has always been mean to our 12 year old daughter. My son also loves my soon to be ex husband. My daughter has a clubbed hand and messed up thumbs, a genetic mutation. I overheard them in the living room once- they were arguing but suddenly he goes 'Whatever, you're just a freak.' As she'd heard this before, she asked why. 'Because of your freaky, ugly hands.' She then said 'Well sorry for a mutation I can't control.' She wasn't in tears, but he began to call her a freak and a mutant and an accident. She threw what she was doing onto the ground and walked to her room, and hasn't come out in hours. I haven't approached either one, but my son gave a very insincere apology (she did not accept) I want to know how to stop his constant bullying to her. She's covered in scars (as much as I love her, the scars are quite unsightly.) He just picks on her for all of it and her self esteem is in the ground. Help!

Tengo 19 y mi novio 24 y soy hija del pastor.. Anoche tuvimos ensayo de música en mi Iglesia y cuando fuimos a casa mi novio me hablo por WhatsApp y luego me pregunto si el pastor estaba enojado y que el pudo sentirlo en su corazón cuando en realidad el pastor no estaba..yo fui a el pastor y pregunto si estaba, y me dijo que Nooo tranquilamente, y luego me dijo "ahora le voy a llamar a ver que pasa", y le dije "nooooo" porque yo se que mi novio se enoja por cosas pequeñas así porque yo creo que el no quiere que yo cuenta cosas así a mis padres. Cuando ellos hablaron por el teléfono, el pastor dijo a él que no estaba enojado y hablo por 4 minutos después le dijo que descanse y colgó la llamada.. Luego, mi novio me llamo y le dije, "que pasa??" Y después me dijo"sabes lo que va a pasar, olvida todo esto que yo no voy a volver a confiar en ti y no mas y no decirte nada mejor".. Y después colgó la llamada y yo confundida y triste porque por lo menos el pastor no lo regaño o enojo con él. aveces mi novio me habla en un voz feo, no en malas palabras, nada de eso, pero la manera que me responde a ciertas cosas yo puedo escuchar su tono cuando me dice cosas la enojanza en su voz.., y aveces me regaña por ejemplo si yo hago una cosa que él no le gusta, el me dice en un tono feo "deja eso Lesly , Wow man" y me pongo mal adentro yo no entiendo ...pero un día yo pregunte por que él es así conmigo y me dijo "porque eso es mi carácter así soy yo."

They sometimes feel I am putting up something to take a jab at them, so they get mean. Like showing they just made friends with this person or something else. It started out with sister doing something absolutely mean, it was a like, to my step dad and him getting madd at the both of us, when I had nothing to do with it. They destroyed me from doing anything. I made friends with a woman, then my step dad calls me...... and my sister compliments my pet semetary cat photo, its an old photo of my passed away cat when he was a live. The flash made his eyes turn red. I was in a bad accident and almost died 20 years ago. And Have been in a bad depression for the last 6 years and am now coming around and met a woman. My dad was asking about this new woman when he called. Not like him to call me twice and then email me. Its like I have this game going on my facebook. I should ban both of them, but they are heads of family. I'm the well liked one in the family, but my sister used me to take over relationships.

I just recently graduated high school and I have nothing to do this summer as of now. I usually hanged out with my twin brother but he moved to a different state today. I don't have my driver's license but I am going to driving school at the end of this month (June). I have very mild Asperger's and don't that many friends besides my twin brother's friends who I don't usually hang out with. I would like to do volunteer work or do something to make new friends but I rather do this on the weekend. As of now, I am not looking for a job until I have my license and a car. I live in the Birmingham, AL area. If anyone there knows what I could do this summer please email me ryanmanthy@yahoo.com

I'm in 26 and never had a gf or been in a relationship before. But ive never felt lonely or wanted a reltaionship. Not being in a relationship makes life easier and is less responsiblity. People in the past have to told me I'm going to be lonely if I don't get a gf, but I don't really care about others on emotional or intimate levels. Ive never felt lonely and I don't feel lonely right now. They say lonlines can lead to health problems but how is that possible if you never feel lonely or think about it. The only thing I care about is being successful in life, I don't need companionship or a partner in order to be successful in life.

Supposedly, if the man in Q doesn't seem to be interested in having any relationship.

I know there's a bunch of stuff online for talking to your crush, but I want to know how to talk to regular girls that you like but don't love. I just get nervous around most of them because I'm not used to them at all and therefore don't know what effect anything will have.

First band: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZfibfP_ktSI Second band https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JzH_B_n-11s Thanks!

It kills me that he's married because I'm completely in love with him, I've never felt this way about anyone else except for my ex-fiance 2 years ago. This man is literally double my age, has two kids, and loves his wife, he speaks so highly of her. But at the same time, he is so nurturing and affectionate towards me. He holds me as we sleep, kisses my forehead always, stares really deep into my eyes, pulls me closer to him, tells me I'm a wonderful person, and our conversations are so deep and intimate. We talk about our losses, family, childhood memories, dreams, aspirations, lessons learned... he's very communicative with his feelings as well, he's been honest with me from the start. But he's not honest with his wife, she has no idea about us. He sends me "missing you," and "thinking of you," texts when we're not together. He even told me that I'm the only reason he looks forward to coming to work and hasn't left yet (he's in a high role at the company but has been really stressed with work lately). I don't know what to make of this, he tells me that eventually it will have to end but if the situation was different, he could spend the rest of his life with me. I know he cares about me, but I wish we could be together.

Hola, esta mañana he probado a llamar a un amigo y se ha cerrado el skype. Más tarde, me ha llamado él y al aceptar la llamada ha pasado lo mismo. Hace poco he actualizado el skype y antes no pasaba esto. Doy 5 estrellas

Since she has found out she's pregnant, she won't take care of my baby. I have to work everyday and the babysitter charges me around $150 a week or 25-30 a day. We told each other that when we both found a job that we would take care of each other's kids free as a favor. But she never left her kids to me because she worked in the daytime for four hours and her grandmother would take care of them. On her days off she would take care of mine. But about two weeks ago she found out she's pregnant again (she has two already) and she won't take care of him and I can't afford to be paying a lot. I got paid more than she did but she left the job for personal reasons that I can't say here. She is currently 9 weeks along and says that she can't carry my son. My baby isn't bad like her kids that run around like stupid monkeys everywhere and leave toys out. He is very calm but always wants to be in arms. He is a very calm 13 month old. He can't crawl or walk yet but I told my sister in law that it's not a problem because at least he isn't too heavy for her. He is 27 pounds and she says that he's too heavy that her OBGYN said ONLY 20 pounds. Hm? I'm guessing she's lazy. I told her she doesn't have to take care of him of she doesn't want to but she claims that she loves him? I don't know what to do? And my mother in law works too.

I have the worst luck. In fact I'm still a Virgin and I'll be turning 23 in two weeks. I've had maybe 3 boyfriends my entire life... I don't think I'm hideous looking but I'm not the prettiest. Anyone ever go through this? Advice?

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One coworker is kind of rude to me. I really do not want to hang out with people that are rude to me during the day. I do not want to hurt anyone's feelings though. I just really do not feel comfortable going. Any suggestions or ideas?

I'm 15 and dating a guy from the grade below (but he's also 15) and I mainly see him outside of school and that's how we met, but when we're in school he sometimes comes up to me and talks to me and I'm scared everyone in my grade will bully me and laugh at me for having a boyfriend and him being in the grade below me! They don't know we're the same age because I'm the youngest in my grade and I know they're say all sorts of horrible stuff. I'm not popular and used to get picked on really badly and I've only just started to get left alone.

I'm 17 and I have had sex with currently 6 people. They all know about and don't care because they just want to have sex with me that much. I think it is because I have a 10 inch penis. On Monday, I have sex with my neighbor(Makayla), who is 16. On Tuesday, I have sex with my youngest step cousin(Anna), who is 13. On Wednesday, I have sex with my middle step cousin(Sarah), who is 14. On Thursday, I have sex with oldest step cousin(Nicole), who is 16. On Friday, I have sex with my stepsister(Taylor), who is 15. On Saturday, I have sex with my other neighbor(Jessica), who is 14. On Sunday I have no sex so i can rest my penis and go to church.

When should we ask girls parent about their decision? I am India male under the process for an arranged marriage.we have visited girls home and after that invited girls family.after one month they visited ours. Now it s time to ask them about the decision.we are interested in this proposal. How much time should be given before asking their final decision?(time after they visited us)

2 years ago I fell deeply for one of my college professors. Now Im at another college and I cant stop thinking about one of my professors. I m obsessed with him. He s not very attractive but he s so sweet, I love him. Why does this keep happening?

What happens if I say this to: a) the guy who loves me the same way? b) the guy who is not attracted to me? c) the guy who is a dude (most likely)?

I met her daughter yesterday and she's a handful to say the least, she fits a lot of the symptoms of adhd: hyperactive, impulsive, doesn't follow instructions and doesn't listen. At the same time my ex has no empathy and lets her do what she wants then threatens her with violence(headbutting?) if she goes too far. I had people looking at me the whole time we were out thinking I was the dad and I should do something. I showed her daugher some empathy and she got attatched very quickly and tried to leave with me. Her mom had to chase her next to the road leaving her newborn. Would it be too much for me to tell her?

So I had a crush on a teacher in middle school, the story takes forever to tell. In short I believe he had feelings for me that he did not act on. He would always treat me in a way I have not been treated since then, he would get jealous, he did not want to be alone with me, winked at me, try to get my attention etc. I am 20 now and looking back at it more logically and by asking friends he was a bit into me I believe. With my teenage angst, mom found out,I gave her number so she could call him. She did but obviously he would not want to admit knowing me or knowing what the situation was ( I get him now). I set years into him, saw him a few time, he did know me. Once sibling was in his school he found out through his own that i now was conncted to the school. He ignored me however, this was with my sibling a few days ago I went back for other reasons. At first he acted as if to not know my name, guessing a similar last name. (his way of saying it was obviously hestitated) Later I tried to get to talk to him alone, he agreed. He kept sending me to diffeerent areas though. once i got to one he arrived later. as i waited someone knocked . he asked *my name* can you get that..i did ..he said thanks *my name*. He fluidly said my name Finally got to talk to him but next to other teacher so instead I honestly said somethings I appreciated from having been in his class. i made it a point to say how he might not remember me. the whole time he (we were walking) he kept look at the floor as if in thought.. and when other teache remarked on wat i said he managed to say he was "just so emtional" What does that mean, his body language and what he said? he was to contnue walking and i would leave with teacher. but i ditched teach for a sec to get him alone. i caught to him and said"hey so i am sorry for anything my mom mighht have said" and he was liekoh no its ok/alright..then i said "so we're ok/good/alright then?" and he responded the same way. I actually brought up the situation he knew it.What i said at the end, how can that be taken? Friend says it sounds as i we have something maybe not established but there was a consensus. I realize its dumb, its been about 7 years since I met him. this still bugs me. I am not obsessed, this actually helped me. I just need insight on his body language and statements made

I have a crush and he's been a casual accuantince since eighth grade. We recently just graduated and the day of graduation I asked for his number. i want to get to know him better because we're going to the same university and it would be cool to be together and get to know each other so much more. Btw I really want to kiss this boy.

I am 25; I work 55 hours a week and still need to finish my last year of college (surgical assisting). My life has had alot of fun and alot of saddness. I have traveled to many countries for months at a time for fun and been in two serious relationships but, I had to leave school because I got very sick with a blood illness and ended up bed ridden for almost 2 years.. I could not walk or talk or move my eyes. I have recovered and am without disability...I have not dated in 2.5 years, have never felt like I would be a good mother, and have kind of fallen out of going to church which is where I used to feel purpose. I still feel spiritual and amazed by nature/animals/history but not inclined to delve into a specific religion. I live in a new city with my dad and don't really know anyone outside of work (6-8 people). I wonder if I will always be alone. I don't know if I want to even date or get married because I don't know if I would want to be around some more than like an hour a day or if I could make someone happy. I don't know if I want a physical relationship or even to go to church which I regularly did through high school and the first two years of college. (I will finish this post on a comment below) p.s. here is a picture of me I took leaving work today. https://flic.kr/p/HLwHvj

before you read this, you should know that i turned 13 in April. okay, my mom has a male friend in his 20s or 30s & he comes over and sometimes stays the night to help out around the house, my mother pays him in return & i never really did feel comfortable around him. i didn't know why exactly, but because of other problems in my past i don't feel very comfortable about any new people so i didn't bring it up to anybody. he continued coming over & at one point i had lost my phone & he was the only person around. I asked him if i could borrow his phone to call mine(for those of you who don't know when you call somebody with your phone it saves the number in a 'recents' section)He saved my number & began texting me on it, I was not comfortable with this at all, he asked me casual questions, like "how are you today?" but also asked me questions like "who are you with?" & "what are you doing?" both could be considered casual but something still didn't sit right with the situation, maybe the fact that he would text me at strange times during the night. he also asked for my instagram username & after i said no he continued to ask me until i gave it to him, when i did he texted me on both instagram & directly every day until i responded. theres more to this but i couldnt fit it so im going to add it in the updates. I always gave short answers to the questions he asked me & he talked to me about his dates & one night texted me about how he wants to die because a girl stood him up & i didn't know how to deal with that. though, he said i helped him. he has bought me gifts, stuffed animals, drawn me pictures, but the thing that makes me the most uncomfortable is the next time he came over i was alone with him in the kitchen finishing up the dishes. he asked, "are you ticklish?" i answered no even though i am. i just don't like being tickled. he then tickled my stomach & i laughed but i was extremely uncomfortable. he then said "now you tickle me." and i hesitantly reached out and tickled him and quickly pulled away. a situation i never would imagine myself in. he is at the very least 15 years older than me. he laughed. and then tickled me again, i felt like i had to pretend everything was fine. what was i supposed to say? i finished the dishes and quickly went into my room and ignored him as he talked to me while i was walking away. everything went normally after that. then he came over again, and talked to me like normal, tickled me when i walked by, like he thought it was a thing we do now. recently, he came over and did the same but i couldnt walk by him once without him reaching out and touching me, like.. just poking me. he never does it when my mom is around so he obviously knows its strange. i told my mom i was uncomfortable with him but didn't tell her about the gifts and the tickling. i know its not a big deal but i dont know what to do, i hate the thought of anybody tickling me now, it just reminds me of how uncomfortable i feel when he's around and it scares me. what do i do? i dont want to be around him anymore. i already blocked his number and account a long time ago.

I dont really see D a lot but I love them and they love me. I grew up with him in away. They just too people they were gay and some of my family didn't approve of it but supported them. I was ok with it and I don't see it as a problem. It doesn't change our relationship and they aren't any different from before. There dog died and well I havent seen them cry they told me about there dead dog and they frownd. We hugged and I rubbed there back and they did the same to me.

Ive been with my kids father for 8 yrs we have 3 kids together (im expecting 3rd baby now) hes my first everything... there has been several times he has stepped out our relationship.. some things i know about and some things he hasnt come clean about but i know it has happened and thats what hurts the most bc i give him all of me and i feel like he take advantage of that. While i was 6 months pregnant with our daughter i went and got a pap. and the results were stating that i had an std. I knew it was all him bc he was the only one i had ever been with so he had no choice but to come clean about that. he said he received oral sex from some random chick but it happened months before i was preg. (so he say) that was 2 yrs ago so long story short... 2015 we were having major problems and were barely on speaking terms i became vulnerable and had sex with someone else for the first time ever in oct. but i was already pregnant by my kids father and didnt know it. we ended up getting back on good terms.. i just got another pap a month ago and found i have hpv i knew then i had to get it from the other guy the doc said itll go away on its on by that time my bd already have it (im terrified) he came to me 2 days ago saying he have a discharge. so i told on myself and now he thinks im nasty and he will never trust me off of ONE BIG mistake :( but he has done the same to me and other damages he has caused and hes holding this one thing against me he said he cant forgive me why? why cant he find it in his heart to forgive me like i forgave him?

They dont want to play guitars, draw and do these fun things. They just watch tv all they and lay down..

I have a girlfriend who is transgender, I have known her since middle school but we weren't friends, and started dating her on senior year of high school after she transitioned, I wasn't expecting to date her in the beginning, but I randomly grew more attraction to her new self. I know that my parents won't approve of my relationship because they don't like interracial relationships she is white latina and I am east asian, they are also transphobic and sees her as a man. When they found out I was in interracial relationship and my partner is mtf, they are upset keep asking me questions like when did I became gay, why am i hiding her from them and etc, although I'm heterosexual, and I'm not ashamed of her at all. I'm not going to leave her just because my parents have their own point of view. How do I talk to my parents about this?

how much was taxable income did that result in per month? Thanks

I'm renting my house and my neighbor called my landlord and told him that my dog is alway jumping the fence to her yard. She put up the big ugly boards and it looks like the Mexican border! My dog has a kennel so this is obviously not true. She is cheating on her husband. Every day this guy comes when her husband is at work....they always make out outside. Could she have done this so we don't tell her husband? Not that I am it none of my business but I hate her lies!

When we were about to move out, the landlord brought in potential future tenants to look around. I was trying to be nice as they walked through the house that still had our furniture and I kind of felt awkward so I wanted to break the ice and asked one of them if they are from the area and if her husband works at the same organization as mine (that's basically the only major employer in town) but she coldly stated she has no husband. I said sorry and they left a few mins later. Was I being rude? It's not like I was trying to get at something, it was just an awkward situation. She had her 3 daughters with her so I assumed she has a spouse or partner or something. I guess you never know these days. I mean if I had 3 kids with no partner, I would be pretty depressed but maybe that's just me. Yeah, I agree. I didn't mean to be nosy but it's weird when you have strangers coming into your place while you're still living there and they look around in your bathrooms and walk-in closets and stuff. I was just trying for a conversation because I thought that's kind of a weird situation that I got put into. I no longer want to sign with a landlord that makes it possible for tenants to look before move-out.