Family: Question: How do I convince my mom to get me diagnosed for social anxiety?

Question: How do I convince my mom to get me diagnosed for social anxiety?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 01:00 PM PDT

Hi, I feel like I have social anxiety. My mom thinks it's just a label and an excuse. She won't take me to get properly diagnosed for that reason exactly. She blames herself for letting me watch movies about people with mental illnesses , but I was only watching them to make sure this isn't something I made up. My dad thinks I'm lying for attention. I don't know how to handle this.

Question: What should I do.?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 12:42 PM PDT

6 months ago due to family issues I had to go live with my grandparents. My mom still lives with my step-dad. I can't live with her because of my step-dad is a mean person. But I don't like living with my grandparents they are nice people but I just call this place "home". I would like to go live with my mom. But my mom is at an all-time low. My mom doesn't have a lot of money. I know she can get a good job because she just got her thing she needed for her job. I want to tell her or my grandparents that I want to go live with her without my step-dad. All my family knows that my step-dad is a bad person. And we all think my mom would be better off without him but for some reason she won't him. What should I do? Should I tell my mom, grandparents. I just don't want to hurt my grandparents feelings that I don't like it here. Please help me.

Question: My sister caught me watching porn pls help!!?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 12:35 PM PDT

So i was at home (im 15 btw) i thought no one was at home, and i got horny so i decided to watch some porn, but my sister was at home, so i was upstairs doing my thing suddenly She barged through the door without even knocking in my room and she saw me watching it she screamed,cried freaked out it was like she saw someone got murdered so my parents came and punished me took my laptop away. and they wont give it back what should i tell them please help?

Question: My parents have no respect for me?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 12:15 PM PDT

I m a good kid. I get good grades and I don t get in trouble. But, my parents fight a lot and neglect me. They aren t very supportive. They never go to important events at school or acknoledge my rewards. I usually don t get rewarded anyways. But to the point. They are alcoholics and bad smokers. In the car, we don t have back windows so when they smoke, all of it goes right back to me. They get drunk almost every night which limits the activities we do (not that we do anything anyways). They aren t fit, so we can t walk the dog together, can t play a game of baseball, nothing. They re lazy bums that work all day and drink all night. On the weekends they sleep because they claim they have no energy because of work. Also sex. 10 minutes after I "go to sleep" they ll be getting it on. My room is right next to theirs so it s loud. Usually I ignore it but the one time I confront them about it, they get all mad and start yelling. It really sucks. I don t have any siblings that live with me, so I m alone. I usually get yelled at when I confront them about anything. Btw I m only 13...

Question: Why does my sister hate my gf?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 12:06 PM PDT

My sister is 23 or 22 idk, im 14 and my gf is 13. the problem is whenever my gf comes to my house to play with me or watch like movies in my room and chill, my sister open the door and she be like ''no hes not at home'', or ''he is sick''. and when she is at my home my sister does really mean to her. idk what the problem here is but my sister doesnt like whenever i bring girls to the house. no if i say why u doing that shes like getting angry n stuff

Question: Should I wait to finish college and then move out or move out as soon as I can?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 12:02 PM PDT

I'm currently on summer vacation but will be returning back to college in the fall. I feel like I need to move out as soon as I can because my mom is a ****** and complainer and sometimes controlling then it turns into petty arguments. It was morning and I made myself something to eat, my brother wanted to be at his friend's house at a certain time so I put the pan in the sink to let it soak and then I had a couple of quick errands to run and told her I'll be back. She calls me yelling at me why didn't I wash the pan before I left and I said because I wanted to get my brother to his friends house she started yelling at me more and I hung up on her since I was getting ready to drive and then when I returned to the house she's arguing with me and then my boyfriend tries to tell her to calm down and she threatened to punch him and it's a mess. She talks about my older sister to me and then talks about me to my sister and talks about my brother basically she just talks about everybody behind their backs and then demands respect from people. She always has me on edge because I'm afraid she might nag and yell at me for not doing anything right and she tells me my boyfriend has me on edge not her. She twists stuff around when it's her that doesn't like to come to agreements and negotiations and it mentally drains me when she starts nagging at every little thing

Question: WHY was my 7 year old cousin copying me and insulting me?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 11:49 AM PDT

I was 13 or 14 at that time, and all the kids in neighborhood doesn't give a **** about me. Sure they talk to me and give me hugs, but my cousin seems out of whack. She spies at me, stalks me, then she was copying me and talking about me for like a week. My hairstyle, how I spoke. I one time said Eat a bit more becuz I thought she would get hungry later but she ate until she looked like she was pregnant. Then she called me fat 20-30 times a day and insulted me. She doesn't have an older sister. Older bro, yes.

Question: I cant stop lying to my parents?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 11:41 AM PDT

I'm 16 about to be 17 in a few days.. Ive been lying to my parents ever since ive been 14.. I lie about stupid things such as where im going, grades, what ill be doing tonight. Its got to a point where they dont trust me anymore and they have taken my phone away from me. They were going to buy me a car but i ****** it up... I try to tell the truth but its like in my mind i automatically lie to them. I dont know how to stop it i want to stop so bad!!! help

Question: I lost my daddy to a motorcycle crash..?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 11:19 AM PDT

Im a 17 year old female,I witnessed my dad crash at age 4 his head came of was horrible. Please dont judge me on what your about to read... well everytime im bathing, getting dressed ,undressed, doing anything i imagine a man figure helping me (not sexual) ive just never had a daddy figure or been around guys.. i want my dad i want a dad. :( why do i do this? Even sometimes my boyfriend i act like hes my dad if hes helping me do something.. its crazy :,( anyone feel like this?

Question: My sister and her daughter are settled and happy living with me. Should I accept it's now a permanent arrangement?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 11:19 AM PDT

I was living on my own up until last October but my sister had financial and emotional problems and needed somewhere to stay. I allowed my sister and her 4 year old daughter to stay because we've always been close and we're family. She insisted that she would soon start looking for her own place, but that soon cooled. She is paying rent and taking care of the house, which is great. However, I don't feel she is in a position to move and I don't think she wants to for a while yet. Should I just enjoy having my family with me?

Question: Should I really listen to what some random person On the Internet Says on how I feel and what my emotions are?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 11:17 AM PDT

Especially if they can't hear my voice or see my face and theyre going only by words, plus not to mention they treat everything I say as if I can't Say it calmly, should I listen to them? Or just ignore it as an assumption

Question: How to black mail my sister?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 11:15 AM PDT

My sister is one year older than me and she is always trying to get me in trouble with my parents, whenever something happens she goes right away and makes sure my parents make a big deal out of it. I just ignore her and when she does something wrong I just ignore it, and don't go and tell me parents. That's not only it she always bugs me and annoys me and makes fun of me for no reason. We are both Egyptians living in the US. Our parents are against teens drinking and all that stuff, and they were really upset to find that my cousin drinks, who was one of my sisters close friends. To get to the point today I saw a picture of her close friends from Egypt in a bar on Instagram. I thought about telling my parents, but I thought I might try and black mail her and have her treat me nicely, and stop telling my parents about everything, how should I do it any information will be helpful.

Question: How to make the neighbors jealous?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 10:57 AM PDT

My neighbors are really shitty! They're always trying to get us jealous. My grouchy old neighbor is always wetting out yard and when my mom sees him she'll be like "can you wet the whole yard not only that spot thank you" today they're rented a bouncy castle and they're trying to get our attention to get us jealous and like we don't care if you have a jumper. When me and my cousins play in the street or when we play with water balloons they're always staring it's annoying! I just wanna know what are some ways to make them jealous or to annoy them?

Question: How to keep my instagram account safe! PLEASE HURRY!?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 10:47 AM PDT

So I got tagged in this thing called instagram ugly list. I got tagged by a friend so I went to the website and I actually logged in. Everyone is saying if u log in it will hack you. I wish I didn't log in! Am I going to get hacked now? I changed my password, I'm really scarred and confused about it! Help!

Question: My friend. Got. In argument?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 10:44 AM PDT

So. We were. Riding. Bikes. So he stop th bike. Half way. I went. Further. I guess. He got. Augment so I guess the. Women said. Rude. Said oh. Why u can't. Ride. On the street so he went. Back. And. Said it a free country and. He stopped. Halfway she. Was. Just. Being. Rude he got mad and he went Off so her boyfriend. Got involved and. Tried. To fight and attempted To steal. His bike he had call. The cops in defence he didn't know. Were the bike. Lane ended I came back. In time they left. So when. He went. To friends. And. Family. They said that. He was. More wrong but it takes. Two to start a augment it fair. 3 was wrong not. To blame. Him

Question: Why is it OK for parents to be sarcastic bit they hate it when kids do it back to them?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 10:38 AM PDT

Question: Is my mom crazy?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 10:37 AM PDT

All she does is yell. She doesn't yell in public. She yells at me at least 5 times a day and yells at my other family members more. She doesn't even realize she's yelling. Idk how. I asked her why she yells so much nd she yelled, "what are you talking about. I don't yell. Shut up.". I said, "But you are right now.". She yelled, "no I'm not. Leave me alone.". She just yells and complains, but doesn't realize that's all she does

Question: Can my parents control every aspect of my life at 18?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 10:11 AM PDT

My mom is constantly on my *** about everything I do. She complains that I never help around the house yet when I do, she calls me a lazy **** that never does anything. She also says that if I don't have a job in two days, I will be forced to go to a camp for the summer and I won't be allowed to see my friends or my boyfriend. She lets my 15 year old brother do everything he wants from smoking to going wherever he pleases. I'm the eldest yet I'm treated like ****. She allows my brother to boss me around and occassionally he hits me. She complains about me to everyone she talks to as well. My family has basically abandoned me and all her friends think I'm a failure or disappointment. I have depression and anxiety issues along with ADD. Some of the things she has said to me or has allowed others to say to me hurts more than it should and I have struggled with self-harm and suicide. She calls me an attention whore and allows my family to call me a slut or ***** if I don't do everything they ask me. What can I do?

Question: Please help me?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 09:51 AM PDT

My parents always have to blame me for everything. My mom always hits me with objects and yells at me non stop and I'm sick of hearing their voices playing through my head ice tried killing myself so many times but I just can't I have two sisters that I love dearly but I think that they're better off without me in their lives and my parents hate me I've never seen such hate in anyone it's always me that have to pick on my heart hurts and my head hurts I want to run away I want to die I don't know what to do I can't take it anymore they're been hurting me since I was a child and they'd threaten me a lot I don't want to get them introuble because I know that they will hate me :'( please help me

Question: My aunt is stingy and has low self esteem, but why doesnt she try to improve herself?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 09:46 AM PDT

She is insecure about her looks, & her husband makes 120,000 dollars a year. She eats cheap food, and feeds her children little, but why is it if she is unhappy with herself and her marriage (my uncle and aunt fight a lot), why doesnt she use the $ to give herself a makeover and go too marriage counseling, but instead she just envies women around her & bring people around her down?

Question: Does it right to block my parent in social media?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 09:46 AM PDT

I dont why but i find it very difficult and stress when i upload my picture in instagram which my my mother saw it bcs she follow me. Well she will judge the picture what i post i mean it just my face, i dont post something lunatic so is it right to blocked her? please i need advice im so stress with her judgemental in front of me.

Question: Annoying dad won't let me use the bthrm in peace?!?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 09:42 AM PDT

I live in a 'big house' that has FOUR bathrooms in it. One is rented in the basement by tenants, so that leaves three for the family - just two parents, a sibling, and I. I'm a growing 19 year old female. WHENEVER I enter the bathroom, it's just then that my disgusting dad seems to want to enter. Without even seeing that the light is obviously turned on from the bottom of the door, he tries to turn the knob. thank GOD the lock has never given out. Then he asked me when I'll be over - well, it was my period, I had entered the bthrm just 1 min before, and I needed a good 15-20 mins. so i just said '10 mins' and he was shocked - '10 MINS?!' like, really? I'm 19, I'm a girl, why the eff are you pestering me while I'm *****ing in the toilet? There are TWO OTHER bthrms in the house - why is he harassing me? So my question, do you face a similar dilemma? This is irritating me a lot, it's adding to my anxiety, I just feel captured and hounded. How do I deal with this daily trash? Do YOU also have a dumb shi* person in your house who won't let you use the bthrm in peace (so long as you're not hogging it for an hr) despite having MANY washrooms? or do you live in a small house where this is a serious issue? please help :(

Question: My mom is too controlling,how can I get her to lighten up and giving me more freedom?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 09:41 AM PDT

So I'm 19 years old and working and pay for majority of my own personal expenses. My mom literally treats me like a baby. I have a curfew of 12 and I'm not allowed to do anything. She won't even let me have an energy drink and gets mad when I drink coffee because it's "bad for me". In fact last night she dumped the energy drink I bought for myself with my own money down the drain. WTF?! I'm a really good kid,this is silly. Am I wrong or am I right? I'm planning on moving out in the next 6 months anyway but I still think it's an important conversation to have with her.

Question: How do I approach my sister about her eating problem?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 09:31 AM PDT

Hey guys. For a few months now my sister has had a terrible eating problem. So bad that she's lost over 30 lbs and doesn't look healthy. Right now me, my mom, and my sister are on a three week trip in Chicago, visiting family. We just got here and things aren't looking the greatest. My sister, let's call her Alice, hasn't eaten for over a day now. Besides one apple. As soon as we got to my uncle's house, Alice refused to eat anything. She went immediately to her room and hasn't come out since. My mom went to go try and talk to her and convince her to eat something. Alice straight up yelled, "Get the **** out of my room"!......Then my mom said, "You know if you don't eat anything like this you're going to die...", then my sister screamed, "GOOD, I WANT TO DIE!!!" The whole family heard. Now, I'm a very sensitive guy. I've been worrying about my sister ever since she has had this problem. What she said today has really freaked me out and I'm crying right now and haven't cried in months :( I love my sister so much, and I don't want this illness to get any worse. This illness has made her almost insane. What should I go tell her at the moment? I really, really need to help her and I don't know what to say. :( Thanks guys, I appreciate it so much, and God Bless

Question: I can't accept the fact that my mom is marrying a man who is not my father. Please help?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 09:30 AM PDT

I'm a 16 years old girl. My parents fell in love and started a relationship when they were still teenagers, and they had me when they were in their early 20s. Of course my birth didn't help. TBy that time they were going in different directions with their lives, they had different points of view and they broke up shortly after I turned 6. It was very hard at first, but things became easier with time. Two years after the break up, my mom started dating an old friend from school. By the time I was ten, they had a baby together and he moved in with us. I've always had mixed feelings towards this guy. He's just too different from me, we like different things and have horribly different personalities. Moreover, I am fiercely loyal to my dad, and I never fully accepted the idea that this other guy was around me and my mom all the time. I know it's irrational, but I can't help but feel like I would somehow betray my dad by truly accepting him. At the same time, I can honestly see that this guy treats my mom very well, they are actually a good match, and after all he IS my little brother's dad, and I love my little brother to bits. It makes me sad that my mother is marrying someone who is not my father, and I feel like they are making things permanent without even asking me what I think about it. At the same time I feel selfish, maybe I should just shut up and be happy for my mom. But I don't know how to do that! Are my feelings really so wrong? What can I do? Please help...

Question: How to deal with a difficult parent(s) about getting married?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 08:58 AM PDT

My fiance and I are 19 and we want to get married. We tried talking to his parents before about getting married, but they wouldn t even listen and basically attacked us (I won t dwell on that). Some reasons why shes against it is she got married at a young age and has been divorced from him and married again. Now she thinks young marriage is ruined for everyone. Then she was pretty irrational saying that I treated him poorly, but never had an issue like that before this... I was thinking that s like a defense mechanism to what s going on and trying to hurt him and I. And she also says we don t have things figured out, but we did take the time to really plan all aspects of it like finances/budget, financial aid for college, & reasons why we want to get married young and how to reduce arguments/deal with them... but she didn t even listen to it. If we did speak a little about it, we were wrong, etc. We were pressured into saying that we wouldn t get married this year, but we both can t stop thinking about it! So we secretly put it back on and we have prepared for it a lot more! To make sure we can prove it and we re going to try to make her listen for sure. We have all our ducks in a row and the plan is pretty perfect, we are worried she ll still be irrational. Can you please give some advice to help deal with this situation? And I know "just go off and get married since we are adults now" but we would both like to try and make another effort to explain that it ll be okay.

Question: Whats should I do?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 08:57 AM PDT

My brother who is 11 keeps distracting me and he keeps fighting with me. I can't even live peacefully for even just a second because he's always in my head and I don't know what to do about and I don't wanna talk about this to people because I don't like people.

Question: Why did my mom not give me any money when I went to mall madness when I was a girl scout?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 08:55 AM PDT

I was going through a rebellious phase when I was in fifth grade one day I was late to school and I got annoyed at my teacher and I rolled my eyes and plus the same day my teacher found out I cheated on my test and he cal l ed my mom at work and my dad took away my ads and music which was hell because I love music and when mall madness came up my mom let me go but she didn't give me even a penny I had to watch my friends buy new clothes, jewelry, video games, and etc. My mom still bought me something to eat and drink and that night was so hard to get through because I was so close to crying. I cried the next day when nobody was home any ideas why she did that

Question: Do you really think that I should do this ?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 08:51 AM PDT

Do you really think that I should give up my whole weekend from hanging out with my friends to helping my mother clean up our house and throw a lot of things away ?

Question: Supernatural white powder?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 08:08 AM PDT

Hello, about days ago.. I saw dad reaching to a cupboard grabbing a jar full of powder, he poured some contents on the plate, grabbed a straw and stick it up his nose only to sniff the powder contents through the nostrils by straw. I thought he was doing some drugs, so i thought i should check it out, i did.. i held the jar onto my face, twist the lid and sniff some of it, i tried to recognize the smell so i could google it later but, i ended up getting nausea and as I run to the sink to grab a cup of water, the water started to swirl faster and faster the more i stare at it. I dropped the glass and i start to grow butterfly wings on my back, it hurts as hell when it grew but it allows me to fly all over the place. Also everything start to turn pink and rainbows start to appear swirling on my eyes. I had so much fun, i didn't know why. But the moment the power kicked out, I felt terrified. Then, the only possible conclusion hits me: My dad have a supernatural powder. I remember him being an assistant chemist on a public laboratory and he could've probably used his genius to make it. Help, what should i do? Did my dad made contract with the devil? God, bless us.

Question: I feel really numb?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 07:57 AM PDT

I feel really numb. I also feel bad for not being there, if I were still driving I may have shown up because then I could have left when I wanted to.I am suppose to be at a funeral today. I won't be going. I hate them and this is my way of dealing with it. I went to my moms and other relatives. I didn't attend this older brothers or the one before. I have to accept their deaths on my terms. How do you guy's deal with death? I am suppose to be at a funeral today. I won't be going. I hate them and this is my way of dealing with it. I went to my moms and other relatives. I didn't attend this older brothers or the one before. I have to accept their deaths on my terms. How do you guy's deal with death?

Question: How to politely tell someone that they are not invited to a special event?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 07:55 AM PDT

My school has this special pre-graduation ceremony, and every student can only invite two others, plus a special person to partner with to give me my cap and gown. I chose my dad as my special guest because he's done so much, lived a very difficult life, and working endless hours to support his two kids by himself for years. I want to show him that it paid off. As for the tickets, one is saved for my brother as we are close and have been through everything together. I've always wanted a younger sibling, and since I got one, valued having him (he's my parents' 2nd kid). My stepmother knows about the ceremony. I have one ticket left. It doesn't seem like an issue until I recall her mark on my life. One, she keeps her daughters away from me; I rarely see them, even though they are nice girls.She gets them everything, will keep my brother and I alone at home and take her girls shopping. took me shopping with them once only to ignore me. Along with other things, she has hurt me and did not give me "motherly support"--to me, my dad is still my mother and father, and she made my life harder. I got accepted into a college in NYC, my top choice. Dad was elated and encouraged me, as they even gave me a big scholarship. Stepmom...not so much, didn't support any college choice. Determined to leave a poverty stricken rural town and follow my dream, I committed to the school. She hated that. Now that I graduate soon, she wants to act like we're best friends, but I didn't forget.

Question: Are my parents being fair?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 07:49 AM PDT

I'm 19 and I currently live with my parents. I work Monday to Friday between 9am and 6pm. I have two older brothers aged 21 and 24 and they still live with our parents and they both work Mondays to Fridays as well. Mum and dad don't care if my brothers spend their money on whatever they want. But when it comes to me, I am never allowed to spend money on anything. If I buy something, say such as a bag or a shirt, they force me go back to the shop I bought it from and ask for a refund. If I'm not allowed a refund, they get more angry and say "You just had to go and waste your money on something you don't even need." Are my parents being fair?

Question: Why do I hate my son?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 07:47 AM PDT

My son abandoned me for his wife and daughter. He won't talk to me anymore. I tried getting full custody of his daughter but that was dismissed. What do I do. I hate them so much for leaving me. What do I do? Pearl L. You're the one who suggested to take his daughter from him by using the cops. I find you answering this highly hypocritical. https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20160522181304AAkIF88 BTW. It didn't work. Thanks.

Question: Am I wrong to not want to keep helping my sister?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 07:44 AM PDT

Long but please help! My mom died & left my sister & I money My sister pissed hers away, taking trips & wanting to set up a restaurant She quit her job to do so & lived off the money. The place ended up not becoming anything & got ripped off by contractors. Now she was in debt w/ nothing to show for it I would get constant calls crying she had no idea what to do. How Im selfish to not help her out She found a new place that just needed some cleaning up I gave her some $$ to do so. I really thoughtshe needed just 5K . Turned out to be a lot more I was saving it for my student loans. I quit my job to help her get it cleaned up quick (I lived/worked 2 hrs away) so my bf & I found an apartment My car ended up dying and I had moved some if what as left of the $ from stocks to get a used car. It took forever to transfer so they were able to finance it for me in the meantime. With having just opened there was no profit yet & rent was due for the place & her home. Which I had been helping pay previously for a bit She asked to borrow the money for my car until she sold her car later that week (it had a major issue with it) She then sold her car & kept the $$ saying I didn't need it BC it's financed which is a lot w/ ins. After that I left BC I needed a job making money I help out but I constantly hear how selfish I am for not being there for her / I only care about myself / how stressful & unfair it is that shes there 12hrs 7days Am I wrong to cut ties & not help out?

Question: My parents make me feel unwanted.?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 07:23 AM PDT

I m 12 and my parents divorced when I was 2 and got a stepdad when I was 4. He has anger issues and always have to be right no matter the situation which I hate. He s always calling me a little sh*t and telling me to leave the room. He has a daughter who he treats like a princess, despite she s a spoilt brat, and always gives her extra treats. I have to admit I argue a lot because of all he s put my mum through like fighting in front of all us kids. My head is all messed up and I m really antisocial. I feel like I can t trust my mum because she drinks a lot on Fridays and always goes partying and when she s not out partying she s on her computer 24/7. She doesn t really pay attention to my needs like getting me a haircut and spends it on cigarettes. My stepdad is always telling me and my mum that he s going to hit me and my brothers but hasn t done so yet. I m too shy to tell an adult and I can t tell my older sister because I don t trust her completely.

Question: How to help someone who is VERY unmotivated?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 07:10 AM PDT

My brother s 16. He failed 3/4 of he s classes this semester. He doesn't go to class and doesn't know anything about functioning in the real world. I do my best to encourage and help him but it doesn't come across to him. What do I do? I can't do that, he's very violent.

Question: How can I persuade my parents to let me stay out late at night until 2-3am?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 07:00 AM PDT

A bit of background about me so you know my situation: I m 20 years old male and I m currently going into my 3rd year of university. I m studying biomedical sciences and have a 3.9+ GPA (on a 4.0 scale). I have a full-time job for the summer at a research lab at the university. My parents have met all my friends and they absolutely love them. I don t drink alcohol, I don t smoke or do any drugs whatsoever. I ve never even had a girlfriend. The only reason I want to stay late is that a lot of the times during exam season or midterm/assignment/labs me and my friends we study until 2-3 in the morning. I go out to grab food or to a bar (just to meet new people cause I love to socialize) maybe once every 2 months and even then, only during the summer months cause I m too busy with studies and volunteering during the school year. My parents say they won t let me stay late cause they say it s dangerous out there, but I live in the safest city in Canada (when a murder happened last year, it was on the local news for 2 months as breaking news) and I go to the gym and I don t want to sound vain but I am quite physically fit. My parents are Indian in origin and moved here 6 years ago. Any help would be appreciated guys and gals!

Question: IS there any way i could like convince my "neighbors" to let me live with them?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 06:52 AM PDT

Well they live down the street so they dont know my family, one of their daughters went to my HS but just graduated this year. I go for runs a lot in my neighborhood and idk it seems chill. Its that my dad moved back in, we both hate eachother abd i cant stand living with him. Then he doesnt even let me go out, i feel so depressed here but i mean what family would let me live with that just for that reason. Im 16 also, going to be a junior and i have a job

Question: I think my step daughters are hurting my daughter?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 06:33 AM PDT

I feel terrible thinking this incase it's untrue, but here goes. I have two step daughters aged 5 and 7 who stay over every weekend. My husband and I have an 8 month old daughter together. We all get on very well, they handle everything well, there's never been jealousy or anything, they're treated all the same way. However, every time they come over something happens. She has a swinging chair and if I need to do something I'll strap her in. So I did this whilst I went to do the washing up, but when I left my step daughters stayed in the room then my daughter started crying. Not upset cry, but scared/ hurt cry. This has happened a few times. Every time they come I find scratches on my daughter that I don't think she could've done herself, sometimes they're rounded like nails as though she's been pinched. I heard my youngest step daughter get annoyed with my daughter cause she was grabbing her toys, then next thing I know I go in the room and my daughter has a scratch on her chest (she didn't have a top on) that was bleeding a teeny bit. I asked straight out if she did it, but she said no and then proceeded to say that she saw it on her this morning, which was a blatant lie because I know it wasn't there. I'm just so hurt to even think that they'd do this, I love them both to bits and we've always been close and it really gets to me. I didn't think they'd be capable of this but it just seems too suspicious. I don't know what to do! Can anyone give me any advice here.. Even if I found proof and new for sure that they were doing this, what would I do then?

Question: Why did god do this to me?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 06:30 AM PDT

Someone who really means the world to me died. His last words to me were: You really broke my heart, and was crying. I was very angry at this point that I walked away. Then the next thing I know is that the person who id give up anything for literally anything, died. That was after 1 day and I never appologized. I never got a last kiss or a last hug. Then I fund out that what he did was for my best and I shouldnt have gotten angry at him. All my life Ive been next to him and all my life Ive been supporting him, this is why when I did not his heart was broken but I was pissed. Why is it that the only time I ignored to make him feel better he dies. This is killing me every dayy. I swear I never made him cry before. This is is so toughh. I am not a bad person but what I did was really bad😭 Why dis god do this to me and I am a good person. How could I be so badd😭😭

Question: Is it wrong to ask my sister to switch rooms?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 06:26 AM PDT

So I have been living with my sister for a while now. she has always had the master bedroom and I didn't have an issue until now because I now have my boyfriend/ child's father of 6 years living with me. We just started a new lease this year, however my sister was already moved into the master bedroom before my boyfriend came to live with me. Do you think it would be wrong to ask her to switch rooms so I could get the master bedroom? It would be very convenient for me because its bigger and there is a private bathroom. Right now i'm in a small room and our clothes can barely fit in the closet. Please give me your honest feedback. Thank you

Question: Any anime tv series or movies with close brothers? and a very protective older brother ?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 06:00 AM PDT

For example night head genesis or supernatural. Very protective older brother that looks out for his younger brother. More points if the younger brother gets hurt/ill or something and older brother is worried. Doesn't have to be just 2 brothers can be more as long as its the younger brother they worry about. any thing is helpfull!! Thank you!

Question: Are my parents going through divorce?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 05:09 AM PDT

My mum, sister and I are moving to another country for education. My dad is staying where we live now cause he is earning a good amount. My dad hasn t been home the past week because apparently work is "busy". Today my dad came home for a few hours then left to his new apartment as my dad needs to size down when we leave. Are my parents going through separation or something?

Question: Should I drive a school bus with my boobs out or sould I pull my bra up?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 05:02 AM PDT

Question: I am very upset with my mom.?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 04:59 AM PDT

So. We don't have a lot of money, but we are stable. I think my mom started to become an alcholoholic because of her stupid job. She has me do a lot of things around the house, promising me that she'd pay me, but she gives me absolutely nothing when she promised. This annoys me because she'd rather buy wine than give her own child the money. She doesn't ever buy me anything that I really want. She buys clothes for me that she likes, when I have a different style. FROM THE THRIFT STORE. Also, she buys herself a smartphone, and gets me a phone that just does texting and calling. I know that some of you people would be like: get a job. or, Stop being selfish. That is not what I need to hear right now. I get told that I am. But really, she's the one that's selfish. She said that she'd give me her old computer and buy herself a new one. WHEN she has a smartphone. She gets my brother nice things. She actually pays him, therefore he can buy his own technology. OH, but I have to give up the money I had saved since Christmas to let my mom pay for food. That's ridiculous. I just want to get out of the house and become really successful. I understand that we don't have a lot of money. But seriously, she's thinking on buying herself an iPhone. I've been begging for my own iPad, or iPod touch since I was 11. I'm 16, and done with her sh*t. (My mom wants to live with me in the future. She expects me to take care of her when she's old.)

Question: I am so depressand sad right now. Help!! Thinking about commiting suicide!?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 04:27 AM PDT

I am so depressed right now because I loss alot of friends because we just move in my grandma's house and I have some friends in my old school but it's summer right now and I need to wait until June 15. My mother is in her work right now and not coming back for 1 week but she said she will came back. We are bullied by my half sister's son and even tho he is the one who are wrong, they are in his side. I am being scolded and my little sister here and they treat us here differently like we are other peoples but they treat us here so wrong. I cant describe it but I feel they physically and emotionally abuse us but they abuse us more emotionally. My mom knows this and she said it to my dad but he didnt believe on it. I dont have anyone to speak and hangout with me that makes me sad and I think sometimes I just wanted to commit suicide. My mom go home week after week but after that my life will become horrible again when she go work. My mom said we will move again to our old house but it will take 1 year more and we are here for 1 and 2 months now! I think sometimes I lost my insanity. Anyone pls help! pls! btw im in the philippines

Question: Do not want my child near MIL?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 03:37 AM PDT

Long story short, I have seen her ignore my son in front of me, but when husband comes into the room she makes this big circus around the baby. We have long since become estranged. We do not like each other and all hell broke loose the day I called her BS out in front of my husband. We have also gone to therapy and he understands we are water and oil. He still sees her on occasion, but has been asking me to take our child to see her. The therapist believes I should for husband's sake. He is oblivious to her deviousness, and while I do not think she will physically harm the child, I do not believe for second she really cares about him. One thing is to dislike me, the other is to blatantly ignore him in front of me and then putting on a show of a loving grandmother in front of her son. I do not feel that keeping him away from her is punishing her, rather a way of not allowing her to use my son and/or play with his feelings some day? What would you do?

Question: Is it wrong to avoid family gatherings?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 03:10 AM PDT

My moms side of the family is huge, and they are all extroverted and outgoing. I hate being bombarded with questions like "what have you been up to?" or "are you in school?". I always give the same sugarcoated answer- "Im working at home and will be going to college soon." I always feel ashamed when comparing myself to cousins my age or younger who have accomplished things that come so naturally to them. Whereas I have nothing to brag or talk about, my older relatives always wonder why Im single. I also have a pack of cousins around my age who are so annoying and act like typical, superficial girls who are into anything mainstream. I dont fit in with them, and feel like an outcast because we have completely different interests. My parents used to drag me to family outings, but now that Im in my twenties I finally have a choice, I just dont go anymore, which makes my parents angry. I know the family wonders why I dont go, and probably think I dislike them. Id honestly rather spend christmas eve alone getting drunk in my room.

Question: My mom stopped loving me?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 02:17 AM PDT

I ****** up. I'm making this as short as possible for people to understand. I'm 19, my dad died when I was 15, so it's me, brother, sister, my mom.. and her female partner (yes). For over a year, I've had some issues in my head, feeling as if I don't fit in with people my age in general, as if I'm more mature, and just different in thinking and viewing things. Also I blame not ever having a girlfriend on this fact, although I'm fairly good looking and tall. Thing is, I talked about it with my mom and her partner, who's a good listener, ten thousand times. They tried to give me advice, but I couldn't help but slide back into depression every time. I had my up and down moments, but the down moments were a lot more dominant and the kind of rule my life. I feel as if I'll never feel like other people my age do, and I'm incredibly sad for it. That sad even suicide has come up my mind multiple times. you wouldn't say that if you saw me, I appear as a normal, healthy guy. Now last night we were out eating and as always when these unhappy thoughts come up, I act like a douche. I blamed my mom for not being there for me, not helping me enough with my issues and stuff like that. This morning I could tell she was hurt by not speaking to me, ignoring me. I feel as if I acted my bad emotions out on the only people I cared about so that now even they gave up on me for it. Because they can't take the blame for my problems but I can't live on with them either. It's mentally torturing me..

Question: I am not a fan of reading books, but my mom forces me to and manipulates me, blackmails me. Does she have the right to do that?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 01:51 AM PDT

She blackmails me by saying that she will take away my console if I don't read a book, then she tells me that I should hang out with friends more, although I am an introvert and I hate hanging out with friends.. The only thing I like is making music and playing videogames, nothing else.. My mom is completely manipulative about my life, she never did anything like that to my older sister which got me thinking she is a sexist and she hates me for being a guy (14).. What should I do, I had the same argument a billion times, making a good point that I simply don't want to read anything unless something interests me, yet she compares me to other people like my sister "Why aren't you more like your sister?" and similar cards she plays against me.. She is simply annoying and criticizing towards me..

Question: Family problems?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 01:35 AM PDT

well idk how to start its a long story and write now that im writing this im soo angry and tempered that my hand is shaking , theres a pain in my head, i became red, im sooo sad, i wanna die i swear i wanna die, i hate my life please i dont want anyone coming here and telling me to be grateful or something cuz i ******* hate this statement and its super **** quote!, well im 16 years old girl, living with my parents and no siblings my father is am alchoholic and bothers us alotttt, my mom is in love with her country and parents and **** stuff so we came to iran and im going to an internationam school here , its my first year ( we were in dubai at first) , we came here and im suffering because im used to dubai's atomosphere and i was born there and its heaven there and now we came here to my grandmas house and my moms sis and i ******* hate my grandma, i have no peace here , my mom sometimes bothers me and tells me that "look how great is here, ur father isnt here anymore and cant bother us" well this **** is true but im suffering here in another ways, i have no room here , theres no unlimited internet that atleast i can have fun with it, iran has nothing besides these all my mom has money and can buy a house but my whore grandma doesnt let her, infront of me she says yeah ok buy but i know she doesnt want us to go and is a ***** and wants us to suffer , and besides this alll i even have problem with my OWWNN mom! she does anything that her mom says!

Question: I knew my gf is the jealous type but didnt know she was jealous of people in cartoons.?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 12:56 AM PDT

Ohkay so i watch a load of anime. Yes they got big melons ob their chest and a bubble booty. I dont talk about it thou. I mean its cool and all but im more focus on the story of the anime then just watching **** and butt that are pixels lol. Well my gf came in the room and got all mad because if you know rosario vampire where kuramu gets on top on tskume and her juggs kind of hang out well she walked in on that part and told me why i was watching porn. I told her that i wasnt and to continue watching it because its just a show. Well she kicked the tv down and took my baseball bat and wreck my tv my god damn tv. Part of me wanted to hit her but i didnt i called her b**** broke up with her but now she going psycho. Its my house she dosent even have a job and she mad that im breaking up with her throwing dishes at me. While i walked to get my phone in my room she toss it out the window where theres a big pond so cant call police. Bad thing is i live out in the country so no neighbors. If you wondering how am i online irs because i have a laptop that my grandma gave to me years ago pretty old. Thank god for wifi. Couldnt watch my animes without it. Right now shes calling her mom arguing with her because her mom wont get her. She is a mess. Anyways how can i call the police if my phone is in the big pond which is deep by the way not sure exactly it might have snakes. Any suggestions. Wish i can msg police over the internet . sigh

Question: How do I make my parents stand up for me instead of my younger brother?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 12:44 AM PDT

I live with my dad and his girlfriend. I have two half-brothers too. The younger one just turned 7. I'm 16. The younger one keeps blaming for things he did and my parents always believe him. He even hits me and I can't stop him because then he'd say I hit him. My parents always stand up for him. How do I make them see the thruth?

Question: What to do If I Find out my dad may be my Father's Muslim friend..? Should I get DNA tested or just be Quite..? plz help and be kind.?

Posted: 04 Jun 2016 12:32 AM PDT

ok so theres this guy hes very nice and decent and i have known him since I came to my senses.I also know my dad doesnt like him and growin up i did hear many times my mom being accused of being in an affair with this Muslim guy who happens to love my mom and me (Ive met him few times and thats always either in car or other city). so recently what i did I put my voice recorder in the car where we three Mom,Muslim guy (Whom I call uncle),and me. and they used to send me out to buy a bottle of water and to get myself a pizza so They could talk about their private things and thats the reason why i put my recorder in the car. so when he went back to his home and we came back I listened to the recording and I heard some really shocking things. 1.He was asking about My dad and if He is still being intimiate with her and I was shocked to my moms response that She just Had the best moments of her life with him only...and they cant wait to be together and thats why hes getting a hotel constructed. 2.I hear him ask mom if i am His child which I somewhere always had a doubt about cause My Skin complextion is brownish like him...and Then Mom said That I am his son and my eyes and skin tone is like his and face cut is like her. these were the things and other than these two things there were some horrible things i heard which i cant express here...and Oh just to let u all know He is 60 and and has a wife and two grown up married sons. plz dont be rude in answers.

Question: Is it weird that I m 14 and sometimes lay with my mom in bed..like am I to old?

Posted: 03 Jun 2016 11:46 PM PDT

Ok so I don t do it every night..I sleep in my bed every night. But sometimes I just wanna watch a movie with her or something and lay down with her. Like one night I was sick so I just went to her bed and she took care of me and I slept there..so do u think I m to old to be layin/sleeping with my mom in bed??? Btw I'm a girl

Question: What do I do.?

Posted: 03 Jun 2016 11:40 PM PDT

Ok so I went to go downstairs to get something and ended up walking in on my dad masturbating. It's soo awkward now and I don't know what to do. The room is used by me and my brother for our computers and consoles.

Question: IS EVERYONE THAT RELATED TO MY GRANDMOTHER ON MY DAD'S SIDE RELATED TO ME?

Posted: 03 Jun 2016 11:17 PM PDT

OK SO MY MOM AND I HAD AN ARGUMENT ABOUT THIS I SAY NO AND SHE SAYS YES

Question: Whats your earliest memory of?

Posted: 03 Jun 2016 11:05 PM PDT

I can remember onetime seeing my mom holding my dad by his balls. His balls looked so big. Her hand was so small. But she easily controlled him using them to move him around to where she wanted him. Tugging him down with them on his knees in front of her between her legs. As he went down she gave his balls a little squeeze and he grunted as she moved her hips forward leaning back into the sofa spreading her legs further apart. He bent forward her one hand pushing the back of his head tight into her. I could see my fathers two big hanging testicles under him swaying slowly as he ate my mother! I remember wanting to come out from my hiding place and grab my father's balls. To feel them in my hand! They looked so big and heavy! I wanted to control him with them like I saw my mom do! "God I was only 2 at the time"!

Question: How can I persuade my parents to let me stay out late at night until 2-3am?

Posted: 03 Jun 2016 11:05 PM PDT

A bit of background about me so you know my situation: I m 20 years old male and I m currently going into my 3rd year of university. I m studying biomedical sciences and have a 3.9+ GPA (on a 4.0 scale). I have a full-time job for the summer at a research lab at the university. My parents have met all my friends and they absolutely love them. I don t drink alcohol, I don t smoke or do any drugs whatsoever. I ve never even had a girlfriend. The only reason I want to stay late is that a lot of the times during exam season or midterm/assignment/labs me and my friends we study until 2-3 in the morning. I go out to grab food or to a bar (just to meet new people cause I love to socialize) maybe once every 2 months and even then, only during the summer months cause I m too busy with studies and volunteering during the school year. My parents say they won t let me stay late cause they say it s dangerous out there, but I live in the safest city in Canada (when a murder happened last year, it was on the local news for 2 months as breaking news) and I go to the gym and I don t want to sound vain but I am quite physically fit. My parents are Indian in origin and moved here 6 years ago. Any help would be appreciated guys and gals!