Ok, so i'm just 5'6 which is like a hobbit and a much taller guy than me (seems to be about 6'2, 6'3, don't know exactly) seems to likem. I don't really believe that and i think this must be some kind of a joke but anyway would you ever date such a tall guy? I mean sure we may think ''wow this guy is so hot and handsome'' but better be real here, this guy is not for me. I have a huge complex with my height and prefer to date guys at my height or at 5'7

I've always found them incredibly attractive, more exotic, fit and kinder than other guys.. The problem is they may stare but don't easily approach me? (I only get approached by guys I don't like) Why? are they shy? and would it be weird to ask a guy first out?

I can't stop having sex. No matter who it is, if a woman wants me I always say yes even if I don't find her attractive. I thought maybe if I have sex more often and play around with my body it would stop but I was wrong. So it's been a month since I've been with anyone. I met this woman who thinks I'm cute. We got to know each other and told me her husband was out of town for the whole week. I knew what I was doing is wrong but I needed it so bad. At this point I decided I really need help because I can't stop the affair unless I do something about my addiction.

We found out through a private investigator where he lives and i was seriously considering going to his house with our son and confronting him. His new wife probably has no idea he has another child. I just don t feel he can wash his hands of his own child and forget he even exists. What do yall think?

leave the marriage.

I found out my husband is cheating on me with his best friends wife. I caught them kissing in my kitchen late night. We have been together for 11 years (the first 11 years were great) and we just had our first baby together. I''m 30 and he's 34. It's been a rough almost year and a half with our son. Our problem is balancing our life with our child. The first few months were great, and we were great, but then things got tough. He's upset because I don't spend enough time with him (including sex and going out to have a drink), because either I'm taking care of the baby, I'm doing work or i'm too tired. I just started this job and it pays very well ($80,000) and I don't want to lose it. I want to be able to have money to support the both of them and have a good future. The other day I saw my husband crying because he knew he was hurting the both of us. I'm hurt and heartbroken but at the same time I think about my son. I'd rather have him come out and admit it to me rather than I approach him and things blow up (I have the evidence to rub it in his face as well as the girls). Am I wrong for giving him a chance to come clean?

my 70 years old mum visit us from overseas to help me during delivery of my first child , she dose everything she then looked after my baby for a 2 months when i return to work. on my child first teeth celebration my husband was too nervous as usual (he fight for every single thing in front of my mum all the time ) my mum this time told him why you are nervous in all celebration event then my husband start shouting at her and told her u came here because of people not for us u hate me u are discraminating and you are not allow to touch my baby anymore and i dont let anyone in contact with her you go in your room and we celebrate separate .my mum cried and apologies sevral time told him she dosent mean anything but he is stone harted and said i am not chaning my mind.my mum stuck in her room now and he didn't let her to touch my baby it is really heartbroken who she take care of her all the time. as a backgrounde he fight with everyone he is not talking to his family as well he now wants to cancel our flight as he dosent want to celebrate his dauther Christianing with my family my mum not sure to return or not as she wants to solve the issue i feel sorry for mum. when i argue with my husband he always says get divorce but u wont have ur doughter. we have been married fir 14 years but i am not allowed to have any visitor, he mostly stick in his room and watch negative programs he reads negative news . i have no family and friends around i have work college only .

Why do woman have the urge to show there chest parts? especially when there married? what are they trying to do? make people throw up? and Men also.

Hello. I am looking for help. I recently quit my job for personal reason and me and my husband are trying to get back home where we are from. Is anyone interested in buying 2 greyhound tickets? It would be super appreciated. I just really don't want to have to walk all the way back to kansas.

Can it be that he has emptied himself or is that I don't turn him on enough?

I want to bail him out and I don't have enough money to do so and I don't wanna ask anyone for loans or anything I'm not that kind of person I'm a kind of person who has dignity and pride ,, and I also don't wanna take loans that I can't offer to give back so what can I do to bail my husband out ,, should I just ask my group of friend to raise some money for another excuse and such as plez help me come up with a way without me losing my pride as i said I can't barrow any money

Went out for lunch with a sales rep who has asked me twenty times he really turned me on and I have had a bad time lately with my husband. Got carried away and gave him a hand job in his car he fingered me till I came (fastest biggest orgasm I have ever had!) Feel so bad now did I commit adultery?

Earlier I asked a question about my husband forcing a friendship upon his sister and law and I and I tried to explain that she leaves me out of stuff like pictures she puts on facebook and includes everyone but me. I know it wasn't an accident bc she even took pics with me and didnt post them. She hss done this several times. Talking with her is very forced bc I don't think she wants to talk with me. I try to ask her atuff about her but we talk for a few minutes and than its dead and especially if another friend of hers is around... I told my husband that the pictures thing hurt me enough. I wish women did like me but they already know I have trust issues cuz my husband had to open his big mouth.... Ive been treated like **** by my ex in laws and have had so called friends cheat with my former husband and boyfriend. I have issue trusting women bc they are usually catty or leave me out ...he had to blab that to them so that doesnt help either... I am lost bc I wish I did have amazing friends but I just never did. My husband is not supportive either so that doesnt help.

Im having a hard time to understand the meaning of marriage. At first i thought it was a gf that is legally bound to me. But the more i read about issues that seem inevitable in all marriages, the more i get confused. I often hear about not having common interests; what does that mean ? What kind of interests would i have with my wife ? We live different lives and like different things. Plus i think that a good spouse will make sacrifices and say they like something just to please the other partner. Id take my wife to the cinema cause she likes but deep inside id rather watch the same movie in the comfort of my home. So what common interests would married couples have ?

I ve been married to my husband for about a year and a half, but we have been together for almost 9 years. About two years before we got married he started a business, at that time the business was in a different city, about 30-40 min drive from where we lived. He did not move to that city, and had to drive everyday to his new business. Once we got married we moved to this other city, of course to be closer to the business. From the beginning I helped out with the business in any way I could. After we moved here, I still helped, but had my own job. He was having problems with staff, my job was cutting hours so I decided to help him out full time. It was cost efficient and I knew he needed my help. Fast forward to present time. I resent my husband. We work 70+ hours a week, we get no days off, on occasion I will leave early, but certainly not a full day. His business was funded by his parents who basically own the business, we just do the day to day operations. I don t know what to do. Part of me wants to be supportive and the other part of me resents him for starting this business. I go through this struggle on a daily basis, and I dont know what to do...

Can someone give me ideas on how to change this repetitive argument with my husband? The issue has always been the distribution of responsibilities and work loads we are taking on. We work different shifts, and he ends up having way more free time than I do. We have a family of 6 so there is a lot to keep up with. Here's an example of the argument. Me: I need you to take the initiative to get more stuff done around the house. I am spending my entire day either working or taking care of the families needs while you get 6 hours of uninterrupted free time after work, and nothing got done. Him: well I don't know what you want me to do. It's not my fault that I get free time after my work shift is done. Me: I need you to start helping cook dinner Him: I do cook dinner sometimes! (Note: the reality is that he will cook it one time every couple weeks, or even less. maybe one time a month. He will literally hold onto that one time in his memory and think it's comparable to the 6 nights a week I cook. keep in mind I'm also doing almost all other chores, along with the kids) Me: once a month is not enough to keep up with a family Him: it's more than once a month! at this point of the conversation I feel like I'm left to either start tracking this sort of stuff, or have him name off what he has cooked.. because I know for a fact it's at the most 3 times a month he cooks a meal for the family. the rest of the team he heats up leftovers for himself, buys fast food on his way to work, etc. he limits himself to getting his needs met and doesn't think about others. anyways. I know this sounds petty but how do i change this argument Caroline: great advise. I feel like the only other problem that leads to though..is if I forget to tell him something to do before work starts. he literally will take the whole day off and say.. "you didn't tell me to do anything". its pretty unfair. i dont sit around and wait for someone to tell me to make dinner

I don't feel weird about supporting my husband or feeling that he isn't the provider for both of us. I feel all right knowing we each provide for outselves and the other when we are able to, and that if we bring a child into the world we will both have to make it work. My friends and family seem to think I'm delusional but I don't see why I should work my husband to sickness and death. I'd rather enjoy life with him and any children we are able to bring up together. My family and friends are pretty hypergamous and have suggested I have low self esteem or deserve better. It's just annoying background noise but over time it makes me lose a little faith in humanity that we are so driven by security and money. Just give me some encouragement if you think my mindset will end up a positive thing, or if this is just not how life works now.

I want to plan a romantic evening with my husband, but it seems as though he'll fall asleep anytime after 8:30. He has tried Monster drinks, coffee, keeping his mind busy, etc, but nothing seems to keep him awake long. I know he has a physically taxing job in construction, but we'll be talking or trying to get in the mood after putting the kids down and it always ends up with him falling asleep. What could I do? Is there anything I can do to keep him up? I've never met a guy who could fall asleep like that without even having sex.

My wife told me she was going to go to her girlfriend's house. A friend of mine had said he'd be at a bar, I got bored so I went there. When I was there, I saw my wife walking arm and arm with two other girls, all three of them where wearing tight clothes and gigantic high heels. I approached my wife about it and asked what she was doing. She said she was just having a girls' night out. I asked her why she was dressed like that and she told me that since we are about the same height, girls night out is the only chance she gets to wear high heels and that they all like to get dressed up. We are both 5'8" so with her heels on she was a lot taller than me and acted like a snob. I got mad at her and yelled at her in the bar, she left before me. When I got home, she had my clothes thrown outside and wouldn't let me back in our trailer. What should I do? Was she cheating? Should I be mad? Or did I really mess this up?

My wife is my height or taller quite often and is drop dead gorgeous, I am 5'11" she is 5'7" or a little above, and half the time when she wears high heels she is slightly taller than me. Is this pretty typical or am I a little short for her compared to most couples?

He's 36 and has never been married, no kids. His hobbies include going out to bars and drinking and partying with friends. He doesn't do much else besides work and go out to the bars. He has a large number of women on his Facebook that he has met from online dating sites and when I met him through online dating he contacted me with a profile with no pic and he is still online dating with no pic (yes he is real I have met him). He lives in a studio apartment and smokes pot everyday and has ad some duis.

I like my sister in law but I have never felt a really deep connection. It could be the fact that Im always her last priority when other females are around. She doesnt even talk to me much when its just her and I. I am able to let loose a bit more while drinking of course but it doesnt make her pay anymore attention to me whether she is drinking or not. My husband wants us to be like best friends and I told him she didnt like me like that bc she always leaves me out of pics or doesnt tag me in pics on fb which im rarely in any pics she posts even though she takes some with me. She is always taking selfies/photos with everyone else when she and her husband have a get together. Im never in the ones she posts. Haven't been for many months. My husband and I have been togetber over a year. He always is telling me I have to ask her about a girl's day or get close to her and I really don't know how when she does that. I didn't even want to be in the pic that she took wth me which I think was for show bc I knew she wouldn't post it. All the girls at the get together this weekend were going to take a pic but a mutual friend noticed I wasnt in it and said come here so I did (which I didn't want to) bc I felt she wouldn't post it... And sure enough she didn't. She had everyone at the party in her pics she posted but me. This was also my sister in laws bday. I am hurt by this even if it sounds silly, and maybe bc my husband wants us to be close too.

I found out my wife is taking my car s food on an effort to starve her. I also found my indoor cat outside when I came home the other night. She constantly intimidates my cat, which I ve had before I met her, and claims I love the cat more than her. The cat is afraid of her and hides out all day. The cat won t eat when the food is out because my wife will follow her and stand over her at the bowl. I took over feeding the cats, hers and mine, and caught her emptying the bowls back into the container after her cat has eaten. We have two kids together so I can t just walk away. But her behavior is making me worry.

I like my sister in law but I have never felt a really deep connection. It could be the fact that Im always her last priority when other females are around. She doesnt even talk to me much when its just her and I. I am able to let loose a bit more while drinking of course but it doesnt make her pay anymore attention to me whether she is drinking or not. My husband wants us to be like best friends and I told him she didnt like me like that bc she always leaves me out of pics or doesnt tag me in pics on fb which im rarely in any pics she posts even though she takes some with me. She is always taking selfies/photos with everyone else when she and her husband have a get together. Im never in the ones she posts. Haven't been for many months. My husband and I have been togetber over a year. He always is telling me I have to ask her about a girl's day or get close to her and I really don't know how when she does that. I didn't even want to be in the pic that she took wth me which I think was for show bc I knew she wouldn't post it. All the girls at the get together this weekend were going to take a pic but a mutual friend noticed I wasnt in it and said come here so I did (which I didn't want to) bc I felt she wouldn't post it... And sure enough she didn't. She had everyone at the party in her pics she posted but me. This was also my sister in laws bday. I am hurt by this even if it sounds silly, and maybe bc my husband wants us to be close too.

So yesterday I and my wife are sitting at home talking & relaxing, enjoying our weekend. As we're talking, there's a knock at the door and my wife jumps up to answer it. I run behind her and stop her, yelling through the door for identification. The person, who we never me, says they are a friend of my sons, who is out of state at the moment. They ask to inform my son that they came by and to give them their phone number. This is no problem whatsoever. However as I'm going back for a pen & paper, my wife opens up the door to this man to say hello. I was furious. I took down his number and when the door was shut I grabbed my wife's shoulders and shook her, calling her all kinds of block head idiots. I tell her that don't she EVER answer my damn door for no strangers. I tell her that crazies are going all around knocking on peoples doors and killing them when they answer. She told me that they said they were our sons friend so it was fine. I told her that I don't give a damn. Our son is out of state and if they were really already his friend, they would have his number to leave a message on his voicemail. Especially since my son didn't sound too thrilled on the phone to hear that guy came to our house. That man could've overpowered her and charged through for me. I threw her on the couch and hollered at her for about 20 minutes until she started crying and ran off. I'm sorry she had to cry but what she did was dangerous. How do I make her understand?

My wife is so beautiful and I love her so much I can't stop watching our wedding on tape, it's so awesome and 3-5 time per week I rewatch our wedding DVD. From the ceremony until our last dance at the end of the wedding party, and then reminiscing about the fabulous sex we had after the party Is this weird?

For several weeks now I've been on a mission to lose some weight. I get out and walk several miles each night, have cut out tea and sodas, very little sweets (only on my cheat day), and I tend to watch what I eat now, and include exercises too. Well, my wife is trying to lose weight too now that I'm doing it. When we first met she weighed about 100 lbs soaking wet holding bricks. Now, she's pushing 150 or 160. Well, She'll walk with me at night, sometimes, but what she likes to do is eat a big bowl of ice cream or sugary cereal before bed. She said she just likes that. In the past few weeks I've gone from 210+ down to 200.3 when I got on the scale this morning. I told my wife that if she's serious about losing weight then she'd cut out the ice cream or cereal at night. She told me that I was coming across as preachy. On the weekend she likes to go to her favorite soul food place and get a big plate of fried or grease laden foods. She feels that she can't cut out those foods at night for the sake of her health or waist line. Why exercise then eat a bowl of cereal or ice cream then go right to sleep? Was I being preachy now that I'm losing weight or was I just trying to motivate her more? I'd rather not have her walk with me at night if she's not going to take this seriously. Exercising and dieting is about making changes not just adding walking a couple of miles each night then going home, doing a few sit-ups then getting a bowl of ice cream. Am I wrong?

I am embarrassed my marriage is ending after2 years. But people tell me at least didnt waste years of my life

Do first loves get married

I've been browsing profiles on Tinder and stumbled upon a 28 year old lady who recently got married at a Catholic Church in my town (earlier this month) after having had a baby in December. The husband is the baby's biological father. In her Tinder profile, she says the following: "I'm all about havin' fun. You know, get a couple cocktails in me, start a fire in someone's kitchen. Maybe go to [amusement park], take my pants off." Do you think her husband is aware of this? She dated him for ~1.5 years prior to the wedding a few weeks ago. What are your thoughts on this?

I am 25 and my husband is 21 and I went through his search history to find pornhub on there everyday for the past 3 months, what should I do. Backhand him? Divorce?

My husband of 14 years just left me because I ve told him I resent him because I work 50-60 hours a week and he s unemployed and doesn t do squat at home. No cooking, cleaning, nothing! He sits at his computer for at least 18 hours straight!. Not kidding! Isn t marriage supposed to be equal? So he s pissed that I m pissed at him for not either getting a job or helping around the house, so he left. That s not a marriage is it?. It s more like I m his mother picking up after him and providing for him and I get nothing out of it...

He was kissing me roughly and he just randomly says "how do guys rape girls?" "Like it's so hard " "try to get away from me , you see?" ... he makes a lot of weird comments but that was just now . From your perspective is that normal ? And then he touched his private part and I said your disgusting.. he said I am just playing

I've been separated from my soon to be ex husband for 4 years. I moved out and we split custody. I have my own place and after 3 years of feeling lonely not dating I decided to date a man who pursued me. He stated that heven wanted a relationship. Ok, honestly, the red flags was I was never invited to his place because his lady friend lives with him and he just left town. He is going on a trip. I asked who he was going with and he said her his lady friend who lives with him. Wow, what a low blow He is blowing up my phone now because I had to distance myself. I realzed that we had NO future together because she's still in his life. After almost two year of dating this older man I just felt so disrespected. I would never go on a trip with another man or ex if I was in a new relationship. How do I cope with this? I didn't curse him out I just told him that I felt disrespected and he said that I know him better than that their going separate ways on the trip because he has a daughter grandkids and she is hanging with her friends. Then he mentions that I'm still married. I'm like wow.....first off I don't live with my ex and I would've never took a trip with my ex or another man knowing I was in a new relationship with a man who I thought could be part of my future. Then he apologize for judging me. I'm still upset .....what should I do? I could date other men

My Wife Ashley got really mad at me when she went to Australia and was given a hard time just like I was... And found out that they're a bunch of just ignorant racist, hillbilly, irish drunks who happen to hate the USA because its easier to hate the superpower than it is to fix themselves..... no other reason.. And she came back to the USA... I said this to her... Did you get what you went to Australia for ? Did you find the truth ? Well guess what ? You got it ! It isn't what you wanted... it isn't what you been f)ucking spoon fed by the media just like I was fed.. And now you're still a f)ucking retard... You can go the f)uck back to Australia if you want... f)uck you ! Or you can shut the f)uck up and go get that dream job working with Animals here in the USA, where we really do give a sh!t about the animals and the wildlife and the environment... And where we really do have the education and knowledge about them in the first place. Now which is it ?! She spent the first few days after that, angry at me. Then I said... Don't f)ucking get mad at me.... I f)ucking been there when I was 18 years old... Don't f)ucking get mad at me... You're the one who f)ucking went to a bunch of redneck irish convicted drunks, believing way too much about them, instead of me. Now do you f)uckin' believe me ? Then she apologized to me 2 days later. :P

Ok, so my marriage is on the rocks, but we are working on it. Well i am buying some land with a little fixer upper on it from a male friend of mine. I have been over there pretty much every day for the past 3 months with him teaching me how to work on the house before he moves out of state(his wife is already up there). Unfortunately, idiot me has fallen ridiculously in love with him. Nothing is happening, its just a crappy thing. Well his wife is here now to help him pack up to move withing the next couple of weeks, and the house still has work that is needed. Problem is, this has reached the point that I just cant stand to be out there now. I was out there yesterday and came home and cried. He knows how I feel about him, but asked me at work today why i seem so sad. I really need to work on the house because when he moves, so does his knowledge and tools. But i dont think i can handle being out there now. Its my fault for getting to close, even though we never actually cheated, just hugged alot. How can i deal with this? Should I just tell him that i cant handle it and would rather wait until he moves out to work on the house alone? I have already moved my livestock out there, so i still have to drive out there and feed them. Why cant we control who we fall in love with?

He was kissing me roughly and he just randomly says "how do guys rape girls?" "Like it's so hard " "try to get away from me , you see?" ... he makes a lot of weird comments but that was just now . From your perspective is that normal ? And then he touched his private part and I said your disgusting.. he said I am just playing

Me and my husband got married this weekend. I love him to death he's the sweetest guy I ever met. His friend also lives with us. He's really nice too. I been really depressed since I married him I don't know why. I even cry when we make love I guess that's normal. What really upsets me is that he's been married twice already he has 3 kids. I didn't know until his friend told me. I'm not happy that he didn't tell me that himself. We tell each other everything. Also he lied to me I asked him if he ever been with any other girls he said no that I was his first one. Is it ok to cry in front of him ?

I like living alone and I don't wanna argue with anyone