I recently saw a guy I know in my department who makes 6 figures pushing a shopping cart by himself at the grocery store. Wondering if married guys really do grocery shopping?

I resent that. I'm not naive, I just I dunno.. ARE WE EVER HAVING SEX Again????

Just for some more info, I'm talking about my social studies teacher.

Husband and wife fighting. Shouldnt the man leave when things are getting heated like that instead of stooping to her level and being a ***** himself? I dont care what anyone says a man should never hit a woman. You just LEAVE. Especially in the stomach thats where these kids were held for a time (not all at once note).

Doesn't have a car bc he says he doesn't need one since he lives in NYC

I am 26, he's 25 and one of my managers. He's been married since he was a teenager and I didn't know he was even married until a month or so after I developed feelings for him. In the very beginning, we didn't get along, but I started going through some things about 3 months into working with him so he started showing more compassion and less attitude. That's when my feelings started to truly grow, for him. I have always, always respected him and his marriage. I would never want to jeopardize it. I care for him THAT much, that I am happy he's happy. The past couple of months have been awkward. He used to socialize with me more, just like how he socializes with everybody else, but now he doesn't really do it much anymore. He doesn't even say hello to me when I come in, in the mornings anymore but he says hello to everybody else. He stopped acknowledging my posts back in January and I jokingly posted a status earlier this month saying "When a certain somebody hasn't "liked" any of your posts in 2 months..what'd I do?" and he "liked" that one. About a week ago, I tried to add him on Snapchat and I've heard indirectly that he's been on Snapchat, but he hasn't added me back. He usually adds back whoever adds him. Do you think he knows how I feel and is just trying to distance himself? Again, I really do respect his marriage, but I want to be treated like every other employee and not like I am a threat to his marriage. Look guys, I know he's happy with his wife. I know he loves his wife. He talks about her ALL of the time, he posts lovey dovey posts on Facebook regarding her, ALL of the time. All I am asking is if he's figured out how I feel about him, based on his changed behavior towards me and why has it changed?

He has a bad track record in marriages. Mostly they end up cheating on him. His ex-wife Alexandra Edenborough filed for divorce, Gary Oldman told everyone why they divorce because of their 20 year age gap. I guess we have to learn the hardway that older men should never marry or date younger women. They are too much trouble. If you seen the lifetime movies and the soap operas younger women will cheat on you. So, it is a good idea just to stay single and be alone. Gary Oldman won't have time to date, because he has a busy acting career. I'm sure he will date again. If he dates a younger woman, he will give her a one date thing. That is all he should give right now. What do you think?

I never been in love. I am so jealous of my friends who experience this love feeling earlier on and are settled for life. I am 28 yrs and my biological clock is ticking now. I am getting older and I still can't find my future husband. Does everyone found love in life or ONLY lucky ones find love? I don't want to settle down with just any guy. I want to find love. I know people say don't look for love but I was not looking for love years ago but now I am and both ways didn't find love. Am I going to find my future husband?

How much would I get from divorcing him and how much child support would I receive? (Please keep rude/negative answers to yourself because all it is going to result in me giving you a thumbs down.) Here in Florida

First, let me explain that their is a BUNCH of men in love with me on the internet. An there not loosers, the most special one is a male model from England an his name is Mike, an he is into me BIG TIME. He sent me some of his nude modeling picts but he is bashful so he whited out the face but OMG you should of seen his monster cock! I just wanted to grab it an shove it inside of me. He is so hot an hansome. Any way, I herd from my mom that my ex-husbend has been making fun of me an said I have not had a real date since 2008. Welp, that is not my fault, an why waste my time on these loosers around here when their is a bunch of hansome, sexy docters an models in love with me on the internet? So, when my ex-husbend showed up to pick up are son for visitation on Friday, I had printed out Mike's nude pict an I ran after my ex-husbend because I wanted him to SEE the kinds of men that's in love with me. An you know what he said? "I don't want to see that fake sh*t, I bet he is in Nigeria." Well, the joke is on him, because Mike is NOT in Nigeria, he is in England. My ex-husbend may THINK Mike is fake cause he is JEALOUS an he just won't admit that he never had it as good as he did when he was supporting me. I know Mike is real because I have sent him almost $3,000 to help him take care of final expenses an to get are marriage license so when he comes to America we can be togethor. I wired the money to his cousint in Nigeria an it was definitely picked up. (CONTINUED) After his cousint gets it he forwards it from Nigeria to England so Mike gets it an Mike has told me on Yahoo Messenger that he got the money. So Last night I was on cam with Mike, showing him my breasts, vagina an butthole an then I masterbaited for him. Then we got into a really deep conversation an the phone rings, its my mom asking me if I am doing dirty stuff in the house when Max is here! I said "whatever I do in my house is my own business, I was entertaining my fiance!" (CONTINUED) I know what happened, Max walked in on me the other day when I was on cam with a man named James-On an I was showing him my breasts an Max walked in on me. I screamed an covered my breasts an told him to not ever do that again an he has went an told his dad an his ***** whore slut wife (my sister) an they told my mom. So I beat Max an he is grounded but that makes it OVIOUS that my ex-husbend is jealous, other wise why would he care if I am masterbaiting on cam for all these men? Asshole! You guys has no idea how hard things is been, I had a date last fall with a hansome man named Buck from work, he came over for dinner an a movie an I went to slip into a neglige an when I got back Max was standing in front of Buck with his pants an undershorts pulled down, had his bare butt right in Buck's face just ripping farts to beat hell an I screamed an throwed up an I could tell Buck wanted to die. Then Buck just up an left an had the gall to tell me I could stand to loose some weight!

so i came home from work all sweaty and tired, and the hoe only has spaghetti cooked. so i threw the plate at the wall and yelled "Im not eating this crap!" she then asked me "Richard, have you ever felt being tied to a radiator while someone is sitting on you, enjoying watching you suffer?" what does she mean?

he never did..he also borrowed money from me and wont pay it back, well over 200 dollars.so I gave his wife photos of us together, letters he wrote to me how he couldn't stand her and her kids. what else can I do?

I married the women of my dreams but she turned out to be the Marxist revolutionary Che Guevara himself. Now I don't know what to do.

He owns an incorporated business

My father passed away 2 years ago and my husband did not go to the funeral. His job gives days off for bereavement, but he still refused to go. I asked him why he wasn't attending, his answer was he had to fill the schedule (he's a supervisor). That was pretty much it. So was my husband morally wrong to not attend my father's funeral to give me the moral support I needed?

So my ex began emotionally cheating on me with a married woman. Not only was she married but she had a baby who was a few months old with her husband. Anyway our "relationship" was already extremely rocky being that he would constantly flirt with other women online which he knew I knew about and we would fight over it. At some point he began actively pursuing this woman as if he wanted to steal her from her husband and she fell for it because she was extremely attracted to him and claimed she had fallen in love with him. I threatened to leave him because I thought he was more interested in chasing h*es than being with me and he responded that he did that because in his mind those h*es were worth more than me and I was basically worthless in his eyes. I ended it and blocked him but I am hurt. I m not perfect, prior to being with him I was involved with his cousin but that didn t work out, but he said he didn t care and really liked me. Now he thinks I m worthless and the married woman is a better option than me? I don t get it. Where did I go wrong?

Would y'all be ok with yalls wife/husband was an active pornstar? I wouldn't be ok with my wife ******* other random people

My boyfriend and I are beginning to talk about the future together and wanting to get married and start a family together. My boyfriend has been married before (the marriage was 16 years) and they had three children together. It s making me really sad that if we get married it will be my first wedding/marriage and he s already "been there done that" with everything. He s already experienced 3 pregnancies and 3 child births...I have no children of my own. I m very sad thinking about how the whole experience of marriage and children will be new and exciting to me but not to him. I want to be able to share the newness with someone and figure it all out together. I don t want to be compared to his ex wife. What should I do? I really love this man and his children (he has primary custody and the children live with him full time but the mother is still in the picture). Any suggestions about how to move past this?

My wife and I have been married for almost four years here. I had to go on unemployment for a few months before landing a dream job. We don t have any substantial debt. We own our cars. Rent. We have a few credit cards that are managed very well I have a high 770 credit score. We are trying to save for a house. It has been hard lately cause our car needs some work, bought some new tires and some trips to see family planned this year. My wife saw the $2000 we had on a credit card and she gets so worked up we had to go to the ER for chest pain. I am working. She is at home with our daughter. It s getting worse and she calls me at work asking about every little purchase even when I deposit money from selling my personal items. She now wants me to cut off all the credit cards and close paypal and everything because I am the problem. She says. Should I handle the finances? Should I take this away from her so she can relax or will me taking control worsen the problem?

FlORIDA If bio father's name is on birth certificate, but mother was still married to a different man and divorce was on the process when baby was born, legal father is the man mother was married to, correct???? If that's true, who has more power? Bio or legal? Also if bio father is arrested for domestic violent towards mother and the child and legal father request to stay away from the baby, The law will accept it?

she probably even buys him lunch, with the husbands money, of course. but this is perfectly fine as long as a man doesn't do it, in which case, it is morally egregious https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20170321160646AAER5W1

if they are married or not. What does this say about marriage as a whole?

And she spents time with them laughing and cheering in front of husband as n also chats on phone n make awkward situation for her husband in front of them(he having known they all bsnged her before him many times and they are the one who first got her and he is the last one to get her as a settlement? What does it mean? Is marraige like that?

I have been friends with a male friend of mine all of my life. I have visited him and stayed at his place (out of state) before and he has never made a move on me. He is single and kind of dorky. When I was going through the death of my father during my previous marriage he flew into town and be my support system because my marrriage was rocky. My first marriage ended in divorce shortly afterwards. When I had problems in my previous marriage I would call him to vent. My husband now says he has alterior motives which I do not believe. I would never hook up with him as I do not find him attractive in the least but my husband says it's not the same for him. Is my husband wrong?

Am I the only person who does not believe that the legality of marriage has any real significance personally, only a societal significance? I am planned to be married. However, both my partner and I do not care for any of the legalities, we believe marriage should be about love. But, we have both decided that we should go ahead with the legal issues so that we can save moeny in the long run. We plan to get legally married first, to get it out of the way, and then get actually married later on. We will only celebrate our actual marriage, not the legal issues. Are we the only ones with this mindset?

My husband had an affair with a girl he works with. He said they didn t sleep together but I m not sure I believe him. I found out by going through his phone. Which i never do but he was just acting so different towards me and something told me to just look. I found tons of texts between the 2 of them. She didn t say much but he was telling her how he is falling for her and she had his heart and that his mother said they would be good together. All this crazy ****. So i told him i knew and we got into a huge fight that lasted 2 days before we finally decided to work it out (we have 2 kids and we don t want them to grow up like we did, in seperate homes) he told me that if i can t get over it and stop talking about it then we should just end it right now. But how the hell do I not think about it or ask questions? And the fact that they still work together i just don t know if I can do this. I love him and I want to make it work but I m scared I m staying out of fear of losing everything. He threatened to take my kids. I m a stay at home mom so I have no money no place to go. I m not close with my family so I have noone. I don t know what to do anymore but i can t stop crying and my heart is like breaking cus I didn t think he would ever do this to me. Sorry this is so long but i have noone to talk to about this.

I am seeing a younger guy (22) I am 46 married, we just have sex once a week, I don't love him or want him for anything other than lusty hard sex which satisfies me What on earth does everyone go on about cheating etc it's just a penis in a vagina I see it as the same as a massage. Nothing more than that

It just seems every time I see a divorce their child is about that age - anyone know the significance to this?

Sometimes I like to post things about my husband if I'm feeling really gushy/lovey dovey. I HAVE felt insecure in the past when an ex of his was sticking her nose in our business and posted him. But when she effed off for good I stopped having that feeling. Now it's once every several months. Hmm... But when either of us post we do get gushy and put cutesy things. My husband just posted the cutesyest thing with lovey dovey tags in it. Is he insecure? I don't ever know for sure what he's thinking.

I know after being married for awhile people want to tend to spice it up but how spicy is too spicy? I know that depends on the couple and their comfort level but when is it just going too far?

in the bedroom, she's like Judith from that show "2 and a half men" very emasculating... we have kids who I love more than anything, and they worship their mother anyone got any ideas?

I m a married female, marriage is ok, but no real physical happenings...it feels almost roommate like. I have been in love with my friend for a few years. My friend is a gay female. She is single and hasn t had very good luck in relationships. She does not know my feelings for her as I have not expressed them. Its getting more and more difficult to be around her because of my feelings. I have a ton of respect for her and our friendship. I fear that it may get ruined if I say something to her. But what if it doesn t get ruined...? I have a very small feeling that she might have the slightest idea that I may have a crush on her, but it is much deeper than that. Reaching out for advice, and no judgements.

The guy friend is a guy she used to date...hmmm

I love my husband very mush he is my best friend but I do not like the sex we have. It usually goes a little something like "Come touch my penis" or "A ******** be awesome right now" I USED to try to do it everytime he asked but I just ended up sucking dick all day (you're like I see no problem here) well it is. I was hoping he'd be excited to put his mouth on me too!.....nope more BJ's! I talk to him and he went down on me a few times great I finally got a few orgasms in short lived because I'm back to BJ's and doggy style. I hate to make him do something he doesn't like I can't take enjoy forcing him to eat me. To only time he does is in 69 and that is still me making him because I just climb on top I can *** from intercourse thanks to smoking weed, its my savings grace it makes me so horny that if I'm going to BJ's and doggy style there's a chance I might ***. So my question is how can I enjoy sex without my favor form or pleasure an orgasm?

How do you deal with knowing that if you die, your wife will eventually become someone else's? How do you deal with knowing that if your wife had kids with her new husband, your kids will always come second. And this new guy can potentially have a negative effect on their future? How do you deal with knowing that another man gets to be the man of your house and will get to bang your wife in your own bed ? Women can answer too. Share your perspective.

My husband bought an expensive item for himself while I was away. We had already talked about it before and decided to hold off. I find out a month after being back home that he bought it anyway and hid it from me. So now I feel I have trust issues with him and talked to him last night and he didnt handle it well of course. I am trying to forgive him but am at a loss because this sort of thing has happened before.

Hi! Just a little information, I am twenty-four and got married last year. We've been together for seven and a half years. I am very happy with my husband. He takes such good care of me, but I'm scared. What if I'm like his parents and wake up one day and don't love him any more? What if we wake up one day and can't stop fighting? I don't want to lose him. Is there a way to prevent this from happening? What do I do about these doubts?

He's very religious and rarely works, but expects me to clean, work, cook meals, and take care of our newborn baby myself. Everyone assumes he works and I don't when I talk about leaving him, but I pay all the bills and provide for our family. If I don't maintain a clean house he shames me until I cry and embarrasses me in front of family. He requires me to always tell him where I'm going even if it's to my parents house and if I break this rule he will get so angry he punches the walls and throws things. I'm constantly the target of criticism regardless of what I do and he tells me I'm unclean and disgusting if I go a day without a shower, even calling me garbage. The shame and criticism is so bad I fantasize about killing myself, especially now that he tells me my only good quality is I'm educated. The only reason I don't kill myself is to protect my daughter. I've asked my husband to go to counseling, which he agreed to do, but hasn't made any effort. Lately he's put me in charge of every aspect of his life, big or small, and if something doesn't go right or he forgets something he comes down on me hard, completely explodes. I have no idea what to do and I feel like a failure.

He ended the relationship a few months ago. He says he doesn't have any feelings for her, & I believe him. He left her son on the team because he believed she would cause controversy and everyone would know what happened. Our first tournament is Sat., & I'm dreading it. I stopped going to the practices, etc. to avoid her, but I'll go for my son. I'm in turmoil with the thought of seeing her, as I'm still dealing with the betrayal. I feel that his reputation is more than my feelings.

And after marraige she refuses to have sex with her husband saying it hurts and so she does'nt want to sleep with him and not even try. So how should he deal? Its like a wife who did kinky things(anal,etc) with her exes multiple times but when comes to husband she says she does'nt want to try coz it hurts. Is'nt it the same here? If anal hurts den natural sex hurt is also possible, So can a wife do that with husband, n should husbsnd respect her decision and live with her without any form of sex?

My ex is remarried, has had 3 more kids, lives in a 4,000 square foot 5 bedroom home in a rich neighborhood. I am single, am my sick Mom's caretaker, rent a tiny house where I have share a bedroom with my son when he is with me, live a block from the ghetto and need food assistance. Why do I have to pay my ex child support? I understand my ex has more overnights with our son, but my son is starting to realize the huge difference in our two households. It is embarrassing and my ex doesn't need the money. I tried to talk with my ex about it, but he thinks I am trash and won't even have a conversation with me without a lawyer present (I can't afford one and I make just over the cut off for legal aid). When I tell him our son is suffering with me because I don't have $, ex tells me that he'll be happy to just take him all the time and he won't suffer. I can't win. I thought about going back and petitioning for the support to be recalculated, but my ex just had another child who isn't factored in yet (Michigan allows a credit for additional children). I'm afraid if I go back, my ex will add the child in, and I'll have to pay even more. I think that is so ridiculous. I don't know what I can do. I have less overnights - but joint custody. I have 125 overnights, he has 239. He also gets a credit for health insurance and childcare (which ex needs, not me). Michigan does factor in a credit for additional children - it's less for every subsequent child, but it is a credit he gets. His wife does make a lot of money. But ex still makes more than I do. I make 30,000. He makes almost $50,000, so almost double. His wife does make the $, so technically ex is rich through her. I understand that I should work (I do work full time) and I understand she shouldn't be required to pay for my son. But I want things to be more in balance. Son notices I can't get him things the way his dad does, take him on vacations or even give him his own bedroom. I know it shouldn't matter, but I can tell it does effect how he sees me. That's all I'm saying. It's embarrassing - and having to pay CS adds insult to injury. Michigan has a joint custody plan called the 9/3. That's what we have. During the school year, I get EOW during the school year with a weekly after school to 7 p.m. dinnertime visit. Then I get the majority of time in the summer - with ex only having two full nonconsecutive weeks and EOW.