Sooo I am obsessed with him, I stalk his friends facebook, but I dont think he has one, I see his picture and a close friend of mine said that he is rich and really smart. I heard he plays chess soo I decided to learn how to play chess. HE IS REALLY HANDSOME AND VERY CUTE. Normally, guys would chase after me (even my best guy friend). I didn't have any interest with any of them, probably because I am mostly close to them. The guy at the party is so kind. PLEASE, IS THERE A WAY TO STALK, I MEANS STOP BEING OBSESSED WITH HIM?

Talking to this older girl who used to babysit me she's 36 I think she's really hot we were texting she said I should visit her I said I'd love to visit her and we should hangout together she said definitely and gave me the date she comes back to town. I wanna escalate the convo to something more flirty. I'm 18 by the way and it's just that I've always wanted her she inspires me

My friend, she is overworking for a week straight on babysitting. She's not getting paid at all which is screwed up. She's doing it for a friend but her friend is lazy. Today she was suppose to come back from where ever she went. My friend spent 8 hours cleaning the house, taking care of her friends two kids. And one of them is a 3 year old that isn't potty train. That was all today. What can my friend do? Also she's 3 months pregnant.

The women where I live dresses in little to no feminine clothing. Mostly just standard clothing, They all aren't built like normal women, all of them have muscles, ranging from six pack to just thick arms and legs. They don't talk like normal women do having etiquette in their speech. They are just flat out balatant. If you look at them in the eye they would beat you up, if you disagree with them they would beat you up, they will want to meet you in the streets to fight you physically for very little disagreement, minor offense. They shake their fingers and roll their heads and shout I come from a family that takes nothing off of nobody start s h I t with me get s h I t back! they don't seem to care about the law, and view getting locked up as 'oops I got caught, better luck next time' They seem to carry no empathy at all but be stone cold in their ways. They seem to have a family that is just like them, they would not care one bit to get locked up. Their family will come after you if she gets locked up.

Aside from prayer, what else can I do on my part to help my pastor's wife? Here is what is happening....several members in the church are going through some terrible times. My pastor's wife has the tendency to take on too much worry and too much stress from it all. Everyone refers to her as "Mama Bear" because she cares so much and so deeply for everyone that she sometimes even causes herself to become sick. She got very ill last year and it even affected her heart. I feel drawn to help her, but when I ask her what I can do, she doesn't let me know what I can do aside from praying for her because she is afraid of inconveniencing others or causing them to worry or stress on her account. I would like to do some things to help her. Not just one thing, but maybe something once a week or whatever. Even if I send something to her in the mail or have something delivered...that would be fine. I don't mean I need to be there at her house hovering around her all the time. lol I just want her to feel supported, loved, and cared for too. She needs to take care of herself as well but she has a hard time doing that since she's always caring so much for everyone else. Please give me any suggestions of what I could do for her, say to her, give to her... I can buy her something or I can make her something special. Any ideas are fine. Just please note that she is not one who gets her hair done or nails done. She is very conservative in that area. Thank you for reading and for any suggestions!

My mom has been fighting me and arguing & ranting & raving & lecturing me that my bf is not a real man bc accepts money from me which she says should not happen bc he makes over $2000 a month & I make only over $200 a month. We're both 19. My mom says I'm teaching him how to take advantage of women and that it's not gentlemen like of him My point of view is that I like being independ & paying my part. I don't mind helping him &a giving him money he has a truck & motorcycle note and I'm saving up for a vehicle. Anyways yeah I agree with mom that it would be gentlemenly of him to be the type of guy who never lets a women pay, but I don't hold that as a standard!! I want to be the kind of women where people can not look at me & automatically know that I don't make much money. I don't want people to pay my way, even if I do not have much money I wanna present myself in a way that makes me look like I'm not poor like I can take care of myself. I want people to see my as a independ women who can take care of herself but my mom says that that's cool n all but still argues that any man to let me spend money is basically worthless Opinions ?

I'm really supposed to be in 7th but I started school early. I feel like I'm not on the same level at basketball as my other peers. Should I repeat?

My biology teacher is an a**hole and he acts like a child. Ever since i was transfered into his classroom i've noticed that he is always trying to flirt with girls, including me. He makes me uncomfortable and one time a kid called him a rapist and he got all defensive. Is this the signs of a rapist? P.S. im paranoid because this year another teacher got caught as a child molestor. (No h8 pls) thanks! :D

I have lived with my 4th cousin for about a year know, I barely know him, I moved in because my boyfriend and him were friends and live together.. Yesterday when he got home we had to tell him his (ex) wife passed away that day. He's been crying ever since, I don't know him that well but like I said I've lived with him for a year now and he is my four cousin .. I feel terrible and can't imagine how he feels I just don't know what to do to help him feel better... Any suggestions? Thank you!

So, we are a group of 6 girls. We are in our early twenties. I have noticed that whenever they got accepted into school, or go on vacations, or get a boyfriend, they usually dont say anything to me. They tell each other. They want to know everything about me, but keep their life private from me. They only invite me on special occasions. Am I reading too much into it? Whats going on? Also, they like to point out my flaws, how I dress, my style and critize me.

that's sick and gross! seriously the guy must have a problem or be sick

If my parents never met each other and your parents never met each other, but met someone else and had children, would we still exist somehow?

A co worker is married, so am I but divorcing. He asked me the other day if it was true I was divorcing (probably listened to me talking to a co worker) and I said yes. He asked me if I was seeing anyone, and I said- I hang out with guy friends but not really. He then acted happy for me, then his facial expressions changed and he kept asking me if I was going to be single soon (he wont get off this subject despite me saying I dont want to discuss it, but we get along great and I work directly with him). After work, we walked outside together and he turned to me and asked if I am really seeing someone and if I am "doing things" and I asked if he meant intimate and he said yes, I said no, just talking or hanging out. He then started asking about the cause for the divorce and said if I had second thoughts about seeing other guys there must be a reason and he is really scared for me meeting strangers and seemed really hurt. He is constantly staring at me and asking me to help him with things at his desk. He acted as if he was going to cry yesterday when he kept saying "you are seeing some other guy?" What is his problem? His wife was going to show up at the facility yesterday and I never even saw her and he left for lunch when she must have came. Does he like me or just nosy? He has become very nosy when I text people and asks who I am talking to as well. He also mentioned I went someplace and must have checked me out online. Boss* not co worker

My boyfriend and I live together. I pay the $800 in rent a month he gives me $140 dollars for utilities a month, he was also supposed to buy the groceries. I was buying all the groceries...but for about a month now I haven't bought any except maybe some yogurt for myself for breakfast. I can eat at my moms or whatever. We are 24 years old. He doesn't offer to buy groceries or even go do it. I feel like I shouldn't have to ask him to do it he should be grown enough to do so. What really makes me mad is he smokes weed spends probably $40-$60 on that a week and buys video game or clothes instead. The other day after he cashed his paycheck we went to get fast food and I had to pay for it. I feel like I shouldn't have to ask him to buy groceries and that is awkward.... I think I am going to break up with him anyways not just because of the groceries just I think he has some growing up to do...Seriously should I have to ask him to buy groceries?!

We are both thirteen in the seventh grade. He texts me almost every night, crying. How can I cheer him up over text or give him advice on how to take his mind of the situation? He is the only one who knows. I am the only person he has told. I feel awful for him and just want him to be okay.

I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years we have 2 children. After my first pregnancy I had gall bladder attacks 3 months later I had emergency surgery for my gallbladder. Right after my surgery and my parents went home for the night my boyfriend starting screaming at me down to the point I has kneeling down in the bathroom because I took pain medication for being in so much pain he said he needed it more and literally belittled me for an hour no nurses no doctor no help i feared my life. He does have addition issues and now he s clean but due to that I gained 100 pounds ando that along with my dad passing way ruined me. Now he is a stay at home dad a great dad and every time we argue he threatens to take everything from me including my kids. I fear being a single mom and being one of those who failed the relationship. Our relationship is good now but I still live in fear. Someone posted what is the worsecond thing that s happened to me and I thought of that and felt like I had to tell someone because nobody knows. I cant trust to to tell my family without the whole world knowing. I am just trying to figure out how to get out of this deep hole. Any advise is greatly appreciated

I was promised I could me into his home by last weekend but his wife is being stubborn. I gave up my apartment lease and have to be out by tomorrow. Even my Mothers says she is being a b*tch. Is it a lot to hire a lawyer for her removal?

MY MOM IS A FUC**** BIT** she always tries to embarrass me.. in front of others.. ****!! So pissed off!!

So I am from Canada, but recently was on a trip to the Bahamas but my wife and I met a few people from California on a boat. Well I asked them, If they knew my cousins who also live in the State of California and after I said this, they burst out in laughter. Was it a dumb question..

Me and my ex has a four year old daughter. He's in and out of life with contacting her. I bought her own cell phone just for he can contact her and for him not to call me. I tried co parent but he make everything about us. He's manipulative, liar, and self center. My daughter love her dad so much. I don't want to keep her from her dad but he go months without talking to her and he'll pop up call her like it's ok. When he does call she be so happy. I'm tired of it!! I need advice?