I have to rewrite beacuse ny stupid iPads glitches. I want to have sex for some reason. ODd part is, I don't and never had a boyfriend. But I know people my age who do. My parents haven't gave me the talk yet, but funnily anough, I know most positions and weird sucking stuff... I may sound Immature or like a slut, but Im not. The other problem is, I don't know which parent to tell. My mom is judgemental, and I have lost her trust many times on accident, I'm scared what she'll say, but she is a girl and I am too. My dad on the other hand, tells me to let him know if something's up, and is more open, but there are little things that I'm to scared to tell him. Like I'm afraid to let him know I like A+ anime, beacuse I'm scared he will ban it The thing is, idk what to do. Should I keep it to myself, or talk to my parents to get a better understanding. There's no way I could tell both at the same time, As they are divorced and my brother willl likely hear. Please don't call me a troll, thanks

Everyone was at work so I thought Id pull out the old vibrator and go to town...but it an extremely quiet house...except for my moaning and shouting....I am so mortified. I thought a heard some noise down stairs so I when to go check & sure enough my dad is home early and he usually just watches some tv, but now he is in his room........& Im freaking out whether or not he heard.....I am so embarrassed, I should just go die. My dad is Indian and Catholic so.......ughhhhh.....he thinks Im still an innocent little girl.......I might just die of embarrassment...What do I do.....??????

I just did that. I had to pick up my sister at her friends house so since I did not go in anyplace and was only gone for 20 minutes I drove in my bare feet and did not bring my shoes.

what are things they would say or questions they would ask? cuz I'm spending a week and a half at a pals house for spring break and her mom wants to talk to my mom but she isn't aware of the plans because she's no longer involved in my life. i'd be talking to her mom in text so suggest things in that sort of format. leaving tomorrow so please help ASAP!!!!! do not criticize me or whatever if you're not going to help then don't bother answering.

So your son is now a high-pitch-voice girly man, and your daughter is now a war-chantin' "butch". Congratulations on not having been around to help raise them! Proud of yourself?

I feel they are destroying the legacy of their late father. Rebecca----What? How does this make me a jackass? I am sticking up for his legacy and tired of my Mom and her sister making it all about the dollar and farm.

I am worth millions. My parents divorced and my two sisters are not part of the estate. I will inherit it all when my Dad dies. He and I are worth hundreds of millions of dollars.

When I was little I was obese. Then when I became a teenager I went on a dirt and lost 100 pounds but now I'm left with pounds of extra skin that still make wearing things like bras and jeans incredibly uncomfortable and painful. I keep trying to convince my dad to let me get the skin removed but when I asks he gets angry and says that women who get plastic surgery are nothing but whores and that eating more salads will make it go away. What can I do to convince him to let me get rid of the extra skin?

I feel like I am pointless in this world. All of my friends make fun of me, girls hate me, my family always yells at me. I am always judged and nothing ever goes right. As soon as something starts to go right, it all just falls apart. I am always as nice as possible to everyone, but that never works. Niceness has gotten me nowhere and I have lost all hope for myself. I don't know what to do anymore. I pray every night

I have to see my mom's sister tomorrow and she is hated by all the family but she brought it on herself by abusing people and saying hateful things to people. She even emotionally abused one of her nephews by bullying him when he was college age.

i have to run away from home, they want me to delete my facebook account,they want me to read and study,but i want to hang out with the bad kids,not the good kids. i miss the people who owe my grandfather $2,000. my mom made an appointment with my doctor with me this Thursday @ 12pm and i'm scared that he'll put me away. i hit my grandfather lightly today and i don't want to put away forever. i told them that i can't study or read because if i do study or read,i'll forget everything. they don't believe me with my bladder issue. i am 20 years old and i have to keep cleaning up after my mom and grandfather. my mom says she can't have a normal conversation with me because all i do is talk about facebook and i get very bad nervous breakdowns because of them and i did run away back in 2010,but i was hanging out with my ex-friend. i want to go back to bmcc,but they want me to go to a trade school because i'm very stupid for bmcc and i failed the placement exam for the first time,but i was 17 then. i just want to go back to bmcc and become something. but they told me no. i really want to go back to bmcc. i an't get a job because everytime i apply,i won't here back. what can i do? they want me to be on ssdi,but i don't want to. why? they just want me not to be happy,and i want to have a normal life,but my grandfather and my mom keep stressing me out. i have to move out. i like to stay up late i want to have a social life,be happy and laugh,but i can't even get that.what to do? i love to stay up late,i want to hang out with the right people,but my grandfather and my mom keep making up lies about the bad people,but i really am tired of hanging out with the good kids and i want to hang out with the bad kids. i can't even get a social life because i want to hang out with the bad people. they told me to delete my facebook account,but it's the only way i get to stay in contact with people i know,i have snapchat and instagram. should i delete them too? i am scared my doctor will put me away because of what my parents tell him. what are the chances he will put me away? i only hit lightly,i cry due to stress at home,i scream because i get frustrated. i like to go out once in a blue moon to get errands and get away from them. what can i do? how do i escape my controlling parents. i sleep at 5 am and i wake up around 1:30 pm. how do i get away from them? i can't be with them forever, i have to move out. bmcc is borough of manhattan community college. if i go to a trade school,will my credits be transferred to bmcc? bmcc is borough of manhattan community college. if i go to a trade school,will my credits be transferred to bmcc? i am scared my doctor will put me away because of what my parents tell him. what are the chances he will put me away? i only hit lightly,i cry due to stress at home,i scream because i get frustrated. i like to go out once in a blue moon to get errands and get away from them. what can i do? how do i escape my controlling parents. i sleep at 5 am and i wake up around 1:30 pm. how do i get away from them? i can't be with them forever, i have to move out. my parents are ruining my life.

I spent a lot of time planning my son's first birthday and it was a very important day for me. We have a smaller home so we only invited close family. I sent out invitations a month before the party asking for people to rsvp. My sister in law decides to bring her teenage son's pregnant girlfriend (who we have only met once and it was very brief) without even asking us. My husband and I are thrilled about the pregnancy because they are very young with no jobs and both are known drug users. We had specifically asked my sister in law not to bring her, but she did anyway. This day was supposed to be about my son. To top it off, the girlfriend was very rude and sat in the corner glaring at everyone like she was too good to be there. I texted my sister in law saying I wish she had asked me before bringing her and it wasn't the time or the place. It really ruined the day for me. My sister in law blew up on me saying that the girlfriend is really important to her and she is hurt and I'm a horrible person. I apologized, but I am still pissed. I understand that she is important to her, but why bring her to our party? If she had talked to us beforehand, I probably would have said ok, but she does not get to make these decisions on her own.Can't we have who we want at our own party? If I was going to have more people there, I would have invited people that actually know my son. I am wrong to be upset with her?

Ok. So I'm 20 and I live with my mom and my gdma because sociopaths live with my father. However, he claimed me this year on his taxes bc he pays all my bills. My mom's a drug addict and she gets pissed bc she wants to claim me. Back in November I had to sign a letter for my dad, saying he supports me. My mom found out and she said I betrayed her by doing that and says I'm going to go to jail for fraud. I feel bad. Was this wrong of me?

I want to tell the whole thing but Yahoo Answers won't allow me to type it all. So anyways I just saw my father in law and cousin doing something unimaginable, you know, but never saw them in action, but it was obvious, cause my step father was not wearing any pants. So should I tell my mother? Or what? It seems not right, And it's not a MAN should be doing to his partner.

I'm a 15 y.o. girl. I recently, at my request, moved to Mississippi to live with my dad and stepmom because my biological mom has drug problems and has been a very inconsistent mom (to say the least). I love her, but my dad and stepmom have always been there for me. and I needed stability. Before I made the decision to move here, my dad and stepmom warned me that they still believed in spanking as a last resort even at my age. I was kind of shocked, but really wanted to move in here, and (since I rarely get in any trouble) wasn't all that concerned. This afternoon I got in big trouble for something that I, in all fairness, deserved to be in trouble for. But I was still flabbergasted when dad had my stepmom take me out back and bust my behind. She didn't leave any bruises or "hurt" me or anything like that, but she did light me up something good and the pain was/is very intense. I'm just kind of shocked. I know that they love me, I'm NOT looking to turn them in or get them in any trouble (regardless of the answer to this question), but this is so far from my cultural norms that I have to ask, are they even legally allowed to do this? Is it fair at all? I just never really saw this happening at my age, and it all went down so suddenly.... Is this legal? Common? Fair? Typical? I lied about where I was going, and yes it is a 2nd offense (I got grounded the 1st time), and lying is their #1 rule (understandably). I'm usually very honest but I was really stupid this time. The lie was about where Id been after school.

He's been drinking all night and I assume he will be drunk tonight. I am at lunch now and it is on my mind all day.

My half-sister and my Mom's sister are narcissists. No one else in the family is. So does this mean it runs in the family?

My 11 year old daughter told me that she wants to dress in all black and become an emo kid. She posts the most depressing quotes on her Facebook and I'm beginning to worry that it might be how she feels. Her transition from elementary school to middle school was tough for her because she attends a school where none of her old friends attend. We moved houses and the only way she stays in touch with them is by phone and social media sites. She told me that she started hanging out with a few kids in her grade who are also "goth" or "scene". She started listening to rap songs with depressing lyrics and she stays in her room more instead of socializing. I know there's a big difference from a 5th grader to a 6th grader sometimes and she may just like the style. Her grades are still okay and I haven't noticed any suspicious behaviors

My mom must have grew up where woman should be married, have kids, and cook for the family, which shes rubbing off to my sister. She always yell at me for being a boy because I hate doing the chores (even though no body does) and she says that girls should like cleaning. One time my sister told my mom if she will ever buy me a dress which I decline because I don't like the way they feel. So she yelled at me saying that "girls should like wearing dresses." Today she was making lunch with my sister, and I was so tired that i slept until 12 which made my mom so upset (even though NOBODY woke me up) She told me if I'm ashamed to not cook and that everyone will laugh at me because I cant cook for my future family. I really feel like I'm about to cry and only because I'm 13. I really need help!

My son is 9. There is supposed to be oil royalties from Texas. The grandfather wants me to change his last name to their last name as he wants to will it to him and he is technically last male heir. SO THIS IS A family stipulation, not a legal stipulation.

He was really close to his aunt for his whole life, but because he lives in a different state, he didn't get there in time to say goodbye. Can anyone think of anything along these lines that I could send them and post it here? Would be much appreciated!

But they are really good at making me feel like I am the one who has done something wrong. I'll get into an argument with them and they will treat me like **** and make me feel like the lowest person on earth, and then the next day they'll give me pearl earrings or something expensive like that so that I'd be rude to hate them because of what they've done for me. I'm thinking of filing for emancipation as soon as I turn 16 but I don't know what to do because I dread coming home at night and I can't bear the thought of putting up with it for another 3 years, but I don't feel like when my parents find out I want to be emancipated I would be safe in my house and I'm afraid of what they would do. I just need advice on what to do

He likes to tease little kids by doing things like getting them to think he's bragging to ground them. I'm a teenager now but I still worry he might drown me like you did when I was six years old.

She is so cruel to everybody in the family when she has this period thing. It just gives her permission to abuse everybody in sight. And my mom let you do it saying she can't help it. My mom always complained about her older brother being an enabler to her fathers drinking problems but my mom is enabling my sisters PMS and that's far worse than alcoholism. At least alcoholics have an illness or is PMS people are just dangerous! So what do I say to get my sister to shut her ******* mouth when she's bullying all of us bring her PMS?

I want to be an active family member therefore this aunt I need to see. However she has a thing of painting those she's mad at in a negative light to everybody she meets. Unfortunately this trait was passed down to her by a stepmother of theirs as she has a different father then my mom (they are half-sisters). Right now aunt is mad at my mom because my mom is not seeking her out a lot and giving her attention. My mom says she can't takes my aunts narcissism so she's pulling away some. So the problem is my aunt is coming to me on Facebook and occasionally in person to tell me how terrible my mom is being not to return her calls. I don't want to cut my mom down to my aunt but I also don't want to be rejected by my aunt and her two sons. My aunt's children hate how she hates. So what do I do? How do I respond when my aunt tells me how terrible my mom is to her?

I find him to be a pervert.

Im almost 20 and I want to move out but my mom said if I don t do it the "right way" I ll no longer be apart of this family and I really want to be able to see my brothers again. I have a place I can go and a guaranteed job there, and I really can t stand living here anymore. I feel like there s no way we can both get what we want without hurting each other. There was a time I tried to move out and she made it impossible for me to (and I m glad she did at that time, it was all for a boy who didn t want me lol) Over the kids spring break I was allowed almost all week to stay somewhere else and do what I wanted, and I felt so much happier there. I was also in the process of quitting smoking and it was taking weeks at home but where I was for that week it only took 2 days. I think over there I can have a much happier and healthier life but I don t want to move out and never get to see my family again.

Would you go to a co-worker s funeral over your own child s birthday?

My husband just sent me an email to say that his 6 other siblings are planning to do a family photo with their parents and only the natural grandkids will be included in the photo. 4 of the 7 siblings are married and none of the spouses are included in the photo. Their mom just wants a photo of the kids she birthed and the grandkids they birthed. My husband said that he wants us to plan also at the same time to do our own photos and he wants to include my boys, his bio daughter, his adopted daughter and our 4 grands. Between the 7 siblings there are now 6 step-great-grands and none of them are included in the main family photo. Again, just the 6 grands that were a direct lineage from their parents. I told my husband that if my parents wanted to take photos they would include his daughter in the grandkids shot and not exclude her. He said that he can't control what photo his parents want. That's why he wants us to take our own. I find this a little suspect because our church is planning on taking photos on Easter Sunday and my husband said he doesn't want to take any there because that's already going to be a long day since we have to be at church at 5:45 AM then go through 3 services that day only to stand in a line and wait our turn to take a photo after the last service. The siblings are planning to do theirs on a Sat sometime in May or June as to not affect anyone's day. Am I wrong to feel a bit upset about me and my boys not being included in the main photo? Again, none of their spouses are included, just the 7 siblings and their natural kids.

I'm a little more than twice as old as he is. He often comes for sleepovers especially when his parents would go somewhere. I have a big bed in my place, and since we're cousins, both male, and since he's been over many times ever since I moved in my apartment, I didn't see anything wrong with sharing it to sleep. The last time he was with me was quite bothering, though. His parents were away for several days (such was the nature of their work) so he stayed with me for a week. For the first several nights I would notice him masturbate. I didn't mind since I know he's at that age and I did it too at that age. I just pretended to be asleep because I didn't want to embarrass him. If he left a mess, however, then I would have to tell him off. His last night with me really shocked me. It probably was 11 at night. It was summer so I typically go to be bed shirtless with loose boxers on. I was already half asleep lying on my side turned away from him when I felt my boxers being gently pulled down. Then after a few minutes I was already feeling him rubbing himself against my butt. I know he's 12 so he really can't do anything, but I simply froze while it was happening. Again I just continued on pretending to sleep because that would really mortify him if I suddenly turned around and saw him with his underwear off, and just waited til he was done. The next morning continued like nothing happened. But I really wanted to talk to him about it, I just don't know how. I didn't want to tell his parents because of the sensitivity of it. I'm not sure if it's him just being curious and exploratory in his age, but could it be possible too that he's gay (not that there's anything wrong with being gay), and sexually attracted to me?

I have been playing for 5 years now (I'm in 8th grade), and have a lesson once a week. I'm quite skilled, but nowdays playing just doesn't feel nice anymore. I never feel like practicing, and even when I do, I get frustrated and feel like I can't learn it. Every week I get anxious about the upcoming piano lesson, thinking about it ruins my whole day. I just got a new teacher two months ago, she's okay but it's just not the same with her (I have had this feeling for longer than that though). I end up skipping piano lessons, which makes both my teacher and parents worried. My mom says that I should continue since I've been playing for so long, all my talent would go to waste. I guess I get her, besides my parents have spent a lot of money on it, I'd feel bad if I stopped. What happened to all the motivation and inspiration I used to have? (I mostly play songs that I like since I can ask the teacher for what I want, so it's not about the music either). What should I do??

My mom and stepdad are both in their early 60's. My mom has always been stressed out, anxious, and had some physical issues. I don't live with them, but I visit for 2 days a week and stay the night. When I came back this week my mom was OTT happy and friendly, we went for a meal and she wouldn't let me pay for mine, she offered me things like food items etc to take back and was really trying to talk to me loads. But during the night I stayed over, my stepdad ran out of his room in tears (never seen him cry before) twice. Then this morning I heard my mom on the phone to someone arranging them to come to our place monday morning. She was telling them about how she has 3 kids and my stepdad has 2, but I didn't hear more than that. I'm REALLY concerned somethings wrong with her but I cant say anything to anyone, because it's her choice to keep it quiet and I'm scared to find out tbh. I don't know what to do but am worried sick, what do you think this sounds like? Edit: I don't think it's divorce as they haven't been married long, I barely know the guy tbh we've hardly said 2 words to each other. They never spend time together or speak to each other, they are together now for sake of convenience because they are older and on pensions. I don't think a divorce would matter to either of them as bad as that sounds.

It's 3am and I just had a violent argument with my mom. My sisters pregnant and her and her ex boyfriend live with us. I told him to shut up because I was trying to sleep and he started yelling at me to kiss his ***. Eventually my 9 month pregnant sister who has already slapped and choked me before joined in and started yelling at me. And then my mom started yelling at me too. My older brother is the only one to defend me and he cussed them out and my mom threatened to call the police on him for yelling. My sister was telling my mom that she should've beat me and my mom just agreed. She started yelling at my brother and I to get out of her house. He walked out and left and I'm alone with everyone yelling at me now. My mom got in my face and pushed me onto my bedroom floor and I don't know where to go from here. I'm 15 and I know I should be grateful that I have a family and a house but I just hate my life. My mom brings men over to have sex. My sister is abusive and I can't defend myself or she'll call the police. I can't live with my dad because he has a new baby and there's no room for me to stay there. I'm not close with any relatives so what choice do I have? Sometimes I just think about how easier everything would be if I was dead. I just need some advice.