And i mean cut her out of my life completely bc I had alot of trust in her she had never screwed me over before but she went and screen shot our private conversations and sent them to my **** start aunt then she was saying things bashing me as a mom and a person mind you this so called grown woman is older than me well in her thirties and im in my twenties. What do I do?

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When everybody twist words, deflects sentences, has an outburst of wrath, engaged in manipulating, some are physically violent, lacks remorse and has no empathy. Barely anyone I meet is normal, Any suggestions on how to survive?

It's my sisters boyfriends birthday this weekend and I'm not super close with him but he's very respectful and a wonderful guy to my sister, he also came to see me when I had a really bad accident and I was bedridden in the hospital. He is a firefighter so I don't get to hang out with him much but whenever he gets the chance he always asks my sister to bring me along for camping or whatever. I don't want to get him something really nice because that might be weird since we're not that close but I went to Ross and saw a nice metal vintage firefighter truck. It looks die cast and old timey and looks rusted. Is that a cool present or just junk? We aren't close because he's very shy and quiet. He even talks timidly to my sister but he tries very hard to talk to me. I just mean we have a bond but we're not close like my best friend that we've been on sports teams and where I've seen his but more times then mine lol

I was in an abusive relationship but this all happened so long ago. At first he was a really great friend. But soon things got really difficult. He did rape me and he started to threaten he would take his life if I stop talking to him. He has threatened to take his life several times. I tried to be a good friend, I never told but eventually he got really controlling and would show up to my apartment unexpected and univited and when I opened the door he would force his way in, and look around to see if I was cheating on him. I told him he could be apart of the child's life BUT he had to leave me alone and we couldnt talk anymore. He then threatened to take the baby the day its born and told me I would never see the baby again. I blocked his number and he STILL calls me a lot. His mom sends me friend requests on facebook so I blocked his whole family. Now I'm just worried about my baby. I don't want him to exist in the baby's life. On the baby's birth certificate and medical questions I put my dad's name as the father. Will that help at all? By the way he would want to see if I was cheating on him even though there would be several times I told him we are not together. And the birth certificate I AM going to put my dad BUT on the medical papers I put my dad already as the father. How can that raise incest. The nurse told me I had to put SOMEONE'S name.

(And just a reminder, to those who answered my other questions, don't give me a dumb answer, first do your research and then tell me) Thank you!

There is a woman who moved to my area several years ago who operates under a catchy alias (actually goes by this fake name) and rubs me the wrong way. She seems to have the majority of our friends fooled into thinking she is just the greatest thing since sliced bread. I'm not sure how many of them are even aware that her alias is not her real name. She even prides herself on being "Instagram Famous."She tells everyone that her entire family was killed in an accident and she fled an abusive husband, blah blah blah. I however, found out her real name and looked into her story extensively. To say things don't match up is an understatement. I don't have enough proof to exposure her (because nothing that she claims about her past is on record - anywhere). How can I make people realize that she is a liar (and is quite possibly hiding something ominous).

My best friend had a stroke which limits his mobility to use his right side. He can't keep himself up for penetration. I would like to feel penetration as I love sex and deep penetration. He had a stroke because he stopped taking his sickle cell anemia meds on time and properly . Any suggestions. Even with oral he is not satisfying me.. Wow Mike, lol

My boyfriend is obsessed with things being his way, no compromise or understanding of differences. It gets to the point where I am told I have no common sense b/c I didn't see oven mitts fell on the floor. He expects me to clean all of the time, though when I do; it's never good enough. I got told I don't pay attention b/c I didn't push my chair in after doing something at the table.. Mind you, I tried my hardest to clean up my area so he wasn't mad & mean. I get scolded for leaving my keys in the house, I get scared to tell him if I forget my phone in the house, I get scared to not be good enough, clean well enough, & act/look good enough for him. I can't ask him simple questions without him snapping on me a little, & just getting overly mad with little to no reason. He acts like everything I say, ask, & do has some sort of motive behind it. I say sorry umph times a day & literally walk on eggshells b/c I feel like any little thing I do/say will set him off. He is definitely a perfectionist & expects everything to be his way or he'll belittle you & say REALLY crude things. He can do/say really terrible things and feel like a couple hours is the past & get mad if I bring it up, so I have to hold everything in. On top of it, you cannot tell him these things b/c he will get defensive & deny that he plays any role in arguing & that it's all in my head. There is much more but I'm mentioning the basics. I know he has OCD; cleaning & order, but could this be related?

I find one of my managers to be so attractive and everyday he would always say hi to me and tease me a little and I try so hard not to fall for him but I think I slowly am. I haven't been working with him much because he's been off but on Friday I close with him and I was planning on just casually saying "doing anything fun" since it is a Friday night but idk idk if I'll give him the wrong impression, I'm simply just curious and I don't see anything wrong with saying that, it's just if I have the confidence too because when were alone I don't say much and I think it's cause he's so hot, but yeah. Would that be wrong to say?

When I was little, my mom had a lot of shitty boyfriends. The first one punished me by makingme hold spiders (I was terrified of spiders), locking me in the bathroom or room for hours (probably 1/2 an hour but it felt like hours, making me eat spicy ****, and more but I can't remember if he ever hit me.

How can I stop thinking about girls. I been kinda rejected by more then 5 girls. It seems like most of this girl want to sleep with me right away but I'm not that type of guy. I'm old fashion and I will rather go on dates and get to know each other more but all they wants is sex so then they stop talking to me. I feel bad because they live me and am thinking about them all the time this has happen to me more than 5 times. How can I stop thinking about them.

I'm 20 having and having sex with a 28 year old woman who is also married . She has told me that she loves me but hasn't left her husband. What are the chances that it can work out for us in the future? Anybody with a similar experience?

conocí a un chico, empezó a acercarce a mi jugandome bromas, yo igual supe desde el primer día que lo conocí que tenía novia y de 5 años pero ella no estaba en el país, el caso es que un día me hablo x mensaje y desde ese día nunca dejamos de hablar, paso el tiempo y conectamos de maravilla, hubo un lapso en el que me dijo que dejó a su novia para poder intentar algo conmigo, desde antes de aparecer ellos ya tenían problemas, ella se fue y no quiso que el la acompañara, el caso es que temiamos algo pero no novios e íbamos muy rápido, nos decirnos mi amor en menos de un mes, el decía que sentía nos conocíamos de hace mucho, en nuestra última cita fuimos al cine y tuvimos un faje pero muy leve, me pidió hacerlo y me molest a lo que me dijo que lo perdonará que sólo fue el momento, y segun quedamos bien, al otro día me seguía sintiendo mal por eso y le pregunté si algún día seríamos algo y me dijo que no sabía que estábamos confundidos y que no sentíamos amor, a los 3 días regreso con su novia,luego nos volvimos a ver por la escuela y a los 2 semanas de eso me volvió a hablar, me sigue abrazando, nos hemos besado, me pide salir con el, todos saben que el esta con su novia y sus amigos nos miran feo y me siento horrible con esto porque no soy asi, lo quiero tanto que no puedo dejar, creen que sólo me está utilizando o extraña a su novia Que llega en unos 3 meses y que hago me es digivil alejarme de el y es que no se ve de ese tipo de chavos que sólo quieren aprovecharse

My boss is older than me but has shown signs of being flirtatious in the past. He seems to listen in on my conversations and bring up stuff he has heard that I like, etc. I had something to handle at home and told him I needed to take PTO and he threw a fit (he doesnt care if anyone else takes off seems like) on text message and said my husband should take off, not me. My husband makes far more money than I did and wasnt even in town. He finally gave up and said I can take the day off for this. Recently, my husband came up to the building to have lunch with me. As soon as I mentioned my husband was on site, he started acting goofy and about knocked me down to clock out for lunch and ran up to talk to my husband. He even asked my husband's name (he knows it already) and has begun to call my husband "your husband" instead of his name. He also has made snide/mocking remarks about my husband such as "I bet your husband will get you a nice birthday gift and cake", "that's soooooo sweeet that he is buying you that, I am so gladddd!" He also asks if my husband is home. What is his deal? He is married by the way. My husband has noticed his behavior also. My husband has noticed his behavior also.

I recently had a brain tumor removed. The surgery left me with some difficulties walking long distances. As a result, I was given one of those walkers with the built in chairs. I m 15 and I feel so ridiculous walking around with a walker, I don t go out. This girl laughed at me when I went out today. I know that I shouldn t care about what other people think, but how do stop feeling like everyone is staring at me? I hope I don t sound too whiny. I m not asking for internet hugs, just advice. Thanks in advance.

I'm highly against killing and those sorts of crimes. But as soon as it comes to my stepdad, I practically rejoice at the thought of him being killed. I smile, laugh, inwardly taunt him, imagine his corpse, how he dies...(YES I HATE HIM IMMENSELY. HE'S REALLY ABUSIVE. he's intensely severe and screams for no reason and hits when he deems necessary...) I'm scared of my darker side. I know I'll never kill or anything. Because I'm still me, just more demented, you know? What do I do? Is this really bad?! No rude answers please!!!

then why isn't this ok? I met a man who worked on my car, we hit it off..I didn't know he was married until last month. Now its too late for me to change my mind about him, he only has 1 child. He isn't happy, he loves me. I can give him a much better life. so why is this bad?

Hola voy en segundo año de prepa Bueno resulta que hay un chico en mi salon que se llama Jean y a veces me molesta, como el otro dia estaba consiguiendo una cinta para el cabello a una amiga suya y se acerco y le dijo a la niña que esta enfrente de mi si tenia una y volteo y me dijo a ti nisiquiera te pregunto porque no te peinas xD y en la niñas eso se ve muy mal ,Pero como vio que no me lo tome mucho a broma se sento en la butaca atras de mi y le dije que se fuera entonces el me dijo No seas tan enojona y Luego me abrazo a veces lo veo mirandome y cuando lo pesco haciendolo al principio me ve serio pero luego me sonrie le gusto o sera que en serio le caigo mal y solo lo hace para fastidiarme ,No quiero que vallan a iniciar a decir que eso es lo que quiero que me digan ya que a mi no me gusta yo tengo mi crush un año mayor :)

I matched with this guy on Tinder a few weeks ago. He messaged me first and we started talking, then texting. We have similar interests, and he was very flirty. Telling me I was pretty, wanted to do things with me, etc. Very smart, cute, and respectful. Never once tried to start anything sexual with me. I asked him if he wanted to meet up and he said he would think about, and we continued to chat for another day. I texted him the next day and nothing. It's been five days, and he never texted me back. What do you guys think happened? I want to know what I did wrong. I really liked getting to know him. Maybe I went too fast for him? He did continue to talk though after I asked him out. He just got out of a relationship a month ago so I'm not sure if that has anything to do with it or not, but she's in a different state. Also, not a cat fish. We exchanged live photos.