My wife is feeling sad right now. We've been married for 6 years I never seen her so sad. I know what's bothering her. Her friends are doing a play without her. It's a play based on her favorite tv show. It was her dream to be in it she's been practicing for her dream role since she was a kid but the director wasn't really nice he put some of the other people in it then his intire family in it too. It was her dream to be a part of it. She was so excited about going to see it now she's not sure if she wants to she's still kind of upset. When she's in a play she's usually in back up dance or singer but she couldn't even get in for that. Her 3 best friends got the main parts. She thought we should take the kids to see it but she can't decide if she wants to or not she's worried if she sees her friends she'll be upset this is the first play they've done without her she said it's not fair. How can I help her feel better ?

Long story that goes into this. He has been arrested. My boyfriend and I had been living together and had a baby together(and a second one on the way). He was slightly mentally ill and had an anger issue. He managed to keep it until control for the most part up until we moved in together then he started getting verbal and physical. And it was worse and worse each time. Eventually he knocked me out and broke my arm so badly that I need surgery to put the bones back together. The time before that he broke my nose and I fainted from blood lose. For whatever reason, after he broke my amr - he started treating me TERRIBLE. Mainly verbally. There was 6 days between the time he broke my arm to the time he was arrested. During that six days I was bossed around, told I was an inconvience, told I was ugly, a c**t, w**re,needed surgery on my body, needed to dye my hair, he wanted to have sex with other women, threaten to force me to miscarry, told me he wanted me to move out but then wouldnt let me leave. He would ignore me whenever he wasnt being verbally abusive unless he wanted sex. Then he'd tell me I'm only good for sex and Im just a hole. I know he was afraid of getting reported. Which he did and is facing prison time because he was already on probation for something else. I want to know why he treated me WORSE than ever after breaking my arm. I do not know why he was so aggressive in the first place. I was never violent towards him. Thats just how he handled himself. Reckless. I have left. My child and I where he cant find us. There are restraining orders. He has supervised visits.

I'm 20 having and having sex with a 28 year old woman who is also married . She has told me that she loves me but hasn't left her husband. What are the chances that it can work out for us in the future? Anybody with a similar experience?

My boyfriend is currently in the process of a divorce. He has 2 toddlers (2) &(4) . Just about the time she found out about me we noticed extreme mood changes with the 4 yr old. Before the divorce and his ex meeting me the 4 yr old would sleep alone not waking/getting up all night. Recently the 4 yr old will start crying from being completely fine (normal happy self ) saying she does not want to sleep alone bc her Mom has been letting her sleep with her. She also starts pouting and crying for no reason. I don't believe she is directly speaking bad about us (we've asked her) we believe she is manipulating her. She does tell her things like "mommy has to hold ur hand at night " she also told her we all have the same last night and daddys friend doesn't. She constantly brings up my bf moving back in and them being a family once again. I believe this is causing real confusion. Is there anything we can do legally? What can help us with 4 yr olds well being??? Sorry this was a story!! Plz help

My boss is older than me but has shown signs of being flirtatious in the past. He seems to listen in on my conversations and bring up stuff he has heard that I like, etc. I had something to handle at home and told him I needed to take PTO and he threw a fit (he doesnt care if anyone else takes off seems like) on text message and said my husband should take off, not me. My husband makes far more money than I did and wasnt even in town. He finally gave up and said I can take the day off for this. Recently, my husband came up to the building to have lunch with me. As soon as I mentioned my husband was on site, he started acting goofy and about knocked me down to clock out for lunch and ran up to talk to my husband. He even asked my husband's name (he knows it already) and has begun to call my husband "your husband" instead of his name. He also has made snide/mocking remarks about my husband such as "I bet your husband will get you a nice birthday gift and cake", "that's soooooo sweeet that he is buying you that, I am so gladddd!" He also asks if my husband is home. What is his deal? He is married by the way. My husband has noticed his behavior also. My husband has noticed his behavior also.

I want to be friends with him. We been divorced since 2012.

We're adults late twenties. We worked minimum wage and live with parents. I told him let's keep it but he told me get an abortion. My parents didn't approve said I'd have to move out to his house his family were ecstatic. He wasnt. So I said I don't care about his families approval more than his so I got the abortion more so to make him pay and take responsibility for what he's done. Anyway now he blames my parents saying that it's they're fault he wanted an abortion because they didn't want to help. Whos fault is it. I mean if he got me pregnant not my parents why my parents approval and help was so important to him.

I knew we should've raised him in India, but he's been spoon-fed silly American attitude that arranged marriages are bad. We told him to be more like his cousin. Yes, Jai, our son, makes a lot of money, but he only calls every 3 days and doesn't visit us. His cousin married a girl of our elder's choosing. Jai is allowed to date, but we remind him that he would have to marry an Indian girl. He seemed angry about it, but I assumed he would grow out of it. He's almost 30 now, so he has to get married soon. Our parents, who live with us, said he should marry our friend's daughter, who is a good friend of his. She's pretty, has a master's degree, has a career, and already knows Jai well. Our elders know well, and I also felt they were a good fit, so I brought up the idea to Jai. He told me he had an American girlfriend, Emma, and he intends to marry her. If he marries Emma, our culture will be lost. If his children are taught both cultures, they might choose not to follow ours at all. Also, when you marry someone you know, you'll be disappointed when they change, and that's why it's best to marry someone you don't know. Our parents told him they wouldn't talk to him if he married her, and he said he was okay with that. Our entire family will stop even talking to him,including his brother. We will be shamed. If he chooses "love", he'll destroy our us. Besides, it would be terrible if his children were raised without grandparents. How can I stop him from making a terrible decision?

I have always had this problem since my divorce in 05'. I have been diagnosed with crabs 6 different times and i have been with over 250 women since my divorce. I have lost many close friends and family because i have had sexual affairs with people they loved and cared for. It didn't strike me until i accidentally got with my sons fiancee. My son is in Germany at the moment, he is in the Army and I'm staying at his house wile I'm on Probation. Sadly while my son was deployed my sons fiancee ( Savi) and myself had an affair and now she is pregnant. We told my son and he has totally disowned me and i am super depressed. He forced me to move out and he has blocked me from any way to contact him. I am sad, depressed, he was all the family i had left and i ****** him over. How do i make it right with my son? also will a DNA test be able to say whether the baby is my child or my sons child?

then why isn't this ok? I met a man who worked on my car, we hit it off..I didn't know he was married until last month. Now its too late for me to change my mind about him, he only has 1 child. He isn't happy, he loves me. I can give him a much better life. so why is this bad?

Do you ever get the feeling like you got married too soon and didn't get to do everything you wanted? Is there anything you'd wish you had gotten to before (but wouldn't admit to your spouse?)

I don t want get into many details about my marriage life, but I can say it had its ups and downs and its challenges and responsibilities. We both weren t doing our role as spouses in a healthy way. One day she told me she wants to end our marriage, and the next day she started to see someone (without telling me). I tried to fix things between us and promised her with many compromises from my side, but with in few days she got really attached to him and refused all means of fixing our marriage, things got worse day after day until she confessed she is in love with someone. I finally gave up on saving our marriage and gave her the divorce. Few days ago she was telling me that she will get married (I have to know these details because we have 2 daughters involved) and while talking she asked me if I still love her and I told her I stopped loving her because cheating kills love. She said she is not a cheater and that I am the one to blame for what she did. I told her you never gave me a chance to fix things. She denied this and told me she has given me hints that I should fix things before reaching this state. As a summary, I am ready to forgive her for cheating and move on, but I really want her to admit that she cheated, and I am not able to accept that she blames me for her cheating. From my point of view, whatever I do doesn t justify her cheating. She is playing the role of the victim which doesn t make any sense. Any thoughts about this?

My wife is pregnant she loves to lay on me all day. Why ?

Long story short it's the only way we can live together, she has nowhere to go now and I'm willing to do anything to make sure she is safe and happy. We live in oregon, and I believe that I cannot take her over state lines without facing legal charges or something, this is also in secret as of now.

Does everything really change like they say? My new husband and I got married two weeks ago. I have a dog iv had for 11 years. He is tiny and quiet. He came home to my dog on the. Ed and said no dogs on the bed. I can respect that and I complained but then removed him. Next day my husband was wresteling his 120 pound dog and our roommates 160 pound dog on our bed. I was like um.... why are the dogs on the bed? His response, dogs can be on the bed temporarily but not sleep on the bed. Double standard much. He's done things like this several times to me now and I'm starting to feel crazy. When I mention he follow the rules that he himself set, he seems to act as if those rules are just for me. What is this? Iv ever been treated like this, but how can you require me to follow a rule that you laugh about? Help! This is one example of like five in just two weeks!

I had only been sleeping with my significant other for 4 months when I got pregnant. We were mostly having fun, it wasn't serious. We hung out, went out sometimes, saw each other regularly, and talked on the phone. But I had feelings for him almost right away. It took him longer maybe 2 months. And he makes me feel safe and like I can trust him. I didn't really want a baby but I thought I could take care of one. I told him about it and he asked what I wanted and I said an abortion. He said he'd go with me. We made the appointment, I stayed over the night before. He woke me up in the middle of the night and said he wanted to keep it and what did I think? I didn't really want the abortion. He's agreed to be my full partner in this and says he wants to try to make our relationship work. I'm 24 and he's 30 so he's a bit more established. He lived in his own home so he told me to move in. We haven't told anyone. We want to keep it a secret as long as possible. We've been going on more dates and living together a month. I've met his parents. I'm actually really happy. I thought about the counseling though because I thought it might help. I really want this to work for us but also for our baby. I don't think we should go though because nothing's wrong. It's just happened really fast and I want him to be with me because he loves me not just for the baby. He says he's not but he changed so fast as soon as I found out I was pregnant. I will add I didn't want to be pregnant. But with the societal, moral debate of abortion, I didn't want an abortion either. I thought I was doing the thing that was best for me. There's no way I'd want to be a woman that raises a child alone. I thought it was smart but I was feeling like sh*t and dreading the next morning. So when he woke me up to say he didn't wanna do it, I felt like I was drowning and he threw me a life vest. Like, "Thank God! You feel it too." He'd tell people now but I'm not ready. I didn't meet his parents nor did they know anything about me till after I was pregnant. I didn't want to go, "Hi, nice to meet you. I'm having your grandkid." They'll figure it out when we tell them in a few months but I'd rather them know me first. And if I'm not ready to tell the grandparents, how can I tell anyone else? We just told them we'd been dating awhile and they were nice & welcoming. He says I'm worried over nothing, that they'll be excited.

My wife is worried because she's pregnant she's due in August between 8-12. She knows that's when the Manson murders happened. She's kind of freaked out. She knows it happened 50 years ago but there are people out there who could do that. Our family goes camping in the summer but we won't be camping that night it'll be a week night. Lucky for us we'll be home. She can't decide if she should sleep or stay up all night. She'll be too scared to sleep. But she's not sure she wants to stay up especially at midnight. She doesn't want to go outside because she's scared of bugs and katydids. They're really bad here around that time plus she thinks going outside will make it worse. She's afraid I might leave her alone like the actress husband did. She's worried it's gonna be like 1969 all over again. How can I make her feel comfortable ? How can I protect her if anything does happen ? She's also 2 years younger than Sharon Tate was which makes her even more scared.

I'm thinking about putting a restraining order on my separated wife. She left over 2 years ago into an apartment. I have done everything I can think of to work it out so she can move back in but she's more interested in her job, friends and her own life. She's not seeing anyone else and hasn't cheated nor have I. Aside from a few blowups we get to see each other usually once a week, usually at night because of her hours. I'm thinking about laying down the hammer on her. I want to give her a 30 day notice to get the rest of her stuff out of my house. Then I'm going to place a restraining order but can I make something up as I don't really have a valid reason? From there I'm going to tell her to file a divorce herself, I will not be involved at all. Nothing I really have is in her name. The house I bought well before we got married and is only in my name and she abandoned the marriage. I was thinking about just telling her my 2 cents, tell her to get the rest of her stuff out of my house under my supervision and tell her to file a divorce. Whether she does that or not I don't care. If I commit polygamy someday so be it. I really don't care. Then I'm going to change my status on social media sites from separated to single as I want girls to know I am available not "divorced" oh and my last words to her will be - I don't want to talk to you or see you again. If for some reason you need to reach out to me must go through a third party. we will not see each other or talk to each other ever, ever again. It will be like I never knew you existed before.

A while back a girl contacted me saying she was pregnant with my husbands child. Just received the court papers in the mail stating it is his child with the court date to determine child support. I am so torn and I honestly don't know what to do. This man has been my rock through everything and he is an amazing father to my son who isn't even his I see the good in this man and I do understand the man he was back then isn't the man he is now. I just want opinions and advice from people who have gone through the same thing. Leaving him is not an option and never will be for me, I can see the pain in his eyes because he has done this to me and I make it very clear to him how heartbroken I am. But what are some things that have helped you guys get through something like this. Thank you

If I get upset, no matter how mild it is, he will either literally run until extreme exhaustion (even though he has mild arrhythmia, or even go as far as to burn himself with a lighter. I don't understand anymore. I feel so emotionally exhausted. He functions perfectly in a professional setting where there are critical feedbacks from time to time. But if I say to him "baby, I just feel frustrated. I need a shower to calm down", I get out of the shower to find he has punched the wall until his knuckles are bleeding. I'm also worried because his father committed suicide when he was a teenager. I've tried to make sure that keep my upset inside as much as possible and avoid any overly critical comments. We've been married for 8 years and I really, deeply love him. I am just so sad and feel too embarrassed to explain what is happening to any of my friends. Should I get him counseling? How do I hide my upset better? Has anyone else been through this?

I am a military dependent my wife is in the Air Force and she has been non stop talking to this guy. I've told him multiple times to stop he hasn't, today I got on her Snapchat and saw his snap to her that said "goodnight 💜 You" if I talk to the commander what would happen? My uncle is a Major in the army also.

I will cut details. I had to go to foreign country for family emergency for 6 weeks. When i came back to america, i found house had been evicted cause my husband sent bounced check and ignored eviction warning for 6 weeks. I have had money and he knew it and he knew my family in my country are always ready for sending up to 10k in 2 days. (He just needed 200 dollars more) He just ignored all and his lazy butt made house evicted and dogs were evicted and he ignored contact asking from shelter too. Now my dogs are forver hone from me and i found i can never find them back. Just now i paid off his eviction debt and all bs he made while i was gone. Almost 12k. From my money and my family. It was not first time. Only cause he is too lazy to read mails and noticement. Seriously i am thinking of divorce and going to hawaii and stay there (many relatives and family member who can give me direct financial help. Do you think i am wrong to decide divorce over my spouse? Now seriosuly i feel scared by even trivial finger to finger touch with him. He just looks like ugly fat lazy white pig. Seriously i think i would be happy if he dies..

Me & my best friend are 27, my wife is 26. I married my wife last year and have been together since senior year of college. I love her more than anyone. 3 years ago, i was at a party with my best friend and we we got drunk. I don't remember the night that well but i remember my best friend told me she loved me. We also apparently we slept together that night. We agreed it was a huge mistake were to never talk about it again. I havent cheated since and don't intend to. It truly was a mistake. 2 months after that she found out she was pregnant. I asked her if it was mine and she said it was this other guy's who didn't want it and was just gonna pay child support. I believed her, because i mean why would she lie about that, so i didn't bring it up again. Come last night when we were celebrating my 1 year anniversary. We had a party and my best friend got really drunk, and we were talking about her son and at one point, and she referred to him as our son. I was like what? And she told me that she lied about it not being mine because she knew i didn't like or want kids and because i had a good thing going with my gf at the time (now wife) and she didn't want to ruin it. I mean wtf??? Im furious as hell. I helped raise that kid. My wife helped her raise that kid. She hasn't spoken to me or responded to any of my texts or calls at all today. What do i do? Im freaking out. Do i pretend i don't know? Do i tell my wife? Do i start paying child support? What i just don't know wtf to do.

Me & my best friend are 27, my wife is 26. I married my wife last year and have been together since senior year of college. I love her more than anyone. 3 years ago, i was at a party with my best friend and we we got drunk. I don't remember the night that well but i remember my best friend told me she loved me. We also apparently we slept together that night. We agreed it was a huge mistake were to never talk about it again. I havent cheated since and don't intend to. It truly was a mistake. 2 months after that she found out she was pregnant. I asked her if it was mine and she said it was this other guy's who didn't want it and was just gonna pay child support. I believed her, because i mean why would she lie about that, so i didn't bring it up again. Come last night when we were celebrating my 1 year anniversary. We had a party and my best friend got really drunk, and we were talking about her son and at one point, and she referred to him as our son. I was like what? And she told me that she lied about it not being mine because she knew i didn't like or want kids and because i had a good thing going with my gf at the time (now wife) and she didn't want to ruin it. I mean wtf??? Im furious as hell. I helped raise that kid. My wife helped her raise that kid. She hasn't spoken to me or responded to any of my texts or calls at all today. What do i do? Im freaking out. Do i pretend i don't know? Do i tell my wife? Do i start paying child support? What i just don't know wtf to do. Sorry if this is the wrong category, idk which category this would go in. Sorry if this is the wrong category. Idk which this would fit best in.

Even if shes not?