My stepdaughter is morbidly obese. At 16, she eats too much and isn't active. I'm tired of it and disgusted by it and by her. But I can't say much because her father is obese, too, and I love him. He'd just get mad. What do I do before I tear my hair out?

Why did she have to exist? My husband is so smart and handsome and charming. Why did he have to have a kid? Its not like there are that many smart and charming men left. Why did this one have to have offspring? I just want him to myself. :( I hate seeing her face. Her voice is soft and mousy like her mother's. What do I do?

how disappointed were you on your wedding night?

How to you feel about your spouse after having been with them for so long?

I have been stuck at level M2 for three years and have sieen other women less qualified jump to M4. He fancies himself and the water fountain runoutr is one BJ equals one grade. I need the money bad and am considering it, other less qualified girls have moved up inexplicably, surely a quick BJ wouldn't hurt in the big picture (I am married)

Don't be late for work. Take out the trash. Don't flirt with that waitress. Don't smoke crack. Aye mios dios!

My girlfriend has been friends with a male friend of hers since she was a little kid. Their families were friend as well. On Facebook she only like photos of him when he is by himself and she will comment "cute" on some of them but she never likes or comments on photos when he is with his girlfriend or a girl he is dating in the photos. I have never met this guy as he now lives out of state and the times when he has been in town she's never made an effort for me to meet him. She also has visited with and stayed with him before. She swears they are just platonic friends and I believe her for the most part but do you think it is inappropriate since I've been with her for over a year now and never met this guy?

I'll try to make it short n simple; i love a married woman and she loves me too but her husband won't divorce her due to two simple reasons. First, he is mentally sick ( sadist ) and enjoy being her master and controlling her feelings and life. Second, divorce translates into a huge monetary lose and lose of face infront of the community esp when she gets married the next day with me. He beats his kids on a daily basis; yet he is regarded as a smart and prestigious member of society due to his numerous unuversity degrees, job position etc. I also found out his mistress is her younger sister. At this point i see no solution other than annihilating him. She lives in constant terror and humiliation; i've seen it with my eyes - without him knowing who i am - I'd prefer to pay all divorce expenses and take the legal / civilized way out; but he won't listen to her saying that she's insane and mentally ill; plus he keeps her on sedatives and anti depressants against her will. The police or whatever won't look into the matter claiming that they should solve their issues etc. When we get a chance to talk together ( always less and less .. he took away her phone and internet ) she wants to be free from him; and be with me etc. Therefore, i see no other solution other than making her a widow. Needless to say that im not your average joe..by a far shot. And that i adore her. Suggestions ? Solutions ? Btw her husband does not let her to use phone or have friends visit or possess any money in any form. Eliza: i saw everything with my own eyes; at first i also doubted what she claimed. She has no interest in money - i offered her 20K in a new bank account if she could come up with the guts to ask him for divorce. She is too scared and is pleading me to take her away physically. NB im not your average joe...by a far shot.

Don't judge or hate but I am married and we are both having an affair I know it's wrong but we just couldn't fully let each other go.

I'm 29 she's 27 and she has a 6 year old son.. 3 years ago I met her and we had unprotected sex and she got pregnant.. we decided to keep our baby and 10 months later we got married .. so it's been almost 2 years since our baby was born and she still has a pregnant looking belly.. it's to the point where other people just thinks she's pregnant.. her personality is not the best but its alright i guess, she doesn't work, she doesn't know how to cook but she tries to every once in awhile, she just finally got her license and I bought her a nice car.. I get her almost anything she wants.. she's only been attractive to me for about 3 months since I've known her. Ever since then she's always looked pregnant and she doesn't seem to care about it much.. i dont really like the idea of separating but if i need to i will.. what should I do? Thanks

My younger sister is living with us at home since more than a year due to various reasons etc and she's "single" at 33 of age..never married. Me and my husband have had issues but he won't divorce saying that its for the kids benefit; yet im neglected and just used as a house maid and nannny. My sister always takes his side and says that im just a frustrated housewife exagerating everything. Could they be having an affair ?

Our dog is a 3 year old golden retriever and the sweetest thing you could ever meet. My wife and I have been together for 5 years and she's 4 months pregnant. I've noticed over the past few months that she has been getting more aggressive with our dog Sandy. She yells at her for nothing. She literally shoves her out of the way, making her yelp, she purposely stands on her paws, and smacks her around when she thinks I'm not looking. I don't understand why she is doing this, she loved Sandy before she got pregnant. I work and my wife stays home, we'll I've learned she never let's Sandy out and when she messes in the house my wife kicks her (my neighbor saw a week ago through our window because they were worried about all the yelling). I've noticed Sandy has been looking a bit thinner and her coat has dulled, we'll it turns out my wife has been taking her food away. I went away for work for a couple of days and I come home to find Sandy not doing well. I confronted my wife and she admitted to all of it. I don't know what to do, I don't want anything to do with woman. She told me to choose her or Sandy and of course I chose Sandy because what kind of monster does that to a dog? My wife didn't like that and started yelling about the baby. Sandy is staying with my parents until the baby is born. At this point I don't care anymore, I don't want anything to do with my wife. Can I somehow call the authorities on her for animal abuse?

So my husband is more into Rap and yes r&b too but he usually gets into rap and when we are in the same car and I have on slow R&B he changes it and doesn't like to listen to that. BUT the last two days I notice he's on a kick of watching some serious slow R&b love making type music and just what seems like girly music on his phone while working out or whatever hes doing, even on his lunch breaks at work. Should I be concerned?

I was depressed after being assaulted and I tried to kill myself. But I'm much better now and I can't even believe I wanted to do that in the first place. My husband caught me trying to do it. And he feels like if I had done it that it would be his fault because he knew I was depressed. Like he should have made sure I had better help and not left me alone long enough to put all those things together. I've been out of rehab for two months and he's acting crazy. I can never shower by myself. He watches how long I am in the bathroom in case I want to "slit my wrists" even though I've never done that. He hardly ever goes out without me. He doesn't leave me alone. If I say I want to go to the gym, he'll go, I'll go with you. I can have some free time if I'm with a friend. But he wants to see a screenshot of a text to prove I'm meeting with a friend and "check-in" with me. On a daily basis, he asks if I'm okay or how do I feel. He's starting to suffocate me. I understand he doesn't trust me. He told me that. I've told him a million times I'm not suicidal but he doesn't believe me. I just need him to trust me. I know it's hard but he just has to. I can't deal with him doing this all the time. It's not that if he goes to the gym with me, he'll sit in a corner and stare. He'll go and he'll make it fun together. It was something we did together sometimes. But still every time he wants to go somewhere with me or watches me funny or checks in, I know it's because he doesn't trust me and it reminds me of WHY he doesn't trust me. It makes it harder for me because I am trying to move on and live a normal life.

I left my husband for another woman 5 years ago. I feel like I made a mistake, especially because of the effect on my kids. My kids are in college and older, but it still rips the family apart. Life with a woman is not as I thought, and I think I was going through a mid-life crisis. I don't physically love my x-husband, but there is so much I love about him in other ways. I miss him. I'm afraid of what others will think, like I'm crazy woman for leaving him for a woman, and now going back. Especially after I bashed him so much (he had a temper). But I feel like this new relationship has just as many issues, no relationship is perfect. I sit in guilt everyday for what I've done.So, I might as well go back with him in order to have my family back. It's what others think which is holding me back. Plus I'll have the guilt of leaving my current wife. I'll have to live with that again. I'm confused.

I am asking him about his habit doing cybersex? His reason is " I am like this?! And telling me why you need to compare yourself to the woman I m doing cybersex? For me is I feel so humiliated and I m not enough for him?

I am on the brink of doing it with a guy who sets me on fire just looking at him, held back so far but it's really difficult.

I hate weed and all drugs, but my husband's brother got back from Turkey and brought back a huge amount of hash. So, hubby smoked all nine grams that my brother-in-law had given him and then had the genius idea of watching a documentary on North Korea. Next day he's totally paranoid about government concentration camps, border guards, internal passports. He seems to forget that we live in the USA. Should I divorce him?

I was raised in a family where my spouse comes first, her needs need to be a priority. If I am with my friends I answer all her calls to make sure she is okay or if she needs me. I bring her around friends that also have wives. However, it is not quite the same the other way around. When I call her she ignores it because she is on the phone with her friends, which I find quite disrespectful. Am I wrong? She also comes home whenever she wants.

She is from Thailand and I think it's legal there. She is super hot. I'm just afraid my wife might find out but the girl hardly speaks any English yet.

He is serious. He's been hiding them and I have been locked in the place unless I go on foot behind his back. The reasons behind this are stupid and childish. Just saying so you don't wonder why. He's just violent. I'm in the process of running from him. But tomorrow is a very important work meeting, have to leave at 6am. He's threatening to punch my face if I wake him for the keys. I don't know how to make him give me my keys in the morning. If I call the cops what will happen? I'm in philly, PA, USA Please guys help me

Don't get me wrong I love sex after a massage but there are some days I wish he would just massage me longer. I have back pain and aches! The longest I probably got was 18 - 20 minutes it usually like5? then the reach around to my boobs for sex came like I was Expecting. Only a few days when I feeling like crap and am sore I wish I could get a massage for 1-2 hours without giving sex and I don't get it done professionally cause i'm shy?

My husband and I recently got married, but had to go to re-hab. He drinking problem was affecting his work. This is the first time going thru this. I heard stories of the loved one coming home and decide to leave their spouse. I am afraid about this, but I am trying to educate myself. Am I being selfish in thinking this and fearing this?

Someone help me please.This is something we fight about a lot.He makes me look out to be a crazy person.I've seriously thought about buying a recorder to record it and show him.

leave the marriage.

leave the marriage.