My parents have thought of divorcing a few times, but I worry about how that would go. My mom is a stay at home mom, so she hardly has any money of her own. I'm 21, a full time dependent student. I haven't had a job because I haven't made that leap and gotten a job as I am acutely disabled. Then we have my 16 year old sister. I worry about affording to live in our 2 story house. I know I'd probably work part-time, while my mom works too, but I worry about not being able to afford to live. Is there any best case scenarios or any services provided for this type of scenario?

I had my headphones on and didnt hear her?

My ex husband who put me through hell starting 2 years after we were married when I was 8 mnths pregnant w/ our 1st child and it all spiraled down hill from there. I finally got us out even though his attorney said I abandoned my home bc I got myself and my son who was two at the time of last summer of 2018 out of harms way when he followed me into the garage and opened his trunk to get his bat and told me he was gonna beat the ish out of me. I went home to my parents. We're still there w/ my parents until he finally moves out our house we still have 2gether in march. He's bragging every chance he gets about his new gf who he said "treats him like royalty" to my dad and is beautiful and smarter than I am and doesn't work with special needs children and has a "real job". He never liked me working as an EC Teacher for some reason. A 10 month position to him isn't a real job even if you're a teacher. Anyway my son is 3 now and is talking about how he sleeps in the bed with daddy n brittany when he's with him for visitation and how brittany takes him horseback riding. My ex takes pride in saying "haha everything you wanted us to do as a family, I'm now doing with Brittany. I really was interested in doing all those things, I just didnt want to do them with u". He told me he'd let me meet her and now he's not because he knows I have a lot of dirt on the person he is that he hasn't exhibited yet. He exhibited his personality eventually in front of all my friends and fam.

I am feeling extremely anxious. I was border line black out drunk, I barely remember it even happening, but a married man I work with kissed me. I yelled at him after the fact that he shouldn't be doing this and you are MARRIED and said this never happened to him multiple times. I can't stop feeling absolutely horrible and disgusting. Any helpful tips on how to stop feeling so anxious about this huge mistake?

So having kids is still far off for me but I want an honest assessment from an unbiased source. My girlfriend and I have been getting into the "ideal future" talks and kids have slowly started to come up in conversation. We're both still completing our bachelors degrees and have a general idea of what we both want. She's wants to a grade school teacher and I want to become a physician. We've discussed our rough outline for how we see our futures but we really didn't get that deep into kids or a family. I know I'll have four years of med school, 5 years of residency, and a fellowship to come. Realistically, I know I won't have a lot of free time during this period but I also don't want to wait until we're both "old" to start our family. Is managing a family and career doable? At what is it necessary to have the in-depth discussion?

Bitchez liked to be looked at as sexual piecesofass. Husbands might want a hot pieceofass for a wife. The ad wasn't sexist at all. What was wrong is that the husband didn't get any action for contributing to his wife feeling good about herself.

I had a fight with my husband last night after drinking too much and I don't remember any of it. He claims I was yelling so loud that he was trying to cover my mouth (I bit his hand a little bit)...and I threw/broke a wine glass. I don't remember doing that either. I feel terrible because this has happened before and everytime I always think everything will be fine at first. Not only do I feel bad for fighting/whatever I said to my husband that might've been out of line, but I'm worried my neighbors think I'm crazy now. This doesn't happen every single time I drink alcohol either, which makes it even more frustrating. Because of this, I don't want to give up on drinking completely but I feel so bad about how I acted. I'm disappointed that I couldn't keep it together like the two times before. I feel bad that I yelled at my husband (even though he is not perfect) and I want to stop beating myself up over this. Any advice on how to not feel like a piece of sh*t after something like this? I just want to crawl under a rock. And how can I move forward and stay positive? I feel like if I monitor myself more while drinking, then I should be okay. Also, how can I stop feeling embarrassed/worried about what my neighbors might've heard or what they think of me now? It's so awkward feeling. Lastly, any tips on how to not be paranoid that something bad happened after drinking too much? I figure my husband would've mentioned it...

Stuff like shootings, car accidents, divorce etc. 

I know it will heal, but I feel that this really crossed a line, as far as trust goes. I feel like packing up and leaving. Any suggestions?

Let's say she's married for the third time (her second husband also passed away).  But for the sake of her children and grandchildren, she still speaks to her in-laws from her first marriage, and sees them on occasion with her current husband who accompanies her.  Unfortunately, this doesn't last, as her in-laws barely know him and can't remember how to pronounce his name.  Although, they always referred to her second husband as "uncle," as they adored him and felt that he was neither an upgrade or a downgrade from their biological deceased uncle (her first husband).  Is it possible that her current husband is insecure about his wife staying in contact with her first husband's relatives and feels like he's dealing with competition (even though her first husband is gone, NOT a divorce where he's still alive)?  Therefore, was her second husband more understanding an secure with himself, since he saw his wife's relatives enough to the point where they looked at him as family? Her children and grandchildren obviously miss their dad/grandad, so it's only natural that she would go with her children/grandchildren to see their relatives, since it wasn't a divorce that made people avoid seeing certain people.

They don't need my money. My whole salary is a joke to them.

I guess men want a wife that was mean in high school. I wonder if I should yell at loud at a store that "I should have been mean as a teen if I wanted to marry you age 25." It is hard to be a beautiful bride after age 30 FYI. 

Im 29 female and live alone and i have this married couple in their 50s next to me and 2other neighbors across from me. Its a 4 in a block landing. This man of the married couple has revealed himself as a perv by asking me to go in watch a movie with him while his wife is away on holiday. She goes away a lot and i never feel save when shes gone because i know he's gonna chap letterbox and annoy me. He has told me that his marriage isn't working out because he is sex deprived. I politely said no thanks, he said "I won't touch you or anything like that, I'm married" but the way he talks is disgusting. He waits to get me myself when im waiting on the lift and he'll say thing's like "aw my wife is going away this week and I'm gonna be lonely" "I need female attention" please come in for a drink with me. I went in their house once but it was to have a drink with him and his wife as we do help each other with spare furniture. But he knows he's making me uncomfortable asking me stupid things and being like "I'm horny man like me needs youthful women like yourself" his wife left today for a xmas holiday. Today he chapped my letterbox and shouted threw it. I don't know what to do other than keep saying no thanks. Its getting uncomfortable for me to Walk to the lift hoping not to see him. Is there any advice you can give me to deal with this creepy man?  

Serious question, no trolls.

If a person has no desire for sex, is it fair to marry another person who may enjoy sex? Or should that person just agree to have an open marriage? 

It isn't millions or nothing like that, just several tens of thousands.  My plan is to use it for extracurricular activities at strip clubs.

My girlfriend and I have been hooking up for about 4 months.  I'm married, and at the beginning I told her I had no interest in intercourse.  I've been going down on her, a lot, and she gets me off good with a variety of 'jobs'.  Recently, after a rather good set of orgasms, she was very provocative about wanting it inside her.  I even went out and bought the larger size condoms, because of how big she makes me.   It was far more pleasurable for her, and now she wants that at least 50% of the time.  If I wanted intercourse, it would be easier to pester my wife and go 1 for 10, than the work it takes to hide visits with a GF. Oral is worth it, Intercourse is not. Should I find another girlfriend?

Long story short, I have a 7 year old step daughter. I've known her for 2 years and have a good relationship. Her dad and I have been married for 8 months. We get her on the weekends. We all get along including my husband's ex wife and her husband. Every weekend we carry my step daughter to her moms. Every time her mom or dad says to give me loves, she says no or backs away from me, but will show me love at our house. It's like she doesn't if someone asks her too. How should I react whenever she says no at her moms? Should I do nothing or say it's okay? I don't want to be petty about it because I know how kids are and can be moody or feel weird about doing it in front of her mom. Any advice or thoughts?

Im 18 and he is 21

I don't know what's going on with my fiancé this year. We moved into our first apartment in August . She was never one to excessively spend but since we moved in together she's been spending non stop.  She spent over 700 dollars on Christmas decorations for our 1 bedroom apartment. She also spent over 300 on fall decor and another 6000 dollars on furniture for our 1 bedroom apartment. She's becoming obsessed with spending money. Nothing is enough. All she talks about is money, decorating, and high end clothing. She's refusing to shop at stores that aren't high end for clothing and for Christmas only wants me to buy her only high end clothing. We both have money but I don't have an excessive amount. We are both 26 and I'm really starting to rethink things with her. I've talked to her about her spending and she gets very angry. Any advice? 

It's something about her personality. I can't seem to shake this feeling, I think she believes I'm a threat when I'm actually pretty harmless. Even if I had feelings for her husband whom I've known for some time, I would be afraid to tell him because his wife would probably hire a hit man to put an end to me if she found out the message before he did. If she found the message before he did.