We saw each other after our breakup (he contacted me) & he's been using this bag he lent me as an excuse to see me. I wanted to meet him after work to give it back, or meet half way, as he lives far, but he wanted me to come to his flat and wouldn't have it any other way. When we slept together, I made it clear I felt bad because we're not together. Yesterday I text him stupidly in a depressed moment, that I don't want to keep hold of the bag and will he give me his new flat door number, or I'll drop it off, but can''t stay. He said it would be nice to see me. I then text him maybe I shouldn't and my head is all over the place. He could meet me out to get it and I'm sorry. He just laughed and said whatever. I got annoyed & said yeah let's leave it, to which he replied "PLease throw that bag in the bin. I've blocked you on whatsapp and I'm trying to do t on here, but won't work. Please don't message me again. He's 33 and acts like a child. I told him to f*** off & he only cares about himself. That I hopes he finds the girl that wants what he wants, because I don't think there is one. He blocked me on whatsapp after I wouldn't go all the way to his. He then told me it's not just about sex, we got on well & he misses that. But he makes no effort. He said I don' know how much the breakup hurt. told him yesterday he doesn't know how much it hurt me. He wants someone to love him, but on his terms.

I never been close to family,now that I'm older it's worse. My dating life has always sucked,I'd get close but most time doesn't work out. I'm engaged now but I think our relationship isn't super lovely in fact we conflict alot. Friends I barely habe them that's days lot friendships I had didn't work out. Its like I can't have healthy relationships and I feel awkward trying get close to people. Why is this? I have a 1 year old daughter and I feel closest to her I'm afriad we won't have a good relationship

my cousin coming over to my house and it a girl .i 'm 16 and she is also the same age but only 7 month older .last night her parent and my parent were going out until about 3. so we watch a movie then i feel sleeply so i went to bed at midnight .then about 1:30 i felt her touching my dick and kissing me .she said she had a crush on me when we were about 9.then she gave up on me.then she started touching my chest and stoking my dick .i pretend that i was asleep .that i want to hit her in the face but she's sentive.so i don't want to hurt her. about 2 she went to bed . i never thought she would do that. i just want feedback also i now lost my virgin

im not sure which one to get. what would you guys say.

We saw each other after our breakup (he contacted me) & he's been using this bag he lent me as an excuse to see me. I wanted to meet him after work to give it back, or meet half way, as he lives far, but he wanted me to come to his flat and wouldn't have it any other way. When we slept together, I made it clear I felt bad because we're not together. Yesterday I text him stupidly in a depressed moment, that I don't want to keep hold of the bag and will he give me his new flat door number, or I'll drop it off, but can''t stay. He said it would be nice to see me. I then text him maybe I shouldn't and my head is all over the place. He could meet me out to get it and I'm sorry. He just laughed and said whatever. I got annoyed & said yeah let's leave it, to which he replied "PLease throw that bag in the bin. I've blocked you on whatsapp and I'm trying to do t on here, but won't work. Please don't message me again. He's 33 and acts like a child. I told him to f*** off & he only cares about himself. That I hopes he finds the girl that wants what he wants, because I don't think there is one. He blocked me on whatsapp after I wouldn't go all the way to his. He then told me it's not just about sex, we got on well & he misses that. But he makes no effort. he said I don' know how much the breakup hurt. told him yesterday he doesn't know how much it hurt me. He wants someone to love him, but on his terms.

she is extremely affectionate even out in public, she stares at me even when we're at home together, she stares at me if I fall asleep, she stares at me when we have sex, she gets extremely jealous if I talk to one of my college female friends, she even masturbates to my picture. er eh can someone help me calm her down?

I moved out and she texts me twice a day everyday . I cant afford another car so she drives me to and from work and she will Text me the second i leave her . I love my Mom but she is starting to drive me Nuts and i dont know how to tell her

Recently my professor passed away and I was very hurt and devestated by it. I got close with his sister and we've mourned through it together. I was suppose to go to a competition in Houston and she said "Let me know what dates and I WILL go watch you!!!!!!" But my competition got stationed to Dallas. I'm a bit bummed because I don't think she'd want to go visit me now since I won't be going to her town. And it's so far away I really wish I could see her, I'm stressing to find a way to make it possible. It's upsetting because I'm not able to or nothing is working out. Any advice?

the guy I liked moved back home to his hometown which is one other side of where I am :( & decided that I wanted to confide in him since I felt like there was something there between us, I felt comfortable being around him and talking to him and thought it was the same way for him so I asked him if we could talk more, get to know one another & he told me he didn't have any interest in creating long distance relationships/friendships and because he finds them tedious and a lot of work. he said he knows it sounds harsh but it wasn't personal, and that I seemed nice & he wished me well it was just how he felt w/ a sad face and I honestly thought he felt bad or at least cared about my feelings and so I told him that I was kind of sad that, that's how he feels about them and that he'll never know unless he tries and I think it'd be nice just to have someone to talk to, wouldn't you want that? And idk if It was what I said or if he was having a bad day or if it was just bad timing but he became a jerk and said I do not want that, I thought I made it clear in the first message while remaining nice, like wtf that was beyond rude and he also told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again. And I literally felt crushed after reading it, I cried for like 10 minutes and just felt so mad after that, that I ended up texting him back and might of called him stubborn.. eventually I apologized but he ignored it :( I can't figure if he overreacted or if I'm just a senstive person

ight so basically I honestly hate myself with a passion and I wanna know how to change I come from a poor Hispanic family who scream over the most retarded of things dog pees? they scream for 90 hours and don't bother cleaning it 3 bottles on a table? scream endlessly and not clean up in fact,if i wanted to be realistic i am homeless, technically I'm just a guest because my mom can't afford a house so we live in my aunts house they also still verbally abuse me to this day my dad who left is probably why I have selective mutism,bc of him I've been abused and traumatized and I still remember the time he abused my mom while I was crying on the sofa that was about 10-11 years ago (I'm 15 now) I have barely any friends bc of my selective mutism and I've never been in a relationship,I really like this chick but I simply don't have the balls to talk to her because of it it feels like I'm on stage whenever I wanna talk to someone,doesn't need help that my voice sounds baddddd. I wanna join a basketball team bc I feel like I'll able to gain more friend but number 1 I think it's too late (10th grade) and 2 at the start I'm gonna be awful so I think that's gonna be a chance for me to be the talk of the school in a bad way if I just wanna sum this up I just wanna open up some doors and become -popular-,I hate being myself I don't want to be pulled down by selective mutism and depression,I want to live in a normal family at times I feel like I wanna kill myself or something

On Valentine's day, this lady I was acquainted with asked me do I make you nervous. I don't know why she would ask me this as I never acted nervous around her at all, but I didn't talk much to her.

I don't know whether I really want kids or if it's just fantasy. I fully understand the love, care, and expensed thtr go into taking care of a kid. I've actually lived it while helping to take care of my niece. But do I really want my own kids? Has anyone ever had the delusion of wanting kids, but snapped out of it? How do you know for sure?

My ex is a coward. He never did anything with any courage. He is a loser and I hope he dies quickly, so everyone will be blessed by that coward's absence

the way you did it shows what a no backbone sissy you are faggggot asss male.. never seen such a whimpy guy in my life, not even a whimpy girl acts like you

We have been together for about six years. I've been in a sour mood the last few days and I feel like I'm taking it out on him and I really don't mean to. It isn't directly towards him, but I can tell when I'm not feeling well it bothers him as well. I want to make up for being such a pain, or at least show that I am sorry. I don't have much money, but I want to do something special for him. He gets off work before I do, so I can't really surprise him with dinner as soon as he gets home, but I was wondering what do other people do for their loved ones as gifts or surprises that he may enjoy? Would a small gift basket with treats and stuff for a good movie night be okay?

I'm 17 & have never been with anyone, I've been hit on by older girls but no one my own age. I want someone older than someone who can teach. I can speak English French italian and Spanish is my first language. I've got A's in my classes. I'm not ugly I've been told I'm cute but I'm one of the nerdier kids. I deal with depression and sometimes I feel a lot of self hate I'm a very loving person I could shower you with gifts and dates but i could never love myself I feel ashamed. Im still a Virgin the other guys think I'm gay that's because I dress well. I'm six foot two 145 lbs. I've got brown eyes and dark brown almost black hair. I've got a baby face I'm a lightskinned Hispanic male, so I'm mixed with Asian African Native American and European DNA. I'm a family person but don't really have one. I've been lied to and hurt my hearts been broken by women who I try to save from abusive boyfriends, they deserve better. I just need somebody to hold in my arms put my arm around her waist and move her hair from her face maybe even caress you softly I could give a **** if you're 18 or 37 I just want to to learn **** that I need to be taught

the guy I like was moving back to his hometown and I really wanted to keep talking to him, get to know him and thought I'd be straightforward and honest about it. So i texted him, hey I know you're half way across the country but I was wondering if you we could talk more, get to know one other and he told me he didn't have any interest in creating long distance relationships/friendships or otherwise, he found them tedious and a lot of work. he knows it sounds harsh but he didn't mean anything personal by it and that I seemed nice and he wished me well but it was how he felt w/ a sad face and I genuinely thought he felt bad or at least cared about my feelings so I tried to get him to at least try it & he lashed out, told me to respect his boundaries and not to text him again.. wtf. He made it seem like he was senstive and caring towards me when really he didn't give a flying eff about me so I got really mad & decided to text back out of impulsive and said wow if I had known you were so stubborn I wouldn't have said anything so my apologies for wanting to try and know you better. I won't ever text you again. A few weeks later I felt bad that I might of offended and decided to apologize and he just completely ignored it  can you really blame me for thinking he genuinely cared? I mean why the sad face.. I also feel like he wasn't that straightforward, a simple I'm not into you would've been just fine.. this situation makes me feel like I'm crazy that my feelings are crazy :(

I dont want my mum to yell at me or get disappointed with me.. i just dont like the dress anymore.. she bought it when we had no money, she moved all our money into one account just to buy it for me. I dont know how to tell her i dont like the dress on me and want a new one. Please help me?

I'm 17 & have never been with anyone, I've been hit on by older girls but no one my own age. I want someone older than someone who can teach. I can speak English French italian and Spanish is my first language. I've got A's in my classes. I'm not ugly I've been told I'm cute but I'm one of the nerdier kids. I deal with depression and sometimes I feel a lot of self hate I'm a very loving person I could shower you with gifts and dates but i could never love myself I feel ashamed. Im still a Virgin the other guys think I'm gay that's because I dress well. I'm six foot two 145 lbs. I've got brown eyes and dark brown almost black hair. I've got a baby face I'm a lightskinned Hispanic male, so I'm mixed with Asian African Native American and European DNA. I'm a family person but don't really have one. I've been lied to and hurt my hearts been broken by women who I try to save from abusive boyfriends, they deserve better. I just need somebody to hold in my arms put my arm around her waist and move her hair from her face maybe even caress you softly I could give a **** if you're 18 or 37 I just want to to learn **** that I need to be taught

I'm almost 18. Which has been an emotional rollercoaster for me because I don't like the idea of growing up. Since I've had this emotional rollercoaster, I've been wanting to send out messages to past people in my life. Past friends and exes, to just tell them I am grateful to have known them and I'm happy they're happy. I've had a lot of fall outs in my life (most of them not my fault). An ex I had 3 years ago left me for this woman and is now married to her and has a child. I was angry those years ago, but now I'm not. I find his love for his wife and daughter so beautiful. I know he couldn't of had that with me. I'm happy for him. I'm happy for my past friends an exes. I'm almost an adult. And I feel the need to just reach out to these people not to conversate, but to tell them I'm happy for them. Is that wrong to do?

Me siento muy mal, tengo síntomas de depresión, no quiero buscar ayuda de un psicólogo puesto que no es la primera vez que lo hago, en ocaciones anteriores me ha resultado fallido el tratamiento con psicoterapia puesto que yo rara vez pongo de mi parte, aunque a veces creo que los psicólogos con los que voy no saben tratar la depresión, solo me decían que en vez de quejarme hiciera algo, pero no podía por mi estado de ánimo, a nadie le quiero contar lo que me pasa porque no quiero que me juzguen, alguna vez trate de hacerlo y solo me dijeron que soy una dramática... que hago para buscar ayuda ?

Recently my professor passed away and I was very hurt and devestated by it. I got close with his sister and we've mourned through it together. I was suppose to go to a competition in Houston and she said "Let me know what dates and I WILL Go!! I want to see you!!" But my competition got stationed to Dallas. I'm a bit bummed because I don't think she'd want to go visit me now since I won't be going to her town. And it's so far away I really wish I could see her, I'm stressing to find a way to make it possible. What should I do? It's upsetting because I'm not able to or nothing is working out

Me and my boyfriend have been dating almost a year and he is 17 im 15 and we both are very fed up with his parents. First of all they never let him leave the house. His curfew is 8:30 unless he is working. He isn't allowed to go anywhere unless they say it's ok even tho they are gone to the casino half of the time and at the bar the other half of the time. When I met him he didn't have a licence or a job so I told him he should already have that worked out since he was 16 but his parents were very reluctant to let him. They wouldn't take him to get his license so I had too and they were passed off and never got him a car that works anyways and then after a while he got a job and they were mad about that too. They constantly threaten to take his job away. Today his dad took the spark plug out of his truck so he count go to work!? Do you think they are too overbearing or maybe they are just afraid for him to grow up

I just got back from picking up my younger sister up at her friends house. Since it was warm out and I was only gone for 10 minutes I drove barefoot and did not bring my shoes.

People? I have, and how did you deal with it. When we finish, so close too. I am going to have to tell people the truth, tell my mom, tell my friends, even tell my favorite singers everything, so we are on speaking terms, but MY TERMS. I am tired of small town gossip and ignorance ruining my life. Time to make it stop, I just want to do what is right by God, Church, Family, and morally. Even if I burn bridges to do it.

her dad died in afghanistan when she was like 1 ,she has a step father and im confused on what she said....shes 15 and her coach is 35...she even asked 'oh i cant have friends or what '? and shes been training since she was like 7yo w him she swears that shes faithful etc, and that shes never had sex w him...

i started working in a new job this year and I co teach with a coworker. We have a seminar that we have to attend to that takes about two hours to commute from our school. Me and my coworker have agreed to meet in front of our school at 8 AM to get to the seminar. The problem is the seminar starts at 8 AM. When I asked her if we should go earlier she has stated that its better to get there late because she does not want to go in the first place. This makes me feel uneasy and I want to get there in time. My coworker got in trouble by my boss last year for not attending last years seminar and I feel like she is using my coworkers and I as a clutch/excuse to blame us as well in case she gets caught for being late. How do I tell my coworker that we should meet earlier without damaging our relationship?

Isn't that against the rules?

Alright so there is a certain boy that likes me. He makes it very obvious. During class he's always poking me and claiming my stuff as his. When im not around him he will come behind me and flip up my hoodie so i can't see. Also when we are seated, (it's band so there are no desks, just chairs. And he sits next to me) I'll turn away from him to talk to another guy (we both openly like eachother). If hes sees up in conversation he gets jealous and deliberately tries to distract me by stealing my bookbag and not giving it back, or by repeatedly poking my face and sides. I am just at loss at the moment. Ive tried telling him to stop, but he just says "im just messing with you" or something like that. What should i do?

i hate who i am, and im miserable with myself, but i dont want to change and have people question it, so i thiught going away to college and changing would be better, id be on a fresh slate, so no one would know i changed, and my parents wouldn't worry, it'd be more naturalish.

I ve had multiple girlfriends in the past and even with my current one I still really dislike it when she shows her love towards me. It sounds really odd but it makes me irritated every single time. Not simple, "Night, love you" kind of things but when she gets emotional and starts telling me how much she cares for me. I love her a lot and we ve been dating for almost 4 years now, but it s been like this since day one. I grew up in an extremely aggressive household but I don t know if that s the cause of this. Does anyone else feel this way or am I just messed up? I do truly love my girlfriend I just want to stress that. She s put up with a lot of my **** and I care for her a great deal. I want to make her happy and hopefully find a solution to this issue I have. (And it s not just affection from my gf I hate. It s basically from everyone, including family and friends.)

Let me lay the foundation: I have lived in my house for 6 years on a dead end street with no issues with a particular neighbor that lives about 6 houses down. One day a 16-17 year old boy from that house started riding his 4-wheeler up and down the street in front of my house. It's illegal to drive a 4-wheeler on the road. He had been told previously by the police to stop doing so. This is at a time when I was having horrible migraines. I had asked the boy nicely to take it back down the road as there was no 4-wheeling in the road and it was causing me issues. He then started laughing at the fact that he had turned my home into a race-track. When he refused to stop and then started riding around my grandfather's vacant property (lots of hills-unsafe) which is adjacent to mine, I called the police. They did nothing, as he had put it away as soon as they got there. I thought that being an adult I would go and talk to his parents. Maybe they have no idea what a problem he is causing me?? Then comes an old drunk guy to the door calling me a b**$! and anything else you can think of. He threatened to come to my house and said I better watch it. I filed a report. The 16-17 year old has a friend who lives across the street from him. Maybe 10-13. Forgive me if I am rude about this kid...but this has been going on for 2 months. He yells at my car when I drive past. He yells things like, "Slow down.". Well, I am driving 25 mph. That is the speed limit in a residential area. It is getting me angry. I have tried to ignore it. I don't want another old drunk calling me a ...... Yesterday I backed up and he started running lol. He hid behind some trees and when I pulled up I said, "If you yell at me one more time as I drive by, I am having a serious talk with your parents." He then said I need slow down. Because children have inner radar guns apparently. I was pissed and I said: Everytime you yell at me I will go faster. I know that wasn't the best thing, but damn. I am over his little butt. Seriously. He is doing it to my husband to. What can/should we do? Oh, I also must add that the 17 year old boy opened my gate and walked through my yard, telling my dogs to get away from him and kicking at them. I told him to get out. He told me he would walk in my yard whenever I wanted. I called the police and they warned him about trespassing. This little boy has gotten worse since then.