I am 16 and just had sex with my boyfriend. I did not use a condom because sex feels so much better without a condom and I wanted him to *** inside of me.

So, oddly enough, for the past few months I've been noticing some strange things going on in my house. Like, I haven't been able to sleep. Along with that, a clock that my mother's boyfriend got her was hung up on our living room wall, and around 6:00pm every day the clock freaks out. (Not to go into details, this is my dad's father. My dad was thrown out by police for private reasons) And for a while it died down, until the mentioned incident. I started waking up every night at 3:00am and heard heavy footsteps. But, this isn't too bad considering how horrifying it was beforehand. For example, incessant tapping on the wall over my head along with heavy breathing. There are a lot of reasons I think it may be my grandfather, but I'm looking for an outside perspective. Thanks! Sorry along with the "horrifying incident" i feel like that was too strong of a word. Well, it was terrifying. But along with the breathing and tapping, I felt something urgently grab at my foot and leg. Thanks!

I met an African guy... This guy never asked me for money but he is so demanding. He expects me to help him in every situation. For example if he has a problem at work he suggest hints that I go work to his manager. His phone broke down so I gave him one of mine that am not using. He was coming and going to my house so I fix his sim card. He is very demanding... He gives me cash so I buy him phone credit over the internet so he doesn't go out. I understand he needs help. He is constantly messaging from 9 am to midnight. I feel drained. Am I over reacting? He buys me gifts maybe to make me feel I am obligated towards him?

So I'm 17 & she's 36 I've had a crush on her for the longest time. She texted me on my birthday & she included this emoji 💦 & it got me thinking about her body. She's just gorgeous, she's the defenition a beautiful Latina. Long black hair nice curves & a big butt. We went to a bar together which was alright but we went to the beach & she wore a 1 piece & I just don't know how I controlled myself. I got closer to her which she was cool with but she kept bouncing and she's a thick girl so I was just in awe. 4 years ago at a pool we were swimming together & she said she felt like taking off her bathing suit so I got close & she laughed saying it was a joke. I picked her up from work last year & she wore a see through red dress that got me hard. We went to a mall 2 years ago & she leaned at the register everyone could see her big butt & she gave me a sultry look but her brother slapped it but idk how I controlled myself. My hormones are raging & she doesn't help it. We went to a concert 3 yrs ago & we were dirty dancing. At New Years she wore leggings and she pole dances & wouldn't stop talking about it I just locked myself in my room because I couldn't take it. At her 34th b day party I had my arm around her waist & she said she loved it. I just want to **** her I'm sorry but what can I do I can't take it anymore I've gotta do something she's celibate but knows what she does to men. The things I can do to her, I could never stop. I need to her so bad At least for a day

I told him that I don't want to go to his, because we're not together and I didn't want to involve feelings again by staying at his. Now he wants to go for a drink and says it will be something nice to look forward to in the week. This comes after he blocked me on whatsapp & was annoyed I wouldn't go to his to give him back his bag. He felt rejected I didn't want to see him. Shall I say yes, and suggest somewhere not near his, so it's not about sex if that's what he wants? He says we got along and he misses that. He just loves cuddling me. But if he wants to be together, he can meet me for drinks away from his area, is that reasonable? We slept together once after we broke up, and I sort of told him it was a bad idea. We split up 6 months ago, but doesn't feel like it because we have had contact in between. He knows I have slept with someone else since.

I just got back from picking up my daughter at school. Since it was warm out and I did not get out of my car I drove barefoot and did not bring my shoes. I hate wearing shoes and I did not need shoes since I did not go in anyplace. My daughter also hates shoes and took her shoes off in the car and rode home barefoot.

I am married with 3 kids. I had a friend who use to come to my house, but my husband would tell her that she wasn't responsible or a real women because she wasn't married or had kids. He (my husband) told her to prove to us that she was a real women that she should come over and watch or play with our kids. I never said anything to my husband because I kind of agreed with him. The other day I was telling my boss how my ex friend wasn't responsible because she wasn't a mom. My boss looked at me crazy and told me I was rude and insensitive. She asked if my friend had fertility issue. I wasn't sure and she said to me that she did. She said it's was hurtful to hear such ignorance. She hasn't spoken to me in a few days and I feel bad. It never crossed my mind that some people didn't want or couldn't have kids. I know this is touchy subject, but how I do apologize?

I've tried and tried to get a job and applied at over a hundred places, but I can't get a job to save my life. I want a job so badly that it's breaking my heart. The most frustrating thing about this is how helpless I feel, that I can't control what happens to me. I feel left out and inferior because my friends are all gainfully employed and I feel like I must be a serious loser. The truth is, no one wants me. No one thinks I'm good enough to be hired. No one thinks I'm worthy of a paycheck. I can't take care of myself or accomplish anything. I've been feeling suicidal because I just don't want to be me anymore. I'm unwanted and worthless and I have no future. All I do is create problems for my family and I'm either going to wind up homeless and hungry or a drain on society. I can't stand not being able to take care of myself and having to depend on others... it's so humiliating that it makes me hate myself. I can't handle feeling worthless and I can't stand this humiliation any longer. I wish I could just erase myself. Why is my life worth living if I'll never work of be able to take care of myself or function as a normal person?

My boyfriend and I lived together for many years. Then, about 8 months ago things went stale. We had a mutual split but I had to move out and start over because the house is his. I got used to living alone, but we've both recently decided to slowly start dating again. Things are going great except my concern that he won't make his female roomate move when/if I move back in again. He says he refuses to just kick her out. Thing is her and her boyfriend were only supposed to stay there a couple months. It's been 6. Her boyfriend is getting a job overseas soon. She's still there living rent free. Not paying utilities. Only groceries. She barely even cleans the house. Now my boyfriend is taking a job overseas and plans to let her stay in the house. He said I can move in too, but he's not making her leave. I feel like I'm working towards a new relationship and starting over with my ex is pointless if he's not going to be willing to make the house ours again. How can we build a life together? He says by next summer she should be gone. But...what if she isn't? Am I to be expected to remain in my apartment? Or live around her for..who knows how long? He chose to try again. I didn't make him. What's the point of trying again if I'm just being strung along? That's what it feels like. I know it's none of my business. But I feel like he's being taken advantage of. And if I choose to be with him, I'm choosing a life with HIM. Not him and his roomate Perhaps it is time to move on. But when I hint at just letting him go he insists he doesn't want to lose me. I'm not looking for anything but sound advice. I'm just confused. So, how is it fair he insists he wants me in his life? Why not just let me go? I can't be in a committed relationship with a man living with another woman forever. That's ridiculous. And I know he'd be hurt if I was living with another man and choosing that man over him. How is this any different that I have no right to hurt and be scared?

I'm a 16 year old girl and I have a twin brother who is also obviously 16 ( a lot of people didnt know boys and girls could be twins). He has a girlfriend and they were going out for 3 years. The thing is, his gf is my bestfriend. Me and my bro were at a party that his gf couldn't come to and I saw him kissing a girl so I told his gf what had happened. She came the next day and they got into a fight and I don't think they broke up but he found out it was me who told her. When she left he was crying ( I havent seen him cry in years) and saying how could I do that to him and that I have no love or respect for him. He's been completely ignoring me for 2 days straight and I don't know what to do. I tried to say sorry and kiss him on the cheek and he just pushes me away. Was I right to tell his gf and how do i make it up to him. I love my brother more than anything 💔😭

When they are constantly pointing out the way someone talks, or what the person wears or what the person looks like, and automatically hating that person be cause of that, something that the person cannot help. These guys randomly walk up to other guys and start to bully them, beat them up or harass them by spreading destructive gossip.

my boyfriend is 31 and im 22 anyways inviting me to thanksgiving dinner WITH HIS WHOLE FAMILY IM KINDA NERVOUS AND WONDERING IF HE REALLY THINKS OF ME SERIOUSLY SINCE HES INVITING ME we ve only been dating since august i've already met his mom and cousins and aunts & uncle but ima meet his whole f**kin family then which scares me cause a guy has never invited me for thanksgiving dinner any tips on how to impress them?

I am seeing an african man. He is so demanding. He expects me to do alot of things for him like if there is a problem with work, he expects i go speak to the manager. He wanted my phone the one that im not using as his broke down. He comes and goes at my house so i fix it for him. He gives me cash so i top up his phone credit from my house with my bank card so he doesnt go out. He is texting and calling all the time from 9 am to midnight. I feel tired. But then he is constantly buying me gifts so i feel am obliged to stay

My name is Kim and I'm 18. I've been talking/texting a guy at my college for a few days. We ALMOST hooked up last night and the conversation went like this Me: Baby do you know how ******* wet you make me? I just got out the shower and I have to change my panties. I'm so horny Him: Haha, mmm it doesn't really matter, if shet goes right we not going to need them anyways. Me: Baby I have to hang up or I will have to change these panties again. Him: Haha, come on then, hurry up I'm outside your house right now. What is taking so long baby? Me: I'm coming I just want to make sure I'm extra clean so you can eat my pu$$y really ******* good. I wanna be perfect for you. Him: Oh yeah, that's what I like to hear, come here now I can't wait any longer Me: I'm gonna drain all the cumm out of you and rub it all over my cute face. Would you like that? When I walked to his car he was acting all weird and said he was really sleepy cause he smoked a lot and I had him waiting too long. He said he would see me tomorrow in school. I was so angry I left him a long voicemail and told him it was over. He called me a whore and said " at least I got some free phone sex HAHA". Like WTF,what did he mean? Was he not attracted to me or something?

Hi guys, Im worried there is something wrong with me.. I've been in a trusting relationship for almost five years, and I still have this problem. My boyfriend is big down there, and I'm quite small. We have quite a big height difference too (a foot) . We cannot do lots of positions because it's painful for me, we can only really do it when I'm in control (me on top) where I can do what I can. Would there be a reason that it's painful for me? I feel bad at this stage and I don't know what I can do. Thank you in advance

me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years on and off and we are still very young, 17 and 18. he has many brothers and sisters 6 to be precise but there is one i just cant get my mind off. in honesty i dont get on with the others as much atall. there have been times where me and my boyfriends brother would flirt, and in my opinion REALLY FLIRT!! details can be expressed if required, but it has never got to the point of me being sure he likes me too. i have been on multiple holidays and i live with my boyfriends family too. this year has really made me question my feelings now though from our last holiday abroad to our most recent vacation. i often get the idea my boyfriends brother likes me back and i constantly get butterflies and crave to see tim ( my boyfriends brother is called tim) occasionaly we will be flirting and messaging eachother and tim will just go cold i wonder if he knows its going to far, but why let it get this far if you dont like me back? as you can see this is very confussing and in all honesty im not sure what i want the outcome to be. over the past 3 nights ive hardly slept and im delaying saying 'i love you back' to my boyfriend...it doesnt feel right. what should i do!! please help!!

I'm 22 and he's 32.when he started speaking to me I had no idea he was married.when I found out I decided to just be friends. Unfortunately I can't help but like him. Im doing my best not to communicate and avoid him. He gave me his number recently and for the life of me I can't be the reason for a another woman's pain. I don't know how to handle this.

I guess they were better than me after all. We are all 20-22 now and I am still a virgin. I just work and go to school. The boys are still with them too and they are all due between February to April 2017.

Ok, so i'm just 5'6 which is like a hobbit and a much taller guy than me (seems to be about 6'2, 6'3, don't know exactly) seems to likem. I don't really believe that and i think this must be some kind of a joke but anyway would you ever date such a tall guy? I mean sure we may think ''wow this guy is so hot and handsome'' but better be real here, this guy is not for me. I have a huge complex with my height and prefer to date guys at my height or at 5'7

"hey I appreciate the honesty and I'll be straightforward with you. I don't really have any interest in long distance relationships/friendships and otherwise. I find them to be tedious and a lot of work. I know that might sound harsh but I don't mean anything personal by it. You seem nice and I wish you well but that's how I feel " would you think he at least cares about my feelings? I mean, if he was rejecting me why even put the last bit in there w/ a sad face.. how would you translate it.. guys have always flat out told me they weren't into me and I've gotten used to it, so I don't know if there's like a hidden message in there and do you really think he meant it when he said it wasn't anything personal..

I was with a guy since I was 13 and now I'm 23 and have two kids with him but he has no loyalty towards anyone. It took me a while to realize this and we are not together anymore but he has stolen from me and my family multiple times and even his own child's tablet. I recently was letting him have a visit with the kids and took off my ring and when I came back it was gone. I asked him where it was and he started helping me search for it and emptying his pockets. I than told him I was calling the cops on him and he pulled the ring out from the top shelf of the pantry. We've had laptops come up missing, gps, skateboards, ipod and more. When I had bronchitis the Dr gave me cough syrup and I realized that my bottle of cough syrup was filled with water that he admitted to doing. Why is there no loyalty after so long? What could make him be this way? Thanks

An eventful person?

my boyfriend is 31 and inviting me to thanksgiving dinner WITH HIS WHOLE FAMILY IM KINDA NERVOUS AND WONDERING IF HE REALLY THINKS OF ME SERIOUSLY SINCE HES INVITING ME we ve only been dating since august i've already met his mom and cousins and aunts & uncle but ima meet his whole f**kin family then which scares me cause a guy has never invited me for thanksgiving dinner

I recently went to a Starbucks in another city next to mine. I met the only person that was there, which was a young girl (in young too, so don't think otherwise). I began by saying uhh and uhh when I saw her smile. I apologized for saying uhh and I said uhh again and she giggled. I told her what I wanted and I told her to take her time because I know she was trying to clean up. I told her I was a barista too and that I knew the struggles. She had this smile on her face and all. After I gave her the money, I gave her a $5 tip and said that she had nice black hair. I then said that I meant to say that she still does and her eyes are pretty. That's when I bumped into the table and she giggled. I apologized and said I was clumsy and she said she could tell and still had this smile on her face. I told her to have a good day and realized it was dark outside, so I went inside and told her to have a good night and I then said I wasn't being crazy or anything. She had this smile again as I left. Does she think I'm weird?

- My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years is at work 28 days straight then comes home for 14 days. - I'm 6 1/2 months pregnant for him. - We don't currently have a vehicle to go out on dates. - My sister and her toddler have been temporarily staying with us. We used to have a very active sex life and close connection but lately it seems he's more interested in skateboarding or skyrim. It took him 5 days to finally have sex with me after being gone for 28 days and that was because I cried about it. And still was the only time so far. He is often in a bad mood than he used to be too which really effects me. What can I do ? I just don't feel as important anymore. . He's not who he used to be. :(

This woman at 48 years old and this man in his fifities were both working professionals and seeing each other. They went to Italy for a vacation 2 week trip. Before she went on the trip she was so mean to other people. After she came back from the trip, she looked like she was in emotional turmoil and she sat down in her office for 15 minutes and cried non stop. She said there was nothing impressive about the trip. After this, she and her boyfriend were no longer seeing eachother. Their relationship was over. What happened?

I never met this girl but I know she is related to my ex. Who won't speak to me I never cheated on him, stole or anything. But is it that serious for his.cousin to sabotage my livelihood. I try to ignore her but it's got out of control she wouldn't stop? Advice

What is up with guys wearing a white baseball cap (usually slanted at an angle), pink shirt and a gold or silver chain necklace? Why do they dress like that?

I told him that I don't want to go to his, because we're not together and I didn't want to involve feelings again by staying at his. Now he wants to go for a drink. Shall I say yes, and suggest somewhere not near his, so it's not about sex? He says we got along and he misses that. He just loves cuddling me. But if he wants to be together, he can meet me for drinks away from his area, isn't that reasonable? We slept together once after we broke up, and I sort of told him it was a bad idea. We split up 6 months ago. But we have had contact in between

then her husband picks her up in a beat up junky car and begins to yell at her.This woman is always bragging at lunchtime that hubby did this, we took a trip here and there. Should I tell her we saw her husband pick her up in a trash heap?