They like hurting me by restricting my access to family indirectly. If they don't attend something I don't get invited but if I go uninvited it is rude. My parents don't go because my mother is a grudge holder. Yet, I am not and I want to be close to family. How do I show them this is hurting me as when I talk to them about it they get defensive. I am an adult so can go where I want but only get invited through them (my parents). This is at its worst and most hurtful at holidays that involve family (Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc....). For example last Christmas my aunt asked them over Christmas Eve and they declined saying they were having friends over (which they were). Yet, the aunt didn't ask me assuming I was with my parents. When I tried to finagle an invite it was unsuccessful so I didn't see the extended family for Christmas.

We've lived with eachother for 2 months. I have 2 kids. (2 and 8 years old) He has 3 kids. (3, 4, and 7 years old) Our kids fight constantly. I work night shift. He works day shift. On our weekends, he goes out for deer hunt. I'm at home with the our kids and grandma ( his mom). She favorites his kids and I favorite mine. Two woman in a home is not easy especially with kids from a different side of the family. I tried to explain to him that he needs to be home a little more to spend time with the kids. But I don't know if that would change the situation, besides he'll hate me more if I tried to change him. We talked about moving out but it seems like half of him isn't ready. Half of me want to give up, leave and find a place of my own. I'm so confused.

My wife grew up in a traditionalist Catholic setting of where she went to the Traditional Latin Mass and a traditionalist Catholic school. She is also one out of 10 kids. The school and church she grew up with is associated with a break away organization (Society of Saint Pius X) from the mainstream Catholic Church that opposes the modern reforms from the Vatican II Council. Most traditionalist Catholics end up with loads of children, anywhere from 8 to 15 kids. They believe the traditional Catholic teaching that the primary purpose of marriage is procreation. I agreed with my wife that we won't use artificial birth control, but we did agree that we would do Natural Family Planning (NFP) for a good reason. Unfortunately, NFP is debated within traditionalist Catholics on whether if it's sinful or not. We have two children and we are unable to afford anymore kids with me being the only one working. Also, my wife is unable to emotionally support another child. Therefore, we are practicing Natural Family Planning. My mother-in-law says to my wife that we shouldn't be practicing NFP because it's not pleasing in the eyes of God. She is saying that NFP is only allowed for serious reasons, such as being destitute or if a pregnancy would be a high risk for a woman's health. My wife also wants to let her body heal from just having a baby 7 months ago. Though, her mom says that's just a bunch of modern garbage. Is my mother-in-law overstepping her boundary?

his name is jimmy we sent him to walmart like 3 hours ago but he still hasnt come back what do we do please help

I come from a very athletic family and have played up to three sports in one year, now I am down to just wrestling but I have lost interest and although I ve offered to play another sport, my parents continue to force me to wrestle, They re response is similar to that of eating dinner and you aren t hungry so they say eat 3 bites when that s all that left, they try and say they ll discuss the topic with me and then put it off and try to get me to just keep playing, thinking I wouldn t notice, wrestling season is starting in a few days, and I won t do it, I refuse but they continue to try and make me, how can I get them to realize that I don t want to spend my highschool years in misery

so i just made some jokes to my mom, about how my dad is always staying out late cuz hes having affairs. my dad has had affairs before. so she took my joke a little too personally. and got me into trouble with my dad. he was annoyed. and said i can come out with him and see what he really does when he stays out late. and when i say ''he said i can come out with him'', i mean he FORCED me too. he knew i'd hate it. its his idea of a punishment. he is sick and twisted. cuz now he knows ill never make affair jokes again, to avoid suffering through this. anyways he said we was going to meet his friend. but then he got a call from work. he said he has to go and do work stuff, cuz something like, he dont get paid by the hour, he gets paid a set amount, so he has to work when they say. he wouldnt drive me home. said it'd take too long. so he made me sit in the car in a parking lot, freezing cold for like one hour. i asked him to leave the heater on and he said its not that cold so stop being a girl (thats discrimination to women). he left his coat with me, like he was doing me some huge favor. and also said to me that if i leave the car or do something bad or draw attention to myself while hes at work hes gonna hospitalize me. he even said how serious he was being, like 5 times hes said hes serious cuz its work. i want him arrested, he left me in a freezing car for 1 hour while he worked, when i could of been at home where i belong all cuz he had affairs in the past and then we still had to meet his friend after. and the whole time my dad is whining cuz they had to meet at a resturant cuz im with them. well where would they have met if i wasnt there? at his affair womens house? see hes just proved hes up to no good. and he made me come!!! its not like i asked. also he looked like a psycho when he threatened to hit me so bad ill be in hospital. and im not even kiddding. cuz i genuinly thought, **** i better not do anything to annoy him. i didnt even text him to complain about waiting like id planned too and now hes put my 6 yr old sister in my room to sleep, just to make my day even more hellish. whys she need to be in my room just cuz my mom is staying awake to watch election or whatever? They can let her sleep downstairs. and she wont sleep!! shes harrassing me right now. saying she wanna watch me on runescape

It hasn t escalated to that point yet, but my mom is giving signs of wanting to divorce and I just want to be mentally prepared for it once it actually happens. Ever since I can remember, my parents would often argue about past things, before I was brought into this world. They have history that I don t wanna get too deep into, but just so you can get a gist of it. I m 21 now, and my dad is a very prideful one, while mom is the more reasonable one out of the two, but she tends to hold everything my dad throws at her. at this point, she can t take it anymore, my dad simply won t change for the better, and I pity my mom tremendously for being a strong woman and putting up with everything. If they actually divorce, obviously they ll live their separate ways. We all currently live In a house that we re paying mortgage for. Should I end up staying with one or the other? Or maybe switch between them equally? Idk whose side I should take since I have no idea how living after a divorce works. Any input would help a lot. Thanks in advance for the comments :)

Son isn't doing what he's supposed to be doing at school. I get constant emails about missing work and such. I'm tired of being on him for this but since his mom let him do wtvr he wants at her place I'm the one who always has to stick out and talk to or email his teachers. I've had it so he needs to learn to do his work otherwise he will end up as a non contributing member of society who will eventually wind up in jail. Oh and I've been ther since day 1 so it's not the dads fault here.

I don t want to sound like a baby because I am 16 years old but I miss my mom so much. My mom was a stay at home mom my whole life, she used to be there for me every day but now she s got a job. I understand that she needs the money and she s just supporting the family but she works everyday from 8am to 8pm except Sunday s. my father also works and I just feel so alone. I never see my mom anymore and whenever I try to spend time with her after work she just goes straight to bed cause she s tired! I ve told her I miss her but she said she misses me so much to but she can t spend time with me! I don t want hate from this I am just very close with my mom

I am 18 US born citizen. I registered online at high school, printed that form out, but DID NOT MAIL it. I later discover if you DO NOT MAIL your registration form then it DON'T count. Today I went to the vote, the people did not find me that I register. So they gave me a envelope told me to fill out the information on the back of the envelop (I fill out true information), then they told me fill out my vote form. After that they told me put my vote form in that envelope and that it. I wrote EVERY correct information on the envelope then put my vote form in. But I DIDNT MAIL my register form that why the people didn't find that I registered. Will I get arrested? :(

Yesterday I made my dinner and had some food that has been sitting in the freezer for over 2 months. My mom texts me today literally the day after I had it. Asking if I ate it. I replied yes was I not supposed to? Now she is mad at for this. it's ridiculous the food has been sitting there for 2 months and was not touched at all! A day later I am getting yelled at! The food was bought for a birthday months ago. There were several other types of foods that were leftover that I ate within that timespan from said party and nothing was said to me. It was not earmarked for anyone or anything. It reminds me of a child who has a toe they haven't touched for a very long time and along comes another kid and starts to play with it and the original child freaks out screaming "That's mine"

My parents had a fight last night... at a point it became serious... And after that they aren t talking to each other... and I really feel bad watching them like that... So if you have Duas that can make my life as well as my parents life peaceful and happy, please share ....

Sorry if this is to long... i recently just graduated june 2016 2 weeks after that my mother got evicted from the apartment me her and my sister was living due to not paying the rent on time. I didnt have a job at the time i was even struggling to pay for prom and graduation etc. Now couple months later im sleeping on a couch in a living room for the past few months with my sister and mother sometimes i sleep over my bf. I turn 19 in a couple of days and ive been thinking of getting my own apartment i have one part time job now and im thinking about getting a 2nd one or one that pays better. My mother is currently depending on her ssi checks she gets every month which is only 900 each month. She had no desire or motivation of finding a job. I have a car that i pay off every month that she uses cause her car that she had got repo. I dont really have family either. I need some advice or some two cents. And i live in mass if that helps anything.

OK. so basically I joined marching band in like, the last month to do prop because they needed people. However, two weeks into it I was able to become backfield conductor because one of the drum majors left. So I was ok with this. My parents, however were not. So that's where the problems started. As the last couple weeks went on, everyone there became like family to me, and we had TONS of fun together. I started telling my parents that and they got furious that I liked it. and I mean FURIOUS. You see, I am a swimmer, and have been for 10 years, and they thought that because I wanted to do marching band that I was quitting swim, which wasn't the case. And they started putting me down for liking it and were like "You're the only one in our family that WON'T be doing anything athletic" like ??? Marching band is athletic and I'll still be swimming? so yeah I started talking about my problems to another band member, which happens to be my sister's best friend. And so I was telling her about the problems and then my mom said "If you tell anyone about this, I'll take your phone away and you'll be lucky if you ever get it back!" now keep in mind, she says this AFTER I start seeking help from some one else because they're putting me down. So, my sister and her best friend (fellow marching band member) get into a fight over me wanting to do marching band next year. sister tells my mom, mom sees messages to best friend, and now I'm basically BANNED from doing something I love.Help?

Recently my parents divorced. By this I mean 3 months ago. The court ruled my father to have most of the custody . I'm scared of him. At night he breaks into my room. While I pretend to be asleep , he touches my boobs and neck and plays with my hair . When I get home from school he makes me kiss him on the mouth and touches me so I feel uncomfortable. And when I shower he comes in and watches me. Its never esculated to anything sexual but I'm worried I will be rapped or something. What do I do? BTW I'm at lunch in school

She says my thighs are chubby and I have brown eyes.Why do you think you re so good?I m so sad...

OK, WHEN WENT TO MCDONALDS WITH RELATIVES OR FAMILY MEMBERS AT SOME POINT. but was the experiences good. a great experience? was food always well cooked and prepared was the staff friendly and came and bought the food to you was the facility clean and sanitation was the bathroom clean and toilet flushed well.. enough toilet tissue and quality was it too noisy and to much chatter did you have to wait long for order was the store design, amenities, and quality excellent

When I was young everything was perfect, we were all happy.. i don t know what happened all of a sudden, there were so many arguements my parents used to have and I grew up most of my life in that negative shell I was stuck in, and I didn t have anyone to share my problems with... I still to this day cry my self to sleep not knowing what to do.. now Iam 16 years old and I m graduating high school this year.. and I still have problems talking to my parents and laughing with them and sharing anything at all, it s not the same anymore we aren t like any of the normal family. Everything we say comes out in a form of yelling.. sometimes I get so frustrated because when I come from school I don t even get food because my moms busy watching her tv shows and she barely cooks anything, sometimes it comes to a point where we either eat leftovers or nothing at all.. When I visit my friends family, I see all these food and I just sit there wishing my mom could offer the same. And my dad, well he s always so busy that he barely has time to even pay attention at what I say.. he completely ignores me, and when he does speak it s usually him yelling at me for something I ve done wrong. This is mostly why I just wanna stay out with my friends and keep myself away from my parents.. but I m so unfortunate, I m not even allowed to go out a lot. I just can t wait to move out.. and live on my own. I act like I m the happiest girl so no one notices my pain. I just need someone to be here for me..

She has access to all of my and husband's info; social security numbers, medical, etc. She's causing tons of problems for us and we need her to have no way to do anything to control us. Husband is on disability, so she keeps calling and changing his benefits, etc because she doesn't like me. She's extremely invasive and sneaky so not sure what to do. Thanks!!

To go on for the rest of my life. I'm really used to it. And so is she. I'm seventeen. I thought just popped into my head. I'm not so sure about my brother, turning 14 and he also still says mommy. I read that it's okay for girls, but not boys. Anywho, do you think this is ok to go on for the rest of forever? Saying mom feels so weird.

So today i found condoms in my dads loptop bag. He always carry that bag to work. It s not the first time I saw them in his pocket two years ago. I think he s cheating on my mom, but I m not shure. It would be very akward to talk about that with him or my mom. What should I do?

There's a concert I'd love to go to on Thursday with literally all my friends and it sounds so amazing and fun. The problem is my sister is being so so selfish and because of that, I might not be allowed go. Basically I've piano at 6 every Thursday and my sister has it directly after me with the same teacher at 6:30. Obviously I won't be able to go to piano if I'm going to the concert. So my parents made a compromise with me and said if I can get my sister to go to my half hour of piano then I can go to the concert. However, when I asked my sister, she straight off said "no" and smirked. I've been begging and crying, asking her and offering to bring her to Starbucks etc. I've told her I'll obviously do her half hour the following week so we'll be even. Nothing will change her mind and she's being extremely selfish, not doing an extra half an hour of piano so I can go to a concert. She knows I really want to go and she's enjoying watching me beg. Can someone please help me change her mind? Thanks :)

Okay, so first to first, im 12 years old. (Please do not go on by saying i'm too young this and that, it was an accident. im aware.) So back in July 2016, i got my first boyfriend. He was 13, and we were together for 2-3 months. He was nice, he wasn't an ol' fudge boy. He actually respected me and all but thats besides the point. We had a facetime call on oovoo for like 50+ minutes, and i sorta lifted my shirt. (Kept bra on) And he took a screenshot. Now, i was in a hunched back sitting down position so that means you barely could've seen that much skin. I kept my clothes on and everything. I tried telling them he's 13, he hit puberty pretty fast so he doesn't look all 13-ish. He looks 15,16. They think he is 20+, i'm not stupid enough to facetime a 20 year old boy. The reason why this is bad is because i forwarded the screenshot he took to my uncle on Facebook Messanger by accident. So when he saw it, i deleted the conversation, blocked him, and he still forwarded it to my mom and my dad, then my dad forwarded it to my grandma, then my grandma forwarded it to my uncle, which means the whole family saw it. When people found out about it, my devices were taken away (iPad, and phone.) I haven't had devices for like 3 months. My dad mailed my phone to my mom in NYC... I only use my iPad on weekends which means i'm using a desktop right now to ask this question. This happened in August. I tried to apologize, nobody forgave me. At this point, i don't know what to do anymore. Oh and, i tried buying myself a phone (low-key), that didn't work. Why? I GOT CAUGHT. I attempted to buy a Galaxy Express 3, i had it for one literal day. My uncle passed by and saw me trying to hide it, he asked me what was i hiding, and from that, i got screamed at. He saw plenty of pictures of some shirtless guys but, i let my friend use my phone and she put them there. I know it was "serious" but, i wasnt showing alot of skin. You barely see skin in the picture.

I need to write a letter to my boyfriends parents. He is addicted to many drugs and he won t listen to me when I tell him to get help. I can t talk to his parents without him knowing and I d be too uncomfortable. I wanted to write an anonymous letter to his parents almost as if coming from another parent. I m only doing this because I am worried about his safety. He is in high school and still lives with his parents if that makes any difference.

My mom has a best friend with 4 daughters. The two older ones are 32 and 26. The younger ones are 18(my age) and 17. But there odd and my mom wants me be like them. The 32 year old daughter let her parents CONTROL her life. Her parents told her don't talk people out our culture, go to this pk-college, I want you to major in this, I want you be a doctor, I want you marry this man. And she did EVERYTHING without saying no,or giving her opinion. She is now a doctor just as her parents wanted and married to a man her parents choose. And she is STILL living with her parents, little siblings, her husband, and her newborn baby. She NEVER made a choice for herself it ALWAYS her parents who will make the choice. The 26 year old the same. She listen to everything her parents said. But it OBVIOUS she don't love her husband who a rude snobby jerk. And the parents discover the husband they choose for her a complete JERK. But NO the parents don't want them divorce it will make there reputation look bad. So this girl life is ruin but she STILL listening to her parents and not making choices for herself. And the younger sibling 18,17 they too listen to there parents, letting there parents live there lives for them. My mom wants me to be like them. And she is mad at me & hate me that I make GOOD choices for myself and I won't let her control my life. She always compare me to them and say I'm a BAD girl. What should I do?

My son Max is 14, his father an I are divorced. He left me for my slut whore sister. I have full custody of Max, who goes to his father's house on weekends. I don't know what's wrong with Max, but he is the biggest ignoramorous I have evar saw. First, he is complete an total OBSESSED with poop an farts. It is ALL he talks about. If he isn't farting he is eating something to make him self fart or makes fart noises with his hand in his armpit. He will stand an watch dogs poop an then go look at the terds. I have caught him smelling standing an smelling after someone used the toilet. This ain't normal for a kid, specially at his age. He has NO interest in girls, other then this one he talked to on the phone an was helping her with her school work. He spends all his time a lone, farting an smelling it an recording it. Last week I was baking a cake an he stole my recipe an copied it on the computer an replaced "One cup of flour" with "One cup of poop" an just laughed an laughed. That's not funny for even a 5 year old. An when he does stuff at the store, I get absolutely humiliated. If we go to Home Depot he will sit on the display toilets an make really loud noises like he is using the toilet. People stare at us an it humiliates me, because their could be single men their that would be interested in me if it wasn't for Max. I went to vote today (Hillery 2016 I'm With Her!) an Max had to go with me cause I don't trust him at home a lone an theirs no school. (CONT) So he went in the booth with me an while I was doing my ballet he let a HUGE, dirty, stinking fart that lasted for like 20 seconds an then jumped out of the booth an said "Ewwww, mom, gross!" OMG I was so humiliated. I started screaming that it wasn't me but by that time the smell had stunk up the whole room one lady even gagged. OMG I stood their an serious thought about suiside. He is grounded until 2017 an I told him their will be no Christmas because of this. I don't know if he (CONT) is slightly retarted or what the situation is, but he is ruining my life. I love him, but no good looking rich man is going to come after me because Max is an embareassment. Their is a BUNCH of men in love with me on the internet, who don't really know about Max, but men around hear won't even approach me because of Max. I wanted his father to take full custody when my fiance Kingsley was coming ovar from Nigeria but he turned out to be a fakor, but Max would have been an embareassment (CONT) to Kingsley, an I often wander if that's not why Kingsley left. I sometimes think he was NOT a fakor, that he just didn't want to deal with Max. What can I do? I feel like I have failed as a mother, I have always been one of the most beautiful women where evar I was, school work or whatevar but nevar had luck with men cause of Max. It's not fair to ME that my beauty goes to waste cause my son doesn't have the brains of a dog terd. I really think about suiside a lot any more.

It's ok when she does a certain something but when other people do it she pretty much gives the guilt trip. Like when I first started to sell stuff she gave the guilt trip to me even though she does it and she was buying something from offerup or whatever she gave them the guilt trip because they were selling there dead grandmother stuff I get the point but it's really none of my moms business. Or she ignores me but when I do it back you know. And a lot of other stuff it's so annoying I just want to rip her head off.

I've dealt with depression from ages 9-13wthout anybody knowing because I didn't think anybody would care. From when I was 7 I just hated everything and I wanted to run away from home. I'm 15 now and things have got better. While other things caused those problems I really just didn't feel loved by my family, particularly my mom. I feel like she's always criticising me, and she can say the most hurtful and demeaning things. Sometimes when I'm trying to talk about something that happened or tell a story and nobody listens she'll say something like "nobody's interested" and its really hurtful and embarrassing . I don't want to be just a typical teenager always expecting others to treat me nicely, but I wanted to know if there was actually a problem with my relationship with my mom or if this is probably all in my head and I'm thinking too much

My great grandmother recently passed and its taken a great toll on me. It wasn't unexpected but its still very hard for me to process. In choosing my attire for the funeral I wan't to wear a veil to hide my eyes and face because I'm experiencing many mixed emotions. But my mother through the grape vine said I shouldn't wear one. Should I keep it as part of my mourning attire or is that something I should do without?

My mom wants a good southern daughter who will get pregnant and stay in the south and have a boyfriend and that it just not me. I hate living in the south but I am only here because she is. I am 21 and live with her currently and help her as much as I can with my two siblings. I clean, cook and do as much as I can for her and them. But, I am never enough for her. I think it is because of who I am. I do not want to get pregnant due to health problems and I am also a lesbian. But she just sees it as me being selfish, when my health problems are significant and can be passed down. I also am in school for Criminal Justice and I know she hates it. The things she wants for me and wants me to do not align with who I am and what I want. I am scared to talk about it with her, she might kick me out.I am not scared of leaving I have people I could stay with but I stay and deal with all of this because of my siblings. They have autism and no one can care for them like I can. But this is literally driving e insane I feel so guilty and bad for being myself. I'm doing school online to stay at home with my mom and help her with her two kids. I'm doing it because I want to but mostly because of all the guilt I feel. I want to talk to her about this because it is literally eating away at my soul. - Any help will be appreciated.

I live in florida and I m 17. My parents have joint custody and my dad is overseas 20 days a month. My mom has given me permission to move back to the town I previously lived in, do I have to ask my dad as well? Could he do anything about me moving?

so, last night my mom literally gave me a wake up call and beat me up by dragging me by my hair and slapping me with everything because i never do my chores or i just do them last minute and i raised my voice at her because she kept complaining about everything i do. she also yelled at me for never vaccuming my room and i never fix the bed. my bed always gets messy right when i wake up to go to school and im always too tired or lazy to fix it. she said i was lazy and a spoiled brat and even my cousin wouldn't have so much disrespect for her parents. and now that i think about it, i think am spoiled. i have an iphone six, a laptop, a king sized bed, my own bathroom, so much clothes and shoes. do i seem spoiled to you?

So apparently my mum recalled that abt 2 months b4 she died, she asked my mum when was my birthday. When my mum ask for a reason, she said theres no reason. And then she happens to die on my birthday. Is there a reason for this? Bc im sure no one gets to choose their deaths

My mother uses me for revenge and to vent.

Right now I'm sick so I have a thing of crackers for when my stomachs upset. My dog got into them and started to eat them while I was not home. My dad put her in the crate with my crackers and video taped and took pictures of her getting into them (which later caused her to puke). His reasoning to not taking them out was "not my dog and not my crackers; therefore not my problem". If it were his dog with this happening I'd take out the crackers since it's common curtesy

MIL has access to husband's and my information such as social security, medical, etc. Easiest way to remove all of that from her? She is causing lots of problems for us. Thanks!

My paternal grandmother died in 2014 and my parents are mad I am still grieving her death. The holidays are when I feel it the most. Family traditions that aren't the same anymore after her death. My parents are mad because they say you grieve for a year and then move on. It has been 2 years and 3 months. My Dad is especially mad about this. They are also mad that when my grandfathers died when I was in 5th grade and high school I did not grieve for more then a few months. They say it is favoritism (My maternal grandmother is still alive). So how do I get over this so my parents aren't mad at me? For example I go to the cemetery once a month, my parents only go on Mother's Day and the death anniversary

My parents separated right after I was born and my mom got my legal custody. I moved with my dad to the U. S when I was 8. I'm now 18 and have been living with him ever since.

He will not let me in his apartment. I've seen the outside of the building but in 6 months he's never invited me in. We can only stay at my place. He dates other women. I have seen him out on dates with other women. I've gone through his phone and seen messages to other women that he's dating. His car is a mess. It's old, damaged and he takes his plates off whenever he parks to keep it from getting booted. He sometimes ignores my calls and texts for days at a time. There are days when he's very attentive but then there are other days when he doesn't answer or call back. I've given him money. He got hurt on his job and his workman comp. wasn't enough to cover his expenses so I offered to do his laundry, and give me some pocket money. We have fought in public. I get mad whenever I see him with other women and I throw drinks at him and start fights. He often disrespects me by ignoring me in public and acting like he doesn't care. We still see each other behind closed doors occasionally but he doesn't invite me to hang out in public anymore

They were good parents but I am learning disabled and ADHD. While they were very understanding of most of it, my mother through her social anxiety was too hard on me socially. As a result I am way too sensitive now to social anxiety. Also, my parents alienated me from my Mom's side of the family because my grandfather on my Mom's side was an alcoholic. This did a lot more hurt then it did good. I feel guilt for missing out on time with him and am not as close to my Mom's family as a kid because of it (I am close now as an adult). My mother had excessive bitterness at her Dad for having alcoholism and I feel she used us to get him back instead of just using cautious but continuing a relationship. So those were the two hurts they did that carry with me and have been part of why I am in therapy. Otherwise, they were good parents. How do I forgive and get over the hurt they caused? Both of these flaws were more my mother's doing but my Dad went along with the alienation one.

I found meth in my sons room so i snorted it up my nose all of it and now hr is really pissed off at me he found out i took it because he could tell i was tweekin and geekin was i in the wrong

I will be leaving soon to drop my daughter off at school. I am at home now in my bare feet and since it is warm out and I am not getting out of my car I am going to drive in my bare feet and not bring my shoes. I hate wearing shoes unless I have too and I don't need shoes to drop my daughter off at school since I am not going in anyplace.

Starting at a very young age a family member was sexually abusing me, after telling my mother it stop. Then one night my aunt was showing me porn and I told her stop, then the next night she show me again and later on I kinda push for it and we watch porn, I begin masturbating and then she started and she went to touch me and rub our body's together really fast, we had clothes on, I felt horrible afterwards but it didn't look like she felt that way, this person sexually abuse me for a long time and it stop for a long time. Was this sexual abuse now again? I wasn't the one that came up with it or wanted it, it just happen and I don't understand I'm 17

someone thought i was yelling at them because obviously they don't understand whether i can say what i just calmly or not, and not because they actually heard me speak loudly to them with my voice, which pisses me off because it doesn't make any sense, why do yall think?

It doesn't make any sense and it pisses me off, if you really think that i'm angry because of something that i said not only does that mean that you don't understand whether i can say so calmly or not, because that also mean that i have to watch what i am saying more than i have to watch how angry i feel and that really pisses me off, because now it's all about what i'm saying more than it is about whether i feel angry or not, now i am not saying that i'm calm, but I am saying that if you think that i'm yelling because of something that I said then that mean you don't understand whether i can say so calmly or not, and that's pretty sad

They don't believe in old wounds, they believe they should be healed. I have emotional flooding when it is a family event and one parent doesn't show up because they don't want to deal with the other. It is because after their divorce when I was ten my mother personalized it "your Dad doesn't want to be in your life but its not your fault". I believed her and thought he was divorced from me. As a high school student I got close to him again. Now as an adult all that pain I felt in elementary school and junior high thinking my Dad didn't want me in his life reopens when there is an event of importance and just my mother is there. Neither parent believes in PTSD or mental illness except extreme cases. Since mine is not an extreme case both think I am just being silly. So with the holidays coming, how do I get over the pain that will reopen when Dad only comes for 2 minutes (literally) because he doesn't want to deal with my mother and thus I suffer? I can't change him but I want to change myself. Right now it wrecks the holiday. Visiting not until after Christmas doesn't help because as a kid my mother told us "your Dad is favoring his step-kids since he sees them Christmas Day and you guys not until New Years Eve, he is playing favorites and don't feel bad, its him". This I took very personal and thus holidays bring up trauma. I am 26 and its time for me to get over this, am in therapy and looking for additional help, holidays suck.

About 2 months ago my family had suddenly decided to leave New York and head back to their home country for good. My grandmother, my aunt, and cousin all left for personal reasons--a future here was bleak financially too. My grandfather intends to leave soon as well, but my mother is intent on staying. Thus I d be alone with her. I was supposed to start college in the fall but decided to defer until I knew what to do with my life. My grandmother practically raised me, as my mother is a single mom. I can t imagine continuing my education here without being with her. I can t stop thinking that if I lose my grandmother while here, that I wouldn t be able to live with myself. Yet, if I leave to their home country, I ll be leaving my mother all alone, and I wouldn t want her to become lonely and depressed. To top it all off, I hate it here. I have an anxiety disorder myself, and being in the city does nothing but worsen my symptoms. I want to leave as soon as possible, but don t exactly know when. If my mother would change her mind and leave to her home country, I d leave as well. I feel like I have always been incredibly attached to my family. I want to get a decent career, but I don t even know what to do yet. I don t have a passion that I want as a job. All of these factors are making me suffer with extreme anxiety, but my greatest fear, as my question implies, is losing my grandmother. Should I stay here and finish my degree regardless? What would you do in this situation?

Did I sexually abuse my sister if I touch her private part like twice I believe when I was like 10 or 11/12 and maybe 13 or just 11 I can't remember, and I can't remember what I did its all a blue but I really touching/rubbing over her diaper. I am 17 year old girl and I would never do something like that ever and I feel really bad about it, I did it without thinking like experimenting/sexually but like I was sexually abuse by a family member. I just feel really bad, she doesn't remember and no one knows about it, I don't know if I should tell my parent or just forget about it? As I said I would never do anything like that now

My mum's aunt is in the hospice, and she's very sick and doctors don't think she'll make it through to christmas but my mum refuses to see her. I don't want to pressure her but she never got to say goodbye to her best mate and she was so sad for a really long time and I don't want that to happen again. Should I encourage her to go see her aunt or should I let her make her own choice?

If she does stuff she can put on a sad face and get away with anything. If I so much as touch her I get into deep ****, how could I get back on her/my parents to make them hear my true side of what s actually happening?

I'm trying to ignore it but I can't- what do I do?!! I'm visiting my parents and I'm cranky, hungry and tired and finally after a long day of traveling I turn off the light and try to get some rest- and they start going at it! I'm in the next room and it's grossing me out to have come all the way here- for this!! I know it's human but it's so typical of them to do things like this because they're so darn needy for attention!! I know some people might be ok with it, but I'm more conservative and value privacy. I'm not here often they could at least make the visit more pleasant !

I'm a 17 y.o. boy, my parents are divorced, I live with my dad and he has a gf. I know I shouldn't be snooping on his phone, but whatever. I found a picture of him naked! Wtf?! I'm pretty sure his gf took the picture, because they're always having sex. I could hear them all day every day it's awful. I could hear the slapping and noises, it's gross. Everytime my dad's about to climax, he yells "Oh god, here it comes!!!" And grunts so freaking loud. What is up with that, like they don't even acknowledge that I live with them. Anyway, I sent a copy of his naked photo to my phone, what should I do??? P.s I included his naked picture below, if you're wondering what the picture looks like.

My parents specifically my mom has been nagging me basically my entire life on grades and when i get good grades she nags me on something else. She basically goes out of her way to nag at me. Anyways i am a senior in hs and i have decided to go to a community college to save money and to transfer to a better school. However my mom says shes ok with it but she really isnt. She still expects me to study as if I plan on going to a top 4 year university. She gives me crap for going to bed at 9:30 after a 4 hour wrestling practice. And the only reason why im going to a community is because she became upset with me when I said i wanted to move out for college. I ve told her multiple times that im ******* sick of her nagging. Its to the point where i want to enlist in the army without telling her just to get out of the house. Help me please. Im so ******* sick and tired of hearing unnecessary nagging every day. I understand that every once in a while i need to be told what to do but my mom is another level. Like i said before, if she cant nag me about my grades she ll nag me on how selfish I am for wanting to move out or how everyone else is getting into a good 4 year. She does sht like this but gets upset when I want to move out