This question is only for married men so if you're not married stay in your lane! If you're a married man who's ever hurt women before you were married do you feel guilty! I had an ex who abused me and cheated on me! He manipulated me into having an abortion! He's married now and one day in Starbucks he rode by and I caught him staring at me and when I turned around he tried to act like he was fixing something! He also talked about me to a mutual friend! I hate him with a passion and I hope him and his family die in a house fire!

I have a 62 year old female roommate who always down talks me and my boyfriend for no good reason other than to start drama. When that doesnt work, she conversates about "made up stories in her head" (it seems, as she has portrayed in violently verbally fights about things that never happened in reality.) She is very paranoid. She said "WE" took her pills, and shes going to file police report then said that i took her pills and gave them to my mom and all while she is bawling about how she doesnt want my mom to over dose on them. I told her i dont have the pills. Then she said i sell them on the side?? She had like 3 stories lined up in her head! I asked her what pills is she even talking about, and she said morphine pills. So now ive come to find out shes an addict with phychotic dementia and she should be put in a home. Here's my question.. California, USA. She's not signed on the lease to rent. We are renting $725 / month flat to her. She doesnt pay utilities or anything. We recently cut off Direct Tv ATT because. So now she wants lower rent. We dont want to'serve' her for fear of her squatting for 90 days rent free. Is there something I'm missing in renter laws? How do i find a way to tell her to f off without disrupting anything legally?

This guy who I really liked broke up with me recently. It was pretty messy and kind of a long story. The gist of it is that he did it over text. He told me that he really likes me and that I am great, but that he just doesn't have the time that I deserve from him because of his work. Two days later, I saw a picture of him hanging out with one of my (former) good girl friends, which proved (a) that his reason for breaking up with me was a lie and (b) that this friend prioritizes him over me and how I'm feeling, as she didn't stop to ask me if I was okay with this, and she knew I was really in pain. I got pissed, as did my other friends on my behalf. They sent some not so nice texts to the friend who had hung out with him (not just because she hung out with my ex, but also because she hasn't been very nice of any of us recently). A fight ensued, and a while later, I got a text from my ex saying that he knew I was upset with him but that some people in my group were being mean to [the friend who hung out with him's name]. Basically he was asking me to make my friends apologize to this girl and back off. My response was that I was incredibly hurt by both him and that friend, and that he needed to leave me alone. A day later, I realized that he blocked me on Facebook. Maybe I shouldn't be, but I'm sad about it, because despite this whole mess, I still very much have feelings for him. Any advice? What does it mean that he blocked me on Facebook? Am I in the wrong?

my brother just found out he has it, and i wasn't even phased by it. The rest of my family was crying and whatnot, and started hating me cause i didnt?? when word go to me i was just like "oh, ok" *continues doing what i was doing in the moment*. I mean its one of the most curable cancers so its not like its anything horrible really (ok so the pain he went through before finding out must've sucked but still) Hes fine (or acts fine idk) now so i talk to him without even acknowledging it, and everyone else was like "stay strong for him" and they keep getting all emotional for him. anywho, i guess im just an *** brother :D so again, how would you have reacted?

All my life in school I was so shy I couldn't talk and have friends. Since I graduated highscool its been almost 2 years and I go out to many places on... show more All my life in school I was so shy I couldn't talk and have friends. Since I graduated highscool its been almost 2 years and I go out to many places on my own, I do things by myself, I volunteer every month at fashion shows, I have been to different jobs at warehouse where there are a lot of people. I talk more now, I don't feel nervous talking or being around a ton of people, I have anxiety now but it goes away when I'm around people. I had only one close friend in highscool but she lives in Vietnam and we text and FaceTime,But I still don't have friends. I made one a few months ago we hung out twice but now he's in the army and has a gf. I work at a new job and it's filled with young adults mostly guys.but I feel frustrated because I don't talk as much as I want to. I'm just at the last step which is making good friendships. At work this guy in my area sometimes will ask me a question or small talk, same with this other guy and will call me by my name, these two girls that I work near with gave me a ride home but it felt wierd, this other guy saw me struggling with boxes, after he talked to me and Introduced himself, I actually was interested in being his friend, he's very kind, I feel comfortable around him & say anything,because with other people when I talk they respond with nothing or serious.

the guy I like was moving back to his hometown and I really wanted to keep talking to him, get to know him and thought I'd be straightforward and honest about it. So i texted him, hey I know you're half way across the country but I was wondering if you we could talk more, get to know one other and he told me he didn't have any interest in creating long distance relationships/friendships or otherwise, he found them tedious and a lot of work. he knows it sounds harsh but he didn't mean anything personal by it and that I seemed nice and he wished me well but it was how he felt w/ a sad face and I genuinely thought he felt bad or at least cared about my feelings so I tried to get him to at least try it & he lashed out, told me to respect his boundaries and not to text him again.. wtf. He made it seem like he was senstive and caring towards me when really he didn't give a flying eff about me so I got really mad & decided to text back out of impulsive and said wow if I had known you were so stubborn I wouldn't have said anything so my apologies for wanting to try and know you better. I won't ever text you again. A few weeks later I felt bad that I might of offended and decided to apologize and he just completely ignored it  can you really blame me for thinking he genuinely cared? I mean why the sad face.. I also feel like he wasn't that straightforward, a simple I'm not into you would've been just fine.. this situation makes me feel like I'm crazy that my feelings are crazy :(

He's older than me. I am the youngest in the family and he's the middle child but the way he acts is like a baby. I don't know if it's the fact that I am a girl and girls mature faster. But I hate the fact that he still didn't get he's driving license and he wants me to drop him while I'm on my way to work. If I don't drop him off, he acts like a big baby and changes he's face expression to sad. Why he acts like this? why can't he grow up?

He is an excellent artist, and can draw/paint amazing work but he doesnt want to sell out, he also has finished University but he doesnt want to continue or work in that sector of Education. Now he is scrubbing toilets in a refugee camp for minimum wage. I really cannot understand him. He spends all his free time either reading, or sleeping or painting. All his friends are abroad but he doesnt seem to mind the solitude. I want to help him make a step but he is unsure of everything. One day he wants to be a teacher like me, the next he says he hates teaching and he wants to be an Illustrator, at least he has one job going so he is not reliant on me or his father. We dont mind that he is still living with us, he helps with chores and is not a ghost, or like those japanese kids you read about in the news who forget to go to the toilet. But we are concerned about his transformation into a manchild.

First wife was belittled, cheated and divorced on, and stuck with 4 children. The husband dumped them. She still had to deal with him to coordinate child visitation, etc but he moved 400 miles away. 18 years later, he remarries to a woman 20 years younger than him and has a son with her. First wife is not facebook friends with him and second wife and younger son. First wife unfriended his brother, brother's wife. Adult children are not facebook friends with second wife and half brother.

Hola tengo 2 meses separado tengo un hijo de 2 años mi esposa digo que ya no me amaba ni sentía nada por mi y después de ese problema solo me deja ver a mi hijo por skype cada 3 dias el día de ayer antes de ver a mi hijo hagas por teléfono ya que ella es de otra ciudad y entre su enojo y todo lo que hablamos no se porque pero me dio la sensación De que todavía siente algo por mi solo que esta enojada y molesta y trai coraje por todos nuestros problemas del pasado Y seme ocurrió mandarle un ramo de rosas rojas una carta y un peluche como ven creen que ella aunque no me lo diga le valla a gustar? O que me recomiendan??

When a married man will not mention his wife around you and always rolls his eyes when he does. Will also anytime he does mention all the facts like how she reminds him if the mistakes he's made and how he doesn't like how she's "let herself go" and does not like being around her when she comes in and will flirt with you when she is around. after he told me all those things he came over and just stared at me with this admiring look in his eyes. He would t stop contact with me. He also liked to check me out (full body) then ended up focusing more on my face and eye contact. I looked at some pics of them long before we met and they were always posting thibgs of them together. They seemed happy now I've seen some recent and there all old photos of them together. But his fb account is completely private while hers is not. I can't help but think he's probably wondering about things. Now they don't do it. So why would he like me

My best friend is also my roommate. It's amazing in itself to have a true genuine friendship, but then to actually be able to live with that person? Amazing. He used to be a shift lead at a coffee shop. 5 years, HATED it towards the end. He is a morning person, and loves being able to spend time with friends/girlfriend after work. His shifts there would range from 4 AM-1PM, to 2:00PM to 10:30PM. Plus the job was stale. He was recently hired at a call center, and while the pay is much better, after 4 weeks he realized that talking on the phone non-stop for 8 hours with angry people is not the greatest for the morale. Since he's in training, the hours are great (830-5 M-F) I know him. He is not happy there, but he is afraid to get another office job (which he easily could) because of his faith. He believes God has him there for a reason, and he can't leave until he finds out why or until God 'speaks to him' to leave. I tried reasoning with him, and he just asked me to support him. He just found out his new hours will be 12:00-8:30 PM. He is going to be MISERABLE. We'll have 0 time together, he'll barely see his girlfriend, no more gym, no more church group. No more meals together. His pride/fear of disobeying a God we'll never understand is going to cost him who knows how long of quality time with the things that life is all about-People. He will be able to make an impact no matter where he works! I want to support him. But I want him to be happy. What would you do?

So my boyfriend and I are in college, and we have been together about 5 months now after being friends for a little more than a year. His bestfriend is having a birthday celebration in Reno by the end of this year and unfortunately his ex girlfriend got invited too because they are in the same circle group of friends. They were together for about 2 years and they just broke up earlier this year. I know this situation is still pretty fresh for both parties. But the problem is that she told his friends that if I m going with him then she won t be going because this is such an awkward situation. I talked to my bf and he said since his friends are also her friends, so he was thinking that he probably won t go and have her go coz he knows that I will be really uncomfortable knowing if she s going to be there too. But at the same time we re still very new and fresh couple. I want to be able to trust him more. So I was thinking it would be better if I let him go by himself and knowing his ex girlfriend is going to be there too.... I am so torn by this situation so what should I do?!?

Me refiero a cuando te gusta alguien, y quiere que en algún momento le ruegues. A mi nunca me ha gustado rogar, ni si quiera en cosas del "amor". Pero no se si es malo. Por ejemplo, me pasa que esa persona quiere que le ruegue, cuando va a "dormirse" (en realidad se que lo dice para que le diga que se quede) pero nunca le digo eso, soy una persona orgullosa (ya se que es malo) y no me gusta rogar porque me pega en mi orgullo y dignidad, o cuando me deja en "visto" (eso no me molesta, se que hay ocasiones en las que uno no quiere hablar) no me gusta tener que hablarle de nuevo, ni rogarle en todos los sentidos, si es para salir, si dice que no, no le vuelvo a preguntar (en ese día xD) Díganme, porque les gusta que les rueguen, acaso no pueden ser directas y ya? (se que no todas son asi) Es malo que no me guste rogarle, ni siquiera a ella?

I am a guy and i am sleeping with a married man. However, it is a strange situation, i initially felt bad about sleeping with him but i have talked to his wife and she said 'My husband loves his men, he had a long term boyfriend before me and him married and lasted into the marriage, and there has been other men since then' So she clearly knows about it and is ok why? She has had affairs with men too as well, and has shown interest in me, i also like women. The husband isnt interested in a threesome with me and his wife and they dont share a bedroom, if they like sleeping with others why isnt he interested in sex with both me and his wife? She said she would be interested but he isnt We actually go out together, almost like dates and formals at his work etc Is all this a bad idea? is he gay or bisexual?

I will be leaving soon to drop my sister off at school. Since it is warm out and I am not getting out of my car and coming right back home I am going to drive in my bare feet and not bring my shoes.

I became friends about two and half years ago with an interesting man. Over time I've noticed something strange. People can't seem to resist touching him. It doesn't matter who they are, men, women, gay, straight, young, old they all touch him even when they first meet. I've never met someone like that before and am very curious what could cause it. It usually starts with a casual touch to his arm or back, but within minutes they're cuddling against this perfect stranger, or hugging him. He's aware of it, says it's just how it's always been. Any ideas what would make people feel the need to touch him?

I have terrible social anxiety, and the other day I made a librarian super mad by throwing a book (yes it was dumb) at one of my friends (expecting them to catch it) but I don't want to go back into the library and see her because she scares me, and I'm a sophomore btw if that's relevant lol

So I'm in college biology at me Highschool and we had a lab day, so we get through the lab and she starts saying crap like I have not done anything to help when I have done more than her, all she did was collect and write down data, while I've been preparing concentrations of solutions, teaching her how to use a LabQuest, and fixing her mistakes. So what do I need to do to deal with her? it's mainly just annoying because I loathe hypocrites.

One of them used to be my friend (met in college) and his best friend since 12th grade high school. But we arent good friends with him anymore. The other coworker started talking **** about my boyfriend saying he takes long breakes and stuff and does no work when my boyfriend claims the coworker says he can take his break. This coworker got caught leaving at 10pm when his schedule is 7pm - 11pm :/ My boyfriend doesnt want to tell the boss because he doesnt want to start problems. He tried getting a transfer but another location offered him less days of work. He currently works 5 days, new location only offered 2. He has an interview at the location he was going to transfer to but for a different position. The interview is on friday, what can he do in the meantime since he has 2 more days until his interview and still has to work at this location?

I know I will get judged regardless but I'm seeking advice not judgement. My self esteem is already low.THANKS I am the mistress to a man I've been knowing for 9 years. (HE'S NOT MARRIED BUT IN A RELATIONSHIP) He has a vasectomy and I want kids so it always put a wedge between us. I wasn't always his mistress it just kinda....happened. My dilemma is that he supports me financially. I am fighting a legal case and cannot work right now because of personal matters. But he gives me what I ask for and its kinda like he pays me for sex. I know he cares for me but I feel like I'm not good enough to be a wife or girlfriend. I'm very attractive, educated, and extremely well-groomed. Men always focus on my looks and sexual prowess and I'm starting to get depressed. What am I supposed to do when I depend on him? It's easy to say..get a job, but what if that isn't an option currently. I am totally lost and feeling like the walls are closing in.

i got into this really upsetting situation with the guy I like and I'm having a hard time getting over it. So basically he had to move back to his hometown and I could tell he was a bit sad about so I thought I'd put myself out there and ask if we could talk more, get to know one another cause we hit off pretty well, he'd always share random stories about himself and one time we were talking about getting shots and he out of nowhere touched my wrist... and from there I kinda assumed we would have like this flirty/friendly relationship and it was for awhile. Anway, he told me he didn't have any interest in creating long distance relationships/friendships because they were tedious & a lot of work a sad face and i really thought he felt bad or at least cared about my feelings until I tried to get him to at least try it & that I think it'd be nice just to have someone to talk to, wouldn't you want that & he lashed out told me he thought he made it clear while remaining nice wtf.. that was beyond rude & he also told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again and after I read that I felt so crushed and cried for like 10 minutes and just felt mad after that so I ended up texting him back and called him stubborn and that it was my apologies for wanting to try and know him better... and that I won't ever text him again. Eventually I apologized to him and he just completely ignored it  sometimes I have this urge to text him but I know that would make me look crazy :(

Un chico mujeriego realmente puede llegar a enamorarse de una chica, de cambiar por ella? Si es asi, como podria darme cuenta de que de verdad esta interesado y no solo soy una amiga o juego mas?

Basically, my mom told me that if I get striaght A's, she said that she will get me a new phone. The first quarter has just ended, and I told my mom about it, but she does not want to get me a new phone. I'm not bragging about anything, but yes, I did get straight A's. I'm not really mad about not having the new phone, but I am mad because they lied to me. Idk if what I'm doing is right, but I just ask myself sometimes, why I wasn't born with a different family. Is this bad parenting? Is this something that I just have to change about myself? Is it my fault why I feel this way towards my "parents"?

Quick answers, she'll be home soon. My only option at the moment would be to put the cucumber up her gaff to disguise my poop as hers but she might not be in the mood. Please help!

I'm turning 26 soon and this man who is 39 he is my coworker but is staying at my parents mom's house till he settles and finds a place since his from another state...and last night he told me " when are you planning on living with your mom and don't u want to get married and have kids or do u not?" To myself I'm like of course I want to get married but I don't have time to date!" And it annoys me how he asks me that type of questions...

I have this friend that I really like. I been friends with her for 4 years durning that time she was with her boyfriend for 7 years who she just broke up with. How long should I give her before I say something?