Family: Question: Are second cousins your blood relatives yes or no?

Question: Are second cousins your blood relatives yes or no?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 02:00 PM PDT

Question: Our family doesnt wear clothing at home, my mum and dad and my siblings and me, why?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 01:55 PM PDT

Question: How do I deal with having no space?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 01:52 PM PDT

So I'm my family there are five of us. My mum and my 3 older siblings. My siblings are not one of those siblings you none with a lot in fact we don't really get a long at all. My brother has his own room. My mum had her own. I have to dare a room between my three sisters. My new I in their room but my stuff are in my mum's room. So I don't really have a room to call.mine. and they never let me forget that. I always say how I have no space but no one cares and I feel suffocated everywhere. I don't really like being around people. I'm not anti social but I just can't deal with certain people . I am a very nice person but only to those I like. Where can I go to get space? After school maybe? I can't stay in school because I'll get home late. Is there anywhere I can go other than the libary? This is not only for after school

Question: Should I show up to this baby shower ?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 01:49 PM PDT

So I was invited to a my friends baby shower she also happens to be my bf's sister in law and my boyfriends mother (who hates me) will be hosting the shower at her house. A couple months ago she did something really intrusive, she went to my house to speak to my parents (whom she has never even me before despite me dating her son for 3 years)about something involving mental health. I was livid, mainly because I am a 21 year old women and if she felt concerned with me she could have called me. Instead she made may parents and my poor sentimental grandma worry about me. I told her in front of my parents and nana that she was wrong to show up unannounced and uninvited and if she really cared about me should could have just called. At that moment my BF shows up ( he was fishing with his friends but droped everything he was doing when I told him what was happening) and yells at his mom telling her that it's not her place to do what she did and that he knew she never liked me... So after that she kicks my bf out her house even though he pays rent for his room, and I was banned from Her house and I haven't spoken to her since. Should I go to this baby shower ?

Question: My kids refuse to leave?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 01:18 PM PDT

I don't see how it is my fault. My name is Kevin, I am 53. I have wanted my kids gone for 15 years, my son is 17 and my daughter is 18. I have been distancing myself from them for 10 years. I have allowed them to have very minimal contact with anyone from outside as I have had them in online schooling for 10 years. These kids are spolied rotten, they claim it is my job to take them to work if they apply to applications but no where in the law does it say that. We live off of a highway, my son and daughter are unable to walk as there are cars everywhere and no sidewalks or areas to walk on the side of the highway on. I did not teach my son and daughter how to drive at 15 and 16, and I am sure not going to start now. I have taken them before to apply for jobs, but no one hires them as they have no learners permit, no license and no car. They also have no money since they have never found a job yet because of this. Why do they claim it is "my" job to teach them to drive or drive them if they find a job? No where in the law does it say it is my job. It only says you have to feed and shelter them. I want to kick them out, or I would like for them to sneak out and never come back. I have wanted them gone for 15 years, my wife is on my side as I have ADHD as well as bipolar. I stopped celebrating my son and daughters birthdays when they were 8 and 9 year olds yet they're still spolied, even after they know I would and do beat them every time that they cry, laugh or speak to me. Update: I have not allowed them to be around any outside person for 10 years, so I do not see why they are still entitled worthless brats. I don't want to help them, I shouldn't have to help What would you do?

Question: My sister passed out with her daughter on her boobs should I unlatch her and pull her bra up or keep her boobs out in public?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 01:13 PM PDT

Question: Should I send my son to an all boys school?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 01:12 PM PDT

My son has hit 13 and he has gotten very girl crazy and lusty. I am a very jealous person so I don't like the idea of him having relationships with whores. Do you think sending him to an all boys school will make him forget about girls? I don't want whores to try and have him, let alone have sex with him.

Question: My girlfriend was asleep and her house got robbed and the subspect wrapped her with tape &she is breastfeeding their kids what should I do?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 01:01 PM PDT

Question: I love my son but I am embarrassed he is gay. Im trying really hard to accept him and I pretty much have, I know ppl are born like that?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 12:43 PM PDT

But I can't help but to feel embarrassed when he makes gay comments on FB. He is 18 but still lives with me. My family is so religious and feels it is a sin.i will go to war with anyone for my son but I can't help being embarrassed and his comments can be distasteful which I wouldn't appreciate whether he was straight or gay. What do I do. Im trying to ignore it but its hard.

Question: Are first cousins your very close blood relatives yes or no?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 12:42 PM PDT

Question: No family support or help - what to do?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 12:35 PM PDT

I have been ill for two weeks with bad anxiety. I can hardly get up and concentrate on work and I have a hard time getting to work. I still go because I have no support. I told my parents and they said I might have something seriously wrong but they dont want to offer support. You call them and they dont answer the phone or its disconnected, You can only get a hold of them certain times and they dont really care. I try to run basic errands and its getting harder. I do have a doctors appt but it was hard to get in to see someone. I am not sure what you would do in this situation but they seem incredibly selfish.

Question: How can I cope up with hatred,stress and depression?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 12:28 PM PDT

I am a 17 years old girl currently suffering from a lot of stress,firstly stress of studies as in olevels part 1 I got good grades but unfortunately in second year I am not scoring much,secondaly I am also going through family stress as my parents compare me all the time with my elder and younger siblings over my behavior issues(but when i ask for the same provisions thy have I flatly get rejected and told that I cannot ever be compared to them) Recently an incident occurred at my school while I was absent and all of my class mates and friends blamed me,the whole class went against me while I didn't have an idea what happened,they said "she taught us to do such stuff" my headmistress called my parents and told them everything which I never did and was unjustly blamed for and unfortunately my parents beleived her with closed eyes.And while I was getting scolded,I was trying to clarify myself and my father said "don't argue back,you were always a bad news for us,you never brought good news to us" and these words shattered me a lot as I was doing my best to gain good marks plus be the girl he wants me to be,I swear my aim was to make him proud but these words shattered me and broke me into peices as I worked hard just for him and always brought "good news" for him in the form of first position in arts and 2A* in CIE,maybe he doesn't consider it a good news but I can't take it anymore. Iam getting suicidal thoughts right now please help😭😭

Question: Are your parents dead?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 12:20 PM PDT

Question: I have a question, this is detailed. Very detailed, it's about family issues?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 11:47 AM PDT

Okay, from the beginning, my older brother has a girlfriend, she's been his girlfriend for about 11 months now. She's also his first. But as time went on, she's gained weight profusely, we don't care about that. In the beginning, we all liked her. She was sweet and kind to us, she would listen to problems, she was sweet and innocent to him. But... now, she's changed. Over the course of 7 months she's taken a violent turn downhill. She's been ordering my brother like a dog. My parents are infuriated because my brother keeps taking the car to drive her around, like a personal taxi. He's been bending over backwards for her, she keeps snapping at him for not having something she wants. And he doesn't see it. A good example is I overheard her screaming at him for buying her the wrong costume for a Halloween Party. Or he just yesterday came home sobbing when he brought her home from school. (I'm the younger sister, he's 18.) And now, my family wants to have an intervention. I'm worried my father will snap at him for various reasons. My mother will get angry at my father for snapping, I'm going to flee from the arguing, and my brother will flee too. Running away from home. And also, I've seen my family's darker side lately. Ever since he met her, I can tell they're lying to themselves when they say; "They want him to grow up." No... that isn't the case. I know it. My father's upset because he doesn't have the friend that once did everything with him. I'll add details in edit. Okay, ongoing; my mother's upset because she doesn't have her young son anymore. I've been working around like a dog, getting the brunt of their anger, it goes on. Now his girlfriend wants him to go to college with her, which I can tell he doesn't want to do. Nobody takes me seriously in the family because A. I'm in midst of puberty. B. I'm the youngest. C. I've had a girlfriend and nobody considers her a real experience since it was long distance. D. I'm only 15. Nobody will listen.. help?

Question: How to get respect from my mom...how can she treat me as an adult?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 11:29 AM PDT

I'm 23 & married & my mom still treats me like a teenager. She tells me what to do/wear & underestimates everything I do without her input. I understand that I'll always be her daughter but some things are a little extreme. For example if I'm visiting her & im sleeping she'll wake me up & ask me if I want to go to the store for her. I'll say no and she throws a fit & yells for me to clean up her house, as if I still live under her roof. She also leaves me stuck in the house babysitting my younger siblings. When I visit home I want to hangout with my cousins and go out...not babysit! I can't drink at home Bc I'm always stuck with my younger siblings or driving around for my mom. I feel like I revert to a teen when I'm around her & she breaks my spirit. I can't stand it. My husband even notices. I want to talk to her about how she treats me. What can I say to avoid an argument?

Question: I want to leave my house but i'm only 16?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 10:56 AM PDT

my parents and i haven't been getting along because they made me break up with my boyfriend because we were sexually active we worked together and after they found out we were still seeing eachother they made me quit my job like my mom walked into the place found my boss and said i can't work there anymore i don't get along with them at all and they try to blame everything on me we don't have the same opinions about anything or the same views and i can't talk to them because my opinions are always wrong my mom is crazy my friends think so too they won't stay the night at my house because of her i don't know the last time i had a conversation with my dad i really want to leave or hope they kick me out which i know sounds bad but it's gotten to the point where i just come home from school and stay in my room btw this has been going on for several months

Question: Why do I feel stressed and anxious in my moms house but not my dads? I have a good relationship with my mom.?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 10:54 AM PDT

Question: Should I leave my parents alone? Because they are trying to get me married to the wrong guy.?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 10:53 AM PDT

I want to travel the world and explore new places with someone who don't want babies atleast not quickly just after marriage. I'm a crazy animal lover and would love to keep pets instead of babies. My mother has done my engagement with my cousin when we were very young I was only 7 years old and my aunt who is going to be my mother in law is of such a low mentality she is not well educated and thinks that the only job for women is to stay at home and raise children and my cousin is of same mentality. He hates animals. I can't move back because it is considered to be a great shame for the family if the engagement is failed and nobody is going to marry that girl. I'm earning a good amount of money and can go abroad and live alone 'happily' or can have someone from the dating sites but I'm the only child of my parents. They have spent their all money in my education, they have fulfilled many of my wishes and it will hurt my parents a lot. They don't listen to me they just want me to get married as fast as possible. I tried to explain them but they told me not to even think about it. Its a matter of honor for my dad. Should I leave them alone or should I sacrifice my dreams?

Question: I want to help my boyfriend but i don't know how. People judge him, my family hate him but deep down hes nicest person ever?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 10:47 AM PDT

hes 16. His mom is a druggie and his dad is an alcoholic. He lives with his little sister who is 12, and he is the only one who cares for her. His parents spend they're welfare money on alcohol and never on my bf or his sister. cos of this he's been forced to do illegal stuff to get money. Hes been looking after himself and his sister since he was 12. Hes been dealing drugs to get money, not even for himself but to make sure his little sister has meal on her plate, or has clean and new clothes and shoes, and to buy her school supplies etc.. he has no other option to do this,i know what hes doing is wrong but hes doing it for right reasons Every penny he gets he either spends it on his sister or me and i feel so bad cos hes had such a hard life yet he treats me so good and i dont want to lose him and im scared he will go to jail one day and mess up his whole education and life. My parents think hes a waste of space, and hate idea of me being with him because they just think hes a worthless thug. Hes the sweetest guy iv ever met and the realist. He doesn't care about latest fahsion, or iphones and he doesn't have social media cause he thinks its fake and he has a very few close friends. I dont know how he copes but his mindset on life is so on point & certified all he knows is too care for the ones he loves. He always makes time for me but even i know behind that smile i can see pain in his eyes. I just wish i could help him or someone else could but no one will listen to me

Question: Home health aide constantly calling and texting mom about grandfather?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 10:47 AM PDT

My mother is already a very stressed frazzled person and emotionally fragile. My 91 year old grandfather is living in an apartment with a home health aide. We didn't want to put him in a nursing home. Unfortunately my grandfather has always been a difficult and nasty person even more so now that he has dementia. His home health aide calls my mom asking what to do and updating her at least 4-5x a day or more. My mother doesn't have a minute to breathe. Apparently my grandfather tried to hit the aide and refuses to take the medication as well as other behaviors. She goes to visit my grandfather at least once a week and does what the aide should be doing. She does grocery shopping, puts his pills in the organizer and on and on. Is this normal? I worry about my mother and this level of stress. He has 24/7 care I thought that meant she would get a break from worrying about him. Seems the opposite. What can I do for her? I've gently suggested a nursing home may be a better option but she cannot be reasoned with.

Question: I really hate my sister in law, what should I do?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 09:39 AM PDT

I just found out the other day that my brother and his wife will be flying into Dallas for Christmas. They live in North Carolina and want to see my side of the family since they will be spending Thanksgiving with his wife's family. I'm going to be honest I never liked my brother's wife from the beginning. She is spoiled rotten and extremely selfish. For example, my brother wanted to have our father as a groomsman in their wedding. Everyone but her thought it was a nice gesture. She tried to convince him to not do it, but he did anyway. She also hates it when he talks to his family or friends, its always her family and her friends that he needs to be talking to. I am actually very surprised they are even coming for Christmas because she does not like any of us, even though we tried being nice to her until we found out her true colors. I kind of fee bad because technically she is my sister in law and my brother did choose to marry her. But I also don't want anything to do with her. So what should I do when they come for Christmas or should I just not show up?

Question: Why does my mom and dad hate everything I do?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 09:39 AM PDT

I publishes my books, they downgraded authors for so long... I said I want to be a decorator, they complained... I moved out, they treated me like crap and said I néed to come back... I move back, they treat me like $*!+.... I say I want to go to college, they told me they wouldn't let me. What do I have to do to make them stop

Question: Can I share this with my sister?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 09:36 AM PDT

I have a sister Ann that is 1year younger than I am. I also have a great boyfriend Bob. He is the kind of a guy every girl would want for a boyfriend. He is friends with Ann and she is crazy about him. Ann is also very shy and she asked me if we could share Bob. My first reaction was no way but after thinking about it some more, I said why not. Ann and I are very close and have been sharing most things all our life. Bob thinks it is a great idea. He said 2 beautiful girlfriends are better than one. Has anyone ever done this? I know we will not be jealous of each other. Neither of us is looking for a serious relationship. We just want to have some fun. Do you think it will work? We don't want this to be too hard on Bob.

Question: How can I comfort my sister ?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 09:34 AM PDT

My sister and her husband were watching a show last night about tornadoes. She's really scared of them. There was one tornado that destroyed Walmart. She starts working at Walmart tomorrow. Our friend was just watching the weather it looks like it'll rain all day tomorrow she feels scared. She had a bad dream last night that me and her were caught in a tornado she said I tried to save her but I couldn't. She said she woke up last night crying her eyes out. She cried herself to sleep. She said on the show they said that tornadoes can come without warning. We live in a place where we rarely get tornadoes. We had one here in our town that's been about 5 or 6 years. That was the only one we ever had around here I tell her we have nothing to worry about she doesn't believe me. Every time it storms or rains she gets scared now shes even more scared. She wants me to sleep with her tonight. How can I comfort her ? Is it ok if I sleep with her ?

Question: Should I let this end everything for good?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 09:30 AM PDT

My family treats me like crap. They go places to eat, hang out, do things together, go on vacations, my mom my dad and my brother, yet I am never welcome. I am stuck eating oatmeal, cereal and stuff like that whole they have fun all the time. This happens at least 3 times a week. Lately my dad has been cussing me out and screaming at me. I think he just wants to see me upset. I have prayed for about 5 years I could leave this planet, but I am still here. Things are only getting worst and I can't handle it. When my mom started taking stuff from me and my brother started coming in my room whenever he pleased I felt like it was out of hand, yet they keep taking it further and further. Should I go on and leave this place?

Question: Am I being rude and am I overreacting? I WILL CHOOSE A BEST ANSWER.?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 09:28 AM PDT

So every mouth when my sister has her period she makes a huge mess in the bathroom. There's blood in the shower, on the toilet seat and on the floor. There are also used pads on the floor. I'm not like every typical guy and I'm not bothered by the mess just the fact that I am always cleaning it up since it's my responsibility to clean that bathroom. I have asked my sister to clean up her mess multiple times and she says no. My parents say that it's my job to clean up. I wouldn't mind having to clean up a little bit but it seems like my sister doesn't even try to clean up at all. Who is in the wrong? I try to keep the bathroom clean throughout the week because that is the bathroom I like to use (it's the bigger of the two non master bathrooms in the house and the only other bathroom with a bath and shower.) No Rebecca I'm not trolling so please just stop.

Question: Self-centered, narcissitic parent problem?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 09:23 AM PDT

I got a huge problem with our mom, we re in deep **** (debts) but it seems like everytime we get a huge sum of cash, she spends like a spoiled teenage millionaire and doesnt pay credits on full (or at all) she doesnt even work for this money, its all from our foreign step dad which, i think from our countries laws, don t get too much say since most properties we have is in mom s name. There s no talking to her.

Question: Is it OK what my mom is doing with my husband?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 09:18 AM PDT

My mom really likes my husband Joe and he really like her. Nothing gives Mom's more fun than joking around with Joe except when he jokes back with her. At the dinner table for example, Mom ask Joe "Is that a gun in your pocket or are you glad to see me". Joe said "They don't make guns that big". Mom and Joe both laughed for 5 minutes. Another time Mom ask Joe if he wanted to see his mother in law happy. He said "what would it take to make you happy". She said 10 inches. Joe said "I will not cut off 2 inches for anyone". Mom could not stop laughing. Should I tell mom to knock it off as Joe will think she is flirting? Is what she is saying Joe not appropriate? Joe just thinks it is a very funny what she is doing?

Question: Why are so many millennials living with their parent s?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 09:08 AM PDT

I notice that a lot of 18 to 28 year olds live with (and sometimes under the control of) their parents. I remember the day of extreme violent rage when I moved out, packed everything I paid for into my car and moved in with my girlfriend. I was 20 and my parents were still trying to tell me what to do, even so much as to make me manage my finances like Suze Orman or Dave Ramsey. I was like "NO" and moved out. I had enough of the controlling ABUSE they inflicted on me and left. I d have chosen to live in my car over living with them. Even to this day I would NEVER live with them again. Why are so many millennials okay with being controlled by tyrants?

Question: What should my friend do?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 09:05 AM PDT

so my friend told me about her family problems and I feel like this is serious. So basically my friend gets constantly yelled at by her mom like legit screaming. Every day she says horrible things to her and she makes her cook and clean practically the whole house. Even if she does all she says, she s still not happy. Her mom hits her if she yells back/does things wrong but not hard enough to leave a mark.her parents make her feel that she s the reason why her mom is angry bc they say she never does anything.she s told me she feels like a shitt daughter. I m amazed she would say that bc she does so much. I kno she should help once in a while but this is too much, It should be her mothers responsibility bc she chose to be a mom and my friend shouldn t also be forced to look after her siblings full time AND stress over school. She s been starting to feel all the pressure at once and I m worried that she developing symptoms of depression. (Also She hasn t really told me much in detail but she said her dad gave her a massage that made her uncomfortable. She said there s more stuff but she doesn t want to talk) Anyway I feel like things are getting worse I don t think it s healthy to stay in that environment. she might need to take legal action but she doesn t have any relatives to help.we live in Georgia. she says she might tough it out untill she graduates but even if she does, she still can t leave her sister alone bc of her dad so eventually she has to do something

Question: Im curious as to whether or not i can do a dna test without the mothers acknowledgement?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 08:54 AM PDT

Okay so about 2 years ago(oct 2014) i had a 1 night stand then in end of july 2015 she had a daughter. I am curious as to whether or not im able to do a dna test without the mothers acknowledgement. The mother now lives out of state and she seems happy with her new life and im happy with how mine is but its eating me alive as to whether or not its my daughter. The other thing is the mother told me its either me or one other guy she dated after the 1 night stand. However she doesnt care who it is and doesnt really want to know

Question: I punched my mom in the face and my dad beat the living cheap outta me. You gotta help me please?!?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 08:40 AM PDT

I got into a huge argument with my mom and she told me I couldn't go to the party at my friends house because my behavior has been unpleasant and I've been impossible to live with. I scolded off my mom and tell her to back off and growled at her! She said, "OLIVIA CATHERINE WATSON! I've warned you about your tone. That tone and growing has grounded written all over!" I told her, "You never let me have any fun and you expect me to not get mad. Of course I'm going to get angry!!!" my mom said I have no right to get angry and I did this to myself. I told my mom "f*ck you b*tch!" Then she grabbed her shoe and whooped me and scolded at me, "Dont not talk to me like that and I dont need to explain and you are not going and that's final! You need to just shut up! You tell me I embarrass you and I do **** for you. Just shut up!! You have no right to say that to me. Get out of my face!" I punched her in the face HARD. She called my dad and I got scared and my dad had this ferocious look on my face, face was steaming mad. He grabbed his belt, grabbed me into my room and whooped the HELL outta me for 10 minutes and didn't stop until my *** was red. I told him to stop but he didn't listen. I couldn't even sit down and he screamed at me so loud in my face that I insulted his wife and he kept whooping me. He called the police on me and I got arrested for assault. I got out this morning. My dad scared the **** outta me! 😭😭 I'm too scared to face my dad today and my mom is in the hospital. She deserved it. My grandparents screamed at me on the phone for what I did to my mom and their baby girl. Why am I the bad guy?? My aunt got me out and isn't speaking to me. I'm only 15 I got arrested last night and got out this morning. Now we have to go it court in two weeks

Question: Is it ok to have sex with grandma?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 08:30 AM PDT

she made me cookies & i wana

Question: Should I continue to date him?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 08:29 AM PDT

He will not let me in his apartment. I've seen the outside of the building but in 6 months he's never invited me in. We can only stay at my place. He dates other women. I have seen him out on dates with other women. I've gone through his phone and seen messages to other women that he's dating. His car is a mess. It's old, damaged and he takes his plates off whenever he parks to keep it from getting booted. He sometimes ignores my calls and texts for days at a time. There are days when he's very attentive but then there are other days when he doesn't answer or call back. I've given him money. He got hurt on his job and his workman comp. wasn't enough to cover his expenses so I offered to do his laundry, and give me some pocket money. We have fought in public. I get mad whenever I see him with other women and I throw drinks at him and start fights. He often disrespects me by ignoring me in public and acting like he doesn't care. We still see each other behind closed doors occasionally but he doesn't invite me to hang out in public anymore

Question: Was my mother right for this? Literally taking my entire life away? I need opinions.?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 08:23 AM PDT

This is probably going to be a long question. All my life she's basically kept me in a box. She's fairly religious but has allowed me some freedom. Recently, when I turned 16 she allowed me to obtain a job and a car but I ended up getting involved with a guy she thought was bad. When things went down and she saw I was emotionally upset she took my car and my phone to prevent me from seeing him. Which worked, but only for a day. I got a second phone only for talking to him since my mom put a thing on her phone where she gets a notification every time I contact him. Fast forward 7 months since I met him my mom allowed me to go to a public school for the first time where I met another friend. I had smoked w**d before but he told me he did it and I ended up buying from him pretty regularly. After a month or so I got caught by my mother and she took both phones, my personal and school laptop, my wallet and my keys my car and she sent me to my best friends house for a week. She lives like 40 miles away in the country and I was there basically against my will since I had no way to get home. While I was gone I discovered she quit my job for me, she pulled me out of public school so I have to home school, and she got a restraining order against the guy she didnt like for me. She also took all my makeup, my jewelry, my bikinis, my weed, and 100 in cash I had. She doesnt let me stay home alone anymore and she sleeps in my room every night. She took my safe and things. Was she right?

Question: Should parent that cannot take care of themselves, help with bills?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 08:13 AM PDT

My dad had a stroke in January this year. He has hemiparesis. He cannot dress himself, cook, shower without me getting the shower ready, or drive. When it first happened, I allowed my sister to come live with me, my husband, and three kids. I drove 400 miles a week taking her to and from school. Her mom is an absolute nutcase so I was protecting her from her mom and the GAL agreed she was better off with me. SHe ended up going to her moms after a few months because she was your typical teenager, lazy, ungrateful, and started sneaking around behind my back. In May my dad came to live with us. In september, his disability was approved. He immediately started spending it all on Amazon, thousands of dollars. He took out his 401k because we had no clue how long disability would take. I told him he needed to give me what he had received for what we have spent ($2300 is what he gave me). We spent way mroe than that. He bought a $38,000 car, my grandmother took him to the bank and she didn't stop him. I denied the car being delivered on my property and told him since all he is doing is wasting his money, he can reimburse me for 5.5 months of him being here and 2.5 of his other daughter being here.

Question: My dad's marrying his mistress?!?!?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 07:57 AM PDT

My dad had an affair, then my parent's got divorced. He is now marrying his mistress and I met her once, and she was a complete jerk. My dad is constantly putting me down and makes me feel like crap. He is extremely manipulative. I want to move out of his house, and I'm refusing to go to his house tonight. I live in Missouri, and I'm 13. Do I have a right to choose where I live? Also, my mother homeschools me so it would be much easier if I lived at my mothers full time.

Question: My 59 yr, old sister cut me out of her life but still invites my adult daughters and their families for meals.?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 07:54 AM PDT

In 2014 my mother and my husband had a conversation that broke my family in half. My mother passed away without accepting my apology or talking it out with my husband. My sister refused to listen to any suggestion that Mother misunderstood even though she had been hard of hearing for years and my husband denies he spoke disrespectfully. My sister said I should side with my mother rather than my husband. I visited my mother regularly and every time she brought up the situation I apologized hoping she would move past the hurt and be a family again. My daughters, son-in-law and I along with my sister, her adult son and daughter and two of my sisters friends were together when my mother passed. After my mother's death I was cut out of the will, my husband was ostracized and my sister didn't even acknowledge my birthday. My sister invites my daughters and their families to her home and I know in my mind it's a good thing and they need to stay in touch with family but it hurts. How do I move on?

Question: How to explain where I get my money from to parents (details)?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 07:41 AM PDT

So, I'm currently seen as unemployed but I make "adult content" and get paid / given tips which I spend on games mostly. How can I explain where my money comes from to my parents without saying I'm in the adult content business. It's only a "on the side" thing as I'm currently looking for actual work.

Question: Was I at fault in this situation?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 07:30 AM PDT

Ok so me and my cousin were looking for things on the ground she kneeled down I kneeled down behind her kinda close. I than touched her arm then called her beautiful and I think she thought I was hitting on her which I was but I don't have feelings for her bc it's weird I'm wondering if I got to close and you know I didn't mean it in a sexual way but it's making me uncomfortable now. This happened like 3 to 4 years ago I'm so worried about this it's never been brought up ever so I don't think it's anything

Question: Why do some people think that families are everything, when they actually aren't?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 07:06 AM PDT

My phrase is" friends treat like your part of their family" While your own family doesn't. Why is that? I have tons of friends who cares and has been there for me threw bad and good times, My husband thinks the opposite, he thinks grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins are the most important, But yet i never had any support from them, While he does from his own siblings who helps him with anything, which he doesn't understand that not all families are the same!

Question: Am I wrong to not want to give my mom money back for something I never asked her to do?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 06:35 AM PDT

Recently 9 months preggo. My mom and I have been fighting about money issues. First, she said she had a plan and that I would work while she kept the baby and before I go to work, I drop him off at the babysitters and just pay the babysitter. she said you just pay the babysitter for however long she keeps him. Last week we went to my cousin's house and she starts bragging that she's going to charge me $900 to keep her grandson while I go to work. I pay $500 rent and she wants $400 for keeping her grandson. I said what the hell, that's not what you told me. We go back and forth and she's like maybe you should've aborted him and I said no bc I want him to live but I'm going to give him up for adoption if he has to be welcomed into the world like this. My cousin offered to adopt him if I went that route. Now this week, she said I had a flat tire and the thread was unravelling and said she'd fix my tires and I just pay her bc it's $60. I'm on maternity leave and about to have my son next week but it's getting harder for me to move and run errands. So I said ok. Then she calls me back and shes like well I'm getting new tires for all the tires now, you just pay me back. I told her no bc she said only one tire was flat! The total comes up to $330. I don't have $330 to give to her, that's for my son's circumcision next week. Ugh this is ridiculous. And bc I don't want to give her the money she's telling the family I'm putting him up for adoption and that the baby shower was a waste.

Question: Why does my dad do this?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 06:13 AM PDT

Everytime im heartbroken 💔 or get hurt by a guy he always wants me to hang out with him. Like i wont tell him im hurt he can just sense somethings wrong. An when we go out we might go out to eat or he will take me to one of his shops out of town (hes a mechanic) and let me watch him work and stuff. Then when were riding in the car he will ask me "so whos the fella that hurt you" or will say something " just remember, his lost". I was wondering why he do all of that when im 26 years old?

Question: Would he be too heavy to be on top for sex?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 05:51 AM PDT

Question: What do you think?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 05:44 AM PDT

I don't see how it is my fault. My name is Kevin, I am 53. I have wanted my kids gone for 15 years, my son is 17 and my daughter is 18. I have been distancing myself from them for 10 years. I have allowed them to have very minimal contact with anyone from outside as I have had them in online schooling for 10 years. These kids are spolied rotten, they claim it is my job to take them to work if they apply to applications but no where in the law does it say that. We live off of a highway, my son and daughter are unable to walk as there are cars everywhere and no sidewalks or areas to walk on the side of the highway on. I did not teach my son and daughter how to drive at 15 and 16, and I am sure not going to start now. I have taken them before to apply for jobs, but no one hires them as they have no learners permit, no license and no car. They also have no money since they have never found a job yet because of this. Why do they claim it is "my" job to teach them to drive or drive them if they find a job? No where in the law does it say it is my job. It only says you have to feed and shelter them. I want to kick them out, or I would like for them to sneak out and never come back. I have wanted them gone for 15 years, my wife is on my side as I have ADHD as well as bipolar. I stopped celebrating my son and daughters birthdays when they were 8 and 9 year olds yet they're still spolied, even after they know I would and do beat them every time that they cry, laugh or speak to me. Update: Update: I have not allowed them to be around any outside person for 10 years, so I do not see why they are still entitled worthless brats. I don't want to help them, I shouldn't have to help

Question: Do I have a sad sad life? I live without a wife and kidss?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 05:31 AM PDT

Growing up was ok. I had some friends and played with some neighbors. I had two best friends during childhood era. It was during the 1980s. Then in highschool, I moved to Canada.... yes Canada. I did not know anybody but my aunt's husband sisters. My parents sent me to live with these families. Most of the time I felt lonely and I missed home. Especially during christmas. I miss my mother and dad. Then I moved out from these families and lived on my own to go to some university. The canadian although they are nice people, I never made any friends with them. The reason, I do not like talking in English and I prefer people of my own race. Too bad I rarely see my own people in the small town where I went to the university. The town is simply a dead town without any entertainment. Then I moved to San Francisco, Ca. I was there when the 9/11 happened. I saw the building crashed by the planes and tumbling down to ashes. I was in SF to continue my study and work in the IT industry. But because of the 9/11 and those stupid arabs, it was hard to get a job. I left the US and back to my hometown. It's been 13 years since I got back to my hometown. Sometimes I miss SF and want to get back there . it's funny because my hometown has become a screwed up town. People are very self centered and impolite to each other. The first thing I noticed when I got home after away for 10 years, people are very impolite. So is this sad? Now I'm 40 year old male..... self employed and have my own office. But I regret until now of going back. My hometown is the most undesirable place I ever lived compared to other cities..... it's messy, the people are jerks and most of all most of them are dumb lazy bump....

Question: How would you feel after doing favors for people?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 05:29 AM PDT

I helped two people move in one day. My buddy and sister. My buddy gave me two Months heads up. My sister,2 days. For each move I expected nothing in return, as I was ok with helping. My buddy called me and thanked me profusely. I sent my sister a text congratulating her on her new place. She never responded to my text to thank me or anything. I know I didn't expect anything in return but a simple thank you would have been nice or even a response. She's also very impulsive and seems to only text me when she needs or wants something. Never a hello or hey how are you doing just simple questions and demands right off the bat. Also, get husband barely thanked me on my way out, it was almost an after thought.

Question: I talked to my parents about my behavior when I was 12?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 05:09 AM PDT

So I told them last night I'm now 18. That when I was 12 I pretended to have sex with a couple girls we all had our clothes on. I touched one of their stomach. I told them I was thinking about hurting myself and they told me not to worry because it is normal for kids my age to experiment the thing is she didn't say no I think she was in fear so I'm scared about that I don't want to hurt anyone. And I apologize if this offended anyone. If I truly made the crime I deserve the time. Like I said my dad told me he did something similar and its normal for kids at that age to do this but idk.

Question: Why is it okay to alienate children from extended family but not from a parent or sibling?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 04:55 AM PDT

I always hear how horrible it is for mothers to alienate their children from the father after a divorce (and vice versus if the father does it). However, what about when mothers alienate their kids from an aunt they are angry at or a grandparent the mother is mad at or cousins? My mother alienated me from extended family because one member had alcoholism. Everyone says "she was just protecting you" but what is the big risk an alcoholic poses if they are non-violent? Secondly, why is it okay to alienate from extended family (aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents) but not from the other parent or one of the kids siblings? My Mom is now furious her sister is alienating her one child from the older teen child with behavioral problems. While I agree this aunt (my Mom's sister) is wrong, I see no difference in what my mother did. So my question is why is it okay to alienate children from extended family but not from immediate family? Aren't both just as wrong?

Question: TØP Support group?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 04:48 AM PDT

A girl on Halloween was wearing a TØP shirt and it said "Don't trust a perfect person and don't trust a song that's flawless" And I *REALLY* wanted to say 'the songs on the radio are okay, but my taste in music is your face'. But I didn't, because I didn't want to mess it up, or seem creepy. I NEED TO FIND HER AND SAY IT TO HER THOUGH. This is basically my rant saying if you are this girl, then, idk. Also, there's a Twenty øne piløts concert coming up in my home town, and there's another coming up in the city that I'm currently living in. I live about 2 and 1/2 hours away from where the rest of my family lives (my home town). My dad is very strict about what kind of music we listen to. (My sister is 15, turning 16 soon, and I am 13). He absolutely HATES rap, and a lot of their songs have rap in them. A lot of them are very dark as well. I want to find away for him to let us go. I don't want to lie but I'm sure he wouldn't approve. (Also Panic! Is coming soon but I'm sure you've seen how Brendon and his forehead are on stage lol) Help? And please don't say 'do this, maybe he'll understand' NO. I'm sure he won't

Question: My brother hasn't been heard from in 16 years and I saw last 21 years ago. How would I find if he is still alive and if not where buried?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 04:44 AM PDT

He was into drugs and I saw him last at age 22 when our mother died. He hasn't been heard from since 16 years ago. He was homeless at the time, an aunt of ours saw him, and had been in jail briefly. He was claiming at the time he had been taken to the afterlife and back (he has mental issues). So after he was not heard from again I wondered if he heard nothing if he died but wouldn't they contact us as next of kin (I am the only living sibling). So how do you find a homeless person and how do you find a directory if they are dead or alive? He was living in Raleigh, NC when last heard from. He did have a child but we know nothing about that as he never had anything to do with the child so I assume that child wouldn't have any knowledge and I don't know the child's name.

Question: Where do you see yourself in 25 years?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 04:39 AM PDT

I see myself in a big house... not too big but still big and beautiful, married to a beautiful wife, 2 children, a 71' chevelle in my driveway, a great high paying job that I enjoy, and a life of great success that will take a lot of effort, but you can get anywhere in this world if you really want to.

Question: How to earn my ps4 and computer back from my dad help?!?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 04:25 AM PDT

It has been 2 weeks that my dad took away my ps4 and computer. I think that i Am going crazy. He took them away from me because i got in trouble for skipping school. Its fair i know. But he doesnt say to me how long he will keep them away. I just want a way to take them earlier. I dont have a phone,its broken, i Am using my sister's phone right now. Please its the only way to communicate with my gf. Ps: i cant leave the house too

Question: My mother likes to pick fights with people behind their back (not to their face) and she is sensitive. Are these two things linked?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 04:24 AM PDT

I want to understand her better. She is sometimes sick in the head and might not be able to help it. She is a very bitter person though from holding grudges.

Question: Just curios, do your parents share a bedroom?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 04:20 AM PDT

Question: Is it okay to be attached to your cousin?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 04:15 AM PDT

I am a 16 year old boy & my cousin is 10 years old. We are very very close to each other & we treat each other more than a cousin. We would text each other almost everyday, share deep secrets, gossip & laugh around. She would always tell me "I love you" & at times when I had to leave, she would tell me to stay. She's always always been my favorite cousin ever since she was born & I would always be protective around her. We're literally extremely close & we would talk for long time if we see each other in real life. Whatever it is, I always make sure I don't treat her in a way a guy treats his girlfriend because that would be extreme & I don't want that. We are blood cousins so I do limit myself. But do you think it is normal to be this close to a cousin like texting her everyday, telling her I love you & stuff etc?

Question: Dad is a problem?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 04:12 AM PDT

My dad thinks I m not smart if I make one mistake he has to explain the whole process again once I get what I made a mistake over. He wants me to 2 extra hours of work from these workbooks he buys. He won t even let me try out for basketball and I have a 3.8 gpa how does he not get in not doing bad

Question: Is it normal for a 30 year old to cry?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 04:02 AM PDT

my mum died last week and my dad has been crying non stop since and doesn't go to work he is such a pussy @tony im 15 and yeah i think its fairly common of us to post stupid fake questions

Question: Can a grandmother take her grandchild to an eye appointment?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 03:57 AM PDT

I'm 16 and I made my own eye appointment because my mom never would..now my mom doesn't want to take me but I really need it! I sit in the front row and still cannot see the board. It's probably about 5 feet in front of me. Could my grandma take me?

Question: My parents watch incest porn, and It really sickening to me. I don t know how to get over it. Should I be concerned, or is this normal?

Posted: 02 Nov 2016 03:04 AM PDT

I m 30 years and my parents are 63 and 61. When I was 25 I briefly moved in with my parents after separating from my bf. Late one night I was taking a bath and my dad walked in on me while I was naked. The next day he tried to have sex with me and told him no. I moved out the next day. My dad upgraded from a flip phone to smart phone . My mom started complaining that all he does is watch porn on it. I wasn t concerned till this weekend. She calls me and ask me to check his phone cause it was opening tabs. As soon as I opened chrome all I see is a page title father teaching daughter lesson on a porn site, I closed it out and then I notice that there where about 60 tabs opened all pertaining to incest porn. Father & daughter, mother & son, mom,daughter and son, brother and sister. Majority was of father daughter porn. Well duh too many tabs opened that he couldn t opened more but I felt disgusted. I told my mom if she was aware of what he was watching and she said yes. She even said she watches it with him. I left there confused and sicken. It bothers me cause I m an only child, with no other family. My kids stay with them on the weekends while I work, and now I m really concerned about if I should continue letting my kids go over there on the weekend. It s really disgusting to me and stresses me out that my parents are watching this type of porn, especially my mom. It makes me want to throw up when I think about it. I can t understand how my mom can be OK with this.