We both struggle in school. I've always trusted her and thought of her as the Lily to my Miley. But now, I don't think so. I think I may have ID (Intellectual Dissability). I'm often very clueless, unaware, impulsive, and very socially awkward. Sometimes she called me an idiot but she is just kidding. I tell her tolD her to stop. The other day, she was giving me attitude. I asked her what happened. She said, "well for starters, you always get offended when I call you an idiot." . My other friends treat me like idiots. I haven't asked my parents if I have this learning disability. I This friend also complains about how I study. She asks me to FaceTime and I say I have to study (which I do). I told her that I'm trying very hard in school. She has always been pissed with me and she won't accept the fact that I have to prioritize my academics. She even said that if I fail psychology, she would laugh. I know friends like to joke....but that goes to far. a good friend would never try to do that.The worst part is how I'm starting to see my best friend of four years. I see her as a burden. Someone who I wouldn't want to hang out with. Very immature and rude to me. She treats me like an idiot when I tell her to stop. She gets pissed when I'm studying. She never works hard at school. Does not have a job for college money. No desire to do community service or activities. No desire to be successful. I see her as a slacker. I think bc she always insults me. Help please

It's obvious that you have to cut off all ties with those people who were around when you were using but where do you start once your clean? I've only bonded with people through drugs and I feel like I don't know how else to bond with people. Anyone who can give advice, or knows someone, or went through a similar experience please answer.

Hi, so I'm a junior in college and I live with four other guys in a house just across from campus. I know all of them from church, but we have never really been close. Anyways, we're living together and they all have significant others. All four of them, and I don't. I'm not jealous or anything, but it's just annoying. It's almost like I have double the number of roommates I actually have, because they invite them over so often. They also like to invite all of their annoying friends over as well. For these reasons, I do my best to stay out of the house as much as possible so I don't have to interact with them. However, tonight is one of these nights where I didn't leave and they are inviting a ton of people over and nobody knows that I'm laying in my bed in my room. It's after 7pm on a Friday, and I haven't eaten dinner yet. I'm tempted to leave but my room is closest to the living room so my roommates and their friends would all know that I basically heard their entire conversation. This isn't the first time that this has happened. It's sad that this keeps happening, because I really want to feel comfortable in my own home. I definitely have some form of social anxiety. I have had nothing but terrible roommate situations for basically all of college, and this is just adding to it. What should I do?

My friend had her child a few months ago. She's obviously told me about the situation since I'm her friend, but it seems like she doesn't want the world to know. She never takes the child out in public. She doesn't even want her family seeing the child. Anytime she posts a photo of the child, she does it while the child is asleep. She's only taken one photo of her while awake and she put a snapchat filter over her face so the facial features aren't so noticeable. I don't want to point it out because it's rude. Is she ashamed?

I'm 15 and got invited to hangout for the first time literally ever. Problem is there is a reason why I don't get invited to hangout and don't have many friends. I'm super quiet and never know what to say and I feel it makes people uncomfortable. I was invited by one friend and she brought other people I didn't know. They were nice but I didn't know what to say to them or how to pitch into the conversation. They were talking about marvel alot of the time. Sometimes the girl would ask me questions directly or try and direct the conversation towards me but I never knew how to keep it going. It only made me feel worse and made me think my quietness was making her uncomfortable. Now I'm sure I probably won't be invited out again, and that my friend who invited me is embarrassed of me.

The last best friend I had was in grade 3, and then we had an argument and really hated each other, then she changed school to go to a private one a year after. From grade 4-6, I only had 1 friend, and that was really nice, but then we went to different schools and never saw or spoke to each other again. Most of the people from my grade 6 class all went to the same high school, but my mom wanted me to go to another newer high school. So I went there, knowing absolutely no one. Grade 7 was alright, I guess. I had 3-4 people who I sat with everyday. But grade 8 was terrible. The people I use to sit with would hide from me sometimes, leaving me alone at the table. I was always last pick for projects where we needed a partner, even though I'm a girl who got good grades, but I wasn't the 'nerdy' type, nor was I snobby about my grades. And when I thought I finally found a group of 3 girls who seemed nice enough, when we had to do a project in 2, they would say to one different person every time of the 3 "It's your turn to go with her now." Right in front of me. I went through a lot of depression, and one of my teachers noticed, and contacted my mom about it, and she got me a psychologist to talk to. That helped a little I guess. Later I thought it was the way I looked. I was pretty chubby (not obese though) After grade 8, during the summer, I went on a diet, and lost 12 pounds before school started. I'll continue this in an update, cuz I maxed out the # of words so plz be patient Oh and also, when I would walk up to people in grade 8 to join the conversation they were having, they would stop and stare at me. Whenever I asked 'What's up?' (And not often... I'm a little shy) they would just say "Nothing." I know they're not talking about be, that's for sure, but they don't want to let me in on the convo. I changed schools again for grade 9. I've made some new friends... or at least I think they are my friends. We're about 10 girls at the lunch table. They're a lot nicer I suppose. But no one talks to me really at the lunch table. When I try to strike up a conversation, they answer me nicely, but then go back to what they were doing or talking. closing the convo. I try not to bother or talk to much because I'm afraid of annoying them. And then sometimes they all suddenly get up to leave to go out to stores that are near by, without inviting me. A few times I asked if I could come along, and they were quiet, then shrugged and said 'sure." I'm not a mean person. I make sure I smile (not like a homicidal killer lol), I'm honest. I strike up conversations. I don't look down too much (which is sadly very hard for me not to do, because why wouldn't someone like me want to look down and feel sorry for themselves?), I'm not ugly. I've been told I'm pretty a few times. I don't have a weird laugh. I don't talk about weird things. Listen... I don't even want to be popular. I just want 1-2 maybe 3 close friends... My mom and my sister seem really worried about me, because I always look so depressed (no I don't cut or anything, I just look really sad). My younger sister, who is going to be 13 in a few months, has been a lot nicer to me since I was in grade 8, and she and my mom have been cuddling me and giving me more hugs. Even though it makes me want to cry even more. I ask myself everyday: 'What's wrong with me? Why doesn't anyone like me?' I hate my life. Anyone have any suggestions...?

I will move to another city in a few months and I m worried I won t find a new friend. I m really shy and kind of awkward, and I barely have any friends where I live now.

This guy and I have been meeting up and we have been intimate it's been going on since 2014. We live in different states and we've met up twice since then. The last time I saw him was in June of this year. The other day he sent me a picture of his penis. And I asked him if he liked what I did to him last time he said yes. He kept telling me that his penis thick and sweet and asked me if I liked it I said yes. I'm planning to go see him at the end of November or the beginning of December do you think he'll see me?

let me describe my friendship group. (none if these names are real) so we have harry, who joined my group of 8 and is trying his absolute hardest to turn everyone against me. george who is meant to be my best friend, but has gotten more popular, and has started going out with cool people and not thinking of inviting me, i feel that he is only nice to me because he feels bad for me. lucas who is genuinely a nice guy, but also likes harry and doesn't want to stick up for me or him. dylan who i am sometimes good friends with, but our relationship fluctuates like waves. everyone else are harry's cronies. i really really want to just change friendship groups, but nobody knows who i am and i don't even know how to make friends at this age. i really just want a social life as well because i am constantly seeing all these people going to parties (i never know the host well enough to ask if i can come, and if i did know them well they would probs say no). i want a fresh start but can't change school, i don't know where i am meant to meet new people (i have like no hobbies or interests). but yeah i feel like **** every day because i have no social life and even my so called friends don't invite me out, it is killing me inside each day, and i need change quick!

My friend is 18 and just started college and she comes home crying or wants to sleep. She's studying 24/7 and she seems to want to be in high school again because her parents are treating her more differently now. I'm only 14 and we've been friends since I was born. She got even more sadder when I decided to stop being friends with her. Her high school friends all separated and she lives in a dorm but comes home on the holidays and weekends. She was complaining about how I wasn't being a good friend when I simply just said I didn't wanna be her friend because she cries too much. Then she pointed out at how she was always there for me when I was in 6th and 7th grades and I would come home crying every day because the other girls bullied and threatened me every day nonstop at school and my parents were too busy to care. I think she sometimes feels lonely in her tiny dorm by herself because her parents are away from her, I stopped being friends with her, her old friends drifted away. And she hasn't met new friends.

When I talk with people I find myself subconsciously mimicking there voice and accent, although I carry on a good conversation with them. Is that a problem? Does this happen to other people as well or am I strange?

My friend ask me to hangout and I answer yes. Then they don't don't answer. This has happened multiple times. This a new friend too so it's not like i friends with her for awhile and then this started. I assume if they didn't like me she wouldn't ask me to hangout.

My best friend is pregnant with her brothers baby. She's been freaking out this past month. She said they're keeping the baby. She and him are in love but now she's not so sure anymore. She's been hurting all day. She was complaining at work all day she was hurting all over and she missed her brother. Me and her work together we've been best friends forever shes like a daughter or a sister to me. We do everything together and were always there for each other. We also live together. Sometimes we even sleep together if I'm staying in her room or if were staying in her room. She and her brother have been dating for a while since they're parents died. She's still a baby herself shes just 18 her brother is 27. She's been crying off and on all day. How can I comfort her ?

I'm different and that's all that I want to say about that. I can talk to my mother and immediate family members about anything, but I am not in the same city that they are in. I liken myself to Forest Gump lol, for pretty much everything. The same number and frequency of friends, I'm strong but he's fast lol. Whenever I try to "friends" they really are treating me like I'm a fool and I'm not going to be anyone's fool. Like they only hang out with me so that they can bad mouth me and pick on me behind my back. That guys retarded or he only works out because he has a little dick. Kind of my fault though because I can be very funny and people who are funny are depicted as idiots. Like a jester or something. I can get people to laugh until they can barely breathe lol.

Me and my other two best friends are a trio. We have one class together and lunch. A couple of weeks ago Layla (One of my friends) told me she felt left out because Katie (The other friend) was either only talking to me or her. These past couple weeks we've all been able to talk to eachother and it's been going fine and everyone is happy. Yesterday, Layla seemed happy and we hung out. Today, Layla hung out with other friends during lunch and the one class we have together, so it was just me and Katie. After school, she texts me saying she's taking a break from us? I felt it was all going fine and she was never mad at me in the first place. My birthday is also next week and she is no longer hanging out with me. I've been through other friend breaks, and none ended well because I ended up loosing that friend. I really care about her and respect her decision but I'm scared I'll loose her...

My friends and I are going to Iceland in January, we booked our trip through a travel agency and the trip we booked has since closed. Our other friend decided to come late and will be taking one of our rooms, even though the room is still in our name. If we re caught, what kind of consequences could we expect? Anything serious?

One of my best friends talks so much **** about other people, even her other friends.. She seems to have issues with everyone. Everyone who passes our table at lunch is either a "nerd" or "funny-looking" or a "slut", and it makes me so sad to hear those things. I'm someone that tries to be friendly towards everyone, unless I have a legitimate reason not to be, but she judges people so MUCH. I feel like it comes from a place of insecurity.. she doesn't have very much self confidence. Which I totally understand, I was there too. But I've kinda moved past that. I'm learning to feel confident and love myself, and it's really helping me love the people around me more too. But I feel like hanging out with her is taking me backwards. I can't talk to her about my sex life because I know she'll call me a slut and I can't show self confidence around her or I'm overly confident, and I can't express interests that don't align with hers because then I'm a "nerd". She has never said those things to my face, but since she labels and judges everyone else for those things, I know she is judging me too. I just want friends that I can be myself around, and friends that are accepting of people different from themselves, but it feels like that isnt a skill she has. Should I stand up to her when she talks about other people? Or should I just distance myself?? I hate being around such a negative person all the time I feel like its stopping me from growing as a person. Any advice is appreciated.

This is very strange story but I was friends with some popular people in 6th grade and I went to seventh grade and none of them were in my class. So, we gradually drifted away. I had a couple of friends in 7th grade who weren't popular. My seat was moved to the back and a popular girl sat there and we became friends because I was nice.In 8th grade now, I have a friend who was in my class since 6th grade full stop and my group f friends in 7th grade are separated and we don't talk like we used to. as for my my popular friends from 6th grade, I don't really look at them at all. My seventh grade popular frined only talks to me when she has to and worst of all, I chose the front seat, HUGE MISTAKE. And in 8th grade, no one notices me like I'm this quiet girl, except my friend of course. Wondering why I don't say best friend because i Don't trust people XD. Anyways, the point is i really want to be backt to where i was. I stutter when I talk to popular people that I used to be friends with. I f you want to tell me to focus on my studies, no need to write because I do already cause that's why I'm in school, but there also is a social aspect of things to. So does anyone know how I can?

So my friends son is almost 3 and he's really sick, my friend and her family basically live at the childrens hospital on the oncology ward. i was recently put off visiting because i noticed that every single time i was there she would be breastfeeding her almost 3 year old child.... its her choice to do that obviously but i dont think it needs to be done infront of friends... so she asked me why i hadnt visited them in ages and i told her, i said that her breastfeeding made me uncomfortable and she got really, really mad and started basically trying to make me feel bad by explaining how hard and stressful hers and her sons life is. i obviously dont doubt that its hard and i feel really sorry for them but hes not a baby and i dont need to see her boobs! we havent spoken in about 2 weeks because of it and i think its such a silly reason to fall out with a friend over but shes not willing to compromise, she said that her son can feed whenever he wants and no one else gets a say. so im not sure what to do??

E.G. I am no longer friends with her on social media, yet she attempted to imply that I attempt add her yet in fact attempted at least 5X I know it sounds childish but there have been a number of incidents like this.

JFC dude. A good majority of my friends have done it at this point, and I'm a freshman. Like today I was talking to one of my friend that you would least expect to do it and she said she has. Not sure about the rest of my school, but seeing as how one of the bathrooms got shut down last week for reasons you can already guess, I wouldn't be surprised if everyone else in this damnable school has done it too. I have nothing against pot but it's not even worth getting caught over it. I am trying to stay clean but at this point it seems impossible only reason I haven't been offered to do it yet is because I've always been a lil bítch about it Weird thing is, I live in Virginia which isn't really known as a pot state

at my school, i am in marching band, and there are so many people in there. I thought that i would make friends, but instead they're all finding ways to bully me. here's how it happened: I came to marching band the first day and met what i thought was a cute sweet boy. But it was actually a girl, and I didn't find out that until later. But until then, i thought she was a cute boy and liked her (I only told my best friend) so I would find times to talk to her, and she was sweet at first. And then it got around to her that i thought she was a boy and she began hating me. Unfortunately, she's the most popular girl in band and everyone sides with her. the band director gives her special privileges that no one else gets. Now she hates me and has gotten everyone else in the band to hate me as well. Now she, as the ringleader will lead everybody else into helping her call me a loser and worthless. I thought I overheard her recently talking to my friend Emma. Emma asked her, "Why shouldn't I be friends with Makena? She's nice." and then L (the first letter of her name) replied back to Emma, "No, all of us are much too cool to be friends with a loser like her." L pointed at me, so I knew she was definitely talking about me. Since then, Emma avoids me as much she can and so does everyone else. L will sometimes point the middle finger when I see her and she looks back at me. I don't know what to do. I believe if i died, L and everyone else in the band would throw a party! no mean answers please

I feel like I have to be verbal or ask to be apart of something or else I won't be chosen. I was mad because I didn't get to play at all because class ended to soon. I was confronted by a student and she instantly became my new friend in the cafeteria yesterday and she said that next lunch she will sit with me again. She also introduced me to her friends. I was invited by someone yesterday to join them but today in gym class no one even asked to join their team. I'm confused if something is wrong with me because i was befriended without even sitting with anyone but I was almost alone with only a friend and I don't get chosen for a basketball game in gym class.

I had this friend and we talked every single day. Usually I only have one "best friend" at a time. One person I devote all my time to talk to, and they also do the same thing towards me usually. The reason for this is because I hate having to open up to several people at a time. And it usually takes me a while to do that with even one person. But that's beside the point, I had this one best friend who knows practically everything about me. Just recently our friendship has become more low-key and boring. It feels as if she's making new friends and distancing herself from me more. I'm trying to slowly get away from her and start making new friends as well, but I don't know how. I need ways to stop thinking about her so she can have her space and live her own life. I hate being a clingy person.

whether its uni, a volunteer gig, group project, guys, even online, people don't like me. There's something they just think I'm weird and treat me that way. IF i go to an event and say bye to a few people who we're volunteering together they kind of ignore me. Everyone at uni ignores me. I don't have any friends and anything i try to get involved in I'm like a social pariah. I'm not that weird just a bit reserved and i have social anxiety so i try to break through that and socialise but its useless everyone just acts like they don't even know why I'm talking to them, like i should just stand in the corner like furniture. What would you do? its like there's a bubble around me and everyone's avoiding it

Me and my girl friend were going to watch a movie tonight but she's already seen it she doesn't like it it's too scary for her. I've seen it too it's not scary but she's younger I can see why it would scare her. Her brother made her watch it when she watched it with him she said she couldn't stop crying. It was about these 3 young girls from Ohio where were from who were kidnapped for about 10 years. It's based on a true story. She said it really upset her but her boyfriend taught her a way to stay calm whenever she feels scared she's doing it right now. She said she wants to watch the movie again and try not to be scared this time. She's about the same age as one of the girls was when they were kidnapped and had a baby with their kidnapper I think that's the part that scared her she said she had nightmares for weeks. She's afraid if she cries again during the movie I might laugh at her but I told her I wouldn't. She said she's gonna try hard not to cry or be afraid this time she doesn't know if she can handle it but she really wants to watch it again. How can I help her feel better ? She wants to know how can she be brave while watching the movie ?

i hope he dies

My friend recently said I'm better off dead which got me mad now I don't talk to him at all and he's always saying why you ignoring me coward and all that but I'm scared when I see him I know he will try to be all close up to me saying why you ignoring me and I don't want him close to me and I can feel my natural instinct would be to drop him. But I don't like fighting I'm bigger than he is every way possible but I just don't want to fight I hate fighting

so, i tried spotafriend and that app hasn't worked out too well. are there any find a friend apps that match you based on common interest such as books, sports, hobbies and stuff like that. I think I might have better luck with an app like that. i'm not looking for a dating app for I'm not looking to date. I just a best friend preferably a guy, someone to talk to and maybe even hang with. The spotafriend app i'm using isn't working out too well for I am swiping left and right and ain't getting much out of it. can someone recommend something different, something based on likes and interests...

My friend and I both play an instrument and last year, we would help each other out by giving feedback. I liked having her help me because she was humble and very encouraging. She wants to major in this instrument so she is taking things very seriously. But this year she has changed. She doesn't give me feedback to help me. She only does it to show off. Now she's very arrogant and thinks she's better than everyone when she's NOT. Many times, she talks bad about the people who are better than her saying that they sound bad and that they are out of tune. She tries to learn a lot of difficult music when her own teacher says that she's not ready for all of that because her technique is not stable. She's driving me crazy because all she does now is brag. What can I do about her? I wish she would be humble like last year.

So yeah, I'm an introvert person, and I have a very small number of friends. Also I dont tolerate friends that are insulting and make jokes about me, so I break those kinds of friendships. But Im still happy cuz I have some good friends over the internet too. Video gaming 4evah! :) ..

So I just started my Freshman year at the University of Florida, and there are some guys that seem really nice and friendly to me. (I'm a dude btw). We always say hey whatsup whenever we see each other, and I volunteer with one for 7-12 hours every weekend. However, I want to know how I can get "closer" to them. Like how can I hang out with them when I don't have volunteering/schoolwork. How can I have lunch/dinner with them? I was never really a social person and college has finally opened me up a little more, but I am still too nervous to ask "wanna hangout today". One reason is cause I suck at sports like Basketball, so it really makes me a boring person to hangout with. Also, I never hung out with anyone before, so I won't know what to expect. I also hate sports, especially football and baseball, so I can't talk about sports, which is another hindrance. Should I maybe try to inculcate myself on ESPN all day and try to like sports?

She and I have been close friends for a year now. We always hang out together but we've never crossed the line of friendship (strictly platonic). The issue is that I've just started a relationship with another girl and I think it would be disrespectful to her to spend a lot of time with my female friend. Am I wrong for this?

They are also trying to break up my mom and I. By giving her "mean girl" advice and telling her to be hard on me all the time. I have just about had enough, I will hurt someone if I can't get this harassing former teacher and my former friends and class mates off of my case and their stupid scams on everyone in town and my family. You really made me lose respect for college and university graduates. If at 31, your still harassing athletes, popular girls and boys, and wealthy people from your class because Obama messed up in the Midwest, south east, south west, and if your Irish, German, Native American, European, Asian, a woman, unmarried, and without a degree. Any suggestions?

I need serious help, I m a junior in highschool and I am constantly tired. Two AP classes full of homework have stretched me thin at school and Im getting behind. Add that to wrestling practice til 5:30 everyday, working out in the morning, and averaging 30 hours at work has worn me out. Idk how to handle all this stress and my friends are mad that I can t ever hang out with them and I m too busy during the school day to really talk with them. Is there any advice with how to handle all this?

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My friend and I are home alone and we went into my little sister's room. My friend sat in my sister's small rocking char, she stood up and it came up with her. My friend has tried to push but it wont budge. I have to pull as well, but we can't budge it at all. My friends hips are completely under the arm rests. One thing I tried was I put my foot and one the bars below and pull my friends arms forward, but that didn't work either. Please help!

I am a 25 year old single guy that works in an office. A coworker Ann is a 36 year old single mom. She was having a hard time with a project she was working on so I volunteered to help her. We would work until about six and then go to someplace nearby to eat. Often her 15 year old daughter Amy would join us for the meal. Amy was having trouble in school with math and Ann wanted to know if I would help Amy. About 3 times each week Amy would email me with her math problems and I would email her back how to solve them. Amy raised her grade to an A. Both Ann and Amy were very grateful for my help. I guess I became a father figure to Amy as she would at times send me email asking questions about her starting to date boys. I got an email from her today that asked "What is the best method of birth control I can use?" I don't think I should be talking to ANY 15 year old about birth control. I considered 1. Ignore the email. 2. Forwarding it to her mother. 3. Telling her the facts about birth control. 4. Telling her to talk to her mother BEFORE she became sexually active. 5. Telling her 15 year old girls SHOULD NOT BE HAVING SEX. 6. Telling her she MUST consult a doctor about this decision as I am not qualified to answer that question. PLEASE HELP ME DO THE RIGHT THING HERE. Is there another better option I have not thought of? Mothers if this was your daughter, what would you want me to do?

I had to give a speech in my high school class. After the speech was over a girl said "Your hair is so beautiful". Did you go to the beauty shop this morning. I said yes. She said "did you get a bl0w j0b". The guys in the class almost fell out of their chairs laughing. The girls had no clue what they were laughing about. I though maybe a little humor would make this go away so I said "no but it sounds like a good idea. Guys any volunteers? Another girl said "What do boys know about styling hair"? Again the guys died laughing. Why am I the only girl that knows what a bl0w j0b really means? Shouldn't someone clue in these girls so that will not say that again?

So my best friend told me that this boy in her class asked her, "You know (my name) has musical.ly, right?" my best friend said, "Yeah." Then the boy said, "I've seen you on her musical.lys before." My friend didn't reply. Then the boy said, "She sucks at musical.ly." My friend replied, "Well you suck at life." So, I'm happy to hear that my friend stood up for me but I'm kinda depressed that someone hated my musical.lys. This guy and I were never friends and he usually annoyed me and he has never been my friend but I'm still kinda surprised about this. What should I do/think?

I'm 17 and i want to make new friends. I'm not antisocial by any means. i have my 2 best friends, who i love, but sometimes i just want to hang out with different people. It just gets kind of boring. I have a few acquaintances in school and i'd love to hang out with them. I'm pretty close in school with them, but when it comes to hanging out outside of school or getting people's snapchat, it just doesn't happen. How do you start hanging out with someone outside of school ?

What do I do, I am meeting him tonight and I told him if he doesn't reimburse what he has stole i'm going to fight him (I know 100% he stole)

I get bullied or sometimes get put down by someone (AT SCHOOL) Today I had an amazing day until after 3rd hour a lot of people had to ruin my day. Like one kid pushed me and I pushed him back. One girl called me "ugly" and "annoying", "I can't stand you" she said that in front of everyone for the rest of the hour, sometimes I get put down by one dumbass. Can anyone give me any advice on what to do because when someone says something mean to me or bully's me my body get so down and I feel like crying right away and getting HARD revenge from them. Today (the girl that called me names) I took her assignment without her knowing and threw it away, and all of her assignments (that will lower her grade) and that kid that pushed me I water damaged his $10 reading book and threw it away. PLEASE SOME ADVICE

i used to be best friends with some girls, now they just plain ignore me. Ever since I told them Im going to move to europe with my bf they kinda gave me the cold shoulder. and I dont understand why, since theyre doing super interesting stuff too! (like ones going to korea to teach with her bf, others got cool jobs, etc) Ive also posted a lot of selfies on fb, i mean, i was the shy introverted type, but recently i just like feeling pretty and post a lot of stuff on fb. They dont ever like my posts anymore, which is weird cuz they always did no matter how stupid my posts were and one has even unfollowed me from instagram. its just so weird..... i swear i havent done anything bad to them. what could be some explanations as to why they just ignore me so brutally out of nowhereeee.

Ever since starting college, i've found that most people enjoy my company, but the former highschool classmates hate me

I m 14 years old and I feel so bad saying this but it s been pissing me off for a while. So basically my cousin (13) is copying me with everything ! I know I probably sound like a b*tch but she s buying the same clothes doing her hair the same and I can t deal with it anymore. But I don t want to say anything in case I hurt her feelings. The thing that really annoys me is that she knows how it annoys me and she still does it:/. We aren t that close as well. Any advice ? How would you react in my situation?

So my dog is in the emergency right now. He was almost on the brink of death and the vets had to perform surgery three times to get him to live. I have been extremely sad these 3 days and today my friend asked me, on a group chat, to the movies. I said no because I was waiting for results from the vet. She asked why and I explained how I was very sad about my dog and really didnt want to go out, I had to wait for some news about him first. And all my friends in the grouo chat, 3, did not answer to my text. Not even the girl who asked me. I mean really? This girl who asked me is extremely into dogs and lovers her dog in the whole world but I cant believe they read my text and did not even have any comments on it. I am not mad, but heartbroken. I have traveled with these girls and have class with them almost every day. They have come to my house and met my family. For them to be so distant really hurts. Do any of you have any idea why this is?

I went in for an interview at a ford dealership in May of last year for sales position. Was not offered it because I hadn't worked as a car salesman before. Instead, this salesman said he was still going to get me a job. He offered to help me find a job. Told me a few places to apply to. His other idea was to walk around with me to a few places (he was wearning casual clothing, t-shirt and pants). When that clearly didn't work, which I didn't expect it to, he then decided to bring me into the dealership,. Dealer trade driver, supposedly everyone was so excited to have me come aboard. Only got to do 1 trade. The new vehicle inventory manager fired me three weeks later for no reason. My "friend" did not stick up for me. He said he would get me another job. He said he would talk to some guy named "Dana" who worked for a drug store that he knew because he used to work for him. I think this Dana person didn't exist because I couldn't find him on facebook even though that was supposedly how he was contacted. "Dana" never responded. The "friend" kept insisting he would get me a job. When I would call him for updates, oftentimes he was too busy and said he would call back at the end of his shift (he never did one single time). At some point, after confronting him about his promise to get me a job "I only said I would help you get a job". At some point, I just got tired and cut him out. Didn't even notice how I deleted him from facebook a second time. Didn't act like he cared. I listed every grievance I had against him. His response was "If you don't wanna be my friend, sorry, but that's on you. Sorry that life's not fair." We even had dinner a few times, once with his group of friends, and another with his girlfriend. He had 3 children out of wedlock, never married the mom. Broke up with her, went to Boston. decided to come back to be a dad. Now shacking up with his childhood sweetheart, who has 2 kids from another man, no plan for the future. I'm thinking he never really was a friend to begin with

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OMz8ATwbxK4

he called me rude things for no reason

Okay so a few weeks ago for some reason when my friend asked me if I d ever smoked before i said I have which isn t true. I ve been wanting to but I just haven t had the chance but anyways tonight is a football game at our school and she asked if I wanted to go with her and I was like yeah sure and she said do you wanna smoke with me before and there was no way for me to get out of it without it being suspicious so anyways I just need to know a few things. How many puffs will it take for me to get high? And will people be able to tell ? I can t drive while I m high right ? And how long is it gonna last ? Will I be able to walk around normally in my senses or no ? I know this is really dumb but please I need some answers and maybe if I should find some crazy excuse and blow it off until I ve actually smoked for the first time in a safe place, thank you !!