Marriage & Divorce: Question: I think I am addicted to porn.? |
- Question: I think I am addicted to porn.?
- Question: My divorce is almost final and I have wanted it for years but a friend saw my husband kissing another woman and now I m so confused?
- Question: Has anyone NEVER been caught cheating on their spouse or significant other?
- Question: How do you win a divorce wife back if it is possible?
- Question: How soon is too soon to get married after they meet eachother?
- Question: My husband spends all of our money?
- Question: I'm a 30 year old male, unemployed, living at home with my parents. But this hot Philippine nurse wants to marry me, why?
- Question: How to find happiness in your marriage when you have lost all confidence in yourself and you think your spouse deserves better than you?
- Question: Is interracial marriage good or bad? Support your answer.?
- Question: Ladies, what small gestures or words from your husband make you happy?
- Question: How it comes that some men say that they don't love their wives and let's say after couple months the woman is pregnant?
- Question: Wife confessed to kissing two guys giving one a handjob hanging out with him and flirting with him the first year we dated in highschool.?
- Question: You get a divorce here has to be a name of a county in kansas?
- Question: How do you get use to having your husband to be finding a new job but being put on the over night shift. ?
- Question: How do I deal with the pressure from everybody to get married?
- Question: S.O.S.!!! No Cuddling = Divorce?
- Question: Since physical abuse is punishable by law but emotional abuse is too hard to prove, has the shift of marital power been given to women?
- Question: How can i be happy in life?
- Question: Why is it that some women like to take advantage of a man's emotional weakness to get what they want? Isn't that disrespectful?
- Question: Women, when your husband is being proactive by making fast decisions without you, how did you cope without developing a victim mentality?
- Question: Where to file for divorce and child custody at the same time.?
- Question: Men, at what point did you realize that giving unconditional love was just a ploy to make you give more than you receive from your wife?
- Question: Did anyone really know for sure that someone was their soulmate?
- Question: Would you be ok with your husband wearing panties and bras (b cup-has gynecomastia)?
- Question: Getting married in 3 weeks and need to get a marriage license. What is the process AND why type (public or confidential) do we apply for?
- Question: Should I be guilty of being in love with the other in a sexless marriage?
- Question: Why is it my husband hit me many times and told me that it's always my fault? I try to stay with him since I dont have a job yet?
- Question: Why is it every time I escape having sex with my husband he always told he will stop sending me to school or doing something for me?
- Question: Do anyone else husband have terrible mood swings?
- Question: My marriage is so frustrating?
- Question: What can men do better to make marriage or a relationship better?
- Question: When applying for a marriage license do you have to mention past marriages?
- Question: My wife does things that hurt me and It is really starting to get on my nerves.?
- Question: Unstable woman to marry a man but doesn't trust him as her former husband cheated on her?
- Question: Are there other women out there whose husbands work night shift?
- Question: She divorced me, and I cried a lot, but within days, or a couple weeks, I m happy? Why?
- Question: Where do I find the on line paperwork for a Michigan divorce?
- Question: Should I pay alimony and child support if I leave US and never intend to come back again?
- Question: Is my ex wife trying to open communication with me and / or perhaps trying start our relationship back up again?
- Question: Is my ex wife reaching out for me to contact her?
- Question: My husband looking at porn HELP?
- Question: Do you considered polygamy cheating?
- Question: What if you found out your wife and friend are secretly sleeping together?
| Question: I think I am addicted to porn.? Posted: 03 Jun 2016 08:43 PM PDT I can't help but think about it all of the time! When ever I see a guy I can't help but to have naughty thoughts and fantasies. Probably 3/4ths of the day I am thinking about sex. Is this normal?! I have only had sex with one partner and that is my husband. I would never cheat on him though. I feel so guilty about these thoughs. I watch porn almost every day. |
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| Question: Has anyone NEVER been caught cheating on their spouse or significant other? Posted: 03 Jun 2016 07:13 PM PDT why do affairs hurt people so bad? How often do you hear about affairs going on? Have you cheated and NEVER got caught doing it? How did you get away with it? Im not saying that affairs is the right thing to do but how can an affair not be noticed? Do you think that people don't know if you had an affair? Do you think other people suspect they know? If you had an affair before and you ended it for good, can people still find out or are the chances low? I got out of an affair about a month ago. I feel i made the right decision to get out of it bc i didn't want to create any trouble for the other person who i was cheating with. And plus the person who i was spending time w/ had no respect for me because of my young age.This was an old man that I was having the affair with. He gave me nice things like gifts to places bc he wanted in my pants,now i realized what he was after.We really didn't talk on the phone that much, we really didn't know each other that well so our relationship was short term affair and not a long one thank goodness. Sorry this was a lot of questions at once. Answer the best you can. If you had an affair, tell your story. Im not sure if i should forgive him or just not have anything to do with him anymore? |
| Question: How do you win a divorce wife back if it is possible? Posted: 03 Jun 2016 07:03 PM PDT https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=moSFlvxnbgk sean how do you get to that point |
| Question: How soon is too soon to get married after they meet eachother? Posted: 03 Jun 2016 05:39 PM PDT Like my friend has known her boyfriend (fiancé now) for 5 years and they're getting married next summer and I just feel like that's way too soon?! :( They aren't even old either they're in their early 20s |
| Question: My husband spends all of our money? Posted: 03 Jun 2016 05:30 PM PDT My mother has already told me to open my own secret checking account where I store my own money in it, so please don't suggest it. It just doesn't sound ethical to me or like it would fix the problem. Anyway... So, my husband and I make equal amounts of money. He works a desk job and I work from home, both of us pooling in an income that equals about $60k before taxes. I told my husband that I was an extreme penny pincher and that I would only marry him if he kept his finances in order and allowed us to put in $1,000 per month in our savings account after bills. He has completely ignored that and spends all of the extra money on himself. He drinks so much alcohol, buying a six pack a night (not even the Bud Light or Coors... he gets the pricey IPAs!) and goes out to bars with friends, gets tattoos, and so on. I don't even get to see any of the surplus money. I scrape together $15 for a haircut while he goes out and gets whatever he wants. I literally never spent any $ on myself. He gets his car cleaned and vaccuumed every month for $35 while I cancelled an extra gigabyte on my phone plan so we could save just a bit more. We have a son coming in September and I told my husband that he's risking our son's future by spending like this. How do you deal with your over-spending, selfish husband???? |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2016 04:44 PM PDT I live in Ohio, she lives in New York, and wants me to just move to New York. Wouldn't a successful woman like that want to marry a doctor or lawyer or anyone with a job for that matter? lol. |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2016 04:00 PM PDT Beneath every troll or every person "stuck" is a story. My story has never been told. I do red herring stories online to misguide people away from the truth so they attack my wife and not attack me... It worked the first 3 years on Yahoo, but lately I think people realize that it's not any more true than the Patrick/Snowed drama that's become popular alongside MY episodes... This post is truth, and I'm posting it when I think the "regulars" have gone home and started their weekend on purpose - I can't handle Dave's abuse, sheloves's tough love, Hurricain's mockery, Happy's arrogance, and swbarnes2's obsession with hurting me... Here's my story. I don't understand mainstream culture (further called MSC). I mean, I bet if I studied people long enough I could get it, but I'd never be able to live that way, not naturally anyways. MSC has many rules that just don't make sense to me, like it is encouraged to punish arrogant people and praise humble people. I just don't get that. Shouldn't someone be proud of their work and their achievements? Oh, right, pride is a 7 deadly sin... Why did I throw religion into this? MSC is based on Christianity at its roots. You don't have to BE a Christian, just follow Christian morals through MSC... So what happens if you grew up with neither? I am unhappy in my marriage because MSC told me I shouldn't be. My marriage is "dysfunctional". But I know I'm the dysfunctional one because I can't fit in. I'm unfit to survive. I'm the misfit, not her. |
| Question: Is interracial marriage good or bad? Support your answer.? Posted: 03 Jun 2016 03:59 PM PDT |
| Question: Ladies, what small gestures or words from your husband make you happy? Posted: 03 Jun 2016 03:27 PM PDT Just trying to show my wife more love and appreciation, need some help and suggestions. |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2016 02:45 PM PDT I find it very weird to keep making baby's from someone that you don't love ?!what do you think |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2016 01:56 PM PDT She says it doesn't matter that much, that we were 15 and she says she's really sorry but that she's with me now and I shouldn't care about what she did when we were immature kids in high school. |
| Question: You get a divorce here has to be a name of a county in kansas? Posted: 03 Jun 2016 01:19 PM PDT |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2016 01:07 PM PDT lately my fiance has been working for a landscaping company working days , which we had a routine going on get off and spend the evening together watch tv. movies eat dinner and then go to bed. i work days myself.. and now a change has happen he took other job at a warehouse the only possible shift that was open was 3 shift from 11pm-7am.. he wont do the landscaping business any more... however how do you cope when your afaird to sleep alone after a long time of going to bed together into not going to be able to. and when i have to wake up for work, hell just be coming home and heading to bed.. and up when i get home we would have the entire day ... but it wouldnt mean going to bed together he would work sunday - thurs 11pm-7am.. he hasnt done an overnight shift since he was 22... he now 34. the warehouse is pretty much right around the conner from where we lived. but my issue is the change . i do horrible at changes. esp when there gonna be a change in a rountine that ive been used to . i try talking to him ... i dont want him doing it but at the time i know how much problems he was having at the landscaping company.. and maybe getting his foot in the door he can switch to 1st or 2nd shift. im in all mix feeling .. i get scared by myself at night i have pets but im scared to sleep alone .... so if any one out there has to sleep alone because his/her spouse has to work at overnight can you let me know how to deal with it with out being over to panic about it |
| Question: How do I deal with the pressure from everybody to get married? Posted: 03 Jun 2016 11:22 AM PDT My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years (I'm 23, he's 28). Our friendship group consists of 4 married couples who got married very quickly - within 6 months of their relationship, and very young. In the last year, people (inside and outside our friends group) have been constantly nagging us "When are you gonna pop the question?" "You guys have been together for a while and no ring... Is everything okay?" "All your friends are getting married, why aren't you?" "Is it because she's not the one? Maybe you should move on". Don't get me wrong, I WANT to get married someday and it sometimes bugs me that we can't. If we had the means to do so, I'd probably ask him. But I'm still in university full time working on two degrees - I hardly have time to work 10 hours a week, but because I don't have any qualifications yet, I've only been able to get $8.50 p/h mediocre jobs so far. He currently does not have a job and is having a hell of a time finding one. We rent a place together but the only reason we can pay for it is because of our families and my student welfare payments. From what I've seen, the average cost of a wedding is 20-30k. We are currently not making that in a year combined. My main issue is I am very easily influenced and I let others opinions get to me way too much. Sometimes I end up wondering if we actually are ok because we aren't planning marriage like others. But we're fine. So how do I deal with the constant nagging? Or better, how do I make it stop? |
| Question: S.O.S.!!! No Cuddling = Divorce? Posted: 03 Jun 2016 11:18 AM PDT Hi, me and my wife got married just a few months ago. I come to find out she does not like CUDDLING while sleeping and she HATES SPOONING while we are in bed. We have sex may be once a week with no kids of our own. To me this is not acceptable, i make $221,000 a year and bring good income to the family and i am always treated to the side bar of the bed. Is this right? I don't think i can take it anymore...it has been a few months... She says that she can't sleep well at night with light CUDDLING or me SPOONING her position. She says, "That's your problem". We got married in Vegas witness by two people and only had civil ceremony but not a religious one, thus my div. attorney told me to file annulment and you will be done with just like nothing had happened. So No Cuddling = Annulment Yes or No. and Why? This is our irreconcilable differences. Yes? Yes, I love cuddling, spooning it re-affirms my care and love for her that she rejects. |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2016 10:45 AM PDT Most men that I know are emotionally sensitive (albeit they'd never show it) and want to please their spouse. But if a woman wants something and knows she can emotionally manipulate it out of him, she can use this to gain power in the relationship without ANY consequences, right? So what have men developed as a weapon against women in retaliation to this? We can't be physical like we had in the past, so what are other men doing in defense against a disrespectful woman who has no shame in hurting/manipulating her husband using emotions? Or is that why I see so many "beta" men now - did they not figure out a way to appropriately retaliate to regain that power? Honestly, I'm just trying to figure out why some men seem to have their sh*t together and I don't. Clearly their wives are emotionally manipulating like mine is, so what are these men doing that I'm not? And don't tell me that marriage shouldn't be war because everything is. Anyone who tells you that marriage should never have their civil wars is a dictator trying to control their marriage. There's no avocation for physical violence in this question. It is just accepting that it was happening to "create the patriarchy" and now men are left defenseless against women. Women don't respond to logic/reason, it is almost 100% emotional with them - so how do men stand a chance now? The matriarchs are coming, men need to have a fighting chance to stand their ground against them. |
| Question: How can i be happy in life? Posted: 03 Jun 2016 10:27 AM PDT I seem to have everything going on with my life. Im 31 years old i have a college degree great job have my own place but i'm constantly feeling down and sad. My wife left me more than two years and we have a child together. She walks around like what she did to me was not a big deal her mom and her says to its nothing a lot of ppl get divorced. She tells me i should get over it. We have a child together and it breaks my heart that she now is engaged to different man and we are techinically still legally married. I am so hurt words cant describe how i feel. Seeing my child bonding with another man just kills me i don't care how nice he is to my child. I can't seem to get over it. I asked her take me back but she does not love me nor wants to work things out. At this point im done begging i lie to myself being single is the best life. But i wouldn't mind finding someone who loves me back. I've avoiding to date anyone because my pride and ego has been hurt i don't trust women. I know i wasn't perfect i made a lot of mistakes but no one deserves this unhappy. |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2016 10:23 AM PDT I used to be a headstrong guy but because my wife is an extremely emotional person, I found myself letting go of my values/morals/beliefs to be politically correct to her emotional needs since she was easily offended (like many liberals are). But now I regret this. Essentially, she took advantage of my emotional weakness and used it as power over me to convince me to do things I didn't want to do. All because I was trying to avoid words like "a**hole", "jerk", or "party pooper". I've never name called to her because I knew that she would be emotionally reactive, but for some reason she does it to me. Actually, a lot of women do it. I see it happen on Facebook all the time! Someone does something you don't like, call them a misogynistic a**hole and demand an apology. Works 9 out of 10 times, but you do get that 1 guy who stands up to them and then gets black listed going forward for not giving up his power... Sometimes that one guy is me... But why do women do this? Is it because women are unable to win in a logic/reason argument with a man, so they have to force us to have a handicap and they use that emotional backdoor to win arguments? I get told a lot on here that marriage SHOULD be all about respect, but I haven't met a woman who's truly respected their husband. Could just be a generation Y problem, but I've seen it with older generations too. As a matter of fact, I'd even argue respect is a tool to control men but not women... Your thoughts? |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2016 09:57 AM PDT Did you let it go, after all, men have been the head of the household for centuries? If not, what did you do then? |
| Question: Where to file for divorce and child custody at the same time.? Posted: 03 Jun 2016 09:47 AM PDT I m trying to figure out where to file for divorce and child custody at the same time coz after I got separated with my husband I moved with my son to PA from NY and my husband is still there now it s been 5 months of separation and he just got my son for like a month.NY is where my son was born and lived before the separation. If I file it in PA will the case transfer to NY if they think it should be done there. |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2016 09:31 AM PDT And what did you do about it? |
| Question: Did anyone really know for sure that someone was their soulmate? Posted: 03 Jun 2016 09:18 AM PDT I don't understand how anyone can know for sure that someone is their soulmate. Wouldn't you have even a smidge of doubt sometimes? Doubt is normal. I've heard people say "you just know" when talking about meeting "the one." I think people like that are lairs. You can't "just know." There will ALWAYS be doubts. So why fake it like you never had any doubts at all? I don't understand. |
| Question: Would you be ok with your husband wearing panties and bras (b cup-has gynecomastia)? Posted: 03 Jun 2016 09:18 AM PDT My husband has a nice azz and he wears black lace cheekies. He rocks them. I accept his feminine side because he is a great lover and great all around husband. Could you accept this of your hubby? |
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| Question: Should I be guilty of being in love with the other in a sexless marriage? Posted: 03 Jun 2016 09:06 AM PDT |
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| Question: Do anyone else husband have terrible mood swings? Posted: 03 Jun 2016 08:38 AM PDT One minute my husband is happy and a hour later he turns into the hulk. No body says anything to him, he just get mad outta no where. He then shuts the kids and myself out and when we talk to him he doesn't reply back. Then maybe an 3 hours later he will come and ask me or wake me up at 1 in the morning or whatever time it is and ask what's wrong with me I'm confused |
| Question: My marriage is so frustrating? Posted: 03 Jun 2016 05:09 AM PDT We ve been married for 5 years. Right after the 2nd year our marriage has been boring, routine and stale. Coming from religious families and having to deal with intense social pressure i still stick to my husband. Our sex life is boring and routine, initiated by me only to be rejected multiple times. My husband takes his work very seriously and is stressed all the time. Ive tried talking multiple times over this to no avail, tried being incredibly supportive, no difference. We have barely any responsibilities yet he lets work take the first seat i left my modelling career to settle in the middle east and have barely any projects here. Im clueless what to do i still love him more than anything in this life but this boring marriage is taking a toll on my mental health.. what should i do |
| Question: What can men do better to make marriage or a relationship better? Posted: 03 Jun 2016 04:55 AM PDT |
| Question: When applying for a marriage license do you have to mention past marriages? Posted: 03 Jun 2016 03:40 AM PDT My friend wants to get married this weekend to her long time bf of 6 years. She was wondering if she has to mention her past marriage from so long ago if they are divorced. Does that information even come up when the clerk issues the certificate? Her current bf knows about the relationship but doesnt want to put it in the paperwork. Don t really understand her reason s but wondering on my end if that will come up on the clerks side when Doing paperwork. |
| Question: My wife does things that hurt me and It is really starting to get on my nerves.? Posted: 03 Jun 2016 02:26 AM PDT I have no idea what to do. When my wife gets bored or just feels like it she starts picking at my skin. I know you are thinking "No big deal" right? This hurts very very bad. She will be laying next to me while I am asleep and then start picking a a spot on my back until it bleeds. I work outside so my shirt rubbing sometimes cause small ingrown hairs on my back which are painful but go away and she will pick at them just all of a sudden and she will do it with so much force it feels like someone slamming a thumbtack into your back at random. I have told her probably a hundred times to please stop over all of our years of marriage and she just looks at me like I just hit her and doesn't say anything. I yell because of the pain and she acts like somehow I am mistreating her because she hurt me while I was asleep. I just keep telling her to please stop and she will for maybe an hour or maybe a day but she does it again. It seems trivial but it really isn't imagine trying to sleep and someone randomly stabs you with a safety pin. What should I do? I have seriously considered sleeping in a different room to avoid this because it has become such a problem |
| Question: Unstable woman to marry a man but doesn't trust him as her former husband cheated on her? Posted: 03 Jun 2016 12:37 AM PDT |
| Question: Are there other women out there whose husbands work night shift? Posted: 02 Jun 2016 11:20 PM PDT I'm 22 and recently got married to a guy I've been with for several years but we have no kids. I am far away from home so all I do is spend time with him and his family when I'm not in college. It's summer break and I'm stuck at the house all night by myself and I'm incredibly lonely. My friends and family live at least 2 hours away and I don't know anyone from this town. Even worse, the time my husband and I actually do get to spend during the week is only a couple hours after he wakes up and then he's off to work again. I am very grateful for his job as it pays the bills and leaves extra money for us but I am SO lonely and bored by myself. Have any of you experienced this? What do you do to cope with loneliness? |
| Question: She divorced me, and I cried a lot, but within days, or a couple weeks, I m happy? Why? Posted: 02 Jun 2016 10:37 PM PDT I m a psych major, with about six years of college under my belt, but only a class away from an associates in psychology. In other words, I m not ignorant. I know about marriage and intimate relations, I have done my internet research too, and I cannot determine why I feel so much happier. Today she brought papers from seemingly no where (she only told me a couple weeks ago she wanted a D), forced me to sign them within hours, and then moved 100 miles away while leaving the kids with me, and I got custody too. There was no fight, she even gave me the business. I m only 33, she s 32. What the hell is going on? No battle. She hasn t been a good wife, she s been a bad wife and a bad mother...but I really did love her. Why don t I feel worse than this? It comes around a little, but it dies off fast. I cried first, a lot...sobbing...but I don t know what is going on here. Why...why am I okay? I don t understand, and it s painful not knowing why, because I feel like a bad person for ending the grieving period so incredibly fast. Why do I feel this way? Please...help me understand. |
| Question: Where do I find the on line paperwork for a Michigan divorce? Posted: 02 Jun 2016 10:23 PM PDT I was told I could find the paperwork to fill out to start divorce precedings on line. The only thing I can find is stuff you have to pay for. Anyone know where I can find it? |
| Question: Should I pay alimony and child support if I leave US and never intend to come back again? Posted: 02 Jun 2016 10:19 PM PDT My wife and I have been married for a year. She kept sleeping with other guys in my absence. I became heartbroken and now that I know the truth, she filed for divorce. We have a baby who was born 2 years before our marriage. I am not a US citizen but Russian. I am willing to go back to my country and take a job given all the depression and heartaches that I had here and I do not intend to come back. It is likely that my wife will get custody of the child and I will be in Russia with no hope to see my child. Even if I have to, I will have to spend an exorbitant amount on travel arrangements. I do not mind paying money for my child and I certainly would like to pay for his college/school fees etc. But I have no way to know if my child support funds will be used for my son's benefit or for my disgusting wife's lavish lifestyle. Can I get away with child support and alimony. |
| Posted: 02 Jun 2016 10:14 PM PDT My ex wife of two years has BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder). We had a roller coaster marriage of her constantly leaving and I'd chase her back. The few times I didn't chase her back, she'd eventually find a way to get into my head and we'd be back again. Even after many months of being apart at times. The last breakup resulted in divorce which she said she wanted and we went through with it. Since the divorce, it's been six months with no contact from either side. I've been told that she's so down in life right now. Out of nowhere, she started some crazy problems with my brother accusing him of something he didn't do. He was in a completely different state at the time but she didn't know this. For this reason, her circus of lies on him fell apart so fast. She got caught making up lies. Prior to this, they got along great! My best guess is she started this so that I'd contact her to tell her to please leave my family alone. I know her so well. She wouldn't have the face to just call me, I knew when it was time she'd pull something like this indirectly to get me to respond. I have not responded at all! So my question is: does this seem like a likely way for her to get me to re-engage with her. Second question: is her purpose to try to start our relationship again. I'd really appreciate any help or input of how you see it. Thanks! |
| Question: Is my ex wife reaching out for me to contact her? Posted: 02 Jun 2016 09:58 PM PDT |
| Question: My husband looking at porn HELP? Posted: 02 Jun 2016 07:30 PM PDT My husband and I have been married for 3 years. I am 27 he is 34. Anyway in our relationship I typically DONT mind him watching porn. EXCEPT he is a high school teacher and I caught him looking at "high school girl detention " porn and it's kinda freaking me out. Plus he has been wanting to go to this local pizza shop a lot lately where one of his female students work and she is a very pretty young woman and she does act awkward around him when we go there. But he has been hanging out there A LOT recently even though he DOESNT like pizza!!!! This girl is a junior , going on senior in high school.... Should I be concerned or am I being over dramatic??? |
| Question: Do you considered polygamy cheating? Posted: 02 Jun 2016 02:32 PM PDT And is it right? |
| Question: What if you found out your wife and friend are secretly sleeping together? Posted: 02 Jun 2016 02:06 PM PDT Is it possible for all 3 of you to get back together? Would you give them a second chance? Let's say they text back and fourth. You find their texts on her phone. |
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