Family: Question: Can brother sister slow dance with each other?

Question: Can brother sister slow dance with each other?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 01:15 PM PDT

Question: Can i call the cops if someone comes in my front yard and takes my fruits with out permission? (I m 11)?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 12:58 PM PDT

I was wondering if I can do this because there is a lot of greedy people in my neighborhood and they all like to take my family fruits without my family s permission and it s really annoying because I can t even get some myself because they are all gone . My family and I are tired of it. They even come in cars just to take some and gets some in front of us without saying anything and when my parents ,siblings, and I say something they just walk off like we stupid or something. My mom and dad already told them that if they come back and get on our property again that they would call the cops on them but people are just so selfish and greedy that they still do it like if they don t care and my parents see them but they don t do anything.

Question: At age 18 and 19, is it wrong to still be attached to parents?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 12:35 PM PDT

Question: Was my sister right to slap me across the face?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 12:33 PM PDT

A few minutes after dinner, my sister came over to me and started pinching me. I didn't mind it at first, but the pinching got harder and as the pinching got harder, I got more irritated. When I realised 2 or 3 of the pinches drew blood (one of the pinches REALLY drew blood), I decided to push her away. But when I pushed her away, she fell on the floor and twisted one of the muscles in her legs. She crawled up to me and slapped me around the face really hard, so hard that it caused extensive bruising. Was she sister right to slap me across the face? Did I assault her or did I do it in self-defence?

Question: My parents threatened to disown me if I move out?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 12:30 PM PDT

I am a 20 year old college student who also works part time, I have lived with my parents my whole life and I was raised in a strict home. Considering I am their first child and only daughter I've had to experience being the Guinea pig child. Anyways, recently I've been really serious about moving out with my cousin into an apartment we already went to go view that is right next to Fresno State which is perfect. As of now I live in the Monterey area with my parents like I said, which is only 2-3 hours away from Fresno. My parents made it crystal clear that they are pissed and told me to do whatever the hell I want since I think it'll be so easy but that they will no longer help pay for my tuition if I move, and I also do not get any government assistance because until I'm either married or 25 years old they will always use my parents income and they apparently make too much money. So with that said they threatened to take that away from me which technically means I wouldn't be able to go to school unless I started working full time. They also included that once I moved and realized I ****** up and want to go back home which according to them will happen, that I will not be welcomed back. I don't think I've ever been so emotionally hurt. I'm still considering moving out, my grandma and aunts are complete pro for it and say that it's a part of life and I need to experience things on my own. What do you guys think of this?

Question: My brother stole my 180 dollar keyboard that my mom purchased for me because i had recently gotten second degree burns and she felt bad?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 12:28 PM PDT

we just bought a new car, and we drove to my brother's house to show him it. i had forgotten we made a bet about the keyboard, if i go to a rugby game, with a burnt leg, he'll buy it. since HE didn't buy it, he felt the right to take it, even with my mom specifically asking for it back. He is keeping it and he will not return it. Am i in the wrong here? He even came into our car while i was having a meltdown (i had spent a year researching that keyboard and saving, that's most likely the reason why i was sad) and started recording me, and calling me names.

Question: How do I convince my parents I don't smoke?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 12:28 PM PDT

My mother told she won't believe me I don't smoke until I prove I don't smoke. What sould I do to convince her?

Question: My parents are too strict about studying?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 12:23 PM PDT

My parents want me to study on every possible hour, I have no option but to listen to them. I am not allowed outside to visit any of my friends, I am not allowed to use the Internet which is strictly for them or play games I have to study and only study. My parents think they are bring reasonable when they give me short breaks from studying but during these "breaks" I can only: walk around the house and give my feet some excercise (because I am not allowed to go outside), I could read a book ( an educational book my parents say fictional ones don't teach you anything) or I could get some extra studying done. If I get a good result in most my tests, my parents would ignore that and instead punish me for getting an B (or rarely a C) in a test. I have tried to reason with my parents and let them know I wasn't happy but they said I was being ungrateful and punished me. I don't know what to do so hopefully any of you reading out there might have some useful advice. (This question is pretty long and well done if you read it I would have made it longer and said more of the stuff my parents do to me but I am not supposed to be on the Internet right now so I have to end it here).

Question: Parents don t let me close door for bathroom or bedroom.?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 12:22 PM PDT

My parents don t let me close door for my bathroom or bedroom. And even sometimes my mom stands at the door, watching me poop. And no, this is not a joke, I thought that was normal until my friends heard my parents don t let me close or lock any doors in the house and watch me shower and poop. I thought that was normal. -_- Im not doing anything bad or anything, they just don t let me close or lock my bathroom or bedroom door. They don t knock when i close them either. And no, I m not old or so so young, I m thirteen

Question: My parents threatened to disown me if I move out.?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 12:19 PM PDT

Question: Should I feel guilty for not going to see my mother today?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 12:14 PM PDT

She has obsessive hatred for my father years after they divorced so I just skipped over seeing her for Easter. Today I knew her gossip would be on a role because of something that happened. I am 29

Question: What to do about wife's sisters calling my wife and getting her all out of tune all the time with all the family problems even the nephews?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 12:13 PM PDT

Sometimes they call at midnight and my wife wants to drive an hour to be with them and comfort them and expects us to take our 3 little under 9 year old kids? I have a large family and they have their share of problems but they never, ever call me to bother me with them and I'm glad we're not like that. My wife gets furious at me and starts with awful personal attacks. I feel like calling her sisters and please telling them to stop, would I be out of line? Or at least to only call if a real emergency presents itself

Question: How do i get my roommate to move out?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 12:13 PM PDT

So a couple months ago my cousin and her husband and one year old daughter moved in. And they are not the worst in the world but my other cousin wants to move in now. And she has no children and we get along better.

Question: Don't know if I should ease up or not?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 12:12 PM PDT

My daughter is 18, I'm a single dad who became a dad at 19. Anyway, unlike most parents today, I will not let my kid drink underage, not at a party, not in my house, nowhere. She complains that I'm too strict on the alcohol thing and wishes I would ease up. I'm strict because I don't want something to happen and end up a single mom like her mom was. Do I ease up a bit?

Question: Can a divorced parent get in trouble for his/her partner being sexual and saying sexual things in front of children younger than 18?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 12:12 PM PDT

My mother and father are divorced and my moms boyfriend is a total sleeze bag(and a felon). He dirty talks to my mom around the house, he puts his hands down her pants, and he talks about how they are sexually active during dinner. He even goes further to explain what color his pubic hair is and how my mom is a freak. This is absolutley distgusting and I am the oldest of 7. I am 16, the rest of the kids are 14, 12, 9, 8, 7, and 5. I was wondering if he could get in trouble for being so disgusting. P.s. Another thing to help: During summer, I use a fan and it gets super hot in my room. I do not sleep with clothes on due to the extreme heat. My fan unfortunately broke in the middle of the night and almost started a fire. My mom woke me to the smell of burning plastic and she noticed i had no clothes on. (i sleep in my room with my door closed). She told her boyfriend the next morning while we were having a talk and he said, "If I ever come downstairs and see you naked, I will show you why i became a felon." Disgusting much? Can i report him?

Question: Why would my mom do this to me?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 11:54 AM PDT

My mom constantly picks fights with me at home. Literally 98% of all fights are started by her. After she starts the fight, I get angry then I would yell back at her then she would threaten me that she would throw me out of the house for saying that to her. I'm 20 yrs old and in college. is it because my mom hates having me under her roof?

Question: How do I talk to my boyfriend?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 11:43 AM PDT

Hello I am a 23 year old (Male) and I have a boyfriend who is 25 years old. We have been together for a little under five years as of tomorrow. Our relationship is wonderful, if not close to perfect for us, until it comes down to sex. In the entire time we have been together, we have never had sex or even touched each other in a sexual manner and it is mostly my fault. Before I met him I was pretty closed up about my sexuality and pretty much hid it from everyone around me. My parents are terrified to have a gay son (they disowned me after I told them) and my brother always told me it was a horrible thing to be, because it would just make me the bi*** to a guy who liked power. Besides the point, I never got to experience what it would be like to be with a guy and I guess I am terrified now to try. I mean, I heard from one of his old exes (male) that my boyfriend specifically likes things like bondage and dirty talk, and kinkier stuff and I don't know if I can do stuff like that because I am a virgin. I have never touched myself, never watched porn, I barely even know how sex works and I am afraid it will hurt or I will make a mistake or he won't find pleasure from having sex with me. I want him to enjoy it, but I am afraid I will mess up or something will go wrong because I am so unexperienced. I've been avoiding him because of it. So how do I talk to him about this or at least how do I stop being afraid to have sex with him? How do I make it pleasurable for him..?

Question: Are these parents messed up?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 11:35 AM PDT

My cousins parents give him very low self esteem. He is 17, they have been doing this to him since he was 6 years old. I hear them say it to him alot. They call him fat and ugly and obese. He is 59kg(126 pounds) and 5'7, they only let him eat 500 calories a day and they have been doing it off and on for the past 4 years, he has a job but no car so they take all of the money he gets, he can't buy his own food. His doctor told him he needs to stop doing this, but he tried telling him he can't and it is out of his control right now. Why are "parents" ALLOWED to do this? How "obese" is my cousin actually? His shirt size is small, and his pants size is 28x30.. He can't tell a school counsellor or someone like that. Why? Because he is "homeschooled" he really had to drop out in 8th grade, because his parents wanted to homeschool him but they never bough him books, taught him or got someone to teach him. If he told someone now, they probably couldn't(or wouldn't actually) do much of anything, seeing as he is 17. Are they messed up or no?

Question: What does he mean ?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 11:28 AM PDT

My dad texted me "You don't have to come anymore". Does he mean I don't have to go if I don't want to or is he implying he doesn't me over there anymore ? This all started when I told him that I was sick and didn't feel like going last weekend (I wasn't sick) and he knew I wasn't sick

Question: Was my mom suffering from a mental illness?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 11:05 AM PDT

She died from sepsis and cardiac arrest last year. She talked me into leaving high school claiming because I was not happy. But she put me to work at age 16 at her self serve gas station she managed, took my pay checks after putting me on payroll. Now, my brother and sister always got their pay when they worked but not me. For a long time every time I worked she would keep all my pays while my brother lived at home for free and had his full pay. She insisted on sharing a car with me and wanted to drive me every where. and seemed so controlling. She semi retired and did odd jobs like telemarketing for extra income, got me into the telemarketing. I was bullied badly in these boiler rooms, worked like a slave and she never cared about what I wanted, only what was good for her. She did drop me off at the mall so I can shop and go to movies and out to eat with me, but so? I got sick of not living and wanted to go to college and get my own car, she changed and started calling me names including stupid ***** , fat when she knew I suffered from eating disorders, slut because she hated the way I dressed even though I never had sex. and would constantly tell me to shut up but began treating my brother like god, while he continued not to pay a thing around the home. We fought constantly and it got very ugly. Even when I was suicidal she knew I was ODing and didn't care till I was in bed for three days....I felt trapped and she never wanted to take responsibility for any wrong She could never say sorry or own up to any wrong doing...she would deny doing anything or turn it around so she was the victim?

Question: How do I convince my mom to let me stay home alone?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 10:48 AM PDT

Ok first of all I'm a teen so I like to be alone because it relaxes me from all the damn stress from school. So I have to go to some family gathering/party for no reason. It's not a birthday party or anything special. But how do I convince my mom to let me stay home alone without her getting all pissed and giving lectures? Please help!

Question: I hate my mom?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 10:46 AM PDT

Today she woke me up by shaking me until I got up, then I asked her if she wanted the extra Easter candy that I do t like. She yelled at me and then made me go to my room. She also made potato salad (I hate potatoes) and then she asked if I wanted some. Then I told her no and she told me to get out of her sight and now she's yelling at me for being selfish. She also tells me to go to hell and swears at me a lot.

Question: Parents don t let me close door for bathroom or bedroom.?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 10:43 AM PDT

My parents don t let me close door for my bathroom or bedroom. And even sometimes my mom stands at the door, watching me poop. And no, this is not a joke, I thought that was normal until my friends heard my parents don t let me close or lock any doors in the house and watch me shower and poop. I thought that was normal. -_- Im not doing anything bad or anything, they just don t let me close or lock my bathroom or bedroom door. They don t knock when i close them either. And no, I m not old or so so young, I m thirteen.

Question: I need to escape my toxic and negative mother, who constantly put me down and never supports me..what would you do?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 10:33 AM PDT

Question: I'm 255lbs. Will I ever be able to get a girlfriend? No one ever wants to date me or give me a chance.?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 10:27 AM PDT

To be honest, only ugly women approach me. There's no beautiful women for me. I know I'm fat, but I don't want a fat girl. I'd like a girl to take care of herself, and even take care of me. I'm hoping to lose weight with the beautiful girls. Ugly women don't ever get off their assssss to encourage her man to get in shape. I'm 24, and still a virgin.

Question: My girlfriend was a stripper before, and she slept with over 20 men and she's only 24.?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 10:22 AM PDT

She told me her secret last night after I fell deeply in love with her. I don't know how to feel anymore. I love her still, and I don't want to let go just yet, but my heart is telling me to leave. She had the best personality than any women I have met. I've been with 2 women and they were both selfish pricks. This one is beautiful, AND faithful, loyal, and loving towards me. She cares about my needs, and she's always there when I'm having a bad day, or even when I'm down. She told me that she can't keep secrets from me anymore, and she told me that yesterday. I'm so mad. But I don't know what to do. We have been together for a whole year now. Should I let her go?

Question: Don't you think this a stupid reason for my dad making me rewrite my homowork?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 10:14 AM PDT

This was homowork for politics class. We had to write about it. Teacher said we were stranded on a dessert island with 10 other people with various skills (builders, doctors etc). He also said we were allowed to take 3 things. we had to write how we'd run our society -laws, division of labor, role of women and men etc. Well I sidestepped all these boring issues by writing i'd take a airplane, a pilot and a runway. He did say we were allowed 3 things. Which makes no sense by the way cuz who gets that choice in the event of a terrible catastrophy which leaves you castaway like tom hanks. My dad b-tched so bad. Said I better rewrite it. Isnt that BS?? I gave an obvious answer. Why should I waste more time on this crap over Easter?? What would Jesus our savior say I wish he didn't look at my homowork. I don't ask to look at his work assignments. I just accidentally look at his stapled closed israel papers But he never said things you can carry. It said "three items"

Question: How to cope with my girlfriends father not liking me?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 10:01 AM PDT

I am a 21 year old Black male. My girlfriend is 21/ White female. Together a year and a half. We ve been having a bit of conflict back and forth because I feel she is around my side of the family a lot more than I am ever around hers. I ve met her mother once since we started dating. She s pretty much around my family on a weekly basis. The reason I m writing this is because I don t know how to deal with not ever being around her family and I don t know how to cope with the fact that her step dad doesn t like me. My girlfriend was on the phone with her sister asking her why their mom never wants to see me. Her sister not knowing she was on speaker phone said that it s not their mom, that it s their step dad, and that he doesn t like me because I m black. My girlfriend immediately hung up the phone in frustration and said how much she hates him. I tried to cheer her up by telling her it doesn t bother me (though it did) because I didn t want her to suffer from something someone else does. She said she hates that I have to go through that. I just don t know how to deal with it myself and stop thinking about it. I m 21 years old, I drive a new 2016 Chevy Camaro. I make about $71,000 salary. I treat their daughter with nothing but respect and I make sure she is always alright. I don t do drugs nor do I drink alcohol. It sucks to me that I try to be the best I can be and I won t ever be good enough just because of the color of my skin. Any ideas on how to get this out of my head?

Question: Am i paranoid that my sister doesn't want me to visit?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 09:49 AM PDT

Me and my siblings have had a strained relationship for long time and i havent spoken to anyone in long time. i mean we say hi and hello on the family groupchat but dont necessarily talk. also we live in separate countries. the other day i saw cheap tickets to her country and asked if i can visit, bcoz she had a baby in December and no one from my family could afford to visit. initially she said yes, but i told her to ask her husband bcoz he doesnot like me (he made a few comments about me to my brother), today i asked if she had spoken to her husband... she just told me that i should visit home and changed the topic, i m going paranoid after that thinking why she doesnt want me in her house. i just want to cry i cant get myself to cry. I cant go home, i cant go to my sisters, i live in a foreign country in squalor, i dont have anyone to turn to, i dont know what to do.

Question: How to deal with an annoying person I live in the same house as me specifically my sister?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 09:44 AM PDT

My sister is 13 I'm 16 we have had problems for years I just ignore her now she is very rude and my mom still hasn't talked some REAL SENSE INTO HER HEAD YET so for example when I do try to talk to her like I'll say I like chocolate chip cookies and she will say ehhh not really a fan I really like peanut butter but then a week later I could say I like peanut butter better than chocolate chip now it's really good she will say my friends told me chocolate chip is good so I like that now so like she always tries to be different and when I get something good like wifi or my Xbox one or a new phone then she's my best friend for a day then goes back to the not talking to me and when she does makes up have every difference possible how to deal with this plzzzzz help it kinda stresses me out I would like to just ignore her but my mom gets mad when I do

Question: How do I stop my family from fighting?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 09:43 AM PDT

Okay so my grandma and my mom always argue and it's not only getting annoying, but is also getting quite bad. I get that they're relatives etc etc but what can I do to help this??

Question: Can a mother prevent a child (in their 40 s) from seeing their dying father in the hospital?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 09:37 AM PDT

My cousin s father is in the hospital currently dying in the intensive care unit. My cousin Cory is 47 and would love to go see his father seeing as there is limited time on how much longer he ll be around. However, the father does want to see Cory and wants him to go visit him today. But my Cory s mother told the hospital that they do not want Cory there and if he d show up at the hospital to have him removed and kicked out. The father wants Cory there, and Cory wants to be there however the mother is preventing Cory from being there. Cory just wants to be there for his father but does not want to get in trouble with legal issues. Thanks in advance.

Question: Am I wrong in this situation?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 09:27 AM PDT

Ok so my sister and I thought we would plan an Easter egg hunt for our brothers and sisters. I have a brother who is 10 and 4 sisters who are 5 years and younger. My sister and I payed with our own money. The problem was that because my brother is so old he isn't impressed with little dollar store toys like my baby sisters are. We couldn't afford expensive toys he likes., but we got him like little things like water balloons. We mostly got him the candy that he likes. I told my mom and their dad (he isn't my dad) found out at yelled at me and my sister saying "how dare you not buy him any toys" he called us jerks, and said that if we didn't buy any toys for my brother we shouldn't buy anything for anyone. We explained to him that we couldn't afford the expensive stuff that he likes and it was mostly for little kids. He still is screaming at us. Am I wrong in this situation? I just wanted to do something nice for my siblings and I'm getting screamed at for it. Am I wrong?

Question: How do I talk to my mother without her getting defensive but with making my point clear?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 09:16 AM PDT

First of all, I'm an adult living on my own and supporting myself. I'm trying to repair my relationship with my mother. The problem is she is very critical and tends to nag me to do things she thinks I ought to do. She also acts like I'm not listening to her if I don't do what she wants. I'm trying to set clear boundaries and it's just not working well. She acts like everything is my problem. Like, if I say I get hurt when she does something, she starts trying to analyze why I'm so sensitive and what it is about me that makes me get hurt by her behavior. Basically if I'm upset or hurt by what she does, she acts like it's on me to change my outlook, rather than her changing how she talks to me. She also acts very confused by boundaries - like, she's never criticizing, she's "expressing her opinion" or "trying to be helpful" or something, so she's totally baffled why I wouldn't take it positively. I'd just like to have a positive relationship with her, one that doesn't revolve around her criticizing and lecturing and yelling at me.

Question: Mom curses?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 09:05 AM PDT

my mother is always cursing at me. she said just last night she would stop. and in the last minute she called me a sh*t head and b*tch and a f*cker. I m only 11. my dad is learning some things but I always try to talk to him and he says that she ll stop. no. that will never happen. EVER. I don t know how to handle this.

Question: I hate giving my sister a ride. What should I do?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 08:52 AM PDT

I'm just sick and tired of it. I go to school(college), and I work also. I don't have a problem picking her up from school, but now, I have to pick her up from school, take her to work, and then pick her up from work. That's like 3 trips all the time. Sometimes, I can't stay to study @ my study groups when I have a test or go out with my friends because I have to pick her up @ 10 pm. I always try to pick classes and a schedule(very flexible) for my work just to accommodate my sister's time. What should I do?I'm freakin' sick of it. I'm about to explode and just yell at my dad because he expects me to do it all.

Question: Difficult relationship with my dad and his wife?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 08:51 AM PDT

My dad cheated on my mom when I was 16. It hurt my relationship with him for many reasons. Mostly because he expected me to try really hard to get to know his then girlfriend, now wife. What made it worse is she was a friend of my moms. A few years have passed since the whole thing and my relationship with him is still not great. I only stay civil because he was a good dad to us kids when we were kids. However, I do not want anything to do with his wife beyond the basic level of contact. Now that my son is 2 and my second child is about to be born, my dad has been asking to become more involved with my kids. I know my kids would probably have a somewhat good relationship with my dad, but I don't want her to be seen as anything by my kids. None of my nieces and nephews have anything to do with her, which is why my dad is putting the pressure on me. He said he's sick of his wife being treated poorly by us kids and he wants her to be accepted because she tried with us. I asked him honestly if he thought either of them deserved so much respect when they did what they did, especially with us directly after. He admitted he'd done wrong but he also told me told me she could be a great grandmother to the kids. That's one of my problems. I don't want her to be a grandmother to my kids. She's not. What would you do if you were in my shoes? If things had been handled differently, I wouldn't feel like this. But so much wrong was done.

Question: What does Easter mean to you, and how do you celebrate it?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 08:39 AM PDT

Question: How do I get my mother to stop lecturing me all the time?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 08:28 AM PDT

Like, she doesn't even lecture on stuff I've done recently. We'll be talking and all of a sudden she's turned the conversation into a lecture on something I did 2 years ago, or something one of my friends did and why I shouldn't do that. Or she'll just drop by while I'm at home and deliver a 15min lecture out of nowhere. I'm really tired of hearing the same lectures over and over and over again - I don't want to be around my mother because all she does is lecture and focus on everything I didn't do well enough. It would be one thing if it was on stuff I actually did recently, but most of the time it's either on something she heard some young people do, or something I did years ago. I'm a good kid, I don't drink or party and I get good grades, but the only thing she seems to care about is what I messed up or might mess up. I know she's trying but she's delivering the same lectures for years, and it's at the point where I can't talk to her about anything without it turning into a lecture almost all the time. And then she gets mad that I don't want to spend time with her when all she does is lecture me and not let me just talk to her. It just makes me feel like all she cares about is the things I've messed up or am going to mess up. She'll never drop something - if I mess something up she'll be lecturing me on it years later even if I never make the same mistake again. I can't have a normal conversation about her without it turning into a lecture. It's like, I can't talk to her about grades without hearing about that one bad grade I got in middle school years ago - it's like she doesn't even care that I have good grades are now, all that matters is that I got a bad grade once in my life and every time my grades come up she goes back and lectures me on that one bad grade. I'm 16. I mean like, when I'm at home doing my homework or on the computer or something, she'll just randomly come by my room and deliver a lecture on something I did years ago.

Question: I know it's normal for parent to call one child by the other child's name, but I called my brother by MY name. What just happened?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 08:26 AM PDT

Question: Why do men hate going to family gatherings?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 08:22 AM PDT

My bf doesn't like my family. And he hates going over there so much. I swear my family isn't even bad and they are nice and fun. He just hates family stuff. He gets so pissed off at me I don't get it. Why do you guys hate it so much ? Anyone else's bf or husband is like this ? He hates going to his family stuff too .. He's making a big deal to go to my family on Easter ! I'm begging him to go , cus it looks bad on me and embarrassing right ?

Question: Can I sue these people for defamation of character?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 08:13 AM PDT

I basically self-defamed myself with lies as a violent person who had assaulted both parents and siblings, being in trouble with the police and being a registered sex offender ever since I felt left out from attending something that would've suited my identity quite perfectly since I was working at the time. But now a number of people have taken this serious where they even spread it to others without my consent while my own sibling and parents took unfair advantage of it. Here's the things that have happened to me: 1 - My eldest and violent sibling attended when parents took him and my teen siblings to such thing where he then defamed me with lies that he does while also confirming the lies I said about myself are true with some people who chose to blacklist me until these lies can be clarified. My eldest brother is the one who assaulted both parents and siblings and being in trouble for it and also being a complete prick if he doesn't get whatever he wants since he has never worked at all in his whole life (He's now 28) 2 - Parents took unfair advantage of me being blacklisted by random people who believe in these lies where my dad then said to have me blacklisted so that he can force me to being hyper-masculine since my eldest brother attended. In other words, he wants to force me to being my brother's old self. 3 - I have had random people throughout the Internet punish me in a very cruel and unusual manner where they blacklisted me and spread these lies.. My self-defamation with these lies are just means of me venting out my frustration since I'm not that type of person who would resort to violence or argue

Question: Did I deserve this tone?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 08:11 AM PDT

I was packing my stuff to get ready for real Dad's vacation. I went downstairs to get a tiny plastic zip bag to put a little tooth paste in. It was just a little besides the bottle of the toothpaste was full i only took one tiny drop of it. My step dad yelled WHAT ARE YOU DOING! I told him I needed some toothpaste for vacation. He told me NO, NO, NO, NO, NO! YOUR REAL DAD CAN BUY YOU SOME! I told him that I wasn't even going to take that much and if I did have some left over I would put it in a bottle and let everyone use it. He said, IT DOESN'T MATTER, JUST DON'T DO THAT! I took the plastic bag and cried in my room for something stupid. All of you probably think I'm just a big cry baby. I'm sorry, I don't mean to be. :'( Please tell me, did i do anything wrong?

Question: Why Does My Dad Force Me To Go Places Even As An Adult?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 07:50 AM PDT

I'm 22 and my dad forces me to go on playdates with my nieces and nephew, church, my Brothers house. Arbitrary events and the only way I can get out of it is if I have work or lie. I really don't understand why he forces me to go to these things when #1 I don't talk almost the whole time I'm their #2 They don't need any help with anything #3 He knows I don't want to go. Why does he force me to go to these things knowing this????

Question: My mom won't drive me to get food?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 07:35 AM PDT

we don't have a lot of food in the house right now, and I'm starving! we're not poor we just need to go to the store. i asked my mom if we could go to the store & she said there's enough food for dinner. ( a pot roast) then i asked if she could drive me to a restaurant so I could pick something up to eat. she said she doesn't feel like driving + she's actually sick:(. i want to go to olga's because I actually have money. it's about 4 miles away so should I ride my bike there? i would be giving my mom a break because olga's would probably fill my up for most of the day so I most likely won't need dinner.

Question: My aunt's father-in-law died suddenly yesterday of a stroke, what would I say in my condolence email?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 07:33 AM PDT

Besides condolences, what else do I say as I only met her father-in-law once and they live in another part of the country so I won't be attending the funeral. The aunt I know and see each Christmas as well as her kids, but her husband's father I only met once.

Question: My mom just followed me on snapchat ? What to do?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 07:29 AM PDT

Hi I m Brooke, 19. I live in a very religious home. With very restrictive nosey parents. I let my mom follow me on my Instagram. Which was a big deal because I always got on there and could have freedom and say and post what I wanted. But once she followed me, I couldn t post stuff anymore or use ANY profanity or talk about any sexual or anything. So I made a snap chat. I m on snapchat mainly now, and was happy I could have some freedom to say and do what I wanted. But last night she made a snapchat and followed me. I m literally so sad because I allowed her to follow me on Instagram and literally let her STILL get mad at me on what I post, and comment and rebukes me publicly when she doesn t like a post. It s really embarrassing having her comment under like every picture. And when I had deleted a few of her comments she got upset w me and all emotional. I was about to block her on snapchat, but I literally can t because she will say she s my mother and I better unblock her now. I feel so trapped. That was my only outlet to be me. What should I do? Like I damn near was about to delete my snapchat, don t see the purpose of using it anymore. Help please

Question: Why do people ostracize me for wanting to be rich and leave my neglecting family behind?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 07:13 AM PDT

Hi. I am a 16yo guy. I am currently in 11th grade. My family is rather poor; we have always struggled with money and other problems. I have two siblings, one older brother who really doesn't work and just gets laid with the first girl he finds and a twin sister whose not a bad girl but is just completely dumb and her only real assett is her beauty. My father left us when I was 4 or 5 and my mother never recovered and so she neglected us a lot. Since being kid I never had someone to motivate me so I motivated myself. I have very good grades and will be able to, hopefully, attend any college I want. I am a very focused person and I am not afraid of saying that my biggest goal is being rich and leave my family behind, as I don't feel they ever understood me (excpet for my twin sister whom I really like and wouldn't mind keeping contact with). However, everybody says I am a bad person for wanting to leave and that money isn't everything. Even my friends say that... Am I really a bad person?

Question: My cousin is in labor, should I barge into the hospital room with flowers and balloons? It is my 3rd cousin and she has only met me twice?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 07:11 AM PDT

Question: My boyfriend is on social security disability and has cut off due to fraud pending investigation.?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 07:10 AM PDT

He has only worked odd jobs. He refuses to get a a decent job because he is "legally blind and 50 years old". What should i do? Dump him. He promised me to go back to work, but he hasn't want should i do. I work full time as a teacher. I make $3000 a month after taxes. He makes $744 a month on ssi. I am pregnant also. I want an abortion.

Question: How do ancestries work?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 07:03 AM PDT

Does everyone have an ancestor from the mideival times or is it possible that their ancestir did not exist yet?

Question: My future mother-in-law is basically in tears because my fiancé and I will only be spending Easter with my family this year. What can I do?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 06:59 AM PDT

Question: Mother is corrupted by father finally. It is like he literally controls her now to d anything. How can I help her?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 06:51 AM PDT

I have this small job. Moving out is not an option though. Leaving will leave my mother more vulnerable.

Question: How can I safe my baby?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 06:27 AM PDT

Question: I slapped my stepmom?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 06:20 AM PDT

yesterday my step mom Rachel got into an argument with me for the dumbest reason, just because I forgot to put my shoes away, she started calling me lazy and telling me I don't do anything but I just ignored her then she said I'm just like my dead mother a lazy ***** and I slapped her really hard across the face. I've never been so angry with her she's a stupid ******* ***** then she went crying to my dad like a baby telling him I hit her and I told my dad why but he obviously didn't care because he hated my mom too. I don't know why, she was a great mother and treated me better than he EVER will. But now she's threatening to call the POLICE on me? I'm 15 and a girl btw

Question: My parents are really unfair and wont let me spend my own money?!?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 06:19 AM PDT

I am really pissed off by them now! So, in easter I have taken extra chores at home to earn more money so I can buy Your lie in April vol. 1 wich is aviable on rightstuf now, and my parents ask why I want the extra money, and when I tell them, they downright says "Carl, you are not allowed to waste 130$ on a bluraydisc" So I explain them that its released by aniplex and therefor is expensive, but they still wont give me the money they promised me as long as I want to buy it?! Any tips to how to explain to them that if its ok to buy me a damn suit I don't even want, then it should be ok to buy it?

Question: Girls please mature question?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 05:47 AM PDT

I was a senior & dating a girl in hs. We lasted a year with no sex since she said she wanted to wait (claimed to be a virgin). I had no choice but to wait. She left to college and i stayed home. We broke up but remained friends. We'd still talk but only through social media. I'd then see her upload pics of her drinking, partying, dirty dancing with dudes, sitting on dudes laps posing for the camera. A year later she moves back home because she missed everyone. She called me one day (she's moved back home at this point) and invited me to lunch. I said ok and we hung out. We started to talk/kiss and hold hands. I however wanted to know if she dated/slept around since it's been a year. I asked if she dated? and she said "nothing serious". I asked how far she got? and she moved her eyes side to side and to the back of her skull (what people do when something gets annoying). I re-asked her and she speed walked and started to sing a song to avoid my question. I then admitted i slept with one girl and that was it. She looked pissed and said "so that's it? just one girl?". We got into it and she said to never bother her again or she'll call the cops. She blocked me on all social medias. I never heard from her again it's been months now. Needless to say do you think she slept around or no?.........

Question: How do I tell my parents that I want a dakimakura (body pillow)?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 05:25 AM PDT

I'm 18, and I want to buy a dakimakura, but I've never told my parents that I have any interest in this sort of thing. My Armenian parents have an old way of thinking and I'm worried that it might seem too weird to ask, and waiting till I move away is far too long of a wait, so I want to tell them. I just don't really know how to go about doing that because what will they think of me?

Question: Help! What should I do?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 05:24 AM PDT

I feel like i'm property. I can never leave the house without premission of my husband, we live with his parents in the same house as well and his mother dislikes me she is a real witch. I cannot talk to other men or else it is the end of the world. I once walked outside and saw our neighbour and stopped for a little chat with him. Then my mother-in-law saw us and started whispering something with her friends and I heard them calling me a whore for talking to a man cause women arent allowed here to talk with men otherwise they get acused of being cheating whores. But im not a cheater im just polite with our neighbour I cant just walk past and ignore him when he says hello. When I came back home the drama already started, my husband already heard the news of his mother and started yelling, calling me a whore and slapped me. I tried to explain it was only talking but he didnt believe me. Then his mother pretended like she is protecting me and breaking up the fight but I know she is fake. One day I went to a photoshoot with my friend, we both posed in a bikini for fun. I kept the photos secretly in my nightstand but that witch of my mother in law found them when I wasnt there and showed it to my husband then he got so angry and beated me and calling me all degrading horrible names you can imagine. I want to divorce him but im afraid cause he wont let me take our 3 year old son then and he says he is going to kill me if I sue him. What should I do?This is all thanks to this witch

Question: Is it weird to have a step father who is only 6 years older?

Posted: 27 Mar 2016 05:21 AM PDT

So, my mom ended up remarrying when I was 16. Now I'm 28 and they have a 12 year old son together. For my brother he finds it weird our mom is so old but in reality I think it's that his father is in his mid-30s and not that much older than me.