I wouldn't say that I dislike him, we're just polar opposites and don't speak. I had a very easy childhood, but the less we speak the more he thinks I don't like him. And he's started randomly buying me stuff, a new car, giving me money, when I already have all of those things that I can pay for myself. I'm 23 by the way.

Ok so this is how it goes. I was born Pedro Juan . I live in the US and usually people have a very bad time saying my name. Ever since i was a kid in elementary school i would cringe because when they would say Pedro, it sounded like The word page. I never really like my named. My parents are of hispanic heritage and they decided to give me that name because they thought it was unique. Long story short, 9th grade started and i took my name and translated it. Instead of Pedro i used Peter because Peter is english for Pedro. Everything was good until every day the idea kept haunting me that i was being a bad son. I fee" so guilty for changing my name but i really dont like my original. Ive talked with my parents and they re ok with it but i can sense them being a bit sad. To tell u the truth i havnt gotten used to people calling me Peter. I cant stop thinking about it and its interupting my school work. Pretty much what i wanted to do was anglicize my name and make it easier to pronounce, with hopes that one day i go into politics or go in the Army. At this point i dont know what to do and the though is eating me away. Id appreciate the Help.

Last night I asked the question "can two yearolds watch adultswim " so after reading comments I guess they can't so how am I suppost to get my little brother to got to sleep ? I want to watch adultswim tonight so I'm asking ahead of time . I'm 15 . My mom works at night ( most the time but sometimes she's off) and no matter how many times I tell him to go to bed he just won't .... It's f**king annoying

i kinda recorded me masturbating and forgot to delete it . my mom borrowed my phone and kinda saw the video and told me to erase it and that she cant look at me in the eyes the same way . im sad and i feel like she ll never love me the same . im 13 and im a girl . what do i do ?

Oki so í was sitting on the sofá and he started to tell me that í need a job and i have looked and applied but nothing yet, well anyways í was there arguing with tim again and he just grabbed be and basically choked me telling me that its his house and that he makes the rules and that he ll kick me out and have me arrested. (But for what í didnt do anything) and í dont think his name is on the house so technically its not his, and basically all my family that lives here has been abused by him and when mi mom tried leaving him he tried to kill him self( stupid idiot) and then my mom let gol back in and after that he just started again but only towards me. I really want to bash his skull in but i know i can t but what should i do?

She is 22 and I'm 16 I've known her for a long time because of my sister but we've only hung out when she's with my sister and she's fun the problem is I don't think she'll give me the time of day because of my age

I'm seen as loud, energetic and obnoxious. I want to change myself to be calm and alone but I don't want people to notice. Help please? (If you're going to say, "You don't need to change yourself." Please refrain from commenting. Thanks)

He said I was creepy just for buying my mom a gift of bras. But I think what he did today is creepier. We was at the mall and my cousins baby needed to pee and we had no women with us to take her to the bathroom So he took her into the men's bathrooms. And I even toad him that is creepy and he said its not cuz he warned everyone he was bringing a little girl in so cover up and he put his hand over her eyes. Wtf. That makes it even weirder. Imagine what them guys was thinking and that poor kid will be traumatized. And he goes around acting like his sh"t don't stink. Don't u think he's creepy?

Alright so for the past year we've been struggling with money. Like really badly. I keep telling my Grandma that I have absolutely no problem at all getting rid of my phone. I don't need it to survive. I've also been telling her to take me off my online school and just put me back into public school. But, she won't since I've actually been making progress and getting somewhere. (My mother is in prison. My grandma raised me since I was 3 months old). Right now I'm using my neighbors laptop. They're letting me use it for my school. Whenever I say something like "Can we sell my TV?" or something she'll say no. Right now my pregnant aunt is living with us. She's 4 months. Right now she's crying outside because we were going to go shopping for food, but her food stamps to go through to her card? (Or something like that I'm not very sure). We're struggling very bad and I just want to help my family. My dad works out of town. Well usually he does but there hasn't been any business lately. So not alot of money. I've been eating less and telling them I don't want any dinner because I know it's expensive to take care of me. I've been looking for jobs, but everywhere around here has always been "You have to 15 or up". I want to sell stuff I don't need. I don't need a TV or phone. But she won't let me. At this point I'd be willing to get rid of my two cats so that we don't have to buy litter or food. (Please keep in mind that we got the cats before our money troubles and at the time were able to afford to easily take care of them.) I'm having alot of trouble finding out what to do. I've wanted a job since I was 13. But, I can't find any. I just want to make money to support my family. I know I'm young, but.. I don't know. Anyways are there any stores or anything around or in Marion Texas? Or in cibolo, San antonio or schertz? If not what do you I suggest I do to help out? How can I convince my grandma to just let me sell the things I don't need? " I've wanted a job since I was 13." *Since I first turned 13 " but her food stamps to go through to her card?" *didnt go through to her card "Anyways are there any stores or anything around or in Marion Texas? Or in cibolo, San antonio or schertz?" *That would hire a 13 year old very sorry for spelling mistakes. I was speed typing.

My uncle has already lost two daughters. My dad has also passed away 4 years ago and my best friend 2 years ago. I still can t believe any of them have died

My brother is borderline verbally and emotionally abusive. He is 16 and I am a 14 year old girl. Everyone always says that I'm the mean sibling and that my brother is so nice and perfect and everyone loves him. He loves to embarrass me in front of his and my friends. He always calls me dumb, stupid, retarded, ugly, annoying, a waste of time, etc. he says these things almost everyday whenever I talk to him. I like Imagine Dragons? I'm dumb. I feel sick? I'm a liar and retarded. I can't even be in the same room with him without him getting angry at me and forcing me out. If I do something he doesn't like, he hurts me. No one else who has siblings that I know acts like this. All their brothers and sisters at least get along with each other. Why does my brother do this to me? I know it can't be puberty or age or something because he has been doing this since I was little. Ever since I can remember. If I ever tell my brother not to do something, my parents get mad at ME and tell me to stop complaining even when my brother is the one putting me down and hurting me. If have grown up with this and I just want to know why he hates me so much. He bashes me behind my back is what I found out too. He got all his friends to hate me as well. What should I do?

I'm 19, from Canada. My parents are forcing me into a marriage and they already planned my wedding this February 15th. They're buying my wedding dress and everything that I don't need. I feel bad because I'm wasting their money on something I don't want to do. My parents are VERY strict, they believe in honour killings and I have to bleed on my wedding night. Plus, I don't know if I do have my hymen, I already lost my hymen (not to sex). If I don't bleed, the guy won't want me and I have to be killed. Don't tell me to call the cops on my parents because I'm not going to do that, I still love them but religion got deep into their heads, even though Islam said to not force a marriage, they still do it. I'm planning to run away next month in January and leave to another place. Will my parents be able to find me if I run away? Again, my parents are VERY strict and they will send out someone to kill me if they track me down, especially if I'm alone, they'd put a bullet through my head. Should I change my name? How do I plan for this? I'm very scared, I want to leave, I don't want to marry someone I'm not in love with, and is going to control me. I'm very unhappy, I don't want to live like this forever, I'd rather die. I have $1000 and I'm packing my things and leaving to another place. Will it work out? I don't want to die and calling the cops wouldn't be an option for me since I have A LOT of relatives who would kill me if I told on my parents. I know I'm an adult but I need help

We have my husband's little brother (12y/o) for the week while his parents are on a cruise. He was very moody after school yesterday and quiet for the rest of the evening. Shortly after lights out both heard weeping. At first my husband insisted that we leave him alone(maybe a guy thing?) but I felt too bad. He was inconsolable for over an hour. :( I had to hold him and rub his back to help him calm down. In short, he asked his best friend (female) to be his date to the winter school dance and she rejected him very harshly. I could tell feelings were very hurt and he seemed traumatized and embarrassed. He was extra sluggish this morning. He can't contact his parents as they are on a cruise and when they aren't at sea they're in another country. How should we be there for him? Should we act like it never happened, be super casual about it, or coddle him extra? I just feel so bad because he thinks that he can't get a date to the dance and this really crushed his self esteem. What helps?

I have custody of my granddaughter. She is my daughter's, daughter but my daughter is too busy prostituting and doing drugs to care for her. My granddaughter's father was on drugs, he's supposedly clean now, he's working and he's married. He already passed a court ordered drug test in May 2014. He was pursuing full primary custody and the judge ordered visitation but no overnights. Her father has only seen her twice since July and it's now December. Can he take my granddaughter away from me? What are the chances? I will be devastated. She's almost 6 and I've had her since the day she was born!

I work at a company, my salary is too low, I am 26 years old, I cant save any money at all, my salary is 550 $ , I only got 80 $ from that ! its so horrible, I cant go out, I cant buy what I want, I cant do anything, I quit the gym today, because i cant pay 22 $ for it, I cant live a good life at all, I know I have to help my family but what bothers me the most is that no one even asks me if I want something, they don't respect my personality either, I hate them, I hate my parents, my whole family, I cant go to another company because it would be too far, more than 1,15 hour in the bus, I don't have a car, no driving license too, I suck so much, I swear someday I am gonna hurt myself so bad, i cant take it anymore, I'm so depressed :/

I'm 16 and a girl and I hate my stepsister so much!! She's 20 and she can be so mean. If I say anything at all she'll roll her eyes or be all sarcastic. It really sucks and I didn't do anything at all to her to make her be so mean. :( Help?

I couldn't make it to my sister's house for a get together and she went ballistic. When I did see her several weeks later, she said that she knows when she's not wanted or just ranted on & on. I tried to apologize, but she wouldn't let me have a word in. This happened 5 years ago and since then she has created a dramatic story along with picking out everything I ever said and done in the past 40 years that was offensive to her. I'm keeping quiet (except for asking Y/A), thinking it would simmer down, but nothing yet. She won't accept phone calls, cards, or contact. What does one do when someone is so wrapped up in their own dramatic world, they exclude family?

Well obviously I got my last name from my dad, and I'm afraid to offend him by changing my last name legally. How can I talk to him about this? I feel like if I just change it without telling him, it would hurt him.

There hasn't been a single day since he yelled at me twice to go study or something. You know how long it's been since I spent some father-son time . I want to spent some time with him and he's like no you should study ..... everything to escape studying....you'll see if i find out you have bad grades..... That sh*t hurts me a lot that. Or when I'm studying and he sees me studying and yells at me and hurts me litearlly but i act cool. Everytime i study and he yells at me I can't study anymore i just keep hearing his voice yelling at me all the time and can't focus on studying. Did you have that kind of father and if you did what did you do about it i can't handle so much stress anymore i'm f*cking 16 years old , second high school year and i got so much stress inside me from other stuff not just my dad. Sometimes i just wanna grab my bike and go spend somewhere in land where's no city and there's lake whole day just lay down, listen to some music, relax.....

To be clear I'm basically wondering what would have her do something like this? I was laying down next a chair she was sitting in.

True story.. My mom lived in Lebanon, and my dad came from a wealthy family, but his father was physically and emotionally abusive with his mother, him, and his brothers. AND HE WAS VERY CHEAP(the father). My dad watched his father hit his mom everyday and my dad received almost no love whatsoever from his family. Dad told his mom to leave his father, because his father causes problems with his mom every day. My dad owns a store, and he doesn't make much money. He lived with his mother in America, but he saw my mom in Lebanon and called her everyday while they were engaged. He said he was religious, and he talked about God a lot, and said he owns a millionaire company with his brother, Harry, in America. My mom believed him, but my dad was lying. She didn't know until after she moved in with my dad (in his mom's house in America), did he start to verbally abuse her and refuse to get a better job and he insults my mom.

Not only do I have bad people skills, but I know fully well that dating and marrying isn't worth it if you're broke and you still have grad school ahead. As a grad student I know it'd be stupid to date when I most need to focus on just passing classes and working hard to get at least have a chance at getting a half-decent job since most women worth their salt wouldn't date a broke grad school guy anyways, especially a guy who wants to be a professor since professors are considered low on the food chain anyways. Maybe they're desperate for me to date since I've always been single and a virgin by choice. So what do I say to them? I'm tired of them trying to say I should date and that being single, and probably not keeping any pets either, means my life will be miserable.

I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm 21, and I moved out almost a year ago to the day, I moved 2,000 miles away from her.. she was stealing money from me, sobbing that she'd DIE if I left her, she had my phone disconnected so I couldn't talk to my boyfriend, and she called him a demon and said he was a grown man compared to me. (He's less than a year older than me) She told police that I was a mental case that needed to be in her custody, and kept me locked in the house for months. I've tried to keep contact with her since I've left, she IS my mother after all. But she wants me to be on the phone constantly, even when I'm at work she calls me over and over saying she wants to hear my voice. She says that I've killed my entire family by leaving, and when she's not begging me to answer the phone on the spot or come home, she's begging for my money. She refuses to call my boyfriend by his name, she calls him 'Him' instead, and says that 'He' kidnapped me. Well, right now I have a cold and a sore throat and she is on the phone 24/7 demanding that I go to the ER right now instead of work. It doesn't seem to be working out with her, I can't even speak to her half the time. Me: I saw a giant moose in the road today! Mother: Baby please come home I'm losing weight without you here, I'm going to die. Me: Did I tell you I went canoeing the other day? Mother: You're killing your grandmother. I don't know what to do. Help.

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 years now. I've been married before but never really wanted a baby with my ex because I didn't see him as the parent I wanted for my children, my boyfriend has a 4 year old girl that him and his ex weren't expecting and they were very young(19 and 20), me and my boyfriend are both 25. Ever since I met him he's done nothing but make my heart happy every time I hear him tell people that we are ready to start a family, we even brought a house because we were so ready. (The house is only under his name) but when planned on getting married so of course the house would pass to be mine *** well. Anyway, every year around this time of the year he goes thought a rough time due to something that happened to him as a kid and he hurts a lot and gets destructive and careless and withdrawn. Last year was very rough but that's a long story, and I forgave him for that already. Now this year again around the Same time we've been having a couple of fights this week but last night he told he needed to talked to me and all of the sudden he dropped then "I don't think I want anymore kids" my heart dropped. I didn't what to say or do and my first reaction was to tell him that I couldn't believe this and I couldn't be with him.

I don't want to seem insensitive to my parents but I still want to enjoy the day. My brother went to jail in October and will be there at least through August. So my mother wishes she could skip Christmas. Plus another brother is with his wife's family where the father-in-law is dying of ALS. So it will be my parent sand two sisters along with some extended family. How can I enjoy myself without getting caught up in my parents misery about those not there, primarily the 22 year old brother in jail.

Thanksgiving I did with my Dad and his family and Christmas will be with my mother and her family. It used to be Christmas Eve with Mom's family and Christmas Day with Dad's family and Thanksgiving we'd see both families at different times of the day. How can I get past this and enjoy the holidays even though I will be missing out on half the family. I can;t be in two places since they are six hours apart and my parents don't speak (an aunt is the communication between the two). How can I not be so sad this year? It has been this way since 2011

So I was in the shower and I turned the shower head towards the wall so I could scrub my hair and then rinse it out when I was done. Well there is this soap holder thing that was attached to the wall, and it has a bunch of black stuff on it (probably mold) but I think I'm the only person who has noticed it. It was like that when we moved in (we rent the house) and so when I did that it fell off and I was like "WHAT THE ****?" And I tried to hold it on the wall to try and keep it there. But it just kept falling off and then I turned the water off and left the shower, I still smell like a pile of dog ****, and i broke the thing on the shower, but maybe it was a good thing? The black stuff LOOKS like it could probably kill something but idk it's disgusting. And when my mom and dad get home, I have to show them. They are going to kill me. What do I do???

i was on vacation recently and mmy parents thought i spent more money than allowed, which i didnt. someone stole somme cash from me. they told me to admit it. i tried to talk to them about it and tell them what really happened, but they didnt listen and decided to lock me in the roomm for the rest of the week. i dont know why they decided to punish me so harshly for something tht wasnt even my faullt, the vacation for me was ruined.how can i talk to my parents and telll them that this wasnt my fault?

I am 23 years old and my grandpa died Sunday. I loved him dearly and I've been crying since I found out. Everybody went to his funeral, all my cousins except one of my sisters and me. I just didn't see the need to go. I don't want to be comforted by somebody else and I just felt the need to stay by myself and grieve his death alone. I don't see the point of a funeral ceremony at all. Is that understandable or is it disrespectful of me? Ok, I guess I don't understand this idea of the last chance to say goodbye. He was dead, and he couldn't acknowledge my presence. I would totally have payed him a real goodbye before he died if I knew he was going to die. And I don't want to say goodbye now that he is dead, he will forever be with me in my memory and hopefully in an afterlife.

My little boy has been acting out i.e. Hitting, screaming, throwing toys, biteing etc, and I really feel that it's because he's frustrated and doesn't know how to express it. He has a 8mo little brother, so it's hard to give my oldest all the attention he deserves. Any ideas on how I can help him???

My youngest daughter is pregnant. She's only 16 years old a junior in high school. Maybe I was naive because at 16 I wasn't having sex? I blame myself so much for her getting pregnant. I ask myself constantly what more could I have done to prevent this? Did I not do a good enough job? I never allowed them in the bedroom alone or to be at the house when nobody was home. I have 3 other children 1 son & 2 other daughters & they never wound up pregnant!! I've heard parents say "she's too busy with her job" or "thank God my daughter isn't doing those things" or whisper behind our backs at my sons games (hes a senior in HS) I wonder how she is going to deal with being bullied when she begins to "show" I cry almost daily & constantly blame myself for this. Am I a bad mom? Are these feelings normal? Why our family? How did this happen??

So my girlfriend and I are having trouble finding spots to have sex. I have a 69 impala two door so the back seat is small and barely any room. Now she's a bigger girl, she's very tall and voluptuous so she complains she can't fit and stuff. I can't do it at my house because my parents are always home. Her house is risky because I fear her mom or dad will walk in on us and her dad is strict. Any ideas?

My dad's parents both died within a week, and it's been 6 months since he stopped working. He's in depression, although he doesn't think he is. I am still in school, and I am busting my *** working a graveyard shift to pay the monthly payment for his credit card and doing full time university coursework at the same time. My mother is just a nanny, and she is also tired of him, but she doesn't want to leave him. My dad right now is a useless person, staying home. I don't even know what he does at home. Cleaning, moving stuff around, writing I don't know what. He's 58 years old. I am tired of paying half the rent for an apartment that I hate because of my dad, and I am tired of paying endless list of their credit cards and loans. I want to run away from home and leave them all because frankly, I am better off without them. I couldn't care less for my dad, but I am afraid for my mom. My mom doesn't know how to use the computer, and the credit cards are all paid online. Her income won't be enough to cover rent and their debt. I don't know what to do. Please help me. I am really stressed out about this.

I'm 27 years old I'm single I have no children but when I was 20 & at a low point in my life I got a dog. The dog was scheduled to be euthanized & I took him. From day 1 he "knew" I saved him. He laid right next to me every night wouldn't leave my side. I went through MUCH harder times over the next few years. If it wasn't for him & having to take care of him, I would have without a doubt in my mind been dead. I cry sometimes because this dog really saved my life. I'm thinking of relocating back to an area because while it was great for me, it was PERFECT for him VERY pet friendly. He has had to have 3 major surgeries in the past 2 weeks he's got a problems with his feet & it breaks my heart. I love him to death & at times I wonder how could he still love me when I struggled to get out of bed to walk him? When the sadness was so bad I struggled to give him enough attention. Is this often times how being a mother to a child feels?? Or am I just crazy!?

My daughter lost her job in Feb 2014. She moved back home with us. She's been working 2 part time jobs trying to get by since then. It's rejection after rejection. She had $4,000 in savings that was put away for when she decided to move back out on her own. She has been unable to save a DIME since loosing her full time job. She hasn't asked us for a dime either to help her with anything & does pay us $200 a month rent. Her dog had to have 2 major surgeries in 2 weeks & it totaled $2,000 she took it from her savings to pay for it. Recently, she was rejected for a full time promotion, got rejected from graduate school & had this dog mess to deal with. I think she's overly stressed. She took the other $2,000 & BLEW IT on clothing, makeup etc. This is NOT normal behavior for my daughter AT ALL!!!!! She rarely goes out & saves almost everything!!! That $4,000 was to help her when she was ready to move out again!!!! When I asked her why in Gods name she did that she said "Mom, this is me throwing my hands in the air saying I give up." What does that mean?!? I'm VERY worried about her mental health Should I be?!?

I am 27 years old, I have a low paying job I make around 26,000 a year and I live in a one bedroom with my mom my whole life. We never moved because she didn't have enough money, she doesn't want to move now because she thinks eventually ill get married and she'll be stuck. Its really depressing me.

So my mom has custody&I visit my dad on the holidays.I was bullied where my mom was&I came to live with aunt.The school was fun&liked it.Until now,I started high school this year&I have recently become depressed.Like cryin in the shower w/the lights off listening to Andrew bird depressed. Anyways I recently went to visit my dads.Every time I go up there they beg me to live with them(my dad & stepmom).I usually don't even consider it because I had a bad experience up there at the schools.But this time I did due to my lack of friends and everything else at my aunts.Also I have two little sisters and I got really close to them.I want to live with them but they don't have a nice home like my aunt and they don't have money.I have a child support card I would have to give up.I wouldn't have nice things.And I would miss my aunt and cousin.Also no phone would be given.Also my mom is bat **** crazy(I'm not kidding she was once in a ward)&she has custody of me.She is super spiteful&has a never ending feud w/my dad.I love my dad&he is so cool and nice But idk if I should leave my aunts nice home. My dad doesn't have a lot of $ and my aunt is well off. I would be happy+I would be able to get a car.if I stayed w/my aunt I wouldn't get a car.& my mom&dad would have to go back to court if I lived with my dad. At my dad's I Would get to see my sisters,have a car,& be happy. But I wouldn't have a phone,internet, or that nice of stuff. Help

Since I was a teenager, I have been my mother's doormat and therapist. She unloads her problems on me and expects me to listen, because I always have. When I chime in about my life and things going on, if they aren't bad or it's just a meaningless topic, it's like I didn't even say anything. She ignores it. I'm in my 20's now, and she was discussing her and my dad's relationship (they're divorced and still have problems), I told her that I basically didn't want to hear about it because all it is is drama. She continued to say, "I'm just not going to discuss this stuff with you anymore. You're not old enough yet, you're still in your teen years, and are still in the mindset where you just want to ignore all of this." I don't want to constantly hear about my mother's problems, regardless of age. She needs help, and I feel responsible for helping her. My husband tells me that I'm not responsible, but I've always been the emotional punching bag, or something of the like. We just spent almost $300 for her to fly out this Christmas and see us, and it feels like no matter what I do, I'm just passive-aggressively insulted. You'd think that if you spent a significant amount of money on someone as a surprise, they'd be nice to you, right? I need some opinions. What do I do about my mother? How do I pull away without it causing a huge deal?

My dad got married for the 3rd time in May. He'd been with his wife a little over a year at that point. She has 5 kids from 5 different men. All of them are under the age of 14. My dad and I never had a great relationship. It's never going to be better than it is now. I'm tired of him most of the time, but I will admit to a small part of me always wishing things could be better. So back in August, my dad picked me up to take me bowling and didn't tell me beforehand that he was bringing his stepkids, all of whom were taking up his attention and the older ones were asking me for money for candy, etc. I glared at him after the first hour was up. He pulled me into a corner, looked me in the eyes and said "did you really expect me to leave them behind?" I replied "Yes, yes I did." To say it ended in disaster would be an understatement. The youngest wet herself and my dad flipped out when I wouldn't dry her off. I had to walk home because he refused to drive me. Since then, every time he wants to do something, he wants them around, too. I've told him I'm only interested in seeing him because I'm lucky if I see him once every couple of months. He called me selfish and said "these kids need a dad and I'm that person now." I should also add I'm almost 18.

My mother tells me this all the time and it hurts. My father is her ex-husband and often is unavailable. I am worried he won't be able to see me at Christmas and on Thanksgiving last week he said he had to go after about 10 minutes. After he left my mother made a big deal about how he doesn't love me but that it's not personal as he loves no one but alcohol. Is this all correct or is my mother misleading me? He does have alcoholism but I am unsure how that makes him not love as I know another alcoholic who loves just fine. Also does he truly love alcohol more then me or is he just sick emotionally and can't help it? He has refused any help.

I dont look like them. I have different eye and haircolor. My skin is a bit darker, but not much. Im taller than my mom, and almost as tall as my dad. I dont have the same eyes, nose or lips. I dont look like any of my relatives actually. I only look a little, I repeat LITTLE like my dads HALF sister when she was young. I dont look like my brother at all. My brother looks like my grandfather according to all my relatives. My brother also has the same eye and haircolor as my dad did when he was a kid (his hair got darker with age). I'm WAY better at school than my parents/ relatives, and I'm very artistic and I have skills for piano, drawing, singing and languages while my relatives do not. Why dont I share any traits with them? I only share some traits and looks with my aunt, but she is not even a ''full blooded" aunts, she has different dad than my other dads relatives. And my moms side? I look like them even less. Why is this? I feel like I don't belong here.

I think about killing my dad a lot. He just makes me so mad. He does nothing but abuse and mistreat us.MAny of my siblings including myself have scars on our bodies from him. He is so cruel and he loves to hurt people. If he knows that he hurt you (physical or mental) he gets this huge smile on his face. I just have that smile of his stuck in my head 24/7 and that's what motivates me to want to do it they most: the fact that all this pain he causes amuses him. All his money goes to his "young women who would die for [him]He doesn't pay the bills he didn't buy the house, he didn't buy the cars, my mom did all that herself. He's cheating on her and he brags about it to her and my younger siblings all the time.They don't need to be exposed to him, but my mom won't kick him out. She developed depression because of his BS. I even have a plan on how I would get rid of him, I also have someone that will genuinely help me do it.

He came out but is ignoring me

My boy will be called *E. Well last year E and I had been talking/ dating for a while. Then he came to my apartment & I had told my mom we were bestfriends, then we left this area where my mom could see us. (Besides the fact E dressed a bit gangster) So after E got picked up I got in trouble & mom took my phone, she had found out I had drinken and that E and I had a thing, he was saying "he wanted to seduce me", and so my mom freaked out and on top of that he smoked and my mom went of his Facebook & saw that. So after being grounded and forbidden to talk to him, I always found little ways to see him (movies, and talk on this little tablet.) about three months after Getting in trouble we stopped talking because he knew I was moving Soon.!So now I live four hours away & just a few days ago I came up and visited up where he lives. Then I all of a sudden was like I feel like I need to text E. We ended of hanging out & I lost my virginity to him, and he has opened up to me more than ever this time. I leave again in three hours and it hurts so bad to leave him, I've been staying up at my grandmas while being here. I just need to stay but my parents wouldn't ever let me I've even tried asking to live w/ my grandma and she said it's fine, just my parents say no. E & I were even think about maybe having a kid but that would be too hard for us to raise, then our thoughts were emancipation? Does anyone have ideas on how I can stay? He already has enough money for the emancipation. My mom also goes up to where he lives every other week and stays with my grandma for a week, for her job.

When I was 2, my mom and my dad split up. My dad cheated on my mom so she left him and we stayed with my grandparents. They weren't married when this happened. While they were apart, my mom had 2 boyfriends and we lived with both of them. The first was a really nice guy but again, he cheated on her. The second was a complete asshole. He beat my mom, he locked me, my brother and sister in a closet every night and one time he hit me because I pissed him off. I still have a scar on my face. I never told my mom because I didn't want her to know. Then we finally moved back in with my grandparents where I actually felt safe. About a year later, my mom and dad got back together and have been together ever since. But could this be why I have trust issues whilst in a relationship? I've never thought of connecting the two until recently and I truly believe this has something to do with it but I wanted ther people's opinions. I'm 17 by the way. Thanks I'm a guy*

I have a 17 year old stepdaughter and just gave birth to my first baby back in July. My stepdaughter is in college after graduating early. She has no siblings from her moms second marriage, so this will be her first ever sibling. She's not happy about the baby and refuses to visit and see her. My husband has tried inviting her out to meet the baby, has offered to pick her up himself, has tried bringing our daughter around, but she doesn't want to see or or know about her. He got a photo last night from her. She tore up the photos he'd sent her of our daughter. Any advice? The father daughter time stopped once she went away to college. She's been very distant, doesn't talk to me at all and only answers the phone to my husband occasionally. Thank you for all the answers so far!

Before you call me out and say I'm insane, please here me through. I know anxiety is a problem I share with many others in the world, and it's horrible. I'm scared, I'm terrified at this point. I missed about 4 days of school in a row now. My Mom comes in early in the morning and ends up screaming at me to get up and go, but I never do. She freaks out on me saying I'm mental. I feel like such a disappointment to my family. She calls me selfish. Which makes me feel so terrible to hear my Mom say those things about me, I never wanted it to go this far. I need to get my **** together because now she's forcing me to live with my Dad. And he's upset with me. I'm a major **** up. Or at least that's how I see it if my family and friends don't want me around anymore.

I'm getting two hours because I can't stop looking at yahoo answers and I've been on here for hours but I have school tomorrow so I need to wake up at six

she has health problems like her spine and she has blackouts when she had her 2 babies they definitely had autism and still do they are teens now

We're identical twin and we love each other but my parents can't understand us, they have sent him to my uncle in another city. we can't live like this it kills me being away from him. He calls everyday and cry and beg them to bring him back but they say we should learn how to live independent I can't, he can't either. they're torturing us just because we love each other @John : Yes we have but this is our life, not theirs. I they didn't want us together why did they make us twin? we love each other in romantic way and sexual way and it's none of their business. 2. we're 15. we have a 8 months sister. well, my uncle is so nice. he had a son who lost in an accident, he adore me and my bro. we can't accuse him to bothering someone. it's unfair the only stony hearted here are my parents

Hi, my younger brother seems to have mental issues. I have told my parents that he needs to see the doctor because of his behavior but they think I'm joking. When we're watching TV he would just take off his pants all of a sudden. And there was once when he finished showering and he ran out of the bathroom to the main door naked, and started dancing. He seems to have anger issues too. There was once when his tuition timing was changed to half an hour earlier, he got really angry and started screaming and shouting, throwing things around, locking himself up in his room and screaming and hitting stuff. However, when he's at school learning, he's really quiet and doesn't speak at all. Even his teacher asked if he had issues. His behavior at school and at home are totally opposite. I'm really worried for him. He's my brother and I really love him alot, and I hope he gets well soon. Please help!!

Every year my mother gives me grief for going to see my Dad and step-mother on Christmas afternoon. I have breakfast with my mother and dinner with my mother and her family. On Christmas afternoon though I like to also see my father. She says I need to wait until the week after and go see him then. She has done this since I was a kid and didn't even let me see him on Christmas when I was little (I had to wait until New Years). They divorced when I was 5 and now I am 27. I know I am an adult and can do what I want but I feel really nervous when in confrontation with her. So how do I handle this come Christmas?

we were basically kicked out of our house for financial reasons because both parents did not work,my mom talks down to me about my dad that how he never works and how he's the man and how he should be the one supporting the family. I agree and I know it's hard on my mom but I also know how incredibly hard it is on my dad. he's got that huge responsiblility and he's been trying to get jobs but when he gets them somethings always wrong,at the last one they tried paying him with fake checks and then they got shut down or something Anyways my mom,myself and my 2 brothers live with our grandpa (moms dad)and my dad lives with our grandma (his mom). It's temporary but present. always my aunts are always paying for my mom to have her eyebrows and hair done so she can "get out there" now I'm in high school,I know what that means I'm no retard. I know my father isn't the most perfect but he's my dad and I love him to death and can't imagine being without either of my parents,but my mom talks to horribly and constantly about my dad and even when I tell her to stop she doesn't and says she doesn't want me to think he's perfect. I don't know what to do because my dad doesn't answer hos phone and all I want to do is talk to him because it's been like 2 weeks ... we can only call from my moms and he ignores her number she's all she does is yell at him.

My mom's always too busy cleaning around the house, my dad is always too busy playing on his ipad and watching tv and I am always too busy doing my schoolwork. We do these 24/7 and don't talk much to each other unless we're joking or telling each other what to do. They are too busy to be happy I think..