Marriage & Divorce: Question: My husband almost hurt me for coming home late? |
- Question: My husband almost hurt me for coming home late?
- Question: What should i get my husband....?
- Question: Recently found out my boyfriend who I have a 1yr old with and live with is texting and talking to his ex.?
- Question: In a wedding, does it matter if the priest is certified?
- Question: Can you report a married person girl doing sugar daddy secretly?
- Question: What will be your beliefs if you ask your wife or partner where did you go? and her answer will None your business?
- Question: Does a man really loves his woman ask his ex back few months before he got married?
- Question: Girls can husbands lick their wives pussy, sniff their panties,?
- Question: Online dating sucks?
- Question: What should a wife do when she finds out her husband has been watching gay porn?and denies it. till you show him proof.?
- Question: How do you get a woman to respect you?
- Question: Girls can husband lick your pussy?
- Question: Dog was exposed to arguments between husband and wife. Now won t sit by either one of us and very distant. 6 year old Ciuweenie female?
- Question: Personal subject?
- Question: What does it mean to dream about getting married to your husband again?
- Question: Anyone else feel this way with forign bf/husband?
- Question: Is my wife a scammer?
- Question: Child support per Indiana guidelines?
- Question: Marriage - Emotional Connection Lost - Please Help!?
- Question: How come a man can marry another man but I can't marry chocolate. Cause I love chocolate?
- Question: I cant stop fantasizing about my wifes twin sister, please help.?
- Question: Are boudoir shoots worth it? Husbands and wives?
- Question: First love closure?
- Question: Have ever married someone just for the sex?
- Question: What's wrong with being a housewife?
- Question: What does your husband do that bothers/annoys you but that you don t want to tell him? Is it causing you to be less attracted to him?
- Question: If I feel I have outgrown him, what do you suggest I do?
- Question: How do you get married in california?
- Question: Child abandonment and support (California)?
- Question: Restraining Order No Contact Rules?
- Question: What kind of a relationship do I have?
- Question: My husband spends all our $ on motorcycles parts. Should sell my engagement ring to pay the bills?
- Question: What would you do?
- Question: I'm jealous of my husband's ex and it's driving me crazy!?
- Question: I found young teen pictures on my husbands phone and porn should I leave?
- Question: Husband's ex wife's ring?
- Question: My husband hits me, will I be selfish for leaving?
- Question: I want to about marriage equality for my law assignment.?
- Question: Ex wife (divorce 7 yrs), visitation rights.. and doesn't let me see my son. what can I do to see my son?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: Self-conscious newlywed?
- Question: Men only! Would you be ok with your wife hyphenating her name?
- Question: Divorce husband for being too sweet?
- Question: He's recently divorced... Doubts about us?
- Question: Can a child choose who has custody if they are over 13? (PLEASE READ BELOW INFORMATION)?
- Question: Can I just leave?
- Question: Was I wrong in this?
- Question: Should I divorce for someone else?
- Question: Best books on how to deal with your wife and marriage?
- Question: To move away or not to?
- Question: Would you ever speak to your spouse this way?
- Question: Ex-wife is hyper critical and over demanding/controlling?
- Question: Would you ask your spouse/significant other if it was ok to lend your vehicle to a so called friend?
- Question: Would you ever talk to your spouse this way?
- Question: What is the Divorce of Women from Montreal?
- Question: If my husband has been out of work for 2 months. shouldn't i expect help around the house instead of sleeping, video games and tv? i?
- Question: Friend of mine getting divorced and his ex wife is pregnant with a another man's baby once again. Will this delay it anymore?
- Question: Why so many women seem dissatisfied with marriage? What do they want from their husbands?
- Question: Why is my ex wife telling my two little girls lies?
| Question: My husband almost hurt me for coming home late? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 09:18 PM PDT My husband has PTSD which I try to understand and he does see a therapist. It doesn't interfere much in our daily life but occassionally, we have our moments. He owns a gun which has always been fine with me. We don't have kids yet, he keeps it in a secure place. I grew up with guns in my house and it always made me feel safe. The problem is whenever there is any strange noise from outside or somthing at night, he feels the need to check it out while carrying his gun. So last night, I got home late. I was away for work and had a flight delay. I texted him but he hadn't read it. I tried to be really quiet coming in so I wouldn't wake him. I kept the lights off and I thought I heard him so I called his name. He says oh it's you, sorry. I turned on the light and there he is with the gun! I said what the hell? Were you going to shoot me right now in my own house? Then he tries to tell me that I didn't announce my presence. I told him why I didn't and in any case I shouldn't have to because it's MY house too. I live there. Now I'm convinced that it's a bad idea for him to have a gun still. Either that or he seriously has to stop pulling it on the slightest suspicion that something is amiss. He tried to tell me I'm overreacting and he wouldn't have shot me, he would have looked, etc. and I'm infringing on his right to safety. I just don't know what to do. Is there a way I could force him to or should I trust him when he says he'll be better with it and give him a second chance? |
| Question: What should i get my husband....? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 09:16 PM PDT For fathers day i really want to get him something great, he works so hard everyday for me and my son. He is a great husband never goes out pretty much just work and home is where he is. Not that that is what makes a good husband he does things for me before i need them done always thinks ahead. But more than that he makes me feel like its ok to be myself that he is ok with who i am. I just want to get him something really great any ideas? He is 30 if that helps and he is an electrician but he can do just about anything and he loves things organized and clean. |
| Posted: 17 Jun 2015 09:14 PM PDT How do I confront him about this? He is away on a business trip and haven't told him I know he's been texting n talking to her. I just told him I suspect something because someone contacted me warning me about his behavior (I made it seem like it was her contacting me) but of course he denies it. How should I confront him? I am so confused and want answers which I don't think he'll give me. weve always struggled communicating. I'm a stay at home mom and sadly feel dependent upon him. Im not sure I I can get past this especially cus it was his ex. They have history which makes it worse. How should I cnfront him and by him to talk to me instead of denying it or turning it against me. I've had friends that have had similar outcomes. N where their spouse turned the affair against them by blaming them for their actions |
| Question: In a wedding, does it matter if the priest is certified? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 09:02 PM PDT When you are getting married, does it really matter if the priest is qualified or not? Because can t you just sign a paper that certifies you are married so it wont matter if the priest is married? Not getting married, just wondering. |
| Question: Can you report a married person girl doing sugar daddy secretly? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 08:33 PM PDT My wife hangout with a girlfriend who is married to excuse her husband to pretend hangout with my wife so she can meet her sugar daddy secretly because of the money. Should I report it her doing is wrong? |
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| Question: Does a man really loves his woman ask his ex back few months before he got married? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 07:40 PM PDT |
| Question: Girls can husbands lick their wives pussy, sniff their panties,? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 07:37 PM PDT |
| Question: Online dating sucks? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 07:26 PM PDT Well, I've met men in real life and I have great connections just sitting in a library somewhere. THEN I tried online dating and met at least 20 men from online. None of those online men did I even like. Is that weird or what? Is this normal? What is wrong? |
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| Question: How do you get a woman to respect you? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 06:55 PM PDT I don't advocate domestic violence, whether it is a man as the abuser or the woman as the abuser. How do you get respect from a woman that refuses to do so, even when you treat her right and be faithful? |
| Question: Girls can husband lick your pussy? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 06:51 PM PDT |
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| Posted: 17 Jun 2015 06:38 PM PDT My parents are in the middle of a divorce and my dad wants to move back in, except I don't want him to. How do I tell him no nicely? |
| Question: What does it mean to dream about getting married to your husband again? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 06:26 PM PDT I have been dreaming about getting married to my husband again he is wearing white and so was I also the date is February 18 2018 at 6 and it ends at 11... |
| Question: Anyone else feel this way with forign bf/husband? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 06:13 PM PDT I like chinese and i try to learn it myself but whenever he talks it on the phone i just find it so annoying. I never find it annoying in person though or anyone else speaking chinese on phone so maybe its just his voice lol. Obviously this is just a silly annoyance just wonder if anyone else thought this with theirs? |
| Question: Is my wife a scammer? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 05:41 PM PDT We dated for two years and we got married in the Philippines back in March of this year. She quit her job because I would pay all her bills I assumed. That made me uncomfortable and I told her to get a job so she would not depend on me entirely. At first we agreed to me sending $300.00 dollars a month but now some stuff has come up and I will only be able to send $200.00. When I told her she got real aggressive and said I forgot my obligations to her. Am I overreacting? Thank you all |
| Question: Child support per Indiana guidelines? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 05:02 PM PDT Yes we do have a lawyer, however we have not went to court yet. Here's the question, my husband has been paying "x" amount in child support. Both him and his ex are going to court to modify parenting time. Back at the time of filing, due to costs of preschool as well as his income and her income. Now that summer is here and their child will be in preschool, the ex will no longer be paying those childcare costs and based on current and future daycare costs, the child support would just stay the same. So, my question is how would a judge resolve this. Would they go by current costs or back to the time of filing? |
| Question: Marriage - Emotional Connection Lost - Please Help!? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 04:32 PM PDT My wife of 16 years recently came to me and said that we didn't have an emotional connection and she couldn't take it anymore. She said that I had better learn to get in touch with my emotions fast and create an emotional connection or else our marriage would be over. Unfortunately I have no idea what she's talking about. I have tried getting some books and searching the internet but I haven't found anything useful yet. I find plenty of articles that talk about how people lost their emotional connection and needed to get it back. But I still don't really know why I need to get in touch with my emotions, or what that even means. Certainly I already feel happy, sad, angry and frustrated from time to time just like anyone else. So, what does she mean? And how do I create an emotional connection with her? If you could point me to any websites or books or videos or your own experience overcoming this or anything that could help I would really appreciate it! I need to find a way to make sense of this and fix it for the sake of our marriage and 3 children. |
| Question: How come a man can marry another man but I can't marry chocolate. Cause I love chocolate? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 03:49 PM PDT |
| Question: I cant stop fantasizing about my wifes twin sister, please help.? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 03:28 PM PDT |
| Question: Are boudoir shoots worth it? Husbands and wives? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 03:22 PM PDT My husbands birthday is coming up and I wanted to do a boudoir shoot for him. Is it worth it though? Despite the awkwardnes. Lol thanks in advance! |
| Posted: 17 Jun 2015 03:12 PM PDT I am happily married but I also remember my first love. I never really got closure from her. She dumped me a few times and blamed me for everything Her last reason for leaving was because she felt I didn t love her. Maybe it was her clinically depression... i dunno. I contacted her a year later and she kept telling me how great her and her new bf are.. I got the point and stepped out. She is now married to that guy.. I moved on and found a wonderful girl and married her. From time to time my ex comes point into my mind. I as wondering if it s bad that I tell my wife that I wanted to contact her. Not for any alterior motive... but just to say hi and I wish u well and talk about my life with my new family... then be on my way. I feel like apart of me feels like if I did this then I can give myself a bit of closure and hope my wife would understand as I want to release myself and be a better man and husband. But at the same time maybe it wouldn t do anything but cause problems? I ll always find my first love special |
| Question: Have ever married someone just for the sex? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 03:11 PM PDT |
| Question: What's wrong with being a housewife? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 02:58 PM PDT I am a 25 year old housewife and people are always judging me for my job and belifes. Why are people upset with the idea of being a good godly woman? I put a picture of myself for fun lol it was thanksgiving! What's your opinion on homemakers and housewives? By the way I have 2 little girls and have been married for 3 years. |
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| Question: If I feel I have outgrown him, what do you suggest I do? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 02:22 PM PDT We have been together for over 5 years, married for just over 1. I am 21, he is 23. I feel like I have outgrown him and his immature ways. For years, I have helped him grow and advance in his life. I pushed him to get a good job, get his license, and create goals for himself. I used to be so deep in love with him, and surrounded my life around him. Now I feel like I love him, but not in a romantic way. Right now in my life, I want to concentrate on myself and my goals and what I want. I do not want to be in any type of domestic relationship. I don't want to be cuddled or held by him or anyone. In the past year he has really improved himself. Its very weird how I feel. I used to want to be that "perfect" wife but now I see that it's all not what it appears to be and I want to be free and not have to answer to anyone. Financially he has really but a strain on me for years but I always stuck by his side, even when he just walked off his job without having another one to fall back on. I don't want any man in my life ruining what I have tried so hard to build up, and that's what he has done to me so many times. I have certainly changed, to the point where I no longer feel compatible with him. I just don't know where to go from here. Try to make it work and figure out what is it that I need to do to fall back in love? When he makes mention of our future, I can't help but cringe inside. |
| Question: How do you get married in california? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 02:11 PM PDT I know you need a marriage licence. Thats about the limit of my knowledge. What do you do with the licence. Like once you can drive this marriage vehicle. Where do you go to get actually married. Or is the licence the marriage. How does getting married work? |
| Question: Child abandonment and support (California)? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 02:11 PM PDT So my husband and I have been married for 14 years,he has a child with another. However he has never seen the child but is mandated to pay support for the child since a year after her birth. He is also not named on the birth certificate. Said child was to be placed up for adoption after the birth but when she found out he was never going to go back to her she filed for child support a year later. He has never even seen her, the mother keeps her tucked away from us and his family. And a few years ago she filed for sole custody and parental abandonment, but he still pays child support. What more can he do to be done with this crazy chick and be done with it forever ( in California) She has told us one thing and done another, she get child support and still asks for more money and she get money for the kid from her ex husband who the child thinks is her father ( still not seeing the child) She at one time asked his family for an outrageous amount of money. She has done nothing to work with us ever!!! We had a visitation agreement and she did not honor the court agreement, after years and years of run around from her. We have kids together and he hasn't left me! |
| Question: Restraining Order No Contact Rules? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 02:11 PM PDT My ex-wife and I separated 3 years ago. It was a bitter break up to say the least. She wasn t ready for the relationship to be over and I was. On separating she threatened to take everything from me and leave me on the streets. She pretty much got what she wanted. To top it off she also put a restraining order on me to keep me away from her and the kids. It was suppose to be only for a couple of years and last month when we went to court the judge granted her a permanent restraining order. I was devastated. I waited this long to finally be able to reach out to my kids and now that hope is gone. We have 3 kids and the oldest will turn 18 in just a few months. I have such an urge to reach out to him and finally have some sort of contact. However I don t want to get in any legal problems for doing so. I just miss my kids. Will I be able to contact him being that he will be 18 and considered an adult. Mind you I never abused my ex-wife or kids. It was just a rough divorce where my ex-wife was angry for me not wanting to stay in our 12 yr marriage. So she lied to her attorneys and the court to make herself a victim. I pay child support and spousal support. It s heartbreaking that after everything I can t even see my kids. That s really all I want. Any answers are welcomed. Thank You. I am in the state of California And I came on here asking for advice. After tons of money spent on attorneys and paralegals I feel as though I am stuck. If your answer is not advice on my legal issue please keep your negative comments to yourself. I NEVER physically or mentally abused my children or their mother. Ever heard the saying "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" well its true and I am dealing with it. So please take your cyberbullying elsewhere. To all those who actually want to help I appreciate it and thank you. |
| Question: What kind of a relationship do I have? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 01:49 PM PDT I am 25 and my husband is 31 years old we have been married for 3 years and have 2 girls! My husband is a manager and makes 100k a year and I don't work outside the home. We are by no means rich AT ALL but we don't struggle to pay the bills. We live in Tallahassee FL and got a great deal on a house in a gated community for only 350k! We did 30k in to renovations and put down 40k. Are kids go to public school and love it! I make EVERYTHING nearly from scratch (bread,granola,ice cream and even bullion from scratch these are some examples.) My husband works LONG hours and tracked one week out of a month for a seminar in Tampa. I was just wondering what I would be considered in today's society. We plan to have one more child by the way...I'm so Excited!!! |
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| Posted: 17 Jun 2015 01:11 PM PDT Your spouse: Makes up fights to go out Lies Tell you there's the door, no one is stopping you Gives you a hard time about $ Has a hot temper Call you names Make their assistant their best friend Find texts that could indicate there might have been a affair, but no hard evidence When you decide you've had enough, you leave, they talk you into coming back and they totally change a new leaf Would you still leave again if you've lost all love and trust Btw, the list above is just the tip of the iceberg and your spouse is in serious debt. You've been married for over 20 years spending your life forgiving |
| Question: I'm jealous of my husband's ex and it's driving me crazy!? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 12:20 PM PDT First let me fill you in on their marriage. Married for 20 years, 3 kids, and she cheated on him for all 20 years. I am baffled at why he would reward her with new cars, houses and even new boobs! Finally he saw something on their computer and told her to stop or leave and if you leave don't come back. First of all, that was giving her a choice which means he was willing to stay with her but she really left for good. She married the guy she was cheating with. He eventually cheated on her and kicked her out. What does she do? Start calling my husband! And he answers her! Even after I told him to stop! He said I was obsessed with her until another female coworker told him he was wrong and that he should only answer to his present wife (kids are all grown). Now there is a grandchild envolved so now I am even more jealous because now he has contact with the ex. If I ever make a crack about her being a horrible Mom or whatever, he will never say anything bad about her. I am now supposed to keep my feelings to myself because he doesn't want to hear them. UGH! |
| Question: I found young teen pictures on my husbands phone and porn should I leave? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 10:32 AM PDT |
| Question: Husband's ex wife's ring? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 10:07 AM PDT My husband and I recently found his ex wife's anniversary ring that she had stuffed in his suit pocket. I suggested that we pawn it, but it is a beautiful ring and I'm sure we won't get close to its value. What should I do with it? Keep it? Pawn it? Just to clarify, this is an anniversary ring. He bought it. For her. She didn't want the ring to begin with. So, the ring is not going back to her. Hopefully this helps... |
| Question: My husband hits me, will I be selfish for leaving? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 09:41 AM PDT I've been with my husband for 15 years and I am only 32 we have a 14 year old daughter and a 9 year old son. He started hitting me after only being together for a year, I had just had my daughter she was about 8 months so my girlfriends took me out our designated driver got waisted and we feel asleep. I DIDNT CALL. He called me at 3:00am screaming at me. He came to pick me up I was still drunk once in the car and doing 90 on the freeway he reached over and slapped me with his back hand twice splitting my lip. He never apologized for it, in fact he said he would it again if I ever disrespect him. He's hit me uncountable times since then including during my second pregnancy. I NEVER had a black eye, we both became very successful and be never wanted our secret to get out. He would punch me my stomach, on my back,legs and arm anywhere I could cover up bruises. Once we where at a family Christmas party, we got into some kind of argument when he asked to speak to me in private. I knew that was code for I'm going to hurt you. Once we where in the room he held me down and hit me several times. He stayed with me until I stopped crying he in fact made me go into the bathroom reapply my make up and practice smiling so no one would know I was in pain, after I could convince him I was happy we rejoined the party. I don't know if I should leave he wants us to go to counseling separately. |
| Question: I want to about marriage equality for my law assignment.? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 09:33 AM PDT I want to about marriage equality for my law assignment. how to make it strong and relate to law ? *same sex marriage is banned in my country. *sorry for my bad english Thank You :) |
| Posted: 17 Jun 2015 08:55 AM PDT I believe it's a jealousy issue due to that I've moved on and she hasn't.. my son has been getting more distant since she restricts the communication with me and my family.. he use to come every weekend as we agreed. I have heard from many family members and witness myself the trash talking she's doing, my son hears it and believes it. I talk to him when she allows it. I am trying my best to not take this to court.. what teen wants to spend his teen yrs in court? |
| Posted: 17 Jun 2015 08:37 AM PDT Last night my husband was making love to me and I saw our 17 year old son watching with the door cracked open. He watched the whole time and I did not tell my husband. This morning my son was looking at me lustfully... |
| Question: Self-conscious newlywed? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 08:34 AM PDT My husband keeps saying how morning sex is such a turn on for him, but I fully admit I look like crap in the morning- morning breath, no makeup, hair all a mess- which prevents me from getting myself in the mood. What am I missing here? How is this appealing to anyone? Do others get up and prep (you know, brush your teeth and pee) before climbing back to bed for some action or am I just supposed to be gross and roll over? |
| Question: Men only! Would you be ok with your wife hyphenating her name? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 08:31 AM PDT Men only please. Female opinions are biest. Would you be alright with your wife hyphenating her name after marriage. It's kinda bothering me because no women I know has did this, but mine wants to. |
| Question: Divorce husband for being too sweet? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 08:13 AM PDT The husband of my friend is a really sweet guy. He isn't uber nice like a pushover. Basically he always wanted to be with a great girl, listen to what she had to say, and support her. He met my friend and they started dating and eventually married. She loved the guy at first, but I guess over time her tastes changed? So out of the blue she filed for divorce after only a year together. The poor guy was devastated and my friend is going around telling people how much of a wimp he is. Apparently my friend wanted him to become more aggressive like most guys. Like get into fights, yell, maybe get a little violent with her. Beat other people to defend her. Get arrested. WTF? Supposedly her now ex husband was always open minded and aware of people's feelings, kinda like a pacifist. Never wanted to get into conflicts. I've caught the guy Anyways is it normal for women to divorce their husbands for being kindhearted and thoughtful? Honestly my friend sounds really dumb and shallow. In my rambling I meant to say I caught the guy looking depressed and he's saying he's giving up? That he realizes he isn't worth it. |
| Question: He's recently divorced... Doubts about us? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 07:50 AM PDT I have been dating a wonderful guy for the past 4 months. Everything was going great. We are in love. He is recently divorced. He had been separated since last summer moved out in September, divorce final last month. She left him (cheated on him). They have 5yr old daughter. When we met he told me he was separated. I had reservations. I asked him several times if he was sure he was ready. He said he was. He had grieved the marriage. He said he was falling for me & wanted to see where it went. I really liked him so I took the chance. We got exclusive right away. Very recently he dropped the bombshell that he was having doubts. He mentioned differences I had from his ex. That he was worried that he wasn't feeling a 'she's the one ' moment yet. That what if we fall even more in love & it doesn't work out. A million scenarios that ended with us getting hurt. Just a few weeks before he was saying how much he loves me & how much a catch I am. I'm confused & hurt by the information he brought to me. I'm also freaked out because we are so new I'm not sure if he's the one yet either. I was just taking this as it came day by day & enjoying dating. I'm wondering if he is freaking bc his divorce became final. Should I end it ... Give him space? |
| Question: Can a child choose who has custody if they are over 13? (PLEASE READ BELOW INFORMATION)? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 07:44 AM PDT My friends father has 50/50 custody of him but he isn't a positive influence on him (ie. Emotionally abusing him). Also his father's girlfriend also emotionally abuses. On the other hand his mom is a positive influence who has been a much better role model than the father. So my question is is there a way that her mom could get complete custody of him or would this not be possible. |
| Posted: 17 Jun 2015 07:41 AM PDT My wife and I are miserable together. This is her third marriage, my first. I've suggested counseling, but since neither of us are willing to change, we are just going to delay the inevitable. I just want to disappear because I am so tired of fighting. I avoid her and don't talk about anything in order to avoid saying something to set her off. This, of course, makes her angry. We can't even have a discussion anymore. I've had enough and just want out. She is a corporate big-salary manager and makes 10x what I do. I don't want her $, can't afford a lawyer, and want out. She has the resources to pay a Lawyer to take the shirt off my back, which is all I have to my name. I honestly feel it would be best for me to just leave and (run away). |
| Question: Was I wrong in this? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 07:15 AM PDT My wife has this annoying habit that I've asked her to stop and she just refuses to try. When she takes her morning shower she'll grab the toothpaste off the sink and the mouthwash off the shelf and put it in the shower with her. When she's done she'll put those items back where they belong but they're dripping wet at that point. She won't wipe them down so that when the next person goes into the bathroom the are always grabbing a wet bottle of wet tube of toothpaste. I've ask her to at least wipe it down and she just won't do it. This morning she did it again and when I noticed it I took the bottle into our bedroom and used her towel to wipe it down. She became angry with me for doing that. Another habit she does is like everyone else in the house when they take a shower we usually just throw our damp towels over the shower rod to air dry. My wife will bring her damp towel in the bedroom and drape it over my desk chair to dry cause she doesn't want her towel in the bathroom with everyone else. This has been a battle I've been fighting with her for years and she refuses to change. What can I do? Was I wrong to dry the mouthwash bottle with her towel? One thing I've always said is that if a man does something a woman doesn't like then he's expected to change it immediately but if he has a problem with something she's doing he's just supposed to live with it. |
| Question: Should I divorce for someone else? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 07:10 AM PDT I've been married two years, and thinking of divorce because of how my husband treats me. Like dirt. He bullies me, takes my paychecks, controls use of the car, and scares away my family and friends by acting like a monster around them. He is emotionally abusive, and I feel like I need out of the marriage.... And just when I moved out of his apartment, a long time friend kind of stepped up and starting taking care of me. Giving me rides, paying for food, making sure I have everything I need and am comfortable. I have developed feelings for this friend, and now I am scared that these feelings might be having an influence on if I should go back and give my husband another chance, or continue with the divorce. The friend says I have to make my own choice, but he doesn't think i will go back to an abusive man. My husband is begging for another chance, but I would rather be alone then abused, and my friend is willing to be by my side while I get therapy and take time to myself before he would consider having a serious relationship with me. It's all very confusing... and scary. |
| Question: Best books on how to deal with your wife and marriage? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 06:09 AM PDT Hey guys, i really need help i am planning to emabark on a reading mission to read as many books as i can that will help my relationship with my wife and improve our marriage basically. Please suggest the best books you think are good. Thank you in advance. |
| Question: To move away or not to? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 05:56 AM PDT I am a 23 year old single mom currently living with my parents in Chicago. I got pregnant by my best friend of 12 years brother. Her family was like a second family to me and once I fell pregnant it was like I was a stranger to them . Everyone stopped speaking to me within our group and she ended our friendship. Her brother said he did not think it would work out between us, but wanted to be there for the baby. He was absent most of the pregnancy and my best friend not once contacted me asking how I was doing. Now my daughter is here and he is around and a really good dad. My best friend and I talked and she still does not want to be friends Becuase of the potential of this situation going wrong. Her brother still does not want any sort of relationship with me, but still wants to be an active dad which is great. I thought everything would get better when the baby was here, but it's gotten harder. I feel like a stranger to their family and the group of people in general we all hung around with. I am still never invited anywhere and none of them talk to me anymore but they want to see my daughter. I feel so depressed and alone here and I want to be able to move on and start fresh. I got accepted into university of South Carolina, but I feel bad taking my daughter away from her dad and my family. I just don't see myself moving on if I stay here surrounded by people who kicked me out of their lives. All I want is to be happy for my daughter and to build a life for us. |
| Question: Would you ever speak to your spouse this way? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 05:05 AM PDT |
| Question: Ex-wife is hyper critical and over demanding/controlling? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 04:57 AM PDT We were together for 17 years. I moved states for my wife's career away from my family and friends. We have two kids. She came home crying from work one day and said she emotionally connected with a co-worker. I tried to get her to go to therapy. She went, but didn't participate...acted like she didn't want to be there. She divorced me. We have joint custody, but I tend to have the kids 60-70% of the time. Its been 2.5 years since the divorce. The guy from her work dumped her 8 months ago. I'm like the best ex husband. I continue to take the kids to all doctor's appointments and handle getting all prescriptions filled. For dropping off or picking up the kids stuff between houses, I drive to her house 8 out of 10 times. She hasn't thrown the kids a birthday party yet. I continue to throw them at my house and invite her. She rarely shows. I have no girlfriend and haven't been on a single date since the divorce so that isn't an issue. I took our daughter to the drive-in and invited her and our son to go...she declined. I'm living in our marital home to try to give some stability to the kids. Its too big for me and I'm barely making it financially. Yesterday, she came over to drop something off for the kids and she complained about the state of the house. She complained that I take the kids to too many movies and they have seen all the blockbusters so she can't take them. She complained that she wants furniture in our home. What do I do? |
| Posted: 17 Jun 2015 04:15 AM PDT If it took away your spouse s transportation would you bother asking them to make sure it was ok and if they needed the vehicle for anything before just lending it out? |
| Question: Would you ever talk to your spouse this way? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 03:44 AM PDT |
| Question: What is the Divorce of Women from Montreal? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 03:38 AM PDT What is the Divorce rate of Women from Montreal? Edit What is the Divorce rate of Women from Montreal? |
| Posted: 17 Jun 2015 03:22 AM PDT My husband was layed off 2 months ago and all he wants to do is NOTHING. I don't know if he feels he deserves this break but i go to work 40+ hours a week in a very dangerous job. I would love help around the house but he ignores my needs. I have to come home and pick up after him. On my days off i'm cleaning house while he actually goes off to play golf or to outings with friends. I get dirty looks when i ask him to do simple chores like putting the toilet seat down and get worse looks when i serve microwave dinners(in a blue moon) because of my work schedule. I can't do everything. What do I do ? |
| Posted: 17 Jun 2015 01:32 AM PDT Our state is Kentucky first off. Ok, so I have this friend who was married for three years to his ex,and they have been legally separated for two years and have been in the divorce process for that long as well. The reason why is that she is a huge cheater and has cheated on him with over 40 different men and even got pregnant by one of them. The courts have not finalized the divorce even after the paternity testing that proved the baby wasn't his. In order for them to grant the divorce, they had to find out who the baby dad was and they found out about a month over. This past weekend, they found out she is pregnant AGAIN by another guy, and then she signed the final divorce papers just recently before she knew. The divorce is just a couple weeks away from being final. The papers have been sent off and my friend is waiting to sign them. My question is, Will this second pregnancy of hers delay it even longer or will they look over it since she has done this before? She has lied in court as well. She has also been stalking him and harassing his family and friends through texts and over facebook. |
| Question: Why so many women seem dissatisfied with marriage? What do they want from their husbands? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 01:26 AM PDT |
| Question: Why is my ex wife telling my two little girls lies? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 01:23 AM PDT Why can someone be so cruel and evil to teach their own children to hate on others. She left me but it was her choice. Now she trying to get me to pay child support and working her way to make me stay away from my two little girls. I only have Sundays visitation for an hour with my babies. And they changed alot. Things I would ask is how's school, what u planning to do on ur birthday, and so on they would reply back mommy says we can't tell you nothing. Then next thing u hear is mommy says u like aunty Thats why were separated. I can't believe what I'm hearing from my own ears. I wish I can do something about it. She is teaching my girls to hate on the people who cared and always have love them from bad to good. Now I'm hoping for some advices or ideas what step I should take next. I wish to get my two girls to be with me. She filed restraint order against me but that's only for her. How can I get more time with my two girls or Msybe even having them back with me. Anything helps alot Thank u |
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