I told my friend to apologise to one of our mutual friends because she took a cheating boyfriend back and she did exactly the sane thing yet she cut our friend off because of it. Saying she doesn't want to be around him because he's a cheat. I also told her not to be a hypocrite and that both their boyfriend should be dumped. I noticed she has thrown a lot of stuff back in my face about my ex who I broke up with last month. I used to take her advice, she used to say my expectations were too high until I just did not recognise myself in the relationship anymore. I'm just tired of letting myself be a victim. I'm making changes &I feel that she just doesn't want me to seem 'better than her' for cutting my loses. After this whole thing, she seems to have made up with our mutual friend as i see pictures of them out and about. Usually she invites me everywhere, now she hardly speaks to me. We are both outspoken and tell eachother the truth but now I'm seeing that since I have given her the talk she's been off... I dont know what to make of it, is she mad or is it just that she knows I'm right and shes avoiding me?

I don't have sex with the same people my friends have had sex with. I'm not comfortable with and think its pretty uncool. Even if they're okay with it, I'm not. I have these two friends who used to have sex but now one of them wants to have sex with me and I told him no. Like is that wrong?

So I was wondering if I should view this as we are just acquaintance or friends? I'm a young woman and she is older then me like 35+ years older. I've know her for almost 2 yrs now. She has been a big support to me with Goin into motherhood& just being there for me when I have bad days . I met her at her work&I've asked her to lunch before but she said because I was her client she can't because of a work policy. but it's been a year and a half since I've been her client and I don't even use their services anymore. but she says she wants to keep in touch&watch my 2 young sons grow up she's known my 1st son since 2 weeks old & my second she was with me the whole pregnancy Etc. I only have her work cell phone number that I text her pictures of my sons or when I'm down but I try not to bother her. but I really try to see her every week at her work that's the only time I would get to see her usually I would just sit in her office &we would talk and she would play with my sons for 15-20 minutes and then I would leave and that's about it this last couple times ago she asked if I wanted to go for a walk around her work building&we did two laps around it and talk and when I saw her just this week she was having a bad day but she blew a kiss and kind of waved her hand when I was getting ready to leave what does that mean? I've expressed in notes and cards that I'm happy we are friends but she really doesn't say nothing other than thank you. would you say we are friends?

So I have these two "best friends", lets just call them... um... Rachel and Jessie. They're way prettier than me. And people ask me questions about them all the time. I'm basically the DUFF. Anywayf it. I know it was on purpose. I'm just really pissed off. Jessie just thinks she's better than everyone else because she's pretty. She says she has depression, um yeah, right. She's also really boring. I mean, REALLY boring. She's also had a ton of boyfriends this year. Anyways, today was Field Day, and I was with Rachel and Jessie. So Rachel took a selfie with me and Jessie and then she uploaded on Instagram. Then Jessie uploaded the same photo, and cut me out of it. I know it was on purpose. I'm just really pissed off. I'm just pissed off at Jessie, it's super embarrassing too because Rachel and Jessie both uploaded the pic today so everyone that saw the pics probably noticed how I'm not in Jessie's pic. Should I block her or just never talk to her irl?? I'll probably just do both. I'm thirteen btw. I probably sound overdramatic but this is the last straw. Tomorrows the last day of school anyways so whateves. AND NO THEIR NAMES ARE NOT ACTUALLY RACHEL AND JESSIE [

My "friend" that i made in 9th grade borrowed my phone during 7th period to contact her mom, and I gave it to her because it was the last class of the day and we met up in the student parking lot for her to give it back to me. I got home after track practice and 3 of my friends started ganging up on me asking why i made a hate instagram account about this girl Kristie at school. I honestly had no idea what they were talking about because I'm not even allowed to have my own instagram account (My mom doesn't think its safe). This account was screenshot and forwarded to everyone at school and it pretty much just said she was a wh*re and sl*t. I tried to explain that I had NOTHING to do with that damn account but nobody believed me!! I mean i could understand why they don't because it was made on my phone by my "friend" but she played dumb and wouldn't admit to it. Now everyone hates me, and I don't have anymore friends (Not even the ones i met in kindergarten) People are calling me names and want me to kill myself , and i just can't take it. I'm scared to start my sophomore year because people are going to hate me and keep this account situation alive. I really don't want to get jumped or anything. How can I not let this effect me next school year so I can make new friends and not be lonely? I've never dealt with being hated by so many people, and I'm not so sure I can deal with it much longer :(

This guy is always puts me second in group convos .. Like lets say everyone's talking , he"ll just be like how so and so is his friend and then be like and (my name) too . Or he"ll be like this person is this and (my name too) but the thing is I don't know why he says this .. Like the first day I met him he would be like how this girl was his best friend and me too and I could not tell if he was be offensive or being funny . I just took it as funny and went about my day . He stares at me sometimes and usually would say hey once in awhile . Also he pops up where I'm at sometimes . He used to make jokes about my name and stuff like that . He once put one arm on me and another girl and then took his arm off me .. Tbh it was weird and awkward . He's touchy with everyone .. I felt cheap when he put his arms around us both but felt better when he took his arm of me .. The thing is I don't talk to him like that .. In fact I don't understand why he does half the things he does but I feel a connection with him that's weird .. Felt it the first day I met him . It was like I knew him for a long time but in reality just met him .

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I mean I know it makes her happy but it makes me so miserable and I'm her best friend and I even asked and talked to her about being uncomfortable when she talks about and asked if she could talk about it less. She nodded and was acting all nice and understanding about it then in English class I hear her say to another girl, rather loudly I might add, 'Who's she to tell me what i cab and can not talk about!? F**k her she needs to shut her f***ing mouth!' Even though I was super polite about it... I mean it's not my fault I don't like a bunch of immaculate guys dancing without any variation and auto tune you can hear from a mile away! I just don't! She can't change my opinion on them! If shutting YOUR mouth for 5 friggin seconds about Kpop is soo hard then fine! Talk to somebody who actually likes it! Oh wait, NOBODY in our school does!! She's not even Korean!! Always yelling out words in Korean and asking people on Flinch if they like Kpop and Koreans and the word Aego(idek of I spelled it right and frankly I don't care) is not making me like it. It's making me hate it more! She's like "Blue there's this new band that debuted and they sing so GOOD!! And in Boys over Flowers this happened"AND I DON'T CARE AT ALL!! It's so ANNOYING!! I just want to rip my friggin ears off it's so just DUMB to me. She really likes them but she knows I don't but she's still putting me through this, this TORTURE! I need help on how to get it through her thick Kpop skull that I'm unhappy!

I'm 15 and recently have found myself placing my happiness into the hands of other people which I realize is a bad habit. I compare my social life to others especially my friend who has around 30 other friends. I just feel like if I go a day without contacting at least one of my friends it makes me kind of depressed and I only have one friend who contacts me first out of all of the 7 people I talk to. How can I be happy without other people?

This kid I have known for over 2 years annoys me every day. He always talks about my sister and whispers about everything. Also he is always talking about my chipped tooth that nobody else even sees. I would beat him up but I don't wanna get suspended. When I say shut up he ignores it and keeps talking. Please help me!

I recently volunteered at a homeless shelter along with a few members of my family and they did nothing but talk crap about the people there and said how disgusting it was. I was upset because its rude of them to say all of that stuff like what if you were in that situation you wouldn't like being called that stuff. I'd just like to know what I should say or do to them ?

She has asked me before.but I said only as a friend. But clearly didnt believe Me should I have told the truth the first time

I won two tickets to a music festival but I had to do a bunch of stuff to win them... Should I give one to my best friend who did nothing to win them or sell them? They're selling for over $400. I don't want to go to the festival alone since I'm young but then again I don't think my friends deserves the ticket. What should I do??

When I was younger I had ADHD which messed me up and made me really weird and socially awkward. Now my only friends are kids that spend their entire lives playing video games. I really want good friends were we would hangout with each other and go out to places but I feel that my reputation will make them not like me. Help!

I'm always the one to reach out to them and say hi. If we text, I'm the one having to carry the conversation or else it just ends abruptly. I noticed this a few years ago. So I slowly cut off communication with them. Every 6 months to a year I'll get bored and have no one to hang out with so I'll think maybe this time will be better, but it never is. They never seem interested. Should I just give up and find new friends?

I've recently started summer school, I'm going to start freshman year in the fall, and I've come into contact with some kids from elementary. And they want to start things right where we left off. You see in elementary I was an outcast. I got along okay with other people and I wasn't weird or anything from what I understood. But I ended up hanging out with the other outcasts who in without any disrespect kind of weird. Some were just confident in their weirdness which is okay but others were antisocial jerks. But I tried to be kind and we hung out during recess and lunch. But then I didn't go to the designated middle school with everyone else in school and I lived pretty far from anyone from my elementary so I was all alone entering 7th grade. But that turned out to be an awesome experience. I was in yearbook, ASB, lost weight, joined cross country, joined basketball, got voted best all around, voted to speak at promotion, and made a lot of really great friends. Friends that weren't passive aggressive and forcefully antisocial. Really great friends who I shared interests and bonded with. So now I started summer school and I'm hanging out with my friends and having a good time. But then that kid I ran into wants to start things off again where they left off with all my old friends and I can already see where Im heading into and I just don't think I can handle that. I don't want to be mean but i can see now they weren't good for me. And I don't know how to confront this

Hi guys, so I just started college, away from home and my bestest friends. I kept crying because I miss them all so much. i can't accept the fact that I'm no longer in high school. I am so depressed. i am currently studying BS NURSING here in the Philippines.

Someone from Florida pranked called me and when I asked my cousin who is also in Florida I asked did he pranked call me he said no should I be worrying about this

My mom and grandma are curious about who I am talking to over the Internet with Skype or Kik. To be honest it's annoying. They are my age in fact. My parents don't like me talking to "strangers" I get where they are coming from but I've known most of these people for years and have gotten to known them on my own time but my grandma still won't listen. My grandma believes that I'm setting myself up for kidnap or such. Any suggestions of how to fix this?

A lot of my friends honestly don't see real to me. For example. My supposive best friend. I text her about something. She answers simply and then goes onto talking about anime or such, which she knows I hate. I mean good for her honestly but I hate it and I'm tired of hearing about anime this and anime that. LIKE HOLD UP AND STOP FANGIRLING. My other friends also love different things that I despise greatly such as doctor who and it's mainly because I'm just not into those things and it's all they speak about. I'm happy they find something they enjoy.. But why can't we talk about something I like for once? I don't see them as real friends. My best friend went through tough times and I'm going through them now and I've told her about it but she still ignores it and talks about anime. I never really reply back because I don't want to be rude to her. I suppose I have no real friends?

5 years ago my ex boyfriend left me for my ex best friend. They MADE SURE I felt awful about it. They turned all our friends against me. Everyone ganged up on me. Because my sweet little angel of a friend couldn't cause no harm. They made my life miserable. Fast forwarding to today, I ran into at a party. They tried talking to me. They're still together which hurts me so much... I still haven't gotten over it. I loved both of them so much and they hurt me. They asked for forgiveness and said our past was just "high school drama". But I don't see it as that. They ruined me. Everytime I look at them it hurts and I hate to admit that... I feel stupid to let myself get like this. What do I do? Is the best way to move on is my forgiving them? They treated me so bad though :/ Ugh. My other friends also asked forgiveness and claim that they miss me and want to be friends again. It's like they don't remember the awful things they said and did to me. It was just "high school drama".

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Bear with me. This is a long description. If you read through it all, thank you. I was friends with someone I've met online for three years. I recently called off the friendship because I have built up so many feelings for that person that it's too emotionally difficult for me to remain long distance friends. We skyped, phoned, and I even talked to his family so I can at least confirm that the person is legitimate. I am already regretting my decision to cut this person out of my life. I miss my friend and it's difficult to imagine life without this person. I know this sounds extreme, but it was a connection with this person that I've never had with anyone else and will never have with anyone else. I really, really wanted to meet but this person refused. We'd make vague plans and then this person would flake. This person expressed romantic feelings and lots of support and friendliness. We helped each other through difficult times in our lives. Do you think this person just wanted someone there to talk to and have an emotional connection with instead of a real-life friend in me and that's why we haven't met yet? I mean, it's been three years. Was I being naive?

I have social anxiety and no high school friends aren t I lucky if you have any advice I would appreciate it thank you 😃

I was walking on the street with my friend until I had a powerful random erection. My friend just stood their and said "mmmm, I want that d." What could he mean by this?

i've known my friend for a year and a half and i'm 100% sure she's not some pedophile. we live in different continents but i'm vacationing in the country she lives in and i want to fly to her city and meet her. how can i ask my mom about it? she doesn't know i have internet friends. p.s: i'm underage but i have my parents' legal consent to travel on my own

Just because they are with another friend? What if they friend you are texting texts while they are with you? But doesn't text you when they are with someone else? Who is more rude? The person texting or the one who doesn't text back just because they are hanging out with someone you even know?

i am having a birthday party and including me there r 4 girls and 1 boy the boy said he doesnt mind but i booked 6 and my friend cant go and he knows i like him but hes really nice just a bit awkward should i invite him and if he cant how will i stop it from being awkward

I used to have a friend that would stir things up literally for no reason. She loved to create scenarios where she is a "victim" and the other person is the crazy person even when there is no basis to even have conflict. For example, she made up that her mom is abusive when in fact it's the opposite- She physically hurt her mother and her mom got a restraining order against her. So, really the mom is the victim. All of the other children love their mom and she is the only one who hates her and makes up stories of her being abusive. This girl also does this with her friendships. She always fabricates stories and makes other people out to be crazy, mean, and herself a constant victim. Why would someone act this way?

I decided to go back to school to finish my degree. Once I started going to school, my friends started to fade away? What happened? Some of them have kids and/or working.

My friend wrote all over my project in pen and i got a small dot on her. and she went hme and had her mom call the principle and he called my mom saying that i took black sharpie and drew all over her face i need advice on explaining it was her not me.

okay so I am 14 and me and my best friend need some crazy and fun things to do over summer break. Not things like throw a pool party etc. but things like skinny dipping, streaking, and sneaking out of the house at 3am not to go far but just to be able to say we have sneak out. ALSO IT NEEDS TO BE ABLE TO BE DONE WITHOUT A CAR AND HAS TO BE LEGAL!

I realized 3 months ago that I'm in love with him, but it's unrequited. So I can: a) make him uncomfortable by telling him honestly, b) keep it a secret and feel guilty/jealous of his partners, or c) distance myself long enough to move on and hope our friendship still lasts. Which option is best? Leo, I'm quite sure he's gay (and I'm a girl).

All I am is stubborn and bitchy. My best friend thinks I never want to hang out with her and she accuses me of being such a bad friend. I ve been told I am pretty , yet no one likes me. After someone were to compliment me they say "But I swear I DONT like you." I m skinny but I feel fat. All I do is cry because that seems like the only thing to do. Pretty sure No one enjoys my presence because I feel annoying and unwanted. I ve recently lost a friend because I asked a silly question, to which he responded with, "God! I hate you! You can t keep a conversation and your just insane!" That made me cry even more. My only friend that cares about me right now is my friend Jayden. He seems like the only person who cares about me right now and I feel like he shouldn t. I m such a waste of space. I hate myself.

I'm a junior in high school now and ever since the 8th grade girls have always bullied me, refused to work with me in groups, and ignored me. I've only had a good 2 girl best friends and they all turned against me for some reason. When I try and make friends with other girls they refuse to talk to me or laugh at me.. My older sister is gay so that may be the problem because girls have questioned me about it and even asked if I believe in God or go to church... It seems like ever since my sister started dating girls when I was in the 8th and she was in the 10th things changed. I've been friends with like 4 guys since the 8th and one of them since the 3rd grade. They've all witnessed me being bullied by all these girls and tell me just to ignore them or fight them (but I'm not gonna do that lol). Guys have no problem working with me in class. Onetime I was sitting by myself at lunch because I had no one to sit with and this guy came and started talking to me and asked me why I'm by myself. I'm not ugly or fat or anything. People tell me I'm pretty even the girls that use to be friends with me and some of the ones that bully me now. I even get compliments from people I don't know outside of school. I don't dress bad or anything I dress similar to other girls at my school. I want to have a girl best friend but I can't seem to make one anymore..

I'm 15 and I am going to be very bored this summer like today. I don't have friends that want to hang out so I'm pretty much left alone. I live in a small area with not Much to do.. No parks and the closest mall is 45 mins alway. I'm wondering what I should do to keep myself entertained? I was talking to a girl and she said when she was my age she worked as cleaning floors but I can't find a place that would take a 15 year old.

Being around him only makes me like him more and it is painful. He doesn't know, and if he did it would make him uncomfortable. So, I'm thinking that if I stop hanging out with him and texting him, I will move on. I think the only way for me to accomplish this is by gradually ending our friendship, which is also painful. He has other friends, though, and I'm quite sure I'm not HIS best friend - just someone he vents to most of the time. Would it be selfish of me? Or any other suggestions?

Please read: more details on the question I have been friends with this person 1 year and we are going to work together in a business. He recently met my best friend who has know me for over 5 years. He asked my best friend if I were to get a hold of a million dollars in company funds would I run over the border. He said he asked my best friend that but was just kidding. Why would you ask a question like that if you were kidding and didn't want an answer? 10 POINTS best answer

My life is completely falling apart with school because i am in middle school and now i feel like i have no friends because one of my closest best firends just moved away to another town and next thing i know my even better best friend is moving way across the coutry to where she was born and not coming back in less than a months. Then today when i was at school i found out that i have a student council meeting and i didnt know and i couldnt call my babysitter or parents until i got out of school. So i went to the meeting and asked my baby sitter if she could pick me up and she said that i have a orthldontist appointment (which i already knew) but it was at 4:30 and i had to get picked up at 2:45 so it really didnt matter, so i told her that and she never responded then all of a sudden i get an "amazing" text from my mom and this is exacly what it said "Guess what? You're grounded." my heart sank but at the same time i didnt really care. we talked and usually i argue with her and make it worse but i didnt this time i just said ok. But about a half hour ago my mom went to bed and all of a sudden her phone went off so i checked it and i didnt know what it was but i decided to look at her texts and this literally made me cry because of what she told my neighbor she always told me she loved me and the opposite of what she wrote in that text (and im crying right now too really hard) but she said why is she so selfish and stupid and some other stuff i cant even say ;( ;(. and i really hurts because this is my own mother that said i would never be any of these things and she would never talk about anyone like that. But the point of my actual question is that when i was at the school and she said i was grounded nobody came to pick me up. Then she said where are you i said at the school so she came to pick me up and then she yelled at me and i just cried and delt with it. THen she told me to give her my phone so i did. But the thing is she never told me what my punishment, but when i was looking through her texts with my neighbor she said that my punishment was to get my phone taken away for a month(whcih i really dont care) and not be able to hang out with my friends for a month too, but my best friend is moving July 1st and it is June 16th and my grounding is done in July 16th so i wont be able to see my best friend ever again or text herbecause it is also going to be summer break in a week and i wont be able to see her. She is the best best friend i could ever ask for and i love her and wont be able to see her again. So i am not trying to be selfish or anything but my plans are to somehow get ungrounded but my mom is really stubborn and it wont work and even if i really want it she wont listen. And this time she grounded me for a month when i didnt even really do anything. I really need help my other plans are running away or suicide i dont want to do this but i have been really been considering it lately because my life is over and i am miserable. Does anyone think my mom is over reacting to something not that bad and how can i make her change her mind and possibly give me a new punishment or make it shorter and et me see my friend again please PLEASE HELP!!! (and the other problem is i try to tell her how i feel and that i dont like the way she is treating me but she never listens to me and keeps interupting me and wont let me speak so that she can understand, in other words she always has to be right and wont here what other people have to say)

I semi lied to my best friend. Ive known this dude for a year. and hes a little more then a friend though.. but also an internet friend. i first told him that i was a 9th grader. and now he thinks im going into 10th grade, when im really just going into 9th grade. i know highschool goes by fast though. but this year is also his 12th grade year. hes 17, im 15. at the time i said that though because i actually did thought that i was going into 9th grade bc i got behind. and i didn't want to tell him.. i even went to the school to get everything. and now i just don't know what to do. and it freaks me out. because this whole time he thought i was in 9th grade when i wasn't and we only talked about what grades we were in once.. i dunno if i should say i got behind or not.. because who would date a freshmen?..

ok so I used to say mean things about this girl and judges her now ppl are starting to talk behind my back and judges me. Also I used to be a spy on this girl pretend to be her friend and get info about her to say to my friends. Now my friends betrayed me and their friend came and pretend to be my friend to stalk me to get information from me. And if I bully people I get bullied back too. Is this karma? @Hailey i stopped so shut up @Steve11 no unless u do bad things karma teach me not to bully ppl and showed me how it feels to do certain bad things yeah and when i stopped bullying someone that bully goes away

Think it from this way. Physical appearance is a God gifted thing, not an achievement. We are living in society where people still respect or feel intimidated around beautiful people. I mean lets say if you see a person who is more beautiful or handsome and taller than you, then you automatically feel intimidated. I dont understand this concept. Why do we automatically be like "Oh My gawd, he is so hot or she is so beautiful"???? As if they are some celebrity I personally feel that anyone who gives so much importance to physical appearance lacks intelligence. Anyone who is arrogant because of their good physical looks does lack intellect. And I really dont understand why some people have giant Ego because of their looks, even if they are working at mc Donald's. This is so confusing. People should be respected because of the thinking inside, the hard work they do, the achievements they have made, things they have changed in the world, their beliefs, their intelligence. Not because they are rich, famous or have good looks. The skin outside does not determine the character inside.

Okay, so I've gotta internet friend who I've given my kik to and ever since she will not stop messaging me. I do like her, but whenever I don't reply fast enough or leave her messages til the next day because I'm tired or simply because I'm busy, she'll text me over 200 times. I lost my phone for 1 day and she sent me over 20 messages. I do wanna speak to her, but she's so pushy and talkative and what makes it worse is that we live in different places, so the time zone is different. Please help!

At the beginning of this year, most of my classmates were good and cooperative with me, but lately, it seems to me that they started treating me differently, and at the same time, they found somehow that I am younger than them. Is it because they are older that their treatment became relatively bad? :(

My friends katie, olivia, abby, ella, and sometimes maggie, hang out like EVERY FREAKING DAY!! and they never ask me to hang out.. Like, the only times they do, is when they know i cant hang out. For example, i was sick as hell, and olivia invited me. I didnt go to school that day, and i was like dying.. I feel like when they hang out, they try and rub it in my face. There hanging out right now, and im going to a movie premiere tonight, and i didnt know what to wear..... so i asked katie, and she kept laughing and looking over at ella and olivia..

Hi, so yesterday we had a pool party. Everything was fine before the showering part. I was showering after we swum. And some classmates just opened the shade and look at me, of course they accidentally did that. It might not be a big of a deal to you guys but it is for me here's why. I got breasts, pubic hair, and period before my classmates. Plus the three girls (my classmates) are chatterbox and not a great friend of mine. I am so afraid if they tell everyone about it. I really want to tell them stop, but I lefted the pool because I was some frighten about this. What should I do?!?😭😭😭

ok should i call this friend back to see if it goes through cause i got a phone call at 12:45am and 12:48am on tuesday very early in the morning and then i did text him and it was never read cuz it still said delivered so i don't know if he blocked me again after he called but the thing is he does know Y i didn't answer or call him back right after i got the call. i do feel like i should try to call him to see what he wanted but i also feel scared too?

I jokingly insulted my friend but they knew it was a joke, yet still took it to offence. I gave them some time and apologized multiple times, but they are still PISSED. but as I always said, it's better to get pissed off than to get pissed on. pls help i am cryign

My life is completely falling apart with school because i am in middle school and now i feel like i have no friends because one of my closest best firends just moved away to another town and next thing i know my even better best friend is moving way across the coutry to where she was born and not coming back in less than a months. Then today when i was at school i found out that i have a student council meeting and i didnt know and i couldnt call my babysitter or parents until i got out of school. So i went to the meeting and asked my baby sitter if she could pick me up and she said that i have a orthldontist appointment (which i already knew) but it was at 4:30 and i had to get picked up at 2:45 so it really didnt matter, so i told her that and she never responded then all of a sudden i get an "amazing" text from my mom and this is exacly what it said "Guess what? You're grounded." my heart sank but at the same time i didnt really care. we talked and usually i argue with her and make it worse but i didnt this time i just said ok. But about a half hour ago my mom went to bed and all of a sudden her phone went off so i checked it and i didnt know what it was but i decided to look at her texts and this literally made me cry because of what she told my neighbor she always told me she loved me and the opposite of what she wrote in that text (and im crying right now too really hard) but she said why is she so selfish and stupid and some other stuff i cant even say ;( ;(. and it really hurts because this is my own mother that said i would never be any of these things and she would never talk about anyone like that. But the point of my actual question is that when i was at the school and she said i was grounded nobody came to pick me up. Then she said where are you i said at the school so she came to pick me up and then she yelled at me and i just cried and delt with it. THen she told me to give her my phone so i did. But the thing is she never told me what my punishment, but when i was looking through her texts with my neighbor she said that my punishment was to get my phone taken away for a month(whcih i really dont care) and not be able to hang out with my friends for a month too, but my best friend is moving July 1st and it is June 16th and my grounding is done in July 16th so i wont be able to see my best friend ever again or text herbecause it is also going to be summer break in a week and i wont be able to see her. She is the best best friend i could ever ask for and i love her and wont be able to see her again. So i am not trying to be selfish or anything but my plans are to somehow get ungrounded but my mom is really stubborn and it wont work and even if i really want it she wont listen. And this time she grounded me for a month when i didnt even really do anything. I really need help my other plans are running away or suicide i dont want to do this but i have been really been considering it lately because my lif is over and i am miserable. Does anyone think my mom is over reacting to something not that bad and how can i make her change her mind and possibly give me a new punishment or make it shorter and et me see my friend again please PLEASE HELP!!! (and the other problem is i try to tell her how i feel and that i dont like the way she is treating me but she never listens to me and keeps interupting me and wont let me speak so that she can understand, in other words she always has to be right and wont here what other people have to say)

Recently, my best friend since elementary school has ditched me for friends that he met this year. He no longer invites me to play video games, and instead invites his new circle of friends. When I ask him why he doesn t invite me, he says it is because his new friends don t like me. I have never done anything to them, and it just bothers me that he would be so unloyal, electing to insult me rather than invite me to hang out. Another strike against me is when he told me that him and his new friends had already planned to go to the same college, become roommates, and since we are in senior year of high school, their plan seems poised to succeed. However, the worst part is that that same plan is one I came up with for OUR circle of friends, but instead of following through with it, he kicked me out and said that not only was I too immature, but that his new friends were better than me. It just hurts to see him justify them disliking me when I never even talk to them, and the fact that I have few friends makes it difficult to swallow the betrayal.

My best friend wasn't texting back and she finally told me "I don't want to talk to you" and I didn't even do anything. Please help

My best friend started to call me names, speak behind my back Ugly thinks like: OMG she is such a *****! Only because i want to lose weight and get rid of my eyeglasses by buying contact lens. I want to make a change in the way I look, I want to feel beautiful for the next year of highschool. I told her all of these, but she doesn't understand and she talks all of this with other friend of mine. They call me *****/whore and keep saying that they can't stand me anymore. I don't know what is their problem and why they do that, I don't even talk to boys so they can't make me a *****. I started to believe that they never were my friends. When I want to speak to her she starts shouting and telling me to go to hell but when she wants to talk to me and I don't respond she starts again to speak ugly. And when classmates asks us why are we fighting she says that I want to be a *****. What is her problem, I just don't understand...

We text daily, talk on the phone sometimes. Sometimes she won't respond to my text but she'll post something on social media or take hours to text back. Her excuses are usually good excuses like she was busy @ work or with school or she forgot but she'll post sh*t online. It makes me not wanna text her. Another thing is she never hugs me but she hugs her other friends . Not trying to make a big deal out of it but it kind of makes me feel uncomfortable. I told her about that&she said she didn't notice. Sometimes I feel like Im her last resort, like she'll call me when she's not around her BF or she has nothing else to do. I've known her for almost 2 years we met at my last college but I moved states(I still go back to my home town to visit her tho . I've told her secrets&I try to help her. She met this other chick like a year ago. She called her her best friend when they've only known each other for 3 months . So she did a lot for this chick. She celebrated this girls birthday with her, bought her birthday presents and everything helps her with her rent. She's not friends with hardly any of her other friends anymore.But for my birthday she didn't even remember it . Instead in my birthday she brought up the fact that it's been 5 months since her BF left her.I was there for her when her boyfriend who's she's back with disappeared for 9 months. But she can keep secrets as far as I know , she supports me. Idk tho is she a real friend or not. Another thing is the girl she calls her best friend. That girl is sleeping with someone else's boyfriend. And ,y best friend ranted to me about that saying how messed up it was and that girl isn't her best friend anymore but just friends. She says how much her boyfriend hates that girl but she still hangs around her. She'll rant to me and talk to be about that girl but still talks to her. She say she's slowly trying to get away from her. And she didn't give her the money for her rent this month But once I was in town we went to six flags and I asked her to take me to my grandfathers and she did. Then I paid her back my giving her 25 dollars. And she say she's still friends with that girl cause of her son and cause that girl cries in her arms saying how broke she is . She's like using my friend and manipulating her and I try to tell her that but she still hangs out with her

I have lost everything that I do in my life. I have been out of running for 7 months now due to a knee injury and because of it am losing my running scholarship slowly. I already cant run for my first two college seasons. Then there s my severe acne. I am embarrassed to talk, or even look at, anyone especially the girl I love. I have been avoiding her so that she doesn't see my face. I have been through about 9 different treatments and trying another one now. The only catch is I cant be in the sun...at all. My friends and I are outdoorsmen. So spending all of our time outside doesnt work for me anhymore since I cant really be outside during the day. So Im not even hanging out with friends all that much anymore. I lost my music groups and I blew my lip out with my trumpet. Just got laughed at by an entire group of people while ******* up a solo on stage because of it. I love this one girl and I cant stop thinking about her. Im embarrassed to say anything to her or even look at her. Ive lost my job because I cant be outside at all (and it involves being out in the sun a lot). And it sucks even more because the girl I love and some of my best friends work with me so now I see them even less. I am going into the summer now and all I can really do is sit in a chair and not go outside. I have been to numerous doctors with my leg and they have all passed me on to another doc. I feel like I have nothing left anymore and I have no idea what to do. Due to treatment type- my derm told me to avoid sun at al costs for the next three months (which are the last three months that I have before we all leave for college). If I do go outside it can only be for a short time and I have to use prescription sunblock and wide brimmed boonie hat for protection. Cant go to beach/lake, no pool (chemicals), etc.

My best friend's birthday is coming up and I wanted to get her something really cute, so I decided on a coupon book. I have a few ideas, and I was wondering if y'all had any suggestions, comments, or critiques Here's what I have right now: x Amount of hugs in one day One long hug Forgive no matter what A day without mean words Pretend something didn't happen Day of agreeing with everything she says One day personal slave Honest opinion Crying shoulder Shut up A compliment Post one thing on my FB Do one thing you want together no matter what Drop the topic Thanks a bunch guys! P.S. I'm a guy she's a girl

When you're moving out of one State to another, and your friend comes over to talk to you. You ignore your friend and give short answers when the friend asks you how everything is. It happened the last time when the friend was going abroad, you completely ignored your friend. So, there was no goodbye involved. Why is that?