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- Question: My mom is dying of cirrhosis, but...?
- Question: I want to run away from home?
- Question: My dad died and I don't know what to do?
- Question: Should I tell my parents?
- Question: Overprotective Dad alert?
- Question: How do the fathers of pornstars live their life in peace?
- Question: If a long-lost family member replied this way to your email would you be mad?
- Question: I'm seeing an older woman and my family are finding it hard to accept my relationship. How should I react to this?
- Question: Sexual abuse between siblings?
- Question: Had a big fight with my dad, left my house. What should I do?
- Question: I cheated on my girlfriend and scared that she may leave me. What should I do?
- Question: How do I deal with my grandparents?
- Question: Am i selfish for wanting some of my disability money to go towards me?
- Question: Is there an alternative to my solution that I haven't thought of?
- Question: I put 'Nair' on my private area, and it feels like it's on fire. What to do?
- Question: Why does my boyfriend call me sex names during sex? is this normal for guys?
- Question: I THINK MY SISTERS HOT?
- Question: I want to live with my dad but my mom wont let me. I m 15.?
- Question: What do I do if I promise myself to not play a game no more when I lose to somebody but still want to play now?
- Question: Is my brother cheating ?
- Question: My dad cheated on my mom and I hate him for it .?
- Question: My niece is 13 and pregnant and I really don't know what to do?
- Question: I know this may sound weird but please answer....?
- Question: Does this mean my mom thinks I'm ugly?
- Question: Are they being rude?
- Question: Really uncomfortable with one of my uncles?
- Question: Rate this guy as a dad.?
- Question: Mother in need of help.?
- Question: My mom still wants to control me?!?
- Question: How to cope with unsupportive parents?
- Question: Why has my mother in law suddenly become so domineering out of the blue?
- Question: How can I convince my parents to having a garage sale?
- Question: Is my mom a bad parent? NEED ADVICE PLEASE!?
- Question: I want a picture of just my parents and I at my wedding but my step mother is throwing a fit. Help.?
- Question: My sister in-law is freezing me out, what to do?
- Question: Can a 14year old take care of children full time?
- Question: Is it normal for a child that had teenagers as parents to feel neglected when their parent has another kid?
- Question: Is it common for aunts to be jealous of their nieces or nephews?
- Question: Im 19 and desperate to move out and be on my own.?
- Question: Is my father too strict?
- Question: My dad kisses me on the lips and I really like it how do I tell him I want more kisses like parents I have been single for 4 years now?
- Question: I hate my life Should i kill myself ?
- Question: How do I stop worrying about my brothers health??!?
- Question: My mom says I'm rude?
- Question: HELP!!! My Mom favor my sister what do I do?
- Question: Why does my dad get angry when I cry? My dad is an "okay" guy but I can't stand him anymore. I know he is concerned for me ...?
- Question: Why am I the Unluckiest Person in the world?
- Question: Afraid of missing out when I go away to school?
- Question: Was the sexual assault, my fault?
- Question: My mom hates me talking.?
- Question: Should I take this?
- Question: Hi, guys I think I'm cursed by God and I dnt know what to do.?
- Question: Sister lives with at home with kid and is very disrespectful and rude how to not go crazy?
- Question: My mom just took my stuck up sister to my dad s office. I m in trouble too but she never gets in trouble.?
- Question: When it comes to seeking marriage and kids, or relationships; how are divorced men over 50 a lot like 15 year old boys?
- Question: Why wont my sister answer the call?
- Question: Is my husband right about this?
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| Question: My mom is dying of cirrhosis, but...? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 01:42 PM PDT She is in hospice as I type this, dying from cirrhosis. She drank very excessively for about 18 years and has hepititis c, which are two causes for her cirrhosis. Anyway, I went and saw her yesterday and it was extremely sad. It was probably one of the most traumatic events I've ever had experienced. She couldn't talk, move, or open her eyes. I was so completely shocked, I couldn't find much to say. I was told she had a week from Sunday, but I doubt she has more than 4 days left. Here's the thing: My mom was an awful person to me when I lived with her. She was emotionally and physically abusive and after my parents got divorced, I pretty much cut her out of my life. Now, I find myself at war with my emotions. I cry a lot, and am very sad, but I also feel dumbfounded and mad at myself for feeling sorry for her and regretting not talking to her ever. Basically, my question is: Have you every experienced something like this before? How did you handle it? I've dealt with death in the family before, but she is the first one of my parents to go and it's very jarring for me. I'm hanging out with friends and family, but what can I do to get myself through this? Distractions such as movies and reading aren't working. |
| Question: I want to run away from home? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 01:35 PM PDT My mom and I always fought, but she's totally crossed the line to insane. She turns into a monster. I may not have the best attitude but hers borders on psychopathic. She screams at me to leave the house, grabs at me, her face turns bright red, she breaks and throws things like glass and always raises her hand like she wants to hit me and tells me she wishes she could break my mouth. I know my attitude isn't angelic but I have seen other kids with WAY WORSE attitudes and their parents don't turn into psychopaths. I literally can't live with her anymore. I get so overwhelmed with how angry she is that I don't know how to handle her. If I stay quiet she continues to scream at me and attack me. I'm tired of it. I want to run away and live with someone else, somewhere else. I have just a little over $30. I know it's not much but I'm old enough to get a part time job somewhere and live on my own. But where do I go? I know how to get around but not where....I can't stay at a friends house....their parents would turn me back.... ALSO: She always screams at me to "hit her" and grabs my hand and moves my hand to slap her. Today she was angry because in the past I didn't practice hard enough at ice skating. She blamed me and my skating for us being poor, so I told her to stop paying, that I'd get a job and pay for myself, and she freaked out and threw things and grabbed glass to cut herself and it's just insaane. |
| Question: My dad died and I don't know what to do? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 01:35 PM PDT My dad passed away on 10th of June and I just can't cope with it what can I do |
| Question: Should I tell my parents? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 01:23 PM PDT So my brother has severe anger problems. He has been really bad for the last year, sometimes it gets to the point where he tries punching my dad or runs away in like 0 degree weather with nothing. But, recently he has been so much better. He got his phone back after having it taken away and he is hanging out with friends. But, I found out that he stole very expensive shoes from the mall and other things like food and sunglasses. I know it is bad and not good for him to think its ok but if I tell my parents they might ground him and then he will get bad again and I don't want that for him .It's getting stressful to not tell my mom what should I do? |
| Question: Overprotective Dad alert? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 01:23 PM PDT So. I really want a replica katana for my birthday so I can get it signed at a wsc but my dad says it's to dangerous and he's acting like it's a real sword I want. It's quite cheap but he still won't buy it. He's so overprotective. Have any ideas how I could convince him |
| Question: How do the fathers of pornstars live their life in peace? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 01:22 PM PDT Isn't it a dent on their ego to be able to protect their little girl no matter what and for them to choose a path so dangerous and demeaning!! Assuming that the dad was good to his daughter and still she chose the life of porn for the money what and how should her dad react? And what could possibly go through his mind when the daughter rubbishes off her dad's advice to stop and she wants to go ad far as the industry takes her!! How shud the dad react and what cud go through his mind? |
| Question: If a long-lost family member replied this way to your email would you be mad? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 01:22 PM PDT "I'm at work. Can't do long reply. Loving greetings acknowledged and returned. Will write later." I DID write later but she was... not receptive. My second reply was long, and detailed. I even made overtures to meet. I don't understand why she's mad. |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2015 01:15 PM PDT The past couple of years have been quite difficult for me; parents divorcing, exams, losing friends etc but things are starting to come together for me now. My education is going well, I'm happier than before and I've been seeing someone that makes me so happy. She is an Asian woman who is a bit older than I am (17-29) and she is a major reason why everything in my life is so good now. My family (mostly mum and sisters) are not as supportive as they should be and it's causing some fiction between us. They are slowly starting to accept the relationship more and more but it's still not enough. I couldn't imagine my life without her - she's amazing in every way and no other girl or woman compares. My sisters feel she will want to return to her home country at some point but I cannot control that or how I feel. I've never felt like this before and I just want my family to be happy for me and love those who are important to me. |
| Question: Sexual abuse between siblings? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 01:14 PM PDT Hi, I don't know how exactly to ask this but let me explain I have 2 younger brothers(7 and 8) and about 2 weeks ago my stepbrother(their half brother) who is 16 btw came to visit yesterday my mother pulled me aside and told me that the 7 yr old told her that the 16 yr old did oral on him I was shocked and didn't want to believe and today my mom told his dad about this and my dad is thinking on callin the cops what can happen to the 16 yr old and how should this all be handled? I think he needs mental help I am letting them handle it I just want to know how it should be handled tho |
| Question: Had a big fight with my dad, left my house. What should I do? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 01:12 PM PDT Ok this is gonna be long but for people who care please read. Well last night while I was washing the dishes my dad realizes that the coins he always leaves on the kitchen table were gone. So he asks me if I knew where they went and I told him that I took some. Then all of a sudden he gets infuriated with me with those evil looks in his eyes and starts calling me a thief. So I tell him that" if those coins are that valuable to you why do you leave them on the table where anyone can see?" He goes by saying "Well its my house so I do whatever the hell I want" And besides, they are just coins and my dad always lends me money for other stuff so why be so mad at something so small like this? So that got me pissed off and I started yelling back and threw him a 10$ bill on the table saying "Here you go, happy?" And then he was complaining how I was being disrespectful but why the hell should I be respectful when he's the one carelessly leaving coins on the table and then getting mad when someone uses it? So I told him why not put it in your room or in your wallet or something but he doesn't listen and thinks everything he does is right. He doesn't even listen to me. He is so arrogant and never thinks he is wrong.And he says no dinner for me and he tells me to go out by myself if I want to eat.So I go upstairs take my stuff and left while I said this to him "I don't think I can live with a child abuser who can't even feed their own children! "And I slammed the door and left the house And then I leave to go to my moms house(They are divorced) and tbh I don't know when I wanna go back. My girlfriend keeps telling me to apologize but why should I apologize if I don't even feel sorry? Hes the one that leaves everything so carelessly on the table and gets infuriated at me when someone takes it when he doesnt even care about those coins. Im 21 btw And I still planning on coming back to my house while my dad is gone for work. My brother and dog is still there and I wanna take care of him. This is whats upsetting me, how should I still be in connection with my brother and dog without having to deal with my dad? |
| Question: I cheated on my girlfriend and scared that she may leave me. What should I do? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 12:53 PM PDT I have been with my girlfriend for over two years already (both 18) and she means the world to me. I consider her to be my best friend and she is one of the best things that has ever happened to me. However a couple of weeks ago I joined up to a website where you can meet local people - I don't know why but I did. I started talking to a much older woman who took a lot of interest in me. I enjoyed talking to her & she is really attractive and the fact she was over 20 years older than me was just an added factor. I listed that I loved redheads. We decided to meet up and it was a lot of fun - we went for a fancy meal and then went back to hers for some movies. I don't really drink a lot of alcohol but I did that night and I suggested paying for a taxi but she made it clear to me that I am not going anywhere. I stayed the night and I met her a few days later... I enjoyed the attraction and the attention but I cheated on someone I love so and it's something that I have to find a way to deal with. I appreciate any advice you can give me. Thanks. |
| Question: How do I deal with my grandparents? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 12:53 PM PDT My grandparents are estranged from my mother and my mom is estranged from them too. The reason why is because they were mentally, emotionally and have been physically abusive with my mom in the past. She felt it was best to cut them off. I have regained contact with my grandma, and have been in contact with her for a few years and my grandpa, I recently met for the first time. Lately, my grandpa keeps asking me how things are at home as if he doesn't believe me. They allege that my mom abuses me and she doesn't. I'm a perfectly happy person and me and my mom are really close. I dont like how they keep bashing my mom all the time as well and it makes me feel uncomfortable. My grandpa, keeps saying negative things about my mom and its really upsetting to me and as I said I just met him. I feel like I made a mistake meeting him for the first time in my life and I am 22 years old. All I just wanted to do was get to know him as a person and who he was but, I don't know what to do. And my grandma, she always says this negative stuff about my mom and tells me these false stories about her that are extemely out of proportion. I want to distance myself from my grandparents because I'm tired of always being put in the middle all the time and I feel like I'm about to explode and my grandpa is always calling me all the time and he wants to send me packages. So I had to get a PO Box so my mom doesn't see that he has sent me stuff and I feel bad about this. I also don't feel like talking to my grandpa everyday. How can I distance myself from them? And please save me the talk about how I should be all close with my family... Of course, I still want to respect my grandparents and I do love them at the same time. I just feel trapped and dont know what to do I dont know if I have the courage to cut them off. That is a really hard thing to do. I know it was for my mother, she is a strong person. I wish I was that strong as her. |
| Question: Am i selfish for wanting some of my disability money to go towards me? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 12:50 PM PDT I'm 15 and have issues my mom gets a check for. She says its for bills and $ spent because of my disability... The only extra $ she has to spend is on gas to take me to the doctors once a month. She stopped taking me to my mentor and counselor. I CAN'T get a job now with my disabilities so I've been asking for $20 a month (for chores, good grades, etc) so I'll have a little $ when I move out and a little to spend. She says she can't afford that. I also need clothes. NONE of my clothes fit me because I lost a bunch of weight a long time ago. They are all WAY too big and hand me downs or clothes I have to share with my mom and bro. (Which I get made fun of for) I have gotten maybe 2 outfits since 5th grade. She says we can barely afford food even though she gets link. We usually have to go to our grandmas to eat. (Also "can't afford" healthy food. My whole family is obese but my bro is VERY fat and I'm worried about his health.) She acts like my bros and i should feel bad when we ask for anything because we're poor. She even tries to make me feel bad about her having to buy me pads/tampons. But she CAN afford cigarettes, alcohol, weed, video games for her bf, etc. I feel like my brother and I are being neglected. Do I have a right to be upset and am I selfish for wanting $20/month for stuff that I NEED and my future? We are poor but we get A LOT of help from the govt. I feel like she's just greedy and doesn't want to spend any $ on my bros or I. |
| Question: Is there an alternative to my solution that I haven't thought of? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 12:47 PM PDT My bills have become unbearable because I do too much for my 18, 20 and 25 year old in terms of paying for their cars $365 and $400, car insurance $175, cell phones $450 and other bills as needed. I also use my mom's car with a payment of nearly $500 per month so my son has my other car at college. I am tired and feel like I'm working myself to an early grave. I want to give them 30 days notice that starting August 1, 2015 I will no longer pay those bills. I will return my mom's car, take my son's car back and use that for myself, everyone is responsible for their own cell phone bills. I need to find a small apartment for myself and start living for me. I will help on rare occasions but I won't tell them that. I hate to be so stern but I think they are taking me for granted because they know I am a single mom and have always worked hard for them to have what they need and some things they want. |
| Question: I put 'Nair' on my private area, and it feels like it's on fire. What to do? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 12:40 PM PDT So, I'm only a 15 year old girl and I shave down there but I don't like razor bumps. So, always, I'm spending the weekend at my older brothers house, he's 22 and his girlfriend lives with him but she went to Oakland to go spend a week of summer with her family and I noticed she had 'Nair' (The hair removal product) in the cabinet and I heard about it and I wanted to try it. So, I stole a little and its the foamy spray or whatever it's called that I used and the hair is gone but my vagina is on fire!!! It burns so freaking bad and I think a rash is developing and I feel really stupid for using it without reading the labels and stuff, but I was rushing because I didn't want my brother to find out that I stole her stuff and used it but now it's so painful. My pants rubbing against it is making it worse and I can't even sit still. What can I use to neutralize it? I'm really scared!! |
| Question: Why does my boyfriend call me sex names during sex? is this normal for guys? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 12:19 PM PDT I'm 22, and my boyfriend is 24.....we have sex a lot, and sometimes he says things that just leave me puzzled. We ARE NOT married, and have NO kids. He will say things like "Come here momma" Or "Give it to Daddy" Or he will say things like "You have been a bad girl, this is your punishment...make it up to daddy and Fuc* me" ...Don't get me wrong these things turn me. Should i just play along with it? Does anyone have any ideas on why he says these things...or if your husbands/boyfriends say it to you? |
| Question: I THINK MY SISTERS HOT? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 12:19 PM PDT pockets are inadequate. they're always cool on the insides and the cheese is never gooey enough. how do i tell her without hurting her feelings? |
| Question: I want to live with my dad but my mom wont let me. I m 15.? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 12:11 PM PDT I really want to live with my dad because I do not like my moms new bf. He just doesn t seem good with kids and kind of grouchy. My mom will not let me go to my dads though because she doesn t trust him. They don t get along... That s why they are divorced. I don t know what to do anymore. I cant keep up with the family feud. Help? I live in Canada |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2015 12:06 PM PDT I'm strange |
| Question: Is my brother cheating ? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 11:59 AM PDT My brother is married for 2.6yrs have a one month old baby. ...we are close and share everything but recently I started noticing dat wenever I enter in his room he wud cut the cal, makes stupid reasons for cutting it. Some1 calls him at mid night and he says its a business call.what m i supposed to do? I already asked him and he said its business call..if he agrees dat he is cheating on her egat should I do next . |
| Question: My dad cheated on my mom and I hate him for it .? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 11:51 AM PDT It was a few years ago and it hurt me when I found out. The sad thing is, he is still cheating. I hate him. I feel betrayed in a way since he is my dad and cheated on my mom. Is this s good reason to HATE your father? My dad doesn't have a backbone or morals, and my mom has zero self-respect. It makes me mad because I can't help but notice what's happening. |
| Question: My niece is 13 and pregnant and I really don't know what to do? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 11:50 AM PDT I got custody of my niece a year ago because of problems with her mom! And I was kinda scared because I was 20 and about to have a pre teen I already had 2 kids 2, 5 months at the time Anyway I knew something was up because she was trying to tell me something and she looked like she was about to cry, when she told me she was pregnant I was very shocked because I didnt know she was sexually active but I didn't want to yell or be mean...I told her I would stick by her in what ever choice she makes...I don't really think we need to involve the cops because he's only a few months older than her. So basically now her boyfriend dumped her and she's 8 months I told her I don't think I can help so she found a woman to adopt her baby but she has been in her room all the time crying and I feel bad because if I help her then she can keep her daughter which she wants to very badly I have gotten mixed answers of help her don't help her I don't know what I should do |
| Question: I know this may sound weird but please answer....? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 11:48 AM PDT so i was looking at my old address from the first house i lived in and it showed a whole list of names of people that lived and are living in that house. but heres the trippy part, i never met my grandpa. he apparently died before i was born. but when i saw the current resident of my old house, it had his full name on it. and he has never lived there before my family. and it also shows a phone number that is listed as his own number. but if hes dead, how could this be? apparently he died from a heart attack, but is it possible that he could fake his own death with a heart attack? and is it possible that i still have a grandpa that is still alive that i never met? i mean there could be another person with the same name, birthday and age but i feel like that would be super rare.. i dont know if any of this makes sense cause im not good at describing stuff and putting it into words but im just really confused. But if it does make sense, please help me! |
| Question: Does this mean my mom thinks I'm ugly? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 11:45 AM PDT when we're out to eat or at the mall or somewhere and an extremely pretty girl walks by my mom looks at her then she looks at me and smiles, but the smile seems fake to me. Like one time we were out to eat and this family was in a booth next to us and the daughters were about my age and drop dead gorgeous and my mom did it a few times. She looked at them then looked at me and smiles. I don't know what it means or why she does. She doesn't give them any kind of look or anything, she just looks at them with a normal face. She does it Everytime she sees someone prettier than me. Why does she do this? Does this mean she wishes I was prettier or does she think I'm ugly? |
| Question: Are they being rude? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 11:30 AM PDT Served breakfast of 3 types of fruit, quiche, spam, muffins, eggs. And bread that they brought. Parents in law say, do u eat spam because that's high in sodium. So I offer them the fruit, they say they can't eat the watermelon and grapes because it increases their blood sugar and grapefruit interferes with their medicine. They drink coffee and ask for milk but I don't have milk, just cream. They say what does our 11 month baby drink if we don't have milk haha. I offer the quiche and my father in law says he does eat that but quiche was the only thing my mother in law served us at her house when we visited. My mother in law served us at her house only quiche so I thought she would like the breakfast. She comments that what I prepared is for feeding an army. During breakfast, they compliment how good the bread tastes that they brought. do you think they are being rude? |
| Question: Really uncomfortable with one of my uncles? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 11:27 AM PDT I have a total of five uncles and four of them I absolutely adore because they're all so much fun to be around. One uncle in particular, however I'm having difficulty being near for too long. I'm not sure if this qualifies as molestation but for as long as I can remember, this uncle has tried to get me alone so he could touch/pinch/squeeze me butt. I get extremely uncomfortable whenever he does it but I'm too embarrassed to tell me parents about it because I'm afraid they'll side with him or I'll end up ruining my aunt's marriage or something. I know that sounds drastic but I'm just keeping track of all of the possibilities. Whenever he's around, I immediately leave the room or quickly turn around so I'm facing him and he doesn't have a chance to touch me. He and my other relatives live in another country but they're coming to stay with my family for three weeks in July and I am absolutely dreading it. I don't know who to talk to about this. My oldersister and I talk about everything together but not once has she ever mentioned anything like this. I'm to scared to bring it up. What should I do? I would sincerely appreciate it if there are no silly answers. Thank you. |
| Question: Rate this guy as a dad.? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 11:21 AM PDT I know this is horrible, but you'll help settle an argument. The guy is 33 years old, no education or job skills and no ambition or plan to improve himself divorced at 33 with two girls 1 and 4 years of age alcoholic abuses his dogs. Kicks them and shoots them with a BB gun brags to coworkers about affairs with married women would stay out all night drinking and gambling and lie to his ex about having a night time construction job very friendly, out going and funny, though a bit immature hard worker, sometimes working 2 differnt jobs to get buy My friend says he's a great dad because he does, indeed take care of his kids. I say he's a piece of **** |
| Question: Mother in need of help.? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 11:15 AM PDT Hey people, bobs wife here. I am 27 and a baby in Christ. My husband led me to be saved and helped me in a lot of other things. I gave up my addiction to drinking everyday, partying every other night and other things I look back on and am not proud of. But I know I have to move forward. We have 6 children. The oldest is 9 years and youngest is 6 months. My husband has 4 of his own and I have one when we got together and decided to have a baby together. He has custody of his kids and they are with us all the time. No breaks to go see their mom as she pretty much abandoned them. We've been together for a little over 3 years. For the past few months I have felt very depressed and just wanting to give up and leave. I get very depressed out of nowhere. I get very overwhelmed with everything now. I'm thinking that it's beginning to be to much for me. My husband always encourages me with scriptures and tells me things that try to help out but sometimes I don't even want to hear them. He tries to help but it's like I'm just closing him out and I can see him hurting cause of it. I need help. I don't know what to do anymore. I know I'm supposed to stay strong and pray and read but it's just stressful to me. |
| Question: My mom still wants to control me?!? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 11:09 AM PDT I'm 18 and I wanna become a flight attendant. Honestly I don't care about the pay I only care about how rewarding the job is. I know i have to deal with rude people and such but I'm ready for it. Anyways, my mom has been calling me repeatedly over and over again on a daily basis since I moved out. She keeps saying on how much she spent on me only to have me want to become a flight attendant. She keeps saying stuff as,"I spent over $10000 over a course of eighteen years for you to become an engineer only to become a flight attendant. You're unacceptable!" She's Asian and as you know Asian parents want their kids to become something good so they can have bragging rights. Anyways, what should I do? I'm already doing online college. Should I cut her off? |
| Question: How to cope with unsupportive parents? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 10:45 AM PDT Hi, I have a little dilema. I want to after two years having trouble with high-school and my private life. (I lived on my own, worked hard to have food on the table and went to school. I couldn't balance it - so I dropped out of school) Now I want to start school again, but my father is being so unsupportive, by telling me that I would have to pay a lot back. While it clearly states that I have to pay the institute of education - Dutch government - He than tells me that he had bad experience while studiying. He had to pay somewhat like 24.000 guilders (12.000 euros) back with rent. I understand, but it is my life, my desicion, and I really stick to the fact that I want to have a better life by improving my education. I just really don't know what to do. |
| Question: Why has my mother in law suddenly become so domineering out of the blue? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 10:27 AM PDT A little background, without writing too much. My man and I have been together for many years. We got our first apartment 8 years ago. And moved into a bigger, nicer one, almost 4 years ago. His mother never badgered us. In fact, when we moved, we were on our own for the most part. And I liked it that way. Now, we've inhereted a house that belonged to her father in law. And she has suddenly started giving unsolicited advice to the point it is testing my patience. -She has started telling us how to file our bills. Like we haven't been responsible for bills for 8 years now. -She has told me where to store stuff in the house. -She has been trying to push us to move in, in the middle of it being remodeled. In every way she can, she has started telling us what to do. And I cannot tell her to back off, unless I want drama. So I politely nod my head. But she won't stop! What I don't get is why now? Like I said, my man and I are ADULTS! And we have been living together for many years. And she has always left us well alone before this. I am not used to being suffocated like this! What can I do? I have had enough! Basically, I find her unsolicited advice to be patronizing. She has even gone as far as to tell me how to control ants, that we don't even have!!!! She has seen how pristine our apartment is. We don't have pets, or kids, and I don't allow food anywhere but the kitchen and dining room. And I clean everyday. But she is determined we'll have ants, and determined to tell me how to control them. Like I am a complete moron.... I have told him to talk to her and he will not. He is downright afraid to stand up to her because he doesn't want "drama" with her either.... |
| Question: How can I convince my parents to having a garage sale? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 10:20 AM PDT We been needing a garage sale for a long time and they always say, sometime we can. Even my dad says we need to have one to get rid of all our old clothes in his garage. But my mom never has a chance. We have so much stuff, you could almost consider us hoarders. And we need the extra money as well. Yesterday I asked if we could have one in two weeks, and my mom says, well probably not that close! We have plenty of time from now until then! How can I convince her that we need to have a garage sale? And soon? Thanks. |
| Question: Is my mom a bad parent? NEED ADVICE PLEASE!? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 10:18 AM PDT I'm 17 and my boyfriend will be 20 in 2 days and I'm 11 weeks pregnant.. My mom said he could move in if he paid $50 a week and we did that for about 2 weeks.. Now after how my mom was acting lastnight my bf wants NOTHING to do with my mom, period. I had to go pick him up from his mom's (his family was visiting and he's saving for a new car) and my mom said, don't be gone longer than 25 minutes because she was gonna start dinner.. So i got to got to his house about 15 mins later and he wanted to introduce me to aome of his family and we had to be there almost another 15 minutes and I can't be rude and walk away and say that I gotta get home before my mom has a fit.. So we finally were able to leave and we got back to my moms, and first thing we walked in the door, she was just starting dinner and said to me "ai told you mo longer than 25 minutes, you were gone damn near 45!! Then she went on to say we were ungreatful, and if we arent here for dinner we dont get any.. Qnd she said I never do anything around the house.. (Im still very nauseuous) but I take care of our cats, take out the trash, clean off our table when it's time to eat, help take out the dogs, and split mowing the lawn with my brother whos 15... So since hes been gone At our dads For about 2 weeks i had to do everything myself.. She said she would knock me out infront of my bf and she wouldnt care, said she wasnt gonna come to my dr appoi tments anymore, she told me to go move in with my bf. Theres more to this |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2015 10:17 AM PDT My parents were never married and broke up when I was 2. I'm 21 and getting married in a week. When I brought up that I wanted a picture with just my parents and I at the wedding my step mother threw a fit. I always thought she was a bit needy but brushed it off. I tried to reason with her that I wasn't asking for my parents to get back together but to have a picture with me. She said that is not appropriate. My dad said he would because I wanted it. He and my mom aren't on bad terms, but not on really good terms. My mom and her boyfriend don't have a problem with it. Am I being unreasonable? My stepmother been married to my dad since I've been 8. |
| Question: My sister in-law is freezing me out, what to do? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 10:12 AM PDT First, my english isn't that good but I will try. The thing is that my sister in-law is freezing (if its a word) me out and have been doing so since the first time i met her. They have been together for over seven years now and I have pretended that I haven't noticed. I always want to be nice to her, but she keep pushing me away. Doesn't answers my calls/sms and generally ignoring me when the family is together. And she's doing it in a subtitle way so no one notice it, have tried to tell others about it but they cant see it like I do, because she is overly nice to them. I just want to have a happy family, without things like this. Tried to talk to her a few times but then she comes up with tons of excuses, that I must have misunderstood etc. and I don't get anywhere. Then she can be nice for a few hours. I don't want to come home anymore, and rather see the family in the holidays. Now I'm tired and don't know what to do. I now I can't talk to her, but I don't want to be as nice as I always been either. I want to show her that this behavior is nothing that I want to keep up with. Can someone please tell me what to do? I want to be adult about this (that is important). |
| Question: Can a 14year old take care of children full time? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 10:09 AM PDT Hey my name is Kimi and im 14. Me, my younger brother and sister got put into care because they said our mum wasn't looking after us the way she should be. So we had been in care for 4days , a week ago we came to my step dads house (my brother and sisters actual dad). I found out that my brother was being cheeky and for that he got told off. He cried for an hour, and this isn't like him. He misses home, mum, and everything that was normal. I don't want him hurt or sad, nor do I want that for my sister. So I was wondering, could I take my brother and sister on full time? Meaning looking after them and doing all for them? Is there a way I can sign contracts and stuff? Please get back to me |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2015 09:55 AM PDT My parents were 18&19 when they had me and my stepmom with my dad is pregnant. I never thought much about it when my brother and sister were born, but now I have realized that I'm the product of 2 teenagers. I've been feeling sad lately because of all the excitement that has come to my stepmom being pregnant. I've been feeling sad because no one was flipping their **** when I was born. No one was really super happy like they are now. Is it normal to feel this way? |
| Question: Is it common for aunts to be jealous of their nieces or nephews? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 09:50 AM PDT Just wondering how common it is for aunts to be jealous of their siblings children? |
| Question: Im 19 and desperate to move out and be on my own.? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 09:49 AM PDT Alright, everyone is probably thinking this is another spoiled rotten teenager rant but its not. I no longer live with my mom and my dad has never been in my life I've been forced to love with my step fathers parents for most of my life, and although I do love them, its time for me to leave the nest. I'm 2 months away from getting my associates degree, just got a car, and I'm really eager to finally move out of this place and begin my own life I work part time, go to school part time and I pay my car insurance, phone, etc. I haven'thad the best luck trying to find a rroommate so looks like I'll be doing this on my own. I live in new York (upstate) I was wondering what kind of assistance from the state would be available to be just so I can get on my feet |
| Question: Is my father too strict? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 09:47 AM PDT I'm 17 and with my father's teachings, I'm well enough prepared to survive out there alone. I don't want to be ungrateful but my father isn't the greatest guy in the world. He is very hypocritical, ungrateful, and authoritative. I compare him to a socialist dictator, and he forces me to believe in the same things as he does. He is too overly protective because he thinks I can't do anything. I work for him 7 days a week in the family business but i hate what I do right now. He never lets me hang out with friends, and all we do is go out and eat or play paintball.He only believes that his ideas are what's right for him and that people should live by them. I've found out to see that he is a very ignorant person and hes lied to me many times in the past. I don't want to work for him anymore, as I'm tired of him treating me like nothing. I stand my ground against him but I feel like that's too disobedient. What should I do or tell him? |
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| Question: I hate my life Should i kill myself ? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 09:33 AM PDT Hello my name is warren i am 14 and i am going into 10 grade everyone at school hates me i have no friends and i cant make any. My father left when i was young and my parents got joint custody he was a horrible father he smoked drugs around me and got into fights and when i got old enough i told him to get out of my life and he did and tried to beat me up cause i told him i dident like him and that he wasent my father. i feel like no one will ever like me or need me. |
| Question: How do I stop worrying about my brothers health??!? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 09:25 AM PDT All I do all day is tell my brother what he needs to do regarding his health and hygiene? I know it's weird but I always ask him to floss his teeth and brush his teeth and take a shower and eat fruit and vegetables! All the things that makes him a healthy person and he does it sometimes, but then on the rare occasions that he doesn't do it, I get all worried and mad at him and won't speak to him until he does! It has something to do with my OCD! I always worry if he didn't brush his teeth that day or scrubbed his pubic hairs in the shower! I don't know why I worry about his hygiene so much, he is not me, and I can't change that and I realize that! Another thing is that he sits on his phone and plays video games all daydoesn't get outside that much! That's bothers me a lot. I feel like he is getting unhealthier by the minute! Please help me! |
| Question: My mom says I'm rude? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 09:13 AM PDT It's been ages. I'm 17 years old and since I was 13, my brother and my mother say I' m too rude at times. Right now, at the age of 17, there hasn't passed a day without mom shouting at my face this adjective. I don' t understand how I'm considered so so rude when I didn't even intend to be that. I know how words impact on people since I'm a writer, and I seriously never intend to be that cheeky to my mother. I stop for a minute and flashback why the hell did she mention again, that I'm rude..and deep down in my mind, I know my intentions were only pure. Is it wrong, to not fake a smile, and go along with your feelings/mood if you're not up to talking, and just not talk? Is it wrong if I share my thought/opinion/judgment? I'm really considering to take a great distance between me and her and there'd just be the shortest of short talks. Is that wrong too? Is it me or is it her, because she's 50 years old and went through menopause already and I seriously think she became a bit raged than usual. And she wouldn't understnd my jokes, which my twin of course does, and so I'm considered rude again, selfish and vain. Thanks |
| Question: HELP!!! My Mom favor my sister what do I do? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 08:44 AM PDT For the past few years my Mom has favored my sister. At first I thought it was hormones and I was just being dramatic and now I realize my mom does. Whenever my friends come over to my house they can even tell my mom favors my sister. I do everything my mom expects me to do but I get no response from her. My sister is the complete opposite and my mom worships her. First, my moms gives my sister a lot of presents and i get lucky if i get 2. Second, I am going into 9th grade and starting college 4 years early and my mom yells at me for getting a B (which is like once every 3 years and since im really ahead it still counts as an A), and my sister is really behind and she doesnt care about her grades. When I got a certificate for being the valedictorian of my 8th grade class, I asked her to hang my certificate and i found it in the trash the next day. Also, my mom tells me stuff like "I feel bad for your future husband if you even get one" and she tells my sister you will make the best wife and mom. I do nothing to my mom, I actually avoid her because I am scared of her. And she tells me stuff like my kids will be ugly and she tells my sister the opposite. She also tells me I am fat and i am really underweight. My mom admits she favors my sister and it really upsets me how she treats me. What do I do??? I have divorced parents and I want to stay with my dad full time, but my mom says she would never let me do that. How do I fix this? |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2015 08:39 AM PDT .... And wants me to be successful , but he isn't helping. He is the type of guy who never cries. He has suffered as an immigrant and in his childhood. I'm probably living a better life than he did since I was born in the USA. Maybe I just sound pathetic when I'm upset. I just feel emotionally distressed around him most of the time. He acts selfishly, insensitively, unencouraging, etc. He makes me feel pathetic, like a loser or some dramatic kid dying for attention. For example, he never comes to my concerts, awards ceremonies, or expresses his support. Even when I'm getting an individual award that somehow isn't enough for him to skip a tennis match. Yesterday, I was upset, disappointed, and angry with my sister. I ended up crying a little. I know its not a big deal to cry over but i cry easily. While she was doing something I had to come over to where she was, which was near our dad, and I came after wiping my tears. My dad notices I was crying, and he laughs. HE ACTUALLY LAUGHS AT ME. Then, I stare at him for a few seconds and say that wasn't necessary. Then, he says, "Grow up." Then, I tell him that it doesn't help and I end up crying more. He slams his hand on the table. My sister grabs me and take me to another room. No one comforts me. I kept sobbing and I couldn't stop. I go to my room and cry there for hours. I can't stop. I feel pathetic. I feel like ****. I feel like I do this because I want someone to see I'm upset and to fix me. |
| Question: Why am I the Unluckiest Person in the world? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 08:36 AM PDT I am around 15 and the biggest problem with me is my dad. I used to play on my brothers laptop which he got as a gift for passing 10th grade after my final examinations. Because of my low grades, I gave a bad comment on facebook which my relative had noted and called my dad. My dad furiously warned me not to touch the laptop here after and can do so only after completing my 12th grade. Now after I joined 10th, I got a new mobile along with my brother. But to my Hard luck my brothers mobile was way better than mine. On whatsapp I posted a funny photo of my brother on my cousins group and named it devil. My dad again, took mine and my brothers mobile, removed its battery, sim card, memory card and hid the mobile forever saying that he will give it during vacation only. I've not touched my laptop for the last 3 months. I have a big craze of graphic designing. Recently I asked my mom to ask my dad for the Google Cardboard as I was afraid to ask but my Dad gave a scolding saying that I never study at all even though I get good marks in exams. This gave me a great depression. I am not even able to sleep nowadays. I feel totally miserable even though my dad is a bit rich. I am very tall and thin also so my friends tease me a lot in class except for my best friend who understands me very well. I tried hard but nothing works out for me. I am not capable of anything and just lost interest in everything. I have a really worse fate. Anyone please give me some ideas. |
| Question: Afraid of missing out when I go away to school? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 08:32 AM PDT I'm planning on going away to school in the spring a couple hours from home, and I'm extremely close to my family. I'm afraid I'm going to miss out on things going on at home while I'm away at school, especially the holidays. My mom and I are really into Christmas and we start celebrating it (watching movies, decorating, baking, etc) right after Thanksgiving. I get really sad whenever I think that I'll be away in the fall semester and will miss out on the holiday season! Is there anyway to cope with this? I'm afraid I'll be really sad and distracted at school if I'm constantly thinking about how much I'm missing at home during the holidays! |
| Question: Was the sexual assault, my fault? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 08:17 AM PDT This was about a year and a half ago. I was 18, just turned 18. I had been kicked out of my parents home. I went to live with a friend of a friend. One night, it was me, the friend ( A Woman, 30) the woman's boyfriend, 32, and my older brother. I have a larger chest; I had a tank top on. I was laying on my side. I noticed he was looking at my chest; so I sat up and covered myself up with a blanket. So, time went by. My brother leaves and the two go upstairs. After 2 hours passed. I took my bra off because I have contact dermatitis. Which means; if something is in contact with skin for a period of time. I will form a rash. But I made sure to sleep on my stomach and put the blanket over my head. I go to sleep and a few hours later, I wake up. On my back, shirt raised and the man pulling my pants down. I guess I made too much noise when he kept trying to assault me. So he stopped. Is this my fault? My co worker told me I shouldn't have acted so shy and than maybe he wouldn't have tried to bring out the " freak" in me. It is my fault; right? |
| Question: My mom hates me talking.? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 08:12 AM PDT I'm a Talkative person. Im quiet around strangers but talkative at home. Whenever I have a issue I talk about it a lot. It makes me feel better. My mom told me once we going on vacation I should not talk at all. Not about my problems or about anything. My friend told me that talking will help me speak better. What should I do? |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2015 07:57 AM PDT My parents treat me like their personal maid because I was fired from my job three weeks ago and have yet to get hired again. I've been told by my father that I should make myself useful by taking care of the whole house. I'm 18 and only just graduated from school. It's not easy getting hired where I live, but I've been trying my hardest. My parents said that they'd try to respect me as an adult now that I'm 18, yet instead I'm treated like they're unpaid maid. |
| Question: Hi, guys I think I'm cursed by God and I dnt know what to do.? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 07:55 AM PDT I used to live with my Grandmother when I was a baby until I turned 13 years old. She did not like me because of some things that happened between her, my father and my mother. My mother was pregnant with me when it happpened . She has never liked me from that time and I know that because of how she treated me and also because she could not control her temper one day and admitted it to me. She provoked me for years until I started back talking her which is wrong. People told me not to because 'bad blessing' - a curse, would follow me and now I think it is because I am never happy and bad things keep happening to me. Please help. |
| Question: Sister lives with at home with kid and is very disrespectful and rude how to not go crazy? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 07:47 AM PDT She is very rude and doesn't speak to me, she will walk right by me and don't say anything to me. I have done things for her regardless, yet she is disrespectful and doesn't even speak. Parents feels she can do no wrong, but she will try and talk to everyone else but exclude me. I am ready to move out, but how do i not go crazy? |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2015 07:38 AM PDT We was up past bed time and watching 50 shades movie. Not supposed to, my mom hates it.I hear my big sister crying and getting yelled at. Taking forever, I know she s going to paddle us. I want my sis to get it. I am scared. Wouldn t you just ground us?? Lame |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2015 07:37 AM PDT Lets say that a guy over 50 has just come out of a NASTY DIVORCE. How is the way he lives and looks at life similar to the way a 15 year old boy does? Here's one: Both have very little money; the boy because he doesn't have a job yet, and the man because he's lost most of his stuff in the divorce, and half his income is taken away by the court, leaving him little left over to spend on anything but food and shelter. SEX: Both want it, but both are broke, so both find they unwanted by the opposite sex. I don't know of any 15 year old boy who want to have a new kid, and same for the recently divorced guy. Any more similarities? |
| Question: Why wont my sister answer the call? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 07:35 AM PDT IDK why but I call her exactly 24 times in the last hour and a half and wont answer. She lives 10 or 15 minuets away and my other sister has to ''baby sit'' me because we live in a bad area and the one that lies at home is 17 and rude she throws stuff and yells at me and gets paid. She sleeps until 11 or 12 most days I am alone. My other sister is 23 and nice she told me yesterday she would pick me up for a cookout at 9 am its 1029 not and I am about to cry. No I am not a baby I am 11 and I was looking forward to it because my parents always work and I am stuck home with Miss bossy. I mean I would be better off alone because my sister at home is so rude and she gets in no trouble for what she does. She is treated better why get paid for hitting you little sister and yelling! She sleeps on the couch every night so I cant watch tv or go out side until she wakes up and it will take hours. Both my brothers are far away because one is in the army the other lives an hour away they are 21 and 19. So there we go she wont respond to my text or facebook! What do I do I hate it here with my other sister? Idk if she is mad cause of the amount of time it rings Ik she hit the red button. What would you do please help |
| Question: Is my husband right about this? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 07:28 AM PDT When we were first married, mom helped us out financially. That was many years ago. We are in a much better financial situation now and my husband Bill says we have a moral obligation to repay my mother for her help when we were first married. Now when mom wants or needs something no matter how big or how small Bill buys it for her. He is not keeping track of how much mom gave us and how much he is giving her. If mom wants it she gets it. Mom is very happy that we are doing this for her and I am very happy that we can do this for her. My problem is my sister and her husband are mad at us for "making them look bad". I assume but I do not know for sure that mom helped them when they were first married. They can well afford to repay her but I don't think they are. I discussed this with my husband and he said that is my sister and her husband's problem. He said we will continue to help mom as it is the morally right thing to do. Is my husband right about what he is doing for mom? |
| Question: Should I tell my daughter's father that I'm pregnant? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 07:12 AM PDT I have a 4 year old daughter with my ex, and recently married a different man and am now expecting a child. Do I have any obligation or responsibility to tell my daughter's father about the new baby, since it means my daughter is going to have a new brother or sister? |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2015 06:49 AM PDT I do not live with my family because of my college. As and when I left for my college there was a drastic change in my brother. He stopped studying at all. He has a great knowledge of his subjects but he won't write in his exams. Being his elder sister I tried counselling him telling him how hard it is to get admission in any college. His teachers are always complaining to my parents and parents are always asking me for help. Being so far I can not do any thing. His not writing in exams is not the only problem we are facing, He is 13 years old and I know guys get distracted a lot, he is always talking about girls and all. He is not serious about his career, whenever we talk about it he says that I and our father is there to support him. It scares us a lot because we hear a lot about youngsters going in wrong direction and doing undesirable things. What can we do for him? He does not listen to any one not even our parents, he is growing more and more disrespectful towards them too. Please give suggestions to help him. |
| Question: What would you do if your husband..? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 06:29 AM PDT Told your 16 year old daughter with diagnosed manic depression that she's a long nose b*tch and since she has low self esteem and is suicidal all the time, she should jump off the nearest bridge and kill herself? Those words exactly. My dad told me this and I still have yet to tell my mom... He told me this because I was crying for no reason, "like always" |
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