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- Question: Caught my wife blowing my 16 year old nephew, should i turn her in?
- Question: Why you fight with your husband ? Whose fault it is ?
- Question: Need Abnormal psychology help? For 10 cases, determine whether the patient is normal, abnormal, or needs more information? THank you!?
- Question: Guys why would u ask a girl if she misses u?
- Question: In What Scenario Would Two People Get Married Under the Threat of Death?
- Question: What if your spouse loved another person more than you, but not in a romantic way?
- Question: Why am I afraid of being cheated on when I've never been in a relationship?
- Question: Why did I get a refund check from Child Support Enforcement?
- Question: How long do you need to be married to collect survivor benevits?
- Question: My wife just left me what should i do?
- Question: Is it weird not to want to admit that your spouse that they were right?
- Question: I'm going through a divorce?
- Question: Why does my in laws leave me out?
- Question: Don't have a computer but I set up a gmail account and would like to check my email on my wife's computer. How can I do this?
- Question: Coping with separation and lonliness?
- Question: How soon after you begin dating would you let your S/O meet your kid?
- Question: When your spouse won't come up with his half of the expenses but bought himself a new car?
- Question: I’m sagittarius female who has been dating a gemini maleI’m tired of going through the mind games , all the lies, What to do. ?
- Question: Hi there can i still pay for child support being a married student?
- Question: Would you want to work in an office?
- Question: How Should I Tell My Husband About My Eating Disorder?
- Question: Is it weird to feed each other cake at your wedding?
- Question: Am I A Good Wife?
- Question: What age would you recommenced getting married, reasons why?
- Question: Well i told my wife about the oral sex with her sister, didnt get the response i was expectong. she asked if i enjoyed it and i said yes?
- Question: Would a person really lie about wanting to get married?
- Question: How do you fit intimacy into a busy life?
- Question: My husband has a cast fetish..But he only likes to wear them and recently he's been wanting something different.?
- Question: What do you like about your spouse?
- Question: Women if you already had a child but your husband didn't want a second child for very serious health reasons would you stay with him?
- Question: Pregnancy and Angry and Irritable?
- Question: How did you know you wife was the one?
- Question: Is there anything I can do about my husband being a drug addict? Can I put him in rehab? Or something please help we have 2 kids?
- Question: Does the traveling of an airline pilot take a toll on his wife/girlfriend/family?
- Question: Dad's wife is pregnant same time as me, heartbroken!?
- Question: PREGNANT AND ANGRY AND IRRITABLE?
- Question: It's hard for me to consider my cousin as husband.. What to do?
- Question: Baby isn't mine should I divorce?
- Question: Same sex marriage?
- Question: Is my wife forcing herself to come back to me?
- Question: Some one i know has no money wants to leave his wife because she is evil.what should he do?
- Question: Should I try for primary custody of my daughter?
- Question: Who does he really love more?
- Question: Marital birth control question?
- Question: Am I a bad person?
- Question: Why would you live some one who no longer loves you?
- Question: What can you do if you feel like your spouse isn't paying attention to you?
- Question: What does a guy benefit from getting married, & don't say regular sex because that gets boring with the same person, think of something else?
- Question: I cheated on my husband and had the best sex of my life and now I don't want to have sex with my husband anymore what should I do?
- Question: Do you even know your spouses cell phone number?
- Question: Does it make sense for a woman to get upset because her husband didn't want to introduce her to his family and friends.?
- Question: Putting on an act/front...?
- Question: True or false? Spouses can come and go, but siblings are forever?
- Question: Sick of a life with boring people?
- Question: My 20 year old step daughter moved back and it's stressing out my relationship?
- Question: Why do some women cheat on their husbands? What is the motivation?
- Question: We use the bed he had with his ex wife?
- Question: House purchase regret?
- Question: I came across these photos in my wifes's mini-albums, what should I do?
| Question: Caught my wife blowing my 16 year old nephew, should i turn her in? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 08:46 PM PDT |
| Question: Why you fight with your husband ? Whose fault it is ? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 08:28 PM PDT |
| Posted: 22 Jun 2015 08:21 PM PDT Thank you for any feedback and help. 1.Your uncle consumes a quart of whiskey per day; he has trouble remembering the names of those around him. 2. Your grandmother believes that part of her body is missing and cries out about this missing part all day long. You show her the part that is missing but she refuses to acknowledge this contradictory information. 3. Your neighbor has vague physical complaints and sees 2-3 doctors weekly. 4. Your neighbor sweeps, washes, and scrubs his driveway daily. 5. Your cousin is pregnant, and she is dieting (800 calories per day) so that she will not get "too fat" with the pregnancy. She has had this type of behavioral response since she was 13 years old. 6. A woman's husband dies within the past year. The widow appears to talk to herself in the yard, doesn't wash herself or dress in clean clothes, and has evidently lost a lot of weight. 7. A 10 year old wants to have his entire body tattooed. 8. A 23 year old female smokes 4-5 marijuana joints a day, is a straight A student in college, has a successful job, and a solid long-term relationship. 9. A person experiences several unexpected panic attacks each week, but it otherwise happily married, functions well at work, and leads an active recreational lifestyle. 10. A 35 year old happily married man who enjoys wearing women's clothes and underwear on the weekends when he and his wife go out on the town. |
| Question: Guys why would u ask a girl if she misses u? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 08:14 PM PDT guy im talking to asks me "do u miss me" is it because u usually miss the girl and u wanna be reassured that she feels the same? whats a good response? |
| Question: In What Scenario Would Two People Get Married Under the Threat of Death? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 08:10 PM PDT And don't say "shotgun wedding". They're both being told "get married or we'll kill you". |
| Question: What if your spouse loved another person more than you, but not in a romantic way? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 08:09 PM PDT |
| Question: Why am I afraid of being cheated on when I've never been in a relationship? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 07:57 PM PDT |
| Question: Why did I get a refund check from Child Support Enforcement? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 07:53 PM PDT I received a refund check from Massachusetts Child Support Enforcement today. In the check it says "Reason for refund - SNFX - SYSTEM HOLD - FUTURES" I pay child support and didn't expect a refund. Does anyone know what SNFX etc. means |
| Question: How long do you need to be married to collect survivor benevits? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 07:40 PM PDT |
| Question: My wife just left me what should i do? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 06:50 PM PDT |
| Question: Is it weird not to want to admit that your spouse that they were right? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 06:09 PM PDT I sort of begged my husband if we could join this social club but he told me no at first because he knew that I wouldn't like the people there but I was sure I would especially since I had one sort of friend who was a member because she is the wife of one of my husband's co-workers after I kept bothering him he decided that we could join. But now I realize that he was right however I don't want to admit it so I keep going even though I don't like it. Is it weird that I don't want to admit it? |
| Question: I'm going through a divorce? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 06:03 PM PDT my wife is getting guardianship of her nephew before the divorce is finalized. Will this have any affect on the divorce Or can she even do this since we are already 3 months into the divorce.. And have a marital settlement. |
| Question: Why does my in laws leave me out? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 06:02 PM PDT they take pictures of my husband but not of my husband and I together , I've tried to let it go it really hurts my feelings because I take their pictures all the time and they invite me on trips but I don't know if I'm going to go anymore , do they not want me to be with my husband ? is that why they don't take my picture with him ? they take couple pictures of everyone else , idk why we don't see them very often and I don't bother them |
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| Question: Coping with separation and lonliness? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 05:55 PM PDT My wife has seperated and am very lonely without her. She ells me I am her best friend and she misses me. said she wants to see changes but needs space. Having hard time with the lonliness of it all. She is my calming spirit and I her rock, but something got lost along the way? Seperation leading to lonliness? |
| Question: How soon after you begin dating would you let your S/O meet your kid? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 05:50 PM PDT I've been dating this girl for three months but we've known each other since we were kids. I'm falling for her hard--well truth be told I feel like I've always been in love with her--but I haven't officially met her son. He's five and I've ran into them a few times before at the market and whatnot, but we haven't been really introduced. His father died when he was two so I can understand why she's protective of him, I just really want to get to know him. |
| Question: When your spouse won't come up with his half of the expenses but bought himself a new car? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 05:50 PM PDT My husband wanted a new car which we clearly can't afford.He drives a car that is paid off and has few problems and suits his needs. His business is having problems so he has been asking me to cover some of his half of the house hold expenses. He recently came home with his new car. I was furious. I realized he wasn't coming up with his half of the expenses because he was saving up for the car. I'm livid but there isn't anything I can do about the car. Talking to him about it goes nowhere, nothing is going to change no matter how I feel about it. So I told him I'm not covering his half of the expenses any more. Now he is paying considerably less of the expenses and taking a "what are you going to do about it" attitude. He claims it's because of the car payment but I think he is showing me I can't tell him what to do. I have to pay nearly all of our bills. There has go to be something I can do this has gotten out of hand. Is divorce really the only answer? I can't believe it really is? One arguement he has is that I should gobuy something e Is divorce really the only answer? I'm to the point where I just don't want to support him any more because that is essentially what I'm doing. One argument he has is that I should go buy something equally expensive but that isn't practical probably impossible. |
| Posted: 22 Jun 2015 05:37 PM PDT I'm a sagittarius female 22 who has been dating a gemini male 24 for 5 years we have a one year old daughter and we stay together. I'm tired of going through the mind games , all the lies, and we are good when we have sex so I put my cookies on lock until he realizes I'm not for the games we've been through a lot in 5 years. he has cheated while I was pregnant with my daughter but I accepted it because I have talked to other men 3 years into our relationship and have had An affair also. But I feel as though we have gotten past that and now it's time to build our family and do what's right for our daughter . I want our family to work. he likes to hang out all the time when he gets off and never tell me, hey I'm going out so don't wait up or panic. Then he does things he did when he was 16 or 17 that can jeopardize his freedom and his family. Ive tried talking to him and letring him know how i feel he tells me im crazy and that all i do is make up stories about him cheating and that i nag him and that he hates coming home so thats why he goes to the bar and hang out with friends but when i do guve him space or dont say anything to him i have an attitude. I want to know what can I do to make him straighten up , make him see that he can lose his family , make him hurt like I'm hurting. What to do. ?? |
| Question: Hi there can i still pay for child support being a married student? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 05:32 PM PDT |
| Question: Would you want to work in an office? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 05:23 PM PDT full of women who call you a slut behind your back? I overheard "my husband is a professional but I am a slut" |
| Question: How Should I Tell My Husband About My Eating Disorder? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 05:15 PM PDT My husband and I have been married a few months but we've known and dated each other for 5 years. I am 33, he is 34. I want to tell him that I suffer from anorexia/bulimia(since I was 15) but I'm scared that he'll be mad or disappointed. I know I should have mentioned it before we were married but I didn't want to run him off. Now, he is starting to question my weight loss and why I never eat the dinners I fix him.How should I tell him?What should I do?What should I say? |
| Question: Is it weird to feed each other cake at your wedding? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 04:47 PM PDT I'm a guy, I'm 22. I got married last Wednesday and my wife is 20. I have CF so my lifespan is only 40 years and I'm inferile. When I was 15 and still never had a girlfriend, I thought for sure I was forever alone and thought about suicide because I felt there's no point living if I'm going to be alone. But when I was 20 in college, I met a girl who moved to the United States from Brazil, she's the nicest and most beautiful girl I have ever met, but I was certain I wasn't good enough, but on the last day I asked her out and she said yes. We've been together since and I had my first kiss with her. I proposed to her last September and she said yes. When we got married and they cut the cake we put one piece in each others mouths and kissed. I'm Atheist, I've always been so I don't really know much about wedding traditions, I just knew what to say when the priest asked if I took her to be my wife, I do, and to kiss her when the priest said "you may kiss the bride, and I just followed her lead for the rest. It all went wonderful, everyone cheered when I kissed her after the priest pronounced husband and wife, everyone had a great time, and it was the best day of my life and I'm very happy and thankful to have met her. But when the cake was cut she picked up a slice, I picked up a slice and we fed one slice to each other and kissed. Is it weird to feed each other cake at your wedding? |
| Posted: 22 Jun 2015 04:19 PM PDT My husband and I have been married for a few months. He is 34 and I'm 33. We are both in the medical field and work at the same office during the same hours. We knew and dated each other for five years prior to marriage. We have no children but every single night, I cook him homemade and gourmet(no boxed or already made foods) meals. Every morning, I wake up at 5:30 in the morning (even though we don't go to work until 7:30) and make him breakfast. We also make love five nights a week. I also take care of the cleaning around the house. Don't get me wrong--he's a fantastic guy. He does some of the chores around the house sometimes but I understand that he's tired. He even offers to help me cook sometimes. I was just wondering if I am doing too much as a wife and if he should help out more as I am tired sometimes? Or is this what I should be doing? Not to mention that I also battle an eating disorder that he is unaware of, which also makes me tired during the day. |
| Question: What age would you recommenced getting married, reasons why? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 04:05 PM PDT I'm a young adult researching when is the best time to get married. Unlike most people now days, I'm actually putting thought and consideration into a huge life decision. I don't want any answers that say "it depends on the person" or "when you are ready." I know that. I'm curious about your opinion on when the best age to get married is. I also would like to know why. Personal experiences are much welcomed! P.S. I have no desire for kids, so the "prime age" to have kids means doesn't pertain to me. |
| Posted: 22 Jun 2015 04:01 PM PDT because I did. She said if I didn't have a problem with it neither did she as long as I don't have intercourse with the sister. I don't know now if this is a test? |
| Question: Would a person really lie about wanting to get married? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 03:50 PM PDT I have been dating a lady for almost 2 years, we decided 4 months ago to get married, and we decided to just go to the court house because we are mid 40's and already been married before. She told me about somethings she needed to take care of before she gets married, she has taken care of those things and then she came up with another reason to wait a few weeks, and she has also taken care of that issue. So again she has another reason to wait a few more weeks, I have asked her is she sure about getting married, she answered yes, and for me not to worry, but she keeps coming up with things that she wants done before she's married. I'm just a little lost, could she be telling the truth and just wants these things done before she's married? Or just stalling and not telling me for some reason? Very curious to know someone else's opinion. Thank you |
| Question: How do you fit intimacy into a busy life? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 03:32 PM PDT My husband and I have been married 24 years, the fire in the bedroom left about 2 years ago. There's been no sex since then. We love each other no doubt. I guess it's just hard to devote the time when we are constantly surrounded by our children. I'm not blaming my children what I mean by being surrounded is they have a lot of extra activities like football, cheer stuff like that. Not to mention the boyfriend that seems to constantly be at our house with our daughter, my husband watches him like a hawk, we got close to actually getting somewhere one night but it just didn't take off. We never used to plan these things, it just happened. Now there's just no spare time for spontaneous activity. We need some help, any other parents had the same problems? |
| Posted: 22 Jun 2015 03:25 PM PDT Any one in this same situation and have any good stories that were fun/interesting for you and your partner? Because I'm clueless. |
| Question: What do you like about your spouse? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 02:25 PM PDT What is your zodiac sign and theirs? Im doing a survey so answer. |
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| Question: Pregnancy and Angry and Irritable? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 02:04 PM PDT I have a one year old and am 9 weeks preg, I have been married for 3 years and lately been feeling like I need to leave. All my husband and I do is fight over the smallest things, I feel like he is a child and emotionally try to control everything in my life. I have no independence I rely on my husband as we own a business together and both worm full time together with our inlaws in a neighboring business but in the same building. Everything is done half a**ed. My husband has way too much on his plate to care about keeping the house up or finishing any projects we need to do. What makes me tick is completely different then my inlaws they drive me completely nuts they don't worry about anything until it's right in their face and they have to stress and rush to do it last minute while freaking out at everyone. I feel I am trying to always organize and move forward in our lives but can't do so because hubby and his fam are fine with living at the minimum level and if I want to improve our lIves or be healthy or cleaner or on top of stuff I am a bit ch and materialistic for wanting better. Lately all I can think about is just doing things on my own and sharing custody even tho that's the last things I want to do. I feel it's the only way I can truly be proud of my life and acomplisents. The thing that keeps me from moving ford is our 1 year old and being pregnant what do I do? |
| Question: How did you know you wife was the one? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 01:59 PM PDT |
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| Question: Does the traveling of an airline pilot take a toll on his wife/girlfriend/family? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 01:55 PM PDT |
| Question: Dad's wife is pregnant same time as me, heartbroken!? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 01:49 PM PDT I am having a really hard time right now as we just found out that we are pregnant, and my dad also told my brother today that his wife is pregnant as well. Thus, we will probably be due very close to each other. My 46 year old dad left my amazing mom in August 2014 and got married 4 days after their divorce was finalized in March 2015 to a 27 year old. Mind you this 27 year old is younger than my 28 year old husband. My dad and I were really close growing up, but now I feel as if he has tried to start a new family. His new wife had her son taken away from here and she has yet to get any custody again. Which is why I am thinking she resulted to starting a new family. I wanted this to be an exciting time for me, and now I am stressed out and disgusted that I have to deal with this. My dad is going to be 70 before this kid even reaches College. I am 23 and my siblings are 19-16. I am debating whether I should just cut him off all together and live my life with my family and my husbands family. Doubtful,but has anyone else been a similar situation? Ps. She was arrested multiple times for possession of meth, has been in jail multiple times, is a HS dropout, treats my Brother horribly, quite her job because she doesn't want to work and wants my dad to take care of her. So i feel like she is taking advantage of my father, which is why I am also very upset. My bad- he will be 66 - but two of his children are married and starting families, and he can't even support the child he has left because his wife keeps spending all his money. |
| Question: PREGNANT AND ANGRY AND IRRITABLE? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 01:47 PM PDT HI there I am 9 weeks pregnant and everything is irritating me, my husband our business and the fact that we are always broke and can never get ahead, being pregnant makes me want to leave my husband and start a life where I don t have to fight over petty stuff day in and day out. We have a 1 year old and so much on our plates that arguing all day every day is the last thing I can deal with. I m so irritable and just want peace and to live happily and on top of things and feel I can t do that in the situation I am in. Not to mention we own a business and work in a building with my inlaws and they drive me absolutely crazy. I can t stand it any longer. My husband is completely comfortable being stress out and doing the minimum everyday without any interest in helping me keep up on or continusing projects or renovations on our unfinished house. Everything arpund me is half a**ed and I m a b**ch if I want to improve our lives in any way. I m selfish if I want tp get healthy and fit or keep a clean house inside or outside. What do I do? |
| Question: It's hard for me to consider my cousin as husband.. What to do? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 01:41 PM PDT I already got nikah with him. Any advice?? |
| Question: Baby isn't mine should I divorce? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 01:25 PM PDT Would you stay with your wife if you both cheated on each other at a bad point in the marriage and had a baby that wasn't yours? I delivered the baby myself with doctors assistance, but I've been taking care of her like she's been mine regardless of the DNA test. At the same time im on an emotional rollercoaster, even with meds zoloft, wellbutrin, klonopin, lunesta and adderall. The meds help though. There are times where I feel bad about taking care of baby that isn't mine. I've taken a couple days off trying to think it through and still can't figure anything out. The biological father wants to be apart of her life which makes it harder on me because this guy is a shitbag and a coward. I've confronted him when I found out there was an affair, and he backed down like a dog with its tail between her legs. I've been deployed multiple times and this feeling is worse than not knowing when or if you are going to get shot or hit an IED. What would you do if you were in my situation? |
| Posted: 22 Jun 2015 12:48 PM PDT I am involved with someone in Puerto Plata and have been for three years. We would like to get married in the states, as we are the same sex. We are looking at the most economical way to do this, as passports from the Dominican are a grueling process. Any suggestions? |
| Question: Is my wife forcing herself to come back to me? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 12:16 PM PDT I have a issue not sure if it's big or not but it's a concern. Me and wife seperated almost a year ago the reason being is because she thinks I control her with money. I think she feels this way because she don't have a job to bring in her own money. Out of the 7 years we have been married she's worked about 2. I've never made her feel bad or told her she had to get a job or anything. The thing is she's not good with money so I had to get a seperate account and she doesn't like having to ask me for money whenever she wants something. Here's the issue I'm supposed to be going to spend the summer with her and my daughters than we are all suppose to be coming home to live together again. Problem is for the past month she's been acting sort of stand offish. Giving me one word answers to question I ask. Just completely different than her upbeat self a month ago. I ask her is she sure she wants to come she says yes. I'm a few days away of going to get them but I'm not sure where her head is. I don't know if I should bring this up before I leave or if I should just go out there and let what happens happen. She was supposed to come home in January and didn't come. She also went to school since she been gone and graduated and hasn't shared that with me. I found out from word of mouth. No I'm not worried about her cheating that's seriously the last thing on my mind. I just want to know if I should bring this up to her or just see what happens when I get there. |
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| Question: Should I try for primary custody of my daughter? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 12:03 PM PDT She is almost 11 months old. I'm almost 21, her father is 21. We broke up when she was 3 months old and I've been dating a guy since about 2 months after. My new boyfriend and I live together by ourselves in a 4 bedroom house. My ex lives in a 3 bedroom house with his new girlfriend (who he cheated on me with my entire pregnancy), his sister and her husband and their 2 kids. His girlfriend is now pregnant. We split custody of my daughter. I have her 1 week, he has her 1 week. This is not a court appointed parenting plan, it is our own. He claims he'll get custody over me because I go out to the club or go to raves ONLY when it is not the week I have my daughter. And he thinks I'm mentally unstable because if how much anger I have over this whole situation. Is it worth trying to get full custody and give him only weekends ? |
| Question: Who does he really love more? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 11:50 AM PDT I have a silly question today and I don't want to come across as being petty. My husband and I have been together about 12 years and several years ago (6 years ago) his oldest daughter had his granddaughter. Several years after that she had a son. My husband worships the ground they walk on and they do the same for him. There's nothing he won't give them or do for them. He has their pictures on his cell phone and even on the display screen on the radio in his truck. They sit with him every Sunday at church and he even has their photos on his cell phone and tablet. Today he came home with a stainless steel mug that he created at work with their pictures wrapped around it. Not once in the 12 years since we've been together has my photo ever been on his phone or his tablet and rare will he change his Facebook profile to a photo of me. About the only time he'll do it is maybe once a year on our anniversary then he changes it back the next day to one of the grand babies. Should I be worried that he loves his 6 year old granddaughter and 3 year old grandson more than me? I am his wife! The mug today may be my straw / camel issue with him. |
| Question: Marital birth control question? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 11:11 AM PDT I've been looking into more holistic approaches when it comes to health and wellness, and am about ready to say goodbye to my seven years on the pill. My husband however is not excited about this, because he does not want a vasectomy (fine, his body), which leaves us with either condoms or an intense regimen of fertility awareness and natural family planning. He is less than thrilled about having to revert back to condoms due to the feeling... Do any other couples use non-hormonal methods? Can you offer some words of wisdom? I've purchased him some books on the matter, but he's not as interested as I am and I guess not motivated enough to read them right now |
| Posted: 22 Jun 2015 10:57 AM PDT I didn't love my husband when I first married him. To be honest I don't really care about anyone except my children and him. I have a hard time trusting people and opening up to people. Most of the time I'll use someone to get what I want. I do this because growing up I learned it was important to not show emotion or open up to people. Yet I have found myself gradually changing in this way. My husband to my surprise wasn't like the other men I'd been with he never hit me and was surprisingly kind. I fell in love with him because of that and I've begun to resent myself for using him in the beginning. The second time I felt love for someone else was when I became a mother and at the same time I was terrified because I didn't want fail my child. I just worry they don't know how much I love them because I find it difficult to express my emotions I can also be stern and cold. I don't mean to be I just am. Before my husband my life was one abusive relationship after the other I learned it was best to be perfect never get angry, never express my opinion, just be the perfect submissive trophy girlfriend who had dinner ready and the house cleaned. That's why at first glance I come off as a perfectionist because I am subconsciously afraid of what happens if I'm not. That is how messed up I am I expect my husband to hit me(even though he never has) and because I pretended to love him in the beginning I partially want him to beat me because I feel I deserve it. |
| Question: Why would you live some one who no longer loves you? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 10:51 AM PDT My husband was verbally abusive to an extreme. He's mentally manipulated me, pretty sure he's cheated on me, financially ruined us and has hurt me emotionally. He's taken me almost to the point of depression and suicide. When I finally had it, after 22 years, I left. I came home and he appears to change a new leaf. He's being the husband I wanted him to be. I still don't trust him, I feel any moment, he'll turn back to who he was once I let my guard down. I feel he's only with me because he needs me financially right now until his business comes back. I've lost all love for him. I care for him deeply, but the respect and love has been killed. I've explained to him what he's done. He says he's willing to spend his life making it up to me and live with me even if the love never comes back. My question is, how long would you stick around if you were him? How long would it be until you go and find another partner on the side. |
| Question: What can you do if you feel like your spouse isn't paying attention to you? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 10:32 AM PDT Lately there's a disconnect and I am trying to pinpoint where it began. But lately whenever I speak to my husband he is listening, but I don't think he hears a word I say. It seems like he's in a daze. Same thing with intimacy. It's still there, but I feel like his mind is elsewhere. How can I get us reconnected and ensure he is focusing on me when we are together? |
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| Posted: 22 Jun 2015 10:07 AM PDT My sex life has always been dissatisfing and despite my best efforts to help the men I have been with improve in bed I have been unlucky. My husband is a very selfish lover in bed and does not derive pleasure from pleasuring me. He treats foreplay like a chore and his lack of enthusiasm and attitude is a huge turn off. Yes I have talked to him about this issue many times and we have tried everything under the sun but he is just not a good match for me in bed. I do love him and want to spend my life with him but I am so deprived sexually. I cheated on him and ended up finding my sexual soul mate and had the kind of sex I was beginning to think didn't exist. I found a man who made me feel complete and satisfied in bed but that may be all that is there between us. I don't know what to do because I am so turned off at the prospect of going back to the dissatisfing sex with my husband. He knows I cheated and we are working on repairing our marriage but I just can't get this other man out of my head and I don't know how I can go back to terrible sex after I have experienced how amazing it can be. |
| Question: Do you even know your spouses cell phone number? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 10:05 AM PDT Do you have it memorized? I lost my cell phone this weekend and it made me realize how badly I needed to memorize my husband's number. Believe me I felt like a bad wife! |
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| Question: Putting on an act/front...? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 09:43 AM PDT My wife cheated on me but she shows no sign of guilt or sadness in front of other people eg friends, family, colleagues. Now obviously shes not gonna tell people shes had an affair but could she really be sad "inside"?. How come some people can act like normal & yet others show their emotions? Is it just one of those unexplained things ie everyone handles things differently?. For me I show my emotions in my face its obvious that im sad/upset whereas she doesn't. |
| Question: True or false? Spouses can come and go, but siblings are forever? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 09:36 AM PDT My belief is true. Look at the divorce rates. I can get anotehr sposue, but never another sibling. Siblings mean more to me. You? |
| Question: Sick of a life with boring people? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 09:28 AM PDT I am tired of the "just wait" attitude. What are we constantly waiting for? My husband is constantly 'waiting'. He said he wants to start his own accounting business from home (he is an accountant for a small firm). And he hates his current job. I told him he should start looking into making his dream a reality. He should start reading into it and start making efforts to make things happen but he says "we just have to wait" yet when I ask what are we waiting for, he doesn't know. I am a free spirit and I can't take this dull attitude anymore. He does this with EVERYTHING. I want to experience the most I can out of life, but no one else in mu life does. Everyone just feels sorry for themselves. Why does no one want to set goals? Anyone else feel this way? What can I do? But how do I do that when I am married and have to stick by him even if he wants nothing out of life? |
| Question: My 20 year old step daughter moved back and it's stressing out my relationship? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 09:26 AM PDT my 20 year old step daughter moved back in with us about 6 months ago and it has been a HUGE strain on my relationship with my husband. Her teenage years at home were hell and I chalked it up to her rebelling as a teen, but now she has moved back in and now with a 1 year old ( who I love very much ) I told my husband to ask her to pay rent that we would save for her to move out once she was ready. He didn't. We are financially struggling and she is not mindful of the cost of water, electric, ect. And to make things worse she is a mess, my house is filthy and I feel like a slave. I don't say anything to her because it had never ended well, I feel it is his job to say something to her. He had even told me if u don't like the situation I can leave. We are a blended family, and she only wants to interact with her bio brother and leave my 2 children out of activities. This hurts me because I have been trying to make the house feel as if there are no " steps " in our house. To say the least, I have my step daughters baby most of the time if I am not at work. I got angry and told him I was going to ask her for child care fees if she can't contribute by cleaning or paying rent ( most of what would be given back to her anyway but she has not been saving any money for her own place ) my husband blew up at me and now wants to charge me for any time he is watching my kids while I work ( every Sunday ) I feel like I'm going to walk out of this marriage and believe me, I have given everything to this relationship. Help! |
| Question: Why do some women cheat on their husbands? What is the motivation? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 09:12 AM PDT |
| Question: We use the bed he had with his ex wife? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 08:59 AM PDT My fiance and I have been together for one year now. We recently moved into the condo he lived in with his ex wife. He is going to have her name taken off of it and take over it. He had leave the bed he was using behind bc it wasn't his. My bed is only a single so we can't use that. His ex wife left their old bed behind for him to have. He told me unless I can buy a bed just like it (this bed was over 1k dollars) that he refuses to get rid of it. Is it just me or is he being unfair? I don't like using their old marital bed. |
| Question: House purchase regret? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 07:13 AM PDT Please help me. I feel as though I am getting extremely depressed and sad. My fiance and I were desperately looking for house. We searched everywhere and did everything we possibly could to find out. Eventually we had our eyes on two. A move in ready two storey home close to his family or a bank owned fixer upper in an upscale neighbourhood. We paid down on the move in ready home before finding out that we were successful in a bidding war with the fixer upper. We decided to choose the fixer upper over the other house. My brother decided to buy the other house for us to live in until our home was ready. Now the problem is that the house we bought is costing so much money to fix. I have never seen our bank accounts loook sooo low. And now I am falling in love with the other home. It is close to family, breezy, spacious. I regret our house purchase. I feel awful because my husband is paying a mortgage on a home that I dont really want to live in any more once complete. I feel so extremely sad. I feel as though I have made such a bad decision. He feels hurt when I say I love the other house. Because initially he wanted to buy it and I talked him out of it in favor of the fixer upper. I feel extremely guilty. I wish I didn't feel this way. We would have been so happy had we bought the move in ready home. But my decisions caused this. Please help me. I feel sick. Depressed. Can't go to work. Please help! |
| Question: I came across these photos in my wifes's mini-albums, what should I do? Posted: 22 Jun 2015 07:11 AM PDT I'm a newlywed (married since April 2015). My wife and her kids (with her late husband) recently went on a 1 week vacation, and are coming back today. As I was feeling lonely, I looked through a bunch of my wife's mini albums, (she is still in the process of sorting through them for scrapbooking), and came across 1 photo of an ex-boyfriend (there was an writing in the back) and 2 photos of her with men. They were tucked in between a bunch of photos, but the mini-albums were in a drawer (she wasn't hiding the albums). I also found a photo of her with writing in the back to "Babes", and what bothers me is I asked her if she could call me Babe or Baby, and she wasn't used to it. (She calls me Hon or Honey) I feel like questioning her in a casual but non-aggressive way about who are in those photos, (and I'm curious as to why she hasn't gotten rid of them) and to ask her if that's why she doesn't like to call me Babe/Baby. Am I wrong to feel this way? What should I do? Just to clarify, my wife was a widow with 2 kids (that she and her late husband conceived) when I dated her. Her husband is no longer alive and did not go with her on that vacation. Just to clarify, my wife was a widow with 2 kids (with her late husband) when I dated her. Her husband has passed and did not go with her on that vacation. This question should be under Family & Relationships: Marriage & Divorce. I can't EDIT the category besides something in Photography. If anyone can fix this, please do. Thanks |
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