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- Question: I've been offered a place onto Access to Education but my mums negative attitude is becoming too much....??
- Question: Some people call me ungrateful?
- Question: How can I calmly confess without anger?
- Question: Parents play favorites?
- Question: I hate wiping my sisters bum?
- Question: Is my family normal?
- Question: Parents emotionally abusing me and I want to run away?
- Question: How would you solve this problem (family related)?
- Question: Mom chooses another person over you?
- Question: What happens?¿?
- Question: I found out that my Dad is cheating, should I let my mom know?
- Question: How can my husband and I tell our 11 year old daughter he's not her biological father but we're still just as much of a family?
- Question: Step mom said I would be homeless and go no where in life because I smoke weed?
- Question: Is it ok to not care about someone's death?
- Question: What did I do... What did I do wrong..?
- Question: Who should i ask? Grandma Dad or aunt?
- Question: Unwanted family visits?
- Question: I can't connect with my half sibling?
- Question: Caught Oldest brother rubbing younger sister bra on his face.?
- Question: How do you get rid of boredom?
- Question: How come a lot of people are different from their siblings?
- Question: Whats your opinion on a child custody question? Whats fair?
- Question: Que os gusta más bailar en una verbena o en una discoteca?
- Question: Debo dependizarme como ellos lo piden?.?
- Question: How do I convince my parents to let me get a piercing?
- Question: How can I communicate with my dad more?
- Question: Stopping siblings bickering?
- Question: What should i do. my brother has people stalking me?
- Question: Daughter came home drunk?
- Question: Little sister watching the Twilight movies?
- Question: At my younger sister's wedding my Aunt was a b*tch and insulted me should I call her to defend myself?
- Question: I feel alone. My parents always favor my sister and they always yell and swear at me. I get called names and I'm depressed?
- Question: My 15-year-old brother got grounded for watching porn. Did he deserve to punished?
- Question: Can you guys see if my answer to this question is good?
- Question: I hate my mum for everything she s done to me, I hate my life?
- Question: If you masturbate around your brother or sister or cousin does that make a evil person?
- Question: Is this the way to get my boyfriend to choose me over his family?
- Question: My mom caught me watching porn, how do I do bout it?
- Question: My mom keeps pressuring me to see my father?
- Question: Step sisters friend is a bad influence maybe, she got me kicked out of the house?
- Question: Do they investigate deep into situations involving the cops and lawyers?
- Question: I hate it when my mother sings.?
- Question: Is my mum sick and tired of looking after me?
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- Question: How do I get my three-year old brother to behave??
- Question: I'm honestly really starting to hate my mom?
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- Question: What should I say to my sister when she texts and drives?
- Question: I got turned on wrestling with my sister and I feel disgusted now?
- Question: I'm beginning to have a hatred for my mam..?
- Question: I'm always stuck at home? Read please?
- Question: How to interact with a pathological LIAR who keeps changing her story and swearing it's the ''truth'' every time and?
- Question: Why do i start crying whenever my best friend yells at me?
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- Question: Is my mom smoking weed?
- Question: I want to get cuter clothes and makeup, but afraid what my mother may think, advice please?
- Question: Birthday gift ideas for my step mum?
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| Posted: 20 Jun 2015 01:29 PM PDT My aim is to go to University next year, unfortunately my mum is constantly stating how I'm not smart enough, constantly criticising what I do in regards to education. Her biggest reason is though "because I have a child" I shouldn't educate myself or WORK!! Her general attitude is overwhelming and I can't take much more of it, our views completely differ, she'd prefer me to go to benefits for the rest of my life. Every time I've had a job, she has criticised it. My sister goes to uni, studying to become a nurse. Yet she is praised endlessly, boasted about to piers and praised. If I even so much as mention the word "education" - she puts me down, whether she's on her own or in front of others which is even more embarrassing. I don't understand her problem?!?! For years I've learnt to deal with and cope with Borderline personality disorder as well as parent single handed, my beautiful 5 year old daughter. But it is through my diagnosis that I aim to study in psychology, I want to use my difficulties in the past as a reason to push further and help others. Her views are basically, I'm either a failure, or too messed up. I take medication daily, and she shouts at me if I mention that I've been for my prescription conversation stating I'm like a "druggy" because I am reliant on them (which I am) to stabilize my condition. There is just no understanding, I'm basically labelled for having a mental disability and incapable to work because I have a child.. Shallow right? Ugh! |
| Question: Some people call me ungrateful? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 01:27 PM PDT I've been called ungrateful by my brother but the thing is i'm not really it really depends on weather i like you or not but my mom & dad see me just fine because i don't get in trouble at school and i do try to do my best at some things But he called me ungrateful which hurt my feelings. |
| Question: How can I calmly confess without anger? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 01:17 PM PDT I hate it so much when I hang out with my family and they immediately talk about the past. My past, they always mention how I cried A LOT as a child. I don't mind it, but what I do mind is when my rude sister chimes in (a conversation NOT about her) and mentions how she NEVER cried for anything as a baby. Um, YES SHE DID. I hate how she acts like there isn't anything bad about her or embarassing even though she always cried. I wasn't even as worse. Usually the topic was a about temper tantrums and how I had a lot. Btw, this ALWAYS happened ever since I was little. She will ALWAYS do that and it finally tugged my last nerve. How can I tell her without sounding like an attention grabber? |
| Question: Parents play favorites? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 01:02 PM PDT Okay so I'm a 16 year old girl. I have a 12 year old brother and an 8 year old sister. My brother is the absolute favorite. They favor him because he's the middle child, he's the only boy, he's really scrawny, he has like 4 good friends and they just feel sorry for him. It's getting really old and I'm just sick of it. Every time I ask them about it they say no we don't play favorites, but they do. Sometimes they even take things away when I ask them. I'm just getting really tired of it and I want it to end |
| Question: I hate wiping my sisters bum? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 12:49 PM PDT my sister is 9 and perfectly normal but any time she goes to the toilet for a poo she has to get me to wipe her bum because she dosent do it right and messes her pants and mum would be cross. Can i teach her at this point?or what do we do? |
| Question: Is my family normal? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 12:38 PM PDT My mom insults me almost everyday for being too skinny, and she says that I haven't done anything with my life. Strange though, because I am only 14. Anyways, she always points out or argues about how much better she is than me. She acts like a kid most of the time, screaming at me for small incidents and calling me stupid. But nobody would ever suspect it because in front of other people she is happy and extremely polite. She treats my brother much better, who is practically a male teenage version of her. I have pretty bad social anxiety, so I have no friends and I am afraid to go out sometimes, so naturally, my brother and mother make fun of me for that . They hardly ever compliment me, except sometimes my mom calls me pretty, which is pretty ironic, considering the first statement I made. Everything else about me though, my family ridicules. I'm sad to say I'm used to it. My whole life at school, people have bullied me. My dad is more like I am, but he hardly talks to me. He doesn't do certain things with me because I am a girl. He's taken my brother to monster truck rallies, road trips, fishing trips, taught him mechanics, and gave him some summer jobs, all of which doesn't interest him, but it does to me. I told my parents that I want to get a mental health assessment, as well as a trip to the optometrist and orthodontist, but nah. So, is it normal for my family to treat me this way, or am I being too emotional? |
| Question: Parents emotionally abusing me and I want to run away? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 12:32 PM PDT Hi there, I'm 17 and I live with my parents. They have been emotionally abusing me for as long as I can remember. I was recently diagnosed with major clinical depression. My parents never say they are proud of me, all they do is bring me down and yell at me. I'm tired of it, the scars from my abuse show on the inside. Today my mom bust into my room, starts grabbing **** all madly, I tell her to stop and ask her what she needs. She blows up on me, I let all my bottles anger out and called her a stupid fking ****. Rude?.yes. I know but it's been building up for years. I get up and walk out the door flipping her off and said fck you. Hopped in my car and went to work. On the way I drove 95 hopping I would die maybe and get to leave this world. I have been in self destruct mode for the past 2 months. I uncontrollably get wasted and high. I do anything to get my mind off of home troubles. I did a whole box of whip it's in one night, by myself. I don't care if I die, that's how bad I'm hurting. So I'm sitting here at work pleasing to you guys, what should I do. Run away, emancipate, idk what to do? |
| Question: How would you solve this problem (family related)? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 12:28 PM PDT My friend's older sister is such an inconsiderate trouble maker, she always finds a way to draw their parents in her drama with her husband, making up things about his (her brother) attitude towards her and her husband ... and their parents are really too old to be taking all the mess she's making There doesn't seem to be an older, stronger man from his relatives to ask for help about her What should he do ? |
| Question: Mom chooses another person over you? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 12:27 PM PDT My sister had a friend named Kevin. They knew each other in the past. He metioned me saying he bullied me and stuff . So I wanted to defend myself and talk Stuff back to him. He later on said I couldn't get a guy. So I talked about his girlfriend saying she was probably blind so she couldn't see ur face and went out with you. My mom knew about this and decided to defend him when he was talking stuff first about me even in the past . So my mom called me Evil and said this is why I had no friends which I do and also said I don't hang out with people like you saying it's my fault which made me upset that the fact I was only defending myself when he called me a crybaby so is it right for her to say all that stuff ? |
| Posted: 20 Jun 2015 12:25 PM PDT I'm 15 and My dad and I use to be bestfriend a and be inseparable when I was younger. He is in the military and deployed for a year when I was 13. Ever since he got back nothing has been the same like it use to be. I miss the way it use to be between us. Also When he was deployed I fell into a depression but I never got treated for it. Anyways he is different and isn't like how he use to be. He gets agrivated and snappy very quickly. He can also be a little judgmental. I love him with all my heart because he is my dad. I just miss him and the way we use to be. Why is he like this? He has never been like this when he got home from his past deployments. By the way he got home from his last deployment almost 2 years ago. What should I do? |
| Question: I found out that my Dad is cheating, should I let my mom know? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 12:21 PM PDT There was a letter addressed to my mom and I thought it was weird that the return address was our home address. So I opened it and found out that my Dad has been giving my moms hard earned money to this woman and is cheating on my mom. I now have the letter and I dont know if I should give it to her. She'll be heartbroken. Toss the letter or give it to her? |
| Posted: 20 Jun 2015 12:12 PM PDT My oldest child right now is 11 years old. She is an absolute daddy's little girl and always has been. They have a very special bond. Something she doesn't know is he isn't her biological father. I got pregnant by a different guy when I was 16. He broke up with me after I told him I wouldn't get an abortion. I was a completely single mom until I was 19/she was 2. I met my husband. A year and a half latter we got married. He's been in her life as long as she can remember. They hit it off the moment they met (something I'm very grateful for). She's been calling him 'daddy' for almost as long as she's known him. I haven't told her he's not her biological dad. I kept putting it off by telling myself 'she's too young'. Now I've put it off far too long. I know I've made a mistake. We need to tell her now. I'm worried how she'll react. I'm worried she'll feel terrible. I feel like a bad mom. My husband has been telling me for years we need to tell her, but I kept telling 'absolutely not, she's too young'. How can we tell her in a way that's best possible. I want her to know we both love her as much as her sister and brother. I want her to know her sibblings are her real sibblings and not just half sibblings. |
| Question: Step mom said I would be homeless and go no where in life because I smoke weed? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 12:05 PM PDT Once my step mom found out I smoke weed she went on this whole rant about how I am going no where in life ruining my future and if I keep going on the path I am going I will be homeless. I was in college, then she convinced my dad I was no good and she made him stop paying for my classes in school. He knew everything and new the situation and she just freaked out on weed. Maybe she was mad about something else I don't know. She said some really negative bad things to me which I ignored and didn't respond to. I was registered and everything had no job all of a sudden they took away all my money and said figure it out. Now I have $20,000 saved up in 4 months I have been on a grind and I still have money coming in consistently. I literally don't spend any money other than on food, rent bills and going out on special occasions. Why does my step mom act like I am a **** up, and thinks her kids have it all together when they don't? She still does her 18, and 16 year olds laundry, dishes, and packs her sons lunch, bags for vacation she does everything for them. I fail to understand how she acts like her kids are on some promising career path while they can hardly function on their own, while I can live on my own without any of their money. I still smoke weed and I am not homeless Im going to save up for a Ferrari 360 Modena yolo ****** |
| Question: Is it ok to not care about someone's death? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 12:02 PM PDT My grandma died a few years ago and I didn't really care about that, we didn't have a close relationship. Now one of my uncles is dying as we speak of cancer, but again I don't care and I don't feel pain, and no we didn't have a close relationship either. Now like if I'm older (I'm 16 at the moment) and my parents die I most likely wont feel pain or be sad at all. So is this normal? Or am I crazy or psychopathic? And please be mature and please refrain from saying anything immature. P.S Me and my parent's don't have a close relationship either. |
| Question: What did I do... What did I do wrong..? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 12:00 PM PDT So I am 18 now. Despite everything I still love my parents. So I decided to write them a letter. It was 5 pages long and took me 4 hours to complete. I poured my heart and feelings into it, thanking them for everything and saying I loved them. I also assured them in the letter that I was going to do my best and not do anything reckless and that I understood that being 18 does not mean I am free of obligations. i even assured them that despite everything my family always came first.I put my heart and honesty into the letter and thanked them for everything and I assured them that being 18 doesn't mean I am cocky. I then gave it to them. what happened was absolutely terrible.My mom got to the third page when my dad caught her reading it. Instead of him sitting down and reading it with her he stormed out of the room and tried to take my phone and computer saying that I needed to get the hell out of the house and find a job in the morning. I was in shock. My mom came to my room and kicked my dad out of the room saying she would talk to me. She then told me they did not care about my feelings and my dreams and my goals and that it was not important to them. there were only 3 things she understood from the letter: 1. that I'm 18 2. That I want freedom 3. I don't need them. everything else in the letter meant nothing. in fact the letter never stated anything about not needing them and being 18 was just a tiny portion of the letter. Why are they so blind? What did I do wrong? |
| Question: Who should i ask? Grandma Dad or aunt? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 11:59 AM PDT I'm going to get the Wii u for Christmas i know this is late but i'm not sure who to ask... plus this is going to be MY Console not to share with anyone sense i already have to share with someone But also i need a new phone because mine always freezes up and everything but i was going to ask my dad to get me a new phone but at the same time i wanted to ask him for the Wii u but my plan was going to ask my dad for a new phone and ask my grandma for the Wii u but then i thought back on my plan i don't know who to ask well my aunt was another option but i'm not sure if she will get it so when December Comes ( i know its a long way ) i'm not sure who to ask for the Wii u should i ask my aunt or my grandma or my dad ( Positive comment please) WHO do you think i should ask? i'll go with who ever decides but i also need games but i;m thinking 3 or 5 games will cover me but i really want S platoon Mario kart 8 and there's another game i wanted but i can't think of it at this moment. But yeah i also need a case and a screen protector ( which i've found already) so it won't be all messed up and get stuff in it like food and stuff and sense i need a case cause i don't like finger prints its perfectly good cause i like my stuff clean. and finger print free! i also need stuff to get stains and stuff off my laptop that i got last year and suggestions? please comment c: remember only positive comments, I'm 15 and i can't get a job right now because im waiting to finish high school and then go to college and then after look for a job. and i was going to give my dad a 5 dollars because on ebay there is this case that costs that much but he got me a laptop last year and stuff and yeah also I really want this because then i can play games. |
| Question: Unwanted family visits? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 11:54 AM PDT First, let me say that I am not the worlds most social person.. so the fact that my sister, and her fiance think its okay to drop by.. unannounced several times a week, bothers me. I am a professor, so is my wife, we are very busy, when I come home.. my work does not stop. Also, I prefer things very neat, clean, and tidy. So frequent company is a major inconvenience to me. It started about 4 months ago.. they (sister & fiance) came for dinner on Friday night, which is..Ok. But ever since, they come on Friday, and Saturday, sometimes on Tuesday or Thursday (at least 2-4 times a week) and they are messy, and noisy and they just lay around and do absolutely nothing. and it makes me insane. I have even tried to pretend like I was not home.. or busy, but they called my bluff and pretty much came anyway. You cant offend them.. in that sense. They just think everything is fine and that its okay to camp out at my house. My wife hates it too.. and I don't blame her. What.. do I do? They don't exactly freeload.. I mean they eat, and hangout.. but they don't overuse, and cost me money. I just have to clean up after them (clean to me.. is a high standard though) I mean I know they cant enjoy my company that much. I wouldn't. |
| Question: I can't connect with my half sibling? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 11:46 AM PDT I recently moved in with my father after being with my mother basically my entire life. I've visited my dad a few times of course and I sort of know the 6 year old devil child that he calls a son. Having a big age difference of 10 years makes it difficult for me to connect with it, especially being an only child to my mother. My father remarried and had a kid, and the kid is something I think I despise. It's not that I find it competition, it's more that he is incredibly annoying, disrespectful, ill mannered, and I can't handle it. I've always been mature for my age and have always had adult friends, although I thought I've always enjoyed cute and sweet little children. But I find this child not cute not sweet.. I look at him and find it impossible to see love, which is so strange for me because I really do have a big heart open for love and kindness. I just can't with this child, and I want to know why. Is it because I've always been an only child? Or that he simply is a devil child (6 year olds are all devil children, although if I was his parent he would never act out)? I guess I would like your input on why I look at the child with distaste, and if it's possible for me to even grow to love him? Thank you |
| Question: Caught Oldest brother rubbing younger sister bra on his face.? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 11:43 AM PDT So my eldest brother (age 26) visited our house and I honestly don't know if he knew if i was home but he picked up my sister bra (age 17) and rubbed it against his face. II haven't said anything to anyone, even him and I don't know if I should tell my parents. |
| Question: How do you get rid of boredom? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 11:41 AM PDT My family never wants to do anything and my friends are never home! IM SOOOO BORED AND LONLEY :( |
| Question: How come a lot of people are different from their siblings? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 11:39 AM PDT Have you guys noticed this? In a lot of cases, siblings are quite different from each other personality-wise. For instance, someone in the family is smart, hardworking, and makes good grades, whereas his brother or sister is lazy and academically unsuccessful, on the other hand. Someone in the family is law-abiding and well-behaved, but his brother or sister is rebellious and has a criminal record. And so forth. What's the explanation or reason behind this? In my experience, in many cases this is true even if the siblings were raised by the same parents in the same household! Do you guys have a theory or explanation for this? Do you guys have any relevant personal experiences? Thanks a lot in advance for your answers! |
| Question: Whats your opinion on a child custody question? Whats fair? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 11:35 AM PDT So a mom and a dad have a custody agreement that the mom picks up the son when its her time to have him and the dad picks up the son when its his times to have him. The mom and dad live in the same town. Well the dad ends up getting evicted from his place and has to move 30 miles away to a better apartment and closer to the school he attends. Should the dad then have to pick up and drop his son off every week because he moved or is it reasonable that the mom and dad still pick the son up when its their time to have him? Just curious what peoples opinions are on the subject. Thank you |
| Question: Que os gusta más bailar en una verbena o en una discoteca? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 11:10 AM PDT |
| Question: Debo dependizarme como ellos lo piden?.? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 11:08 AM PDT Bueno, resulta que yo vivo en una casa llena de reglas justas pero a la vez de reglas descabelladas. Yo, soy una persona sumamente independiente ya que mi infancia y recuerdos se ha encargado de hacerme así y me gusta, no lo niego. Pero yo tengo un cuarto y mi prima otro pedido por ella. Puesto que quería uno, el problema es que no lo usa. Duerme en el mío, come en el mío, mira televisión en el mío, pasa todo el día en el mío y hasta se cambia en mi cuarto teniendo su ropa en el suyo. Yo verdaderamente aunque sea independiente no comprendo esta serie de problemas que suelen presentarse a diario. Y, a diferencia de mi padre que si me apoya con el problema, los demás están en contra. Porque la política de ellos es que tu ella el y yo podemos hacer lo que queramos en el cuarto del otro porque hay que compartir, pero. Que tal que se cambie en su habitación y haga todas esas cosas ahíYo no quiero que ella deje de visitar mi habitación, ella puede entrar y salir pero no hospedarse como un hotel pero, para ellos ya es egoísmo esta opinión que tengo. Díganme que lado apoyan y porque. |
| Question: How do I convince my parents to let me get a piercing? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 11:06 AM PDT I'm a 15 year old girl, and I have no piercings at all, but I've always wanted my ears pierced and I've wanted my cartilage pierced for the past like two years. I've asked my parents about my lobes before but for some reason they always just dismiss it. I've recently asked my parents separately for my cartilage pierced and they are disgusted at the thought. As calmly as I possibly can, I've explained to them that I'm 15, I'm a very responsible teenager I've never engaged in alcohol or drugs or sex, I'm a very hard worker at school and even have a small job on Sundays. I've never done anything wrong. I know a lot of girls my age and even younger who have cartilage piercings, although I'm not doing it to "fit in" (I couldn't care less about that) - I'm doing it for myself because I think they look cool and I've explained that to my parents. They said they look disgusting and cheap and my dad even said that he would be embarrassed to be my father. I'm really upset about their reactions, I really want my lobes and cartilage pierced soon because my summer holidays starts in just under a month. How do I convince them? :( |
| Question: How can I communicate with my dad more? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 11:05 AM PDT I m 15, will be 16 in a few months. I really wish I could talk to my dad about things. I ve tried communicating with him and letting him know what s going on in my life, but it seems like he doesn t care and he never really listens. I ve tried talking to him about this but it just ends up into a fight and things still don t change. My dad rarely lets me hang out with friends, and he only will if he knows their parents really well. And I have never told my dad about any of the guys I ve dated, because he thinks I m "too young" to date and I shouldn t hang out with boys, so I never get to hang out with my boyfriend and it sucks because it is summer. Does anyone got any tips/advice on how I should try to talk to my dad? |
| Question: Stopping siblings bickering? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 11:02 AM PDT My mom is very sick with her pregnancy, and watching the younger kids is basically up to my brother and I. The seven and three-year-old fight all the time. How can we keep them busy this summer? |
| Question: What should i do. my brother has people stalking me? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 10:54 AM PDT On Wednesday i finally kick my brother an his wife out. I was tired of supporting their habbits an them eatin my kids food an bringing people to my house that i didnt want over. I call the police to get them out. But now, they have been driving past my house an have people follow me an my husband everywhere we go. An the day i kick them out they threatened to beat my husband up. What can i do for them to leave us alone.. I wanna feel safe in my neighborhood an in my house. Its too the point im scared to walk outside or go to sleep at night. I want them to leave me an my family alone.. |
| Question: Daughter came home drunk? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 10:50 AM PDT I'm 31, my daughter is 16. I was reckless and wound up with a kid. Unfortunately mom is not around. I'll admit, I'm a lenient parent, but to a point. She'll have a beer with me if we're hanging out, I have no problem because I'm there. Summer's here, school's out. Long story short she came home dangerously drunk at 3AM this morning. Me: How nice of you to show up, way, way, way past curfew Her: Feels good to be home Pops Me: Had a few drinks tonight? Her: More than a few * giggle *. I like hurricanes now. Me: Bad choice of words. Let me make this quick, I'll remind you of most of it tomorrow because I doubt you'll recall this talk. Give me your phone, it's gone. Go upstairs, get to bed. You'll be spending your days doing chores. You're grounded until further notice. Her: * stomps foot and pouts * Am not. Me: Just go. You won't win this one. This morning Me: * reiterate talk from 3AM * Her: How long? Me: Until I decide otherwise. Her: * pouts, stomps foot * No fair Me: Not another word. Her: I hate you !! * runs upstairs to her room, slams door* She's been in there all day. What do I do? |
| Question: Little sister watching the Twilight movies? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 10:44 AM PDT My sister is 5 years old, and she's been quite in love with the movie Twilight. Just the first movie. I'm not so sure I should allow her to watch it tho. Btw, I'm 24 and my mom is barely home so I watch her most of the time. What do you think? |
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| Question: My 15-year-old brother got grounded for watching porn. Did he deserve to punished? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 10:06 AM PDT My brother who's 15 has been grounded for 2 weeks for watching porn. He said it was his first time watching it - he was curious about what it looked like. I'm 18 and I watched porn for the first time when I was 15, but they didn't punish me for that because they said it was perfectly normal. It feels like they've changed their opinions of porn for some reason. Did he deserve to punished? Did he deserve to BE punished?********* |
| Question: Can you guys see if my answer to this question is good? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 10:04 AM PDT If not what can I change? what can I add? Examples would be awsome Question: Inform us a little bit about yourself and experience you have that could relate to your work in the Sheriff's Department: My Answer: I'm an innovative person, I have a little more than five years of experience as a vice manager at a private security company where I've been promoted twice, and won several performance awards. I also had private military training within the same program, which really helped me handle bad situations. I have spent these last five years developing my communications and my leadership skills for that same company. I think one of my greatest strengths is as a problem solver. I have the ability to see a situation from different perspectives and I can get my work done even in the face of difficult obstacles. I also feel that my communication skills are top notch. Another one of my strengths is my strong work ethic. When I commit to a deadline, I do whatever it takes to deliver. I'm the type of person who thrives in a fast-paced environment. Although I love my current role, I feel I'm more than ready now for a more challenging assignment and this position at the Sheriff's Department really excites me. |
| Question: I hate my mum for everything she s done to me, I hate my life? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 10:04 AM PDT I m 13 and you ll a probably be like she s just whining. I ve been overly depressed for two years and have tried to kill myself three times. It s all from my mum she tells me she hates me and wishes she would die so she doesn t have to see my ugly face, she wishes I was dead and hopes I go to hell because I m a ***** . She throws stuff at me and says really rude things that bring me down and make me cry myself to sleep. She s seen my scars but gave a dirty look and carried on with her life. I had made some really good friends and we would talk a lot and go out. She faked being sad and told my school to separate me from them, delete their numbers and if I talk to them I m moving countries. When we got home she told me I don t deserve to be happy and God will let me burn in hell. She starts screaming at me for no reason because I asked her not to be in a bad mood with me and she was like I don t care if I hit you if I hit you I hit you and she smacked my head and said everything s my fault and she wants God to take her away from me. I used to love her but she made my life hell. She does all of this behind my dads back but he has a temper too and he would hit me if he got the chance but he still loves me. I ve saved up money and I want to run away but I haven t got the guts |
| Question: If you masturbate around your brother or sister or cousin does that make a evil person? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 09:53 AM PDT |
| Question: Is this the way to get my boyfriend to choose me over his family? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 09:43 AM PDT I want to know if this could be seen as cute, loveable, positive...My boyfriends mom doesn't like me and the rest of his family seem weird about me but not hateful. So what I do is I pretend not to pick up on it. I act oblivious and just continue to be sweet to everyone. I pretend to think they love me. I can tell it makes things a bit awkward when I'm over at their house because I'm just going on like I have no idea they're trying to insult me in subtle ways. I'm sure it can make me seem kind of dumb or not good at picking up on subtle social ques but I feel like my boyfriend could actually find this attractive and maybe he'll feel more inclined to side with me if things got bad. Because what my bf is seeing is a clueless yet sweet and innocent girl getting hated on so hopefully he would naturally come to my defense. So what do you think. Will he find my naivety cute? I'm 22 |
| Question: My mom caught me watching porn, how do I do bout it? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 09:35 AM PDT Hey guys, I'm 15(going to 17), my mom recently caught me watching porn and fapping to it. I feel really embarassed and awkward right now, and I don't feel like talking to my mom bout it, what should I do? Thank you. |
| Question: My mom keeps pressuring me to see my father? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 09:14 AM PDT My mother keeps pressuring me to give my father -- who has been absent for 15 years -- to give him another chance in which I clearly said no. In the fifth grade I gave him one opportunity to get to meet me, and a few months later after not answering calls, he left. The following year he appeared again, and again, I gave him another chance. Soon after he left and I am tired of the same thing. I told my mother this and she keeps pressuring me to see him, as does he. I'm tired of this and frustrated that they won't accept and respect my decision. What should I do? I've tried talking to both of them about my final answer but they keep pestering me. |
| Question: Step sisters friend is a bad influence maybe, she got me kicked out of the house? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 09:11 AM PDT My step sisters friend basically lives with my family part time. She is 18 and a very pretty girl. I was at this wedding with her and these older guys kept hitting on her so she decided to stick with me hangout and dance so no more guys would hit on her. Im generally a nice guy so I have a hard time saying no to her. She then took me back to her hotel room and ever since then since we got back she tries coming into my bed in the dead of night naked. My step mom one night heard her come into my room and she came into my room and saw her sleeping in my bed and kicked me out of the house at 2 am. My step sister's friend came with me and gave me a bunch of blankets and we slept in the yard she was allowed to go back I wasn't but she stayed outside with me. My step mom doesn't like me for some reason, why do I have to get kicked out like that? I can't control her from walking into my room at night and I like her to some extent and she is sleeping in the same bed as my dad like what the hell? I have another place to live but I like to stop by and I don't like getting kicked out of the house. Why does my step mom do this stuff? |
| Question: Do they investigate deep into situations involving the cops and lawyers? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 08:56 AM PDT I am 14 years old and I live in Kansas. I want to live with my aunt because my mom yells and me and calls me names and smokes weed and her boyfriend does the same but he sexually touched my 10 year old sister and then my sister told me she saw him trying to look at me naked which makes me very uncomfortable. And he choked me around the neck one time because he was abusing my mom and i didn't like it. I don't want to live there anymore. If I could live with my aunt, what will they do? Will they investigate my aunts house deep? Will they investigate every person living there? I wanna feel happier and safer. Please tell me the steps they will do. I'm stressing way too much over it. It makes me wanna cry. ): |
| Question: I hate it when my mother sings.? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 08:48 AM PDT I just hate it so much! I have no reason why, but I seriously want to stab someone when she starts singing. I love music but I hate her music. It sounds so annoying and irritating to me and my father and brother don't mind her singing. They all kind of bully me, telling me I'm like an old person who doesn't like anything and hates music. Have I tried talking about it to her? I have, a lot of times. I just gave discussing that stuff because she just doesn't care about my feelings anymore. Whenever I ask her to stop she'll get angry, telling me that I should just deal with it. I have the feeling that one day I'm gonna snap and just punch someone in the face or throw with stuff. I don't know what it is or why, I tried googling it but I didn't really see anyone else with the same type of feelings or explanation. Does anyone know what it is? |
| Question: Is my mum sick and tired of looking after me? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 08:38 AM PDT I'm 20 and over 2 weeks ago I had major surgery on my left hip. I was discharged 3 days after the operation, and since then my mum who is 52 is looking after me. She's the only one who can because my dad left us 5 years ago and I don't have any other relatives living nearby. I was able to look after myself until the operation. My mum was fine with looking after me, but her attitude started to change this morning. At breakfast, I was sitting down with a bowl of cereal. Around halfway through eating it, I suffered a major twitch in my upper body which made me lose control of the bowl. The cereal landed on the floor and I called my mum because I can't do it at the moment. She looked at me and started swearing at me. She then said, "clean that up yourself" and walked away. Since then my mum has been really moody with me. For example, when I shower I can't bend down to reach my legs so mum does it for it. But today I asked her if she can wash my legs, but she said "no, I am not doing that anymore. Do it yourself now!!!" She's also been angrily refusing to do stuff I can't do currently such as get my lunch and other stuff like that. Is my mum sick and tired of looking after me? |
| Question: Father's Day gift ideas? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 08:35 AM PDT I'm 20 years old, I live with my dad, and right now I'm looking for a job so I'm broke. I want to do something for him tomorrow but I don't know what to do without money. I can afford a card but that's about it. I was thinking about thoroughly cleaning the house. I'm just down because I want to buy him something special but I can't. I'm obviously too old to be making him macaroni necklaces and the like. Any suggestions? |
| Question: HOw can i make 2 months and a half pass by fast? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 08:30 AM PDT I just finished school and on the first day of summer brrak my mum found weed in my room and grounded me for a whole summer. Now i have to go to my grandmas every day and i cant see any of my friends. Im super bored all the time ,i eat and watch tv for a whole day . we are going on a vacation in a week and the another one in a month (2 weeks each) so that time wont be that bad. Give me some advice plz how can i make time go by faster if i cant have fun and go out with friends ? I cant believe im saying this but i miss school hahah ;-; and i cant get a job or anything bc im 15 :c |
| Question: How do I get my three-year old brother to behave?? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 08:27 AM PDT Ok so my baby brother is super naughty. He swears, he hits people, he bullys me and my siblings even though we are MUCH older than him. So it's my sister who is 18, I'm 14, one brother is 12, the naughty one is 3, and my mom ishaving another baby that's dues in October. So my 3 year-old brother like I said, he swears, he hits people, he scratches he spits, he never ever listens ever, he throws things, he'll cry nonstop if he doesn't get his way, and he's just very very disrespectful. My mother told me me and my 18 year old sis and 12 year old brother were NOTHING like that. So what do I do to make him behave?? |
| Question: I'm honestly really starting to hate my mom? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 08:24 AM PDT I am thankful for my life, but I just cannot stand my mother anymore. She and my dad haven't talked in a very long time, because his reasons were very valid, "she can never admit to whenever she is wrong" the past few years, I realized my dad is 100% right. My mom is yelling at me all the time, excluding me from family, and talking behind my back to Others. And I can safely say, I've never done anything wrong. I'm the only child out of the 3 who has never done drugs, and has been through the most cuz I'm bullied at school all the time and I have never yelled or talked back to her. Every time I confront her on it, she gets defensive and screams at me. But last night and today pushed me over the edge. My sister was sleeping and I didn't know so I was chilling in my room talking to my friend and she comes in SCREAMING saying "Get out of here your sister is sleeping your a disrespectful inconsiderate child" and I said "ok I'm sorry I didn't no she was sleeping." But then she kept yelling at me and then I said nicely "mom please chill we r leaving." Then, she screamed YOUR FRIEND IS GOING HOME AND YOU AND I R DONE! So now I'm grounded for a month for nothing. Then this morning she woke me up and started screaming at me and I said "mom please stop screaming I can't take it" and she shotted back "u r never getting anywhere in life ur a baby and everyone is sick of you" There is more, but I can't fit more past stories the past few years. I just can't stand her anymore. Help? |
| Question: Child Support in Florida? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 08:18 AM PDT Father lives in Florida. He has been paying child support for many years now. In 2010, the mother left the kids to father and received card where the child support money get deposited in but expected the mother to cut it off. From 2010 to 2014, the mother NEVER sent money, clothes, or ANY type of supports that kids needs. All of the clothes, their needs, and foods are from father s working paychecks. Asked the mother for help with clothes but never did. Till 2013 Christmas, out of nowhere, the mother decided to take the kids back and the kids want to move back with their mom and the father respected their choice cause they are old enough to make a decision (1: one were 12 and other were 14 at that time) (2: the mother moved out of Florida to NY 10 years ago and child support originally started in Florida. She NEVER once notified any child support office that she moved out of state. Currently living in NJ.) When the mother decided to take the kids back, she told the father that he can keep the card because of how the mother never supported her children in all these 4 years of living with the father. Turned out within a month she cut it off and had new card sent to herself so she will continue to receive child support money but is believed that she is not using it for the kids and she is able to support the children by herself. Anything that is against the law in this picture, please let me know and any tips related to child support law in Florida and perhaps New Jersey. |
| Question: What should I say to my sister when she texts and drives? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 07:56 AM PDT My sister is 21 and I'm 17. I'm so sick of being in the car with her when she's on her phone. She says she's just changing her music most of the time, but it doesn't matter WHAT she's doing on her phone because her eyes aren't on the road! She thinks she's such an amazing driver and like many young people, she thinks she's invincible and that nothing bad can/will happen to her. I don't want to get in an accident, lose my sister, lose my life, or god forbid see others die due to my sister's negligent behavior. What can I say to her to make her stop doing this? Why is it so hard to value life over an electronic device? |
| Question: I got turned on wrestling with my sister and I feel disgusted now? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 07:30 AM PDT Please no sick jokes....I'm 20 and my sister is turning 19 in a few weeks. We always use to wrestle a lot and I never lost. We're both home from college now and she put on some weight this year, a lot of it muscle from playing soccer. I was just watching TV and she starting putting her feet on my leg and up by my head trying to annoy me. So I tried to get rid of her and we start wrestling. She took me down and had me pinned down so I couldn't move in less than a minute. She was laughing while I was getting angry trying to get up but the worst part was I was getting really turned on the entire time. I think I might have been able to get free but I ended up giving up (not before she made me admit that she can beat me up) so she didn't realize I was hard. I was so charged and it didn't go away even after I got up and I ended up going to the bathroom and having to take care of myself. Now that it's done it doesn't turn me on at all and thinking about that I felt that way and did that makes me sick to my stomach. I feel like my sister would think I was a freak and my parents would check me into a mental place if they knew I just did that. What should I do? Should I see a therapist? What if I get turned on by her again? I'm disgusted with myself right now |
| Question: I'm beginning to have a hatred for my mam..? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 07:29 AM PDT I love her and I'm grateful for what she does for me but she annoys me and it just pisses me off |
| Question: I'm always stuck at home? Read please? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 07:23 AM PDT I'm 16 and for the past 6 years, since I turned 10, we literally have done nothing. For the past 6 years of my life, it has all been a never-ending cycle. For 10 months: go to school, go home, do homework, go to school, go home, do homework.... then 2 months of vacations: stay at home ALL summer. I'm not exaggerating, as I don't do that much. Anyway, as you can guess I'm pretty tired of it, as all of my friends, and I'm saying this, the only 4 friends I have, ALL of them go travelling out of the country to places like Europe or North America. And I'm always the odd one out, here, stuck at home. My parents admitted to me that this is very true and that they're very sorry (I can't go out anywhere ALONE in my country because extremely dangerous, ranked as one of the top 10 most dangerous countries to live in). My mom also told me that since we're not financially well at the moment, we can't go to places like the beach or the pool. Especially since we don't have a car, we can't go anywhere very easily. I'm just.. ugh, I'm just pissed. I'm sorry if I'm sounding like a crybaby, but I'm just really angry at the fact that I've wasted all these years doing absolutely nothing. I'm a straight A student, 3.8 GPA out of a 4.0 scale, and my parents always tell me that I do deserve to travel, but we just can't. And again, me going alone anywhere in this country is not an option. I've pretended to be happy for a long time so my parents are happy, but I don't think I can do this anymore? |
| Posted: 20 Jun 2015 06:53 AM PDT also expects you to trust her and believe her even though she has lied and been caught numerous times, and then also plays the victim if you tell her that she can't be trusted How do you deal with a person like that especially when she is your mother? |
| Question: Why do i start crying whenever my best friend yells at me? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 06:46 AM PDT She never yells at me because like we are super Close like brother and sister, but she yelled at me and i just started bursting out in tears. This has only happened twice but nobody else can make me cry when yelled at besides her. |
| Question: How to use lan in my room? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 05:47 AM PDT my family is moving soon and is there a way to use lan in one paticular room (my room) my family used wifi for ages, but as my video games becomes more hardcore over time, i want to change my connection to LAN instead of wifi (the router's location should be far away from my room according to our plans) my dad does not want to do that mainly because there will be a giant a$$ cable hanging around and he said it would be ugly as hell. so, any suggestions? i can't really show you guys the blueprint but can you imagine? the apartment is rectangular and there are 2 parts. the left one will be the living room and the right one will be the bedrooms. in the bedrooms section there is a hallway and the router will be placed there. but we don't know where the lanline slot is. it might be in the living room! so any ideas? i need to tell my dad about it. jeez. my dad is so stubborn. he doesn't know what "gaming" needs and stuff. (off topic stuff read if ur interested) a few months ago i built my gaming PC. when i was installing windows myself, he think i know nothing about computers and told me to tell his friend whos good at IT to do it for me. even now, im using my PC without a problem he still thinks i should. one day i mumbled to myself that my cpu is too hot under load (62.5c) and i should invest on a better cooler and plug in my old fan, and he said I F##ING (exaggeration) TOLD U TO LET MY CO WORKER HANDLE THESE COMPUTER STUFF U KNOW NOTHING ABOUT IT jeez, he overreacts every time. |
| Question: Is my mom smoking weed? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 05:36 AM PDT I'm 16 and my sister has friends that smoke weed, so the other day my sister's friend came over with her weed because she wanted to pack it at our place after school because my house was just walking distance from school, so me and my sister was cool with it as long as she doesn't leave anything behind or make us do it then fine she could come over and pack it up or whatever, just then I had a whif of the weed and it smelt just like the tobacco's that my mom has at her place in this really weird looking box, so I'm wondering if those so called "tobacco leaves" are actually weed? Because my sister told me they smell the exact same. Can anyone tell me how to differentiate tobacco leaves and weed please? Because it'll really break my grandmothers heart that my mom is smoking weed |
| Posted: 20 Jun 2015 05:17 AM PDT Okay, so I'm 17 and getting my first job soon. I have always been the type of girl who wears jeans and sweaters all year round, however, I do like cute frilly clothes. My mother is the type to assume that when I change my look that there's a guy involved and she freaks out. So I've stuck to the same clothes and hairstyle pretty much all my life. I want a change, something new that may give me more confidence in myself, I'm just afraid that my mother will freak out at me. Is there any advice you could give me? Thank you! |
| Question: Birthday gift ideas for my step mum? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 05:15 AM PDT I have no idea what to get please halp! |
| Question: You know that feeling you get? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 04:53 AM PDT When your entire family starts talking about dykes and dirty *****, oblivious to the fact that you're gay? Someone mentions Michael Jackson, time to bash gay people. Someone mentions church service, burn those fukking gays. I'm tired of it. I just want to come out right in the middle of their family reunion just to piss them off. But they'd make my life miserable so... That feeling you get when you surpass the ones who brought you into the world in both intelligence and compassion. Religious thought corrupts people from adopting a more reasonable and progressive and fair set of morals. I'm 16 and I get that, they've been here 3 times longer and act like their stuck in fukkin texas fifty years ago. They love me just fine, so long as they don't know me. That alone should tell you how stupid their prejudice is. parents, if you don't want your kids to move away and never come back, like I'm going to do, then love them. Please just love and support your children.😢 |
| Question: I'm trying to go to a counselor, but my mom thinks he's a bad influence. What do I do? Posted: 20 Jun 2015 04:27 AM PDT Dr. Blocker is NOT a bad influence. His advice has helped me a lot. My mom thinks he's telling me to NOT take my medicine, but really, he just thinks I have a chance of getting off of it. |
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