When I say social monogamy, I mean the state of engaging in a sexual relationship with ONE other partner at a time, in an attempt to cooperate in the bringing in of food, shelter, and other resources. And maybe while raising a child.

Justtttt wonderingggggggg

My husband and I have been married almost 22 years. We ve had some tough times. We have four teenagers. We have been trying to stay together and work things out. We went on a family vacation this past week. I thought things were getting better. We stopped by his sister s house for dinner. Unknown to him, I was in another room when he was talking to his grown nieces. He told them negative things about me, and said if he could go back in time, basically he wouldn t marry me. I cried all night because of that. I just feel this dark cloud over us. We ve gone to counseling in the past, I m willing to continue going. I am thinking I should just go forward with a divorce if he no longer wants counseling. What are your thoughts? I need outside opinions.

pues me quiero masturbar pero como soy virgen y soy nueva en eso pues tengo miedo...no quiero usar mis dedos......que hago para sentir placer en los senos...en la vagina tengo miedo de que meterme los dedos y lastimarme yo solo se que aveces en las noches todos en sus cuartos durmiendo voy contra la pared agarro algo y solo me lo meto pero no me lo meto hasta dentro digamos que solo me lo paso tantito y se siente bien...obviamente diran qp2 con esta tipa...pero quiero sentir algo en los senos....unos dicen que me los apriete pero tengo iedo que duela...tambien intente lo de la almohada pero no funciono...bueno un poco pero ni tanto deseguro lo hago mal expliquenme con detalles y no me digas nada de que soy muy chica ni me digas que estoy mal...eso lose pero se siento rico y no lo hago seguido pero como no funciona sigo y sigo pero busco mas formas y ya me dijeron lo del chorrito de agua pero nose si lo hice bien o mal por que senti un poco de placer y despues me quede con cara de .-. ni tanto placer e.e no hago nada bien...quiero que me ayuden porfavor no quiero nada de pepinos,mis dedos,esas cosas que vivran lo quiero intentar pero no tengo....solo me lo quiero pasar por el cu** tengo miedo de metermelo y no digan nada de que hay si tienes miedo te aguantas o no lo hagas.....tambien ayudenme con lo de los senos porfavor y si pueden diganme algo que me exite para poder hacer lo que me sugieren en lo que me exito con cosas calientes y no me digan nada ya dije e.e

My brother is doing really weird stuff for a boy and it makes me think he's going to end up gay. First off, he watches girly shows such as The Powerpuff Girls and My Little Pony. This makes me laugh. Also, his favorite band is Justin Bieber, but he also likes One Direction. He also hugs me a lot and I tell him to back off because I hate hugs from that jack a**. Also, he's a 7 year old and I bet he will grow up to end up dating a boy. Is my brother going to be gay?

I am 12 years old and I badly want sex with a boy that I like but I don't want to get pregnant at 12. I know there is high chances of getting pregnant when your young but what if he uses a condom? Is it wrong that I want to have sex

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend because he was a cheater and verbal abuser. Anyway, I saw him recently at a party and he cornered me in a hallway. He started getting agitated and then said we "had to get back together." I said "no" and started to walk away when he grabbed my arm and twisted. I broke free and kicked him as hard as I could right in the balls with my pointed cowgirl boots! After I rocked his babymakers, he fell down and puked while I stood over him and asked him if he could taste his nuts. His face was priceless! I guess I nailed him so hard his nuts swelled up to the size of oranges and one ruptured and had to be removed (I play college soccer so I know how to blast a ballsack!). I feel a little bad about what happened but he is now saying he never mess with a girl again and he even wears an athletic cup all the time to protect his remaining family jewel. My girlfriends on the soccer team now call me the "nut remover" and say I should hang up a fake pair of nuts like a hunting trophy on a tombstone background with the words "RIP Brian's Nuts-Destroyed By Girl Power" since I sent his nuts to "nut heaven." Other people say I should hang up a guy's athletic cup as a symbol of female power over male weakness (guy's nuts are so vulnerable and they need the extra protection). Any other good nicknames? And what should I hang up? The nuts? The cup? Both? The more names and ideas the better! Be creative! Just wish more girls could experience blasting a jerk's balls! It is such a great feeling seeing a supposedly tough guy go down with one kick. Must suck to have nuts. They are just two targets dangling between a guy's legs! One shot and it is all over.

On my main account of RF4 I recently married Dylas. I was really excited to see all the new stuff. I was expecting their to be another option instead of "Go on a date" or maybe new things instead of "Kiss on the cheek" once I went on a date. I was expecting him to be nicer when I told him I loved him and I was hoping he d be more sweet because I was having issues with how rude he can be. Pretty much, what I'm asking is after Marrying Dylas are their any sweet events?? Adorable ones??

Do you think this girl is attractive? I, for one, think she is extremely attractive. If so, or if not so, why?

We have known each other for a few weeks only. But we have been seeing each other practically every day. We get along super well. I'm 20, hes 28. He told me a few things about him, and it just keeps adding ... Like he used to deal drugs, he was on drugs- every kind he has tried, he has been raped, he's been cheated on, he's been near death 3 times because of motor accidents & in a coma for weeks, his little sister died as a baby, he saw someone kill themselves, he almost accidently killed someone... The list goes on. Is this believable? I'm not being gullible am I? He knows I like guys who are more reckless but smart.. So idk... He used to race cars too, down streets

LONG story, but basically my friend met this guy and they really clicked but then he raped her...no drugs or alcohol were inolved, but she struggled against him and said nol. Now, about a year later she wrote to him and told him why what he did was super not ok. He responded really well and maturely, at least in both her and my opinion, basically saying he never realized that's what it was - he just thought she was being playful (he clearly didn't get what consent was, but it SEEMS like he didn't mean any harm even though he obviously DID cause harm). My friend is now trying to figure out whether she can forgive him, and, if she can, if it's worth it to be friends with him again since she honestly seems to feel he's not a horrible person, he just needed to be majorly educated on consent and rape culture. I'm really concerned and wish I could help her more...any thoughts??

Im 16 and I have fallen for my teacher so bad. I honestly do think he feels the same... The stuff he says and things he does i take as flirting, I wanted another perspective on it.. Am I taking it the wrong way? - he always winks at me and I constantly catch him staring - HES made comments such as ' me and you should go get a picture in the photo booth... Alone though' When I said to my friend during PE lets go take a shower he said 'there's plenty of time for me and you to do that' - he always makes hint that he has been looking at my Twitter such as repeating tweets IVE made - he always shows me his phone, one time he was scrolling through his photos and a nude came up and he simply said ' you can't be seeing that yet' and then he showed me pictures of him and his wife and said 'im not making you jealous am i' - when getting photos at school events he always squeezes my waist and has brushed his fingers along my bum a couple of times - there's alot more flirty comments and behaviour like this. But am j taking it the wrong way? obviously I enjoy it cause I fancy. Say your honest opinion. Oh I forgot to mention, hes 39..

Okay so here's the deal I'm African American 21 years old and he's Lebanese 18 years old. I was wondering does he like me. He always seem patient and caring while teaching me how to do math problems where I'm weak at. Sometimes he calls me baby girl and one time he called me baby and told me bye when I was leaving to go to my next class. He sometimes look at me and give me this deep stare. He wanted me to put my number in his phone when we were walking down the hallway at college and I did. He texted me once Thursday and asked me about my refund check did my come because his just came and he asked me was it normal? But when I called him Friday he didn't call me back. I was wondering what's up with this. Does he like me or not?

I've been looking out for internship opportunities and have been sending out my resume to various companies. I finally got a reply this morning but it was the boss saying that he would get back to me soon as he's currently out of the country for his job. What's a nice response to reply to that? Or should I even reply it? Sorry for the typo in the question.

I am totally Self Motivated. I have come to realize its a gift and curse. If I want to do something doesnt matter the doubt or encouragement from others I just do it. BUT at the sametime if I dont want to do something doesnt matter how much encouragement given or doubt, I just dont do it. Do you think Im right its a gift and curse???

My mom and his mom have two different fathers. Which means only my grandma binds us together as cousins. We have been with eachother for a year and a half now.. Its been the best time of my life. I really do love him.. Its just tough because its looked down upon. I just cant help but have these feelings for him. He and I have a healthy and caring relationship that is everything i can ask for. Im just scared that I might loose him someday. I am currently 17 as of june 4th..he is 19. Once im 18 will it all be easier?... I just feel like i need someone to talk to.. I love my cousin and I feel like theres nothing wrong in saying that. I feel as if its better to be with someone you really do know from childhood, rather than getting with a complete stranger you have to gradually learn about... But thats just in my eyes.. 👀

not sure what do i do to get rid of sadnees .always like this ,needs help ,thanks a lot

I recently became friends with a girl that lives near me. We met at work & I have since quit. We talk constantly & since my husband works a lot he isn't around. I hang out with them as a couple (me the third wheel) & our kids who are the same ages. It doesn't bother me. He made a comment at a party of theirs to a coworker that I'm his other wife. I laughted it off. (The coworker wanted my number thought I was single even with 2 kids) Then he joke yesterday after I dropped off some items I picked up for her at the store about "how I need to stop coming around his wife is going to find out about us" & "my hubby is going to beat him up" she was standing there & laughted too. I joked I'm really after his wife & gay marriage is legal now & we could take both husbands for all their worth in child support. We all Laughed (child support is a sore subject since his ex is a nut) I never got out of the car. & left, I did tell my husband about this. & he laughted said he really broke. We go swimming with this couple, we let the kids play 1-3 times a week. Is this harmless joking or

Very long story short. Been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. I have a son who just turned 4. He has a daughter who is 5. My son gets in trouble for everything. Being too loud. Not listening. Just everything he does seems to annoy my boyfriend. But when his daughter is here on the weekends she gets away with everything. She talks to me bad. Tells me what to do. And if I ask her to stop doing something she says NOPE. And he does nothing. Also my son sleeps in his own bed everynight. But when his daughter is here he lets her sleep with us cause she cries and cries till she gets her way. She also tries to get him to sleep with her alone. She says I don't want her in here I just want you daddy. But she sleeps in her own room at her moms house. She's so spoiled when she's here. Even calls him dada. She's 5! She also screams and sometimes hits my son. She's has a horrible temper. Last night I asked if he could please make her sleep in her bed because I wanted to sleep with him alone. He said yes. She wouldn't stop crying. I said Brooklyn just stop crying. U can watch a movie. She said your mean !! Of course he brings her to bed with us. And told me you were mean to her so this is what you get. Will this ever get any better ???

Should I put my childs father on child support we are not together and im cool with that and he helps but its not enough and i think he can do better for his son what should i do

is it because they are not, hence they feel bad?

He was so nice to me Then, me and this other girl put paper in his water.He saw the paper in his water and then he said "who did this" I said "me, we were just kidding " he was only mad at me then I said "sorry" He said "I was just messing with you" Then when we were in school he said he'd unfollow me on instagram, and whenever I go accidently next to him. He always says " ew *my name*". FYI we're in middle school and I know there are some miss print grammar, bcuz it's summer and I don't get alot of sleep.

Hi there, I just wanted some opinions so please try not to be rude or hateful, I just want some experience from others. I'm 15 1/2, and I know it's dumb to come to yahoo answers for this, but do you think 15-16 is too young to loose your virginity? I've been with my boy for over a year, it seems so typical to say but we truly are very mature mentally.. (He's a grade older than me). He's never done anything to disrespect me or my body, he is well mannered and kind, and we both trust eachother very much. Everything we've ever done he's always asked for my consent and never did anything until he knew I was 110% comfortable. I feel like even if we don't stay together "forever and ever" I would be okay giving it to him? (We're both virgins). I'm not saying we're going to jump right into it yet, I'm aware of all the consequences, we both have teen parents lol; but I just wanted to see what other people had to say and I figured this could be a good place to go. I Anything helps, I just want some insight and advice (: thank you!

So I've been with my girlfriend now for a few months. She is my cousin's best friend, yet their relationship hasn't been the greatest the past few months. They haven't talked much or even at all, my girl uses the excuse that she works and has been very busy, but I don't believe that load of crap. (a phone call is not much -.-). Any who, My Cousin, My Friend and Me are considered as the 3 musketeers. We are very close and we tell each other everything, yet my girl doesn't want my cousin to know that we are together. Literally every single friend of mine (and I got a lot!) knows about us yet it just feels wrong for me to keep such a secret to my own cuzzo. I said earlier that they were close friends but that friendship has been drifting, and every time my cuzzo brings up her name and asks me about her I'm forced to lie and say I haven't heard from her in forever. What do ya'll think about this? How would you feel?

Recently in my dreams my guy friend has always appeared in my dreams. The dream setting is always happy & fun, in every dream he is in we are talking & laughing, taking pictures.. Long story short we met at the beginning of the school year after I won homecoming (I'm a sophomore he's a freshman) & he used to always offer to walk me to my 2nd period everyday (I can't see that well, just got my vision back) (I can read my phone) so he helped me. We became real close, he asked me to the football game & took me even though I couldn't see well. He admitted to liking me a whole lot, BELIEVE ME SO DO I. We had movie nights, we both really liked each other, we planned another one. Nothing bad ever happened. A week later (the week of his sisters anniversary, she died 4 years ago) he started to become distant with me & ignoring me, I never knew why. I asked if he was mad at me or if I did wrong to him, he said no. It's been 6 months since we last hung out talked. Since then I've gotten close with his Bestfriend & his mom. Our parents are best friends and hang out a lot so I do see him often. He's very respectful to me & is still very sweet. He'll say hi & give me a hug, make small talk. I still don't know what happened for him to ignore me. he's been hard on my mind lately, I still really like him. Why is he always in my dreams? What do you think of all this. Is this all my fault ? Imshould I just let it work out on its own

People who are in charge of you (boss/teacher etc) dont tell you exactly what they want of you, so when you do something differently to how they wanted you to do it, they get annoyed with you? Eg, the boss wants the employee to write things the daily timetable, but hasnt actually told the employee what to write & not write in detail, just briefly gone over it. Then, when the employee writes something that the boss didnt want written, the boss gets annoyed and puts the sole blame on the employee...? Its hard to explain out of context, but generally how can I deal with people who expect others to do things a certain way and gets angry if they re done differently? I cant ask questions about things that I dont know should even be questioned either, so please dont tell me that I should ask this person what to do.

We have been together 2 years. He treats me like gold, but he is a jehovahs witness (not in practice, but he believes in these things since his mother is jehovahs and she brought him up that way). He doesn't believe in saving a childs life with a blood transfusion. We almost broke up about that since I could never risk my childs life for a God like that. We were able to get through that, but today (with the wonderful Gay rights) he came home and was so upset that Gay's are receiving these rights. I couldn't believe it! I said, what if I had a Gay friend that came over...would you be respectful to them? He said that he would leave the room and wouldn't speak to them! I thought....for someone with such strong ties to God, I would think they would have more compassion.....but no! I love him even though he believes these horrible things because he has been wonderful to me. I think its time to walk away? What would you do?

So far in my life i've seen plenty of 'awful' stuff that were caused by people whom i trusted the most. As i've grown older i realized that the only people i truly trust are my parents and no one else. I trust my boyfriend too but at times i still don't. What can i do? Is this good or bad?

Okay so im a 14 yr old boy and ive always been called gay because im really femmy since i was around woman all the time when i was younger and ive always thought i liked girls. But now idk i just feel like dudes seem like hot af now but then again there was this girl i really liked but she didnt like me back and now i just dont see myself with women. Also the doctor said my testosterone is super low for my age and that can be a reason i feel this wah. Btw i think sexual things are really fing gross. And i really dont want to be gay or bi cuz a lot of my friends an cousins seem super homophobic. So ig this whole thing is random af but idk im strugglin and seriously need help to at least sort this out or explain it to me a little.

I have been with my fiancé for a year, we have been friends for a long while, we have had a lot of ups and downs, but we know everything about each other. I adore him. Three years ago I told him that I had feeling for a girl, he was okay with the idea. So with his support I decided to ask this girl that also had feeling for me, to be my girlfriend. Surprisingly she said "yes!". I fell in love with her she was perfect for me and so was I for her. Only problem was that we had to hide from everyone because we were not ready to come out. It got exhausting, I tried but after a year I realized our relationship was putting a lot of stress on her and I both. I ended it, it ruined us. I did it for her so she wouldn't be scared anymore, so she Could think about what she truly wants and grow as a person, About two months after i ended it with her, my "boy" friend came back into my life and we started dating, then we moved away, then we got engaged. I have pushed aside my true feelings, And left her behind. I've talked to her a handful of times since I've left her and the conversations always end in tears, regret and her telling me she will always want, and love me and I reply saying "so will I." I feel horrible. Okay so with all that said my real question is what do I do, I love my fiancé but I'm in love with her and there are so many things keeping me with him, but also so many reasons why I want and need her. Please anybody some advice would be nice .😀

Her biological father is an Alcoholic 2 30packs a day. He's never wanted anything to do with her till child support payments wher in forced. I have paper work to prove that. He has laid his hands on me several times but only after I got pregnant with his flesh and blood. And cops have been called several times while I was pregnant with her because of the abuse....

I'm divorced and I had sex with my married co worker, he had been flirting me and one day it just happened but the next day at work we both feel uncomfortable with each other

I heard my mom talking with my dad and she said that I am not reasonable and ungrateful just like my brothers. To be honest I kinda think I am because my mood has change a lot like I get mad for every little thing and just started crying. And when my mom ask I tell her nothing or leave me alone or when my dad ask me I say I don't want to talk to my mom or leave me alone to. My mood have change to the point were I don't know why I cry sometimes or get mad for. I am trying so hard to control myself to be more reasonable and more grateful and treat my parents better. But its not coming out and I don't know what to do. I keep so many things to myself that I fell like I'm hurting my own self and I don't know how to stop and just say what I have to say and face consequences. I know I am hurting myself someone by holding so many grudges and sometimes not talking to my mom or dad. How can I change all of this?

Estoy muy tragado de un chico, el tiene 28 y yo 18. El es muy simpático, de ojos azules, musculoso, alto.Yo soy una chica linda, soy voluptuosa pero no tengo el mejor cuerpo, tengo cara linda. Llevamos 8 meses de conocidos, en la primera cita lo bese, me le monte en el bar, seguimos saliendo muy seguido por 3 meses y era todo muy lindo, pensé que llegaríamos a ser novios pero no. luego dejamos de escribirnos y vernos, hasta tal punto que este año nos hemos visto solo 2 veces. No se que me pasa con el, solo me encanta todo el, su humildad, El. pero el esta perdido en la vida, el es perro y si en pre lo ha sido, no se si lo sea ahora, respeta mucho a las mujeres pero no es un santo, hombre promedio. Yo ps tampoco soy una santa pero ps cuando lo conocí el pensaba que era virgen y ahora no lo soy pero el piensa que si, salimos mucho y planeamiento cosas y es aún especial conmigo, el me dijo por primera vez que me quería, el fue demasiado lindo y tierno, el quería algo serio, estoy segura. Hablábamos a diario, y el estaba medio ilusionado, nunca me presionó para hacerlo... el es el único que ha hecho algo así y en verdad no puedo sacarlo de mi cabeza. Cuando nos dejamos de hablar, quedábamos de vernos pero no lo haciamos, yo después de eso no le inicie jamás una conversación. Hace poco le inicie yo la conversación y me dijo que me quería, y que habláramos más pero el no se esfuerza... que hago? No se que piensa el? Que quiere? Yo quiero algo más... ayuda!!

I am at a college orientation sleeping over night and while I was trying to sleep, a herd of loud kids walked into my room, turned on the light and yelled "there's a body!". They closed the door and are now camped outside my door watching wheel of fortune. Then, another herd of kids burst in and turned the light on again and I looked over after they left to see that my roommate's stuff disappeared. They told us we're not allowed to lock the doors?? Is this normal? What should I do?

When I was in high school in 2002 I met this guy. We dated for a while. We would keep in contact through Facebook and message ever now and then. However in May of this year we end up reconnecting on a trip when we both ended up in Vegas the same weekend for fight weekend. We hooked up and made plans to go out, but that had to end b/c he got a call that his mother passed away and had to fly back home early. When I made it home I was there for him. That's when he started saying he wanted to be in a relationship and it seem like it was going to fast. However I went with the flow. I would stay nights at his house. Holidays and family events I was there. It's only been 5 weeks that we've been dating. However he's starting to be mean towards me. I know he's grieving so I'm trying to give him the benefit of doubt. The last thing I want to do is walk away from him and this relationship were trying to build but he's making it hard for me. When I try to talk to him he switches it up. What should I do. I really do care about and he's good guy to everyone else who's not that close him. Should I stay or leave him alone?

I never cheat but sometimes dont you think it's tough?

So I do have a 5 year old daughter from a previous relationship who I love so much! O just only wanted to have one child but he wants us to have a baby together I do understand where he is coming from we've been together for 3 1/2 years but I don't think I want another child I think one is enough for me im 24 I just don't want to have that many kids I tried to explain some people do some people don't! Our relationship is not good right now what should I do? Should I try counseling or something?

I live in an apartment complex, and we never had problems. We basically live in our own world and stay out of everyone's way. I woke to some neighbors talking about my mom. They were saying how out of her mind and insane she was. I was hurt and mad by the things that they were saying about her. I love my mom, and she never talks about anyone. She just does her own thing. Anyway, after hearing this, I hesitated to tell her but I eventually told my mom. Do you think I did the right thing telling her?

hi im a 14 year old girl and my girlfriend and i have been separated by her dad for about 5 months for unknown reasons. it could be because he is homophobic or he doesnt want his daughter dating. i cant talk to her at all but her friends have recently contacted me trying to help me out. they suggested i ask the internet what to do so i wrote this. thanks

I just turned 21. I made some poor choices in life and wont make enough to move out on my own and have my life on track until I turn about 22 and a half. Kinda feeling down about it, but determine to turn my life around.

Well only guys I don't like, seem to be interested in me. I only attract the scientist, computer, intellectual and shy/low profile type of guy-that i DON'T like, wouldn't date but never a higher profile guy (you know the business type of guys who dress well and have a decently/ high income). What's wrong with me? Should i change sth in myself? Do i need to pay extreme attention to my looks, change the way i dress, also personality, confidence, or what? These high profile guys usually have very high standards right? i'm a girl

I'm having a crisis, so I think I should give some background. When I was very young, I learned about my dad's affair. It ruined my childhood because of the series of events it set off. I grew distant from my father, and was raised mostly by my mom and sister and other female family members. As a result, I always had a different view of women than guys my age. I just appreciated them more, because the women in my family are much greater than the men. They're incredible creatures. Anyway, as I got older, I started getting interested in seduction, and I started reading classical works on love and seduction for work (and it's helped me get promotions to a pretty high level) but it's also worked really well on women. Love's become like a form of psychological warfare. Finding your opponent's weak spots and exploiting them. You have to show her that whatever it is that's missing from her life, you've got it. It's incredible how far people will go to please you if you do that. You're manipulating them, but you also fulfill their life and make it complete. You literally make them whole. The goal is not sex (even though sex is a priority). The goal is to make the girl fall in love with me. I've done this with 27 of the 39 women I've been with since college. And the reason I don't stay is because of my fear of cheating. I know what goes on at bachelorette parties and behind closed doors. Humans are sick narcissists, and I exploit that. The problem is that I can't leave the girl I'm with now. I try to, but I just think about her her eyelids flutter when I kiss her and the way her fingers move and the way she walks and how she runs her fingers through her hair and I just can't. It's too beautiful for words. She's enchanting, but I know that I'm getting too attached. This isn't good. It raises the stakes, and when she cheats, it'll ruin me. But at the same time, I can't help but try to be romantic and trying to seduce her. It's driving me crazy. No woman has ever actually cheated on me, but it's because I end it before the spell wears off, you know? The longest relationship I've been in is 3 months. She was complicated (but worth it). I'm 90% of the way to breaking up, but I can't. I feel like she's manipulating ME. I need help. I'm going crazy. I tried getting help from friends and they kept telling me I found "the one" and I should settle down, but I don't want to. People cheat the second they aren't happy. And to be honest, I've always secretly craved for a life long romance. it would be like the ultimate challenge, since so many people try and fail. If I pull it off, I'd feel so happy. And I'd like to see those eyelids flutter when we're 80 too. But I'm also scared, because when she does cheat on me, I'll be ruined. The problem is two fold. First, I have to keep her so enthralled and so in love with me that she wouldn't even think of cheating and I'm the only guy she'll ever want or fantasize about. But, then I run into another problem: boredom. The second she's unhappy, there's going to be a guy that's exactly like me that will spot it and who'll take advantage of it.

Hello, so I feel this way about her, I dont know if she feels this way about me. I cannot stand so many things about her. I hate how she needs to be best at everything. Shes a sore winner. I'm not a sore loser, but she rubs it in my face and hates playing games she knows she cannot win. She makes me feel so bad about myself.Earlier we were talking about hobbies. I was explaining how I want more physical hobbies. I went on to explain how its must be nice to pick up and pen and paper and draw what ever comes to mind. She confirmed it was. Thats great. But when I told her that reading and astrology dont do much and people dont care if I do those things she agreed. I found that to be very rude. I agree, I did leave myself open to it. But she still could've trieedd to make me feel better. I mean sometimes I don't like her art, But I tell her things she can improve on or do different about that piece not "yeah thats ugly and strange." She always tells me I make her feel bad about herself, am rude, and "shut her down". She does the same to me. I admit I can be blunt sometimes. She never acknowledges the **** she does to me and how it affects me. I tell her all the time, if i ever hurt your feeling, make you feel bad or anything tell me immediately so I can apologize and try to never have it happen again. I know we do have to talk about stuff, but I'm always worried because everything hurts her feelings. She doesn't even want a job because they depress her. so she goes to school a few days a week and plays video games. Shes 20, I'm 18. We fight all the time about her video games . She told me a few times shes not sure if she wants to date me because I dont play/ or appreciate video games. I've tried them for her, but just do not like them . She's tried my interest 0 times, and read 0 books that I love and adore. Oh I forgot, she even continues to talk to an ex, who she claims she was in love with. They broke up in febuary. I asked her why is she dating me so soon and how isnt she still inlove with her ex or at least have some feelings, I mean love is a strong word and they dated for a few years. She said because it was a "nasty breakup" she has no feelings and never will. it was an abusive relationship also. she even told me she wouldnt want me talking to an ex, so she knows the uncomfortable feeling :/

My boyfriend of almost a year and his parents have been looking for a new home for months. After finally finding one, and working on their current home, they sold their house and were excited about moving into the new house they found. They asked the bank for a loan and every thing seemed in good terms; however, their loan got denied. With that being said, my boyfriend and his parents have no place to live as they sold their home, and they don't have all the money to purchase a new house. I love my boyfriend and his family dearly and want to help them so bad, they are some of the best, most trustworthy people I know. Is there any way I can help? I am only 16 and am searching for a job still, so I don't make any money at the time. How can I still fund them, or at least give them a little bit of money to help them find a place to live?

me and my ex broke up in october due to my friend cursing him out (i didn't know she was gonna do that) for being a assholee to me he texted me in december saying he missed me and "this Dick is still yours" we ended up having sex in january which turned into a every weekend thing ( i even gave him MY iPad cause he claimed we would get back together if i did) he told me not to talk or sleep with other men but every time i would try to talk about getting back together he would be like "Your NOT my girl get use to it" even tho he still acted like my boyfriend he use to call me everyday would take me out to eat sometimes i told him i was tired of being a f**k buddy "You got me F**ked up who you think you are" after that he didn't talk to me for a week then that weekend he invited me over to "talk" but we ended up having sex anyways after that he's ignored me for the whole month of may and he didn't even wanna see me on his birthday even after i told him i got him a gift he ended up going to the strip club so this past weekend i saw he was using MY iPad to look for New p*ssy on this dating site so I catfished him i pretend to be this hot girl and when we met up he was mad and he told me the only way i was gonna get my iPad back was to give him some so he took me to his house he just bent me over with no kissing or foreplay at all and just went in it dry he didnt even wanna kiss me i had to sneak a kiss it was clear that his feelings were gone he was my first time & love And i was nothing but a hole to him now he hasn't even talked me since we had sex last week i keep thinking about how he use to love and care about me and he doesnt give a f**k I'm talking to new guys but i always compare them to him i want them to have the same job be the same race look like him i just want a man JUST like how he use to be but i can't find the same connection i can't even find any other man attractive HOW CAN I MOVE ON? he was the one who broke my virginity maybe thats why