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- Question: My dad makes me feel uncomfortable!!!! What do I do?
- Question: Do you think it's weird for a mom to call her kids "babe"?
- Question: How can I show my nieces that ignorance should not be happing between their family and my family? 10 point.?
- Question: I need help? Family stuff??
- Question: Mother in law & his ex girlfriend.?
- Question: So here's my situation, I adored my grandmother and she passed away the other night.?
- Question: Isn't it an uncles job to protect his niece and nephew?
- Question: My Family is Pushing me?
- Question: I lie to my mom all the time?
- Question: Would you be ashamed if your grandfather did what mine did?
- Question: How to grieve?
- Question: Convince parents to go on family vacation?
- Question: I would like to do something for my mother in law who lost her husband a few years back. He has a bench in a park and we usually?
- Question: Can I move out at 17, into my friends house with her and her parents?
- Question: How to set up voicemail on htc one?
- Question: Emotional breakdown..help?
- Question: What's the problem with sleeping at my gfs house?
- Question: My parents read my text messages and I don't know what to do?
- Question: How to make someone accept that theyre wrong?
- Question: My mom won t let me sleep over at people s houses?
- Question: Please answer this. I need help. Please.?
- Question: HELP! I caused my sister to go to a mental hospital what do i do????
- Question: My mom tells me she wants to die?
- Question: My mom somewhat controls my money? she forces me to buy jewelry from my own money that I don't want?
- Question: Convince my parents to let me go to camp?
- Question: Pissed off at my family?
- Question: Is my mom pushing boundries?
- Question: How do I convince my mom to dye my hair?
- Question: I'm so bored?
- Question: My mom is 5'9 dad is 6'4 I turned 14 few months ago and I'm 5'7 but most of the genes are from father. I wanna be 5'10 is that possible?
- Question: Is it appropriate for a 13-14 year girl to order off the kids menu?
- Question: My mom is upset at me for sexting my boyfriend. Isn't it hypocritical of her since she sexts my dad?
- Question: What happened?
- Question: What to do about irresponsible sister?
- Question: Should I give my dad a chance?
- Question: This old man is being abusive to me...?
- Question: How can I convince my mom to let me go on vacation with my girlfriends family?
- Question: I got threatened by my boyfriends mom!?
- Question: How do I ask?
- Question: I'm going through a lot?
- Question: Sick of my family?
- Question: How do i explain this to my mom?
- Question: 13 y/o Son doesn't want to visit Father. What are my child's rights?
- Question: My dad accidentally hit my girlfriend in the eye?
- Question: How can I calm my son down ?
- Question: 16 and no freedom? (please help me)?
- Question: My four-year-old sister is very mean to me?
- Question: My mom doesn't care about me anymore?
- Question: Convince parents to go on family vacation?
- Question: Help my dad is too touchy!!?
- Question: How come my family members expecally my dad treat me like a little kid??
- Question: HELP! My 11 year old cousin watches porn!!?
- Question: How do i deal with a toxic family member?
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- Question: How do I deal with going back home, I'm gonna miss my aunt so much?
- Question: How Old Will He Be Then?
- Question: How can I convince my mom to not make me volunteer?
- Question: Is this abuse? Please help me.?
- Question: I Am 17 and my mom treats me like a child.?
- Question: I saw porn on my dads phone?
| Question: My dad makes me feel uncomfortable!!!! What do I do? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 01:32 PM PDT I'm 12 years old and have a brother and a little sister I started to develop boobs when I was 11 years old I have a mother also. It is the summer but during school he would hit my boobs on purpose! After school.... And now sometimes when I have to come down stairs to get something from him he will just stair at my boobs why'll I walk down stairs, I don't wanna tell anyone because I'm afraid! I've only told my two closest friends...... My dad is very sweet tho like sometimes he will make me laugh and he does care about me but it still makes me feel uncomfortable! I don't know am I iver reacting???!! |
| Question: Do you think it's weird for a mom to call her kids "babe"? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 01:29 PM PDT My mom has always called me that but I never thought anything of it. But my friends hear her say it to me and they think it's weird. What do you think? |
| Posted: 30 Jun 2015 01:29 PM PDT When my my family and my nieces family. Was living together in the same home town .They are you get alone with each other.they use to talk ,spend with each other. However when my mom and I came to live to New York something changes . my mom or my nieces's mom did not speed time with each but they used to talk on the phone rarely. However when my nieces and her father came to live to New York . Everything change because my nieces 's mother doesn't talk to my mom no more. My mom and my nieces'mom have 3 year that they don't talk to each other. There is no conflict between my mom and my nieces 's mother. I just don't understand why their are ignorance between our family. Please answer this question as soon as possible. |
| Question: I need help? Family stuff?? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 01:29 PM PDT My dad just told me he s having another baby...thing is, he and my mom are divorced so it s not even going to be fully related to me...what do I do? I m honestly terrified and worried. I am visiting my dad for 3 weeks starting tomorrow so it s going to be completely awkward. Help me? It is going to be "awkward" because I am an only child |
| Question: Mother in law & his ex girlfriend.? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 01:07 PM PDT Its no secret my mother in law hates me. It also not a secret that his ex girlfriend still loves him (he left her for me). Their breakup was really awful, and a lot of bad blood. She and I had gotten into it. His mother and her spent the next year talking everyday, and if we would change our numbers the mom would give it to hershe would blow up his phone, create dummy facebook/email accounts. She has been in and out of mental hospitals and did that whole if you leave me I'll kill myself. His mother has for the last year encouraging her to patch things up with my husband. My husband has made it abundantly clear he doesn't love her, doesn't want to have anything to do with her, and told her to please go away. The last year has been peaceful and without incident and we went to the courthouse and got married. Now we are having out big wedding (all our family) in a few months and his mother is telling him this is a huge mistake and that he needs to think this through before throwing his life away. his ex gf is back, with a vengeance and I sent her an apology email saying I'm just sorry for all the things that we said & done in the past. She ignored me. Then she sent my husband a friend request, and messages that were innocent at first but then she started asking did you ever love me, was I not attractive enough. of course my husband being blunt said simply no. she pushed he was really blunt & honest which ended up causing more problems. MIL and husband are currently not speaking |
| Question: So here's my situation, I adored my grandmother and she passed away the other night.? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 01:00 PM PDT Now, I haven't spoken to anyone in my family in over a year, to be honest there is just a lot of bad blood amongst my immediate family that I want no part of in my life. I really don't have that close a relationship to any of my aunts/uncles anymore, either. Can I really find a way out of going to the services and being around this situation without being the biggest jerk ever? |
| Question: Isn't it an uncles job to protect his niece and nephew? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 12:54 PM PDT As an uncle & I mean like from danger, harm, evil people, & when they start dating(if they want to). Things like that. Especially, when you have a super close relationship with them. |
| Question: My Family is Pushing me? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 12:48 PM PDT Hii I'm Teresa I'm 12 years Old I have 1 sister and 4 brother ones in jail and one moved out My sister also moved out I'm On my way to the 7th Grade.☺️ Lately it's Been Hard for me To live in my Household. Ever since My moms boyfriend Moved in she's Been Acting Different,my Grandmother is always Getting me in Trouble,My Brother is Just Mean In a serious Way. My Mom is always Screaming at me and Trying to make me act different Too but I'm gonna be Wierd all I want.But there's sometimes where all she does is scream at me I've been Through a lot Foreclosure,my house almost burning down,and my stepdad moving in.Shes always Putting everybody before Me(my brothers are older they have jobs) and It's Sometimes pushed me To the point where I though about Suicide but I'm just to Afraid.the only Thing that keeps me Sane is my Teacher But school is Out.. So now I don't know What to do. Everybody at school likes my personality And cause of my teacher I like positive energy and being nice but Everybody in my house Just Pushes my limits What do I do..? Am I just a pre-teen who thinks things aren't fair?😳 idk |
| Question: I lie to my mom all the time? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 12:44 PM PDT Hey I'm a 19 year old girl I always lie to mom but I do it for a reason For example: 1. Every time I'm in a car with my mom, and I'm listening to my own music and she always ask me what am I listening to. And I say "Bruno mars,etc." but I'm not really listening to them, I was listening to rock music or foreign music. Reason why I lie about that is because she always think that I'm trying to be like everybody else or trying to fit in. Which I'm not. Those type of music is something I have explored by myself I just happens to like them 2. I lied about what I really what to be in the future. I told my mom that I want to do fine art but not really. I want to be a travel photographer and maybe a cultural anthropologist. Reason why I lied about that is because art is the hobby that my mom always take me seriously in. But she doesn't understand that I found a new hobby and that art is starting to bored me a little. She understands that I like cultures and languages but she always say that I'm trying to be like everybody else and trying to fit in and that I don't like my own race,etc. I proud of being American and I will never reject my own culture. It just things I explored for myself. i was inspired to do it because I have friends who is from different countries I feel that I can't be myself around her I always say things what they want to hear. I always keep things on the download but I'll tell them some things but I always regret it What should I do? |
| Question: Would you be ashamed if your grandfather did what mine did? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 12:42 PM PDT According to ancestry.com somewhere down the lines in early 1910s my grandfather killed his wife and her two sisters and was sentenced to 28 DAYS in jail. He then shot a MAN while drunk and was hanged. I'm proud of this, I believe females are inferior. |
| Posted: 30 Jun 2015 12:38 PM PDT my uncle and his sons were murdered and im taking this very hard.. I don t know what to do.. my uncle was like a dad to me |
| Question: Convince parents to go on family vacation? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 12:31 PM PDT so basically I've always wanted to go to spain ever since I was like 7 years old (I am now 16) I've been on many family trips, but they weren't really vacations, they were more along the lines of visiting relatives (they live in Europe) and staying over their place for like 2 weeks before leaving to the U.S., I searched up the airline fares of going to spain, and compared it to as if I was going to my relatives, and they are nearly the same. My parents aren't really fond of the idea of going to spain (not because they feel uncomfortable, they both speak fluent Spanish, so idk why). So I was going to make a PowerPoint for them to show how a trip to Spain can make a wonderful vacation. But I don't know what to put on the power point other than it will bring the family closer (which isn't a really good argumentaive point). So any ideas? |
| Posted: 30 Jun 2015 12:20 PM PDT Go and place flowers there. I would like to do something really special for her because she is Such a beautiful person. A tid bit...I did not have the privilege of knowing my father in law but I know that he was a very kind man. When they speak of him, its always the same " he was one of the kindest people you could ever know." He passed away from cancer and was a firefighter. Suggestions?The anniversary of his death is coming up in a few days. |
| Question: Can I move out at 17, into my friends house with her and her parents? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 12:17 PM PDT I live with my grandfather, and recently my dad, stepmom, step sister, and step brother moved in with us. my stepmom and I don't get along, and Im always getting yelled at...basically verbal abuse. My dad doesn't have custody of me and I really want to move in with my best friend, she lives at home, we are the same age, & go to the same school. I am not going to drop out or anything like that.. im just not happy at home my dad treats my differently from my step siblings |
| Question: How to set up voicemail on htc one? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 12:10 PM PDT |
| Question: Emotional breakdown..help? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 12:00 PM PDT Hey there... Im 16 & I genuinely have no hope left for my life. My mother and I don't get along at all. She's physically assaulted me & so has her boyfriend. My family knows and haven't done anything, claiming they have to be "adults". My brother & I have been separated for 8 years, he lives with his dad. My dad left before I was born.. But my brothers dad is basically my dad. I live with my grandparents & constantly feel judged, ashamed & like a burden. I can be very ruthless when I'm angry, but only when I'm pushed to that point (by my mom). I'm constantly being told "you can't just get mad" and "the past is the past" like WTF? She's threatened to call the cops & psych ward on me for ZERO reason. She keeps my brother from me because she knows it hurts me... All I've done today is cry and I honestly hate myself.. I feel like noone cares about me & if I died no one would care. (Not thinking of suicide). Please help... |
| Question: What's the problem with sleeping at my gfs house? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 11:56 AM PDT im 16 I've been going out with my gf for a couple years. I hate being home just it's stressful I have 4 siblings i basically raise & I need a break. So last night my mom told me I couldn't go over her house but I went anyway & we ended up falling asleep so I just stayed over. Her parents weren't home but my mom didn't know that. & my mom knows me & my gf are sexually active. Even if I didn't sleep over we could of still had sex. Which we didn't. We don't do it a lot. Then my mom was texting me a million times this morning asking where I was cause she thinks I'm like a crack addict all cause I do weed. I just don't see the problem with sleeping at her house when we already have sex. |
| Question: My parents read my text messages and I don't know what to do? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 11:56 AM PDT I am 19 years old and attend college with 4.0 gpa. I am only home for the summer. My parents had no justifiable reason to look for anything. My mom was just being nosey and accessed all my messages on my computer. She found out that I occasionally smoke. They are now threatening to take away the car that I drive. They do pay for almost everything and I wish I could support myself financially but I am unable to at this time. I am completely devastated that they invaded my personal life and exposed all of my secrets. They also managed to assume the worst and misinterpreted many of the messages. I don't know how to react to them. They can't understand why I am not ashamed of this mistake but in all honesty I see no harm in smoking. They were baffled by this and have now subjected me to drug testing to insure I do not smoke, and if I fail a test they will take the car. After I graduate from college I do intend to get as far away from them as possible. They've ruined the relationship we had. I just need help figuring out how to deal with the current situation. Should I try to talk to them or submit to them because they own everything? |
| Question: How to make someone accept that theyre wrong? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 11:55 AM PDT So my brother is an asshole.He recently made us all fight about him,and over something so stupid.Long story short,im one of five kids,and we live alone with our mother four days a week because my dads work is far away and he comes home 3 days a week.My brother hit my sister really hard because she told my mom that she hadnt done something after he blunt-facedly lied to my mom and blamed her for it when he had done it.Mind you,he's like 6 ft tall and wide.So we called my dad and told him what had happened,he-details aside-twisted the whole story and blamed my sister.Basically,he justified the whole thing because my brother is in a "critical" age,even though when I was his age he never cared about what I was going through,and at any mistake he would pull me by my hair to the ground.This sexism issue is something that wont be solved,believe me ive tried.all i have hope for now is when I leave I won't have to deal with him anymore.I need ways to convince my brother that he's wrong so that maybe he can tell my dad that and he would stop blaming my sister for it. |
| Question: My mom won t let me sleep over at people s houses? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 11:48 AM PDT So all of my friends are male, and I was born biologically female, but I identify as a male (I m transgender), so that makes me a man. My only other sleep over was with girls, and it was awkward, because I was basically a man at a girl s slumber party (even if that was when I looked like a girl).My mom knows that I identify as a man, and I ve asked my mom several times if I can sleep over at my best friend s house (who s a guy) and the only answer she s ever given me is "no". I ask her to give me a reason, and usually she says "I don t need to give you a reason, I m your mother." One time she did give me a reason saying "there are two men in that house", which I followed by saying that I m a man and that just because they re men doesn t mean I m gonna get raped. And nothing can happen at these sleepovers. I find the idea of my best guy friend disgusting (in a sexual way), and they re all gay, so if I was a woman (which I m not), no one would get raped. And the parents are literally in the other room. Does anyone understand this? Is there anyway to convince my mom to let me have an innocent sleepover at my friends house? (my dad s not here so I can t ask him). I feel like I m getting left out a lot, my friends always talk about the times they slept over, and by the time I m 18 it ll be too late to do this sort of stuff. Does anyone else think she s being a big ridiculous? @Steven I am not 13, and I am not a girl. The fact that you would even call me that is very disrespectful. I understand your answer saying I have to listen to my parents, but do not call me a girl, because I am not one. |
| Question: Please answer this. I need help. Please.? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 11:47 AM PDT So I'm 17 years old. I have a lot of issues with my parents. I mean, my parents are complete control freaks. I mean, they make all my decisions, they decide what I should wear, they decide what I should eat, they decide everything for me. I don't even have a freaking cellphone. They don't let me go to the mall with my friends. They don't let me do anything. Yesterday, my dad told me to go to my room but I refused and as a result he beat the **** out of me. And now he expects me to apologize to him. I mean, is this fair? My elder sister is becoming a dentist just because my parents want her to become one. They've already decided which college I'll go to. I mean, its my life. Shouldn't I decide where I wanna go? or what I wanna become? I just feel so trapped. I feel like running away. I don't know what to do. Just please help me. What should I do? |
| Question: HELP! I caused my sister to go to a mental hospital what do i do???? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 11:45 AM PDT Okay, so basically my sister and I have been fighting a lot. We have really bad sibling rivalry and always compete with each other. One time, she threw my laptop into the water and ruined it, causing me to lose all of my schoolwork. So I decided to get back at her. I got one of those tiny recorders and whispered recordings into it, saying things like "ur gonna die" and "we'll get you" and other scary stuff and put it under her bed. then when she sleeps, i use the remote to turn it on and play the whispers, which scares her and wakes her up. she asks if i hear anything and i always say no. Then i poured water in her bed to make her think she's wetting it. then i started cutting her hair off inch by inch every night as she slept until her hair was very noticeably short. she asked what happened and i said i didn't know and my parents obviously don't know. now shes starting to think she's going crazy so i push it. i took her toothbrush and put it somewhere else, when we order food i get something else for her when she didn't ask for it, then i say she did ask for it. sometimes when she'd talk to me i'd just move my mouth but not say anything, so she thinks she can't hear me. all the while i keep whispering around her and using the recorded whispers, making her think she hears voices. my sister thought she was going crazy and told my parents all about it and how she thought she was losing her mind. now she's being admitted to a mental hospital and it's all my fault!!! WHAT DO I DO |
| Question: My mom tells me she wants to die? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 11:38 AM PDT so for the past few days my mom has been in the worst mood and has been constantly yelling at me and telling me how bad her life is. She always says that she hopes one day she doesn't wake up. I'm only 14 and she tells me those things. I keep telling her she needs to get real help and she says she doesn't but it's clear that she does. She has gone crazy! She doesn't make much money... She is spending all of her money so she can be broke. It isn't fair cuz if she is broke then I will be homeless too and I'm only 14! She just gave my dad $500 to fix his hot water tank( my parents are divorced). She is finding ways to spend her money for no reason. she has $400 left in total! We can't live off of that!!! Her next pay check is towards August! How the hell are we gonna live. I'm terrified RN! I'm only 14 so I can't help pay for anything... I'm gonna be homeless and my mom doesn't care. My dad has a pretty good amount of money but my mom won't take any money he offers cuz she wants to be broke. She is giving up and is blaming everyone she knows. Even me! She says that we don't care about her but we do! And we try to tell her but she won't listen to us... She stays in her room all day and doesn't even eat. I think she's starving herself. Which scares me cuz she already lost a lot of weight and she could get really sick! Im afraid she will hurt herself! |
| Posted: 30 Jun 2015 11:31 AM PDT So I'm 15, yes I know I'm under my parents' rule until I'm 18 etc. I save up money from my birthday, holidays, good grades I usually buy stuff from my own money if I want them (ex smart phone) My problem is that she FORCES me to buy jewelry with MY money. We visit my home country every other year and their jewelry is better and cheaper than the ones in usa. So every time we go she forces me to buy multiple things. And I don't LIKE jewelry. And I obviously go to the jewelry store by force, just as any mom would force her kids to go with her somewhere here. So while I'm there, I start telling her it's my money and it's not fair that I have to buy it on jewelry, which I don't like, when I can just use my money for something I actually like. She starts telling me that I'm embarrassing her and that I'm not supposed to let people know I'm buying them from my own money, that they're supposed to think she's buying them for me. When I refuse to buy anything she starts telling me that if I don't pick some stuff out then she's gonna pick them out for me, so I might as well pick them on my own (that's if she also likes what I pick). So about every other year about $600 of MY money goes to jewelry. Now I have a huge collection of jewelry, and I don't even wear half of them. She also forces me to buy ones for special occasions, such as weddings. I wore my $300 bracelet like for one day just so that I don't feel it went to waste, even tho it kinda did. in your opinion, is this fair? |
| Question: Convince my parents to let me go to camp? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 11:28 AM PDT I really want to go to a camp in California (I live in Pennsylvania) next summer. It has a great volunteering opportunity that I really want to get involved in so I can get hours in. I've been to camp over a weekend but never for longer away from family. My mom says I'll get homesick but I'm definitely sure that I won't. You have the option from 2, 3, or 4 weeks in California and even saying only 2 weeks, my mom still said no. I've never been to California and I really want to go to learn more and do the activities in the camp. How do I get my mom to say yes to going? |
| Question: Pissed off at my family? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 11:24 AM PDT Need someone to make me feel better. One day we went to restaurant and i planned on paying but ended up forgetting my wallet. Years later I found out this stuck with them and talked crap about me to my dad who keeps reminding me of it. I feel like my whole family has no trust in me and despises me. I don't like my family much. This isn't the only incidence btw |
| Question: Is my mom pushing boundries? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 11:18 AM PDT I wish i could dress nice and be happy FOR MYSELF. But everytime i do good,my mom always assumes its because of a guy. If i listen to a slow song,she assumes im inlove with a guy. when i take care of myself,she gets suspicous. She pressures me to find the perfect guy that treats me like a queen and has a lot of money. She gives me unrealistic goals and im giving up on myself. I want to be able to live a beatiful healthy life without my mom thinking its by the hands of another man. She is making me uncomfortable. what should i do? |
| Question: How do I convince my mom to dye my hair? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 11:03 AM PDT I'm 14 and have had subtle highlights before, but I really want it blue and black! Don't answer if you're going to rant about how I shouldn't dye it. |
| Posted: 30 Jun 2015 10:54 AM PDT Hi. I'm a fourteen year old girl. I live on Long Island. My dad asked me what I want to do tomorrow because he is off from work. Honestly, there really isn't anything to do around here. Not that I know of. It's kind of upsetting. There is the beach, but he probably wont take me tomorrow. There are public pools but they are so boring. |
| Posted: 30 Jun 2015 10:53 AM PDT I see 5'9 girls at 14 with 5'7 mom and 5'11 dad I think I'm short for my genetics : / how do you think how much will I grow? |
| Question: Is it appropriate for a 13-14 year girl to order off the kids menu? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 10:52 AM PDT i just turned 13 and is still order off of it because its cheaper and it gives me a good serving size i can't finish adults Do any kids my age do this? my parents don't make me |
| Posted: 30 Jun 2015 10:52 AM PDT My mom is upset at me for sexting, but isn't it hypocritical of her to tell me not to sext when she sexts my dad? I've seen dirty texts my parents send to each other. If it's OK for them to sext why can't I sext my BF |
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| Question: What to do about irresponsible sister? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 10:45 AM PDT My sister is 16 years old and has a baby. They both live with me as she's not on speaking terms with our parents. She dropped out of high school so she could take care of her baby full time,and receives money from her boyfriend (the baby's father) for supplies,etc. I work long hours on weekdays so yesterday when I came home from work, my sister wasn't home. She left the baby and didn't even tell me that she was going out! I wouldn't have minded taking a day off to babysit. She came home hours later and it turned out she had been at a party with her boyfriend. She wasn't even bothered that the baby had been left alone unattended for nearly an entire day. Apparently she does this "all the time", without my knowledge. I let her live with me thinking she was at home the entire time I've been at work. According to her, nothing bad happened to the baby before. I would adopt the baby myself but I don't have the time or the money to raise it, and I tried talking to my parents but they're still furious with my sister for dropping out of school and won't budge. I would call social services on my sister but it seems no matter what I do,the baby will be the one who suffers. What is the right thing to do in this situation? |
| Question: Should I give my dad a chance? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 10:36 AM PDT I've just turned 20 last month and I haven't seen my dad in over 4 years. He moved out of our home and into his own flat about five years ago, got me all settled into my own room and then two weeks later told me I couldn't stay there at weekends anymore because his new girlfriend was moving in. This broke my heart and I felt betrayed. So I still met him for lunches for visits to my grandmas house for a couple of months. Then he sent me a letter in the post saying "just to let you know I am getting married next month hope you aren't sad" which saw the end of my visits and meetings with him. My mum has been there to support me through all of this and she would be disappointed I feel if I was to consider seeing him! I just dot know how to tell him no when this is the first time he has seemed interested in actually meeting up with me. I want him to see how much I've changed and stuff but I cannot imagine how much it would hurt my mum! She moans about my brother meeting up with him so I dread to think what she would think about me! I can't even bring myself to bring up the topic with her because every time I do I just want to cry thinking of how betrayed and angry she'll be. I know I'm an adult and I shouldn't be worrying about these things but at the end of the day my mum always done what was best for my feelings and was there to comfort me after his hurt and this seems like a slap in the face to her! But part of me really wants to face him! Ah any experience?! |
| Question: This old man is being abusive to me...? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 10:33 AM PDT So this old man living in my house (I don't know his name) is being abusive to me. I don't know what happened to my parents, but I'm living with the old man and my sister. So one time, I came home and he was being mad at me. He was holding a paper and he then screamed and yelled at me in a language I couldn't understand. Maybe it was about how much my college costs. And then then another day, I came home and suddenly, he asked "you expect me to go to your graduation?". I don't know why he is abusing me and then he called me stupid. and pulled something I don't know and put it on my leg. It was red. I started crying and my sister carried me. Then another day, he pushed me to the ground because my face appeared in the local newspaper for benign the top student of the class. He slapped me with the paper and my sister came and she slappedright know half of my sister's face is covered in burns him in the face with a green pyramid object. Right know my sisters face is covered in burns and Im supposed to be this attorney thing. |
| Question: How can I convince my mom to let me go on vacation with my girlfriends family? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 10:25 AM PDT My girlfriends mom asked me to come with them on vacation for 3 days and 2 nights. She hasn t told my girlfriend yet because she wants it to be a surprise if I can come. The only thing; I will be gone for the 4th of July. My family usually has a huge picnic for everybody to come to. Normally, my girlfriend would come to that. But they are going to see their family out of state. I really want to be with her because she lost her step dad and great grandmother both in the same week not too long ago. She s still hurting about it. Aside from me missing the picnic, there aren t any issues that pose any reason not to go. My mother is on the fence about letting me go for that reason. Is there anything I can say or do to do more convincing? Trust isn t an issue, our families have known each other longer than her and i have been born. I m best friends with her brother, and we both have done nothing to cause any mistrust between us and our parents. I will be paying for everything of mine and hers and I will help pay for gas. I m 19, but she is 17. That does not bother either of our parents, I have had long talks with them all about it and they hav full trust in me. Any help is great! Thank you! |
| Question: I got threatened by my boyfriends mom!? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 10:18 AM PDT She said she would punch me in the face if I say anything mean about his little sister! I don't know what to do! I'm terrified of her! |
| Posted: 30 Jun 2015 10:11 AM PDT How would I ask my stoner brother that I want to try weed? |
| Question: I'm going through a lot? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 10:07 AM PDT I'm going through a lot of things that nobody understands and I just need some advice I'm hurt sad alone tired and stressed out I'm tired of living with my dad and his gf and when I know she doesn't appreciate me in this household I'm tired of being somewhere I don't belong I'm only putting up with this because my dad but we're moving with my granny July 10th to Texas sadly my mom can't come I'm not explaining that part but my point is I do not want to be in this place anymore I don't feel loved here in this place and it's breaking my heart please help me I'm really stressed |
| Posted: 30 Jun 2015 09:57 AM PDT I'm the youngest of three siblings (age 19) and I feel like nobody around here respects me everyone treats me like I'm a child and nobody really values my opinion or what I have to say about things. I feel like they don't respect me or see any value in me at all, they treat me like worthless trash. My one friend who is also the youngest of three siblings says they don't treat him this way at all. He says he is friends with his older siblings and he goes out and has fun with them. My older brothers just think I'm not cool enough to even be in the same room as them and I'm just sick of feeling disrespected all the time. I'm on vacation with them right now and I'm just feeling really sh*tty right now. What do I do I have a job. I am attending college this fall. I don't see what that has to do with the topic at hand. |
| Question: How do i explain this to my mom? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 09:41 AM PDT every ******* year for my birthday, despite her askin me what i want to do, it is always about HER. we go to rockport , eat sushi, go home EVERY ******* YEAR. I hate rockport, and im tired of sushi but she wont listen. My 17th bday is on saturday this week n i already told her im not going to rockport, n i seriously mean ot, sje can try but she cant make me. I am GONNA BE 17 SO i jave every right to go hang with my friends for once, but she gets mad and says no we are gonna do this blah blah blah it is the same EVERY year. How fo i explain to her? |
| Question: 13 y/o Son doesn't want to visit Father. What are my child's rights? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 09:37 AM PDT We reside in NJ. I have a FL court order that orders mw to fly my son to FL periodically. We've been doing this for 8 yrs. My son does not think highly of his dad. He fears him. My son does not call his father in fear that hell get in trouble because he hasn't called regularly. My son walks on egg shells scared to make a mistake or say the wrong thing. My sons father is verbally physically and mentally abuaive. He used to hit me i left when my son was 2. He has called my son a idiot & stupid, he's hit him he's been bullying him.. The current GF is very nice to my son but he hits her infront of my son. He does not work so he's there 24/7 when my son visits and it's rough for my son. He is a registered sex offender my son does not know and I hope he never finds out. My son is embarrassed and ashamed of his dad. I have not belittled my sons father just in fear it would hurt my son. However my son over the years has seen so much and he was seeing a therapist for anxiety that ended up being a issue around his father. I do not rec child support I work 2 jobs. Idk how to help my son. I can not afford an attorney or to fly back and forth to FL for hearings. My son has a voice an wants to be heard, how do I get someone to hear & help him. No child should be forced into feeling how he feels. He's a great easy going kid, when the day gets close to visitation the anxiety is hard to cope with and it's heartbreaking to see . How can I helm and protect my child? |
| Question: My dad accidentally hit my girlfriend in the eye? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 09:35 AM PDT It was my birthday and i just had my family and some friends over for a barbecue. My dad came and got really angry, i think him and my mum had been at war throughout the day and it got to him. Anyway he was ranting about something and started to fling his arms in frustration, not realising my girlfriend was right behind him and smacked her right in the eye. I went ballistic at him and told him to go home but he hasn't made any attempt to apologise to her. He is unreasonably stubborn and it's been 3 days now without him making to effort to even say sorry. What should I do? Do i make him an ultimatum; apologise to her or we're done? |
| Question: How can I calm my son down ? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 09:31 AM PDT My 3 1/2 year old is mad because he wanted to watch Mickey Mouse Clubhouse it says on the guide its on but when I turned it on for him Austin and Ally was on instead. I turned it on Caillou or Jake And The Neverland Pirates it made him even more angry. He said he really wants to watch Mickey but he's not on right now. He even asked why did the TV lie to him. It did this to him yesterday too. He's obsessed with Mickey right now. He doesn't understand why they're showing Austin and Ally when it said Mickey on the guide. It's after 12:30 Mickey won't be on again till 3. He's really mad and upset. How can I calm him down ? |
| Question: 16 and no freedom? (please help me)? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 09:29 AM PDT Okay hi, I wanna start off by stating all of the things I officially am not allowed to do. - Going out - Going on the computer (wasted too much electricity) - No girlfriends - No friends they do not like - Not allowed to go on my phone all the time My parents do not understand that all of the **** on that list I want to do. They banned practically everything I enjoy and I can't do jack **** about it. let me just tell you something, this entire month (not including going to school and coming back), I have only been out two times, once for a dentist appointment and another for a haircut. Both of these times I was with my dad. they give me no freedom whatsoever and I'm really pissed because of it. It's been like this my entire life, I've always been trapped inside my house all day doing nothing. I sometimes just feel abandoned by everyone while looking outside the window and seeing all of these people who are free and who are out there enjoying themselves. I don't want to hear "talk to them, they will probably understand you", trust me they wont. I've spent my whole life being treated like a kid and it just hurts me knowing half of my teenage life has been wasted indoors doing practically nothing. I need to do somrthing but there is literally nothing to do. I love this girl from my school, she's just so nice and beautiful and I feel I can't do **** with her because all I'll get is bullshit from my parents and I wont be able to spend time with her, outside of school. help :( |
| Question: My four-year-old sister is very mean to me? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 09:23 AM PDT I m seventeen, and ever since my younger sister could talk, she s been absolutely awful to me. My parents do not parent her correctly, as they let her do whatever she wants, they do not supervise her, and they do not discipline her. I believe this is the root of the problem. Whenever I watch her, she does not want to listen to me, and she hits me and screams until I give her what she wants. I try to be tougher on her in order to fix my parents mistakes, but I believe its past the point of no return. I can see her turning into a druggie and a complete loser when she s older. I can t even do anything nice for her because all I ever get in return is more bad behavior. She tells my parents that I said things that I never said, she screams and cries if I try to help my mom out with feeding her or anything like that, she blames everything on me, she calls me a "jerk" and a "crazy person," it just doesn t stop. No matter what I do, she is still very mean to me, and my parents just let it happen. They do not tell her to stop or anything. They just don t care. I just want to know why she acts like she hates me so much. I m so sick of it. I m at the point where I m about to totally forget about her once I go off to college and never talk to her again. Thanks. |
| Question: My mom doesn't care about me anymore? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 09:21 AM PDT My mom got this boyfriend and all she does is hang out with him. I feel so ignored. I've tried talking about it too her and she just says to be quiet. How can I make her care? |
| Question: Convince parents to go on family vacation? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 09:20 AM PDT so basically I've always wanted to go to spain ever since I was like 7 years old (I am now 16) I've been on many family trips, but they weren't really vacations, they were more along the lines of visiting relatives (they live in Europe) and staying over their place for like 2 weeks before leaving to the U.S., I searched up the airline fares of going to spain, and compared it to as if I was going to my relatives, and they are nearly the same. My parents aren't really fond of the idea of going to spain (not because they feel uncomfortable, they both speak fluent Spanish, so idk why). So I was going to make a PowerPoint for them to show how a trip to Spain can make a wonderful vacation. But I don't know what to put on the power point other than it will bring the family closer (which isn't a really good argumentaive point). So any ideas? |
| Question: Help my dad is too touchy!!? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 09:16 AM PDT im 19 ,my dad thinks its ok to wrestle around like we used to when i was little,but he likes to play grab ***,i always start getting uncomfortable when im around him,sometimes he puts me in a head lock and will grab my boob or ***,he recently did it when i camee to see him yeaterday,i tell him im 19 its gross but he wont stop,what do i do?,he does it in front of my boyfriend and my friends.... |
| Question: How come my family members expecally my dad treat me like a little kid?? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 09:00 AM PDT im 14 years old and i act mature by my dad and other family members treat me like a little kid. my mom doesnt treat me like a little kid |
| Question: HELP! My 11 year old cousin watches porn!!? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 08:57 AM PDT I was sat with him in his house and I asked to use his iPad, when I went on his browser history I saw that there was litterally nothing but porn for a 3 days, I watch porn myself so what should I do. I want to watch it with him, we have measured our ***** and stuff but how do I talk to him and ask him to watch it and **** with me? |
| Question: How do i deal with a toxic family member? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 08:54 AM PDT Can i cut ties with my mum? Or ignore her until I'm old enough to move out? What can I do. I cannot explain too much details, but she is not particularly abuusive, just plain mean. I know I can suck it up but I am tired of crying everytime we have a conversation. A little background, she's not the most faithful person to my dad as she has cheated before (a little idea of what she is like). She's just hateful. SInce I was young, she like to compare my looks, making me very, very insecure. I know it's not bad but it really does affect me. She keeps calling me fat even though my weight is perfectly fine. Of course now she does have a reason to call me fat since I am heavier than before. Every single day she keeps complaining of how I am a **** daughter and what not, pointing out my flaws, my failures. She also likes to twist stories to be in favour when she complains to my dad. Of course, this is from my point of view and probably painting myself in a good light or wtv, as I do scream vulgars at her when she is particularly malicious. I really dont think she likes me because I'm not the pretty, perfect, skinny daughter she wants me to be. Like I said, she's not a bad mother, but she's verbally abusive, and really, I am not too bad of a person. I'm 18 now, and this is really embarassing, that I'm still fighting with my mum. But I don't think I can respect and love her anymore. I just want to give up on our relationship, where do I start or how? |
| Question: Things to do on a long car ride? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 08:51 AM PDT Next week I`m going on vacation with my family which includes- my little sister, mom, step dad, and me. My best friend is also going. We haven`t really thought about things to keep us entertained on the way there and it`s going to be a REALLY long drive. The things we have so far are: Cards, our phones, snacks, my IPad for movies. We`re teenagers so we don`t really think about games. Both my friend and I are active and we can`t really do active things in the back seat. We also have my little sister to think about. We could really use some suggestions on games or anything to just pass the time. What do you think? (: |
| Question: How do I deal with going back home, I'm gonna miss my aunt so much? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 08:46 AM PDT Ok so I'm originally from the USA but me and my family is on vacation out here in a different country. We have other family here. But soon we are going to leave back to the USA. I'm excited to go back home but there is one problem. I love my aunt so much. And I'm gonna break into tears when we leave. How do I deal with this? I love being around her, so warm and loving. How am I supposed to deal with leaving her? |
| Question: How Old Will He Be Then? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 08:39 AM PDT If I'm 16 this September entering my junior year of high school (11th grade), how old will my 13 year old brother, entering 8th grade, be when I am off to college? 15 and a freshman? |
| Question: How can I convince my mom to not make me volunteer? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 08:38 AM PDT Ok, so this may sound like a bitchy teen to you and it sorta is... This summer my parents really want me out of the house. I ve spent most of the summer inside on my phone, not being very social, and honestly that s not my favorite thing to do. I would also like to get out of the house and get a job (which I ve been applying to many places for) and I try to hang out with friends as often as I can, but my mom wants me to volunteer 20 hours a week because I can t get a job. I don t like volunteering to much and my mom is as stubborn as a brick. How do I tell her no? |
| Question: Is this abuse? Please help me.? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 08:18 AM PDT I live half of the week with my parents, and my mother has always been a disciplinarian. But now that I think of it, she s maybe been more than that. Not only does she discipline, she throws things, calls me names, berates my physical abilities in sports and my academic standing. I help around the house a lot, and help her whenever I can but she always seems to get mad at me. Not to mention, she s constantly hitting my siblings in front of me- not spanking. Hitting. Hitting their temples, pulling their hands behind their back and pushing their faces into the floor, pulling their hair. I just don t know how to feel about it. I told one person and they said. It was connsidered abuse but I honestly don t know. I want to live with my dad but he always blows it off and says you can t live with me simply because she disciplines you. I need help. I m so stressed and I don t know what to do.her acting like this is making me feel anxious and I want to live with someone else but I don t know what to do. But the big question: is this abuse? |
| Question: I Am 17 and my mom treats me like a child.? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 08:17 AM PDT I have held a job for a year now, I have my own car and my car payment is $400 a month I pay for my own car with my money, my gas, my food and the upkeep. I am entering my senior year of high school. I don't do drugs drink or anything. I go to school and work 40 hour weeks and I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and she won't even let me see him more than once or twice a week because she says I just seen him the day before. In my opinion I don't think she should expect me to act like an adult with bills such as my car, and I have my own Verizon contract with my boyfriends mom that I pay every month as well but then treat me like a child when I ask to do something? I'm getting to my breaking point and I don't know what to do. |
| Question: I saw porn on my dads phone? Posted: 30 Jun 2015 08:14 AM PDT now i know men have sexual urges, and especially since my mom has been dead for a year he feels lonely. I asked my aunt about it and she sounded almost condescending saying "why were you on his phone" "let it go it isn't a big deal" all I said to her was I saw naked pictures on my dad's phone. Obviously I'm going to feel uneasy. My dad was having trouble sending photos so I went in his photo library to try and resend them and bam. I even confronted my dad and he lied. It MAY be his business but why would you keep something like that on your phone? Obviously someone was going to see it eventually. If you're gonna do that at least delete the evidence like cmon now. I just feel annoyed and disgusted. What should I say to my dad? |
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