Friends: Question: Lonely people, how do you live life on a daily basis? |
- Question: Lonely people, how do you live life on a daily basis?
- Question: How to confront a friend who hates me for being shy?
- Question: Is this a reason to break up a friendship?
- Question: Gut feelings?
- Question: Help... so confused...😳?
- Question: NERVOUS FOR HIGH SCHOOL!? (10 PTS)?
- Question: What does it mean "Emma always tries to look cute"?
- Question: Honestly dont even know how to act around her in school anymore..like i feel she doesnt care as much as she did...but like i tried..plz help?
- Question: A teacher in my school is constantly getting me and my friends in trouble but we do nothing wrong.?
- Question: What is the different between hate and dislike?
- Question: Help with a bully!?
- Question: I messed up bad?
- Question: My best friend is starting to act really diffferent (meaner)?
- Question: Help with prom (music and awkwardness)?
- Question: Scared togo outside in ghetto neighborhood ?
- Question: I was a douche to my friend.?
- Question: Am I loosing my best friends? PLEASE ANSWER?
- Question: Anybody wanna KIK me?
- Question: Was this mean of my friend to say or not?
- Question: MY SISTERS THE DEVIL! HELP?
- Question: I want to tell my friends something but it's really hard!?
- Question: I don't know whether I can trust him..?
- Question: Was this inconsiderate?
- Question: Does anyone else feel betray when their best friends hang out with other people behind your back?
- Question: How to stop caring?
- Question: Why do i liek being alone alot?
- Question: How can I make my friend stop calling me short??!?
- Question: Why Am I Not Content With My Life?
- Question: I signed the contract and traveled to different states with Steve holmes agency and got to see what happened behind closed.?
- Question: Should I have a sweet 16?
- Question: When Im around people I like, I am talkative as can be. When I get invited to parties with people I don't like, I get quiet. IS this normal?
- Question: Bullying and Social Problem?
- Question: I need help?
- Question: 16th Birthday Ideas??
- Question: What should I do about the situation?
- Question: How should I ask her?
- Question: My stupid friends are always on their phones?
- Question: How likely would my friends father let her go to Milwaukee with my group of friends?
- Question: My friends won't let me smoke (weed) with them anymore?
- Question: What changes after having sex with a friend?
- Question: Am i waste of space ?
- Question: How do I get over this embarrassing moment?
- Question: Friends acting weird when I'm mentioned help? Best answer receives 5 stars?
- Question: What are some blonde and brunette friendships like for example Thor and Loki?
- Question: How to make friends?
- Question: I want a better opinion from u?
- Question: Punch him in the mouth?
- Question: This is gonna sound weird, but is it too late to make friends?
- Question: Should I make my friend invite him?
- Question: What to do if someone wants to fight?
- Question: Should I tell my friend what people are saying behind her back?
- Question: How do I speak up?
- Question: Tips for starting a new life on your own?
- Question: What should I do in this situation?
- Question: Jealous of my best friend?
- Question: I'm the least smart person of all my friends, help?
- Question: Should I let my guy bestfriend keep touching me? I'm a girl and we've known each other since we were children?
- Question: Who wants to be best friends forever? I will be the best friend you ever had. Who wants to be best friends?
- Question: I have no friends in my class...no one probably likes me :/?
- Question: What should I do about my friendship?
| Question: Lonely people, how do you live life on a daily basis? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 05:06 PM PDT The world is so beautiful, but how do you go on with life without having anybody to share it with? I'm asking because I've been lonely my whole life... Growing up my parents never asked me to join an activity or a program.. I spend my life basically just watching TV and wasting my time away. My social skills are weak, and I can't find anyone to relate to. Today I went to the movies for the first time, and I see people with groups, laughing and joking and playing around. I have to admit... It must be fun hanging out with friends, family etc.. To share common interest.. This question is mostly regarding those in their late 20's and 30's.. I don't care if you are a teen and lonely because you still have a whole life ahead of you... Just take it from me... If you are a teen and reading this, please do yourself a favor... After school, hangout with friends, join a group or activity.. You will have a happy life.. God bless |
| Question: How to confront a friend who hates me for being shy? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 05:05 PM PDT so my friend has been weird lately, and today the truth finally came out. first of all, my friend HATES me being shy. she always say to me that i should talk more and she feels like she is talking to a wall. so today i was sitting with my friend at lunch and she wasn't talking to me nor looking at me. then later she put her lunch away and told this to me, "im going somewhere else to talk to people who ACTUALLY talks." then leaves. im rlly upset and i want to stand up for myself and confront her the next time i see her. what should i say to her? |
| Question: Is this a reason to break up a friendship? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 04:57 PM PDT okay so my so called best friend is mad at me because this guy in our class bent her hand back and she wanted me to help but I didn't know what to do and she was like giving me the silent treatment because she says its my fault for that happening to her because her fingers hurt and she was like it was nice being friends with you while it lasted and that hurt me because I thought she was my best friend but idk anymore |
| Posted: 21 Apr 2015 04:46 PM PDT Recently a new neighbour had moved in. He seems very nice, he and my parents had apparently hit it off from the moment they had met him. They had been talking about him for weeks, and finally introduced me to him. That had been a few weeks ago, and I ve never felt comfortable around him. It s weird because he seems very kind and has been nothing but nice to us. It s not that I m not comfortable around older people, I regularly talk to the family friends and other members of the community, also with my teachers and coaches, so I m used to talking with older men, and he s only around his late twenties or early thirties like most of the people I talk to. But for some reason ever since the first time I met him I can t feel comfortable. The first time we were introduced I wanted to run away. I wasn t scared or nervous, I just got this deep-down feeling to get away from him. When my parents had left to room to get snacks and some drinks I wanted to go with them just so I wasn t left alone with him. Am I being silly? Even my two brothers are comfortable around him and often go play games with him, so why can t I shake this feeling? Whenever he comes over I feel like I need to hide or get away from the house while he s there, and I don t know why. What do you think? Should I just try to get over it? |
| Question: Help... so confused...😳? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 04:45 PM PDT Okay, kind of a long question but please its been years in the making. It all began 10 years ago. I was 19 and fresh in college. Had only been set up maybe 3 months. Met this guy one evening through my roommate. He was handsome and attractive. He was 7 years older. WE instantly took to one another. We began seeing eachother here and there. He took my virginity. I was into him hard. About a month dwn the road i found out he had a GF and would only hook up with me when they were separated. It crushed me. I still hung with his family, went to mutual parties. Even became an acquaintance to his GF. I didnt tell her anything. Eventually im not ashamed to admit, i began hooking up with him again during their splits. I loved him. I wanted too. We d hook up, go our separate ways, still see eachother like i said at mutual hangouts and still never told on him. Hed never acknowledge me nor would i him. But we d Make eye contact across room. Well years went by, i moved and we lost contact. Until about 2 years ago. He found me on FB. We have only dropped a line here and there. But lately he s been writing me. Wishing me a happy birthday ( yes, he reremembered) talking about personal things about his life, apologising about how things went years ago, callng me beautiful. And asking me when im moving back. Even said hes always liked me and thought im cool as hell. He is still with the GF as before but off and on like before. He will write but hesitant about it. Thoughts, please? |
| Question: NERVOUS FOR HIGH SCHOOL!? (10 PTS)? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 04:26 PM PDT I had an awful middle school experience and I really want to like high school but I'm really nervous. I'm really shy and quiet right now and I'm not good w making new friends. I'm really unpopular right now and barley anybody knows my name. Next year i want to have a lot of friends( both genders) be popular, be outgoing & loud. I'm really scared though for like the first day how can I be outgoing & talkative in class? How can I make friends? I really want a lot of friends that are and AREN'T in my classes. Please help me. And don't say anything about being myself, having little friends, and not being popular please. Thanks. |
| Question: What does it mean "Emma always tries to look cute"? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 04:24 PM PDT So I was sitting in class and my friend comes from behind me and tells me "oh my god Emma your shirt is so cute! You look so cute today omg! Wow you look cute everyday." And my other friend joins in I know right Emma. And then a third friend out of no where says "Emma always tries to look cute." Should I take what the third friend said offensively? I don't understand the language of teenage girls and stuff, but it sounded as if she was saying I was trying too hard or it sounded as if she was jealous? |
| Posted: 21 Apr 2015 04:23 PM PDT So my best friend and I were having problems, we seemed to be "growing apart" like everything felt like it was forced, she never texted me anymore, it would always be me, she would tell me she would text me and didn't and when we did text it was good, but it still felt different.. When we hang our alone its awesome but in a group sometimes its different. She is growing closer with this girl who likes to drink and smoke a lot and she is doing that too, I don't do that. Its her life and she can do what she wants, but I'm still important. So I talked to her.. I said we can't really be friends anymore and she looked sad..she was like "wait what?" And I said look let me explain and I said this is not the friendship we used to have we don't run up and hug each other like we used to, she's like well we don't hang out as much anymore I said yes but its also keeping in contact, I said i love you so much and care about you so much but do you? She said I know I don't always act like I care but I do and I said yeah I know you do but I also don't. You need to text me "hey how are ya?" Check up on me see how I'm doing. I said I do miss you a lot, and she said yeah a felt kind of a difference like I'm change I said if we want to keep this friendship from growing apart then we need to act like it. And the rest of the night was really fun. I tried talking to her..I just don't know if it was wrong or not because I want to save the friendship.. |
| Posted: 21 Apr 2015 04:10 PM PDT About a month ago I got in trouble for supposedly trying to steal something I was not trying to steal |
| Question: What is the different between hate and dislike? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 04:06 PM PDT So I told one of my friend that I don't like this girl because she is kinda rude to me and she doesn't do her work when we partner up. My friend accidentally told her that I don't like her but today she ask me why I hate her. I said I don't but she didn't believe me. She is a pretty popular girl at my school, iam a little worried that she will talk bad about me behind my back and tell everyone. Is it my fault? |
| Posted: 21 Apr 2015 04:02 PM PDT A friend of mine is being bullied online. I told the bully to not bully my friend because it s wrong, disrespectful, and it hurts my friend s feelings. The bully then said "I ain t bullying him, I m just arguing. Arguing is good for the brain, it stimulates the brain!". |
| Posted: 21 Apr 2015 03:38 PM PDT I hang out with an older coworker often at her house late night after work. Her nephew lives there, so we would all chill and talk. He wanted to be more than friends but I just wanted to be friends, and things were fine. They were right. Well, a couple of nights ago he over heard me talking bad about him. My other coworker was there as well (we're like a family) and she was saying he was being really mean to her and showed me his texts. I said "wow, what an a$$hole" and I think he heard that. I also told her to not let him be rude to you like that, stand up for yourself, etc. The only other thing I can think of is me talking to his aunt about how he was kind of creeping me out because he would stare at me while I was working. Anyway, I feel so terrible about this because now he wont come out of his room when im over and I dont want to be the one who keeps him locked in when I go over there. I just want things to be right. I'm not a bad person, I was trying hard to be nice, but I messed up and he heard things he wasn't supposed to hear. I cant stand the thought of someone being upset with me, I really didnt mean this. I apologized; is that it? Is it just up to him now? Id like to add that he has been very nice to me other than the creepiness, which adds to my guilt |
| Question: My best friend is starting to act really diffferent (meaner)? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 03:37 PM PDT She became REALLY sarcastic towards others and rude. The thing is she doesn't know how the other people feel and my best friend doesn't care. I say "Thats so mean" and she just laughs it off and says "jk jk" and it kinda annoys me. She has been hanging with someone who is way meaner than her. I think she is getting influenced. Should I say something to her? |
| Question: Help with prom (music and awkwardness)? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 03:28 PM PDT So first of all I'm a junior and my prom is coming up in a few weeks. I don't really like most party music, but I'm very self-conscious and I don't want to be the only one who doesn't know any of the songs. This is so weird, but would anyone be able to give me a list of popular songs to listen to that might be played? Second thing: my date also asked me to his senior prom (we go to different schools). I really like him, but I only know a few kids who will be there and I don't know any of them well. I'm awkward at parties in general, so this has honestly put a knot in my stomach. How can I cope with this? Also, I'm pretty sure his friends are going to be drinking, but I don't. I don't care if other people drink, you can do whatcha want, but I'm just not going to. However, I don't want to be the only stick in the mud who isn't going along with it, especially if it isn't even my prom. Any advice? Thanks in advance! |
| Question: Scared togo outside in ghetto neighborhood ? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 03:22 PM PDT I dont want to go outside and play basket ball with thugs because thats all they do is shoplift gangbang basket ball and they kinda intimidate me i dont like hanging out with their kinda and i dont want to assimilate and dress flashy and become ghetto i cant move so what do i do? They also jump people because they gang won't setback and watch i seen it happen all the time Also some people tease me for staying inside I tried to chillbut their ghetto and wanted me to smoke with them last time |
| Question: I was a douche to my friend.? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 03:18 PM PDT there's this girl that is mad at me at school. So me and her were in kind of a verbal altercation the other day. At the end of it I apologized, but she was still pretty mad and refused and said something to me. So today she apologized to me in front of everybody and I decided to say the exact same thing she said to me. But then I said just kidding it's fine. I realize that what I did was a dick move. I've apologized and she said it's okay, but I still feel really awful. |
| Question: Am I loosing my best friends? PLEASE ANSWER? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 03:18 PM PDT I'm in different classes so I have NO classes with my best friends. I only see them at lunch or after school. We will be in high school next year. And we have all three been best friends since kindergarten. I found out that they are keeping secrets from me. One of them is telling the other not to tell me anything. We don't talk to each other like we used to. Because last year we had a lot of classes together but this year we don't and we won't next year. Its like they are forgetting about me. I don't have a lot of friends. And I CAN NOT just go and find better friends. Please help me what do I do? Are they still my friends? Are they forgetting about me? |
| Question: Anybody wanna KIK me? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 03:16 PM PDT I'm just bored and I need you to have some sense of humor. I need amigos. cmon.kik: PeterPabvlo |
| Question: Was this mean of my friend to say or not? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 03:08 PM PDT I got a 62% on my French assignment, and I was upset about it. Then I told her why I didn't understand why I usually do bad on written assignments, and then she said because your ideas never make sense at all. Then I told her how she would have known that since she hadn't read it, and she said I just know. |
| Question: MY SISTERS THE DEVIL! HELP? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 03:08 PM PDT Literally she makes demons look like Dora! She dumped her girlfriend because she gained weight! She's honesty so rude she has no manners what so ever! I know she bullies people in her high school as well because my parents had to go to meet her principle countless times for bullying. Today she told me to gain some weight because apparently I look like an anorexic lizard :/she's even rude to our parents, if I had said the things she says to them I'd be six feet under the ground. For example She called mom a hairless cat. I don't know why she's so arrogant. What to do?! I don't want her to be so mean, when I asked her to send me pictures of our brother (she went to Visit him) she sent me pictures of shrek! I don't know how someone can be so disgusting I have no idea what to do. Help?! |
| Question: I want to tell my friends something but it's really hard!? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 02:59 PM PDT I lost my father about 2 years ago, and my grandmother 6 months after that. Ever since, I've been depressed and haven't had motivation or energy to care about school... so I have been absent a lot and when my friends asked me what's up, I just said I was sick. whenever they ask me if I'm okay, I say yeah. I really want to tell them I'm not okay, and I want to express my feelings but I don't know how to do it. It's scary. We are 8 people, and I don't know how to start. Do I tell all of them at the same time or only a few first? One of them knows, and said she's always there to talk... but I haven't had the guts to talk about it. What do I do? :( And if it makes a difference, I'm 18, male, my friends are all girls. |
| Question: I don't know whether I can trust him..? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 02:54 PM PDT So recently I've gotten so close to this boy (as a friend) and he is so nice to talk to and we get along really well. I've had some things going on in my life that I haven't even told my best friend because I just feel like she won't understand and she'll think I'm over exaggerating to make it seem worse as I'm probably the last person my friends would expect to be going through what I am. As much as I love her I just don't want her to know about it. But I really feel like I can talk to this boy about it but he has such a reputation with my friends of telling people things other people have said about them etc, he doesn't do it in a mean way he just feels they should know. He admits to it at least, and he tells me a lot of things other people say about me. I have always told him little things and I'm not sure if he would have told people or not because he told me things his best friend said about me, so why would he keep my secrets? I feel like he's the only one I can tell my problems to but I really don't know if I can trust him. I don't think he would tell any serious big secrets as he really is the nicest boy I know but I'm just so unsure. Shall I trust him? He tells me some things about his family so I don't get why he would tell people my issues. Do you have any advice? I really need help!!!! I need to talk to somebody but I don't feel as though I can talk to anybody I know :( |
| Question: Was this inconsiderate? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 02:54 PM PDT A while ago I was hanging out with one of my really close guy friends. I was really excited to see him because I hadn't seen him for a couple weeks. This hangout was a little different though. After about half an hour, he asked me if it was ok if we just hung out for half an hour more. I was a little surprised by this but I said yes. Then it got awkward, because he asked me then if I had ever liked him. I hadn't, so I said no, and then he proceeded to tell me about this girl that he liked and how great she was, saying that girls as great as her almost never come around. I did feel kind of bad when he said that, and I think he noticed because he said that there was nothing bad about me, and then he told me some more good things about me. Then he had to go, but before he left he gave me a big hug and said I was a great friend. I did feel kind of bad because he rushed the hangout, but I didn't know if he was just clueless or not. |
| Posted: 21 Apr 2015 02:50 PM PDT It sounds like a 12 year old thing, and this is immature of me but does anyone else feel a bit betrayed sortof, when their best friend hangs out with other people (that they claim they hate) behind your back without telling you. Especially if they never ask to hang out with you? Like I don't think it should be a big deal but my jealousy is being annoying haha, Just curious. |
| Posted: 21 Apr 2015 02:49 PM PDT Well, here is my story. Last year I started my first year in university and I become good friends with my group mate. We spend a lot of time together but unfortunately we have had a huge fight. I ve realised that he is not a nice person( asshole) and he didn t think about me as his friend. We are not talking anymore but I still have to meet him everyday(we have classes together). If I won t drop out from uni we are going to be group mates for 5 years. My problem is that I still care about that person and feel really uncomfortable that he is completely ignoring me. I understand that he doesn t care about me and it would be better to move on but I just can t. I m sure that I m not in love with him just can t stop thinking about him. I really want to move on. What should I do? |
| Question: Why do i liek being alone alot? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 02:46 PM PDT |
| Question: How can I make my friend stop calling me short??!? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 02:45 PM PDT Hi. I'm a girl and I have this guy friend who keeps calling me short. I keep telling him to stop but he doesn't listen! -.- It's really annoying! How do I convince him? It's so embarassing... He calls me short in front of my other friends (who are guys and girls). A couple of my friends laugh and tease me about my heght too and the others don't say anything or really stick up for me when my friend calls me short. I'm the shortest out of my friends. I'm 5 feet tall and I'm 14 years old. How can I make my friend stop calling me short??! Any advice? Why does he keep teasing me all the time? And why only me? :/ |
| Question: Why Am I Not Content With My Life? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 02:44 PM PDT Okay so I'm kind of an introvert and shy guy but mostly because of my physical insecurities. But now I've got more confidence and now dont really shy away from attention. That is the good part in my life. With that being said, most of middle school and high school I was a loner, I talk more now but dont really have a group of friends who I can chill whenever. This is my last semester of high school but I know there will be more opportunities to make friends in college. One of my goals after getting more confidence was to finally go out with a friend or more to like get lunch or just hang out. I've only really chilled with one dude who I met at work. He's really chill and I feel we have some things in common. My issue is being that I was so quiet usually I get social awkwardness or anxiety and find it hard to conversate. Im not the best at starting a conversation because Ive never really had to, if that makes sense. I would hate for people to cut me off because Im boring or not talkative. I dont know what to do, last year in my life I had gotten the most perfect job and thats all I really focused on. Now as I am getting older and being more independent I want to get my own place and be fully independent. I know thats a big goal to reach for a student fresh out of highschool but nothing is impossible and many people have done it. People never really invite me to places, Im usually the one who invites everybody else. What should I do to not be boring around people? |
| Posted: 21 Apr 2015 02:43 PM PDT I never got what I was promised. Ppl who worked w me weren't either..... many quit bc of it. He was out for the money n you could Google search auditions just like they did for postings. Horrible scam n I was a single hard working mom of two taken for my money. He is bad news and numerous parents and guardias feel the same way about him. Hope you got your money back from him! |
| Question: Should I have a sweet 16? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 02:39 PM PDT Im 15 my birthday is in august I just dont know if I want a party. I dont have tons of friends I tend to stay to small groups with 3-5 people, I just feel like it would be awkward and quiet. My mom said I should because it only happens once but id rather take a trip somewhere with a few friends. Im already getting a car I dont want them to spend tons of money on me. What should I do? |
| Posted: 21 Apr 2015 02:36 PM PDT So I'll let ya know the honest truth. I get quiet when I am surrounded by people who do not interest me and I have nothing in common with. If I run into an old friend or someone I have hung out with before, I talk their ear off. Someone who has things in common with myself and I enjoy being around. Here's the problem....... The girl I am dating has some people she is related to that I don't really care for. Would I ever choose them as friends? No. So this shows when she invites me places and they are there. My lack of interest in them shows because I don't talk lol. But when I set up get togethers and invite who I want , I can't stop talking. Or If Im invited by a friend of mine to their house where other people I know are going to be, I talk and talk and talk non stop. They call me Mr. Social. Tell me if Im normal or abnormal. Thank you. |
| Question: Bullying and Social Problem? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 02:27 PM PDT I am a 15 year old boy in 8th grade and am having a hard time fitting in with my soccer team. For all of my life I have been with the "average crowd" of people, and am well known in my school. But anyone who's been a teen knows about the "jock" social group. I've never associated with these people and never wanted too. I know some really nice people in that group, but for the most part, it's not for me. I have never been Popular with them and have usually kept my distance from them. Recently, however, I recently joined a travel league soccer team ( I hadn't played the sport in years) I quickly realised how far I am behind most kids. This is bad enough by itself, but, it's made worse by the fact that the entire team is comprised of those same people I mentioned before. I am being completely ostracised from the team, am constantly put down by my teammates, and am constantly blamed for the teams mistakes. I've known these people my whole life this isn't a matter of "you just need to get to know them" I have talked to my parents about this and they don't seem to care. They say things like " you just need to try harder" I don't have the desire to get better, at this point I jut want to drop out. I even realised I don't like the sport anymore. But my parents won't let me. They say I made a commitment to my "team" I'd rather spend time working on my already questionable grades, rather than dealing with these people. Any advice to convince my parents to let me drop out? Thanks |
| Posted: 21 Apr 2015 02:16 PM PDT Okay so my Bff was hungry so I gave her peanut butter crackers I bought from the store. She started acting different and said she didn't feel right. So she goes to the nurse, comes back, gives me my bag (she likes to carry it for me) and leaves.... Saying nothing to me. About an hour later she texts me asking about the crackers? So I tell her I bought them at Wal-mart. I felt so bad, I cried even, and I told her sorry and she ignored me, asking more questions. I'm scared her mom and dad don't want me around her anymore, but we've been best friends for 2 years now. Help? What do you think happened? And do you think her parents would do that? Thanks so much :) |
| Question: 16th Birthday Ideas?? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 02:14 PM PDT I'm turning 16 on June 3rd and the main part of my birthday is that I paid for me and my sister to see Lana Del Rey on the 11th. But the thing is that I want more. I I currently live in Pennsylvania and all of my friends are in Virginia (where the concert is) so I just want to hang out and catch up with them since it's been 6 months. Me and my family will be staying in a hotel so I was thinking while my mom is in another hotel room me and my friends (possibly up to 7 people) would just hang out in the presidential suite. I don't want to just stay in a room the whole time though. I was thinking we could also hang out in Washington D.C. but I was wondering what there is to do there besides museums and visiting monuments (which I personally love). Can you just give me some ideas on what to do? Keep in mind we'll be in the Northen Virginia/DC area. |
| Question: What should I do about the situation? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 02:11 PM PDT My "best friend" I discovered was a fake ***** and I owe him $25 he ttys to act cool in front of others so he makes me try and be scared I'm not but would it be easier to give the money that I never actually owed or stand up he's bigger and more in shape than I am what should I do? |
| Question: How should I ask her? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 02:07 PM PDT So I'm a guy age 16, and my friend asked me if I was up for a party she and a couple of her friends are throwing. I said yes about a week ago. When I was with a couple of guy friends today at school (she knows them too) she came up to us and asked: "is one of you guys coming to my party next week? We're going to be 4 people there" SHE ******* DIDN'T say I was included. I haven't asked why yet because I don't know how to ask her. So please give this a quick opinion! |
| Question: My stupid friends are always on their phones? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 02:04 PM PDT This has happened way too many times I'm SO fed up. I'll be walking with my friend and I'll be saying something, and she totally doesn't hear me - and I see that she's glued to her phone. Today at lunch another friend was glued to her phone as I was sitting there, bored - and sometimes when I talked she would be like "oh what?" :o And when I was ready to leave I told everyone bye, and nobody heard me so I just left. I'm not a loser, I'm just unimportant. But you can still be nice to me :( I hate everyone :( (but not in a rude way |
| Question: How likely would my friends father let her go to Milwaukee with my group of friends? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 02:00 PM PDT So my best friend's dad is very overprotective ( she needs his permission to do anything and everything: such as just coming over to my house). Our best friend is getting married in two months and we all decided that going to Mikwaukee and staying over night will be fun and a great way to celebrate the bride to be for a Bachelorette Party! The only thing that is standing in our way is my friends dad. We are all responsible 22 and 23 year olds. What should we say/ do to convince him to let us go? also we live about an hour away from Milwaukee so it's not that far. Thank you for your help! |
| Question: My friends won't let me smoke (weed) with them anymore? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 01:40 PM PDT I'm 15 (freshman) and I was smoking yesterday for the first time. I was with a few friends who had been doing it for a while and we went into their usual spot in the woods. I was doing better than I expected and it was cool and all that. Then legit out of nowhere, a few cops came in but eventually let us off cause we all claimed to be 14 (they can't legally arrest you if you're underage but they can give a summons) and said it was our first time. We all went home after that. Get this though- they all saying it's my fault cause this never happened before (the only person who's been doing it for over a year has been doing it at home of course she don't get caught) but it was 4/20 the cops were already moving in we had a darn big chance of getting caught. It's not my fault and ik that lml but they're going again (to a new spot obvi) tomorrow and won't let me come cause I'm "bad luck". How in the world would I convince them I'm not gonna get them caught again? More Details: Don't lecture me on this. Seriously. I'm not dumb enough to get into anything I know is not good for me. There is no way I could ruin my future like that (current GPA is about 3.8). I've done extensive research, so please don't try and stop me with listing all the crap you got from a religious article on how weed is Satanic. I know what I'm doing, and if I didn't, I wouldn't do it. Tbh they are but thing is they've been my friends all year and (as pathetic as this sounds) they're my only links to weed lol. I'm not a hit it and quit it person, and I actually liked doing it. Unfortunate timings seem to be regulars for me. Recap: We were in the woods, not an open, known spot, and they've been doing it there for about a year and never got caught. I admit it was a stupid day to try it, but whether I was there or not, they would've went and got caught. How is the location my fault? And believe me, they trust me enough to know I wouldn't rat them out. |
| Question: What changes after having sex with a friend? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 01:29 PM PDT Let's say if you were close with a friend. What would change between the friendship? Give me some details, stories if you have them. |
| Question: Am i waste of space ? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 01:28 PM PDT I know that their lots of questions like this so i guess u won't even read this but ok. i've been feeling like I'm waste of oxygen and space like i have no reason to be in this world yea i have a loving family well just my mom when my grandparents don't want to see us and i have a couple of friends but people at school say that I'm nothing and last year i got in a bad and painful situation i met this girl named lets call her A . A was so nice to me at first but then she gossiped about me and told every little secret i told her then A lost all of her friends so i look her in my arms and forgiven her then again she backsttabed me i cried every night(i know i shouldn't have forgiven her but i have a big heart i can't say no) i got bullied bicaz she made up things that weren't true and i bottled up those feelings everyday i tried to hold them in and not start crying then my mom found out she called my teacher and talked about it and they don't bully me anymore but i started self harming bicaz i felt the pain again but i stopped(last month) i went trough hell. So am i really waste of space ??? and I'm 13 girl |
| Question: How do I get over this embarrassing moment? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 01:26 PM PDT Today we played a math game in class. We all had groups. I had my best friend and one of my best guy friends, a nerd. Haha, so we had a question and I didn't quite understand it as quickly. The game is to some degree about speed. So they had it and I was still confused. My friend tried to explain it but all she was doing was shouting out numbers and I acted like I understood. So the teacher came by and we had it correct. So, what happens is a person from another group picks someone in mine to explain it (thing is you can copy work but you will have to understand the problem just in case you are picked to explain). So unfortunately I was picked. Shaking my head no was not a good idea. I go up to the board & act like I know what to do which I don't & I think I made that pretty obvious. I'm in the middle of saying something but the teacher stops me and says I'm doing something wrong. She's a fun teacher and always makes sure I'm feeling ok so she tried not to embarrass me😂. Well she did because she asked me where I got a certain number from and I had no idea. I froze and stood there like an idiot for 5 minutes straight not knowing anything. I get embarrassed but she gives us a point for "effort". 2nd thing I Literally made a fool of myself in front of my crush😑. He was called up to correct me and he got it right. He probably thinks I'm an idiot. How do I move on and make myself feel better? |
| Question: Friends acting weird when I'm mentioned help? Best answer receives 5 stars? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 01:17 PM PDT I have these two friends who I'm not super close with but we're still friends and whenever my name is mentioned they get awkward or change the subject. If my name is brought up in any conversation whether the people be talking bad about me or just telling a story about me one of them changes the subject and the other one gets quiet. They're related I should add which means if they don't like me then they'll share it to one another. Any ways I asked multiple people about it and they said it sounded like they don't like me. I honestly don't know why they act this way and I don't know if they do this with everyone. It's just whenever I'm mentioned in a conversation no matter what the topic they always want to switch subject or get quiet and awkward. Can someone please help me I don't know what to think about this or how to feel and I honestly think they hate me or dislike me. Please give me honest answers don't sugar coat it for me. |
| Question: What are some blonde and brunette friendships like for example Thor and Loki? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 01:17 PM PDT I'm brunette and my best friend is blonde and we like to call each other by names of people in blonde and brunette friendships like I'm Loki and she's Thor. |
| Question: How to make friends? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 01:15 PM PDT In Autumn(Fall) i'll be going to college and i'm absolutely terrified! I'm most worried that i won't be able to make friends because ven with my group of friends now who i've known for 4 years, i struggle to find converstion. Whenever i'm with someone my mind goes blank and i don't have a clue what to say and it makes tings really awkward, please help! What were you're experiences? BTW: I'm from England, so college is age 16-19, |
| Question: I want a better opinion from u? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 01:09 PM PDT i asked her for friendship but she reject me.but before that she jesture me that i have to talk with her . after that incident i have not seen her in university but my friend asked me that she is coming today but have not guts to say .... ......what is problem with u why u can not make friendship with me so tell me what shoul i do? |
| Question: Punch him in the mouth? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 12:58 PM PDT This particular kid goes to the same school and the same aikido class as me. His harassment began on September as he began kicking me on the leg multiple times thinking that he was being funny. On late September, I pushed him down in front of the whole class causing him so much humiliation and causing him to cry. I thought maybe then he'd learned what he did wrong. He came back early January, in which he didn't seem to know what he did wrong. I told him, he completely understood, and has been nice to me till early March,as if he completely forgotten what i've told him. Now,he's just flat out harasses me and patronize me whenever we interact in some form of communication. I don't know what to do. I've tried ignoring him for the past month, but he doesn't seem to be backing off. Now, I think that my only options is to get this kid off me by the uses of violence and humiliation. |
| Question: This is gonna sound weird, but is it too late to make friends? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 12:56 PM PDT okay, so I've been depressed since 9th grade. I'm a junior (11th grader) now and, although I still feel like ****, I'm getting better. So I've been a member of my schools drama club since February last year. While I was badly depressed I became distant, only befriending a handful of people (I think Im friends with 6 of the 40 people in the drama club) well the show is going on in two weeks and next week is tech week (meaning we'll be there every day Monday to Sunday from 3 to 11) and I want to start talking to people. The problem is I haven't really gotten to know anyone since the day I've got there, the exception being the few people I've befriended. (Of course I've spoken to them, but only small talk and compliments) also, the seniors leave in half a month. So I guess what I'm asking is is it too late for me to befriend them? (Also, I'm shy as **** so I'll give you an example of the **** that happened: we were all chilling on a couch and everyone was kinda just lying on each other and talking but I was too shy/ not close enough friends with them that I didn't join in) |
| Question: Should I make my friend invite him? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 12:56 PM PDT So things got awk between us months ago and I finally talked to him and he smiled and say hey back but he looks at me sometimes.. I don't know where I stand with him and my friend has a party coming up soon in May and I don't know if I should ask him or my other friend could ask his friend to the party and bring his friends too.. |
| Question: What to do if someone wants to fight? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 12:45 PM PDT Ok so im a freshman in high school and my friend told me about this kid who owed him some ejuice (we quit smoking) i got the guys number and i just texted him saying "Yo you have my friends ejuice are you planning on giving it to him? and the kid didn't respond so i texted back the next day and the day after that then i gave up, then out of no where he texts back saying he doesn't know anything and he doesn't even know my friend and then after he realized that we knew he knew, he wanted to meet us at the moment and he said he had it but it was obvious he wanted to fight us, after we were like no you can drop it off at his locker, the kid went crazy and started saying stuff like "im putting your number on prostitute sites so you get calls, im gonna figure out who you are and fight you, i have a friend in the army who can track this number" And he ended up finding my number from other kids and he knows who i am, i also found out that he is a senior. So i was just trying to tell him that he could've just texted back the first day without going crazy and said he doesn't have it, and now the kid is going crazy because he is annoyed that i texted him like 5 times, big whoop. Now idk what to because me and my friend are both taller and bigger then him and could prob beat the **** out of him but idk what he looks like and im not gonna see it coming and neither is my friend, the kid even said he and his friends are going to take a cheap shot when we aren't expecting it, what do we do? |
| Question: Should I tell my friend what people are saying behind her back? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 12:40 PM PDT So I'm wondering if I should or shouldn't tell my friend about the things that are said behind her back. They say that she's super annoying, teachers pet, and almost a try-hard. But the thing is that I'm starting to agree with these things lately, and she has even told me that she feels that people don't notice her and don't care about her. So I kind of want to tell her.... but at the same time I don't want to hurt her feelings. What should I do? |
| Posted: 21 Apr 2015 12:39 PM PDT It may not seem that important but how do you speak up about being called goody two shoes all the time because im one of the smartest girls in my maths. I hate being called goody two shoes by this girl that is my 'friend'. I'm not going to apologise for being smart :/ I may seem vein admitting I'm smart but I admit I am good at maths. |
| Question: Tips for starting a new life on your own? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 12:34 PM PDT I'm 20 years old. I'm moving out this summer without the approval of my parents. Very long story. But based on 8 years of quiet observation and reflection, I've sensibly come to the conclusion that I need to be all alone to grow. My parents are very overprotective and controlling and believe it's their right to micromanage every aspect of my life still. I graduated high school with lots of acquaintances and no friends after moving to the suburbs 7 years ago. My old friends moved on and I never got a chance to make real friends cause my parents literally never let me out and would fuss. I'm deciding to be proactive vs reactive now and take control of my life for once. I want to reunite with them one day and have a healthy relationship but for now I just want to be all alone and find my true self and show them I don't need them breathing down my neck. I feel very alone so I figured I might as well be alone (I'm an introvert). I literally am starting over all on my own. Thanks! |
| Question: What should I do in this situation? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 12:28 PM PDT I have been diagnosed with an iron deficiency and a thyroid condition. My thyroid and iron have to be checked periodically. My doctor I was seeing left to pursue holistic medicine. I asked another doctor at her practice that I saw a couple times when she was unavailable to order the labs for my iron and thyroid. He refused (twice, I called twice) saying they're expensive (our insurance pays for it, it doesn't matter) and it's "too soon." My old doctor tested the thyroid every month when it was way out of range (like it was last time) and every 3 months if it was normal. At the beginning of March, it was way out of range. My normal doctor would have had me retest in a month. Is there anything I can do? I don't have time to find another doctor. I need labs done NOW. Plus I did call another doctor's office and try to make an appointment with someone there and they don't have an available appointment till next week. I've had 2 periods since I was last tested and need the iron and thyroid tested now. There has to be something that can be done. My doctor's office is in a hospital (where you get the blood drawn). Should I go talk to the people at the front desk or do you have to have a doctor's order? I'm not going to one of those independent labs where you can order your own labs. Insurance doesn't pay for those and they're very expensive. |
| Question: Jealous of my best friend? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 12:28 PM PDT My best friend, let's call her 'Kim', has been my best friend for a little less than a year. She moved to a new school in August 2014, and so I was her first friend. We used to always hang out and laugh. Recently she met another girl, lets call her 'Shy'. I thought, "They're just friends!". But 'only friends' don't hang out every weekend, go on vacation with each other, etc. That's what best friends do. One time, they were gonna hang out but I overheard, and being the nosey girl I am, I asked what they were talking about. They invited me to have a girls night on Friday. Well Friday after school I texted them and asked them for info. Kim said she couldnt come, and Shy said she couldnt come. Later I found out they hung out together. :/ We went on a class field trip the other day. We got to pick groups of like 8. The group was walking together and then Shy and Kim walked off amd we couldnt find them for the rest of the trip. I then tried to throw myself at Kim and asked her "Hey you wanna hang out on Friday?" and she said "Yeah sure! Do you wanna see Paul Blart Mall Cop 2?" and I said yeah. Of course, Shy was there. And guess what. Shy got invited. I want my best friend back. No, I dont mean she can't have other friends. I just wanna be close with her like we used to be. |
| Question: I'm the least smart person of all my friends, help? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 12:27 PM PDT My only friends are from work, I'm 19 and my friends are mostly 22-28 years old so they have more life experience. I'm not dumb, but compared to them I feel really out of place. They all know such random information, so in conversation I have no idea whats going on. Things like they know all the members and albums of music we like, whereas I just know a few song names. I know a bit about nutrition but they know so much you'd think they majored in it. Anyone else have this problem? I don't even enjoy talking with them because its mostly them talking and me pretending I know whats going on. Not sure what my "question" is exactly, just wanting to know what other people do in these situations. |
| Posted: 21 Apr 2015 12:13 PM PDT I'm a girl. I have this guy bestfriend that I'm very close to since we were children. We've hugged and kissed on the lips normally since we were teens. I mean we're still teens now. Recently he asked me if he could touch my boobs and butt and legs because he never touched any before. I was okay with it. He's a good looking guy and he's very fit so I thought it would be fair because I grab his muscles a lot and I even asked his permission to lick his six-pack abs once. Anyways I sat on his lap while he felt me up under my shirt and even kissed my neck while he was at it. I don't really mind but am I being slutty? I'm not sure if I would tell my girl friends about it because they might think I'm a slut. I'm not sure what his friends would say about it. Am I being too slutty or easy? He's the first guy that ever touched me that way. If it matters, we're both single and never had a boyfriend/girlfriend. Is this even appropriate behavior for bestfriends? Would he think I'm an easy girl? It's partly because I have big boobs and I noticed that his porn collection are full of women with big boobs |
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| Question: I have no friends in my class...no one probably likes me :/? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 12:08 PM PDT so im in 2nd year in high school and im shy and introvert.so i have no close friend in my class i dont know why .im friendly to everyone and i always help them and so long and i dont know why they are group of friend but and i wanted to join but they are really close to each other, sit together so there is no chance that i could join the group but now the new girl (Kate) came into our class.and we became friends adn we sat together, we went home together and so long and something happened.i was ill a week and when i came back to school she was sitting with the other girl Lucy and i dont know why she dont talk to me anymore.she goes home with her etc. and im really sad about it because again i have no close friend in class.so can u help me what am i suppossed to do to Kate be my friend with me again ? i always help her with everything but i dont why she stopped being my friend i cant find real friend is it because im not funny ?? maybe it is because im afriad being judged ans im not feeling relaxed when i talk to them even it is 2 year in high school..i invited girls to cinema..they say yes but they always cancel it i dont know why ...the girl lucy hate me i dont know why..she stole my new friend kate and when i want sit next to them lucy always say the seat is take etc and i try to nice to her even she hates me but she is always mean to me and she is friend with kate and i have no one please help me what to do |
| Question: What should I do about my friendship? Posted: 21 Apr 2015 12:04 PM PDT I have this friend. Let s call her Glass. We ve been friends for a really long time, but this past year or so it s been hard for me to be friends with her. I ve improved myself a lot and found out who I am and what I believe in, and changed a lot over this short period of time. Due to this, our relationship is stretching it s limits. I ve become a lot closer with some other people, and it s made me realize how much more I enjoy being around them than when I am around Glass. Glass is very conservative and introverted, also very insecure about herself as a person. She has firm belief that she will never belong anywhere. I was describing a new project I was into, and how I felt like I belonged there and was accepted. I said, "People really like me there! It feels great." She told me not to get a big head or feel cocky about myself, which really hurt. I have had to fight to love myself and who I am and realize that I m good enough. To have her be negative about that really upsets me. Glass said "I ve decided society is never going to accept me and you need to accept that to." During the time when I was maybe 10-12 I had no other friends than Glass and Glass s best friend Nylon. I was lonely and felt like I didn t have friends that truly related to me and what I was going through being a teenage girl, because Glass and Nylon were so caught up with being social outcasts that they shot down anything like makeup or boys that I was concerned with. I don't enjoy hanging out with her anymore really because we don't have anything in common personality-wise. Another problem is that Glass and Nylon's moms are my mom's best friends, so I don't want to take her friends away through my actions. What should I do? ALSO: I do understand that her insecurity about herself shouldn't make me not like her. But it is really exhausting for me to give so much support to Glass when I'm dying to receive it for myself. |
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