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- Question: Should I take some time off from school?
- Question: CRUCIAL HELP NEEDED! Can someone please help me with my two parenting/family study questions?
- Question: Is it okay to feel sad and happy at the same time when your sister gives birth?
- Question: I Hate My Life?
- Question: My mom's mad again, help please? 10 POINTS!!!!?
- Question: My ex crushed my self-esteem, really need advive?
- Question: I'm in a very difficult situation with my adult son and his fiancee?
- Question: How to hide weight loss from family?
- Question: Do parents have favourites?
- Question: Why can't I feel anger? I just feel hurt?
- Question: My parents put Family Safety on my computer. How do I remove it?
- Question: Why would she blame us?
- Question: What distinguishes family from a stranger?
- Question: Why can't my mom let me be happy ....?!?!?!?
- Question: My mom is killing herself and she doesn't even care?
- Question: Is my mom that bad that I should I move out when I'm 18? And how do I recover from this and have a good life?
- Question: My sister is better than me by a long shot?
- Question: How would you react?
- Question: How can I feel better about my birthday when it was so horrible.?
- Question: How to get custody of my 22 year old brother who is currently in a nursing home?
- Question: My mom says my girlfriend isn't wife material.?
- Question: I'm 23, and I don't drive. What should I do?
- Question: How do I get my stepmom to respect my child?
- Question: My mother is trying to get custody of my twin nieces. Which she is not in the health to do so. She is always on pills and drinking?
- Question: My family ruined my life. What should I do?
- Question: Ways to save money?!?!?
- Question: Is there anything I can do to make my relationship with my stepdad better?
- Question: PLEASE READ IT ALL! I NEED HELP NOW! A lot of time, my parents say I m being rude when I know I m not. This morning I was FaceTiming my...?
- Question: I meant to sext only my fiancé, but I ended up sexting his entire family. I'm extremely embarrassed. How can i handle this?
- Question: Is this a normal reaction?
- Question: How to determine who to live with.....?
- Question: Why did she lay there? Yesterday I heard a noise in my mom and dads bedroom and went in and they were having sex.?
- Question: What do you think I should do? (Preferably moms)?
- Question: Is this offensive?
- Question: Is what they are doing for my daughter normal?
- Question: Is my father shallow?
- Question: I can't deal with my disabled sister anymore?
- Question: My parents make me feel so insecure?
- Question: Why does my dad favour my older brother especially in our family business?
- Question: I found dirty text messages on my dad's phone. I'm confused?How can I look at my parents the same?
- Question: Should I feel guilty for wanting to move out of state?
- Question: Does eating disorders run in families?
- Question: Why doesn't my mom believe what I say?
- Question: How do I deal with both of my drug addicted parents?
- Question: Why are fathers so protective over their daughters?
- Question: Is this suspicious to anyone else or am I losing my mind?
- Question: I accidentally fed my dog my sister's birthday cake?
- Question: How to get my mom to like me more?
- Question: My mom disappeared...?
- Question: Help please..!!?
- Question: Go with my husband or stay for my sister's birthday?
- Question: How do I make my mum regret all the bad things she has done to me?
- Question: What should i do 4 my birth day????
- Question: Why does my mom always ruin my mood?
- Question: My brother is leaving to live with his dad after prom?
- Question: If a person has a breathing tube down there throat does that mean they are on life support?
- Question: What can I do if my female cousin isn't speaking with me after having some quarreling, in which i said that she is ignorant.?
- Question: I'm going suicidal over my sister and want to kill my alcoholic dad?
- Question: Family Dispute Question?
- Question: My mom and dad are fighting, what do I do?
| Question: Should I take some time off from school? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 01:16 PM PDT My mom was telling me that I should take some time off from school to go see my grandparents. My grandparents are very old and last week my grandpa got very sick that my family had to go see him, but I couldn't because of my school schedule. And last night I got a call from my uncle saying that my grandma was at in the hospital because she had very bad chest pains. And I can't go either because of school. I live in Texas and they live in Mexico. I'm a college student and turned 22 last month I don't want to take time off because I'm getting a lot of pressure from my sister, she's was telling me that I should have graduated already. So if I do take time off I'll graduate by the time I'm 23. What should I do? Please no judgement. What would y'all do? |
| Posted: 17 Apr 2015 01:13 PM PDT I have two study questions that I need help answering, and I've looked everything up online, and nothing seems to fit these scenarios. There is no background knowledge on any family. This is all the information they give me. Please explain to me why that is the answer you believe is best, because I do not understand the differences between the options. I need someone who has a degree, or is in a family type professional field because I think there is some weird backdoor reasoning for these problems that professionals just know, that does not compute in my brain. 1. A couple works different shifts. When it comes time to family time, which community resource would be best for them? a. Going to the park b. Going to the mall c. Going to a restaruant d. Going to the library -I want to say a park, only because it's the only thing open if both parents work. But is there some void that needs to be filled that would make another choice possible? 2. A daughter is mad that her stepfather is discipling her, and she tries to resist. What should the family do? a. have the mother talk with the daughter about what discipline the stepdad will have control over. b. have the mother, stepfather, and daughter discuss discipline c. have the entire family mother, stepfather, daughter, siblings discuss discipline. d. Some other option -I've read that the stepparent should not discipline a teenager, and leave it to the biological parent.. |
| Question: Is it okay to feel sad and happy at the same time when your sister gives birth? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 01:08 PM PDT I am a 14 year old female. My sister is 24 and she gave birth to a newborn who is a girl. I feel happy for my sister and for the baby, but at the same time I feel sad and kinda jealous :( It is not the baby's fault, but it is just that I know my sister is gonna love her more than she ever loved me. Is that a normal feeling? |
| Posted: 17 Apr 2015 12:56 PM PDT So im in the eighth grade and my name is Kevin and I'm passing all of my classes expect math and its so hard i really don't understand and asking for help wont really help me either the teachers at my school are so confusing but for some reason a lot of people understand and my mom gets angry over me not getting on the A And B Honor roll and she is so obsessed with school when i was little i didn't know my ABC's and she attacked me and beat me over that ! And when i was in the fifth grade she would whoop me over spelling words and attack me. And Know Shes talking about if i don't get a A Or B in math shes going to beat me and attack me On judgement day i hopes she gets what she deserves i may talk back or don't care about math but i don't abuse people if I'm burning in hell she definitely will to I Hate that ***** i wish a had a mother who doesn't have ******* anger issues and my dad been locked up for 13 years and I'm 14 now and he lives with me but we don't along at all and than i have a adhd cousin who's EXTREMELY ******* ANNOYING I Hate My Life I would've killed myself already but i don't want to got to hell |
| Question: My mom's mad again, help please? 10 POINTS!!!!? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 12:30 PM PDT My mom is always getting mad at my dad and its only been 2 days for this argument. It stemmed from him not helping out around the house as much as they should. I know they were throwing things at each other and then my mom started sleeping in the family room. Well its open to everyone, there's no doors. So she moved all the furniture out, computer, etc. And is now calling it her room. She sleeps when I'm home, ignores us, refuses to make feed us (I'm fine with making my own dinner etc, but its the abandonment aspect of it). Then she went so far as to move all of the furniture of hers out of the room she shares with my dad, downstairs. To close off the entrance she nailed sheets up. It just drives me insane. She mopes around and doesn't eat with us, doesn't talk to us, and won't stay in the same room with my dad. Yet again its only been 2 days. Seriously? I'm so aggravated! And I feel horrible for my dad because she can be so mean to him, and the rest of us. How do I deal with this? It makes me so angry, can any of you relate? I need some advice anything please. |
| Question: My ex crushed my self-esteem, really need advive? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 12:11 PM PDT I'm 24 and I'm currently unemployed, I quit my full-time job in order to finish my education. My father is homeless and has Parkinson's disease. My mom lives in a different state and makes less than 15,000 per year and I have no other family. I would ALWAYS take my girlfriend out, I'd take her out to dinner twice a week always,buy her things. After I quit my job school was my focus. The reason for the break up was b/c she promised to help me move my things and she decided to not answer my phone calls. So my dad ended up helping me, he's not supposed to be doing any lifting. She called me AFTER we finished moving everything and I ignored her. She texted me saying it's over and didnt text or call her back I didn't talk to her 2 weeks straight after that, why would I? She broke up with me through text. Yesterday was the first time I saw her since the text, all she's been doing since then is chillingt with our mutual friends 24/7 while Ive havent been hanging out with anyone. She approached me saying that the reason why she dumped me was because I'm a miserable person and I was making her miserable, she then started ranting about how happy she is now that she's not with me. That was what really hurt me, I'm not as torn up about the break-up, I'm more upset about that comment and the fact that most of our mutual friends didn't even care to hit me up after the break-up to see how I'm doing. She made me feel like I was a burden and the cause of her unhappiness. this really hurt me |
| Question: I'm in a very difficult situation with my adult son and his fiancee? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 12:05 PM PDT A while back I've posted about how I found out that my son was raped by a cousin of his late dad when he was 18 (now he's 24). His fiancee told me when I started dating this man some time ago (as I knew nothing of this), b/c my son would never tell me nor anyone else, although it pained him to see me dating the man he hates. I broke up with the latter, naturally! My son was raised by his granny (my husband's mum) as I was busy working to make ends meet, and it was at his granny's house that the thing happened. I remembered that at that time he was somewhat depressed and tired all the time but I thought it's only b/c he was starting university and working at the same time. I feel so guilty for not asking him in private but we've never been really close b/c I missed his entire childhood. Although he seems to understand and calls me everyday and asks me if I need anything it's as if he does it out of politeness. I've thought it over and decided to talk w/ him, but instead of making us closer, this only drives him further away. He refused to talk about it. He still calls regularly but I feel he doesn't see me as his mum. His fiancee also called to say how she's disappointed as I've promised to keep silent; my son only confided in her and if she told me it's only b/c she saw no other way to tell me to break up with my ex. I want to be closer to my son but I don't know how. What should I do? It also pains me to see him being closer to his in-laws. Am I really a bad mother? |
| Question: How to hide weight loss from family? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 12:04 PM PDT I've been suffering from irritable bowel syndrome and have been having really bad flare ups this year. I've been in and out of the ER and im now 4 lbs from clinically underweight and I look ill. My grandmother and cousins are visiting next month and im afraid for them to see me. I lost a total of 10 lbs this year alone from flare ups. How can I hide weight loss during the summer? |
| Question: Do parents have favourites? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 12:01 PM PDT If my parents had a gun to kill one of their children just because they had to I think it'd be me. My dad loves me a lot but I feel like my mom likes my middle brother the best because she's so anti-women at times that I wonder if she really loves me a lot. I mean she probably does love me but I think she loves me the least. She likes it a lot more when my brothers show love to her but when I do, she asks me to study or do something else. I'm not sure if I'm exaggerating but I'm so sad at the moment. I feel unloved by my very parents who else can I expect love from at the age of 17? boyfriends are lying assholes and friends are ditchers. I can't wait till I get married so I get the attention I really deserve. |
| Question: Why can't I feel anger? I just feel hurt? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 11:59 AM PDT Growing up, my parents were really tough. I have so many memories of my dad beating me. Bad beating. Throwing at me with chairs, when I was a teenager. I remember screaming and crying so much, I was scared of both my parent. Nowadays, I speak to my dad every other week. I resent him for absolutely nothing, in fact, I forgot about the things he has done to me. He has the same kind heart as I do, and oftne I feel bad for him. My mother is even a worse person. She is a very loving mom, but all she knows is conditional love. She wants me to marry a man for money, because she says it's more important than anything. She looks down at my boyfriend (of 6 years) and my friends. And even at me. I almost make 6 figures at age 27, but she is disappointed at me because I am the only one in our family that is not a doctor. And the things she says to my little brother are so much worse. My boyfriends family are the kindest people in the world, but my mom doesn't want to meet them; says she is embarassed for them, what would her friends think for me to be with a family that low that are not doctors or lawyers. She can be so mean. So so mean, and it makes me wonder how we are even related. And now my boyfriend left me. Because he has a heart more vulnerable than mine. He loves me so much that it hurts him. He asked for a break. I have been putting so much effort into making him happy, that it's a slap in my face that he asks for a break. I want to be mad at my dad for hurting me and now only talking to me once a month and when he does all he does is complain, at my mom for thinking she is something better than the rest, and at my boyfriend for not being strong and making me be the strong one for the both of us. I want to hate them for the things they do and how they hurt me and treat me, but all I can do is cry and feel sad. I can't be mad because they have such good hearts, and my mom must have been through tough times to have an additude like the one she has. She needs my help. I see her sad sometimes, and I think deep inside she admires me. I can't be angry at friends either. As soon as something happens I cry. Then I feel empathy, I understand where they are coming from, and it hurts even more. And in the end, it's just me that suffers from it. |
| Question: My parents put Family Safety on my computer. How do I remove it? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 11:57 AM PDT A few days ago, I bought a gaming computer, with the money I got for Christmas and my birthday. and I get A LOT of money. It had Windows 8.1 on it, and I went and encrypted and locked everything on it. When my parents found this out, they got enraged, took my computer to a repair shop, and got them to decrypt everything and put Family Safety on my computer. I don't know why they would do this. I don't watch porn or do any illegal activities, or any other bad things. I can only use it on the weekends from 6-9 P.M. This REALLY interferes with my schoolwork when I have to type up an essay. Also, the Web Filtering blocks some non-adult sites that I used to go on, and other things, and it's really annoying. I have to ask them for the password every time I want to get on the computer during the week or visit a blocked site, and I HATE the feeling that I have to rely on them when I have to do something (I am very independent). I feel like it's very childish. They have even set the game rating filters to where I can barely play any E or PEGI 7+ games. The only games I can play are eC or PEGI 3+ games. I'm 13 years old. It's not like I'm in preschool or anything, which I'm not. I am in 7th grade. I have tried EVERYTHING to get around this, from disabling it in services.msc, to trying to get into Safe Mode to disable it, only to get blocked out EVERY TIME when it asks me for my parents' password, which I don't have. How do I get around this thing?! |
| Question: Why would she blame us? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 11:56 AM PDT When I was 7 my dad died. 2 years later my mother got married to this pevert. He molested my older sister and gave me and my siblings weed and alcohol. Sewers so young and my mom didn't care about us. My sister told her about the abuse and she ignored it and let it happen. Now it's all over she divorced him but not because he did anything g to us because one of her friends seen him give us weed and told her. My mother all about her self image so she divorced him. Yesterday I was thinking bout all this and I texted her all mad and said your a horrible person and one day u will pay for what u let happen to us. She called my older sister and blamed her told her he did that to u cause u was all over him never left his side. After years of repressing her feelings my sister freaked out on her and said this is all ur fault u brang him to our life and threw us to him. I was ten and didn't know anything and u let him molest me and said nothing to him which made him feel it was ok to do it. I was so proud of my sister she never opened up about it til lastnight. I just don't understand how a women can have kids and not care about them that's so evil. I'm a new mom and there's nothing in this world I wouldn't do to protect and love my baby. How do u feel about my situation |
| Question: What distinguishes family from a stranger? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 11:37 AM PDT When we say someone is our family member, we frequently mean that he/she is blood related. However, marriage between 2 people of completely different blood is also considered as family. For example, the sister of a groom would also consider his wife as part of her family. A cousin of the bride would consider the groom to be part of his/her family. So if family is just mixing with blood of strangers, then what distinguishes a stranger from a family member? wats the difference between strangers and family? how is family different from being a stranger? I conclude that family is more of a social contract that people should stick by each other no matter. |
| Question: Why can't my mom let me be happy ....?!?!?!? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 11:30 AM PDT I lived in New York with my mom,I hated it there. A lot of bad things happen to me there,A lot of turmoil for me.plus my mom would aggervate me and it was always about money. No matter how many hours I worked I never had money cuz it would just go to her or bills or food or her car. So on March 29 I flew to Florida to be with my dad and I like it here. Even though I'm still lonely and don't know anyone I feel like I have more hope here. I'm turning 20 this June. Buuuuut my mom calls me everyday and wants me to come back home. Mostly cuz she doesn't want child support money to stop for her ,but it ends next year anyway. She only has dissability to live on. She proberly could work but my mom is not the type to work... My dad want to work less so he can be home for me more but he says child support has to end so he has more money ..... But when my mom aggervates me and says that I'm doing nothing here in Florida is aggervates me because I did NOTHING IN NY... Why can't she just let me be ? 😒😒 I left my cat behind too so that's the only thing I have there |
| Question: My mom is killing herself and she doesn't even care? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 11:08 AM PDT my mom is already old to begin with. I'm 16 and she's 51. I also have a 12 year old sister. She's been smoking since she was 15 so I'd be surprised if she doesn't get lung cancer. She's also an alcoholic. I hate her but I obviously still love her. Anyway she wants to stop drinking & had gotten a little better with that, but she doesn't even care that she smokes. She hasn't tried to stop and doesn't have a plan to stop either. it's like she doesn't care that she's killing herself. I would actually like her to see me get married and have children but at this rate that won't happen. her friend who was only 56 just died of lung cancer a few weeks ago and that didn't even phase her. I've tried bringing it up but every time I do she's like "why do you have to talk about this right now??!" so yeah. I don't know what to do. I don't want to be in my 20's without a mom. Also my mom & dad smoke in the car with me and my sister which is so annoying! It makes me want to puke. I complained and they were like "big deal we have the windows cracked y'all aren't even getting any smoke back there" BUT WE ARE. I don't know what to do about any of that. |
| Posted: 17 Apr 2015 10:31 AM PDT So I am 17 right now and I am starting to really think about my future. My past was really bad because of my mother. My mom has been a heavy alcoholic since I was 6. She mentally abused me and never ever raised me right. She can claim she is "hard working single mom" but she can't ever say she was trying for me in the end. She has gotten 1000 a month in child support since I was 5 and still I had to wear clothes from the lost and found and never got ANYTHING I needed other than whatever food she bought. She is selfish and narcissistic. She treats my sister and I like burdens and can't be proud of us and only complains about our actions. Well guess what we both have scholarships and my sister straight up moved out and told my mom she will never hear from her again. So now I'm almost 18 and I have the choice of moving in with my older boyfriend. My friends have always told me that I need to move out ASAP. She banned all of my friends from my house so my only option is my bf. FYI I am just now starting senior year so I will have to go to a different school which is fine since I hate my small school I've gone to my whole life. I would do anything to get away from her abuse she makes me hate myself. I want to know if anyone has been through this situation and if it is hard to do. I'm afraid I will never be able to be normal bc of her, |
| Question: My sister is better than me by a long shot? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 10:26 AM PDT So to start of I have Rosacea ( my cheeks are naturally red but near my ear it's not and it looks wierd) I have "goosebumps" on my arms all the time (I forgot what this condition is called) I have curly frizzy hair I'm pale I have had bad anxiety in elementary school and in middle school and now I have derealization She has none of this. She's like the opposite of me. I have always been kind to almost everyone I see and I don't mean this in a selfish way but it is something I have been raised to do and enjoy being. My sister is still kind but not nearly in the way I am (thst sounds so selfish and I apologize I am just trying to get my point across) She is so beautiful naturally and never has to wear any makeup I have been over weight since I was around 7, but I lost weight and now I'm around the same weight as her. (Im a couple inches taller than her) I thought by losing weight people would see me like her in a way. I'm so sick of it. All my life i had to deal with people saying to my sister "you're so beautiful" and when they'd see me they'd just say hello. theyd say I'm ugly and fat straight up to my face. Many of my friends have said "you're sisters so pretty" but I feel if it was the other way around they wouldn't. I do think I'm beautiful in certain ways but I see my sister and I lose hope. She has such a better life than me in every way imaginable and it makes me sad. What can I do? Can someone give me a religious aspect to this? Is God or Jesus testing me? |
| Question: How would you react? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 10:24 AM PDT So I am 17 and pregnant. My parents are going to find out tomorrow. My boyfriend ' his mother coming over to explain everything.. & to tell them that I want to move with them. My boyfriends family is very supportive. He is 21 also very supportive & very responsible. He has taken me to an OBGYN already & is going to support me and the baby. He has a great paying job & a car also. My parents know him very well that he is responsible. We have been together for 2 years.. But my parents are very religious & expect us to not even hug or kiss!! So that's the reason why I feel like they will hate me. Idk what to think, how do you feel about the situation? |
| Question: How can I feel better about my birthday when it was so horrible.? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 10:11 AM PDT So, today is my 19th birthday. I thought today would be peaceful and happy. My family said happy birthday to me. So I'm happy about that. The other day I had a fight with my mom. Today she is still angry at me. I wanted to spend time with her, going out to eat etc. She said she doesn't care and to keep out of her sight for the day. I said I was sorry multiple times. |
| Question: How to get custody of my 22 year old brother who is currently in a nursing home? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 10:08 AM PDT How to get custody of my 22 year old brother who is currently in a nursing home? Me and my younger brother was taken away from our birth mother back in 2003 and our Aunt was granted custody of us. In 2007 my little brother was unfortunately hit by a car and was in a coma. He is out if the coma, but cannot walk or talk and barely moves, but his eyes are open and alert. He is currently residing in a Nursing Home/ Hospital and my family barely goes to visit him. I don't want my brother to die in a Nursing home, so I am trying to figure out how to get custody of my younger brother because I would rather be his care taker over my aunt. No body is even concerned, but me. Everybody else acts as if he is dead, and 8 years later my brother has not gave up so I won't give up on my brother. Can somebody please help me. |
| Question: My mom says my girlfriend isn't wife material.? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 10:07 AM PDT My mom critisizes her all the time but she was never critical about my exes. My girlfriend is 21 and she's got a very happy bubbly sweet personality and she's very kind. She's a child at heart and is obsessed with Disney. She isn't that immature but she dresses a little younger then her age. She has pink hair and loves clothes with cartoon characters on them but that's not all she wears. I always found her quirks adorable but my mom says she has something wrong with her and that she's too immature to become a wife and a mother. It's really sad because my girlfriend loves my mom and has told me that she considers her a second mom/family. She believes the best about my family and well everyone for that matter. She is very trusting but I think she still has common sense. The thing my mom hates the most about her is the fact that she doesn't know how to handle stress. She will have panic attacks or cry in stressful situations. She got fired from her last job because she cried when people yelled at her. I know she will learn how to deal with things in time. She never had any stress before so I understand why she could get overwhelmed. I'm just sick of my mom ragging on her behind her back because my gf is honestly the sweetest gilr I know. She isn't fake, doesn't talk about people behind their backs like other women, she is genuenly kind.. Her innocence is refreshing. How can I get my mom to accept my gf for who she is? |
| Question: I'm 23, and I don't drive. What should I do? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 09:47 AM PDT I'm terrified of driving. I don't want to do it. I'd rather use public transport and my two feet. However, my dad is always yelling at me and says, "It's not normal!" And my other family members think it's weird too. They think I'll always need to rely on people, but that's not the case. I wouldn't be asking them to take me anywhere. I never have. My dad really stresses himself out because I don't want to drive, and that's what worries me. That's the only reason I ever try to practice. |
| Question: How do I get my stepmom to respect my child? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 09:45 AM PDT To start off I am a 31 year old adult and I have a stepmom (only mother I kno w) who came into my life in my teen years. She has always been a great person to talk about anything with. I am a single mom to a 7 year old daughter and recently moved into my dad's house (2 weeks ago.) My dad and stepmom have custody of my step niece and nephew. Their mom is a On drugs and has been in and out of jail. My dad is the provider of his family and I of mine. My stepmom disrespects my daughter constantly. She accuses My daughter of stealing when her granddaughter has misplace something. I teach my child to share everything but when it comes to her granddaughter, she is not amount to share with My child without her (step mom's) permission which she usually said no and tells my daughter has "fat feet" or "her mom can buy her it if she wants it" or "no, it's not hers" she also talks bad about my daughter's father and older half brother to her face and tells her she is a bad kid, tell her she is dumb and other very disrespectful things mostly when I am not around. My daughter is a really sweet, smart and always gives and helps everyone. I try to talk to my dad but he thinks I am over reacting. How can I stop her from hurting my child? She hurts my child's feelings daily and makes her cry and I don't know how to stop her. When I try to talk to her about it she tells me my daughter Lies and just shrugs it off. How do I protect my daughter Without putting us out on the street? |
| Posted: 17 Apr 2015 09:39 AM PDT My mother is a pill user and an alcoholic. Her husband can't hold a job. He is an alcoholic himself. They both have a ton of health problems. My sister died a few years ago my twin nieces mother. They father of the girls are on drugs. How can me and my wife get custody of the girls if my mother has temp. custody? The twin girls are 15 years old. |
| Question: My family ruined my life. What should I do? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 09:34 AM PDT I'm 15 and I live with a bad family. They always fight but never get to have a divorce they ruined my life. My father doesn t work. I have a bad life I always thought of committing suicide. I have a bigger brother and sister but they never helped and always Asked for money. My mother thought I was ugly and selfish she told me it when I told her she ruined my life and that she made me think of committing suicide she didn t even care! I live in an Arabian country so I don t think the country I live in has any kind of organizations that may help me. What should I do? I want to have a life. |
| Question: Ways to save money?!?!? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 09:26 AM PDT Help please. What are some little things my family can do to save money? We already get food at the pantry. I'm going to UCONN fall 2015 and my mom keeps telling me she might need me to take a year off before I go. I don't want to sacrifice my education. Both parents are unemployed and my older brother (20) is a loser. So please, anything and everything that can help us save money, get money, and get jobs would be appreciated. Thanks. |
| Question: Is there anything I can do to make my relationship with my stepdad better? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 09:20 AM PDT My mom and I don't know what to do anymore. He is verbally and emotionally abusive. My stepdad blames me for everything under the sun. I've tried to make things better but he just ignores me or says I'm worthless. I ask him how his day was when he comes home but he doesn't respond. Then when my mom asks he says it was ok. He NEVER acknowledges my accomplishments in school with straight A's or work when my boss gives me special projects when she's busy because I'm the only one she trusts with her work but goes on and on about his daughter entering a grocery bagging competition. Whenever I try to include him, he just sits on his phone and ignores me. We were having dinner with his brother and his brother was asking me about my life. He was so interested but my stepdad just interrupted me and changed the subject completely just to get the topic off of me. His brother and my mom both noticed a strong disconnection and how I'm trying but he just seems to hate me more and more every day. What should I do? I haven't even scratched the surface with how bad things are. He loves to talk about how worthless I am and how I'm not meant anything to anyone which I know isn't true. |
| Posted: 17 Apr 2015 09:17 AM PDT friend because he s leaving for Chicago. I was getting ready and I heard my mom call up to me "We need to go" or something. I said "Okay im brushing my teeth." and went back into the bathroom to finish up. I didn t think much of it. Then I heard her coming upstairs and I thought she was going to tell me to turn FaceTime off because I had to go. I told my friend I had to go to school and ended the FaceTime. my mom came in and she started yelling at me and asked why I would do that and how it was hurtful and rude. Of course, I was confused because I didn t know what that was or what was going on. She said I yelled at her and used a tone with her and at this point I was crying. I literally had just told her I was brushing my teeth. I was crying so hard. I was already in immense pain because I had pulled muscles in both my arms. She knew this but still came up to me, squeezed, pulled, and pushed me by my arms. I was crying harder and she told me to "get over it." She also told me to stop hurting her feelings and threatened to take away my phone for my whole life. recently I battled suicidal thoughts and self harm and I ve been clean for close to year! My mom doesn t know this. I m thinking about running away. My parents hurt me emotionally but then pull the "disappointed" card, "you re hurting MY feelings" card, or "we drive you to rehearsals and do so much for you" card. I love my parents but it hurts me so badly that I have recently started to think about suicide again. |
| Posted: 17 Apr 2015 09:12 AM PDT I'm a high school choir director. I'm engaged to the older brother of one of my choir girls. At the end of today my fianceand I are going to spend Friday together, and I can guarantee we'll make love tonight. I thought I sent a text message only to him that said 'What color lingerie am I wearing? Or would you rather think I'm not wearing any at all.' I don't know how I was so stupid, but I accidentally sent the text to his mom, dad, and younger siblings including the girl in my choir class. I immediately texted them all (except him) and said that it was meant to go to my fiancé. I'm still so embarrassed. I'm also worried if anyone found that out it would get me in huge trouble with my job, but the text was only meant to go with my fiancé. What can I do to protect myself? How can I make this as un-embarassing as possible? |
| Question: Is this a normal reaction? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 09:09 AM PDT Ok so i am on holiday sharing a room with my sister and her boyfriend i walk out the bathroom my suster is fully naked but just carries on as normal. WTF im freaked out |
| Question: How to determine who to live with.....? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 08:54 AM PDT I'm almost 14 years old and my mom, a single mom, passed away two months ago. It has been difficult, but I've had a lot of help and I am doing reasonably well. But I need to make a decision of where to live, and it is really difficult. My dad and I have next to no relationship. He left when I was 2 and we have barely any contact since. He is offering to take me, but I think it would be awkward, he's never really been in my life, he is married with kids of his own, and tbh, he mostly just sounds like he is "willing" because it is "the right thing to do." The other option is my aunt, who is married to a wonderful man and has 2 daughters of her own who I am very close with. She loves me, wants to adopt me, wants to make me truly part of the family. And I want that too. But she has also been very clear that if I want to live here, that means her treating me the same as she does them, and her discipline does include spankings....only as a last resort, not common, but they do happen, and she isn't willing to negotiate. And right or wrong she is steadfast on this, and my age does not change her opinion. I've never really been spanked (like maybe once when I was little), I'm a total wimp about pain, and this really scares me. I'm a good kid and rarely in trouble, but I'm not crazy enough to think I'll NEVER get in trouble, especially because she is fairly strict (reasonable, but strict). So it really scares me. But so does living with a "father" I don't really know.... |
| Posted: 17 Apr 2015 08:53 AM PDT She told him to get off and pulled the sheet over her lower body but the top part was exposed and she just layed there like that while I stared. My dad didn't say anything, he just watched me. What is going on? |
| Question: What do you think I should do? (Preferably moms)? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 08:32 AM PDT Long story short, I'm a teen girl. I have this really close family friend. She's a mom of 2, who recently lost her daughter(she was my age) 3years ago. We are really close, we're like family. Anyway Mother's Day is coming & I wanted to write her a Mother's Day card saying what a wonderful mom she is to her 2 sons, how she's such an inspiring amazing women & how she is special to me. Daughterly words I guess you can say(not trying to replace her daughter at all.) what do you think? It was just an idea & I really want to do it but I'm afraid she won't like it or it won't be appropriate?... I'm afraid it would be weird cause I'm not her kid. Anyway what's your opinion? & should I ask my mom if I should do it? Don't worry I already have my own moms gift ready & done! |
| Posted: 17 Apr 2015 08:26 AM PDT My mother said "short women are ugly just like us". I told her I didn't like what she said, but she is still saying the same thing. I think it's offensive. It's not the first time she says this type of thing. |
| Question: Is what they are doing for my daughter normal? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 08:03 AM PDT My daughter Kathy is a senior in high school and has a lot of difficult homework. She often ask for homework help from anybody that is convenient. For example, I had a ladies club meeting at my house and she ask some of the ladies for homework help. They gladly helped her. When my son had some of his friends over, she ask them for homework help and they helped her and were happy to do it. When her sister's date came to pick her up, Kathy ask him to help her with her homework and he did until her sister was ready to go on her date. What seems so unusual to me is that EVERYONE that helped her told her if she needed more help to call them which she sometimes but not very often did. With all the help she has received she has an A average grade and has a choice of the college she wants to attend. Kathy and I and her dad are very grateful for all the people that have helped her and we have told them so. Do you find it unusual that so many people are willing to give of their time to help someone and do not expect to get paid for their time? It kind of renews my faith in the goodness of people. |
| Question: Is my father shallow? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 08:01 AM PDT My dad says that natural human process is to want to look good so people will look at you. He says everybody are like that. And I admire people who dont care how do they look as long as they are clean and they wont catch a cold in that clothes. But he says there is no people like that and he's trying to convince me that his perspective is right. |
| Question: I can't deal with my disabled sister anymore? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 08:01 AM PDT Before you judge me please read. My sister is 14 and mentally disabled she has learning problems and epilepsy to name a few things. Over the last year I've hated her so much and it kills me, I try so hard to understand and love her but I can't anymore. She has taken a lot from me. My childhood I spent in a hosptial while my sister was ill. My mum gets so stressed about her that she has no time for me. My sister demands my mums full attention. I have to revolve my life aroud her I can't have friends over and I have to plan ahead to go out. My sister acts out at me and hits me. She was staying the night at a family friends to give my mum and I a break and she had to go to hospital as an emergency. I know its not her fault she is Ill and now the plans are ruined for me and my mum. Everytime we plan something my sister always gets in the way. I know I should be more understanding and calm but you try being in my shoes. I live my life as second best. I have to fight for my own parents attention. I've just given up now and are away from them all the time. I have exams coming up and my sister is ill and I know it'll be so hard to revise. I hate my sister so much she has a short life expectancy and it's disgusting that I am not appreciating her. But I can't Ive tried so have I hate myself for it. She sucks the life out of my family and I've grown up as the second best. I just can't do it anymore. Are my feelings justiable? |
| Question: My parents make me feel so insecure? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 08:01 AM PDT My parents always feel the need to comment on everything I do and put me down. My dad always tells me I'm ugly because I have a habit of scratching spots until it bleeds (I don't even know why I do it, sometimes I don't even realize I'm doing it). I was bullied throughout my childhood, so I feel extra insecure because of it. I remember being told I was fat (I know for a fact I wasn't- I was really skinny when I was younger) and it became something I'm really self-conscience about- so the other day I was eating chocolate, and my dad said I'm getting fat and I need to lose weight. My mum agreed and joined in, and it made me feel worse since she's usually the one on my side. I also have social anxiety so I can't do a lot of things and each time my parents call me worthless and useless and annoying. Even when I get anxiety attacks, they just yell at me and tell me I'm being dramatic- which makes it a lot worse. When I tell my mum that it hurts my feelings, she stops- but my dad just tells me to stop being so sensitive and he's only telling the truth. I don't tell anyone about this because I'm afraid they'll agree with my parents and make me feel more insecure. What should I do to make them stop? And am I really being too sensitive like my dad said? Please help ;c |
| Question: Why does my dad favour my older brother especially in our family business? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 07:57 AM PDT |
| Posted: 17 Apr 2015 07:53 AM PDT My mom's a university professor and has been on a research trip for the past couple of weeks. I was playing a game on my dad's phone when I saw my mom send my dad a text that said 'If I was home right now where would you want me to touch you?' I was shocked to see that. I'll admit I looked through their other texts. Many of them are normal, but some of them are really bad. I read one that literally said, "Put your big fat c0ck inside my vagi*a and bang my brain out. Right now!" My dad sent some really bad stuff too. I feel kind of betrayed. I thought my parents did what they told me to do. They go to church It just feels weird and wrong that my parents are so dirty. I've gotten in trouble for saying things not as bad as they would say. Are my parents hypocrites? Why do they tell me to have clean language when they don't?I know I shouldn't have been looking. You don't need to tell me that, but the damage is done Oh, and I'm a 13 year old girl. I feel gross after seeing the stuff my parents sent to each other I feel gross after seeing the stuff my parents sent to each other |
| Question: Should I feel guilty for wanting to move out of state? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 07:39 AM PDT I've lived in Phoenix all my life and moving out of state with my wife and our child for new opportunities and hopefully a better life. We are relocating to Washington where her mother and father live. The thing is my family are very close and I just feel guilty to leave for a new life. My mother especially because how close she is to my daughter. Something tells me that this move is going to be a good thing for us and also a better education for my daughter as well. I feel like I'm getting the guilt trip about leaving and taking my daughter away from her grand parents. Should I feel wrong? |
| Question: Does eating disorders run in families? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 07:31 AM PDT My girlfriend has bullima and she says it runs down her family ,because her mum sister niece and gran had it |
| Question: Why doesn't my mom believe what I say? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 07:22 AM PDT Nearly every argument I get into with her she doesn't believe me. For example, she called my dad since I got into an argument with my brother. My dad said if he could talk to me so she handed the phone to me. Then, I handed the phone to my mom but I accidentally in some way put the phone on mute. She blamed me on doing it to get her back. What should I do to make her believe in what I say. I tell the truth but still she doesn't believe me. My brothers just mimic me which makes the situation worse. |
| Question: How do I deal with both of my drug addicted parents? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 06:50 AM PDT Both of my parents are drug addicts, Im 14 but I live with my dad, my stepmom and my younger brother. My mom has always been a drug addict and Im not worried about her because Im used to it. But my dad however, this has been on and off forever and I cant handle loosing him. My dad is my everything, I cant even explain how much he means to me. Last week was the worst, he was sober all week but he just started again. He wouldnt talk to me at all and it hurt so much. I just dont know what to do |
| Question: Why are fathers so protective over their daughters? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 06:47 AM PDT My father has told me since a young age that I cannot date anyone until I'm 20 (sometimes he jokes and says 30!). He also won't let me stay out longer than 9pm or travel into town on my own by train (it takes 20 minutes). Also, whenever he sees a picture of me with my friends (some of which are boys), he always says things like "Who's that boy? Does he like you?" And stuff. I just don't understand because my older brother had so many girlfriends between the ages of 14-18. He was also allowed to stay out until like midnight and go to parties all the time but I'm not allowed. I understand that girls are more vulnerable or whatever, but I just think it's unfair. I'm 16 now and although I've never done anything with a guy or had a boyfriend, I always feel like I'm scared of getting into a relationship when I'm older in case my dad freaks out. My Grandma said he's just being overly protective and I should do whatever I want to do, but I'm just curious as to why boys aren't as restricted as girls? |
| Question: Is this suspicious to anyone else or am I losing my mind? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 06:45 AM PDT I suspect my husband (my daughters step father) of molesting her. this is why. One day i was sick and i could barely move, im pregnant and my joints lock up sometimes. So he was taking her to the park and she was fully clothed except her shoes. He had on basketball shorts. I noticed that it was too quiet and it shouldnt take that long to put on her shoes. 5 minutes had went by already so i asked why it was so quiet and she ran out the room and he came in and said he was putting on her shoes. His penis was simi hard and i asked him why he was hard and he said it just happens at random. I didnt feel right about and dismissed it thinking i could be over reacting. Then a week or so later im laying on our couch and my daughter takes out her pacifier and tries to lick my vagina she tried this twice. So when he called me i brought her behavior to his attention and he got really defensive. mind you i hadn't asked him if he did anything to her or accused him of anything. Then just yesterday he was changing her diaper and she got really happy and started clapping her hands and smiling and waiting and it seemed when he didn't do what she expected she stopped smiling and looked at him with a mean look and like she was confused. So to see his reaction i said i would take her to the doctor to be checked to see if anything has been done to her and when i called today the call information was switched to his information instead of mines. I think he's done something to her what do you think. |
| Question: I accidentally fed my dog my sister's birthday cake? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 06:37 AM PDT I came home this morning, and saw the cake there. I picked it up to see what it said, then I heard the doorbell so I put it down on the kitchen floor because it was in a container, so it wasn't gonna get dirty in that plastic thing, bc I spilled water all over the counter. I knocked over water when I picked up the cake, and I had to get the door, so I couldn't clean it. I came back and my dog ate through the plastic and ate most of the cake, and it was chocolate now she doesn't look too good. I was going to try to save the cake, but it looked really gross, so I just let my dog finish it. What do I tell my family? I just fed him some bleach/peroxide mix to induce vomiting. I read online that it helps dogs throw up, if it doesn't work ill call the vet. Thanks! |
| Question: How to get my mom to like me more? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 06:26 AM PDT I think my moms bipolar because i was dignosed with it and shes alot like me. recently (in the past 3 years) shes been especially distant and even pushed my away by blaming me for rediculous things. I'm 22 and maybe its dumb to still be seeking my moms approval, but I feel lost with out her guidance or at least support. Theres no dad in the picture so shes a big part of family to me. I've tried cleaning my life up as best as I can but theres always a feeling of dislike or dissaproval when ever i visit or call. should i let our relationship go because its not healthy? Im worn out from trying to participate in this transparent relationship, but i still want a mother. |
| Question: My mom disappeared...? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 06:18 AM PDT I woke up about 2 hours ago to find that my mom, her car, her phone, and purse were gone. She hasn't answered any calls or texts. My dad is also at our beach house so i'm home alone... What should I do?? I am 13 and I don't have school today. I know it's fine for my parents to leave me alone but my mom didn't leave a note or anything |
| Posted: 17 Apr 2015 05:39 AM PDT its becoming one year after my marriage.. my husband loves me a lot.. my husband working in a software company. my husband had a close friend.he believes him a lot.. last week when my husband was not at home his close friend came to my home and he forced me to have sex with him.i had tried my best to get rid of him.. but i was unable to resist.he had sex with me.. i dont know what to do.my husband believes him a lot.he will nt believe if i say so? what can i??? |
| Question: Go with my husband or stay for my sister's birthday? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 05:29 AM PDT Been married for about 3 months, however its a long distance marriage at the moment. We are happy and doing little, but important things to sustain our marriage until we can live together. But now problems there at all. I usually travel back to my home country at least once a year, which is where he lives. This year he will be coming to visit me here for my brother's wedding, which will be his first visit to the US. He wants me to travel back with him the day after the wedding... However, I really had planned to be here for my sister's 18th bday, which is 14 days after the wedding. I really miss him and have been looking forward to going home to be with my love every single day since I've been away, but I really wanted to do something big for my sister's birthday, especially since we didn't do anything big for her 16th birthday. He's already expressed how much he needs me and wants me traveling home with him, but I feel very guilty leaving before my sister's bday... What should I do? Its not that he is unreasonable, or selfish, it's just been hard being apart, especially as newlyweds. So do I just forget about my sister and go home with my love or tell him that I can't leave before her birthday but I will fly home that same day? Need to buy my ticket soon...what do I do?! |
| Question: How do I make my mum regret all the bad things she has done to me? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 05:09 AM PDT My mum is always so stubborn and unfair. You may think that I'm just a kid trying to get their own way, but trust me it isn't like that. I hate her so much right now, and sometimes I even think about what it would be like to die. I want to run away from home, but I know I won't be able to do it. Whenever I try to have a proper talk about our relationship, it always ends badly. What can I possibly do to make my mum regret all the bad things she has done to me? This may sound stupid, but I want to have revenge SO badly so please help me SOS!!! |
| Question: What should i do 4 my birth day???? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 04:08 AM PDT ok so my exams started and im super messed up.. 22 apr is my Bday and i cant do anything i have to study to death and im not a nerd. if i mess up i think id die for real . i asked my mom for just some books and a cheese cake and she said NO not even for the cheese cake :(((((( i feel dep for studying on my bday... what should i do???? so i get gr8 grades so what? i rather be happpy and get good grades not to feel like crap and get the best grades in my life. just please HELP :((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( I KNOW MY SPELLING IS **** I MAD OK???????? |
| Question: Why does my mom always ruin my mood? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 04:06 AM PDT Every time I'm in a happy positive mood,its like she tries to ruin it on purpose. She's always contradicting everything I do,moaning and nagging at me and gives me huge lectures on really really pointless stuff. Im so happy when I'm at school but I know as soon as I go home she'll make me mad. Its like she doesn't want me to have a fun social life either. Also,every time I talk about how I'm goug to leave to go to uni in 2 years (16rn) she says I wont make it bc I won't gsve money and I won't have a job and what not. She just puts everything I like down and constantly reminds me to do stuff that she knows I hate. We used to be mega close,then I got a eating disorder and even tho I'm better no,its not been thalr same since. Could it also maybe be because I'm 16? And I keep talking about how I'm gonna live my life when I'm out of this house? Honestly, she makes me more determaind to gt Good grades so I can move out and live my life wtboht her. |
| Question: My brother is leaving to live with his dad after prom? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 02:44 AM PDT He is mad because my mom won't let him Use a sports car to take his girlfriend to senior prom. He is 18 so he is allowed to do whatever he wants here in America, except drink alcohol or beer. and he has caused MY parents to get 👌🏼 this close to splitting up!! But my mom is really sad... He is leaving before graduation. And I think, he is going to fail. And have to do high school again. That won't look good on his record! He has a really crappy dad. Like he is SO mean! And he won't get a big TV, he won't get a expensive bed, he won't have a nice-*** computer, or a nice parent. Once he moves out he's DONE! My mom ain't lettin him move back in unless he homeless livin on the street. Then she will let him stay until he gets a job and moves out again. But what do I do? I'm happy I won't have to deal with him anymore but... He's still my older brother. Even though he's a terrible role model, I still care about him cause like my BROTHER |
| Posted: 17 Apr 2015 02:13 AM PDT My niece was hit by a school van yesterday, she's in critical condition in the ICU. She's lost alot of blood bleeding internally, she went into a seizure, has fluid in her brain.. they have to drain it.. she needs a blood transfusion.. she's only seven years old.. the bus driver was texting and goin 50 miles an hour in a school zone.. my niece was on the opposite side of the street on the side walk when she got hit.. plz anyone and everyone... even though u don't know her.. pray that she pulls through this and that her.. my sister and her siblings get the justice they deserve 4 this.. can anyone tell me if she has a tube down her throat... does that mean she's on life support.. |
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| Question: I'm going suicidal over my sister and want to kill my alcoholic dad? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 01:32 AM PDT My dad is the reason why my sister is not talking to me. Hes stopping her from contacting me or my mum. He has abused my mum years ago. I'm pissed off. My sister is getting bullied and dad thinks its her fault she gets bullied. He has stopped her counselling sessions. I'm pissed off. I want to kill my dad. I want to go over his workplace and slit his neck and if I can't do that, I'll kill myself. My sister needs to know why I'm mad at her. I want her to know her mum and I care about her. If she can't make amends with me and the family I will die to show how much I gave a **** about her for all these years, yet she hates me. What do I do |
| Question: Family Dispute Question? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 01:15 AM PDT I haven't spoken to my sister in years and I don't speak or get close to anyone who socializes with her because I don't want her to know my business through gossip. It turns out that some of my family members who were loyal to me in the past and didn't speak to her have decided to start socializing with her again and now I have no one in my family to speak to except my Mom and one teenage nephew. Now I not only feel betrayed by what my sister did to me years ago (it's was a legal matter and three attorneys told me she was wrong to do what she did), I feel betrayed by the rest of the family for befriending her and now I' m considered the bad, non-forgiving person in the family! I am really sorry now that I helped many family members in the past who betrayed me, some of who benefitted because I was forced to threaten my sister with a lawsuit if she persisied in trying to extort money from our family. I am so upset with everyone that I want to move Mom and I to another city to get away from family. I really had no question, I guess I just wanted to vent and read any comments regarding my situation. Lesson learned, do not spend your time and money on extended family members who will probably betray you anyway. The same type of thing happened to my best friend. |
| Question: My mom and dad are fighting, what do I do? Posted: 17 Apr 2015 12:31 AM PDT yesterday my brother threw himself a hissy fit. He wants to drive the camaro, (which btw is a stick shift) to his senior prom. He doesn't know how to drive a stick shift. And is throwing a temper tantrum. And my mom is fighting with my dad. My dad woke up today to Yell at my mom. (Because she was going to let my brother drive it)Then went to bed after that fight. They are fighting right now, I am scared they are going to divorce. Because of my brother...please help what do I do? Btw my dad is just mad and my brother is 18 and a bad person. |
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