I visited my family for almost two weeks in Ecudaor and it was the best vacation ever. We did so many fun things together and they are so close and very outgoing and loving. I miss them so much it's making me cry and we only left 2 days ago. I want to see them again because I actually felt like I belonged and was wanted when I was with them since I deal with depression and being with them made me insanely happy. Please help I don't know what to do I'm so sad right now.

Hello. I have 3 kids, two boys (18) and my daughter, (15) "Serena." My husband comes from a family of Christian fundamentalists. Serena has a cousin, about her age, "Miriam." They were close as children, but they grew apart. Last weekend Miriam and her family were visiting. Serena was putting on makeup, and Miriam said, "God made you look like that for a reason." And Serena said "Shut your whore mouth Miriam." Miriam was shocked. I was shocked. Serena never even says mean things to anyone, except to Miriam. There was another time Miriam said, "Don't you think that outfit's a bit much?" And Serena replied, "I think you're a bit much." My husband gets really mad at Serena but it doesn't do anything. There was another time, Miriam was getting ready for "courting" and Serena asked, in front of our family, "How exciting, when are you guys going to hold your first hand?" SERENA DOES NOT CARE. It's horrible. I ask her why and she just says, "She really bothers me, mom." Miriam told Serena she'd pray for her, and Serena said "Sometimes I pray to god that you'll shut up." IT MAKES FAMILY GATHERINGS AWFUL. We get her in trouble and she still doesn't care.

So my female friend in Oklahoma is sending me a brand new PS4 next Wednesday. I should be happy right? Well, I am but there's a problem. I have a doting overprotective aunt that doesn't trust people at all. I don't want to tell her because she tends to overreact when it comes to me. Should I tell her?

Its not a sin to do it so why can't I do it. It is weird but I don't care. No harm will be done to anyone not even me for it will be in private. I think she shouldt withhold me from doing something just because she don't want me to do it. Help please I'm a guy

I'm in college and currently unemployed. I study in the same town where I live so I still live at home. I'm 22 so is this considered normal or not?

My daughter always takes jobs working any hours given without regard to my lifestyle and schedule. She just got hired working the same hours that I do so now I m forced to either stop working, alter MY work schedule or force her to get another job. She s 20 and I m trying to teach her how to maintain her life with my grandson without always depending on me, because I ve raised my children all adults now and I m currently in pursuit of getting my own business as well as working to increase income in the home in addition to my husband working. I tell her make sure your job won t interfere with your son school hours, make them in between his hours or get overnight shift where everyone is home and you won t have to worry about a babysitter. She just continues to do what she feels is right not thinking that she has a son who doesn t get out of school until almost 3 and you re taking a job that starts at 1, your mother work hours are from 12- 8:30, and her brother is still in school as well. I m at a lost, because i m going to end up looking like the bad guy when I complain that she s basically forcing me to give up my plans to live her life. I had to work my life around my children s hours just as I m trying to teach her to do for hers.

my dad left because my mom cheated, and really it just seems like he doesnt care about me and my other two sisters. he always would make up excuses as to why we werent allowed to go see him. he would say that he couldnt make it cause he had no money for gas (we live 4 hours apart) when in reality hed actually be in mexico having a blast with his new wife and 3 kids who have all gone. he lies and tells us he has no money and always says that he will take us and that he wants to and he never does. i think its his wife and she just wants my dad all to himself. but whenever i see him i always feel so loved and like everything is perfect and i just wish i could feel that all the time so i forget about all the bad stuff and bury it deep down inside like nothing is wrong. i always want to tell him things cause im so fed up but i get so scared like he will reject it or wont even do anything to help.. so my stepdad came into the picture when i was just 3. im 16 now, so 13 years hes been in my life. hes helped raise us from then. but he was just awful. he would always scream at me or pick on me becuase i was scared to stick up for myself like my older sisters were. i once sat on an empty water bottle and he screamed and swore telling me to stfu and never do that again cause it was too loud. him and my mom would always fight, hed call her a bit ch, wh ore, sl u t basically anything. tell her to shut up whenever she wanted to address a problem. im adding more so just wait please aha they broke up a milion times and he would move out. mom would promise things would change and he wouldnt be coming back. but when he was gone she would get drunk and high all the time and then he would come back. more yelling and screaming and i just grew up like that... he never showed me any kind of love or kindness ever. and so my mom finally got tired of it and he got into anger management and counseling and stuff to get him to realize how horrible he was to his family. so hes changed a lot and hes gotten a lot nicer and he treats everyone with respect and is kind but has his moments like we all do. and i dont know what it is, i just feel this block. when it comes to him i cant say i love you cause i feel disgusting saying it or i cant hug him cause its weird and i dont like being around him. i feel like i dont love him. hes nothing to me. i tolerate him. i am respectful,but sometimes he gets annoying and ill end up having a slight attitude but it happens right so today i came home from school and im on my period and ive been really miserable lately. he came and pulled on my bag and idk why but it hurt and i just got pissed off and said stop it hurts and so he stopped and then started screaming at me and pointing at me and swearing and he got all in my face and said all i ever get from you is bitc-hyness and blah blah your dad doesnt give a fu*ck about you and ive been here your whole life and you cant even carry on with me as my mom just stood there. i do infact talk to him and i carry on with him sometimes. but i was never the person to say i love you to any one or give hugs or show affection. its just weird. im not like that and i do give him hugs sometimes and i do joke around with him so all of a sudden i snap because im in pain and he starts screaming at me and bringing in other people i love just to hurt me? grow up. i hate him honestly. i dont want to but i just do. i wish i had that perfect family. i dont know what to do, really.

I'm so mad right now because I am certain my Mum reads my diary. I have OCD and I always leave a tab on my diary in the same place and same way around... it kept moving around each evening so I got suspicious and now my mum just brought something up that I've not spoken to her about but wrote in my diary. This isn't the first time she's invaded my privacy. She has also searched through my computer and put things onto a USB drive but forgot to take it out which is how I found out. She also searches my room when I'm not around.. And I wouldn't doubt that she looks through my phone, too. I think she's also followed me to places before. She gets angry at me whenever I don't tell her things but when she does things like this, can you be surprised? I'm losing so much trust for her. Is there anything to do? I've tried to confront her a few times and she's said that she'll stop yet she STILL continues. I'm thinking legal action may be needed... It sounds extreme but I am FED UP. Is there anything I can do? Thanks Oh, by the way, she gets through any passwords I put up, too. My brother is very good with computers so she gets him to do things for her. I'm 16 by the way..

I know it seems silly but I have a very close relationship with my mom even if she is gone for a day I will still miss her a lot I love her so much so please help me see what I can do so that I won't miss her to make time go by fast to make these three days the fastest days of my life

Thank you that you helped me all this time with my brother. I informed the police today and now he's home again. Fortunately that woman didn't hurt him, but as she told the police she tried to scare him very much. I can't believe she confessed her self about these horrible things! I'm so stupid that i permitted that woman take my brother away. I really blame my self. I'm a fool! From now on i'll be more careful. Thank God my brother's talking to me now and he accepted to talk to a counselor. I'll find the most trusted counselor as soon as i can. Thank you again...

He's 15 like me but he is sooooo attached to his dad. Like I barely talk to my parents because I'm a teenager and normal. Every weekend I ask my boyfriend to come out and he says no because he's doing something lame with his dad like fishing or hiking. He turns me down just to drive around different towns with him. He sees his dad all week. They live together! Today I asked him to come see me and he said he's going to look at backyard furniture with, you guessed it, his dad. I asked him what he's gonna do when hes older- have his dad move in with him and his wife? Come on the honeymoon with them? Is his dad gonna be at his kids births with front row seats? Is he gonna walk him into work every morning? Is he gonna jump in his dads casket? He put the phone down! What is WRONG WITH HIM?

This woman says she would never teach her son to be attracted to a wuh wuh https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LrH1Y7Jf59E&feature=player_detailpage#t=306

Those people that don't show any affection even to their family. How do you get them to break and give physical affection like hugs?

My grandad passed away less than a year ago, I was very close to him., he passed away in my nans living room and I feel he's here, I feel quite sick and dizzy being in this room even though I now he would never harm me or anyone. Is there a possibility that he's here?

So hes mad at me for using 4 pints of milk, a tub of greek yogurt, 2 cucumbers, 9 bananas and maybe 20 raspberrys to make a smoothie. He said how the hell am I gonna drink that much smoothie and that my stomach will bust open. And said that maybe my mom wanted some fruit too since she is pregnant and need vitamins. And now he's gonna have to go to the store and get her some bananas cuz that's what she have for breakfast. He acted like he already been to the store today. Well he hasn't!! We got the food delivered by sainsburys!! Also he made me put all the groceries away and yelled when I squashed 4 bags of spinach into the salad drawer. I popped holes to make the vacum bag smaller so there. And I couldn't drink the smoothie so I put it back in the refrigerator and he was all like, I toad you you wouldn't drink it. I said shut your fcking face and he slapped me real hard in the head. I have a headache now. So I toad my grandma he hit me and she yelled at him. And then he pulled faces at me when my grandma wasn't looking. So I toad my grandma that he put his finger across his throat as if to say he was gonna slit my throat. And my grandma didn't believe me and toad my dad to slap me again. I just wanted a smoothie and I have to suffer this abuse. Can I get him arrested he called me stupid too and were not allowed to use that word. My mom says so And he yelled at me this morning for getting lost in IKEA. I'm not holding his hand, everyone gets lost in IKEA. Its like a maze. And like 5 different people asked me how to get out. And me and this old man and a Chinese girl looked for the check out and exits together. And I waited by the car and text him to say where I was

She thinks she knows everything and she's the boss and can do whatever she wants when she's around me and it pisses me off. She doesn't listen to me and has called me names as well as said negative things about me. I don't want to be around her anymore but she comes over and walks in my room thinking I'm going to play with her. Recently i have been walking to get away from reality itself and she and my gma walked up the same path I was. Can't anyone see i just want to be alone and go somewhere where i WILL be left alone?

I'm 18 and I have a 11 year old sister she is driving me INSANE!!!!!! my sister gets everything she wants she's so annoying the other day it was her time to go back to school but when my mum went to get her out of bed she starts crying saying she felt sick and her stomach was hurting I know she was lying because when my mum went out she had eggs , bacon and something else for her breakfast and she has used that excuse so many times before. My mum gave her the day off school but bard her from the computer so as soon as my mum left she was straight on the computer. She doesn't listen to a single thing I say when I ask her to do something for me she will completely ignore me with this stupid look on her face and then tell me to shut up if I ask again. I have a desk in my room as well that magically got a letter carved into it from something I know it was her and I have a new pair of draws for my bedroom that also some how magically got the letter H wrote on them I know it was her again because when I went and asked her she did the stupid look and said shut up SHE IS DRIVING ME INSANE!!!!!! She is so horrible she says horrible things one time she said to me she wishes I was dead which really upset me but she did't even care she even said it to our mum and made us both cry. My parents know what she's like but do nothing She doesn't even let me near our cats when she wants them both near her. just saying she is totally a demon we have fun sometimes but then she changes and becomes mean and horrible and I'm a bit sensitive because I have low confident level I'm fine around my family but she seriously makes you want to hit her because she goes to far ( I never hit her BTW I always stop my self by going in my room or somewhere away from her) when she gets angry she goes bright red in the face should of actually called her the devil instead of demon she is just driving me crazy I just want a break from her when she's at school and I'm at home it's so peaceful then she comes home and even the cats run and hide because she's always bugging them when they are sleeping or just before I had Leo one of our cats sleeping on my legs she comes downstairs presses on his head making me even feel it on my legs and wakes him up for nothing then walks away.

My parents have joint custody, but my dad is my legal guardian even though I live with my grandma. I really want to move in with my mom but my dad keeps saying no. I'll be turning 16 soon can't I chose who I want to live with?

My mum and dad are getting married after 17 years of being together and I want to get them something really nice but I don't know what! They don't drink amd we do t need anything for the house and I don't know what to get💍 please help meXx

Growing up every sincere was a kid ive always had to always help my mother all the time I always had to play the mother at a young age, I pretty much had to be the mother and raise myself. And this has been going on all my life , where i had to do everything ..and support her so for the last eight years she and my sister have not had a stable place to live .they lived with me on three separate occasions all for about a Year at a time or i ve had to give ever money to help her pay her rent or to get food while she went to school or drive her around because she doesn't drive or have a car its ridiculous Anyhow, she moved with me AGAIN, after relocating from calfiornia to Houston to stay with me her and my sister, for over six months they both stayed with me , for pretty much nothing,she only gave me 100 dollars per month , while she worked , during that time, I had to driver her to work, help her run errands , because again she refuses to drive, but she promised me she was saving for An apartment and a car because transportation system is terrible , you need a car here , so my lease comes up in June, And she had no money saved , i had to pay for her to move, get their apartment in my name, aand she me to take her back and forth to work and stuff I don't mind but its like i have been doing this my whole life , driving her around , or living with her , or taking care of her and she's 53 , I'm 34 im frustrated and feel like doing something drasti so her and my sister lost the apartment in November I co signed for, so she moved away back to mississippi to stay with my grandmother, she couldnt find a job in mississippi, so I had to rent a car drive 600 miles 7 hours and go pick her up and,and pay for her food, pay for gas ..because she had no money smh and she's been here three weeks and no job, she trying some at home business, which she doesnt know if its legitmate, shes missed interviews with staffing agencie nd I have to pay for their tolitries, they have both eaten up my food, well now she gets food stamps, so that helps a little..but everything else they use up, like soap, toliet paper, laundry detergent, plus my sister takes my makeup and clothes, and shoes, and uses them and lies and says she doesnt have them,,and they owe me over 5000.00 dollars, and she is taking her time finding a stable job..Im broke now from trying to help them.what should I do! plus she's walking around my house calling me an " ahole" because I asked her if she had any interviews today, and she's a;ready eating up my food I'm already paying all the bills plus she doesn't have to buy any toiletries and she owes me 2,000 dollars so I'm a little anxious ..I think i will once move my lease is up I should cut ties with my mother and sister this has been going on for years almost eight years off and on I'm 34..its been going on for too long

For quite awhile now my spouse and I have had an issue with errections whilst sleeping. Lately the issue has gotten worse since my 18 year old son and I have started a new weight training program. We are lifting more often and with heavier weights. Our son is the youngest of three, our baby, and has never gotten over coming into our bed at night. He is consistently "bumbing" me at night and I am not getting enough sleep. My job has been very stressful lately and lack of sleep is causing more issues. What can I do to cut down on his errections?

I just want some ideas and options cause Im fed up with the way My family is being treated. My girlfriend and I are low income. But I just got a good paying job. Dont have anything saved yet. Make about 1600 a month now. Her parents are trying to sell me off as a loser who has no hope for the future. His two sons make up tons of rumors then harass my girl. Then these grandparents in question are trying to become surrogate parrents and treating us like we are too stupid to get it. I am at the time I can now move out of my parents home with her and am saving my money up. Just the level of disrespect fuels rage and prevents me from thinking clear. Okay go, any thing you think I should do. And as soon as I get a place were getting married. I have one parent who is supportive on my side and zero relatives. Just know my mom and thats how its been. Thanks a lot.

the title kind of sounds rude but it was the best short way I could describe it. No matter what I do, he ALWAYS gets in the middle of it! like for instance my school, he expects to do work after school AND on the weekends! like isn't 8 hours of hell enough? I'm not a horrible student but I don't make all A's & he expects everything I do to be perfect. also I recently made a babysitting profile on care.com but since I'm only 17 he has to monitor it. He wants to control everything my bio says and what my picture is and he wanted me to fix it all today, like I'm not busy enough. I told him that it wasn't a big deal and I would modify it later & he says "you can either fix it or delete it" so I went back to my room & deleted my profile. When he found out he said "okay now you can re-do it the right way". He's so annoying and I just want to tell him to back off & let me do things on my own! I know I'm young but I'm almost a legal adult. I've never been an A+ student and I never will be! I know he's trying to do what's best for me or whatever but honestly it's annoying. And half the time he doesn't even understand the whole situation he's trying to control. I need help

I think my daughter has a point. She's 18, senior in high school, about 4 months away from being in college. I'm a single parent. Obviously given our scenario we've always been very close but now that her tenure of living at home full time is nearing an end, it's just weird. I'm not becoming an overbearing parent who never leaves her alone, but I'm not the opposite either. Her point that she made was I'm having a hard time letting go. We're in Phoenix, she's going to U of Texas. I'm just worried we'll never talk once she leaves. I'm not going to spiral into a deep depression. How do I deal with this? Does she have a point?

I want to kill myself, like I wanna get a knife and stab my face repeatedly, but obviously I'm not going to kill myself because I know it's stupid and it's a waste but everything is just so frustrating! It started in August when my dad decided he was getting too old for work, he had me at 42 and I'm now 16 so yeah. He decided to move me to a new school to skip a year (long story). I told him that I didn't want to move multiple times but he still made me but promised that I could go back to my old school if I wanted after I at least tried it. So I did. And I hated it. After about a month I told him how I felt and he got really angry and told be to 'stop being selfish' this pissed me off but I continued to attend the new school. I still hate it. Anytime I think about going I want to scream. It's not that I don't have friends I've met a lot of nice people but it's mostly my education I'm worried about. The teachers aren't that great and I'm doing very bad in my classes which I don't usually. I want to do something in medicine when I finish school and I need high points to get into college and I homestly don't see me doing well in my exams next year! Help how can I convince him to let me move back. He wants me to be a doctor and has said it to loads of people so he obviously has high hopes for me but I don't understand why he won't listen. He offered to bring me to a counselor a few months ago but I didn't wanna go. I told him all this already! What can I do!?

I came down from uni a few weeks ago to revise for my exams. The homepage of YouTube recommends certain videos based on your viewing history, and since me and my brother and sister have all left home, practically the only people who now use the home computer are my parents. On the YouTube homepage, I found videos like "Tips to attract girls", "How to touch a girl", and "Sexy body language tips". As you can probably guess, I'm worried about what this might mean regarding my parents' relationship. They've always seemed very close and loving towards each other, but now I'm not so sure whether the love between them is as mutual as I had once imagined. I am quite certain that my mother knows nothing of this, just as I am equally certain that she loves him as much as when they first married. I feel bad for her, as she has no idea that the man she loves may be cheating on her or actively thinking of doing so. To be honest I feel like I'm betraying my father's trust by saying all this here, but I believe that telling anyone in my family would only make the situation worse. What, if anything, should I do?

My father pass away and some one told me i might have a sister out there but i don't know who she is may i get some help please.

I have an overbearing sister who wants everyone to contribute to this over 2500 headstone for my dad. She assumed I'd pay an exact amount. I loved him to no end and he was my best friend. I just don't want to pitch in because just months before we lost him to cancer my brother stole a lot of money from him and me, and my other siblings were pretty spiteful about my dads belongings when he passed. I don't want to give anything because I don't like talking money with my siblings, i'm the youngest, I live alone and I pay all of my bills, including a large student loan. They are all close to 40 they all get money some way. Am I obligated to to pitch in? I feel like I honor my dad in other ways, through work ethic and creativity and truthfully I know he wouldn't care for a headstone anyway. But should I?

I really don't want to be with my partner anymore, but we a 2 year old and im 7 months pregnant. If I were to leave I would have to move across country to my moms house and the children would never see him again. Should you stay with someone just for the kids sake of having both parents. I feel selfish thinking of myself, but Im miserable with him and don't want to waste my life with him

PROS: *I love him, been together 6 years * He's the father of my 2 year old daughter and I'm 7 months pregnant with our son * Only people I know in this state are his friends and family * he always gets us out of a bond * I love the "idea" of his plan of being successful and opening a business * not sure on how to live without him * he watches my daughter while I work CONS: * he sleeps all day, sometimes till 3-4pm * I'm not attracted to him, we don't have sex * we watches porn all the time * I work 50-60 hours a week in a bar to support our family, while im in my third trimester of pregnancy * he has a warrant for his arrest : his excuse why he cant get a regular job on the books ( been like this for 4 years) * He junks cars for money sometimes but I have to do most of the work. ex: the advertising, talking on the phone, rising with to pick up the cars, cleaning the cars, ect/) * He strips me down when I get home and goes through all my stuff to look for money * I haven't drove my truck in over a year because he wont let me. He keeps the keys at all times * he screams at me and disrespects me, calls me names everyday in front of my daughter *Tells me im worthless and cant do nothing *wont let me go to college so I can get a career and not have to keep working in a bar * sometimes hits me, even while pregnant * Goes through my phone everyday * cant go anywhere I want to *Tells me my children will hate me for not having a father. *raising two children by myself

It started whenbmy mom keep looking at dad's phone and having many arguing after all the arguing my dadkeep having affairs one night my mom almost killed herself because of that luckily I was there but I was kinda trauma well after that dad keep having affairs -.- and mom startedhaving affairs too well in truth my mom's affairs started when she started having an android phone and she doesnt hide it when dad was not home when mom have calls from her *cough*boyfriend or whatever she answers it infront of me or somewhere whereI can hear it sigh it breaks my heart when I hear her talk to that **** one time I cried when she is talking on her phone she didnt even notice I was crying sigh and actually my father was hiding his affair to me well him hiding meh his pretty obvious lol well I am 14 yrs old and I am an only child what should I do to stop both of my parents from having an affair?

My dad is cheating on my mom with a girl named Katherine. My mom doesnt know. I walked in on my dad and Katherine and I dont know if I should tell my mom or not. If I tell her I am afraid that my dad would beat me.

I constantly find girl who are cheaters. My current ex-gf has cheated on me 3 time already. I forgave her the first two times like an idiot because I truly loved, yet I found out recently that she was sexting other guys behind my back again even after I forgave her and agree to work on us. I saw a random number in her text msg area in phone and I asked who that was, and she said just some guy and that I did not need to worry about it. She refused to show me the text message. She is hiding something isn't she? Now she had not spoken to me in days because I think shes trying to seem like shes not wrong. I really loved her to death and I can't believe she would do this to me again. I'm a sweet guy looking for love, but I just seem to pick habitual cheaters. Why does she keep cheating on me? I finally left her, but I miss her like hell.

I'm 30 she's 15 and she won't speak to me ,if I speak to her she gets uncomfortable and leaves the room , I tried to cuddle her because she was upset about something and she just when to her room and told her mum I was annoying her. She's fine with her mum ,why is she like that ?

For the past month or so I've been doing tonnes of homework. And if I had a break from homework, I would spend time with my family. But yesterday, I finished all my Easter holidays homework and I decided to have the next few days to myself. But earlier, mum came up and asked me if I wanted to 'hang out' with her today. I said 'no' because I want to relax by myself for the next few days. I thought she'd agree with me, but she started harassing me. She kept pressuring me into spending time with her and the family, but I kept refusing. She then went REALLY angry with me. She called me a "selfish cow" who cares about herself more than I do than her own family. This caused me to say "GET OUT OF MY ROOM RIGHT NOW!" She did. She texted me about 20 minutes ago by saying I'm the one in the wrong. Is she right? Am I the one in the wrong?

I am 21 I live with my parents. My boyfriend is 21 he lives with his grandmother. I bought my car last year. He bought his car this year but he needs a new battery and tag. I have to go see him if we want to hang out which he lives 37 to 42 min away about 32 miles away. I go to school, work( part-time), and intern/volunteer at a hospital. He works full time at a Spanish restaurant. Today I asked him about his battery for his car and when he is getting a new one. He tells me that he messed up and hasn't been spending his money wisely. So I'm pissed off because I feel like the pressure is always on me to have my car working which it is a used car that has many problems. My next step is threatening him by saying I am only going to come see you once every two weeks when I get paid because gas takes money and it makes me not want to get have sex with him or spend my money to go on birth control. I'm spending my money wisely but you are careless with your money it doesn't make me feel happy. I just wanted to add that he has a warranty on the battery but hasn't had time to get it changed. He also smokes cigarettes and weed.

Embarrassing works as well, lol :) Just wanna hear some stories

fundraising: I was hoping someone will find it within them to write it for me(write it and edit) John Moreno was a loving husband he was married with his wife for 15 years and had two beautiful daughters. He was a humble man dedicating his life to motivate people,he did volunteer work around the world and extend a hand.He was the vice president of education&cultural in the fundation ColomboAmericanos Unidos.He dedicated his life being a "motivational speaker" and He was an inspiration and true definition of a family men. Always there taking care of his "princesses". His little daughter at his funeral this past Saturday said her father "changed her way of thinking that because of him she was positive and that she knows her daddy loved her very much". All he wanted in his final days was that his family would be okay without him. From all the volunteer work and all he ever wanted to do were enriched people's minds and spirits. John wanted to inspire everyone to be the best potential of them He was diagnosed with cancer and a couple months later from the diagnosis he passed away (April 2015). As he went through chemotherapy he stayed positive but on his final days his only concern was how life of his beautiful wife and daughters will be without him and preoccupied about how they were going to be able to provide for themselves. (Any extra things you may add please I want people to donate to the cause). This is the fundraising pls see video http://www.gofundme.com/johnmoreno looking at the fundraisers and the "bio of the fundraiser"are all beautifully writing and I think people donate when they can read it and understand. I know John G. Moreno was a wonderful man and I can't put into words he was just an amazing soul..always there for his two daughters and wife....he was a very involved dad who died so tragically from cancer and quick without time for him to come up with a a plan for his daughters he would cry on the hospital final days bc of the fate of his family To add his wife was a housewife. John was the main provider..they have two daughters who are honor students and will soon have to go off to college. It's going to be a huge adjustment for the mom and daughters..(if you can please add this)

Ok, so up until I was in 8th grade my family was really really poor. When I was 6 my siblings and I had to move around between our aunt and grandma because my parents couldn't afford to feed us. Then my dad got promoted and now he owns his own company. I'm really proud of him but all of this money has changed my mom. She was poor her whole life now she buys things to show off how well off we are now. She acts like she's too good for everyone now and all my friends think I'm some rich kid who's always been better off. But I'm not. I hate it. She has gotten so narcissistic and superficial. I hate all the money we have, I feel like its corrupted my mom.

They like, stand near me during times I could take advantage of the work hours. Like they do. They like, stand near my cubical when I am on breaks. Volunteer me to the boss to pick something up for them when I am out. They literally check my phone and spread sheet numbers and results. They have an oldboys network where they time it so they stand near me when I could potentially have free time. I mean I can find ways to goof off if I want to. What I want to know is what their goal is with that. Does anyone know what they could accomplish through this gossip-police type show?

hi all im Ryan and im 20 and I live with my step dad how do I tell him im gay IV already told my real dad and he is ok with it bit my step dad wants me to like girls so how do I tell him I'm gay

My gf and I had a boy who's 6 now and we have been trying to raise him together. I'm a English speaking immigrant and have been dedicating my life around him, reinventing myself as a father without solid professional skills. We had an unwanted pregnancy, well, I had, at least. I decided to stay with her and "give a shot". She's the youngest of 3 sisters and 4 brothers, we're in our late 30s now. I love my boy so much, that I got caught up in this new relationship without knowing her very well. She flirts and looks down on me sooo much, denies it, denies her bossy ways on me, makes me look so bad, making me work around all the time, while she needs to "relax" after a long day at work. Our finances are bad. We've been living with one of her brother and her mother. She doesn't respect me as a father, man or friend, we had so much fights over how to raise our boy, and he is still a joy, thank God. Actually I have a hard time to see her as anything else, but one woman trying to sabotage my life and our relationship. I feel I'm in a trap.She blackmail me, any time I threat to leave, so I stay. I'm living day by day. Doing chores and working p/t as painter, taxi driver. I'm well spoken and extrovert. But she says I need more confidence, and talk to strangers bad about me like if they'd really give a dime. Note: I will continue my story in the answer box since I ran out of space!

My son is 12 years old and has gone on a "survivalist" kick lately. He's spending spending hours our back yards, collecting and eating wild insects, mostly grasshoppers. My husband has been encouraging his "self-sufficiency", but I'm worried about this behavior. What should I do?

Im 15 years old.My parents wont let me go with my best friend and her parents to town next to mine.It takes about 45min to get there and we would stay there just for 5 hours.I thought they would let me so i said to my friend that i can,my mom said yes but my dad says no.Can u help me please?I really want to goo :((((

i m a 19 year old guy. Finished my 12th grade exams, an average student. i feel like i am a burden to my parents. They love me so much. They never complain on anything that i do. But i feel like an idiot, i want to do something for them. I dont think my father is proud of me. i want to make him feel proud of me. i want to do something. I am so confused. People think that i am stupid, i act funny and happy but from the inside i am so sad my friends, family don t understand me. I feel like its because of me that they are sad. I want to see them happy, i want to do something for them but i am just a stupid idiot. I don t do things that my parents ask me to do, not a single thing. i am so confused. i don t know what to do.

I constantly find girl who are cheaters. My current ex-gf has cheated on me 3 time already. I forgave her the first two times like an idiot because I truly loved, yet I found out recently that she was sexting other guys behind my back again even after I forgave her and agree to work on us. I saw a random number in her text msg area in phone and I asked who that was, and she said just some guy and that I did not need to worry about it. She refused to show me the text message. She is hiding something isn't she? Now she had not spoken to me in days because I think shes trying to seem like shes not wrong. I really loved her to death and I can't believe she would do this to me again. I'm a sweet guy looking for love, but I just seem to pick habitual cheaters. Why does she keep cheating on me? I finally left her, but I miss her like hell.

Who is more important in your life? Why?

i love my mom very much and thought we had a close relationship. we do things together all the time, but i wish i could tell her things and be honest. i want to come clean about hooking up with guys with her, but i'm scared she's just going to yell at me and punish me. i want to be honest, but im scared. what can i do? i wouldnt tell her exact details but she knows that i've lied about where i was going because she heard things so id tell her "i did go to brendan's house"

Would you leave? Or what? Because I had to leave my other family am now living with dad and stepmother and can't go nowhere now. Is this fair? I have no privelege and I am 18 years old, I tried to stay in contact with my mother but dad tooked everything away from me. I cant go nowhere but near house, I cant even go in front of house. I cant go walk by road, he tells me there is a sex offender down the road. Mabye God'll take me soon, I am dying young :C

Last night, I came home to pick up my nephew from my parents house and get him dinner like his mother asked me too while she was on a business trip. My sister wanted to have a water balloon fight with him, but I told her I needed to take him home. She pitched a fit and screamed that I was being rude and I should wait till they were finished. I told her I'm not going to plan around her and I'm watching him, not her. So she then proceeded to call me the biggest ***** she's ever met and told me point blank, "Burn your wedding dress, you aren't welcomed anymore, *****. I don't want you as my maid of honor, goodbye." So logically, I responded with, Okay, goodbye. I cancelled her party that I reserved up in Orlando and the hotel ($600). I threw my dress out, I asked her my money back that I used to pay for her DJ (which she refusing to give me, after kicking me out of the wedding) and my other sister is repaying me for her dress, cause I bought it for her as well. My dad then proceeded to tell me I was over-reacting and I shouldn't let her get to me. Is my family insane? It's like, I don't even know what to do. I don't want to be apart of her wedding anymore - if she thinks she can just blackmail with a spot in her wedding party, why the **** would I want to be apart of that?

Okay so here is the thing, Im 13 and my sister is 17 and acts like she is an innocent teen that would never ever have sex till shes older and would never do anything wrong... when actually I see her true colours and this is what frustrates me about her, she is very good at lying and my mom believes ever single peace of crap that comes out that girls mouth I would never lie to my mom I would feel so guilty if I did cause I have respect for my mom. Anyways a couple of weeks ago my sister was left home alone with her boyfriend whilst me and my mom went up to see my nan and stay there for the weekend, when we came back home I went straight to my neighbours house (after seeing the house all messy and im close to my neighbour and I come to her house a couple of times a week to have a chat and she keeps an eye on the house if we go), and she said that she heard banging next door people out in our back garden, music and a lot more and the time was around 9 at night when all of this was going on... anyways I went back in my house and saw some of the sitting room wallpaper had been ripped and t.v was turned up 2 as high as it could go and I was so angry with her cause we trusted her. I then told my mom at first she was shocked but never told my sister off and said oh teenagers will be teenagers... and that got me so annoyed because I know if that was me I would of been so told off and sent up into my bedroom!!!!! Its almost like my mom loves chloe more?? chloes my sister by the way but then I feel bad when I say to my mom that I feel left out cause my mom does still try her best with me for example I have anxiety and she is trying to help me get back into school and stop me from being bullied and shes there for me when it comes to sorting out my school life and being bullied and my anxiety but i just donno what to do... what do you think?

Last night i was chating with my gf on skype butbi felt like im beeing whatched but when things got a little bit worm my sister broke throught the door saying that she thaught it was her room !!! But my room has my name like 5 times on the door !!! What the hell !!! And even the weirdest thing is that a morning ... when i just woke up ... my privates were ... you know as usual and i was standing on the fridge drinking milk when she wanted to walk infront of my but it wasnt very spacious and she could walk in the other way around the table !!! But instead she walked in front of me with her butt rubbing all over my privates !!!! What should i do ???

Please read my previous questions to be informed of my problem with my younger brother... Since the counselor took my brother i'm so worried about my brother. I want to know if the therapies that she's doing on my brother are right or i should call the police immediately... Her ways to heal my brother: 1. She took him in a quite and safe forest where he can rest his mind a little bit. She asked of the owner of the hut to prevent other people to disturb her and my brother. 2. After the rape my brother started to hate clothes and he walks everywhere naked. I've tried many times to make him at least wear an underwear, but the counselor says that he doesn't need clothes... She says that my brother needs to be free and there's no problem if he wants to stay naked even in the forest... 3. The conselor makes my brother draw or paint his feelings, because he's not eager to talk much. 4. The counselor pushes my brother to chat with some friends on social networks. Sometimes she asks my brother to call one of his friends, but when my brother say no she doesn't continue pushing him. 5. My brother fears the dark and afraids to be alone... The counselor puts him in the bathroom, locks the door and cuts the electricity of the house so he can't turn on the lamp. He cries and begs her to let him out but she says that he must face his fears. The counselor reported to me all she's done to him in the hut. Should my brother continue this kind of therapy?

Hi so i'm cass i'm 11yrs old kid so since when i was 3yrs old my cruel mother always beat me like (slippers,hangers,belt & etc....) I really hate her & sometimes she drowned me in water & one time she points an knife to me because of having many scars & bruise & i can't tell her that i really hate her so much i always cry about it cuz if i tell her that she will Kill me i DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!! I ALWAYS LIE TO HER BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO GO HOME TO OUR HOUSE AND BE A BABYSIT TO MY SISTER & SHE ALWAYS EMBARASSED ME TO ALL PEOPLE WHO OUR AROUND US AND INSULTS ME ON HOW I LIVE,HOW I TALK& ETC... & SHE SAID SHE REGRET THAT I'M BORN!!SHE WISHED THAT IM DEAD SO THAT MAKES ME MORE HATE HER PLS HELP ME?!?!PLS HELP ME?! :(:( :(( :(:(:(:( (SORRY FOR BAD ENGLISH)

Every day my brother is starting crap with me, and Im sick of it! (I'll call him joey I'll call myself Teddy). Heres how a normal fight would start between us. Joey: Hey who are u inviting this weekend? Me: Sigh I dont know Joey: DONT TALK TO ME LIKE THAT!! He"s 15 and gets offended like that! He always punches first! Then my dad comes home and were both in trouble, but they blame me I get pissed and start cussing like a little girl! I'll say mean things I really do regret! They call me a spoiled selfish kid. I feel really bad. This morning my stomach hurt so I made myself throw up so I would feel better, and they wanted me to go to school. They said I was faking it! I even though I threw up! Yes I made myself throw up, but I still wasn't feeling well. Thats not important though! I got pissed, and i said dad are you stupid? I fully regret that I wasn't thinking! He comes up stairs grabs me and pushes me then he pretty much trashed my room even more than it was. So now I'm staying home. after a fight I say sorry, but then they will say something else that pisses me off right after, and i'll get pissed! I don't know what, but something is wrong with me. I never used to get this angry about stuff. 1. I never cussed at my parents like I do now 2. I never have got so angry at them so much and so easily. And I know what I did was wrong I feel like ****. Whats wrong with me?Know my new shoes r getting sold. There gonna turn my phone off also, and other stuff r going away.

Day I knew I wouldn't be seeing him ever again, so I said, dad can I keep the dog at moms. He said sure because he can't keep her. For about a week I had her, the one day while I was sitting with her in the yard and the police showed up, they took her. Turns out my dad said I had stolen her from him. To this day I will never want to see my dad again. But here's my question, how do I get her, and how do I cope

My family was always close growing up (it was far from perfect), but my siblings and I were always close. As the time passed, my brothers both married women who for some reason hate my sister and me. Needless to say they have both been very bogue to us even after we've tried to make peace. We don't really see our brothers anymore and now my sister and I are on very bad terms. I wish I could say that everything will work out because I am very hurt by the falling out between her and I, but I can't predict the future so I don't know. She's my best friend (or was) and I would still take a bullet for her, but I think we've grown apart somehow when I grew up and she didn't. She's younger than me (she's 25 and I'm 31) and I try to set a good example but somehow she always thinks I'm snubbing her or being mean or rude when the only thing I do is try to include her or get her to hang out. I don't speak to my mother because she thinks I am uncompassionate to my sister's situation (which I'm not) and she always blames me for being the selfish unkind one (which I'm not). Because of that I don't talk to her anymore because I don't really have anything to say. My dad tries to keep the peace but he is a pacifist and never speaks his mind about the true situations that are going on because he doesn't want to offend. It's sad that none of my siblings (including myself) get along or talk anymore. Am I the only one who has issues like this? What's your relationship like with your siblings?