Family: Question: Why does my life suck? |
- Question: Why does my life suck?
- Question: Can a judge give my dad full custody if i haven't seen him for a year?
- Question: My mom and I got into a fight .?
- Question: Fight has happened. Advice?
- Question: Product of rape, what should I do?
- Question: Excuse to miss collegend class?
- Question: How Best to Respond When a Thoughtless Family Member Posts About a Death in the Family Before Telling You??
- Question: I made a huge mistake by calling DYFS on my parents?
- Question: How do i deal with my bfs family?
- Question: How can I get my parents to be happy I'm having their grandchild?
- Question: How do I deal with this?
- Question: How does child visitation get set up in SC?
- Question: How do I cope with my brother-in-law living with us?
- Question: Think my daughter has a eating disorder?
- Question: I feel like I'm becoming my siblings second mother, and it's stressing me out.?
- Question: How do I make my brother stop doing this?
- Question: Has anyone been though this with a family member?
- Question: How do I make amends with my mom? Please?
- Question: I tried to teach my boyfriends family a lesson and now they hate me.?
- Question: How to make my dad stop hating and beating my brother?
- Question: Would you i'm is being stingy to my family?
- Question: Moving out at 19/20 - Am I being selfish?
- Question: Did I do the right thing?!?
- Question: Sister just had a baby should I visit?
- Question: How can I support my boyfriend/myself through his traumatic past?
- Question: Should i run away?
- Question: Why am i always in a bad mood whenever I'm with my dad?
- Question: Why do schools make boys and girls swim together in gym class?
- Question: Help my sister is telling lies to my dad i do drums and he wants a food budget?
- Question: My mom doesnt really listen to me?
- Question: How do I financially assist my family without insulting them?
- Question: How do i tell my mum I want to move to live with my dad for a while?
- Question: What to do about a mean unsupportive family?
- Question: What can you say to describe a mother figure to someone?
- Question: I let my kids paint naked on sheets of paper?
- Question: I think its cute when boys cry. can any other girls relate?
- Question: Should i let my 15 year old boy go to dancefestopia?
- Question: My boyfriend and I are considering moving to his mothers house... please hear me out, I need honest advice?
- Question: I can't take it anymore! I really don't want to be around my mom anymore. She needs help for her anger. What can I do?
- Question: How can I get sent home early from school?
- Question: My sister is always talking negatively to everyone including her husband and children.what is wrong?
- Question: What do I do? My dad is very angry?
- Question: Daughter hates me?
- Question: I want to leave my house but I have nowhere to go!?
- Question: Is this child abuse?
- Question: What Is His Problem?
- Question: If you're over 30 when was the last time you saw your dad?
- Question: My 18 year old son doesn't want my boyfriend to sleep over?
- Question: Is it OK to keep this a secret from my mom?
- Question: Why do I get so pissed at my parents for telling me what to do when I was about to do it anyways ...?
- Question: Should i move out ! please read and any advice helps!?
- Question: 18 and parents won't let me go out often or even travel?
- Question: My son doesn't want my boyfriend to sleep over?
- Question: Can I call my sister (older than I am) a darling? (we are very close and I am her brother).?
- Question: I am one of three my identical twin was still born 49 yrs later older sister said there wasn't three. my mommy has past. how to get truth?
- Question: I'm so jealous at my sister because my parents gave to much attention to her. And they always angry at me. What I'm going to do?
- Question: HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!?
- Question: Why does my mom annoy me?
- Question: What age should opposite sex children move into separete bedrooms?
| Question: Why does my life suck? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 01:11 PM PDT When I say my life sucks, it really does suck. First things first, I'm short, 5foot 5. I'm not the skinniest. I'm stupid I had a 2.3 in high school. Now I'm at college, I'm failing computer science and have Cs in half my classes and I can't even transfer out because I don't have enough credits. I've had two underages and my mom tells me how "you're a disappointment" and how she's disappointed in me all the time. My girlfriend of almost a year broke up with me and now is a hoe and hooked up with my friend. I can't do anything right and people think I'm so dumb. No one believes in me especially my mom. All I've ever wanted to do was to make my mom happy and prove everyone wrong and that I'm not an idiot but as of now it looks as if I'm retarded. |
| Question: Can a judge give my dad full custody if i haven't seen him for a year? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 01:05 PM PDT I have been living with my mom for a year. I am 14. My brothers live with both my parents and i am supposed to too. Some things have happened but he doesn't hit/beat me. I don't feel like the things he has done are enough to get the judge to let me live with just my mom, but it's enough for me to not want to see him. I don't feel a bond with him like I do with my mom and I feel like I could forgive my mom a lot easier than him. This part is off topic but I don't love him and he is a bad father and has bad parenting skills. He texts me and tries contacting me but i don't contact him. He texted me threatening that if I didn't go with him somewhere to see him he would "take further actions". If he went to court could they give him full custody to "make up for the time"? |
| Question: My mom and I got into a fight .? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 12:57 PM PDT So me and my mom got into an argument because I wanted my phone and I was over reacting and I was whining and I was like mom pleeeease omgg and she came and she slapped me really hard in my face so I punched her in the face . i'm really stressed out right now because I recently moved a thousand miles away from Florida all the Way To Massachusetts and I've been crying all week and I haven't really been eating normally and I can't take this pain I need to go back soo bad and I can't be here anymore I need the people in my life that make me happy :(( i love my mom but when we get into fights it NEVER ends well . We've even had a neighbor in Florida call Child Protective Services because one of our really bad arguments and the person thought I was in danger. But yea whenever we get into fights I never hit her and I always guard myself whenever she gets too crazy and this time I've had enough. Anyways after she hit me and I punched her I immediently ran away and she cornered me into a wall and grabbed my neck and walked backward and I fell on the ground and hit my head and had a bad head ache after that and was crying for 20 minutes . She's bipolar (and takes meds) she apologized 30 minutes later when I was still crying and got me an icee . But just know she apologizes all the time and it ends up happening again. I know this happened a few weeks ago but I still think about it . Should I call somebody and tell them and what would they do to mom cause i'm tired of her . Help:((( |
| Question: Fight has happened. Advice? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 12:43 PM PDT My brothers and I got in trouble for fighting. We were in the living room waiting for our mom to come home. Meanwhile my step dad was talking to me mainly saying I'm a smartass and threading to throw my dads property (Xbox one) outside and break it. Should I call me dad to come help with the situation? I'm crying my eyes out; my step dad has been like this a lot |
| Question: Product of rape, what should I do? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 12:41 PM PDT My father is a monster and a pig I had my first child last year and I was only 15. The same thing happened to me that happened to my mother. And when my child was born my father wanted to be in my life. But I recently found out that he only wanted to use me to make money off of me for singing. So I stopped talking to him 5 months ago. I knew he was abusive to me and my brother and my mother when I was younger. And he said he changed. It didn't make any sense that me and my brother are exactly 13 months apart Somehow I started talking about my father today and asked my mother to tell me all the things he did to her And she told me that he forced himself on her when she was still recovering from the birth of my older brother She wasn't supposed to have sexual contact within the 6 weeks And I know she was in a lot of pain because I was when I gave birth And when I was born he did it to her again! And she ended up getting pregnant again but she had an abortion because she didn't want the baby growing up with a monster for a father But she didn't see his dark side until she got pregnant with my brother My father is the reason why I had to go to therapy all my life. And im only 16 Is it bad to hate my father even more than I did before?n my mother couldn't leave he would always threaten her.n not to mention he has over 17 children I always felt like I didn't belong here. And know I know the real reason why I feel this way.What should I do? Should i confront him?I hate him. |
| Question: Excuse to miss collegend class? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 12:39 PM PDT missing class cause the final is coming up and Im spending the time to try and relax before my exam tomorrow, plus rhe professor is using the time to review. Which I can do alot better on my own. What could I use as an excuse to miss today? Professor doesn't even take attendance today. NOTE: I'm currently living with my parents for my second term of college. The excuse is for my parents, not the professor! Thanks! |
| Posted: 16 Apr 2015 12:36 PM PDT Okay, so my family have had this huge divide for as long as I can remember - something went down between my mum s parents and my mum and they ve barely chatted since I was born (once or twice a year - I ve met them three times in my life) but I have always kept in contact with my aunts and cousins!!!! In spite of the divide, the death of my Gran hit me quite hard a couple of years ago because I d really wished I got to know her, and it was on my b-day!!!! A week ago, my Grandad went into the hospital for major surgery that didn t look positive. No one in my family told me, I found out through facebook that he was ill. At the time I made an effort to message my Aunt to let her know my thoughts were with her. (as she sees my grandad everyday) Even so - a week later (yesterday) when he passed away, she not only posted on Facebook rather than messaging me privately (it has to do because I'm currently living in a foreign country) but she actually removed my mother from the post so she couldn't see her own father died!!!!! I know we weren't close but I'm feeling very hurt, and currently struggling to see my Aunt as anything other than insensitive and cruel. I know that she was just looking for support from all her friends but I find it difficult not to auto-reply a hate message! I know that this is the wrong response, and an over-reaction - but is it wrong for me to feel this way, and if not, how should I react? |
| Question: I made a huge mistake by calling DYFS on my parents? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 12:22 PM PDT I'm a 15 year old male, and I live in NJ. 2 days ago, my mother hit me repeatedly with a brush & belt when I refused to get out of bed. I felt upset and threatened so I went to the school counselor and told her what happened. She said she was obligated by law to call DYFS, and she did after I left the room. Little did I know, I made a huge mistake by doing this. The following day (yesterday), a woman from DYFS came to my school counselor's office and asked me many questions. After she came to my school she went over to my 8-year-old brother's school and also asked him some questions. Now, the woman from DYFS says she must come to my house and do an interview with my parents about safe alternatives to hitting and spanking. She said that I won't be taken away (as this rarely happens) and she will only be there one or two times just to check up after the initial visit. When my mother recieved the news from my counselor, she was furious. She was thinking that DYFS was going to come take me & my brother away, and she wouldn't listen to anything I said; especially the part where I explained that DYFS won't take us away. The counselor gave my mother some papers about DYFS and how to hire a lawyer. She said that I ruined our lives and now DYFS will be coming every week. I think she's overreacting -- the woman from DYFS said she would only go there twice and the entire process would only take about 35 to 40 days. But, I'm still concerned. My father doesn't know yet either. Help! The woman still has not come to my house yet, and she intends to tonight after my father comes home from work, which is at around 8:00PM eastern time. I'm so screwed! Someone help please, I don't have that much time! The woman still has not come to my house yet, and she intends to tonight after my father comes home from work, which is at around 8:00PM eastern time. Is there a way to stop an ongoing DYFS investigation? Is there some office I have to call to cancel? Please help, I don't know what I've done. |
| Question: How do i deal with my bfs family? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 12:21 PM PDT I love his family. I really do, but theyre so nosey and always interrupts us. We can be alone in the room being lovey dovey and his mom or sister will burst in not caring. Or well be out and they call asking where were at. When we argue they get in our business, acting like couples never argue. His mom and sis is super dependent on him n his sister has a huge brothers complex. Like she hacked his fb and put how much she loves her big brother. Shes only a year younger. She get pissed when he n i argue. And when we make out in our room she acts grossed out and starts poking n tickling him. I sometimes actually wonder if she has a crush on him. She even admitted that someone told her shes too attached. Her mon even told me that she gets upset that we go out on dates and her mom had to tell her were dating its what we do. She got upset. I want to get our own place so desperately, but his mom wants him here for 2 more years cuz he got arrested but was given the option to get off easy if he didnt mess up for 5 years. He has 2 years left but idk if i can handle 2 more years here. I want to be able to have moments together knowing no one will interrupt. And be able to watch a show without his mom interrupting and i end up missing parts. |
| Question: How can I get my parents to be happy I'm having their grandchild? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 11:52 AM PDT I got married to my husband 3 years ago. I'm currently 8 months pregnant with our first child. I'm so happy, but it makes me very sad that my parents aren't. I'm asian and my husband is white. They're extremely upset their grandkids will only be half asian. When I told them I was pregnant I they weren't that happy. It makes me feel bad. Will my parents change their minds when they see their grandchild? Is there any way I can get them to be more open to being happy about this? |
| Question: How do I deal with this? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 11:52 AM PDT Hey guys, currently a senior majoring in mechanical engineering about to graduate upcoming fall. Although job-hunting is going to be hard due to my bad gap and no relevant-experience due to my depression, I'm still gonna go hard at it. The things is I live with my parents in NJ and my parents told me that I should just live with them if I get a job in NJ or NY since it'll be close to their home. I mean I want to move out when I get a job and live on my own and I'm 23 for god's sake. What should I do... |
| Question: How does child visitation get set up in SC? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 11:51 AM PDT I had child out of wedlock, the father and I was living together and for a two month period I had to go take care a relative in another state. In SC when a child is born out of wedlock the mother automatically has legal and physical custody. During the two month period I left my child with my parents and the father and the father would never take care of the child like he should my parents would call and ask me to find out where he is. At some points I would witness my child begging the dad for food and he wouldn't give the child anything but I would make sure my child was fed. Now for 4 months the dad hasn't done anything and only visited 3-4 times max. I don't mind him visiting and going to the park, but I just want the visits to be supervised because at this point I really can't trust him to go unsupervised because there are too many things going on with kids getting hurt badly. |
| Question: How do I cope with my brother-in-law living with us? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 11:48 AM PDT First, allow me to paint a picture. My wife and I live in a 6 bedroom house owned by someone else. Those rooms are rented out and we all share the common spaces. Now, my brother-in-law, 22, isn't really the most independent person on the planet. He's had some issues with his previous living situation and was advised to live elsewhere. Without consulting with me and coming up with a plan, my wife decides to buy his ticket to transport him. Next thing I know, he's on his way down to live with us -- in our tiny room. After my BIL is living with us, we then start the planning. He is to live with us until he gets a job at my wife's work and to move into the next available vacant room in the same house. I asked her if we can compromise to have him stay at another house (owned by the same person) close to us so that we can still have our privacy. She says, "No." She wants him to be independent but wants him close by so we can take care of him... (What?) That's a problem. Now, I get absolutely no time to myself, and more importantly no time with my wife. I know this is a minor adjustment to most people but for me, I feel it's taking a toll on our marriage. Now I feel like the third wheel in this relationship. When she asks for my opinions on the situation, they are swiftly cast aside in favor of her brother, leaving me feeling like an outcast. Husband and wife time has permanently been invaded. What should I do? |
| Question: Think my daughter has a eating disorder? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 11:37 AM PDT She 15 ,5'6 and she's is a 8 UK size ,she doesn't eat that much and she is making herself sick when she does eat but she thinks we don't know and she losing lots of weight you can see her collarbones and ribs . Her mother had bullima when she was younger and still does it sometimes and when i say to her she says she'll be fine ! I don't know what to do ? |
| Question: I feel like I'm becoming my siblings second mother, and it's stressing me out.? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 11:30 AM PDT I'm a Freshman, and I have three younger siblings. They're six, eleven, and thirteen. The thirteen year old helps out sometimes but he's also a lot less mature than I am so I end up doing more. My mother works 3 jobs, and my father is out of the picture, which leaves a lot of responsibility on me. I'm home schooled, but I need to be up at 6:30 to get my siblings ready for school. I clean the house when my mom is working full shifts, do my school work, and on top of that I have other activities that I go to. My mother has been telling me to get more school work done, and get more sleep, when I'm too busy doing housework, and taking care of her kids. The six year old is a monster right now (always swearing at me, and screaming), and the eleven year old is having pre-teen hormones (Locking me out of the bedroom we share). I usually get my siblings dinner as well. I've been really stressed lately, and have been waking up in the middle of the night, on top of not getting enough sleep as it is. I'm not sure how to give myself less stress with everything I do, because I know my mother is only working so much to support us. Any suggestions on lowering stress in this situation? |
| Question: How do I make my brother stop doing this? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 11:16 AM PDT I am my brother's younger sister. Most school nights I need his help with my home work. However most nights he locks his bedroom door and makes me wait until he is through spanking the monkey to help me with my homework. How can I convince him that helping me with my homework is more important than him spanking the monkey? |
| Question: Has anyone been though this with a family member? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 11:12 AM PDT my grandma (86 years old) had heart surgery on tuesday. she also had surgery on her left leg to remove some veins to put in her heart. they already took her breathing tube out. she is breathing already on her own. today she started to open her eyes, and is already trying to talk. just wondering if she goes to the nursing home to get cared for will she always have to stay there? and also has anyone gone through this or had a family member go through this. let me know about the experience cause i am having a hard time. :'( |
| Question: How do I make amends with my mom? Please? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 11:05 AM PDT So i blocked my mom from twitter because i didnt want her to accidentally favorite anything. And so she sat me down and told me that i have had a bad attitude and have been selfish. Which i admit to. She also thinks that that i dont like her and thats not true. So shes been ignoring me and i just want my mom back. What do i do? |
| Question: I tried to teach my boyfriends family a lesson and now they hate me.? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 10:58 AM PDT So I live with my boyfriend and his parents and his siblings. I work and buy my own food and lable it with my name so they don't have to worry about feeding me. My boyfriends parents and sisters sometimes take some of my food without asking and deny it when I ask if they took it. I've never been rude about it but I got so fed up with it I decided to teach them a lesson. I had orange juice in the fridge with my name on it and as usual I noticed some of it disappearing. I decided to write a note saying "to whoever has been drinking this I drink it staight out of the carton and I slober all over it! Oh and I have strep throat. I hope you had fun ingesting my saliva and germs!" I taped it to my orange juice and put it back in the fridge where it would be seen. My boyfriend laughed when I told him but now his entire family hates me! They were yelling at my boyfriend and telling him that he "shouldn't be dating such a *****." They called me names and said that they want me out and away from them! All I said was "so if you guys didn't really steal my food you wouldn't be this upset." They just got even angrier and told me to leave. Do you think they have a right to be mad at me even though they were the ones taking my food? Was I wrong for leaving that note? I don't regret it. I just want some opinions. |
| Question: How to make my dad stop hating and beating my brother? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 10:54 AM PDT I don't know really why my dad hates my brother, since he's a good son as far as I can see. I'm a girl, 15, and my bro is almost 20. I'll admit that I'm not bright at school and he is (he maintains a high GPA since he starts college); sometimes I'm cheeky, difficult, moody, etc., and he isn't, but my dad beats him regularly if he ever says something wrong (and he always does according to my dad's standard), or if he doesn't act like "man enough". Paradoxically my dad doesn't let him move out either, and my brother is so frightened of him that he doesn't dare to do otherwise. Our mom has passed away when I was small but I remember that she loved my brother. I've tried to talk to my dad and he told me not to butt in when he's disciplining his son. I don't think my brother is a step son because he has a birth certificate with our parents' name on it, so my dad's hatred is inexplicable (sometimes parents hate their children maybe b/c the kids are ugly but my brother is certainly not ugly, either!). I don't want to involve police but I also want this to stop, I just don't know how. @Jessica, as I've written above, I don't want to involve police. It's easy to say so but what will become of us if my dad is arrested? We don't have close relatives. Maybe my brother can go to work and take care of me but it's just HUGE and that's why I don't want to involve police in the first place. |
| Question: Would you i'm is being stingy to my family? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 10:53 AM PDT i have a $100 gift card to a grocery store. i'm full of groceries so i'm giving it to a friend that don't have much. my aunt that has her mother and husband there said i'm wrong because i want give it to them (a house with 3 incomes). |
| Question: Moving out at 19/20 - Am I being selfish? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 10:51 AM PDT I grew up in an overprotective, strict traditional African/Muslim household. My father especially very strict and overprotective. My parents are both very judgmental, critical, controlling, emotionally abusive, and manipulative. I can't get too much into details cause its DEEP and the character limit. But basically my parents think it's their right to micro manage EVERY aspect of my life. I'm not kidding. They've thrown me off track, I don't know what I want to do cause they're always telling me what to do. I have no friends anymore cause they never let me go out once I reached middle school. They're especially tough on me cause my brother is the dropout, weedhead troublemaker. He leaves home like every year. My parents nag him then when he leaves, guilt trips him into coming back. Like he's 24, who cares. They claim it's because he always ends up in trouble when he leaves, but they would do the same even if he didn't I'm sure. My Mom says stuff like "he leaves just the two of us here alone while Dad's at work, he should be the man of the house" blah blah. My Dad works so hard to provide for us financially, he's a truck driver. Hardly here. My Mom doesn't work anymore, so she's home all the time. I love and appreciate them both but they're holding me back A LOT. Here parents can't wait to get rid of their kids but ethnic parents are the opposite. They wanna hold on as long as possible, ESPECIALLY girls. It's considered indecent for a female to move out before marriage. I have no say in anything. If I object I'm a disobedient, disrespectful child. I've tried times before and I just end up in tears of frustration. And before you say "they have your best interest in mind", wrong. They have THEIR best interest in mind. I'm tired of being so cautious and considerate of everybody elses feelings, walking on egg shells while nobody gives a damn about mine. I don't want to live this sheltered bullshit anymore. But I still feel guilty. |
| Question: Did I do the right thing?!? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 10:44 AM PDT My sister came home from a party and my dad was screaming to my mum "get her to hospital now!" She took off her shoe and her ankle was slightly swollen with no bruising at all. She was hopping but didn t appear to be in any pain. When I was my sisters age, I broke my foot and my parents simply told me I had twisted it and to stop trying to get attention! I love my sister and.p I hope she gets better but why are my parents doing this and also, what do you think my sister has done? |
| Question: Sister just had a baby should I visit? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 10:43 AM PDT I just moved to Texas last August from California for my husbands job. Before leaving I found out my sister was pregnant with her second child. We went back for Christmas last year to visit and I told her I would come back when the baby was born. Now it's April and the baby is a few weeks old and I'm not sure about going home. My husband says if I go back now we may not be able to go again in December, it's an expensive trip and we moved here to save. I also have two young children I will have to travel alone with and I'm terrified of that plus they will miss school and softball games. Would it be terrible if I waited till December to meet my nephew? Financially it's possible I go now but it will take a chunk of our savings. I don't want to hurt her. What should I do? |
| Question: How can I support my boyfriend/myself through his traumatic past? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 10:41 AM PDT My boyfriend (20) and I (19) have been dating for a year and have a healthy relationships both emotionally and sexually. His background: He grew up in a wealthy radical Catholic household. His mom adopted he and 3 girls and was abusive towards them, refusing to feed them dinner as punishment for "misbehaving" and telling them that she and their father wished they hadn't adopted them. Last night he told me his deepest secret. When he and his adopted sister were 12 (they're the same age), they began exploring their bodies. To summarize, due to absolutely NO sexual education, they eventually had sex. His sister got pregnant and was sent away to secretly have the baby. He received no counseling, the topic was never brought up again, and he received absolutely no counseling. When he's home from college, he and his sister still have to live in the same house and hate each other. I have no idea what to do. He's the sweetest guy I've ever met and would never have guessed that something this unbelievable happened to him. He is repulsed by himself. He agreed he'd make a counseling appointment at his college, and I've already made one so that I might be able to talk it out with a professional and gain insight on how to help him. I'm so confused and worried that he might have some permanent psychological damage that is too big for me to handle or be able to fix. Thoughts? EDIT: I'd like to note that he and his siblings were all adopted at birth because their adoptive mother was unable to conceive. And while they were raised from birth, their mom raised them as competitors for her love and attention. The only one he sees as his family is his youngest sister who is now 12. |
| Posted: 16 Apr 2015 10:30 AM PDT I'm 20 and only an under-aged boy in my country. I should turn 21 to be an adult. I've been raped by a 30 year old man five months ago. After the rape i really lost my self and I loosed all my friends and girlfriend. After the rape i stopped wearing clothes because i felt so itchy in clothes. I have many physical injuries but i'm shameful to show them to a doctor because i guess the doctor might think i'm a gay although i'm not. I also don't want to talk to a counselor for the same reason. I don't like to talk much and instead i scream and cry. I fear the dark and closedcrazy s. When my sister saw my situation she left her husband and our parents and took me to our old house to take care of me. I know she loves me and i love her too but she's too protective. She doesn't let me go out just because i'm naked all the time. I'm defenceless because idon't have the power to face my fears and anyone can easily abuse me. My sister permitted a female counselor take me with her for two weeks although my sister's very protective she thought that the counselor might help me by taking me in a forest into a hut and make me rest my mind. But the counselor was crazy! She shaved the hair all over my body exceptinv my head and even hair arround my genital and forced me dance for her. She took nude photos of me. My sister saved my life and informed the police. I'm home now but i'm not happh. Should i run away and go and live with my best friend who can taje care of me until i'm better? He's 22 |
| Question: Why am i always in a bad mood whenever I'm with my dad? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 10:28 AM PDT ( long but please read, i would appreciate it) im always in a bad mood when I'm around my dad. I feel so bad, because he hasn't done anything wrong. He tries everything to make me happy but he can be so annoying and mean sometimes. My mom left when I was little, so its been just the 2 of us. I feel like it maybe because I'm with him way to much. He used to work all week and I used to always miss him and wish he would be at home instead, but when we moved states, he got lazier and didn't even bother finding a job for a year. Which meant I was with him wherever and see him 24/7 that's when I started feeling like that. I felt so happy when he would leave even for an hour but when he comes back instantly bad mood again. He doesn't let me go anywhere unless its with him (I'm almost 17) so its basically school and my room. Now that he got a job, he's finally going to be out of the house all day which makes me feel relieved. I don't hate my dad at all !! But I just get in a bad mood whenever I'm with him, I rather be with anyone else, I get happier if I'm with someone different, or I'd be locked up in my room all day (which is mostly what I do) then be with him. Why do I feel like this ?? I even Feel uncomfortable when he's near me, Is it because I see him way to much, I was never like this until he stayed at home,please give me advice I really love my dad, he's a really serious person as well but I would never want him to leave me. Thank you !! |
| Question: Why do schools make boys and girls swim together in gym class? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 10:12 AM PDT at my daughters schools from 8th -10th grade, in PE she attends the swim unit and boys and girls have it together? Why is this allowed? Wouldn't this make girls feel uncomfortable and give immature boys an opportunity to harass and humiliate girls? And cause distractions and goofing off among everyday? Not to mention young boys will be shirtless around young girls and I think that is inappropriate especially in a school setting My daughter keeps saying she does not care but she is young and may not understand how wrong this is this just seems wrong especially at school. Giving a boys a chance to leer at girls like this this class also pretty much just gives students to look at all the other students in bathing suits. What is this a party or something? How is this appropriate for school? Why is the school providing an avenue for voyeurism? can people really say honestly that young boys and girls will concentrate on swimming while they are around each other in bathing suits and not goof off? That boys (who aren't known for sensitivity) won't use this opportunity to harass or tease girls? what reason do they have to put them together? They can easily separate boys and girls buy taking the boys of another gym class and putting them with the boys in the gym class doing the swim unit and the same with girls. Cam someone please tell me the benefits and why exactly boys and girls should swim together in school? What is the reason? : considering that so many females are harassed, groped, and ogled at by young men, why on earth is SCHOOL giving young boys a perfect opportunity and place to be able to do so? |
| Question: Help my sister is telling lies to my dad i do drums and he wants a food budget? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 10:11 AM PDT hey I buy so much money on food hundreds a month grocerys are expensive bringing up my daughter and my sister is a liar telling my dad i have a problem with drums and i dont do drums I have all my receipts $150 a week on grocerys its expensive california help He wants a itemize food budget Hes like im too skinny but im not im almost overweight im petite to my family becauae i am athletic surfer yoga dance help |
| Question: My mom doesnt really listen to me? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 10:06 AM PDT ok, so i have had this problem with her for a very long time, i try to talk to her at times and she lets it be known on a major scale how uninterested she is with talking to her own son about his problems and thoughts on things. she does not try to motivate me AT ALL, but she always talks to my older sister about both thier problems. honestly at this point im so annoyed and aggravated that i would really like to just make things mutual and do the exact same thing to her, but i would like to do it in a clever way to where she knows that i know, that she knows exactly what shes doing, and that i really do not appreciate it one bit. someone provide answers please? had anyone ever experienced this with one of thier parents? |
| Question: How do I financially assist my family without insulting them? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 09:38 AM PDT A few months back I came into a significantly large portion of money (enough to support myself and several other's for life with the right planning) and I want to extend my good fortune into my family. My mother's side (and my siblings) aren't an issue because I know they both need and are willing to accept any money I offer them. My main concern is my father and my husband's family. My father has earned every penny he has ever had, worked hard his entire life and now has a nice little nest egg and is retired from the Los Angeles Sheriff's Department but still teaches for them for extra cash. I know that I could easily pay off his mortgage and make life a lot easier for him, but I have absolutely no idea how to even approach this situation. My father has always been my helper and financial adviser and I want to take care of him, for once. Any recommendations for assisting a successful and prideful man? And my husband's family is a bit different. His father is a lawyer and his mother is an Human Resources Director for a large global company. They make above middle class income and have two other daughters (17, 21). I want to help them as well, but I have no idea how. The older sister is on her own now and lives with her well-off boyfriend. The younger is about to graduate high school and start college. I'm sure things like cars and paying off student loans will help them, but I don't know if giving them gifts like this will insult their parents or "spoil" them. Help? |
| Question: How do i tell my mum I want to move to live with my dad for a while? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 09:21 AM PDT I'm 16 years old and I don't feel happy living with my mum right now, I feel stressed as well as it being my GCSE year I cant concentrate because she seems to have a go at me all the time. I don't feel as comfortable as I used to be. Some days she's so nice to me but most days she just picks at little things. How do I tell my mum I want to go stay with my dad for a few weeks until I feel happy to come back? And how do I approach it?do I just leave it and see what happens if it's just one of them times or do I do it before my exams start so I can settle in? |
| Question: What to do about a mean unsupportive family? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 09:11 AM PDT My family is unsupportive and they make mean comments. My sister never has my best interest at heart and she's very distant emotionally, she often makes fun of me and is never there when I need her. When I was younger she would purposely get me into trouble. My dad is a hoarder and he once said he cares about his dogs more than me, my mom is a deadbeat parent and all around my family is dysfunctional, unsupportive, manages their finances horribly (for example, my parent once spent $300 on my 4 year old niece but gave me hell because I needed new toothpaste). I can't stand my family members anymore. They turn around and say they've been supportive my whole life but they haven't, they've just been doing the bare minimum for me and acting like they bend over backwards for me. This family has scarred me so much that I don't want a family of my own, I don't want children or a husband, I want to stay away from people because they hurt me all the time. I just want to be alone and not have to deal with these people ever again but I have to. |
| Question: What can you say to describe a mother figure to someone? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 09:07 AM PDT |
| Question: I let my kids paint naked on sheets of paper? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 09:01 AM PDT Thay get messy...so naked I can throw then in the tub. |
| Question: I think its cute when boys cry. can any other girls relate? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 08:57 AM PDT one of my best friends is a boy and he was crying the other day during school because his grandmother died and i just thought he was cute when he was crying lol. |
| Question: Should i let my 15 year old boy go to dancefestopia? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 08:38 AM PDT |
| Posted: 16 Apr 2015 08:36 AM PDT We've been dating for 4.5 years. Living together for 2. He's 25, I'm 21. I attend school, about to start a specialty program. He stopped going to school even before we moved out together because at the time he had no other choice but to work full time (55 hour weeks) Anyways, now he has a better job and wants to go back to school. We have some debt about $6,000 and we would like to pay that off but it's really tough, it's like whenever we think were about to move forward so that we can SAVE money something come up and the money's gone. EXAMPLE: surprise root canal costing $1400 AFTER INSURANCE. anyways, we've been offered to move into his mothers house. We would be paying half of our current rent saving us a total of $500 each month. (Rent in our area is extremely expensive) We would like to move forward, save for a down payment to buy our own condo but it's so hard to save anything due to me going to school and working and his full time job. We'd be helping her because she's got an extra room and bathroom and she's currently financially stuck too. And we'd be better off cause we'd pay off our debt A LOT sooner and he would be able to finally get back to college to finish up his degree. I'm just worried is this a bad idea? How can the both of us stay sane and not split up and become enemies by this living situation? His mothers really nice but kind of needy.... And lonely. |
| Posted: 16 Apr 2015 08:26 AM PDT My mom had a falling out with me almost a year ago. She hates that at 33, I'm finally taking control of my own life. She hates my boyfriend. She set us up and she was cool with him, now that we are serious she hates him. My two boys adore him. I'm helping him with his daughter and he's helping me with my two boys whose father is dead. My mom is constantly spreading nasty rumors and telling all my personal and deep dark secrets to my neighbors, her neighbors, and anyone who will listen. I'm afraid to face anyone. She has everyone fooled by playing the victim. I'm thinking about suing her for deformation. She told my boys that she hates them, me, and my boyfriend. She got people thinking that I'm keeping my boys way from her which is not true. She even told me in a text to drop dead. My mom had mom and daughter issues with my grandmother, who is dead. My mom is the middle of seven and they never got along. The issue is that my mom take care of my autistic uncle. I mainly did everything and she did nothing. She is pissed that she has to do everything for him now. Because of her anger, she ran the other siblings away. I always had to put her and my uncle first, then my kids and lastly, myself. She's also spreading rumors saying that my boyfriend took me away from her, truth is, I RAN AWAY from her. I feel free. It felt like I was in a bad relationship and now I'm able to live my life. My mom needs help but I don't even talk to her. I'm also seeking therapy for myself. |
| Question: How can I get sent home early from school? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 08:26 AM PDT I'm a Junior high schooler, i'm 16 weeks pregnant. I haven't been getting enough sleep. I'm tired, and exhausted. I forced and pushed myself to get up, stay awake, and come to school. Today I forgot my makeup and now I can't hide how terrible and tired I look. I asked my parents. My mom argued with my dad "oh she just wants to stay home and be with her boyfriend being pampered. Maybe I can shove a can of monster down your throat and that'll make you shut up and go to school."My dad works with the highest law enforcement (The big dog of them all) He replied "Keep treating your daughter like **** I don't mind putting you in the slammer, she's pregnant. Do you remember how you were when you were pregnant with our kids? Act like a grown up and be easy on her she doesn't need your bull **** right now. On top of that did you see how he takes care of her and is still by her? Don't think so. Sweetie just fake being sick, you had too many absents and I know you don't want to tell them about whats been going on at the time. I'll come pick you up once the nurse calls and I can go pick up lunch for you and Fernandez (Boyfriend) and you guys can rest at my place. I'll try to ask the nurse to excuse you for tomorrow cause honey you look terrible, did you put on makeup? -Laughs-" So I really don't know what to tell the nurse, if I tell her i'm tired from not getting enough sleep she will tell me to rest in one the rooms, and if I tell her I have a fever then she will check my temperature. |
| Posted: 16 Apr 2015 08:21 AM PDT All she says almost negative and I can also see lots of arrogance in her,her husband and their children.Not sure what is that arrogance is for.I am her brother not someone else from outside. |
| Question: What do I do? My dad is very angry? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 08:15 AM PDT My dad gets very angry at me(14) my older sister (16) and my older brother (17) he just starts these rants where if you say anything he will take stuff away from you or ground you and if he's in a really bad mood he will get confrintational. Earlier today my mom was telling me to fold clothes and I accidentally cut her off and my dad started getting pissed, I didn't hear them when they were trying to make me come over there until my dad barged into my room ( I was getting my pens for a project) and told me to come there right now, but I had to put my writing jar up and he came over and grabbed my arm so I gently yanked it away and he did it again even harder so I yanked harder (cause whenever he does that he pulls me around) and he pushed me against the door and put his hand on my throat so I tried to push them away and he started wrestling me and I couldn't do anything about it so I was basically trying to get out of there and he kept on doing that till finally I got loose. After that he was being more verbally and a bit less physically abusive. There have been other incidents like this. I was telling my little sister to get to bed after I got out of the shower and she wasn't listening so I wacked her bum with the towel like the rat tail thingy and she laughed and went to bed but my dad thought she was crying so he came up and said that if I ever do that again he was gonna wait till I was asleep and pop me in the face..... Can you please tell me what to do |
| Posted: 16 Apr 2015 08:11 AM PDT I'm the 20 year old single father of my 5 year old Rachel. Up until, basically last night, we'd never had a schedule, bedtime, dinnertime, etc. Anyway, last night was a fight. At 8:15, I told her to go put on her pajamas, pick out a book and get in bed. She puts on her PJ's, but comes out to the kitchen and protests to stay up, pouting, crossing her arms, stomping her foot. Calmly, took her by the hand and tried getting her to her room, but she whined, pulled my arm, etc. She got in the bed and rolled over, no hug, no desire for me to read to her, no kiss good night, no anything. Does she hate me? |
| Question: I want to leave my house but I have nowhere to go!? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 08:10 AM PDT Okay so I live with my Grandmother but she always screams at me and it makes me feel sad and my house is dirty to the point I can't clean it up. I've asked her can we move but she always says she doesn't have alot of money. My mom and Dad can't take me because they don't have custody over me and my brothers ( I have 2 brothers my twin who is 13 and my older one who is 15) My school and neighborhood is ghetto and other things and I don't think I will have a good future to go to college because I don't learn anything at my school. I don't have any other siblings who are willing to take me and I just want to end it right now I can't take this. I have thought about suicide but I can't do it and I believe and God so I just want to do something. I have no friends to help me or anyone for that matter to help me |
| Question: Is this child abuse? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 08:05 AM PDT Okay so when my brother does something mildly wrong (forgetting to do the dishes, failing or c on assignment) my dad tells him to pick a switch from outside and he takes it and slashes it across his legs. Each one about 3-5 times. If he does something really bad (attitude, failing test grade) he pulls down his pants (he's not naked he has underwear on) and hits him 10-15 times on each leg. Is this child abuse or disciplinary action? He often has welps but they go away after a day or two. |
| Question: What Is His Problem? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 07:53 AM PDT Ok, so I called off of work yesterday. I had a number of reasons for doing so 1. I just came to the realization that my grandfather is dying. He hasn't been told this yet by doctors, but he's in his 90s, has had multiple complications and so doesn't have much longer to live. 2. I've been working a physical job on a sprained ankle, I'm sure some of you know how bothersome this is. 3. The final straw, I've become sick amongst all of this. So then I tell my father all of this, and he starts making all these pessimistic comments to me, "Are you gonna call off every time grandpa has a close call?" "I wouldn't keep you if I were your boss.", etc. I just feel like he's being a real asshole considering the circumstances. Am I the only one who feels this way? |
| Question: If you're over 30 when was the last time you saw your dad? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 07:37 AM PDT I was 24. Spoke to him twice on the phone since...it's hard but he's a tough person and that's that. |
| Question: My 18 year old son doesn't want my boyfriend to sleep over? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 07:25 AM PDT I've been a divorced mother for about a year now, and I'm just getting back into dating. So me and my significant other have been talking ever since I was struggling with my divorce and he means the world to me. I'm planning to have him sleep over for two weeks and I'm very excited. The problem is, my teenage son feels as though it is "wrong" to have him sleep over in our home. He said that it is creepy, and disgusting. He also stated that I am "hurting" him. How am I hurting him, if I'm doing what makes me and my daughter happy? (My younger daughter gets along with my boyfriend just fine.) I told my son that he doesn't make decisions for me, and to find a household where the kids make decisions for their parents. Otherwise, I told him that I will send him to his father's if he keeps on being disrespectful. He doesn't have a relationship with his father. He said that I'm making a poor decision, and that's HIS opinion. Regardless, I plan to have my boyfriend stay with us for two weeks, since he is visiting from another state, meaning that we hardly get to see each other. This is MY decision, and MY life. I won't let my son decide for me. How can I get him to accept my decision? |
| Question: Is it OK to keep this a secret from my mom? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 07:06 AM PDT I am going to college and staying with my brother and his wife. I started to have painful periods. It was 5 days of hell. I could barely function. My doctor put me on medication that stopped my periods. It is wonderful. I don't have these terrible pains each month. My problem is the medication that stops my periods is also a birth control. My mother is a devout Catholic who believed that anyone that takes birth control is going to hell. My brother said we should just let this be our secret and not tell my mother what I am doing. He said if she knew I was on birth control, it would cause her needless worry. Do you think he is correct in us keeping this secret? |
| Posted: 16 Apr 2015 07:05 AM PDT I'm 19, why do I need them telling me what to do? Especially since they are complete slobs and I'm the only one that keeps things clean anyways.. I Finnish cleaning a butt load of stuff and they are just like "okay now go do this and that.." And I'm just like *****, I didn't sign up to take orders from you.. I was just doing it because I wanted to. |
| Question: Should i move out ! please read and any advice helps!? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 06:36 AM PDT My male cousin came home from a boys home and told me that he was gay, I babied him and let him brush my hair and rub my arm. I let him flirt with a few guys and he eventually told me his whole life story (we are not related this is my brothers side of the family.) My half mom saw it to be something else and refused to see that he was gay among otherthing. He also said that he still wanted to kill his sister (we got him help now) and they got mad because I told her so that she was aware because, if I would have told one of the "adults" they wouldnt have told her. I also made her a promise that I would do so. The drama continues at school to where my cousin the female one is now spreading rumors. Her friends told her that I was speaking bad about family and I was scared to get beat again so I called a family member to let them know so i wouldn't hear the "and you didn't call me because...?" So, I also got in trouble for that. I don't know if its better to finish off the 30days of school or just move out and finish on my own. Please advise or help something! I'm starting to fall into depression ! I got everything taken away from me and I have no idea what to do anymore! |
| Question: 18 and parents won't let me go out often or even travel? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 05:43 AM PDT So I'm 18 , and I have a casual job, I pay my phone bills and my mum takes my youth allowance to pay for rent, I do my chores, empty bin, walk the dogs, do the dishes and I study as well, when my friend wants me to go out somewhere it's like I have to ask my parents if I can go otherwise they get all pissed at me, especially my dad, he always yells at me, he can't talk normally to me and it's frustrating I got an internship from Hong Kong , and I live in Australia, it's a good opportunity for me , I told my mum and she didn't say congratulations, she just said you will have to speak to your father about that.... My dad thinks everything choice I make is stupid and never is happy for me, I feel like I'm being stuck in a prison where I can't do anything, what can I do,?? All I do is fight with my dad and I'm scared to tell him I'm going to work abroad for 1 month, I'm 18 do I need permission? Advice please is helpful |
| Question: My son doesn't want my boyfriend to sleep over? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 05:32 AM PDT I've been a divorced mother for about a year now, and I'm just getting back into dating. So me and my significant other have been talking ever since I was struggling with my divorce and he means the world to me. I'm planning to have him sleep over for two weeks and I'm very excited. The problem is, my teenage son feels as though it is "wrong" to have him sleep over in our home. He said that it is creepy, and disgusting. He also stated that I am "hurting" him. How am I hurting him, if I'm doing what makes me and my daughter happy? (My younger daughter gets along with my boyfriend just fine.) I told my son that he doesn't make decisions for me, and to find a household where the kids make decisions for their parents. Otherwise, I told him that I will send him to his father's if he keeps on being disrespectful. He said that I'm making a poor decision, and that's HIS opinion. Regardless, I plan to have my boyfriend stay with us for two weeks, since he is visiting from another state, meaning that we hardly get to see each other. This is MY decision, and MY life. I won't let my son decide for me. How can I get him to accept my decision? |
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| Question: HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 04:39 AM PDT I have a new friend whom I care about dearly. She is REALLY cool and she is just about perfect. I honestly don't see what she sees in me as a friend. She is SUPER pretty. Like shes a model. Legit. I grew up a cubby kid and never got any attention from boys as a child. And while I am much prettier today I still can't compare. I am a 6. Shes a 12. I feel like her Duff in pictures. Its insane. She has guys dropping to their knees and I have yet to find someone even remotely interested in me. She is so successful! She owns her own dance studio. As well she provides Piano lessons, directs community plays, and does singing lessons(how we met). I have always been the girl with the good singing voice. I lost that identity with her. I am just the average singer with no real special talent. I have a career but I am no where near as successful. I am a dog groomer who works long hours for **** money. I am burnt out and sometimes wonder why I bother. I am thinking about going to school. She had a great home life. She has parents who are together and love her. She was home schooled. Her dad owns a VERY successful radio station and she has been a personality for YEARS! She is very smart because her parents had the extra time and dedication to help her thrive. She graduated High School at 16 and took 2 years of college electives. My parents divorced. It was horrible. The foster system threatened to take my sister and I away. My parents really didn't pay attention to my schooling. I am just lucky I never failed a grade. Her parents are super cool. I LOVE my parents don't get me wrong but I still have some hard feelings toward them. I just get sad when I see her parents be SO proud of her. I know... I should be happy for her. AND I AM... But I just can't help look back on my pit falls. I just.... I don't want to feel like crap about myself anymore. And everytime I am with her I am reminded what a piece of crap I really am. I don't even know why she wants to be my friend. Help? |
| Question: Why does my mom annoy me? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 04:30 AM PDT Shes the best mom ever, she quit her job ( cardiologue, in english i think that's a heart doctor idk how to explain) and she came to Canada with us , she sacrificed her career for us. im gluten intolerant so she makes me food seperately and works hard, and she does a father's job and a mother's. and i really love her, i would do anything for her and all. but she really annoys me man!! like when she talks i feel annoyed idk maybe it's her voice? and she sometimes screams when im just in the other room , and she often can't hear what im telling her so i need to repeat and repeat and repeat. and she makes noise at 7am with dishes and a bunch of crap. she's also a neat freak, she will FREAK OUT if she sees me walking with socks in the house !!!! shes like " take them off u will get them dirty!!!" and she will keep talking for 30 minutes at least.. she also says bad things about my dad sometimes.. that annoys me because my dad sacrificed his family to go work in the USA to get money for us.. so the last thing he needs is his wife talking sh*t behind his back.. i feel guilty typing all of this. why does she annoy me? is it normal? i feel guilty that she annoys me!! |
| Question: What age should opposite sex children move into separete bedrooms? Posted: 16 Apr 2015 04:25 AM PDT I am 12 and I am going through puberty. My two brothers I share a room with are 6 and 10. We live in a 2 bedroom apartment. I would like to move into my moms room (but my mom doesn't approve of that) or I would like to get a fake wall or curtain built in that will divide the boy and girl side. Please help! |
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