And has said that she will marry me if she ever gets divorced. She sorta says it in a joking way...but the fact that she has said that a few times make me wonder her intentions. Do you think she is bad news?

My brother recently divorced his wife and he is upset with me because I still talk to her. The only reason I still talk to her, I want to see my nephews. The few times I came to town they were with her so I would call her to see them. My brother said that I am playing both sides and that I'm making him look bad is that true? Then he went on to say how his ex wife use to talk about me (Ididn't believe him I think he was just trying to turn me against her). Right now at this moment I don't talk to neither one of them and I haven't seen my nephews in a while. Was I wrong for still talking to the ex wife? And do you still communicate with your ex's family when you break up? Thank you

So my son's used to be babysitter has 3 beautiful little girls. But my babysitter (let's call her susan and her husband, Mike) Susan found out that she has lupus and now has to take chemo every week and she just feels so week so her husband Mike had to take leave from work to take care of their three girls and they have no money left. Her dad has helped as much as he can but money is limited. And I just wish I could help. I'm getting them some milk, eggs and bread but that's about all that I can afford. Any ideas? We both get WIC but that's it. Anything is appreciated!

Me and my wife have been a couple for years and married for just over one year. Everything has been great until recently. We have two children under the age of two and they are typical kids. They get into things like the cabinets and the entertainment center. Their favorite pass time is emptying the contents of the toy box on the floor. I find it cute but it makes her kinda nuts. Today our oldest daughter has been getting into things and being a little difficult. She's been yelling at her and then called her a f*":ing dumba**. I immediately told her not to say such a thing to her ever again. She's my daughter and I'd never let a stranger, let alone her mother call her that. She got heated and went to blow down. I mean whatever right? Having kids is stressful sometimes. Just a few minutes ago she did it again. I was in the next room and I heard her yell our daughters name followed by "stop being a dumba**". I confronted her again where she told me to watch her myself then if I didn't like it. My reply was "Say that now but I'd watch my step if I were you lady". She looked very concerned for a second and then walked on. All the years we've been together I've never said anything like that to her. I don't regret it but I don't like it. Its been weird for about an hour. I feel no guilt but I feel guilty that I don't feel guilty. Was it wrong of me to tell her that?

He has pictures of us all over his Instagram and Facebook because he will often show me his comments/likes on our pictures. However, he doesn't want to add me as a Facebook friend or allow me on his Instagram. This seems like a red flag to me. Just a few minutes ago, he made me get up and leave the room because he was resetting his Facebook password for our new HD television. Another example is he has my iPhone password but I can't have his. if he loves me so much why is he hiding social media and passwords? I don't want a secretive marriage.

I owned two houses.. One is a family house and the other home is like a secret condo where I go to be away from my wife... She doesn't know I have a secret home, and it's been going on for 3 years... When me and my wife have a fight, we would not see eachother for 3 days or so.. When she asked me where I've been.. I tell her I was in a hotel.... Nobody knows I have a secret home, and I can keep it a secret forever if I wanted too.. Is it bad that I don't tell her? Thanks..

It's probbaly not a question to ask here but I have no idea what to do, we got married June 30, 2017 it's November 29 already and NOTHING. He turned in the marriage license and enrolled me in DEERS late July and every time we ask for an update they say it's been pushed back for what we bs reason. Last update we got was a month ago and they told us it was in finance, I'm new to this so I don't know what I can do as a spouse.

My husband of 17 years has decided that he isnt happy and that he doesn t love me anymore because of arguments and that he doesnt trust me. We both cheated on each other in the past and he just cant seem to get over it and he say that everytime we argue it just make him fall deeply out of love with me. Everytime we talk on the phone I pled and beg him to come back and he said that he doesn t want to be here if he isnt happy. He say his feelings are gone for me. Is there any change of saving our marriage before I loose him for good. Please help i need advice

On the one hand, to be fair, I let her know that I knew she had cheated and that before we get married I need to know the truth. She is an Au Pair and leaving the country soon if we don't tie the knot. So I suppose it's possible she did feel pressured/coerced. On the other hand, her confession was 40 minutes (I videotaped it). Hearing her voice, she sounds calm, honest, dead serious about what she did. She gave very specific details to the questions that I asked, except when she couldn't remember exactly, and her story made sense. It just fit. For example, a few months ago (3 months into our now 11 month relationship) my girlfriend confessed that 2 months into the relationship, she went to a bar with her friend Fernanda, and that they met 2 guys, they got drunk and had sex. She had specific details- the drinking game they played, how she was pressured into a kiss from the game, how she had more drinks, and went back to their home and how Fernanda (who is fat and desperate) went into the guys room first to have sex, and then she and the guy stayed in the living room and then later went into his room to have sex. Also during this 40 minute confession, she said that the other time she cheated, she cheated on me with a guy that I always strongly suspected her of cheating on me with. That she went to a party at his house and stayed later. (She had shaved her vagina hairs prior to the "date"... we were "on a break"... but she claimed to me that the guy had cancelled on her). TO CONTINUE: About the second guy- she had specific details about the party when I asked, and she said that she waited until everyone else had left then they had sex. I asked about his "size" and she answered it. I asked how it happened, at first she said it was only missionary then she admitted they also did doggystyle. She claims they each did oral. The third guy, was when she knew I had cheated on her, she then went and had sex with a guy from Bumble (she met him at the bar). Apparently the third guy was from NYC, out of town, and he had a hotel. This story corroborated her telling me a few weeks ago that she "wasn't still messaging that guy because he was from NYC and out of town". So her confession lined up on multiple instances, with real events/real parts of the story that had occurred in the past. When I told her I wanted an open relationship and for her to take a polygraph to prove she's been faithful this past month, then the next day she took her story back My question is: Is my girlfriend a cheater, and did she actually do these things? Or is this a case of a coerced confession that was likely not true to begin with? Based on the fact my gut tells me she cheated, plus her seeming to be very truthful during the confession and having a lot of key details that all "meshed" perfectly and made me go "AHA, now that makes sense", I have to strongly assume she did cheat and that she's lying. But... WHY WOULD SHE CONFESS THEN TRY TO TAKE IT BACK? I guess I am wondering, WHY WOULD SHE ACTUALLY BELIEVE THAT I WOULD JUST BELIEVE SHE MADE IT UP? SHE DOESNT *GET* TO DO THAT! SHE CONFESSED! END OF STORY! Only a crazy person would actually give a confession of that detail, of that length, of that clarity, and then try to claim the whole thing was a lie cuz she didn't want me to dump her! Thats insane!

My SO and I have been together two years in April. At the end of May, we will have been living together for two years. I found out that I was pregnant this past August. This was not a planned pregnancy, but we both decided that we wanted to keep the baby and move forward in our relationship. So, a bit of back story. He is 38 (39 in two weeks), military, and close to retirement. He owns the home we live in. He has been married and divorced twice. Our two years together is the longest relationship he has ever had. Now, I am 28. Over new year's we went to a beautiful vacation alone, and he had a week to propose then, and never did. He could have over Valentine's day, and nothing. He keeps telling me that he wants to marry me and spend the rest of his life with me... and nothing. I told him that I wanted a minimum of a year for an engagement so the wedding could be planned, and he keeps saying that he doesn't want to wait a year after the proposal, that he wants to get married much sooner. I still haven't received a proposal tho! We talked about it again and I told him I wanted a timeline. He said 6 months which would have been by August and I told him I would not wait that long. He was stunned a bit and an actual time line was never set. So, I have a personal deadline for June that he doesn't know about, and I'm afraid it won't happen and I'll be a single parent to two children. Any advice? ?

Im 24years old i use to live with my father.i have a 3years old daughter and im 8months pregnant.i save money to buy me a car because i was spending to much money on uber.when i told my dad.he said he had a friend who is selling a car.i didn't want to buy the car but i did it anyways because he was my dad and i trust him.i give him the money he never show me the car.i seen a picture of it.he keep lying to me saying the car had alot of problems that needed to be fix i give him money to fix it.he keep lyin saying the car is not ready.the more i ask him about the car the more he lied.9 months after lying,i seen him with a new car that look just like the car.he lied to my mom sayin his friends let him borrow it.later i found out that was the same car.he lied to me.be betrayed me.knowing the fact that im spend 80 dollar on uber every two weeks plus i have his grand son on the way.i just dont know what to do.i dont wanna tell me husband because i dont want my husband thinking bad olf him.i dont hate him but i hate the fact that he would do this to me

My ex gf of 6yrs cheated on me & left me for some random guy she met. They got married just two weeks after our breakup and he ended up getting her pregnant in the same month. Obviously she was ******* with this this dude while we were together...like I don't get it I'm not a bad person I don't deserve a heartbreak like this.

Whenever he goes to work I got too her house. My twins live withe her as well because he's a terrible father. I'm at her house right now and trying to find a way to tell him and file for divorce. I'm considering keeping her a secret from him because it's none of his business. So what should I do?

Not quite two years ago I married a man. He s a year my senior and I loved him. I still love him, but he has two big flaws that have put a strain on our marriage. The first is that he can t seem to hold down a job long. He has a decent work ethic but he either ens up getting fired for various reasons or he quits because he s "tired of the bullshit ". I wouldn t mind the job hopping if it weren t for the fact that it takes him forever to find a new one. His longest stretch without a job was 7 months and most of that he spent putting all his hope on one job and not really looking for others while he stayed at home playing Xbox. I honestly don t care how much he brings home or even if it s part time, I just want him to be employed. The second issue is that he always has to be right. I don t mind the fact that he s right, because he is more often than not but it s that he not only has to prove he s right but he had to give multiple points of proof. And when he doesn t get his way he gets very bent out of shape. I know marriage is hard but he s threatened me with divorce several times since we got married and quite frankly I m tired of it. I m tired of crying as he puts his ring in my hand and walks away to go smoke himself to death with menthols. I m tired of having to pay all the bills because he can t hold down a job longer than a month. We even moved to a bigger city just so he wouldn t have an excuse not to find work. Advice would be greatly appreciated.

We had been having problems lately, arguing a lot of the time. Though recently she jas left me and moved in with her partner, who is also a woman, gross i know, I'm very much against gay people right now, she is the only woman i ever truly loved, we were fine until this lady came into our lives and began starting trouble by getting me and mu wife to argue.

I have this beautiful lady friend that had been divorced and remarried to another man. I'm also friends with her current husband too. Now I always wonder to myself why a man would even think of divorcing her. They did have a couple kids together. Now I do know she is still friends with her ex. Now if I were her ex I would do everything I can to work things out.

But this time she's had her wedding ring off since this past Saturday and hasn't put it back on yet should that be something to worry about or should I just brush it off and not worry

been trying to get wife to join in hobby for over 6 months. she always says no. Today she says she s doing hobby with someone else while I m at work.

Its Abnormal Behaviour so what should I do ? Is this normal? I find it normal help??

I was wondering if its a good idea to write my ex a letter of how I still feel about her and in some way for closure. We haven't been together in almost 10 years. Is this a bad idea? I know she is having a hard time well we both are cause we lost our youngest son do to cancer back in May of this year and right now I'm battling cancer myself which I found out in Sept. I'm so mixed about all this.