I am 31 so I am not going to invite myself to my aunt's Thanksgiving dinner and she has not asked me. It is my Mom's sister and she has never been close to my Mom and thus never close to us. All my cousins will be there celebrating as one happy and close family. I will be in the marginalized group and I'm invited to my Mom's where she is having my step-father's sister and all of her in-laws over. It will be 61 people and only about 15 of whom I have met. I feel so rejected. How do I stop feeling so depressed? At Christmas I will be offering to take a gift by to my Mom's siblings and 3 out of 5 accept my offer (1 rejects and 1 comes to town for Thanksgiving but not Christmas). I feel so rejected, how do I stop feeling depressed? As for a Dad he abandoned me when I was 2 and I have never known him or his family.

I only have mothers last name because my father never wanted to take responsibility of me, so my mom put me her last name and raised me ever since I was born. Thats why I love my mom so much.

She wasn't the deranged psychopath that my parents have been warning me she is. I write about her often. She is spoken about at home constantly. She is the butt of all gossip. We give her what she gives us. She left the family 4 years ago (not sure how you can leave a family but she hasn't been active in family events). She left cause she hates her son and the rest of the family embraces him. The son is with his father, her ex-husband, so she hates him and worships her two daughters as Godly. So today my Dad and siblings left for the weekend to avoid having to see her (my grandmother lives down the street from us). My Mom and I are brave so I stayed home with her and we went down and spent the morning with them and then took my aunt to the airport (she was headed home today). The aunt was nice. She didn't bring up anything hateful about her husband and only negative thing I can think to say is she talks too much, This was the first I saw her since summer before last. Since then this aunt last Christmas wrote a 13 page letter to all her siblings, nephews, and nieces telling us how horrible her son is (yet the son is fine). So is it just an act when a narcissist is normal? Last visit she was not pleasant and spent it trying to get dirt out from me about her son. This time none of that came up but my grandmother had her sister and her nieces over so there was other people there. Mom and I are safe now and she is here helping me type this. I am 13 and male.

We live in a nothing town with a 15-20 mile drive to anywhere. My husband always refuses to go to town with me, so when we go out, like to dinner, we choose one of the 3 hole in the wall places in our rural town to go to. He reluctantly skipped his exercise workout this morning to drive into town today to help and give his expert opinion on a christmas present for my son. Now, I had offered to go later in the day after he worked out, but he said no. I skipped having anything to eat to hurry up for him. I guess I assumed he would skip his workout today. We finished shopping (all of 30 min). When he got back in the car (now 3pm) he said he needed to get home to workout. I said "you never ever come with me into town, and now that we are here, you want to rush right back. (I was thinking it would be nice to go someplace good for an early dinner) a few other things were conversed and we were back on the highway headed home. I am so pissed. I know he knows I am, though we have not discussed it. He's out for a walk in the wilderness where it will get dark before he returns. I'm eating something out of the freezer because I was starving. Should I be pissed or let him off the hook..... ugh!

My mom got married to this guy about 6 months ago and at first I thought he was nice but now I hate him.We have a dog who I love and he hates the dog and screams and kick him.Also he is a COMPLETE control freak and micromanager.I like to mow the lawn and a few months ago go I told him to back off because he kept telling me what to to with the lawn so after I talked to him he was like "yeah the lawn is all yours".Well he said that but Everytime I mow he freaking tells me to mow it on a certain setting.Or he freaks out when I use a paper towel so I try to use rags for cleaning messes but then he gets mad and tells me to use a paper towel.We are currently in a custody battle fighting his ex wife for his 3 kids and he treats me and my sister like crap.Its obvious that he will never love me and my sister like his own kids.Tge thing is , his kids are brats but never and my sister are obedient and helpful I ve told my mom that all this but she just sides with him and says oh honey it takes time.It just makes me mad because he treats me and my sister like we are invisible.Hes fighting for his own sucky kids when but he doesn t realize he has 2 great kids right in front of him!

I planned this out nicely. Im having my mom buy me alcohol and I plan on getting really drunk to make it easier. My mom is leaving tonight to visit my brother with my stepdad. So when they leave ill go in their room and grab his shotgun. Im gonna walk to the park(not to mess the house up) late at night so no one can see me and blow my head off. Whatever you may think, this is happening and I just feel like telling random ppl that im offing myself.

all the time I would work hard in school and my parents don't give me sh*t for my hard work. Also whenever I ask what work I should do, they say no because they don't want to pay me? What should I do? Do they hate me?

I'm 16 and the only money that I have in my savings is about 100 dollars. My parents don't let me work, so I can't really make much more than that. The thing is I used to have 500 at one point but my parent keep taking money out of it for different things. I usually don't complain about it at all, but today it just irritated me. My brothers both have money to spare but neither of my parents ever ask them for cash when they need it. I feel like they come to me because I don't complain about them taking cash from me. But today, I sort of felt guilty when I got into an argument with my mom for taking 50 dollars from the last 100 that I have. I told her that I almost have no money left to use for myself. I asked her why it's only me that she takes money from- and doesn't even pay back what she takes. I know that I sort of overstepped the line and wasn't as considerate as I should have been but it's just been getting on my nerves because I feel like at my age I shouldn't have to go to my parents to ask for money for everything- I'd like some for myself. My brother then yelled at me for complaining about money, and then I got into an argument with him. Was I wrong in this situation?

I detest his presence in the house, when he tries to talk to me, even when he simply talks? Everything about him makes me cringe and feel disgusting?... What to do?

I am a teenager and almost all the devices ,including my phone, in my house requires password to access it. This means that I am not allowed to use it except for homework and studies but I think I am old enough to use my phone without permission from my parents. I figured out my password of my phone and decided to change it but my mom questioned me about why I changed it. I reply saying I am already old enough to use it but she took away my phone and I am not allowed to use it. Any advises of what I should do?

Yes. She's a Rivera and she thinks she's white. My maternal grandma lol

My bf hasn't seen or spoken to his mom in years. Christmas is coming up and I wanted him to be able to spend Christmas with her. I know the last place we know she worked, lived, and her name, and that she owned a home. I don't know much else. I searched her several times and I only got old emails and numbers so idk what else to do and I really can't afford to pay for a search online. Is there anything else I can do?

A month ago my parents adopted a ten year old boy who was from an abusive home. Last weekend I had to look after him for a few hours in the evening There was a storm which has he was terrified of. He had wet the bed and hid under it because he thought he would be In trouble. I managed to get him out from under it and once he realized i wasn't going to hurt him he clung to me. I then ran him a bath to clean him up and once I took his clothes off I saw all the marks on his body from the beatings he got which almost made me sick. How can anyone do that to a child? After that I took him into my room and he slept in my bed. I told him that he come to me anytime if he needs anything. 3 times since then he has come to my bed in the middle of the night after a nightmare. What else can I do to help him?

My aunt walked in on me masturbating in my bedroom and I was fully naked when she saw me and she saw what I was doing, then she immediately left the room. It really turned me on when she caught me, is that weird? My aunt is pretty attractive and isn t blood-related to me (married into the family) so that might partly be why.

I was home alone yesterday I came back from school my parents were at work so I came back showered and watched some tv and suddenly out of th blue someone says my name like a mans voice loudly I say who is it no reply then it says come here I try to trace the voice and what I see next is horrofying I see this man standing like a few steps away I scream and it says I'm here I scream and then I faint for a minute I wake up and no ones there I didn't tell my parents this should I?

Ok here it goes my som who is 14 he has a girlfriend that is 16 I was unhappy about their relationship but then I decided that I couldn't do anything so yesterday I was cleaning his room and found a box of condoms I was shocked but my husband was happy for some stupid reason I just fell like it's not his age to do this and he needs to focus on school I spoke to him but he said mom all the cool kids are doing it at school so why shouldn't I. I mean my husband is fine with it but my mom isn't saying he is going Down a bad path. I just don't know what to do?

I've been with my fiance for 11 years. We moved in with his parents to afford a huge wedding. Even though ive known them for so long and grew up around his family, I still feel very uncomfortable when I am there. I feel uncomfortable walking into the house and taking a shower, and so on. He is going out of town for a week and working some weekends, so I feel even more awkward and uncomfortable when he is not around. I'm not sure what to do about it. Is it normal that I am this uncomfortable?? What can I do? Thank you!!!! Also I'm very grateful but still so uncomfortable....

She abused me for the first 9 yrs of my life, I still have warm memories of her, but she had anger issues, and would beat me, I have now lived with my beloved Aunt and Uncle (adopted parents) for about 7 yrs, but without a single sight of my mom, my mom she signed over guardianship to them in one night, and approved for them to adopt me, does she even love me?

Ok so I'm in my late 20s. My country is going through one of the worst housing crises in its history and our family home has a lot of land surrounding it for such a high density expensive area, enough to build more houses on it and have space left. It was always the plan of myself and my brothers to build homes on this (with the blessing dad) not necessarily to live there but to get our foot onto a property ladder we otherwise would never be able to afford especially in our zip code. The problem is I'm in medical school due to finish up soon so I'm currently in no position to build, or get a loan my youngest brother is still in college but my middle brother has been making noises about getting loans and building, the only problem is he views the property as "his" and plans to build some McMansion which would take up almost all of the suitable space rather than more modest terraced homes which is what my father, myself and younger brother planned. We ve fought about it lately, I point out that he has no more right to the space than us and he cant steamroll us like this, he however seems indignant and it appears he was never on the same page as us. My dad prefers not to get involved. I know my brother, if I don't block him he'll push ahead and it will be too late to do anything so basically I'm the one who is causing problems and picking fights and my father is disappointed I'm acting "immature". Am I in the wrong or is my brother really being incredibly oblivious and selfish ** just for background as it sounds like we're all being pretty presumptuous our mom passed away unexpectedly a couple of years ago which motivated my dad to get his affairs in order; it's a three-way split (and actually the middle brother is being left a lot of valuable timber plantations because me and my younger brother agreed that since we don't work in the field they'd be of more value to him). @bobbyjim: It's not an ideal situation but the only other option seeing as we all have careers and our own lives to worry about would be to move away, FAR away from our ageing, infirm, widowed father as we, and I can't stress this enough CANNOT AFFORD TO LIVE IN THE CITY, let alone the area (and I personally don't want to be paying a mortgage well into my 70s)

They always had small fights and then my mom slept in my room and I thought she just fell asleep, but in the morning she kept shouting at my dad and my grandma's telling my dad for her to apologize and then my mom left to go to my grandma's house and then the next day which is today she came when my dad was at work and she grabbed her stuff and my grandma left stuff here so she got them and went back, she was also very mad and when i asked where she's going she said "None of your business", honestly I'm pretty young (13) and I'm really scared.

She's young, mid 20s and im only 4-5 years younger, her sister she's always with us even younger than me I know it's her sister I love them, but whenever her and my brother comeover my family's house which isn't very often she always so nice says comeover whenever you want, then when i text her to go she's always says she's at her family's house or doing something with her sister and cousins, which is cool I like to hangout with them but it's like whenever me and her hangout she has to bring them along which again is ok i like them, but my point is she never thinks to ask me to hangout with them when they do things they'll go out fun places or just hangout together and she's never thinks about me when i always think to ask her, she knows I have no siblings my age i have no sisters she could of been the closest thing to a sister but lately i feel left out & uninvited sure i have friends I love and see but it hurts to know having a sister in law that i thought i could lean on and consider a sister maybe she doesn't feel the same, what are your thoughts?

She's young, mid 20s and im only 4-5 years younger, her sister she's always with us even younger than me I know it's her sister I love them, but whenever her and my brother comeover my family's house which isn't very often she always so nice says comeover whenever you want, then when i text her to go she's always says she's at her family's house or doing something with her sister and cousins, which is cool I like to hangout with them but it's like whenever me and her hangout she has to bring them along which again is ok i like them, but my point is she never thinks to ask me to hangout with them when they do things they'll go out fun places or just hangout together and she's never thinks about me when i always think to ask her, she knows I have no siblings my age i have no sisters she could of been the closest thing to a sister but lately i feel left out & uninvited sure i have friends I love and see but it hurts to know having a sister in law that i thought i could lean on and consider a sister maybe she doesn't feel the same, what are your thoughts?

I'm 19 and I have always had a really bad relationship with my father, it never bothered me when I was little until I about 14 when I suddenly wanted to be close to him. I was jealous of kids I saw out with their dad. He has always been cold Sometimes I really wonder if he has any feeling for me at all. My parents separated when I was 14 and then got back together I thought if I lost a lot of weight I'd get his attention ,it didn't work and I ended up with bullimia I remember going shopping one day and thinking if looked nicer maybe dad would like me more. Sometimes I just start a fight with him because fighting with him is better than nothing. I sound crazy I know , But I don't understand why I still care after all I'm an adult now why do I still want his attention and approval so much ?????

yesterday my parents told us that they are gonna come at 12:30AMthey came from Germany I went and I kept waiting for them outside but they didn't come, I entered the house again and then got out and started waiting for them again with my siblings but they didn't come so I thought they will be late, after I went back to home again I saw red light of the car outside and I told them they came, but in my stupid mind I had the idea that we all hide and then after they come and see no one we suddenly surprise them that we are here.But we were late and this turned into a problem.My parents are so angry and they don't want to talk to me, and my father wanted to slap me.They thought I was jealous that they travelled and took my 2 little sisters with them so I decided to hide with my other siblings but it wasn't like that! I decided to make surprise but I don't know what kind of stupid surprise if this now! I regret it so badly. Last time when they cameback i've made them cake for surprise but they ignored me and my father wanted me to go away and my mother started shouting at me in the same day which made me sad. That's why I didn't do this, this time. I can't apologize to her because she doesn't want to listen to me she always kicks me out of the room whenever she sees my face.Oh right and yesterday when she told me why are you hiding, I lied because I knew she won't believe me if I told her this which I think I made everything worse. I always make mistakes without meaning it.

Okay, so I'm a 13 year old girl living with my dad, Mom, grandma, brother, and cousin. So lately, I've been getting mad at her due to her telling me to do other chores in the house such as vacuum, clean the mirrors, wash the dishes, fold the laundry, do the laundry, etc. Meanwhile my cousin and older brother by 3 years do nothing and still tell me not to complain. I'm only 13, and it's stressing me out so much since I also have to juggle schoolwork. I usually take out this stress I have in anger at other people. In fact, I'm never appreciated. I do all this work for what? Not even a simple thank you or a kind gesture. My older brother and cousin never had to do this when they were 13, so why should I have to do it? My mom and grandma claim "it's because you're a girl." That doesn't mean I should have to do more work in the house, and seems pretty unfair to me. I know people will be telling me "you should be thankful you have a mom!!!" but the thing is I don't want all this stress, I'm only 13 and just want to enjoy my childhood before I'm the one stuck doing everything by myself. I try to negotiate with her to give me less chores, but it never works and always ends up with her and I screaming at each other. I can't ignore her since we live in a small house or leave the house because well I'm 13. Can anyone help?

Me and my daughter never got along my wife told me I had to go to her baby shower.But I refuse my daughter has treated me bad during her teen years and always said I didn't understand her and she would always say she hated me during young adult years she couldn't go to collage due to how poor she did in high school so she always go out and party and beg me for money. Now she is having a baby and doesn't know who the father is. I have 4 other kids who love and respect. So why should I go to her baby shower

She just had surgery on her stomach and was supposed to be on bedrest for 1-2 weeks. I'm 15. I woke up at 5 am today to do laundry because we were out of tons of clothes. I vacuumed, took a shower and went to school. My mom had a horrible job so i started working at 14, i work 2 hours after school. After that, i came home, cooked me and her dinner. I had tons of school work that i'm behind in so i sat down to do some of that in my room. I got up and did some dishes but now she's in there doing two plates i didnt wash, yelling about dust, telling me i don't help her, threatening to get rid of her dog (would actually be for the best she's a **** owner.) I told her to go lay down but she has "too much to clean." I just cleaned a lot and she doesn't appreciate it, i even offered to finish the two dishes. She's still in there washing TWO dishes making it a huge deal. It's like she tries to make me feel bad and it's really annoying because there's nothing i can do. Dusting shouldn't come before my school work. What do i do?!?

I think that I'm a good and interesting person, I've a lot of positive traits and a lot to offer others...but the problem is that no one seems to want to get to know me, be it potential partners or just trying to make new friends. I guess I must appear boring as my life is pretty boring right now, I'm between work (yes, I'm working in that), I've no friends where I live now, and I'm just so focused in getting by I've sort of lost myself a little bit. I tend to be guarded, and it's not been helped by recent dating history, I'm not sure what to o about that or how to be more social with people to get to know each other.

Anyone have good ideas for kids to do at home. Like a little schedule to do that my brother and niece and I can do while our parents are away for the day tomorrow? They are 8 years old. Any suggestions?

I'm 20 (girl) and live with my mom because I don't have enough money yet to live on my own I go to college and my mom has anger issues and she always stays angry with me. Sometimes when she's physically abusing me makes it sexual to make a bigger impact on me and I feel both disgusted and extremely angry. I might kill her. What do I do about it? By the way she is fat and I'm skinny. She's not a lesbian she just does it to degrade me. It feels so horrible when your own mother does that she is the worst mother on earth I hope she rots in hell I want to see her suffer. I swear I will disable her, in a cruel way, not kill her. I will abuse her and she won't be able to say anything or complain. I want to see her suffer and I want to embarrass her, humiliate her. I want to break her jaw her teeth and dig out her eyes.

My mom rented the basement for us to live in it . Then her brother came with the great idea to put the House under my mother name as the owner. Since he has always sell drugs all his life and can't use his name for nothing. After we have moved into the basement her two brothers have moved in with us taking control of the entire apartment. Is like is their apartment and they doing us a favor by letting us stay in the apartment. They harassed me every day and bully me every single day for not having a job at the moment making my life a living hell. I'm actively searching going on interviews but I'm not getting hired. They have never worked a day of their lives only selling drugs since coming from their country moving into the united states. The one who bullies me the most drinks alcohol all day long and fixes things around the house he consider that a job. My mom got cancer last year and he blames me for my mom getting cancer. Keeps telling me I'm bad with my mom and abuse. Mind you I go everywhere with my mom we always together. He provokes me everyday to fight with him so my mom can kick me out the house.

Exhibit a Me: got the lead of a play, my mom, dad, and grandad go. Afterwards they say good job, drop my grand dad off and we go home. ask for Starbucks, they say tomorrow but we couldn't tomorrow bc had the show again and was going somewhere afterwards Sister: has one line in two hour play that whole family goes to see, is taken out to dinner, get flowers, photos with the cast and crew, goes to get ice cream 30 mom away These aren't the only examples, things like this KEEP HAPPENING!!! Please don't say anything like, just talk to ur parents or sister bc no, be realistic there's no way I'm doing that

Most of her friends are watching this, and I even see younger kids seeing it. My daughter is starting to think that she's too old for parental controls. I don't think she's been exposed to lots of suicide-related things and violence. I'm sure that she knows all about the media and such. After seeing it myself, it is very explicit. There's been articles that say teens shouldn't be seeing it (especially under 16's). She's been begging me for a while now.

I am 16 years old and I live in Virginia with my dad and step mom. I previously lived with my mother who lives in North Carolina until last summer when I realized I was extremely unhappy living with her. See, she's an alcoholic and she's can be very verbally abusive but it never seems enough to get her into trouble. I decided to switch schools and move in with my dad. I'm a junior at my school here in Virginia and I've only lived with my dad for a few months. My mom demands that I go down to NC (4 hour drive) every single break and every single 3 or 4 day weekend. Quite frankly, I don't want to visit her. I need to focus on school work and my education. I take AP classes and I don't have the time to go down there. She has 6 kids of her own, a very small house, and is constantly broke. The easy solution would be to ask her to let me wait until I graduate high school to visit her on my own but she is not someone to reason with. I've asked her and told her that I simply don't want to see her. This leads to her lashing out, getting very angry, and making it very difficult for my dad. She hasn't extremely bad anger issues and cannot be reasoned with. Is there any possible way that I can simply choose which parent I can live with? I am two years from being an adult. I suppose I don't understand how court works with this but is there any way to get out of having to go down to see her every single break?

I'm a 20 year old male. Ever since my parent's divorced, my mother & I have really not gotten along well at all. I dropped by my childhood home to grab some things that I had left there & things escalated between me and my mom pretty quickly. Last month I had surgery on part of my abdomen and my mother got fed up with me tonight and shoved me right where my scar is- that caused me a great deal of pain (she's a pretty strong woman for her age). I told her that she had hurt me & I tried to be the bigger person and just walk out the front door but then she threw some sort of object at me (I didn't really pay attention to what it was). I started seeing red and when she lunged at me again I slapped her across the face with the back of my hand...hard. I stormed out of the house and started driving and bawling my eyes out. I feel just awful about it because, regardless of how much we disagree, she is still my mother and I didn't mean yo hurt her. I was just protecting myself because I wasn't about to let her have her way with me & walk all over me. Basically, my question is: what do you guys think? Was I acting in self defense, or was I completely wrong to do what I did? I feel absolutely terrible about it. Thanks you guys.

So, my mom has this boyfriend who she has been dating for 9 years. I used to like him, but the past 6 years he is been so disrespectful and yells at me all the time. When my mom isn't nearby, he would yell at me and tell me to do this and do that and when she walks in he'll say that I wanted to do it if she asks. And when she is there, he is like can u plz do that or can u plz do this. And sometimes he'll be rude when she s right there and when I am rude back, she yells at ME! Not him, me. Sometimes she will yell at him, but most the time she is always taking his side! I just wish he would stop and that she would just dump him already. And the thing is, she did. Then she asked me and my brother is we wanted him back and we both said no but he still came back. Like what was the point to asking??

Look, I really need some advice and help from you guys on this as this problem has really embarrassed me to my family because they found out about all of this. Well, I have a serious thing for my first cousin, and I think she is sooo beautiful but I have a problem with borrowing her personal clothing like socks and shoes and others. I do this because im sexually attracted to her and at one point we both were to one another but she moved on and i cant seem to. I seriously need help guys this isnt' a joke. I dont want to be embarrassed any more or want my family thinking that im weird. please and thank you.

My sister is only two years old and she s been showing sexual behavior. Just this afteenoon she straddled my lap and kissed me, like full on kissing. I pushed her off immediately and asked her what she was doing. She just stared at me. Then I remembered that my aunt had taken care of her yesterday and she spent the day with my cousin. He s only 5 but he s very perverted. One time I was in my room alone and he came in and closed the door. I didn t take it for nothing because he s just a little boy, but he straddled me and started humping me. I pushed him off too. He s also kissed me and grabbed my boobs. I ve talked with his older sisters and another one of my cousins and she s dealt with the same. His sister also told me my aunt once left him and my sister alone in the bathroom while she left to get something and they found him taking my sister s clothes off. I m just wondering if he could be the one touching my sister inappropriately? I was also molested when I was five by my cousin who was 18 at the time. I don t want my sister going through what I did with going to counselors and not talking to most of my family anymore. What can I do?

I need your help on this. My brother had a wedding and I couldn't make it due to my finances. I live check by check and purchasing a ticket along with tuxedos was expensive. Now when I try to reach out to him, he doesn't answer his phone or text. I still love him as a brother and would forgive him if the shoe was on the other foot. Am I in the wrong?

I live with my dad, mom, and older brother. I am 25 years old and I am living at home at the moment. I am working two seasonal jobs right now and my younger half brother (who is a teenager) splits time between here and his dad's place. My mom and his father have split custody of him. His dad barely pays any support for him. My mom always goes to me (her daughter) to buy some meals for my younger brother because she doesn't work and doesn't want to work a full-time job. I only buy some meals for him. Recently, I got paid and she told me to save some money for my brother because he does't like to eat the food here at the house. I feel a little resentful about this and I cannot move because I am not making not much money at the moment. I feel like I am kind of supporting him in a way even though she does sometimes make meals at home. Am I feeling bad for no reason?

Okay, so i love pranking people and yesterday i opened a box of cereal on both sides and i also opened the bag on both sides and today when my mom was going to get cereal for breakfast, the cereal all fell out. I thought it would be so funny but now she is mad at me. She found out it was me who did it and now she took my phone away, she won't let me play football anymore, and she took my skateboard away. Right now i am using my old ipod touch and it sucks!!! Do you think this is fair? I think she is taking this too seriously!!! What do you think?

He's disappointed me one too many times...

I have been dating my sisters beautiful neighbor Emma for a few months now/ Emma is single and has Lisa who is her eight year old daughter (the Father was never in the picture) Lisa looks just like Mommy and is full of energy. I know this is an odd concern I have. A few days ago I stopped by her place and I am afraid things have or will change between the three of us. I need ADVICE AND HELP! Soon before I arrived. Lisa had misbehaved which rsulted in her getting a spanking Emma sitting in a chair with Lisa across her lap. Lisa had on a short dress which Mom had lifted up past her waist. It was awkward seeing Lisa's sheer white underpants. Lisa giggle when I came in the house and Emma told her that "Jimmy I am sure has seen a panty before" Emma then continued giving Lisa a spanking after I went in the kitchen to put the groceries away. She was lightly paddling her instead of really putting her back into spanking the child. Afterwards Emma told me that she fully lifts up the child's dress so it is more of a panty spanking. I am naive and just said it seems okay. I am worried about seeing Lisa being punished or how she is punished will effect our relationship??

For example: laptop. I bought it with money I earned from MY job.

Hi! So, this is a long story but I'm going to try to make it short and sweet. My mom and dad are sweet and loving people and I know all they want is the best for me but I'm struggling so badly with this... My mom (in particular) is very adamant about moving back to Alabama. Im in cali for college and I'm a senior about to graduate. I want to be a screenwriter and I know that most likely being in Cali is the only way to make that happen. I'll be 24 when I graduate next year, I have money saved up. She's completely against the idea of me living with roommates, she said it will break her and my dad's heart. She said that she wants me to move back to the south because they will "not be around forever" and that I should know I'm "making the decision to live away from my parents." The main reason behind her complaints is that she feels that since I don't have family here or a husband (even though I have wonderful friends) she feels that I have no one to call and that I'm all alone. Every time I try to tell her I love her and my family, but being here is my opportunity to find a good job at something I enjoy, and that I have friends if something went wrong-- she FREAKS out. She gets hysteric and she'll literally tell me "listen to me for once in your life, like you've never done before." Keep in mind, I'm paying for my bills, college, everything. She misses me and she's trying to justify it I guess, but what do I do?? She acts like I'm a ******* idiot? She's also very Republican--- not sure if that has anything to do with her saying she hates California? lol. She's always making comments. I mean, I don't know what to do about this. She's literally giving me an ultimatum: move back to the south and do work that i hate there OR do work that I want out here and her guilt trip me for eternity

lately my mom always ignores me to be on her phone. it bothers me especially because if i'm on my phone when she's not, she'll make a comment about how young people are obsessed with technology. but i make it a point of mine to put away my phone if somebody is talking to me and be polite and respectful. whereas with my mom, she gets annoyed if i don't have a specific thing that needs her attention and will say things like "i've been busy all day don't i get a break?!" and even goes as far as to shush my dad and i if we are talking too loud while she's watching a video or something. i've tried saying that she spends too much time on it but she just gets defensive. it hurts my feelings because it makes me feel like i'm a chore for her to talk to. i don't know how to get her to ease up, especially since i'm the child so i can't really take it away from her or something. what should i do, if anything?

When i was only 3 my father disappeared after playing "hide and go seek" i am stil yet to find him after 11 years. I think about my father almost everyday i can still see the image of him... Every night when i go to bed i think about my dad sneaking through my window taking me from my asshole mother and kidnapping me. What i can remeber my dad was a big muscular guy who loved a good time, i think i could give my father a good time if he ever came back. I want him to viciously grab me out of bed and carry me by my neck and throw me into the trunk of his car when we arrive to the motel i want him to throw me into the bed and grab my pony tail and repeatedly slap my stupid slut face. I want him to bite my neck while i scream in vain, i want him to force me to suck his big meaty cock. I also want my daddy to **** my tight virgin *** and my my asshole pour with blood and ***. Are these fantasizes wierd to you? Btw im a boy.

My daughter,10,keeps visiting the grave of a Marine,died in Iraq in 2004 who was friend of my wife's. In 2004 I was 19 and so was my wife. The Marine was a guy who my wife was friend's with. They were best friends and actually pretty close. First time my daughter asked me to take her there I went with her and I told her that this is the price for our freedom as americans,that we should thank men and women serving but I thought that was it. Now she keeps going there sometimes and I dont' know what to think. I get having respect for the fallen but why would she go there? Plus, I don't think it's healthy for a 10 yrs old to spend that much time at the cemetary. I told my wife about it but she told me to let her go. Don't really know what to do. Plus I literally can see her from the window when she goes at the cemetary so there's no harm in that but still..

My mom told me she cant get anything for my birthday also no cake she said she cant afford it im crying and is wrong that im mad at mom i wanted a 2ds and a few shirts i dont have many clothes

I finished college two years ago. I really wanted to do some travelling afterwards but ended up working full time straight after college ended. I do go on holidays with my parents every 3-4 months at least once. I also just bought a new jeep. In the mean time some of the people where I work are really not that nice. I have been through a lot of politics with one individual and I haven't been happy there of recent. My father said he will take care of my jeep when I'm away. I have done my interview to be a resort rep and got the call today to say I have been successful and am due to start in May 2018 in Bulgaria and if my performance is good, I can stay with the company and they will send me to Cape Verde for the Winter months which is great. I would love to give this a go. I'm sure I will love it. My mum will be sad to see me go but it will be for the good of me.