Okay, so I have Asperger's Syndrome and I really like physical comfort, but due to sensory issues I also don't. I find it uncomfortable yet so soothing at the same time. If someone tries to rub my back or something I end up shooing them away despite enjoying the comfort and I hate it. I hate not being able to handle that. So I guess what i'm asking is how the hell do I ask for physical comfort without coming off as a "pervert" or "retard" I'm 15 if this makes a difference at all. I go to public school and my mom is never home so I can't go to her for comfort.

Here is the link to the whole story, I ran out of characters on here https://alwayssannoyedd.tumblr.com/post/167530151500/mom-keeps-trying-to-accuse-me-of-seeing-her-ex So my mom was talking to this guy for awhile and they broke things off. After and throughout that time she has accused me several times and is still trying to accuse me of trying to mess around with him. The first time she accused me of being inappropriate when he was around because I wore my pajama shorts. mind you the times he would show up and see my mom was around 10pm and later. (When I would be getting ready for bed) And also some of the shorts I was wearing were ones she bought and suddenly she stated saying that they were "Too short"…When he would come around I would stay in my room unless I needed to come down to get something from the kitchen, take my dog to the bathroom, or use the bathroom myself. One time I didnt know she was coming inside with him and was bringing him upstairs (She accused me of knowing) I was going down stairs to get my food. Later on she revealed that he had "checked me out" and he said that I was being inappropriate by wearing shorts while my mom had company. No, I didn't know. And read the whole story before commenting. I want real answers on why people think she is being the way she is.

She has been going through this phase for about a year and I wasn't really worried. I know all teens go through phases like this but yesterday I came home to find her "casting a love spell on our cat" and when I asked her what she was doing she said "casting a love spell because I am a witch" I know you might be tempted to laugh but she is 16 and I am really worried about her. She is a smart, pretty, athletic girl and she should be hanging out with her friends and talking about boys, not playing witches. Please tell me how I respond to this because I just don't know.

i'm bored what shall i do

I'm very skinny and get told nothing but how tiny I am. Overall I have "no butt"..but the other day as I was bending over my crush was also bending over while I was turned around to look at my butt..my crush also likes me..why would he do that when I have no curves? Of course when I turned around he jumped up

He is my crush never kissed him in real life.

I DO NOT HAVE ONE.. I AM JUST CURIOUS.

I'm giving my boyfriend a box filled with "open when" envelopes but I need some more ideas. We don t live in the same city so we don t get to see each other that much.

I have waited several hours today and yet you still are having the nerve to help other people get their power pack before I get mine. Hurry the **** up. a$$h0l3s before I do something drastic and get really mad and start taking it out on you and others. thanks to you for not hurrying the hell up and restoring my power I now have to throw food away because of you a$$h0l3s. sense you clearly care about nobody but yourselves and/or the richer areas I will find out where you are and start throwing rocks and other projectiles at your vehicles. well that and I will talk to who I need to about switching electric companies. why you ask? because I live in Shoreline Washington and you are as far as I am concerned "not even trying". this is not my home PC btw so do not even thing you can trace this. I am above the law. and sick of your crap you are lucky I am almost out of free time and due to work after today I do not have the day off until Friday so you are getting off light... but then I will be able to enact my revenge or at least some small portion of it on the town I live in and show them all "what's up". Hurry the Hell UP OR ELSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! oh and king county weathermen and women and people you are not off the hook either You have until anywhere from 9pm to 11:30pm before I at the least go on a rampage across the neighborhood. if my demands for power restoration are not met

it's not like it is creepy. But what would u think if u found out a classmate did this? No he's not married ;)

My teammate will call out other players on the team but when he makes a mistake he is quite. Just today today he claimed I don t pass enough which is funny because most of the game I was giving through balls and crosses into the box but whatever. He said I don t trust him but I pass to everyone that is open to score but he will get mad if I don t pass to him first. Yet when I am making a run he will shoot from distance and not play me but I say nothing. Teammates like this are very frustrating to deal with and I was about to confront him on this but since we made it to the finals I just let it go. But next time I plan on putting my foot down if he trys this BS

Verán, durante toda mi vida no me tomé el tiempo de explorar que me gustaba realmente, osea muchas veces no hice cosas que me interesaban hacer ya sea por miedo, porque pensaba que no lo haría tan bien como otros porque me comparaba, etc. En fin lo que paso después fue que a los 14 me comencé a ver a otras personas (ejemplo: roberto tiene el futbol, destaa en eso, alonso canta, rodrigo actua) por eso (y otros factores) entré a las artes marciales. Años después a los 16 no sabía que carrera elegir, y me di cuenta que se debía en gran parte porque no sabía que me gustaba, porque no me había tomado el tiempo de conocerme y de autodescubrirme. Actualmente tengo 17 años y estoy en la universidad estudiando Marketing, pero algo que quiero hacer es explorarme a mí mismo, tengo mucha energía y hay muchas (y cuando digo muchas, son muchas) cosas que no he hecho y que quiero intentar, mi cuerpo y mi mente me lo piden. Tengo interés en muchas cosas (acedemícas, artísticas y deportivas) y quien sabe, quizás puedo complementarlo con mi carrera, en el futuro trabajar en diferentes ámbitos, o tal vez descubra mi verdadera pasión, si es que hay algo en mí que no había descubierto (no es que no me guste mi carrera, sí me gusta). Y bueno estoy planeando estas vacaciones ir explorando algunas de esas cosas, obvio que lo pienso hacer poco a poco y a largo plazo, pero a veces tengo un pensamiento de "ya para que, ya no estás en edad" pero bueno por eso quisiera saber sus opiniones. Gracias :)

Tryouts were today and yesterday. My friend Mehwish and I had no experience (we're new and we wanted just to play for fun) but here in the US, it's so competitive. These girls have been playing for so long. I didn't care if I was to get in or not - I was having fun on the 1st day of tryouts. But 2nd day (today) we actually had games. Here are some things our 2 other "friends" said to us during them: - (on me saying I preferred defense) "God If you are going to play defense, actually be good at it" - "Do you need help" (condescending tone) - "TRY HARDER" (i was trying :( ) - "Do you even know how to play" - "No not like that!" mehwish cried at the end of tryouts (when we were in private) Why were they so mean? The coach said it didn't matter if we won or lost, he was trying just to see us play!

I'm so deeply sad and insecure about myself. Was my boyfriend of 3 years right about how I would not meet a man if I stay a virgin? I am not of a religious background. It is my choice and he knew coming into the relationship. He lied and said he was a virgin which I have no problem with but he should've told me the truth. He can leave without asking if I am willing to allow him to go have sex and come back to me later in life. What a dumb question. I feel so depressed We are 25 and planned on getting married. He told me to go home and think about whether I'm willing to be with him still because he says he will stay but not hug me or kiss me as much because it hurts him. He can leave but how can I trust another man who says he respects my values. What if he throws me away too

(we) generally get along.(but i don't like to tell her everything like if i'm talking to a guy cause everything i tell her, she uses it against me)ex:"you're late to work because of so & so's fault"UN TRUE.i'm 20(still living at home, trying to get a dorm ASAP)this whole summer i was looking for a job because money is always tight&she's a big saver&doesn't believe in spending much money on food/nails(i guess extra things)so i finally got one.i live under her roof & i'm aware of her rules but i don't even go out anymore, all i do is clean the house,go to work,school(I'VE CHANGED)she tells me not to touch or move anything but i tell her i can't live in a dirty/messy house(ocd)WE ALWAYS ARGUE. we come home tired but i still try to clean the house/EVERYONE'S laundry. i'm completely unappreciated&like the maid. that's not just my job,then once we start arguing, she starts bringing up my past(cause i was in bad relationships)but im over that now&she won't move on or grow up about it.she will NEVER lose an argument & says i should be more mature, but by that she means do something w my life. every day i go to work/school i go to school after that & then i clean HER house. so what do i do to resolve the problem other than move out(trust me i'm trying to move out asap)but meanwhile i'm still here. & she always says"i'm always gonna bring your past up." like i know i messed up,but i'm not perfect. but i apologized & am in a better place now. ANY ADVICE FOR A STUBBORN MOM?

By all mean it wasn't intentional! I got two timed by a guy a few years back and this girl has copied me on everything from looks to actions. She's now out there pretending to be someone she isn't over some dumb guy. I kind of feel as if I ****** up someone's brain.

Last year I went through some emotional problems and wanted some space. When he asked me out I told him I couldn't go with him even though I wanted to. He hasn't spoken to me because he feels I bailed on him and he's been on my mind since then. What can I do

This girl in my class keeps on saying slick comments to me. I thought she was joking at first but today she said I was slow and giggled. She didn't say much then but later tries to repeat questions teachers ask me as if I couldn't understand her. I've fought at least 8 times before and know how to fight, I just wouldn't want to fight her if it wasn't worth it. So should I fight her to tommorow or not? I'm a girl too btw.

I'm in high school, and there's a guy who I have a lot of classes with and he's a complete jerk to me without any reason. I've worked on a couple of projects with him, and he's really nice and funny sometimes. When we were alone once we were talking about test grades and he told me how smart I was and how cool it was that I'd traveled. We've actually had a few conversations where he acts like a human being. But then he's a total and complete jerk. One of his friends, Cory, likes me, and I heard him tell Cory "dude, she's not even worth it." And he kind of looked at me as he said it and caught my eye like he wanted me to hear. Another time, I arrived late to class and had to sit with his friends because all of the other seats were taken. He shows up and starts to sit away from his friends, and when they say 'what are you doing? come sit with us." he responds, "Oh, I just saw her (me) and assumed we weren't sitting there then." A couple of times in class I've commented on the lecture, and he literally rolls his eyes where he knows I can see him. I asked him a question one time because he was the only one who knew the answer, and he got super annoyed and nodded an answer because he couldn't talk to me. I happened to be standing by him at an awards ceremony, and as soon as he saw me he literally walked away. I'm genuinely confused by this behavior as I've never really talked to him and he's so hostile to me. And he's not like that with everyone- he's completely charming with most

I've recently gotten into a new relationship with a boy I've known for a few months. We get along really well, and I like him a lot, but I feel embarrassed. We're both in high school and he is extremely smart, and is in a math class two levels higher than me. I feel dumb when he talks about it, and still haven't told him, and I feel like he'll judge me if I tell him, especially since we go to a school where people have very high standards. Advice???

I was at a restaurant waiting to be seated when my sister's ex husband Sam walked in. He saw me and came over and give me a hug. We had a brief conversation and he asked me to join him for dinner as his guest. He asked how long it would be before we could be seated and they told him 45 minutes to an hour. He suggested we go someplace where we could be seated sooner. We went across the street to Ruth Chris steak house restaurant. We were seated immediately. When I saw the menu I knew why there was not a wait to be seated. The CHEAPEST item on the menu was $50. Sam saw my discomfort and said ignore the price. Order what you want and I did. It was the BEST meal I ever had in my life. I thought it might be awkward having dinner with my sister's ex husband but it wasn't. We had a great meal, great conversation, and a lot of fun. I really enjoyed it. As we were leaving it just slipped out of my mouth. I said this was a lot of fun, can we do it again some time. He said call me any time. When I got home, Oh My God, I realized what I had done. I had asked him for a date sometime in the future. What was I thinking? Should I tell my sister and ask her if she is OK with it. If not, should I forget the whole thing. She doesn't tell me who she dates so should I tell her who I date. As you can see I am REALLY CONFUSED about what I should do. Please advice me. Thanks.