I know for a fact her green card expired last year, she keeps throwing frijoles at me during lunch and then she told me "lo siento" i think shes putting a mexican curse on me, also the other day she called me a "gringa". i feel unsafe knowing her dad is part of a gang called EmmeEsseTrese.

and they changed the subject.. does that mean that they don't trust me??

My mom doesn't really let me hang out with my friends, she always tells me "they're not your friends" and how they'll eventually leave and Idk if I should just ignore that ah. She has been telling me for almost all my life. Sometimes I feel like the people I hang out are my friends but then not... Anyway, my mom always complained which annoys me because she makes it into a big deal and I don't like that because it seems like I really care about the hangout like I just want to chill? eh

So I'm in g12 it's my last year so I'm in gym but I hardly go because gym is not my top priority getting my core classes done is but I still have to take gym because i know I need to go to class but I'm taking a lot of hard classes this year.I need the credits and I tell my best friend this all the time that gym is not my top priority because it's not mandatory to take it in grade 12 but every ******* time I don't go she gives me a lecture it's starting to make me mad because she's like why do you not go they never call your name when I actually went yesterday and they marked me her and I talked to one of the gym teachers cause he asked me I told him gym is really not my top priority I have a lot of harder classes this year he understood this but my best lectures me all the time and I find it hypocritical because she never went to her French class this year.

i've been thinking too much lately about something that happened about two weeks ago. and i've already talked to my friends about this but i feel as if i'm annoying them too much with my problems because i've mentioned it more than twice and i've stopped but i don't want them to feel like they need to help me feel better because i've already gotten advice from most of them but i still feel as if things could've gotten better. i lost a friendship that can't go back to the way things used to be

As I previously have discussed in prior questions, my social life isn't the very best. I seem to get people's numbers, and I'm always the one that has to text/call first. Once we get talking, we have long and deep conversations. But then they never talk to me again until I initiate it once more. Of course I understand that people have lives (and my one friend said it's not her job to make me happy), but I just wish it wasn't just a one way street. Sometimes I just wish they could put in the effort like I do. Every so often when I'm really lonely, I just go through all my contacts and send them a little "hey, how have you been?" to strike up conversations. Half the time resulting in just one person replying. You have no idea how much I would give to have someone to think of me out of the blue. Is that just too much to ask?

I'm curious to know, I signed up for a pen pal site a few months ago and I have received messages from about four or five people from Africa (the continent) and I think each person within the first three messages asked me how my family is, and I don't think anybody else from anywhere else has ever asked me that, and I find that pretty interesting. Any reasons why?

I was going to get a gift oriented around the Korean band Shinee but i'm not into them and i know nothing about them, i also know she has almost all of their albums. what do i get her?

I am a very needy person and i ended up falling in love with my best friend, though, we are from the same sex and he is surely not interested in me and i m kinda both jealous and proud of his success with girls, who despise me for my insecurance, and his handsomeness (it s a complex situation). I am depressed and anxious for years. My psychologist don t help at all, my best friend say that i m making myself a victim, my other friend can t do nothing but fail in trying to make me a sociable person and my parents can t know that i like both sexes.

Heyy, so i am having this hilarious issue with my best friends. First i am a 19 year old man and my two male friends are being jealous of eache others. One of them is my childood friend and i met the second at work. I love them equally but i can sense tension when we are together

My mother wants me to join some sort if clubs to do after school but I am stuck between two different ones. I have some friends who go to guides and also friends who go to air cadets, which one would you say would be better to join because I don't know which one is better??

A guy scratches the left side of his chest in the presence of a certain lady. The lady in responds to it by scratching the left side of her neck. What are they trying to hint to each other(if we were to guess).

I came to college with one of my good friends from high school, we'll name her Jane.So Jane met this girl (through me) and they joined a club (it was an asian club so I couldn't join really without it being awkward since I'm not asian). Anyways Jane was having a birthday dinner with friends from this club and my roommate (who was also part of this club) invited me because I was good friends with Jane and so I was totally up for it because I also wanted to meet new people. Later that night Jane texts me saying that I shouldn't go to the dinner since I'm not a part of the group and that we should hang out some other time. So I felt really hurt and I basically said that I was too busy to hang out with her that that I would tell my roommate I wasn't going to go to the dinner. I sorta dropped Jane after that. This happened 2 months ago and I haven't talked to her since. (this happened fresh into college, like maybe the 2nd week of school)

I was chatting with her today, joking around as usual being weird in the group chat with her and her online friend (who she kinda loves too) and she was upset that he has been ignoring her messages all day. Then I made a sim of her and sent her the picture and she said "Nice I guess. I won't be somebody after Friday though" Then she started getting really suicidal and talking about how both her parents hit her and she has nobody to tell, and I told her I could tell my mom or she could get help or something but she kept saying no and it doesn't matter and nobody cares about a dead corpse. She then got really upset and said that her online friend probably thinks shes a lunatic and stuff, and how he said he hates when people are suicidal. She told me that she's always depressed and kept saying how she needs to get help but she doesn't care enough. Now she said she has to go take a shower and she'll be back later if she still cares enough about her life. I am trying to be really kind and remind her about all the people like our friends who love her but she isn't listening. I don't know what do do!? We're 13 by the way. And she keeps telling me if I tell anyone she will kill herself for sure.

So this issue has been going on for some time and it's really pis❓❓❓❓ me off I just don't understand why my friend keeps making up excuses to meet up to do stuff like hang or not come up to my house, every time she asks me to hang out I always do or atleast I try my best to (if I'm free )but when I ask her it's always some lame excuses especially when I ask her to come to my house ( my house doesn't smell or is dirty ) I don't get it. I spend my time with her but she can't give me a hour or two of her time just to chill out Why ??

Lashing out your anger at them over how you feel about it or apologizing to them in hopes of getting them to stop giving you the silent treatment.

My friend circle ranges from 15 and up, people four years younger to people four years older.. someone called me a nonce which means someone convicted of sexual assult especially towards a child, which makes me wonder, is it creepy that a 19 year old is friends with someone 4 years younger? I wouldnt date someone 4 years younger tbh, my range in dating is 2 years younger to 3 years older.. it made me highly uncomfortable, only time I have friends 15 under are my little brothers and sisters friends

This girl tries to compete with me online about everything. I took a picture of my food at a Thai restaurant and ever since then she's been trying to compare food. I'm also 22 weeks pregnant and she tries to pass off her little brother as her kid. 😂 She's absolutely insane but I can't really help but laugh and make her look dumb.

He was only of my favorite guy friends, super cool. We'd always laugh and joke around at work, and he'd usually start the conversation. Then, it began happening less and less. He didn't talk to me as much, until finally, he stopped talking to me totally. I try talking to him, but all he says back is a couple works. The last time I worked with him, he just looked angry and didn't initiate any conversation at all. He didn't seem to like when I tried to start it either. I'm very confused and very hurt. I admire him a lot, he's a great person and a great friend. Why is he being so cold?

A bunch of people are falsely accusing me of doing things I didn't do, like things that could get me expelled. I know for a fact I didn't do these things, but I am losing friends over it and the group of people told the office, too, but I haven't heard anything from the office. Any advice on how to stop this? Thank you.

and they changed the subject.. does that mean that they don't trust me??

My friend wants a ride that's around 1 hr 35 minutes away. I'm not staying with her and driving right back. She offered to give gas money but I already know she's only expecting to give me for the way there. Is it wrong to ask she give me some for the way back too? She'll be dropped off but I wouldn't even have to be driving back because I have no reason to be there in the first place. Also I'm going to be spending at least three hours driving, maybe more given the Thanksgiving traffic. What should I do?

I saw a girl that I was interested in and I wanted to be friends with her but Im a shy girl so I sent one of my friends to go talk to her for me and she yelled in our face SHE WAS LOUD AND PEOPLE WERE STOPPING AND STARING I was going to fight her but she walked away so I got mad and went down stairs and I scratched her picture ( my school has pictures of students posted around the building) then she saw that her face was scratched off and snitched on me (this all happened during lunch). After lunch I got called down to the principals office from my math class and I went downstairs and they told me that I have five days of ISS (I also have to attend school during the thanksgiving break and do work) and I tried to explain to them why I scratched her face off I told them that i tried to be nice to this girl but she decided to be all rude about it they did tell her that she should be more nice but she didn t get a consequence for what she did even though she deserved it ( they were talking about how her feelings were hurt and they even said that she could be going through a difficult time!!! But there s no excuse for that I don t care about your feelings or if you're dying you still need to respect me no matter what) I tried to convince them to lift the punishment but they didn't they made me apologize to her even though she was the one that needed to apologize to me she deserved to have her ugly disgusting face scratched off she looks better that ways. I want to fight her now.

I have a really bad past in my old school and when I moved to a new school and actually got a life, people who were from my old school began telling other people about my past and it reached the popular guy in my class. What should I do?

Ever since I was young, I was always interested in writing letters. I used to write a letter, and throw it in my older sisters room, asking if she wanted to be my pen pal. Obviously that wasn t good enough... As a child, I find it hard to find a safe, and young pen pal, the same age as me. All I can find is soldiers, and adults, and while talking to a soldier would be fun, I m looking to talk to someone my age. We have looked online, and we can t find anyone. I prefer to talk to someone through letter, and someone far away, or at least out of my country (America). Any ideas?

It's currently 2am and I'm having those 2am thoughts lol I'm home schooled and I just turned 16 I have really bad anxiety and depression which also stops me from meeting new people I never leave the house because I don't have to. Today is my birthday & I was thinking back to how many friends I've lost that would wish me a happy birthday right on 12am and how my phone didn't go off. I guess I'm just really lonely and need advice on meeting new friends?

i want to stop associating with them, there's nothing good that came from all these years except for when we all felt like we were equaly nothing and worthless, but now that their lifes has gotten better they started to feel that they are above me and better than me, they started treating me like **** and would only include me in their plans when its convenient for them or when other people they call friends don't include them on theirs. i don't need friends, i was fine before them, but when i make a friendship with someone i commit to it, so i keep reaching out to them even when they treat me like ****, and i think they took me for granted thats why they continue doing it, and the more i keep quiet sucking in these feelings, i too started believing that i am indeed worthless. i know that i am not, but thats how things work, water a plant with water it will grow, water it with bleach and it will die, and now i just want to disappear like i don't exist at all. i have already taken down my social media account for over a year now, and when they actually finally call my phone, i respond and i hang out with them, enjoy their company again and think maybe they aren't that bad and then they disappear and i keep reaching out, they make plans, they tell me they will come to pick me up or call me or something and then they don't and then i start feeling like **** again.... its a cycle that i'm finally really over.

I'm a British-Irish student who is attending an international university in Japan. I finally mustered up enough courage to reveal to my best friend, a native, who is fluent in English that my boyfriend, who is one of the students, has been cheating on me, stealing from me and physically beating me. She then lifted my chin and then hugged me. Is this strange behavior? Or am I reading too much into it?

My ex gf and I broke up after a year and a half, but she didn't let me move on properly. She kept calling, wanting to hangout, have sex, showed up at my job and even tried to get back together. After a phone call where she wanted to come over and 'cuddle', I said no. A few months later, I got in touch with her, assuming we were friends, and learned that she was moving, she was very venomous and said all kinds of cruel things. She hurt me very badly. I finally confronted her about the times she used me as a spare while she played the field, it was a vicious call. She sent me a e-mail apologizing telling him that she still really cared about me a lot, how she was truly sorry for all of the things she told me, regretted it, and that she was going through stuff at the time. I called her back, she had just moved, she told me that she missed me, That she still felt a strong connection with me, and I think, that she thought of me as family. But she downplayed our past relationship (when we were a couple) attributing it to being 'young and naive' and that she liked some things about our relationship. She also told me how she was interested in hook ups with random people. But at the end of the phone call, I wished her good luck and happiness in life and told her goodbye. She told me that I could call whenever I wanted to talk, but I didn't respond to her offer, and just said 'bye.' After she told me bye, and she stood on the line until I hung up. And I never talked to her again. Even though she moved, I wonder if she was just going to use me as a spare/security blanket while she played the field again. Her past behavior exemplified this. Even though she said that the relationship (when we were officially a couple) because we were 'young and naive', yet she 'really cared a lot about me' and couldn't seem to let me go and feeling devastated when I finally said goodbye. Was she just trying to keep me on hold until she was done playing the field? On our final night together, during the period where she was being hateful, she came onto me sexually and I rejected her, and she told me 'if I was older, I probably would've stayed with you.' She even invited me to move with her. This was before the confrontation call, before the final phone call (a month or so before). You don't try to have sex with someone you feel is like family. So, I wonder if she was putting on a front during our last phone call.

And your only option for getting in touch is them P.s: And this is about a friendship, not an ex or lover or whatever

me and this guy have been friends for a few months. we always jokingly flirt with each other and stuff but it was mostly sarcastic or it didn't mean anything. recently he starting talking to someone and she's in my math class and she's super nice and there's not much wrong with her. But my friend came over the other day and we got drunk, but not insanely drunk, I started cuddling with him (which isn't abnormal for us) and I kinda forgot but he said something along the line of "if you're gonna do that then just kiss me" and I said "no lol" and then he started kissing me. We got into a super intense make out session and we agreed to never talk about it again. He texted me later and said that we probably both like each other a little bit but not enough to have a relationship and asked if I agreed and I said yes. the girl thinks he slept with someone because I heard her talking about it in math and she noticed a hickey on his neck... basically I'm very confused about what he wants and what I should do going forward and I need any type of advice or opinions I can get lol

The problem is that when I first moved to my current like town, she was my first friend and now weve been BFFs for almost 3 years. But last year she started becoming friends with this other girl thats a rlly bad influence and now is kind starting ti turn into her. She also sometimes like ditches me for her and on her birthday went out to lunch with that whole "group" (including the bad influence girl) without me even though she knew I wanted to celebrate her birthday with her too. She also like brags a lot in front of me like saying that for her birthday she is gettkng $2,000 earlings and the iphone X, a new apple watch, etc... even though i've clearly heard her parents say no. Im just stuck in wether to keep being friends with her cuz although she can be kinda annoying, it would be hard to forget her as a friend, and when I hang out with her I forget about everything she does.

I talk a lot more in my opinion. I talk so much I try to stop talking so people don't see me as annoying , but my friends and people I don't even know still tell me I'm quiet and I never talk and it makes me insecure and my self esteem go lower

While your standing, they come behind you and kick the back of your knee to watch you lose balance? If so, do you find it annoying or funny? thanks

My younger cousins enjoy calling me a loner and friend-less because of that. Does that make me a loner then?

So, I'm a student and I have friends. But I can't balance my schooling and social life. So, I want to get rid of all my friends. I don't want anyone to get in my way of my academic career nor my future career. The only problem is that I don't know how to distance myself and stay distanced. I have a daily schedule to meet up with my best friend every morning on my way to school, I have friends in classes, and I run into friends in the hallway. And I just want to end it all... My relationships, I mean..

No i'm not a freshman im a junior and I feel like I hit rock bottom. Everytime I go to school I get the feeling of rejection. It hurts so bad that it is physical pain that hurts my heart. I am a beautiful girl but for some reason I still have extremely low confidence and social anxiety. I looked up EVERYTHINNNGGGG on how to make friends... "Talk about them!", "compliment them!", "Sit by people", "say hi", "smalk talk". I TRIED THEM ALL! At school the girls I sit by in art were talking about a subject so I try to join in and I talked confidently and loud which I usually dont do and they cut me off as if I don't exist. I even texted the guy I knew since 8th grade what the homework was since I missed school and he opened it and didnt reply so I said "Wow I love being ignored! (Sarcasm)" and he ignored that too. I litterally feel see through now. I could be in a room with 5 ppl and someone walks in and says hi to each person by name and skips me. (It happens all the time). It hurts me so f_ing much that its killing me I havent even had a hug in 2 years. Something must be seriously wrong with me and I dont know. OMG PLEASEESSEE JUST HELP ITS SO NEEDED! (My home is bad so I never feel happy anymore or anywhere). Even my 16th birthday I went to the movies alone.

When I was a sophomore in HS (currently a senior), I met a girl who was in the grade above me. She was extremely odd and loud at times. I felt bad that she had no friends, and I could see why (small, fat, bad hygiene, acted VERY different and awkward, and tomboy-ish). I made an effort to be nice and be school-friends with her and she instantly became attached to me, revealing that she went through depression and attempted suicide before. Over time she just kept feeling closer to me, and she would shout my name across the hallway, come into my classes and sit there, wait for me outside of my locker and classes, and just do so much more. Her parents thanked me for helping her get out of her sad stage. I tried helping her with her depression, but she always gravitated towards the sadness and it just got tiring hearing the same things repeatedly and her not willing to change to be happier. One time she showed up at my front door at 8am on a weekend with a whole batch of cookies, which was definitely unexpected. Now I'm a senior in HS, and she's since gone off to military college.. [SEE MY COMMENT BELOW FOR REST OF STORY]

I got an offer letter saying Sam is my only reporting manager. But a bossy co worker always checks on me I am absolutely ok with messages passed down by boss through her he . But she has gotten really bossy and rude so I discussed to another co worker about this attitude how this exact message went to my reporting manger I don't know but my manager warned me that I am spreading negativity. Really? He supports the bossy co worker because she is really doing well. Is my job in jeopardy because now 3 people are rough with me the bossy col worker of course the other one too and my manager? Help damage control ideas? Without making it obvious how to get the situation in my favor?

the woman i love is hurt because of my mistakes.. she is hurt and more because of my stupidity.. she gave me so many chances even after my now ex friends bullied her over a year ago and my parents are trying to kick me out of the house.. stress is a big thing right now and i am working super hard to do my best for her but i made stupid mistakes allong the way.. she got told to kill herself by those ex friends and litterly they tried to break the perfect romance we had and they succeeded... they tried to kill her with intercourse because she has a heart transplant but we dont want it and they made lies about me wanting it when i dont want to do it because why would i want to kill the girl i love.... we tried getting it back on track but now its a domino effect of what they caused back then adn i get mad when someone tries to hurt my angel an i lose control and start to complain tons and more and that causes hurt.. the home situation is terrible for trying to care for her that i live at my parents house but i try to move out but they force me to something i dont want to because that will hinder the abilllity to take care of her properly.. simply said when stress is too much i snap i get mad at everyone becides my angel and it hurts her .. so.. should i be forgiven and move out but to a place i want to go so i am not hindered to take care of her or should i never be forgiven.. the thing is when she gets attacked by someone they made lies about her and such and when i get upset i get suicial and it makes me think i am not loved when its the oposide. things like that she wasted my time and such but she doesnt do that and i know she doesnt do that but yet it goes wrong because i am in protect the angel mode.. so on accident i said the things of that she uses me aswell but it was on accdent and she doesnt do anyhting wrong.. all i want is to care for her.. i love to draw for her but people put that against her aswell saying she uses me for drawings or will break my heart and it got out on accident when in realitty she means so much to me even in those moments when i am mad at others that if she got hurt or anything i would give up my life for her.. she is lost and crying and heart broken... i want to fix this all because she is the world to me.. so please.. tell me should i move out and be forgiven or stay here and rot and suffer as a punishment. EDDIT!!! i said the things wrong and she didnt do anything wrong. she did nothing wrong. if it says that she said something she didnt. she didnt say anything wrong and she didnt do mean!

I am a Honest hard working person but there must be something wrong I am doing for the reason I am suffering so much. Everyone back stabs me and uses me and no one is scared of me. Is it because I am so polite and selfless? In school all friends gossiped except me but I was blamed for the gossip. In groups I introduce friends they become thick friends and gossip about me At work every time I am being back stabbed. This is my second job, the same thing. My first week and this over friendly colleague came up talking non stop against everyone I just listened but gradually other friendly colleagues started being rude and stopped talking to me and the one who gossiped become good friends with those she was gossiping about the same pattern after this incident and knowing people usually use my name or quote my name to say there own words to check I am not imagining things told her a few things specifically the very next day my boss s attitude changed who called me in specifically not to say those exact things I told my colleague so my trial and test worked and it was proved that colleague backgabbed me but why? I am into my own work pleasant to everyone no lose talk then why I get into trouble please don t judge me it s too many years I am facing this please give me solutions and what shirks I change about myself please!

Boyfriend and I broke up after two years of being together. He was very controlling. I'll keep the details short. Failing math in college. Mom and I got into it bad tonight. It got physical. OF COURSE EVERYTHING WAS BLAMED ON ME. I'm 20 years old. I'm feeling really lost. I don't have any friends to turn to. My nana is my bestfriend, but she was recently diagnosed with dementia. I just feel downing a whole body of advil. Someone please tell me what to do.

I came to college with one of my good friends from high school, we'll name her Jane.So Jane met this girl (through me) and they joined a club (it was an asian club so I couldn't join really without it being awkward since I'm not asian). Anyways Jane was having a birthday dinner with friends from this club and my roommate (who was also part of this club) invited me because I was good friends with Jane and so I was totally up for it because I also wanted to meet new people. Later that night Jane texts me saying that I shouldn't go to the dinner since I'm not a part of the group and that we should hang out some other time. So I felt really hurt and I basically said that I was too busy to hang out with her that that I would tell my roommate I wasn't going to go to the dinner. I sorta dropped Jane after that. This happened 2 months ago and I haven't talked to her since. this happened like fresh into college, maybe the 2 week of school

When I try to go to their house to play video games like "cuphead" they say no. I tell them to meet their parents and they would but still say I still wouldn't let you go if I met them. This is embarrassing cause I've never been to friends house and it weakens my relationships. They let me go to beach or movies but I want to get to know them better by going to house which is where my friends usually hang out. So I don't go cause I can't. None of my friends likes to hang out outside of homes cause it's not as fun. Also I can't let them in my house cause it's really small and parents say no. Help with suggestions please.

I eat lunch alone 90% of the time... it's really getting annoying.

even though they have known you for months.

my friend and i were meant to hang out this Saturday and she asked me to get tickets for this show. So on Sunday morning text her to ask what time she wanted to meet on Saturday, and she only got back to me me Tuesday that she only been at doctors and her little sister has really bad the flu. So i asked her where they both ok and if she still wanted to meet Saturday because of her sisters flu maybe she need to mind her or whatever. so she read that and didnt respond, so later that evening i asked her again if she wanted to meet because all the tickets where nearly gone and i didn't want to buy them in case she wasn't feeling up to it. she read and didn't respond so i left it alone for 24 hours and i was on my Instagram and i notice she blocked me so i went on Facebook to ask why and she blocked me there too and also Instagram. Do you think she would be upset with me for asking her to still meet after she said her sister is really sick( its flu not life threatening ). She usually wouldn't be upset by that and i even asked her is she still be up for it in case . im so upset here :(

I did something terrible. Two years ago an old friend of mine really hurt me and I reacted so so childishly and took it too far, because I had just gotten out of an abusive relationship and was dealign with a lot of emotions from that and just exploded. I know we wont be friends again (I couldnt be after what he did either) but I hate that my reaction is what he and his family will remember me by, or things to be terribly uncomfortable if we ever run into each other. But im also very embarassed to apologize. I wrote a nice letter and some time has passed does it seem like a good idea to send it? *text, not physical letter

Ok, so basically, 3 of my friends are working in a Marijuana store. All of them always have money, while I barely have money at all. But thing is, my parents wont let me work there. How can I convinced them too? My friends are good people, go to school, don't smoke or anything.

I was just chilling with my friend and all of a sudden he came out and told me I should be a comedian and It was kinda sudden, I told him I don't know and he told I would be great all I have to do is go to comedy clubs and write some funny stuff, I've been thinking about it a while now and I think I would be good (my other friends think I should do it)