So I babysit this 5 year old, and he's a pretty good kid. But whenever I get up to get up or do something, he grabs my butt and pushes me around to where I'm going. He also sometimes puts his face in my butt. And when I'm sitting down, he always wants to put my bum" on his face and sit there. Sometimes he wants me to fart so he can smell it. Stange, right? I just feel super weird about it and uncomfortable. I tell him to stop, and he will stop momentarily. I know he's just a child, but I wish I could just forget about it and shake it off. How do I do that? And is this normal?

Okay so, first off I'm a male and I'll be old enough to work in 6 months. All my clothes are too small for me. My Shirts are barely below my stomach and whenever I lift my arms up my stomach shows. My shorts aren't tight but they are too short and go way above my knee. And my jeans are so short they expose my ankles and fit tight. Plus, I know money isn't an issue, both my parents make a 6 figure salary. I even asked them for new clothes and they just say "no they fit perfectly fine", even though they don't. So, what do I do?

I'm a 14-year-old girl. I feel like I'm 12 or something. I'm not immature or anything but I enjoy movies & hobbies that are apparently "tweenish." I started high school this year. All the freshman in high school acts like their 20 or something. Talking about doing gross stuff and doing drugs...like jeez we're 14! We were 10 years old only 4 years ago! Let me give u an example. I can't watch movies that are rated R unless it's a horror movie like IT or Annabelle Creation (I love horror movies) but everyone I know watches rated R movies all the time like it's no big deal. Idk it's just irratating me. I want to grow up fast but then again I don't want my childhood wasted. I mean, you are only a kid for like 16 years of your life...don't you want to enjoy it?

So I found out that my dad wears a nutcup everyday and has been since high school! He's in his 50s now. I asked him why. He said he got into fights at a lot from childhood on into his early 20s and lost every fight. He said after getting kicked in the balls in front of the girl he ha a crush on and losing the fight, he began wearing a nutcup. He's been kicked in the balls 11 times and has lost every fight he has been in. Two of the times were by employees that he had to fire.

She passed away this Sunday, and the funeral is in a couple days. My wife said I could pick a song as well, so I'm considering 'the witch is dead' from wizard of oz. Would people get the joke or is that just too soon? If I do it I wanna keep it a surprise for everyone, for maximum effect. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r6cnryxwH6A

Hey, guys. I am a 20 year old woman who still lives at home with her two siblings and parents. I have been homeschooled my whole life and I have no friends. And, my siblings don't really talk or hang out with me that much. So, I just hang around in my room or basement by myself listening to music and watching movies. I don't go out anywhere cause my parents don't really want me going out anywhere. And I have a part time job that is kinda okay, because I get to talk to this guy I really like. But other than that, my job sucks. I feel like I am wasting my life because I see other people doing things and living their lives. And me, I just sit around at home literally doing nothing. The only good things I do is music and photography. Right now I can't really afford to go to college or move out. I feel like my life will never get better. I'm not smart enough to do anything with my life. I have crappy social skills and I'm not a confident person around people. I'm really shy around my crush. And I feel like most people want nothing to do with me. So I'm always alone. And I don't know really how to live with it. Please help me. :(( Sorry if this was long. Thanks, guys.

..So, now that the cat has been let out of the male sexual bag, do you think that there are female sexual preditors

I am down in Florida until next week and I am not there with him to encourage him through this minor obstacle. Please, if you have any words of encouragement to leave him, comment here!!! He lives in New York and he is over a year clean. Also, if you know of resources up there for both of us, that would be Soo helpful. God Bless you and Happy holidays :)

So I live at both my moms and dads house, and I have a LOT of discharge. I neee to tell him I need some. We have them at my moms house but I can't just keep bringing them over in small amounts. I can't use pads because the kind my dad bought crinkles when I walk. How do I ask him??

We all moved in a house recently and she was wondering if she could put less money torwards bills than my brother and i sense she only works 24 hrs a week. I was gonna ask her why she just can't get a full time job, but I feel that would be a little harsh. Should I just go along with it and let her pay less or should I say something,

My boyfriend is verbally abusive and doesn't think before he speaks. He hurts me a lot but he's working on himself. The problem is I'm way too hurt at the moment and I feel maybe it's not right for me to stay and support him through this. Are last fight was him asking if we could someday get back together if we couldn't find anyone else because he wanted to find someone who would sleep with him. I was so upset he thought I would take him back after that. He apologized but I'm so fed up. I'm wrong to leave him...can he really become better

My ex gf and I broke up after a year and a half, but she didn't let me move on properly. She kept calling, wanting to hangout, have sex, showed up at my job and even tried to get back together. After a phone call where she wanted to come over and 'cuddle', I said no. A few months later, I got in touch with her, assuming we were friends, and learned that she was moving, she was very venomous and said all kinds of cruel things. She hurt me very badly. I finally confronted her about the times she used me as a spare while she played the field, it was a vicious call. She sent me a e-mail apologizing telling him that she still really cared about me a lot, how she was truly sorry for all of the things she told me, regretted it, and that she was going through stuff at the time. I called her back, she had just moved, she told me that she missed me, That she still felt a strong connection with me, and I think, that she thought of me as family. But she downplayed our past relationship (when we were a couple) attributing it to being 'young and naive' and that she liked some things about our relationship. She also told me how she was interested in hook ups with random people. But at the end of the phone call, I wished her good luck and happiness in life and told her goodbye. She told me that I could call whenever I wanted to talk, but I didn't respond to her offer, and just said 'bye.' After she told me bye, and she stood on the line until I hung up. And I never talked to her again. Even though she moved, I wonder if she was just going to use me as a spare/security blanket while she played the field again. Her past behavior exemplified this. Even though she said that the relationship (when we were officially a couple) because we were 'young and naive', yet she 'really cared a lot about me' and couldn't seem to let me go and feeling devastated when I finally said goodbye. Was she just trying to keep me on hold until she was done playing the field? On our final night together, during the period where she was being hateful, she came onto me sexually and I rejected her, and she told me 'if I was older, I probably would've stayed with you.' She even invited me to move with her. This was before the confrontation call, before the final phone call (a month or so before). You don't try to have sex with someone you feel is like family. So, I wonder if she was putting on a front during our last phone call.

So, I'm 26 and currently don't have my license (long story). I always have to get rides from people. I have a friend who is married and who used to be my boss. Yes, I do have feelings for him and although we haven't acknowledged it, the attraction is mutual. We're both good Christians who would never act on the attraction, though. He's given me rides before, but during the day and his son was always with us (at his wife's demand) except for one time. Nothing bad happened during that one ride alone. He's told me in the past that his wife complains when he gets home from work late. Tonight, I needed a ride home from work and I sent a message to a couple of people, him being one of them and he said he could give me a ride home from work. When he was on his way to come get me, he said he was headed my way and that he had to be quick (because he had to get home). Do you think he kept it from his wife that he was giving me a ride home? Seeing as how she complains when he gets home from work late. By the way, we used to flirt a lot when we worked together, but not so much now. His wife and I get along well, but we're not friends...we're just not b*tchy towards each other either lol. I'm not sure she's all that comfortable with our friendship, but she hasn't asked him to stop being friends with me either.

I'm a babysitter. The kid I'm babysitting is getting surgery tomorrow. I won't see them till next week. Should I text the parent a nice message like hope the surgery goes well or something like that? Would it be weird since I'm only a babysitter?

Mine is settling for someone who's safe and never being truly in love and happy.

He's made countless mistakes. Always chose his friends over me even when we were to get married someday. He does spend lots of time with me but he's still the type to brush me off to the side when he's with friends. I won't hear from him until the next day. Or he'll invite me and ignore me the entire time to the point where his friends ask if we are together. He's been better since we've talked but is there any point in this? He chooses social media over responding to my text msgs or phone calls. We do get along when it's just us. I used to cry and I have anxiety disorder. He told me he would leave me because of it which created more anxiety.

There's a guy at work that's married with 2 little girls. He's trash talks people when they're not around, runs people down with mean personal jokes when they are and maintains a constant run of sexual innuendo. He also stays out all night partying and drinking and lies to his wife saying he found a temp night construction job. Lastly he also frequently cheats on his wife saying he can give other married women what their husbands can't. Turned out both him and I liked the same girl. He won. No problem, that's life. I was still nice to both. But then he came to me in private and said, ":I ****** her and there's nothing you can do about." It wasn't jealousy, but the arrogance and lack of respect he had for every living soul even his own family made me sick. I knew nothing I would say would make a difference. So, I kicked his ***. Not bad but enough to hopefully teach him a lesson. But now everyone said I was wrong. Really?

she's been doing it for two years...

For example, my goal is to be number one, but there can only be one person that can be number one, so I will indirectly destroy someone else's dream to become number one when I achieve my goal