I am planning on doing a at home dna test involving cheek swabs to get out of child support. I am planning on switching the swab with a preppared swab with my buddies spit on it. I hope it convinces her to leave me alone for good but she may request a court oredered test. I heard i can get in trouble for cheating a test? also Is there any tips to cheat a court test at a lab? Hasanyone sucessfully done this? Like put someone elses spit in my mouth.

I need a little help navigating my thoughts. I just made 10 years w/ my boyfriend over the summer. We have 2 young children together and have lived together for 9 years now. We were kids when we got together. I was 20 he was 21. We never broke up but had the usual arguments. Well it has been 10 years and still no proposal. We have talked about this for years but after this last year when just about everyone we know got married, I am getting really hard on myself thinking its me. Have I put too much pressure on him? The only thing I come up with is that he wants to get me a huge ring but can't afford it. He has told me several things over the years: "I want to give you the wedding you deserve but cant right now", "Everyone else is married but look at what they said yes to" I am very confused. I don't know if he is around because I'm a great mom and things are comfortable. Sometimes I think the love isn't the same anymore, like he's not in love w/ me. I don't want a pity proposal.

So my husband decided that he wants a divorce after only 3 months of being married. We were together for a year before we got married and moved in together after about 3 months of dating. After we got married we had a huge blowup fight he called me a slut and ***** and after that he moved out. I don't get why he changed after getting married. He said he thinks it's for the best to end it but I want to try to save it. I've tried to get him to change his mind but he won't.

I'm sure he's cheating on me. We've been married for 5 years. Together for 7. Have a 3 year old son and i'm 37 week pregnant with the second one. He beats me up despite the fact I'm heavily pregnant. He hasn't had sex with me for 6months now Despite me asking for it. Comes home late every night. Late as in 5 am I'm the morning. I've seen his profiles on dating apps. Upon asking he says I made them up to falsely accuse him. I've read chats in his fone with one of his employees that clearly show they're together. All he says is trust me I would never cheat on you. And that my friend used my fone to text her. I'm okay with him being on dating app coz I saw he was inactive and I understand the fact that sometimes out of curiosity people may do that... but about the employee I wanna be sure. Now the question is does anyone know how I can check on him? Any ideas of how to spy on his fone without having access to it? Or should I hire a detective or something? I'm dieting of the suspense now. Don't want to just tell him in his face I don't trust you without a proof.

I am really attracted to this guy at work, we have been working together for four years already. In the beginning it was harmless, but later he would come by my office more and more, and he'd compliment me on my looks or how I was dressed or smelled or my hair. We would sit and chat, just being around each other a lot created more than just a liking for him. We started our affair a year ago, he comes to my house because I'm single live alone. I've been alone for a few years now and it's just a breath of fresh air to meet someone I click with and can spend my time with, the sex is great. I just feel like lately, I just know I need to break things off because I want a guy that I can be with all of the time, not just some of the time, don't know how he will take this or how things will change afterwards at work. How to defuse this ?

I have been married for a couple years now recently my wife got a new job that the hours really affect me. She works graveyard and I see her once a week basically no sex now, no nothing just once a week trying to cramp everything on the Saturday I️ see her.I thought it would be easy to understand her, should I divorce her?

Still be in love with an X! It's ok to be honest! I was with my ex for eight years! I haven't seen him in eight years but I talked to a mutual friend and I heard that he was talking about me to her! No. I don't want him and I hate him and wish he would go somewhere and die! I just wonder why he talks about me! Is it possible to have feelings for another woman and still get married

Couple weeks after that i found a condom wrap now underneath the same spot. Then months later i found a used condom along with its wrap next to it in my boys bedroom. Im married with 4 beautiful childrens. I trust my man with all my hearts. I told him about it but it dont seem to bother him a bit about who it is or at least trying to find out how it got in the house. All he says was if it aint me then dont worry about it because it aint his. I wonder if he even think or care about how i feel.

I am having a very rough morning. My husband and I got into an argument two nights ago. It wasn't anything major but, it was unpleasant, nonetheless. That night I went to bed and felt like things were unresolved, even though I apologized for my part and he expressed he was ok. He goes through the motions but, I feel things are off. He wakes me up with kisses and turns on the heat in my closet room. He's even doing more work around the house, washing dishes and cleaning up after himself. But I feel things just aren't right. Lat night I met up with a friend and got home a little later than usual. He went to bed saying his stomach hurt. He asked me how my day was and I shared but, again, it feels like he's just going through the motions. Is it me? Is he just going through the motions but really feels some type of way? I'm afraid this will ruin the upcoming holiday.

So I've been married less than a year, and together almost 3 years. I always thought my husband had a low libido, he would turn me away often and it would cause issues. However, I recently discovered by accident that he has been watching porn once a day before work - leaving little for me. I tested him one day after he came home and tried to initiate but he turned me down once again. It's really starting to take a toll on my self esteem and confidence. Not only that, but he's been treating me like a porn star in bed. No affection after. Just last night he couldn't even finish. Then this morning when he thought i was asleep he was back at it again. I've tried to talk to him three times but he always gets defensive and says I'm accusing him. What do I do?

She cheats on me and demands I be okay with it. Should I just turn the other cheek? She's the love of my life and my childhood sweetheart. She used to call me a weirdo be a creep and she would have her various thug boyfriends beat me up all through middle school and high school. I pursued an education and now I finally make a big enough salary for her to love me. I can't lose her. Not after everything I've gone through to win her approval. But it would kill me to let her cheat on me

have been with my husband for five years married for one. We have a daughter together. Since day one his family has been nothing but disrespectful and filled with drama. His sister tried breaking us up numerous of times n disrespect me and my daughter and even called me the n word. I am black and my husband is white ( born in Europe) I been. Treated so poorly by them and every time I confront my husband about something disrespectful they done he never sticks up for me right away he either tells me to ignore it or he waits until I explode in tears then tells me he gonna handle it. I never feel like he sticka up for me when it comes to his family all this emotional and verbal abuse I've getting from them then is ruining me and my marriage IDK what go do anymore

She is in her late 30s. I think 37. and he's going on 30. So do you think this will last? I think most men like to be with younger women. But I guess things are different nowadays Thanks guys, I'm glad there are reasons to be positive

My husband and I just got married and no later than a week after, I found out that I'm pregnant! We planned a cruise to The Bahamas and unfortunately we can't go because of the Zika virus. So basically we have to plan another honeymoon after the baby is born. My question is, should we bring the baby on our honeymoon? We plan to take a road trip Texas (and stop in national parks to camp) and to The Lava Springs resort in Utah. I know having a baby will be a little difficult camping, but we love the outdoors and I want our children to love it to! Is it a bad idea? Anyone who has previous experience taking their kids on their honeymoon please let me know how it went!

When my husband and I got married I didn't want to take his last name. He didn't mind. The reason why I didn't want to change my last name to his is because my last name is unique and his last name is from his biological father that he doesn't even know. Yes I know that if we have kids in the future they are going to get his last name and I don't mind because that's their father.

My wife always comes home after work. But last friday she did not show up at home. After spending friday alone and worring. I called a few people we both knew. I found out by one of our close friends that she has been wanting to try having sex with a woman. That she thinks she might be bisexual. She has been having extremely strong sexual feelings toward women. She did not think I would approve. So she left to try it. Well, she came home on Sunday. She had that I know I missed up look. I let her relax some then asked her about her weekend. She told me that she is still attracted to me sexually but she wanted to find out if she was bi. And if she would like it. Asked her to tell me about her experience and if she liked it or not. She said she is still in love with me but she knows that she IS sexually attracted to women and she dud like it. So now what do I do now? I love my wife but am lost on what to do. Oh my wife is 38 and very hot. 5 he 1. Long black hair with blue eyes. And a figure that would cause a train wreck. I need help.