So I have this best friend May and she used to be a really modest Christian girl with straight A's. But this year she changed a lot. She became really wild and started smoking and drinking and having sex. The first time she got crunk was at homecoming. She ate 2 weed brownies and drank 3 shots of vodka and it was horrible. I had to babysit her the whole night because she kept going next to teachers and she kept trying to fight people. and the next day, she apologized to the other girls that were babysitting her with me, but not me. She got mad at me. She said I ruined her entire night. She also constantly complains about everything I say. Once I asked May "are you staying after school? i might too" and she started whining and saying "you know, I hate it when I have to repeat things over. Its so annoying. I already told you I was staying back on monday" And another time I was going to the library with my friend Kay and May (to work on a research project) and on the way she started limping (for no reason her leg wasn't hurt) and we were walking ahead. She then stopped and looked really mad when we kept walking (because we were wasting time and had to get there fast). But the thing is, she has a LOT of friends and people love her so much. My other really good friends invited her to a party at their house and not me, and I'm kinda jealous about that. I feel like even though May is like that, people still like her better than me. What should I do?

Claims that im too close to my Mom because i spend more time with her than regular friends and that I must be weird and slow over it at 28 years old. I do admit I dont have friends outside of my Moms home but thats because im just very introverted. Also I dont really go over to his family gatherings. But thats because they are always throwing parties everyday. So he tells me things like, well stay home like you always do with Mommy retard girl. And basically he says that because hes mad I dont go over.

I'm 17, about to turn 18, and In grade 12. My dad hates it when I go out at night (but I think he just doesn't like when I'm having fun or happy) and he's always asking where I'm going when I'm about to leave. When I say I'm going to my friends house to hang out, he gets all mad and says "that doesn't make sense, you don't just go to someone's house to hang out" then when it's late at night my mom will start texting for me to come home and all my friends will end up getting mad at me for leaving so early. My parents will always complain about me leaving and always will say "how come your friends never come here?" Which pisses me off because whenever I ask for my friends to come over they say "no, it's too late, I'm too tired, how come you can't go to your friends house" what should I do? I can talk to my mom about it, but I don't think I can talk to my dad about it because I am convinced he is a psychopath (I'm not kidding either).

So i have basically one friend that i rely on. I mean i have other friends but she's the only person i ever hang out with and talk to and i only ever hang out with other people usually if its with her. She's a lot more social than i am, she goes out and goes to parties and has a multitude of friends and i woukdnt say easy but she's w guys a lot. While i on the other hand have strict parents, am more family oriented and I'm not really into putting myself out there as much. Lately she's been going out and doing dumb stuff and she never asks to hang out with me anymore, like she might mention something but she never makes solid plans or ill ask her if she wants to do something and shell say that she can't because she's going out with someone else to do this or that or that she needs to recover because she spent the whole weekend making bad decisions. I think i'm just jealous that i need her more than she needs me but at the same time I'm the only person she has to go to when she screws up or is upset about something. I don't want to cut her out of my life because i love her and i feel like she needs me for emotional security but at the same time i don't want to just be someone to fall back on when all of her shitty fun friends bail. I don't know what to do or if I'm overanalyzing but I'm just really insecure in my standings.

I was talking to my friend and she was telling me something and then was like "idk i feel like you're too judgmental". But i literally never judge anyone for anything. I never judge people and I'm just kinda hurt by this. So is there any way for me to seem like a non-judgmental person

My best friend May has a lot of friends, and is going to parties all this week is complaining about being lonely. For example, today she got invited to my friend Sarah's party (I'm really goos friends with her too0 but also all of my other friends are going except me. I tell May about it and that in sad that I have no friends and she starts complaining how she has it worse. Idk I'm just a little sad and salty and looking for answers on how to be a better person and have more friends than actually like me. They didn't invite me. Only her and my other close friends

My ex gf and I broke up after a year and a half, but she didn't let me move on properly. She kept calling, wanting to hangout, have sex, showed up at my job and even tried to get back together. After a phone call where she wanted to come over and 'cuddle', I said no. A few months later, I got in touch with her, assuming we were friends, and learned that she was moving, she was very venomous and said all kinds of cruel things. She hurt me very badly. I finally confronted her about the times she used me as a spare while she played the field, it was a vicious call. She sent me a e-mail apologizing telling him that she still really cared about me a lot, how she was truly sorry for all of the things she told me, regretted it, and that she was going through stuff at the time. I called her back, she had just moved, she told me that she missed me. That she still felt a strong connection with me, and I think, that she thought of me as family. But she downplayed our past relationship (when we were a couple) attributing it to being 'young and naive' and that she liked some things about our relationship. She also told me how she was interested in hook ups with random people. But at the end of the phone call, I wished her good luck and happiness in life and told her goodbye. She told me that I could call whenever I wanted to talk, but I didn't respond to her offer, and just said 'bye.' After she told me bye, and she stood on the line until I hung up. And I never talked to her again. I wonder if she was just going to use me as a spare/security blanket while she played the field again. Her past behavior exemplified this. Even though she said that the relationship (when we were officially a couple) because we were 'young and naive', yet she 'really cared a lot about me' and couldn't seem to let me go and feeling devastated when I finally said goodbye. Was she just trying to keep me on hold until she was done playing the field? On our final night together, during the period where she was being hateful, she came onto me sexually and I rejected her, and she told me 'if I was older, I probably would've stayed with you.' She even invited me to move with her. This was before the confrontation call, before the final phone call (a month or so before). You don't try to have sex with someone you feel is like family. So, I wonder if she was putting on a front during our last phone call.

My friends judge people ALL. THE. TIME. If you don't play any sports you're lazy, if you wear too much makeup you're trying too hard, if you cut your hair short you're a lesbian, if you dress a certain way you're gay or lesbian, if you are African American or Hispanic you're a "shady person". They are also sort of racist, homophobic, and religionist. Like one of my friends hates people who are Mormon and another one hates Muslim people (well not hates but dislikes). I try to defend the people they judge because I believe God loves everyone and it's none of their business to judge other peoples lives by just looking at them. Like the meme thing "don't judge a book by it's cover". But if I defend people too much my friends get mad at me. I can't stop being friends with them because I am a very shy girl who doesn't talk a lot, and I won't be able to make any new friends I don't think. Can someone give me some advice? Thanks!

my mom always used to let me have sleepovers until this one girl gave me head lice. ever since I can't even have a life. i'm 14 years old and all my friends are always having sleepovers like ughhhhh

So I have this person in my life who always finds a way to blame me for things that happen (even when it is their, or NO ONES fault). They do not mean this in a mean or harmful way, they just have trouble taking blame. Like something always has to be someone else's fault. I know they went though a lot growing up and had no one to talk to, and no one to relate to. So I believe it is more of a 'they would get in a lot of trouble even if they did something small on accident' so eventually they are now "afraid" of making mistakes and taking blame. Anyways, I would like some advice on how to approach this.. how to let them know it is OKAY to make mistakes, and not everything needs blame placed. Some examples are: -I leave a cup on water on the floor, THEY tip it over-- It is MY fault. I should not leave it on the floor. -THEY leave a cup of water on the floor, I tip it over-- It is MY fault. I should watch where I am going. -They accidentally step on my foot-- MY fault. I should have been watching where I was going. -I step on their foot- MY fault. I should have been watching where I was going. Or just sometimes, they do something on accident-- it was an accident. They didn't mean to. It's over. I do the exact same thing on accident- and it is made into a big deal, and I should have been paying attention. Just to clarify- This is not a daily thing. It happens very maybe once or twice a month, but since it just happened, I want to know how to deal with it, because it always gets the best of me and ruins my mood! I have talked to them about this, and they 'intend' to work on it, but it happens so un-often that is it hard to correct something you do sparingly... But I hate that things always need blame & shame placed. How can I get them to see that accidents are okay???

So this is complicated and I just need honest advice. I'm currently in a relationship with my girlfriend of 5 months and everything's going good. Apart from this I have a friend (grace) that I've known since middle school and have liked ever since. We've stayed friends since then only we've only been just that and never really close either. Anyway she and her boyfriend of 3 years broke up about a month ago. It was nasty and she's taken it badly. She's been back to her normal self from what I've heard. Since then she's been talking to me more and just being friendly like back when we were kids. I've hung out with her when she's asked and now we talk/text everyday. I think she's just lonely and wants someone to talk to but I'm not sure if it could be more. She's known I've always had a crush on her and nothing's come of it but since the whole break up she's acted different. I have a girlfriend now and I dont want to **** that up. Does it seem odd and should I mention anything? We haven't talked about her breakup because it's non of my business but should I ask her about it and how she feels?

The situation where you are joking with someone or a group of people, but one person in particular (because they do not want to associate with you or dont want to be seen joking with you) they ignore your comment. Sometimes it can be to save their image in front of others but it can also just be a way to be rude. Or wont give a half laugh just to show they are in tune to what you are saying? Or what do you call when you wave or say hi to someone who does not respond unless another is present in the room? It happens a lot in social sitiations where a teen will attempt to fit in. Can someone give a name to this? Lol Im having a hard time conveying this to anyone.

well, i have a cousin who LOVES to ditch me in favor of his fans. he keeps accepting the most recent one was last night i organised a Sleepover Slumber Party for just the two of us. i got food, drinks and spent the entire day getting a special room set up My cousin told me (via phone) that he had accepted a picture request in which he had to wear girls pyjamas. he also bragged about how much he got paid for the pic This morning, he came over. he said he felt bad about accepting the request. I told him to give all of his pay to me. and I told him to apologise to me. yes, he did give the pay and the apology I did tell him to never Do it again. and he refused, saying "i cant say no to my fans" How do i make him stop accepting the requests?

He asked me how is the boy who gave me the ring.. he made the assumption that it was a boy who gave me a ring, since he does not know me well and especially my relationships. From this guy's fb, I can tell that he is in a committed relationship so I don't think he was interested in me, do guys ask these questions as a small talk.. I just thought it was a bit of a personal question.

My gf friends are making cookies and pies and stuff.She doesn't like me out there, because I make her friends uneasy and I like to critique their baking. I don't think they should have to leave my house because of them.The black one and the Italian one almost kicked my *** because I was squirting water everywhere and dropping stuff all over and opening the oven door several times.I also made a comment about the two fat one crushing me in a grudge match and how they really need to exercise which really pissed my gf off so she kicked me out. I also started gasping loudly and freaking out because an empty bottle with a lid on it tipped over. My gf friends really started to make fun of me and be all mean I don't understand it. I also ask if they knew what they were doing 8 or 9 times because I want to make sure they know they are doing I do so have a gf although she is kinda mad at me right now. People need to be more sensitive to my anziety.

He and I broke up 2 months ago and I started going to church and found him staring at me 2 weeks in a row so I texted him but he said he was offended which is why it wouldn't work and why he wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me again. I didn't respond. I've been going to church since then it's been almost a month, and he continues to constantly stare at me to the point that my friends and family notice. What does this mean? does he still have feelings? friends and family say he stares it's been two months since the last convo and he does look at me curios to see what I'm doing trying to sneak glances, and looks down when I catch him. What was said was he offended my mom and I offended his mom back in a bit harsher way

I just feel like nowadays people invite so many of their friends to parties but the reality is that I don't have a million close friends to invite. I turned 17 a couple days ago and I'm just doing dinner with three of my close friends but I'm honestly kind of embarrassed. These other friends had tons of people at their parties and I feel like they're going to pity me or something. It's too late to cancel now but is it weird for that to happen? I think we might just go to my house and hang out afterward but I don't want it to be awkward since there's barely anyone there

Okay so on Friday I was putting on makeup, lotion and spraying on perfume in class. Then this girl and this guy both yelled at me about my perfume and they said it stinks and they said it isn't attractive or cute. I'm not even trying to impress anyone. They were being rude and disrespectful about it so I yelled back at them, cursed them out, I said the most hateful and mean things to them so I can make them cry ( but they didn't) I also sprayed the perfume in their faces and I also said that I was going to bring a knife to school and stab them and then I started crying. The teacher didn't care about my feelings so she sent me down to the office and I had a talk with the principal and she was saying that I threatened them and how I was a bully. I'm not the bully they are. I have three days of in school suspension (when you sit in a room at school and you have a later dismissal than everyone) starting Monday . She even made me apologize to those bullies. She did have a talk with them saying that they should be more nice about it but they didn't get punished. She then proceeded to say to me that the girl was allergic to perfume. I hope she and her little boyfriend both die in a chamber with perfumes coming up there nose. I want to see them suffer and record it.

The situation where you are joking with someone or a group of people, but one person in particular (because they do not want to associate with you or dont want to be seen joking with you) they ignore your comment. Sometimes it can be to save their image in front of others but it can also just be a way to be rude. Or wont give a half laugh just to show they are in tune to what you are saying? Or what do you call when you wave or say hi to someone who does not respond unless another is present in the room? It happens a lot in social sitiations where a teen will attempt to fit in. Can someone give a name to this? Lol Im having a hard time conveying this to anyone.

He always does and I posted a photo and put on my sc story saying to like my recent , he saw it and never liked it . He's been liking and commenting on other people's pics since.

I have a group of 3 best friends. One of their birthdays is coming up and she wants to go away for the weekend to Florida, it involves taking a flight because I live in Massachusetts. One of my friends can't come because she will be on vacation and I said I wanted to come (and I do) but I can't get the day off from work. I checked flights after work and they are really expensive and honestly not worth the price to only be there 1 and a half nights, I know it's my best friends birthday but I told them I can't go. They all got upset me and I was told by one of them that "this is how you lose friends" because for my birthday one of them drove an hour to come out and celebrate after working a 12 good shift. I don't know why I feel guilty about this, to me friendship should be understanding.. in my opinion it's not worth it to take a +$200 flight for my friends bday to another state and only stay for one and a half nights. What do u think ? Am I and friend for this..

I'm part of a group of four in last year of high school (bahati, Sarah,Monica are my friends ) this year me and B have noticed s and m reject all our invites and have been hanging out with tons of other people. They don't invite us anywhere and we feel hurt because they seem to have no interest in hanging out with us. I've been bff with s and m for eleven years and I haven't changed at all. Idk why they don't seem to like me anymore and have shunned me?! (I'm thankful I have b at least)

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I'm 17 and I guess you could say I'm a homebody. I've been like this for as long as I could remember but recently a lot of people have been commenting on it. I have an older brother (21) and older sister (19) they're both really into partying, drinking and smoking. I've drank a few times but I've never been drunk or even tipsy. The whole reason I'm typing all of this right now is because my sister had a birthday party last night and I didn't want to go because I knew I would be uncomfortable because I wouldn't know anyone there and I knew I couldn't rely on my sister to make me more comfortable because she'd be getting drunk and high with her friends. She didn't really care that I wasn't going but when I told my mom she was really harsh about it. She said that I was boring and I need to start doing things other teens are doing. Also, she always comments how my friends are losers because they don't smoke and drink. I guess what I'm asking is should I try to be more outgoing? I feel like lately everyone's been telling me I'm no fun (except my friends) but it's really starting to get to me. I'm gonna be graduating soon and I've never smoked, drank heavily or partied and I'm still a virgin. What should I do?

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I had a friend that invited me to a speech at their local church to listen, I used to attend the church about a year ago. But there's one problem: there is this person in particular that was acting flirtatious and inappropriate towards me when i was going there, i got tired of being harassed by this older gent. I haven't replied to my friend's invitation yet but its' something I'm thinking about going, maybe i should respond to her request and just go, to show my appreciation of them thinking of me, but I don't want to be seen by the old man that acted inappropriately in a sexual manner toward me or him even saying hello to me like a friend. We're not friends and I've cut off contact with the whole church altogether but I still remain contact with the couple who i consider to be like family, i trust them but I still do not want to be seen by the old perv and his wife. Thankfully my friends sit at the front of the church and not the back where this old perv normally sits with his wife. I think it would be awkward of me to ask my friend if he's going to be there or if he's even there and with her thinking the obvious.

A friend posted a serious video (context : he takes cinematography lessons) to his bestfriend adressing to him how he loves him and how he is the most amazing person ever ? talking really fondly and smiling. Also rememoring romantic moments saying these were the best. Then he quickly deleted it and said it was a joke meant to fool everyone, that it was a prank ? and when we talk about the video he said he doesnt want to talk about 'that thing' because apparently it caused drama with his familly ???? I know him to be really close to his bestfriend but i never heard of him being gay since he dates girls so i don't understand why he did that stupid joke ? is it something funny to boys to joke about that like this ?

My friend will talk to me and act like she actually cares about me outside of school but the second we get to school, she won't make any effort to even talk to me. When we first met, we used to actually talk to me in school but now shes talking up a storm with everyone else but me. I have been abandoned and hurt by friends in the past and I'm literally terrified to tears of it happening again. Recently I ran away from home and she came and got me and she says she cares but I just don't understand whats happening. Cause if that is true, then why is she avoiding talking to me in school?

I have two best friends who I grew up with. Over the years we've grown apart, got busy with life and such, but we still act like no time has passed when we see each other. However, it's getting to the point where I'm starting to feel like they aren't really there anymore. It's been 3 months since either of them texted a simple "hello." I get that communication is a two way street, but it seems like I'm just not on their priority list like I was when we were all younger (I'm 21 btw if it matters.) I still consider them my best friends, but other than the rare times we chat or hang out we really don't have contact with each other. They will occasionally like something on my Facebook, but never hmu. I love them to death, but I've been lonely lately. Isn't a best friend someone who makes you more of a priority, even when life gets busy? Advice?

And he borrowed money from me to give the bookie and now I'm scared for my life because my friend told the bookie about me and the bookie knows that I lend my friend money I'm scared for my life what should I do

I have been invited to this party and I'm reluctant to go simply because I am a huge introvert and I just don't want to go. But I feel bad if I don't go it's her 16th and she knows I live a 2 minute walk from where the party is and I feel bad if I don't go. Here are some pros and cons of whether I should go PROS -It will be my first high school party -Gives me something to do -Parents will stop thinking I'm lonely -I'll have a somewhat OK memory of High School -It might change my image of being a lonely introvert CONS -I hate parties -I'm very socially awkward -There are people I hate who are going -My friends say they want to visit my house which I really don't want -I'm an introvert -There's no alcohol -If I don't go, the girl will be pissed at me if I don't give a good excuse So those are the Pros and Cons, please can you tell me your opinion whether I should go

it's happened at least 5 times sense schools started. the worst part is, they aren't even married yet. last night he said "we should stop, i'm sure sophie can hear us" and my mom was like "no please keep going i wasnt being loud!" but trust me i heard everything sense our rooms are so close. i'm not super close with them but if this i might text them and tell them that i'm hearing them.. suggestions?? please don't say "it's just bc they love each other" bc that isn't going to help. im 13 by the way and don't say i'm being childish.thx

I have been invited to this party and I'm reluctant to go simply because I am a huge introvert and I just don't want to go. But I feel bad if I don't go it's her 16th and she knows I live a 2 minute walk from where the party is and I feel bad if I don't go. Here are some pros and cons of whether I should go PROS -It will be my first high school party -Gives me something to do -Parents will stop thinking I'm lonely -I'll have a somewhat OK memory of High School -It might change my image of being a lonely introvert CONS -I hate parties -I'm very socially awkward -There are people I hate who are going -My friends say they want to visit my house which I really don't want -I'm an introvert -There's no alcohol -If I don't go, the girl will be pissed at me if I don't give a good excuse So those are the Pros and Cons, please can you tell me your opinion whether I should go

I have been invited to this party and I'm reluctant to go simply because I am a huge introvert and I just don't want to go. But I feel bad if I don't go it's her 16th and she knows I live a 2 minute walk from where the party is and I feel bad if I don't go. Here are some pros and cons of whether I should go PROS -It will be my first high school party -Gives me something to do -Parents will stop thinking I'm lonely -I'll have a somewhat OK memory of High School -It might change my image of being a lonely introvert CONS -I hate parties -I'm very socially awkward -There are people I hate who are going -My friends say they want to visit my house which I really don't want -I'm an introvert -There's no alcohol -If I don't go, the girl will be pissed at me if I don't give a good excuse So those are the Pros and Cons, please can you tell me your opinion whether I should go

I met this girl recently and became close with. We play fight(chase each other, she'd bite my hand, slap me, lick food off my fingers) We hold hands with interlocked fingers. We cuddle (on the bed with her arms around me and my head on her chest till we sleep, or on the couch with my head on her lap while she plays with my hair+face) She kissed my cheeks and forehead. And once while we were in bed, she said "I love you" and kissed my nose. She asks me to spend the nights with her (while her parents sleep but I leave before they wake up) as she feels safe and protected with me. I've noticed we have intense eye contact and I've noticed her staring at my lips on countless occasions. On one occasion however she said "I'm falling for you" I laughed t off. And another time she said "I think I've a crush on you. Is it weird?" Again I laughed it off and took it as a joke. The thing is she has a boyfriend and we're both girls. I'm not interested but I feel powerless. I'm confused. I don't know if this is appropriate or not. Please advice me.

I'm tired of fake people. I need someone that i can trust. Someone who will tell me what i needed to hear not what i want to hear!!!!!

My friend got a job at a small chain store in our hometown. I applied as well and got retail assistant a month later as well. However, she is very paranoid that the bosses can't know we're friends. She didn't 'get me' the job, the stand in manager at the time interviewed me and knew she and I were friends, but said she also liked my CV. The stand in manager then left back to the city store and the new managers were hired, who did not know we are best, childhood friends. We still work professionally of course, however this week her brother died unexpectedly. He's very young so it's affecting me too and I rang up to say I couldnt come the day of the wake and funeral, and sounded quite upset on the phone so it is now clear we are obviously close. I have never heard of anyone caring if employees are close friends before, but because of my friends paranoia I am now worried? The main manager is really nice about it, but a secondary supervisor was a bit put out by both of us taking days off. She's a bit bitchy anyway though. Anyone ever hear of a policy that could get us in trouble for knowing each other very well before work?

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My ex gf and I broke up after a year and a half, but she didn't let me move on properly. She kept calling, wanting to hangout, have sex, showed up at my job and even tried to get back together. After a phone call where she wanted to come over and 'cuddle', I said no. A few months later, I tried to get in touch with her, assuming we were friends, and learned that she was moving, she was really nasty to me and said all kinds of cruel things. I finally confronted her about the times she used me as a spare while she played the field, it was a vicious call. She sent me a e-mail apologizing telling him that she still really cared about me a lot, how she was truly sorry for all of the things she told me, regretted it, and that she was going through stuff at the time. I called her back, she had just moved, she told me that she missed me, That she still felt a strong connection with me, and I think, that she thought of me as family. But she downplayed our past relationship (when we were a couple) attributing it to being 'young and naive' and that she liked some things about our relationship. She also told me how she was interested in hook ups with random people. But at the end of the phone call, I wished her good luck and happiness in life and told her goodbye. She told me that I could call whenever I wanted to talk, but I didn't respond to her offer, and just said 'bye.' After she told me bye, and she stood on the line until I hung up. And I never talked to her again. Even though she moved, I wonder if she was just going to use me as a spare/security blanket while she played the field again. Her past behavior exemplified this. Even though she said that the relationship (when we were officially a couple) because we were 'young and naive', yet she 'really cared a lot about me' and couldn't seem to let me go and feeling devastated when I finally said goodbye. Was she just trying to keep me on hold until she was done playing the field? On our final night together, during the period where she was being hateful, she came onto me sexually and I rejected her, and she told me 'if I was older, I probably would've stayed with you.' She even invited me to move with her. This was before the confrontation call, before the final phone call (a month or so before). You don't try to have sex with someone you feel is like family. So, I wonder if she was putting on a front during our last phone call.

So late last night I got a phone call from my ex boyfriend's friend's on again, off again ex. My ex and I broke up a month and a half ago and I have no idea why this woman wants to talk to me. She said she needed to talk to me. I just know that her relationship with his friend is just toxic and full of drama. Drama I always heard about when I was with my ex boyfriend. I am not friends with this woman and this is the first time I've heard from her since my ex and I broke up. Why is she even calling me, especially so late?? She called at 11:15pm and left a voicemail. I didn't know she called until I woke up an hour ago. She would only possibly have my number still cause either someone gave it to her or she still had texts from when his friend took my phone while I was asleep at my ex's house and used it without permission.

I've been invited to this party and I just don't want to go. It's not the people that's the problem, it's just that I'm not a party person, I just don't like them. I'm a very introverted person, and parties to me are just events where you are forced to socialise. I know I'm sounding extremely antisocial right now, I get it a lot from my friends. lol. Speaking of friends, I don't know if any of them are going and if I go there's a chance I'll be on my own for the party. The reason I feel bad for not going is that the party is a minute walk from where I live and the girl that's throwing it and she knows I live close. I can't just say I'm sick, she knows I'm reluctant to parties and she'll know I'm lying. I can't say my parents have grounded me either, she'll know that's too good to be true. Plus I don't want her to hate me Pls help

Is there a website somewhat like craigslist where you make a "listing" of yourself (it would include your hobbies, interests, etc) so other people who are interested in the same general things can see you and message you if they're interested in being friends (including internet friendships, not really real life) and viceversa? Hope this makes sense Having a hard time wording it

I have this lady friend that I feel that I'm infatuated with because I masturbate to her picture every day. She is several years older than me and she is married and has children. I do thing like look up sex trafficking and there is a picture of 3 women handcuffed by their arms and legs and chained to the floor. I put that picture next to my lady friend and masturbate to it thinking how nice it would be with her in that position. The funny thing is that I have another lady friend that had a close call in being a victim of sex trafficking and I was relieved that she was OK. Now why do I wish such a bad thing on my married lady friend?

To be honest, homosexual people kind of freak me out. I seem to feel comfortable having a friendship with lesbians, sadly. I can't, I was just raised like this. we're both just 15. I don't want her to act weird with me, but she's my friend, what should do I?

I'm 15 (girl). There's less people in Canada, so that means less offenders. I notice that most people still say that they've known people who have been at least catcalled (or more severe, like rape or drugged). I probably know at least over 100 people during my whole lifetime. Half of them are probably kids, half are adults. How likely is it that I might have met someone who's been violated sexually?

I have a 20 year old daughter with high functioning Autism. Despite having Autism, she is a very pretty and nice girl who only deserves the best. She has been mainstreamed at school since kindergarten because she's too high functioning for Special Ed. She went to a special needs preschool, and things were going great then. Kids at her preschool actually played with her, and she had great friends who had special needs like her and loved her for who she was. Her friends from preschool always invited her over to play and to other outings, and she always got invited to birthday parties. When we mainstreamed her in kindergarten, she no longer had many friends. None of the kids in her class would play with her throughout elementary school because they thought she was "weird". Throughout her life while she was mainstreamed, she has had several so-called "friends" who didn't have special needs, but they weren't really her friends and were just acting nice to her. They didn't actually like her. Throughout elementary school, she was never invited over to her "friends" houses to play or anything, and she never got invited to any birthday parties. The same thing happened throughout middle and high school too. She had "friends" without special needs who were really nice to her in school, but they never invited her anywhere outside of school. She was the ONLY one who her "friends" never invited anywhere. Even when she made new friends, she still never got invited anywhere outside of school. When she got mainstreamed in kindergarten, only one of her friends from preschool went to the same school district as her, and that one friend was her ONLY friend who actually liked her and invited her places outside of school. HER birthday parties were the ONLY ones my daughter got invited to, and she was the ONLY one to ever show up to my daughter's birthday parties. This girl was my daughter's only true friend, until she moved to another part of the country when she and my daughter were sophomores in high school. This girl had no social media or even a cell phone because she had special needs and her parents treated her differently, so my daughter had no way to keep in touch with her. Until she had to move, she really truly loved my daughter as a friend and ALWAYS invited her places outside of school. Ever since my daughter's only true friend moved away 4 1/2 years ago, she has had absolutely NO true friends, only fake ones. All her other friends from preschool went to different school districts since kindergarten, and due to only being 5 years old then, she lost touch with her other friends from preschool and they had to go their separate ways. Now, my daughter is a junior in college, and she has not had a single friend in 4 1/2 years. She doesn't have any friends at college. She is very sad and hurt about not having any friends. Whenever she sees people hanging out with their friends, she always says that she wishes that was her! She is very lonely, and I want to help her. I want to help her find some friends, TRUE friends who will actually like her and invite her places, and NOT make her feel left out like her past "friends" have! How can I find friends for her? None of my friends have kids her age or even close to her age, so that's not an option. Neither do any of my coworkers. Her dad doesn't have any friends with kids her age either. Nobody at the college she's going to seems to want to be her friend, so that's not an option either. Please help me! My daughter is such a nice, good person, and I just want her to have good friends and be happy!

So im 16 and so is my friend, her name is Sydney. I have no classes with her but we have a lot of the same teachers. Today in culinary class, which is my third period, I noticed that an IPhone charger was plugged into the wall. Someone tried to steal it so I put it in my backpack to keep it safe, and give it to the teacher after class, assuming it had belonged to someone from second period. I have a samsung so I didn't even need it or anything. So at the end of class we had free time so I started studying for my test in fourth period, and I left without giving it to the teacher, on accident. I later when into my backpack at lunch and saw it, Sydney saw it too and said she needed cause she lost her charger and she has an IPhone. She took it and told her that it was wrong to do that. She said 'I dont care" and we moved on but I want to ask her about it because it makes me mad. I promise she usually isn't like this. What should I do?

So I was best friends with this girl in preschool to second grade and now we don't ever talk we are not mad at each other just hang out with different people and I always think about the good times we had but I doubt she would be even friends with me she hangs out with the kids that cuss and hate my guts because im a loner and im not good with making friend. When I'm with the people I hang out with I have this habit of bringing her up and 2 my friends are not very supportive and what you would think of as friends but still if I drifted away from them I would be alone.. Help?

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the reason is because there is this group of people in my class at school who i want to be friends with really badly and i feel like its not going to happen by the end of the year and that makes me really sad to think about that the other reason why i am crying is because i realized why i think im not gonna be friends with them is because im too shy to even say hi to them if i wasnt too shy then i would be able to become friends with them for sure but i cant cause im shy

She's friends with our other co-workers on Facebook so I decided to send her a request, she declined. She has asked me to go places with her like to the fair and we've been out to get drinks. She told me that she wants to invite me other places with her. I'm confused. It's no big deal of course but is she fake? Or really doesn't like Me? It's weird.

He asked me how is the boy who gave me the ring.. he made the assumption that it was a boy who gave me a ring, since he does not know me well and especially my relationships. From this guy's fb, I can tell that he is in a committed relationship so I don't think he was interested in me, do guys ask these questions as a small talk.. I just thought it was a bit of a personal question.

I am a girl and in highschool and everytime i hang around with my so called friends they meet people for the first time and they conect so fast with them, and when it comes to me it doesnt feel that way. It feels all akward. When I was trying to befriend my so called friends, it took like a year and how doesnt it take them that much time to befriend someone like that but it happens to me. They are really pretty people but when it comes to me I am not like them.