I am part of a wedding where the bride is still good friends with her ex i. I see this as trouble and want to talk to the groom.

My husband's parents' house was foreclosed on.When the people showed up to move their stuff and take the house,his dad was freaking out.He kept yelling for people to leave and get off his property,was yelling nonsense, and just being loud and ridiculous.My husband said the movers were saying they were going to leave and at one point someone threatened to call the cops. My hubby is normally level headed,but said at one point his dad was being out of control so him and a brother picked him up under the arms and moved him away.He said throughout the day there was a lot of fighting, yelling and cursing at each other, and it was out of control. My husband said he was trying to get in there,help pack,and get them moved out,but his dad was making the situation very difficult. At one point,he said his dad was yelling at people,so my husband grabbed him by the shirt and yelled at him to stop and cut it out. (different words, same idea). My father in law left and went to another house,and ended up having a heart attack.Now,my husband feels responsible. He feels guilty for putting his hands on his dad; he never had before. I feel nauseous. His dad is in poor health; he had 4 heart attacks over the years before. This is different because it was such a high stress situation and my hubby put his hands on him. Is my husband responsible?! Did he give his dad a heart attack?! I think the factor causing us anxiety is the part where my husband's hands were on him. I know he was in poor health and was all fired up, but maybe if my husband didn't put his hands on him he wouldn't have had a heart attack? Like, maybe all the yelling was okay, but the physical stuff put him over the edge? I wanted to ask his mom if his dad was upset with him, BUT they are both so stressed I don't want to put an extra burden on her and make her feel worse. His brother, who also was helping my husband move him, said they were trying to move him from impeding the work being done and his dad was getting mad at the wrong people. My husband also said he doesn't want to bring it up with his dad out of fear that he will freak out again.... I am very anxious about it, too! I am trying not to be upset with my husband....but I am kind of.

Every day I feel like I'm losing my sanity. I tell him how I feel, that we need our own place, that I (WE!) need privacy but he is afraid to leave his aunt alone in the Apartment. And he keeps using the excuse that we don't have the money to move. He's been saying that for the whole year and we both work!! We have money!! Then his aunt cooks all day for her "side business" but I get home from work and can't even use the kitchen to eat/cook. By midnight I'm in bed and she's still cooking. I'm fed up. I feel like a roommate. He spends ZERO time with me, it's mostly with his aunt or cousins or friends. When he does sit with me it's him in the same room laughing at Facebook videos. I'm at my end. Tonight I just hopped in my car and left the apartment. I've decided to sleep in my car because I cannot take it anymore. Every time I walk into the apt I just feel depressed. Like I'm in a dark place.

My husband makes sexual advances on me quite often, and sometimes i dont want him to do that because usually im in the middle of something or im not in the "mood" and he ends up making me feel bad about it. Enough times to the point where i just gave myself to him so i wouldnt feel bad for not giving him what he wanted. How do i handle this because i dont want to feel bad for not satisfying him when he wants it?

I saw a YouTube video by Lauren Southern yesterday. It stated that women lose their "market value" as they age. She states, that if a woman wants a 30 some year old man or over, she's going to have to compete with the "fertile, perky, young, pretty" 20 some year olds and I will always lose. She also states that women should start looking for a husband when young & not concentrate on their careers much nor in sleeping/dating many men because we will be wasting our youth/beauty (since, she states, in the end all women want to be married with kids.) It bummed me out. However, if I had married when I was 18-25 ("the beauty peak") I would have been divorced after a few weeks or days. I was too naïve & didn't know what the hell I was doing. That said, some of the guys I dated were fine guys, but had a whole lot of growing up to do as well while the other group of guys were just bad guys (it takes experience and maturity to weed out the good from the bad.) The older guys who hit on me were 21 year olds trapped in a 38 year old body. The divorce rate is the highest amongst the young as well. Not to mention, the married men who have hit on me have married young.

I'm getting pissed because lately my husband hasn't been eating what I make for dinner. He'll want me to make this and that, and then he won't touch it. It's a waste of food and money. Instead of eating what I cooked for us, he'll make his own meal or he'll take himself out to dinner or even eat at someone's house like his mom. Is there any point in being a housewife if I have to feed MYSELF and he only feeds HIMSELF and gets HIS own food?

My new step-Mom is a ***** and I wish I could stop the wedding like in movies. This is my Dad's 4th marriage, my Mom was his 2nd.

My wife is almost 25 we been married for a year we got two kids she has a daughter from her previous marriage me and her have a son together. Her parents kicked her out when she was 15 she lived with her aunt for a few years she married her aunts brother she was only 19 he was 38 and had a son from a previous marriage she also had their daughter. She also had 4 brothers so after her husband left her she dated one of her brothers. After they broke up she dated two of her cousins. Is she crazy ?

I was cooking dinner for my in laws and my in laws came in between the food was cooking and my mother in law said do you need any help at first I said no then she insisted to come and help so I said yes and she messed up my food by putting to much salt and chili and my husband blamed it on me and went on a rant I knew it was her because I could see the smirk on her face when my husband was ranting about it how do I tell my husband it was my mother in law?

Please Help, I have been in an unhappy marriage for 17 years and though I love the guy he has been horrible to me. He is a great father though. We have two kids. He hasn't worked in 10 years and now he got a job out of state from where I live. He got a job in Missouri. He wants me and our two children to move there, however, I just got offered a job in Germany. My kids are 13 and 14 years old and they both want to move with me to Germany but I would essentially be keeping them from their father. What should I do? I likely won't be able to afford to fly them to Missouri but once a year. Or I could move to Missouri and be a stay at home mom. The marriage is loveless so we most likely won't stay together. Also, he can't get out of a contract that he signed. He is on a contract for 4 years.

Did he take a break from me on fb? He used to comment on my posts quite a lot. He stopped cold a few months ago, started up again liking a bunch of my posts for a couple weeks then he stopped again.

She actually dated another guy after him. I didn't know her at the time and it was over 10 years ago. We are now married with kids. She only talks to him once a year and I know I have nothing to worry about. They have a past and I wasn't even in the picture. I just hate this day for that reason. He is nice to me and there isn't an issue. Any advice on what I can do? Thx

What are your thoughts on sex during marriage counselling? Is it a bad idea since we haven't figured "us" out yet? Long story short, my husband cheated on me earlier this year, I kicked him out for one month, he begged his way back in after the other girl dumped him a week after I dumped him. We also have a 2 year old together. We have been living together figuring this out for 6 months now...Sometimes I don't know if things will work out between us or not.

We got together at 15 married at 19 and had our first kid at 20. He was always loving and caring. The rape happed 6 months after our first as I had torn a lot during birth and was in a lot of pain still even after 6 months I told him no and he raped me. I confronted him on it and he said he was sorry and would never do it again (he never did) Fastwared almost 6 year. We now have 3 kids and it still haunts me. I told him about it he said he was sorry and it was the biggest mistake of his life and that he would do anything to help me get through it. Idk why I never left. I don't want a devorice (but fear I must get one). I'm just tired of hurting and don't know what to do. I don't want people judging him for a mistake that he regreats either. I love him even though he hurt me.

My wife and I are newly weds, almost a year. And I am having issues with emotional disconnect. She's not affectionate or uplifting towards me as a person. She will consistently tell her friends how much she cares about them and how amazing of people they are and she loves them, with me she never does this. Every now and then o bring her flowers or cook her a nice dinner, and she never reciprocates or does something to make me feel special. I have brought this up to her, but she gets irritated and immediately accuses me of saying she's not good enough.

They were married for 18 years. Their child is 22 so it is not about her.

while we have sex? He says it helps him grieve and that soon he will be over her.

My mother in law's husband died a little over a year ago. My husband wasn't talking to his mom prior to this and told me she raped him as a child repeatedly. After his father died he kept going to visit her and doing more and more for her. She became more intrusive into our married life. She would call up to ten times daily to talk to my husband. His visits to her became longer and longer. Just last week he had been there 2.5 months and told me he wasn't coming back home. Basically he left me for her. I have seen her pinch his nipple, talk about sex in front of him, get him to help her around house and he said he felt guilty and they started planning things together behind my back and would tell me later. She gave him lavish gifts and basically took over the role as wife I believe. The marriage is definitely over at this point but now they want to come take everything and even the vehicle I have been paying on. I think it's sick and twisted but not sure how to cope with this. I have been having flutters in my chest and get them when I get fearful of seeing him again now. I am becoming paranoid and think I have PTSD also. He has emotionally abused me starting two weeks after we were married. Not sure how to handle this. I have no job and am a full time student. I am angry, hurt, confused, and sickened. I believe him and his mother are both also narcissistic. Not sure what to do exactly first.

Instead of marrying a man who is Financially well off, college educated, successful, smart, loyal, kind, and sincere, comes from a good family, is family oriented, and doesn't have any hang ups. They marry guys who can't hold a job, guys without a college degree, guys who do drugs, guys who are alcoholics, guys who are abusive, guys who have tempers or anger management issues, guys with depression, guys with bad relationships with their parents, etc

I've seen many times when a wife sees her husband getting a ripped 6 pack and nice arms and chest and muscular legs from going to the gym a lot, they start screaming at him to stop working out or else she will divorce him because she thinks he's cheating on her. How does that even make sense

Salaam! Okay so... this may sound a little weird or off... but please dont judge me. I am an 18 year old (converted/non-hijabi) Muslim American. Im proud to be muslim, I love everything about my faith. Recently, I've dceided to start looking for that "somebody"! Even though i'm completely modern (hanging out, enjoying myself and being out there), I dont want to "date" someone or sleep with guy to guy. I'm a virgin and I believe that sex is for marriage. I want to be with someone that I know I can be with, and in my faith, thats how its suppose to be. But its rough. I work from home with my dad, I dont get out much (I cant drive and I dont go anywhere interesting) & I dont attend a masjid (1) because the nearest one is an hour away and (2) the people there are either shady or too over the top with religion. And as much as I love my faith and try my hardest to be devout in it, even i think that they are on the edge of radical as well. Im just nervous that I wont meet someone until I become a creepy old 40 year-old woman who lives at home with her parents! My parents don't trust online dating, and I don't either. But do you think it's wrong for me to try or want to try. I've already kinda promised myself that if I don't meet someone by the age of 20 (whether married or interested in), I'll sign up for online "Islamic Matchmaking"... does this sound crazy? Any advice?? (JazakAllah/God bless in advance!)

Wife and I have been married for a lolng time, great woman amazing beautiful kids but, Her sister is the most toxic horrible person anyone has ever met and is continually failing at relationships. So continues to come around and moan and cry about this. My family is supportive in every way imaginable to our marriage but to my wife her sister always comes first. Our children don't even like her and just her name causes arguments. Sick of it but when I say anything i'm just the bad person...

I am 26 and my husband is 25. We just got married couple weeks ago. We met each other two year ago, at the beginning we met each other twice or three times per week and ever week we would have at least 10 times. in the living room, kitchen, bathroom and everywhere. Right now i am suffering from the "begging for sex" life, it has been a very long time, 3-4 times per month at most, everytime takes about 4 mins, he was hard and straight away got it into me and done. Nothin more. I am 174cm and quite pretty as everyone says that to me and i was very confident about myself, but he lost the interested in me, he would be so angry if i touched his penis or tried to turn him on, the sex is so so boring for me, sometimes he pushed my face away and my heart was just broken completely. I gave up begging for sex, I have tried to talk about it with him, I cried a lot and I don understand what is going on, i feel so unwanted and unattractive. I have tried to play sth new in the kitchen and bathroom, tried to have some private and romantic time, he ignored everything. We never had sex at night any more, only in the morning when he is hard, always in the bed same position same time i really don know what can i do as a 26 years old woman. I started to masturbate for quite long time, tried to talk about it with him but he shouted at me saying he just feels tired and doesn't want sex. I don want this relationship anymore. Gosh. This whole October we had only twice and I know there wont be more.

so recently I discovered that I'm highly attracted to older women not just "on the prowl" kinda of older women either. My wife is a year younger and than I and my MIL has somehow realized I am attracted to older women and has since been genuinely flirting and dropping hints that she also finds me attractive. My wife finds it cute and makes jokes when we are alone. Though I do see my MIL attractive she is in her late 50s, just the right amount of curve, smooth skin etc etc, however, is it a good idea to flirt back innocently or should i nip it in the bud to not cause confusion in the future?

My new BF is 9 inches and girthy, we haven't had intercourse yet mainly because I am scared of it hurting. He's literally twice the size of my ex and he filled me How will that fit in?

My husband has two boys with a girl, she was just his booty call. She does not work, she commits fraud to get money from the government, my husband gives her 2K a month. She has a 200 page child intervention file for abuse to her sons, she is currently engaged and living with a convicted pedophile but the courts did NOTHING. When my husband wants to see his sons, she gives him a list of things he has to for HER first, and he does it so she doesn't hold the kids over him. He doesn't think his wife should come first in his life and tells me I'm selfish and need to get over it. I would never stop him from seeing his kids, but I'm so tired of HER running OUR home! We can't make plans, we can't go on a date night because "she" might need something. I just want my husband to love me the way I love him. Am I wrong? I should add, we tried to get custody of both boys but the Canadian court said there are no conditions on the pedophiles release so they can't do anything...and because she did well to hide from cops and services, they just kept 'closing' her file. The courts failed my husband, but how much do I have to tolerate from my husband being her punching bag bank machine before I have a right to say enough with this woman!

I think the best thing to do is to be honest. I have found that when you do lie, no matter how hard you try to conceal it, the truth always come out in the end. When you lie to someone, not only do you break that bond of trust with them, but you also hurt their pride, because you've made them feel like a fool for trusting you. And because of that, regaining their trust can be very difficult, sometimes even impossible. Relationships are cannot exist without honesty. Honesty breeds trust, which in turn breeds respect, and without those three things a relationship cannot exist - period. And that is true of all relationships, whether they be romantic, or platonic. I'm not saying be brutally honest. Always try to be tactful, but when that fails, then you do have to say it like it is. And be honest in all things, whether big or small. In fact, if you're not honest about little things, you will not be honest about big things, because you will already built of behavioral pattern of being dishonest, which is a tough thing to break - take it from someone who's been there. So how about you? What do you say to this question?