Family: Question: How can i get out of this familly?

Question: How can i get out of this familly?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 02:30 PM PDT

Hi all.im 20.im tired of my situation.my familly made me sick,they dont let me go out alone,they dont let me go continue educating..parents made me crazy..they treated me badly they always abused me in public..i remember i was 16,once my brother came to my room and punched me in the head for not ironning his clothes,i said it is not my duty to iron your clothes then he got angry and grabbed my hair,he pushed me to the living room and started beating me,my dad also helped him,they beated me badly,and mom just went to her room and closed the door.for about two monthes i had pain in my body..my bro and dad beat me alot,i feel unsecure in my house,i afraid of them beating me again,im iranian.my country doesnt support me.i know if i call to police and tell them what my familly do,they wont do anything for me.i hope i could be disapear,i wish i could go to another country,i have a cousin.he said he will bring me to usa if i marry him and play in amateur porns.he wanna earn money by me in usa,i dont know what to do,please answer me(thank you for reading this long passage.)

Question: I should not have to do anything to help my kids move out. I want them to leave my house but they won't walk?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 02:28 PM PDT

They both refuse to walk 30 miles a day to get a job the bus is 30 miles from us in city. The jobs from where we live are 15 miles away to walk there and 15 back everyday. Neither owns a birth certificate and ssn as I ripped them up in 2012. I am not getting them a bike or driving them. I don't want to teach my kids how to drive, but I do want them both to move out next year. They may not be mentally adults yet as that normally(from my experience as I am in my 50s) as that comes later on, but legally they will be 18 and 19 legal adults. My brother and sister keep mentioning how they think I am in the wrong. All I plan to do is kick my kids out next year, without them knowing how to drive. What is so wrong with that? The law does not say you have to teach your kids how to. I am their father

Question: Dad is an alcoholic and Mom says it means he does not love me. I feel so sad. Is Mom right that if he loves me he wouldn't be alcoholic?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 02:27 PM PDT

I feel so sad he doesn't love me and I can't ask him as I am not close to him cause my Mom wouldn't let me see him until I turned 18. I am 21 now and see him a few times a year. My Mom insults him all the time and tells me if he loved me he'd get help and she resents I have a relationship again with him when my step-father sees me more. My Mom likes to push the line "your father doesn't love you or he'd get help, your step-father is the one who loves you". She is happily married to my step-Dad.

Question: My Dad is very ignorant of my anxiety disorders. I am scared of him. How do I get him to see he is hurting me?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 02:26 PM PDT

I am 32 so not a kid or anything. I see him once or twice a month and am always scared. I wish I could die.

Question: My step-sister is pregnant. She is a slut. What excuses should I make for her having a kid?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 02:25 PM PDT

This is the 3rd kid from the 3rd guy. My step-Mom makes the excuse that her daughter's bio-father molested her at age 4. However, I think step-mom is letting her off easy since that was 18 years ago.

Question: Why do moms love their sons more than they love their daughters?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 02:18 PM PDT

Question: My old brother beat me and treated me like dirt when i was little, but now as adults, I am way more successful. How do I get even?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 01:56 PM PDT

Question: Is this weird?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 01:28 PM PDT

My brother is engaged and about to get married in a year. I do believe that he is very much in love with his current fiance. However, he is still in contact with an old friend. He is still in love with her but she never loved him back. When I told him that he shouldn't talk to her anymore, he absolutely could not let her go. It would tear him apart. I just don't really know what to think about this. How do you marry one woman if you're still in love with another woman? He would never admit he had feelings for his old friend too. I know he loves his old friend because back then he was super gaga over her. His fiance knows about this but he still makes excuses that she is just an old friend with no romantic feelings involved.

Question: My family is driving me nuts. Is it okay to feel like this?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 12:48 PM PDT

So I had to move back in to my parents house and commute to college for the fall semester as a senior. I thought it would be a good idea to save money, but then I always forget the stupid **** that my family does when I come home. Everyday, my dad gets up at the crack of dawn and starts slamming cabinets and other **** in the kitchen, and I can hear everything cause my room is on the first floor next to the kitchen. I can him mumble and swear under his breath like hes gonna kill someone and it pisses me off cause Im tyring to sleep and its annoying. I talked to him about it 3 times and nothing changed. That also chased my gf from wanting to stay at my house again. My mom will start hounding me with life questions as soon as I get back from being at class and work all day. My 18 yr old sister will get into arguments with my parents and will scream at them any time of the day. Im already saving up enough money to to out of here for the spring, but I cannot stand my family anymore the way they act. Is that wrong based on what I have to be around all the time? They did a lot for me that I appreciate, but now that Im older I just to get away from them. I really wish I didnt feel like that, but my family is not normal.

Question: Is there a way to move in with my mom without my dads consent? (he won’t let me)?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 12:38 PM PDT

i don't want to live at my dads anymore. i cant stand it. at all. i want to move back in with my mom but my dad won't let me. there's nothing wrong with my mother, she's an amazing person. i don't see why he won't let me move. is there a way i can go to live with my mom without having my dad interfere? if it's possible, i don't want a custody battle— but going to court isn't out of the question. thank you!! ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.0.03

Question: Should I tell my family I went to Mexico?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 12:34 PM PDT

Before I turned 18, my family told me Mexico was a very dangerous place, and that nobody should ever go there (unless they are from Mexico themselves). Now that I'm an adult, I secretly went to Mexico without telling my family, and I was robbed and had my phone and $900 stolen. I went back home the same day, and my family said they almost called the police because I wasn't responding to texts/calls from them and had been gone from home so long. I didn't want to tell them that I was in Mexico and got robbed, so I just told them I accidentally lost my phone on the bus. They said I should buy a new phone, but I don't have much money due to the robbery. Should I tell them the truth?

Question: What would you do in a relationship if given this ultimatum?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 12:12 PM PDT

I have been with someone 3 and 1/2 years. I have a 10 year old son, that is not his child. He has recently gave me an ultimatum to never send my son s father pictures of his son, or he is out. Also, he wants me to be more rude to my son s father when he gives me a hard time. (Which I m not nice when he does) Also, my mother is very low on the totem pole of good mothers. He can t stand her and wants me to confront her more about things and actually never wants to see her face again. This is hard for me. I hardly see her in the first place, is she annoyng? Yes. But during holidays or other occasions I will see her and would hate that he doesn t want to be around. My relationship with my mother is a sore spot and at the end of the day I need support and understanding, yet he has threatened to leave because he can t accept that I won t completely X her from my life. I am just not understanding how the bad things about my sons father and my mother play a role in determining my relationship. He knows my struggles with them, but suddenly "can t take it no more" . Is this fair? How can I approach this? I just see it as insulting and like the relationship doesn t mean that much to him if he s willing to throw it away over these things.

Question: My friend thinks she knows everything?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 11:42 AM PDT

Every time I start a conversation about something with someone she always has to comment or say her opinion (and according to her, her opinion is always the right one). You can't argue with her, even though when she realizes she's wrong she brings up another similar topic or starts to cry and says that we don't understand her. My other friends (my whole class) agrees with me. They all think she's a know-it-all. I just want to tell her to shut up and stop caring about other peoples conversations! Like this is our conversation, not hers! Once we were eating at Subway and I heard some ladies in the back talking about getting a power bank. I turned around and said that there is a chance that they ruin your battery. The moment I finished the sentence she (and her twin brother) start to yell at me and say that that's impossible and so on. Scenarios like this repeat in my head like 100 times a day until I get a panic attack (literally). And that ain't good for my health. Another thing that isn't good for my health is that she has to shout every time she has to prove someone wrong. I sit next to her in class and my other friends sit on my other side. So every ti(day)me when she's yelling at them she's shouting straight into my ear. Her mouth is about 5 inches away from my ear. I can hear the ringing in my ear as soon as it gets quiet. What should I tell her to make her stop?

Question: Women? Do you prefer masturbation or one night stand sex within a dude?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 10:47 AM PDT

Question: Am I a bad sibling because I forgot my sister's 17th birthday this morning?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 10:44 AM PDT

Question: MY sister is a bully. My brother is a druggy. How do I go about accepting I have bad siblings only?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 10:33 AM PDT

Question: My aunt is in menopause and she is lashing out at everyone in the family. How do we cope and keep the family together?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 10:32 AM PDT

Last weekend she was in town so my parents and I had to flee in the night like refugees fleeing a war and we went to the beach for 3 days (I got to miss school Monday). This aunt used to be fine but she has turned on everyone for 5 years. My Dad says it is a woman thing (I am a boy aged 15) but that it usually doesn't last this long so might not just be menopause. How do we cope and keep the family together. It is my Mom's sister. She, my Mom, is sad by it but terrified of her sister and doesn't want me to have to be brought into it. How do we stay safe and cope?

Question: My Dad is an asshole. How do I find a new father-like figure to comfort me?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 10:28 AM PDT

I am not trolling, I am broken by having no Dad that loves me.

Question: Is having ptsd because of a toxic parent explanation for nightmares you are back home hating it, and not wanting anything to do with them?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 09:24 AM PDT

I want no more connection at all. Nor to visit.

Question: Do my parents hate me?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 09:18 AM PDT

Over the course of the past several years I noticed that my parents often treated me way differently than my other brothers. For instance, I would get punished harshly for something my other brothers wouldn't get punished at all for. I cant talk to them about it because whenever I bring it up they brush it off as me trying to manipulate. Recently I had been accused of using the answer key for my homework at school, they just said they wanted to clear things up by having a meeting after school. When my Mom heard of this she instantly was almost siding with the side of I cheated, but I hadn't cheated at all. She looked through my graded homework and checked the answer key and found that a few were similar. Every time I attempt to talk to them or share my feelings they literally don't give a ****. I cant do anything, I starting to think they actually hate me. They always think I'm manipulating in every circumstance when I bring up this matter, and it frustrates me. How do I even talk to them? I try to talk to my dad too, but he is practically impossible to talk to due to his high temper. IT eventually leads to him getting pissed, or just punishing me. They both always side with each other, and always think their right and I'm wrong. I literally don't get a single opinion in anything. It's annoying and I don't know how much more of this I can handle.

Question: Omg you people are retarded. Im saying your kid can still feel like they were sexaully assaulted from getting spanked.?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 08:43 AM PDT

Just because youre the parents that doesn't give you the right to say its not sexaul assault.

Question: How is spanking a kid not sexaul assault?Its no different from a stranger smacking their butt.if your kid feels sexaul assaulted then u did.?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 08:35 AM PDT

Question: Is it weird that my dad didn’t give me a birthday present?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 08:17 AM PDT

My mum and dad have been split up since I was one year old so it's no big deal but for my birthday every year my dad gets me a present (of course) and I don't want to sound like a brat I wouldn't really care if I got no presents but last birthday he just called me and said "he didn't know what to get me so he'd give me £10 extra pocket money a month" idk if it's just me over thinking but I feel like he just didn't care and it's not like he doesn't have the money, he spent £2000 in one month on nursery for my half brother and sister?? Idk it really upset me because my mum is really broke but she still puts in so much effort to make my birthday good and it's so frustrating

Question: Need some advice?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 08:01 AM PDT

I moved out of state to be with my girlfriend. We live at her moms house and she promised me that we would move back to my home state after she finishes this year out. But now she wants to stay another year here. Her dad just got arrested and will be in jail for awhile. Her mom depends on her daughter quite a bit and always asks for money. My girlfriend also has to be a mom to her brother who is 15. She said she's worried about her mom and her brother and that she needs to stay here another year to make sure they are okay. I can understand that part with her dad being in jail for assault. Not sure when he could get out but what should I do? I feel like I'm the only one making sacrifices. She told me she wanted me here to help her get out of this place with all the bad memories and now she's wanting to stay. I know her mom talked her into it. I just need some advice. Thanks

Question: I am 23 and my mom is a methadone addict and so clingy and she is annoying me. Help?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 06:51 AM PDT

She always wants me to take her places but she emotionally neglected me as a child and I dislike her. I don't want her in my life. My brother avoids her often but she will throw guilt trips on me and I do not live at home anymore but she still irritates me. She is on disability. At least twice I took her to cvs to get cigarrates (the most expensive pack) and she lied to me and said that she had enough when she didn't and I ended up buying them. Buying her cigarettes made me look bad in front of customer's. Some lady was starting at me. Is it wrong to disown her? She wants a relationship with me but I hate drug addicts who refuse to change.

Question: Someone help what to do next?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 06:41 AM PDT

Erm i get bullied at school and i have skipped a lot. I moved out from where i used to live (i used to live with another family that i didnt really like just to be bear my school and because i didnt want to live with sister) and now i live with my sister. My father has taken a 20 day break from work so i live with him too now. The thing is i live 2 hours away from school (by bus) so i need to wake up at 5 am and sometimes i wake up at 7 am and my father says if i dont want to go to school i should just quit. He nags at me all the time that he doesnt want to pay the fees if i wont go to school and only be at home yet my sister does exactly that. My family was never supportive so i have to find a way to get money and move out when i can. I dont want to explain anything to them cause i ******* hate them. What do i do? Im so afraid of my future

Question: How to let my parents let me go out for a last minute meal with my grandmother?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 06:35 AM PDT

So my parents are picking up my other grandmother(Marilyn) from the airport so my other grandmother (pat) is looking after my brother and I. Granny pat offered to take me out for a last minute meal today, just me and her and I'd really like to go, however she doesnt want to drive back in the dark as she is frightened. It gets dark around half past five in the evening in England at the moment. My granny Marilyn should be home about 3:30 ish but I don't want to seem rude and like I want to rush off without having a conversation with her. It's just that I never get to go out with my granny pat and I'd like to spend some time with her and the restaurant she's offered to take me to is very nice. Is there any way I can convince my parents to let me go without it seeming rude

Question: Stole netball uniform.?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 05:48 AM PDT

I am a 14 year old boy and today I stole 2 netball dresses from my school sports storeroom. I hid them in my jacket and then stuffed them in my bag. I have also stolen a school dress and skirt. I just really love wearing them in private. Should I return them. Or should I wear them to school.

Question: How often do you talk to your mom?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 05:25 AM PDT

I work at the same place as her but i clean and shes in office. I go see her when i get there at my break and before i leave. She then texts me to see if i got home ok which is fine but if i dont answer she calls me or my husband. She texts me silly questions sometimes about every 10 min . She called my husband 3 times yesterday ,is this a normal amount ? I am 31 he is 26 i know cougar lol but we are adults and i feel like she is having trouble accepting that

Question: Is it bad that I enjoy when guys have a crush on me?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 04:56 AM PDT

I love meeting nice guys who obviously like me..they don't directly come out and say they like me but they ask me if I have a boyfriend and touch me, some ask for my number, some give me compliments. A few guys that I work with at my new job definitely have a little crush on me and I never get uncomfortable because they have boundaries..but I do love being wanted because it lets me know that I'm doing something right when I fix my hair and do my makeup despite having to wear a ugly uniform lol..overall is this bad that I crave the attention? I think that it's so cute and maybe I make them think they have a little chance never reveling the guy who I actually really only like which is neither of the man I work with. Overall is this bad?

Question: I am depressed that at Thanksgiving my Mom is making us boycott her family gathering cause she hates out uncle. How do I cheer up?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 04:53 AM PDT

This really hurts. I am neutral but they hate each other. It makes me want to hate one of my siblings just to show my Mom and Dad how ugly it is. My Dad joined her in hating this uncle cause he had an affair and left his wife. I am not a fan of the uncle but that means I can't see any of my cousins until next summer. It really hurts. My Dad gets mad when I try to bring it up as they are pushing me to fill my heart with hate like them. What do I do? Thanksgiving and Christmas are going to suck. I am 15 and grounded if I see anyone who sees my uncle at the holidays.

Question: My sister likes to boss everyone around. How do I get her back in a way where she won't do it anymore?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 04:35 AM PDT

Question: Why do some children reject their parents?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 04:27 AM PDT

I gave birth to my only child when I was 19. Whenever I tried to pick her up as a baby she would begin screaming. Her dad could hold her and pick her up fine. As a toddler, she would not listen to me but would listen to her dad just fine. Her dad and I were never married or even really together but we shared custody and tried to coparent until she was 8. She was always pleasant to everyone else except me. It got so bad I ended up letting her dad take full custody when she was 8. I couldn't take being hated on and I had become an alcoholic. She is 23 now and she wants nothing to do with me. Her and her stepmom are very close. She considers her stepmom her mom. Is there a possible reason for this? I did have postpartum depression after she was born and was very anxious being near her when she was young. Did this affect our ability to bond. I refuse to have any more children because of how this situation affected me. Is it my fault? Or is there some reason she never took to me being her mother?

Question: How can a child be adopted by someone else even if they are an adult?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 04:15 AM PDT

I had one daughter, my only child at age 19. I gave custody to her dad when she was 8 because she and I never got along and I've had some struggles with alcohol abuse. I went to rehab 3 times, starting when she was 8 but I've been completely sober since she was 11. Her father married when she was 4 (her dad and I were never married). We tried going to family therapy for a year when I got sober the last time but all she would do is sulk, tell the therapist I'm not her mother, that her stepmother is and that she hates me. Her attitude towards me hasn't changed. She refuses to see me or have anything to do with me. My husband and I moved away when she was 13 since therapy wasn't working. I invited her to spend summers with me but she refused. When my husband died of cancer 1 1/2 years ago, she refused to come to the funeral. She never considered him her stepdad, which I respect. They never were close. But I realized I likely won't ever have a relationship with her. I sent her one last email saying I loved her and if and when she was ready to have a relationship with me, I would be available. Haven't heard from her since. Recently, I received some court papers in the mail. Her dad, stepmom, and herself are looking to have her stepmom adopt her at 23. I'm fine with her stepmom adopting her, at this point. I probably would have allowed it when she was a minor if they had asked. I'm just curious how this can happen since she's an adult now.

Question: My mom is forcing me to take out student loans to give her so that she can buy a house in our respective third world country.?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 04:08 AM PDT

I am making $8.25 an hour. I live alone and pay $500 for rent. I also take care of my basic needs. Therefore, I can t help her with my $8.25 an hour job. So, she wants me to take out a loan to give her. Please I need some advice.

Question: My sister in law has blocked me on whatsapp for no reason?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 02:49 AM PDT

She is my husband's cross cousin. She seems to hate me for no reason and has insulted me verbally by using harsh words but i never hurted her. She tries to get closer to my husband and my mother in law likes her a lot and compares me with her. I dont want to quarrel with her and create a mess. She has me blocked but keeps texting my husband. What do i do? It is stressing me out. Help.

Question: I was in a terrible fight with mom and said this!?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 02:48 AM PDT

I said I rather have my father instead of her alive. I ask her while frustrated and yelling at her why did she let me live. Why did she let me live to suffer. She lets me live so I suffer from her. I yelled "why do you let me live!" While in the hallway, dropping to my knees, breaking down. I'm not around her now but I no longer can continue nor want any contact with my mom. I just ignore her life on this planet. I hope she ignored my life too. All she does is make suffering happen in my life. Why does she insist I wanna talk to her? Why should I go backwards to show her 'love.' Nah, I think I'm good off. I already lost a parent, she made her self get lost to me. Dead to me. Worthless mother less bastard. She can never know what to understand from her own son. The son that is lost to her now. She stil has other family, I don't see them either because of her influence around them. I need to pull my brother out of that house. It's the only reason I will come back for.

Question: What do i do?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 02:11 AM PDT

I was sexually abused and bullied at home when i was in middle school i was scared to tell my family because i knew they wouldnt believe me and i didnt know how to ask for help..My brothers would always bully me.. they would destroy everything i owned. Like barbies, electronics i would get from my god father, they wouldnt allow me to use the wifi. They would block me. They treated me like ****. One older brother was a pervert i always knew he was. I was made fun of by my brother because i used to struggle with wet bedding.. even at the age of where i should of overcame that.. even before i was sexually abused by my moms partner i had traumatic memories of being abused younger but for some reason i dont remember how it happened.. at a young age ive always had anxiety and its only getting worst. i acted like everything was ok..even though i was always scared and would cry everynight.. i know i handled things the wrong way.. i wish i.could of done things differently. i was threatened. when he wasnt.. cause of my anxiety i struggle to communicate.. and my abuser told my family that i came on to.him.. easy for him to say when all i wanted was a father figure. i wanted him to treat me like how he would treat his cousin thats my age.. i lost my father when i beleive i was 6.. i dont remember him. its like i can never remember the good times. Im forgetful, foolish feeling framed..i.let people control me... ive been called a slave, skank prost before. I never stand up for myself.

Question: I noticed that moms love their sons more than their daughters why is that?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 01:41 AM PDT

Question: What does this mean?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 01:34 AM PDT

Question: It feels so gross and annoying to hear my sister talk to her boyfriend!?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 01:33 AM PDT

It sounds sooo fake. My sister's voice is not her own when she starts doing this 'baby talk' to her bf. Like it's terribly acted in front of my eyes. It's like my ears are being stabbed. Oh my god it's annoying! I'm still irritated after 20 minutes. It's ugly. I don't like feeling this way. I hate it when she says "honey" to him. Saying that is the fakest. She so absorbed in what she call this 'relationship.' I feel like it runs her life, stupid *** *****..Her acts including this 'cute voice talk,' she is trying to play a role, it's NOT HER REAL SELF!!! I'm beginning to really hate what she is. She never showed this side and now it's all the more revealing. Their relationship makes me sick. All the drugs she's done has slowed her down and she skips many things when we talk. Talking is always hard now, she makes me do more work for us to conversate civilly. Or else we would just yell at each other and get nothing out of talking. No respect for me and she doesn't get respect all the time from her bf. I wonder why she lets her stupid *** get disrespected. Then she gets mad at me for no apparent reason when I ask normal things like re up on clean water or groceries, that I chip in too but noo she already this ***** attitude. Stupid girl has learned nothing from our Father. Maybe we should just hangout, and we can talk about Father, if it leaves something for her to think about.

Question: What do you think about antinatalism?

Posted: 25 Oct 2017 12:57 AM PDT

Question: I told my sister I wish she wouldnt exist and then she cried. I feel bad?

Posted: 24 Oct 2017 11:50 PM PDT

Question: What should i do?

Posted: 24 Oct 2017 10:02 PM PDT

my dad like i said before has ptsd and my mom is focusing on my brothers more than me it feels like at least the one thing she is doing is trying to get rid of the bed bugs that are only on my bed plus she said she didn know what to do with my blood pressure drops when i try to talk to them they hardly listen or do things i tried to tell them i blacked out but my parents hardly listen so i told the nurse which my mom finally decide to listen to the doctor and take me to the ER but before when i told her she tried to drag me places and said i´m sorry i don´t know what to do and i tell her and she acted like she couldn´t hear me. any advice? and i am think of running away and hiding in a forest.

Question: Am I too young to decide about what to wear and what not to wear??

Posted: 24 Oct 2017 09:27 PM PDT

I'm a 13 year old girl. Yes! I know that I'm not an adult, but I have a right to decide what to wear and what not to wear! My mom say that I'm to young to decide on my own and she must decide for me. I understand that, but my garments are my own personal issues, NOT HERS!

Question: Should I sext my cousin?

Posted: 24 Oct 2017 09:00 PM PDT

So hey guys when I was 12 , I lived with my cousin and we used to masturbate with each other. I am a boy and she is a girl It was really fun but then we grow up and move to different state. We still snapchating each other. I talk about what we did before and she get mad , I dont know why Should I talk to her like that? She looks hot too. And she used to love my penis. Im not a troll but it felt great. We didnt had sex or anything

Question: Is it normal that my mom keeps calling me ugly during arguments just to make me upset?

Posted: 24 Oct 2017 08:46 PM PDT

Question: TOXIC PARENTS PLEASE HELP ME?

Posted: 24 Oct 2017 08:38 PM PDT

Hi. I'm going to be 13 soon. Yes, I'm under age on here, but I need answers. I can't tell if I'm stupid or if my parents are toxic. I usually go in my room to avoid them. But I do homeschool and I am isolated from people and am desperate to talk to someone. Whenever I step out of my room I'm immediately sent back in. My mom yells and says I'm stupid, useless, and can't do anything right for my age. She told me that I'M the one that puts her in the bad mood, but really, no. I'm always upset when my mom does that. She blames everything on me. My dad, on the other hand is almost as bad. He yells and threatens to beat us up. When I don't pay attention he screams at me. My parents make fun of me for being so depressed. They think it's because we are slightly poor. They are the reason that I am. Am I being overdramatic?

Question: Im mailing a lollipop in a envelope, will 2 stamps be enough to get it sent ?

Posted: 24 Oct 2017 08:07 PM PDT

Question: My Mom likes to use me as a pawn against my Dad. They divorced 12 years ago. How do I break this chain now that I am an adult?

Posted: 24 Oct 2017 07:56 PM PDT

It ruined my childhood and caused me great anxiety,

Question: How do I get my Mom to stop being nice to my Dad who is mean to me?

Posted: 24 Oct 2017 07:49 PM PDT

Question: Why are firstborn children less social?

Posted: 24 Oct 2017 07:48 PM PDT

Lots of children with social skills above their age and are the well-known ones among their peers are more likely to be a younger or middle sibling. Not as many of them are the oldest child in their family position. Some parents mention that their oldest child has a a few/some friends, but the younger ones are more social.

Question: My step family is ruining my life, what to do?

Posted: 24 Oct 2017 07:40 PM PDT

It s been like this for close to 8 years. My dad married some coke addict bartender with 5 kids awhile ago and they re literally ruining my life. Now 4 of the "kids" who are all age ranged from 23-29 live in a my dads house built for 4, with their significant others. Also the drug addict step uncles live here too. So currently theres 10 people here, they don t have jobs or barely do. All they do is eat our food, do drugs, drug deals and act like violent savages. I usually avoid them as much as possible but right now it s hard. There is literally no food in my house at all and it s been like that for weeks. I had just bought myself food with my last few dollars (im in high school and no job yet) and my step sisters felon boyfriend at it all while I was out with my Grandma. I haven t been able to eat much or even something as simple as getting in the bathroom, lately I feel like I m falling back into severe depression. I m just upset, scared and tired of everything. My dad acts all upset too and says "he can t take it anymore" but he never does anything about it. It s like he doesnt actually care, he wants me to ignore it all and act like it s okay but that doesn t help.. There s way more to this but I ll run out of characters.

Question: How to convince my mother to buy me bras?

Posted: 24 Oct 2017 07:26 PM PDT

I have two bras, and they are super ratty. I have couple sports bras and I recently pulled my money to buy myself another bra for 20 bucks which is coming it the mail. I need some everyday bra s because my other ones are disgusting, they are super ratty, the underwire is so annoying and I can t wear them because they are breaking. My mother won t buy me any because she thinks 2 is enough and I would by myself one but I don t have enough money to. My mother has like 3-5 bras. I don t want to sound bratty but I think bras are something a mother should buy their teen daughter. Any help on convincing her

Question: Im 20 and my brother is 16 Im going to take my brother to a movie at 10 pm after work but there is a curfew policy after 8 pm?

Posted: 24 Oct 2017 07:17 PM PDT

Do you think the theatre will let my brother in even if im not 21 ?

Question: My dad makes me feel like absolute sht, what do i do?

Posted: 24 Oct 2017 07:07 PM PDT

i'm a fcking great kid. i get a's in class, i've never gotten in trouble in school or out of school. i'm intelligent, and i plan to graduate highschool early. my dad probably thinks i'm the absolute spawn of satan. he's ALWAYS angry about something. whenever he talks to me (which is not very often) and notices me doing something he doesn't like, even the slightest little thing such as me looking downcast, he'll make a big deal about it and threaten to take my electronics away for a month until I say sorry for "being disrespectful." he claims that i am rude, uncivil, and a total brat due to the "evil" people i am with at school (i don't have any friends out of school), the "garbage" the teachers spew, and the things I see on the internet. I do not talk to anyone at school, the teachers just teach, and all I fcking view on the internet are MEMES and he fcking knows that. he's constantly saying, "what are you, a girl?" and calling me a little *****, also saying my friends are faggts. and he says that the only way i will repent is if i read the bible. i have read the bible, i've read it front cover to back. didn't do sht. i'm not christian. my mom doesn't do anything. usually i dont give a single fck what my dad does to me, it just makes me extremely angry. sometimes it affects me, though and i've actually cried because of what he does (and he saw it). not sure wtf to do about any of this, i'm moving out in 2 years and don't know if i can handle anymore of this.

Question: Why was my sister doing this?

Posted: 24 Oct 2017 06:34 PM PDT

This was yearsssss ago. I was 7 and she was 16. I come home from school and I caught my sister and her boyfriend kissing in my room, on my bed. Why? She had her own room.

Question: Should me, my boyfriend and my son move in to a big house with his brother, wife and mom plus two kids?

Posted: 24 Oct 2017 06:30 PM PDT

My boyfriends brother is renting out a big 5 bedroom house. He wanted his mom to move in with him and his wife to help pay and plot the rent. His mom said she can't be away from her other son (my boyfriend) so his brother suggested we all move in. My boyfriend thinks it's a great idea he'll be in the same house as his mom and brother. We would have our own bedroom as well as my son. I don't think it's a really good idea since I've had personal issues before with his mom and things HAVE gotten pretty heated. I don't like the idea of having to share kitchens and not being able to decorate my own house the way I'd like. I just don't like the idea of sharing a home with someone other than my own family being my boyfriend and son. Is it a good idea?