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- Question: HELP I am jealous of my best friend?
- Question: Gaving away a gift? Is this rude?
- Question: My best friend never supports me?
- Question: Would you rather prefer friends who are nice to you or friends who are honest? I believe honesty is the best policy but I could be wrong?
- Question: Well I have a friend who is bugging me and rags on just about everything I like that he doesn t what do i do?
- Question: Sometimes I feel so alone, that I want to kill my self?
- Question: A woman was sexually seducing a guy, and she said that the guy looked as if he wanted to "kill her." Did she mean that he wanted to have sex?
- Question: I always get rejected by everyone just because I'm a gang member?
- Question: Will I get in trouble? Pls help 10 points!!?
- Question: What should I do if my friends don’t care about me?
- Question: I tell her everything but she tells me nothing?
- Question: I am not meant for this world...?
- Question: Friend blowing me off?
- Question: How did I hurt his feelings?
- Question: My mom told me to kill myself?
- Question: My mother never washes my uniform or buys me clothes and I'm getting bullied?
- Question: Hello, so I have 4 friends.?
- Question: My friend and I made plans to hangout on her birthday and now she isn't answering me?
- Question: Is it rude of me to not hangout with my friend on her birthday?
- Question: My best friend and I are growing apart?
- Question: If i officially unfriended 32 people today is that a lot?
- Question: When a girl rolls her eyes?
- Question: Am i really that ugly??
- Question: Was i wrong to bring this up ??
- Question: My friend is still sulking...?
- Question: Took my friend 3 months to replace hdmi port. Should I be mad?
- Question: DO middle school friendships usually continue on to high school?
- Question: If my friends sister invited me to visit my other friend at college, is it wrong to go to my friends party without her?
- Question: My husband is giving his female best friend 700 dollars for a car am I wrong for thinking this is out of line?
- Question: How can you tell that a single man loves a married woman?
- Question: How do you visit a friend home lives on an island?
- Question: I think all my friends that I drink with use me?
- Question: Is it wrong for me to don't want to hang out with her because I am failing my classes?
- Question: I basically have no friends?
- Question: You can't AVOID this topic in the real world, right?
- Question: What do I do for a high school Christmas party?
- Question: Why do some hang with me when they are alone?
- Question: Why am I so insecure ?? Why is that?
- Question: Why have i never had a good friend?
- Question: How do I handle this?
- Question: Why is President Trump so wildly popular, beloved and respected all around the world?
- Question: What kind of woman am I?
- Question: My friends are being mean and I don’t know how to make new ones.?
- Question: Do lots of people make friends for life in college?
- Question: This is my last year of high school, do I have to worry about fighting in college because I'm tired of fighting. Do I have to keep hands up?
- Question: Who can be my friend?I'm a Chinese boy.Please leave your contact information.?
- Question: What to say in text?
- Question: How likely is it that someone would forget their own suicide attempt?
- Question: Is it socially wrong to tell friends I'd like to see them more often?
- Question: Girl online says she will never leave a man even though he said he doesnt like her romantically?
- Question: Is my friend bad for me? I don't want to be friends anymore but don't have the heart to ruin a friendship?
- Question: Is it normal to hate high school?
- Question: I miss my middle school friends ;( ?
- Question: Am I just a lone high school loser?
- Question: Do I have every right to be upset at my friend over this?
- Question: What's wrong with me?
- Question: Ideas for things to put in a care package for this boy at my school?
- Question: My best friend s mum hates me!!!?
- Question: A former friend is causing me a lot of emotional pain?
- Question: Is this worth losing my best friends?
| Question: HELP I am jealous of my best friend? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 05:14 PM PDT I am jealous of my friend that lives in a different region than me. I had to move and all my friends live in that region, but she is my best friend and I am jealous of her. She kind of took my friends and got closer to them than me even though I was the one who introduced her to them. She is skinnier than me and when she posts with my friends i get jealous. What do i do. |
| Question: Gaving away a gift? Is this rude? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 04:45 PM PDT I bought matching pins for me and my friend. When I told her I ordered them, she said "I wonder if they have different pins." After getting the pins, I texted a picture to her and she ignored it. I have a friend I know who would like the pin a lot more. I also know that if I don't give the pin to my original friend, she'll probably forget about it anyways. Is it rude to give the pin to someone else? She seems uninterested in it. |
| Question: My best friend never supports me? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 04:13 PM PDT I'm best friends with this kid, call him "James". We've been best friends since grade four(for clarification I'm in 8th grade) And the last time I remember him supporting me was four years ago. In fact, a few days ago I fought with a friend and he took the side of the OTHER person. I'm so pissed because his excuse was "Well...from what I've heard, it was your fault..." and pulls some BS like that. I don't know what to do. Every time I confront him, he just pulls his annoying excuse that I'm "untrustworthy" and it gets on my nerves. What do I do? |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2017 03:59 PM PDT Regardless of whether feelings will get hurt I believe honesty is key to maintain a long and healthy friendship, no? |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2017 03:56 PM PDT Should I stop being his friend or does one of us have to die |
| Question: Sometimes I feel so alone, that I want to kill my self? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 03:42 PM PDT I don't think my friends are my friends anymore |
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| Question: I always get rejected by everyone just because I'm a gang member? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 03:39 PM PDT Okay, so at school I don't have any friends because they had found out that I'm a gang member. I was also rejected by girls every single time. There has been one girl I told I love her and she spit on my face because she said I insulted her by talking to her while being a gang member. So, outside of my gang, I'm unable to get a girlfriend or even at least make friends. What should I do? I'm not going to leave my gang because none'd believe that I'm no longer a gang member. |
| Question: Will I get in trouble? Pls help 10 points!!? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 03:34 PM PDT So basically I was texting this girl who is in my class and I randomely said Muslims are all terrorists and Muslims remind me of isis idk why and I was suddenly blocked on everything text snapchat Instagram and I asked on Instagram with a different account why I was blocked and she didn't reply or block, and I told one of my friends named casey and jordan s about it and they said it was offensive and I shouldn't have done it and I'm scared that the girl will report me to the school Monday I'm really scared and depressed and want to die |
| Question: What should I do if my friends don’t care about me? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 03:17 PM PDT So I'm that friend that doesn't get to go to places with my other friends. They go to exciting adventures like in Downtown LA or something like that. I'm that guy that goes to events with them when I invite myself. But they don't invite me and when I go it's always dead silent. Today my friends went to Halloween horror nights without telling me and one of my friends would tell me when he and his friends will go. I found out that I was uninvited when I saw their snapchats... Basically I feel so heartbroken torturing myself by watching my friends have fun while I rot away. I try to have fun by myself yet I also want to have fun with my friends and it just isn't fair...I mean I do hang out with this guy but all we do is just go to his house and game a lot which I'm tired of... I really want to just hang out with my friends and go on adventures with them |
| Question: I tell her everything but she tells me nothing? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 03:10 PM PDT A friend of mine wants to know everything and I really trust her so I tell what is happening in my life, how do I feel about some other people etc. We are really close friends but she tells me nothing.. I dont want to push her to tell me the things I want to hear. I didn't do anything wrong, do you think she doesn't trust me as much as I trust and care about her? |
| Question: I am not meant for this world...? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 02:54 PM PDT I'm 35. Looking back, I realize that when I was at my social peak (mid 20s), I was so shy and quiet it had nothing to do with my personality—it was actually just my looks that got people's affection. Cuz I was at my physical peak, and cuter then. People really do respond to LOOKS. It's just human nature—we can be that shallow; it's been proven that good-looking people usually have easier lives because of it. These last 7 years I haven't been able to make or keep a new friend, except 1 for the past 3 years, and he doesn't even make much time for me. Part of it is: older people have their lives settled, so they're not open to making new friends. I'm also not as physically cute as I used to be (aged a bit). I'm more opinionated and bolder now, which can offend people. I've always been socially awkward too, but now I don't have my "cuteness" to help out. ...I kept one of my old friends from my 20s, but he lives in another state. The others? Some I fell out with, others I never had a true connection with them beyond pleasant casualness... Please no rude answers; only constructive criticism if need be. Thanks. *Also, I DO have a personality, lol. I wasn't relying on my looks. Friends in the past always thought I was fun and adventurous. I am. |
| Question: Friend blowing me off? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 01:51 PM PDT today is my friends birthday and she begged for me to spend it with her despite the fact i was gonna go down with my mom to visit my sister in the hospital. she begged for me to stay and spend her bday with her. so i did. got her 100 dollar gift.. and now she's ignoring me but is active on social media. i've been waiting on her for 8 hours... we were supposed to meet up at 8 am. should i just forget it and hangout with someone else today or wait on her? and is it rude if i decide to not hangout with her? |
| Question: How did I hurt his feelings? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 01:38 PM PDT A guy told me I hurt his feelings because I deleted him from my google hangout, but he is not a close friend at all (he was my tutor for a semester) and I barely talk to him. We met today and when we were talking, he realized that I deleted him. I laughed it off....how should i have responded? |
| Question: My mom told me to kill myself? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 01:38 PM PDT hi I'm Ariana and I'm 13. After my mom picked me up from school this afternoon she started going off on me. Calling me a whore and saying she doesn't trust me. I was also supposed to go skating with my best friend who moved ( she's visiting ) my mom knows how much I was looking forward to this, I haven't seen her in a year. But now she's not even letting me go because I'm a " slut " and because " she doesn't trust me " then I started crying and she called me weak, I was literally so confused. Then she said I have no self confidence, I have nothing going for me, and I have no personality and that I'm no one. Then I said I just wanted to kill myself and then she called me crazy which doesn't help AT ALL. And then she said I'm a whore again and I just want attention. She cslled me an ugly piece of **** and right now I just wanna kill myself. I don't know what to do anymore and it hurts so bad. any advice? |
| Question: My mother never washes my uniform or buys me clothes and I'm getting bullied? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 01:35 PM PDT She doesn't work and hates spending money. I keep getting made fun of at school because my trousers are too small or because my clothes are stained. She spends money on alcohol but says she can't on my clothes...i'm so depressed, I have no friends and TERRIFIED to go to school, what should I do? I have no grandparents or family other than her :( I love her but its really hard thank you people I'm 14 but I do really want a job. I'm scared to go to school... |
| Question: Hello, so I have 4 friends.? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 01:35 PM PDT The first one , we were best friends in summer and now we still are but i don't want to i mean she did not do anything to me and i didn't do anything to her ( well i might of a little been unkind) But she still wants to be friends but the thing is i don't want to and i don't know why? I just want to be alone. 2. She always gets mad and its my fault and I'm very sad. 3. Same as second and 4. we just don't talk. But i just want to be alone and have no friends but when I'm ready i want them all back, so i asked my mom and she said that I'm stupid because i have great friends and its all my fault. What should i do? |
| Question: My friend and I made plans to hangout on her birthday and now she isn't answering me? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 01:26 PM PDT my friend and i made plans to wake up early and hangout because i got her a really expensive gift and i'd know she would love it. i got up early and now she's been ignoring me, it's been almost 12 hours since we were supposed to meet up. she hasn't answered any of my texts but she's active on social media? what do i do. |
| Question: Is it rude of me to not hangout with my friend on her birthday? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 01:21 PM PDT my friend said we were gonna hangout on her birthday at 8 am. i woke up early got ready, wrapped her gift. it's 4 o'clock now and she hasn't answered any of my texts and she's active on social media. i just feel like getting changed and taking off my makeup and not hanging out with her. is that mean? |
| Question: My best friend and I are growing apart? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 01:13 PM PDT We have been best friends for about 3 years now, and decided to live in a dorm together during our freshman year of college this year. I'm going to be honest, she is starting to really annoy me, I know it takes awhile to adjust to living with someone but honestly she is just really annoying and will ask me stupid questions 24/7. I try to help her the best I can, but she is always asking me what she should do with her life, the other day she asked me if she should re read her paper or just turn it in to the teacher, another example is when she asked me if I had already brushed my teeth, so does that mean she needs to brush hers. It's almost like she doesn't know how to be her own person and needs guidance 24/7. She was like this in highschool, but it wasn't as bad. I also feel like we are becoming two totally different people, I've realize we don't really have the same interest, she is kinda always getting in trouble with the law and doing dumb things with her life that have really bad consequences.. which she thinks is cute and is one of the first things she tells people when she first meets them. I have decided to transfer to a different college closer to come so I can commute.. I haven't told her yet and honestly don't want to because she will be heartbroken because we are roomates and best friends. I love her very much but I often find myself ignoring her phone calls and text messages and not wanting to hangout with her on the weekends anymore. |
| Question: If i officially unfriended 32 people today is that a lot? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 01:05 PM PDT I had 215 friends and now i have 183. |
| Question: When a girl rolls her eyes? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 12:31 PM PDT I tutored a girl in university for a final exam that was really important to her.I told her that I should be the first one to contact to let me know how it went... but she rolled her eye and looked up to think about whether she will tell me first.. and then she said sure I will let you know I sorta like her, but I am her tutor, why did she roll her eyes. |
| Question: Am i really that ugly?? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 12:27 PM PDT No one wants to be my friend or be near me. I have one friend and My friend introduced me to her other friends and they just stared at me. They told my friend they didn't want me to hang with them. But this new girl came to our school and they let her hang with them. At school it seems like everyone has friends except me even some of the ugly ones and okay ones. My teacher put me in this group and this one girl in the group didnt want me with them. She wasn't pretty at all or her friends. She would whisper and get her friends to tell me to find a different group. They were fine with me being in the group but after she didnt want me in the group they agreed. They got boys to make fun of me and push me. Her friends stood there and laugh but she pretended to act innocent and acted like she felt sorry for me but she was the one who started it. Even after the incident she kept getting others to do bad things to me and still played innocent. I met some new girls and they were nice but the same girl befriend them and made them make fun of me and got them to laugh at me. I confronted her but she acted shy and scared and acted like i didnt know what i was talking about. |
| Question: Was i wrong to bring this up ?? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 11:49 AM PDT Growing up i had a bully who bullied, made fun of me , pretended to be my friend from elementary,middle & high school. she would invite me to her house just to play tricks on me all for the laughs she was the most popular girl in school that everyone followed. She made my life hell & it's something i will always remember & i never understood why she did it to me. Well now she is famous ( i'm not gonna say who she is) she actually said in an interview that she is against bullying and never did that to anyone. Liar! She found out thru her sister that she seen me talking on my facebook about her with some friends. She sends me a message saying that i need to stop telling lies about her that she never bullied me or made fun of me she said also says that i am making all this up & i need to get a life. . . I admit that i should have just kept my comments to myself cause it has been a long time since all this happend but this is something that has always stuck with me & affected me. All i want is for her to say she is sorry. |
| Question: My friend is still sulking...? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 11:47 AM PDT I said something rude and sarcastic to my friend when we went grocery shopping, because I was pissed that her things almost squashed my things without warning when the bagger put them in my cart. But it wasn't her fault because she didn't do it, so I felt guilty, and afterwards I apologized to her. But she still seemed sulky and moody even after thanking me for apologizing, so I feel that she hasn't forgiven me, and that hurts me. What do I do? |
| Question: Took my friend 3 months to replace hdmi port. Should I be mad? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 11:35 AM PDT My friend told me that she could fix my playstation 4 hdmi port for $50 in July. I gave it to her along with a replacement hdmi port. Here we are in October and the playstation is was still at her place. When I asked how long it would take, she mentioned a couple more weeks due to family issues. I asked if I could have it back and she was said that it was open and apart. I stated that it was taking a bit too long to fix and we started arguing. I finally stated that I wanted it back and she said I should pay her for the time she spend on it. I refused and she yelled at me and I yelled back. She finally said she would drop it off today, but she is definitely mad at me. I don't think I should have to pay her. I called a repair place who told me it would be done in a couple of hours due to her having taken it apart. She dropped off my ps4, but was still upset with me and starting talking about how hard it was and for the price, I should be more patient. She also stated that other places would take just as long and charge me more. I just said thank you and closed the door I just received the call that it was ready for pick up. I am just baffled at how my friend thought 3 months was normal and I should be grateful for that. Is it normal for me to be upset with her not only taking her sweet time, but then getting upset when I mentioned she was taking too long? |
| Question: DO middle school friendships usually continue on to high school? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 11:32 AM PDT I know high school friendships usually don't last until/after college, but do middle school friendships last through high school? I don't think people make LOTS of new friends |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2017 11:25 AM PDT So this is a long story. So I've been friends with this guy, let's call him John, since I was little and then became friends with his sister, Abby. I'm close to both of them. Now, he's at college. I was invited to go visit him there with Abby and her family, presumably to keep Abby company since she's not all that excited about visiting her brother. When John found out about it, he asked me to spend one of the two nights on campus and go to a party with him and his friends. And then he wants me to sleep in his friends bed who isn't going to be in her room that weekend. His sister can't go. Since I'm going with them to keep his sister company, is it fair to her to go to the party without her and then stay over for the one night out of the two? I would have a better time at the party but I don't want her to be mad / I don't want to be a bad friend. Plus if I don't go to the party then my other friend is going to be mad. I guess someone is going to be angry either way. Also is it weird to sleep in his friends bed, who I might be introduced to but hardly know her? Apparently she's okay with it, but is it strange? |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2017 11:17 AM PDT I knew about her since we met and last time he gave her 500 for a car dollars am I wrong and she doesn't have any kids and she lives in an apartment with a roommate |
| Question: How can you tell that a single man loves a married woman? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 11:10 AM PDT Are there any telltale signs? I mean if they are friends and he really grew to love her as more than his friend, and he's not just trying to get into her pants. Has it happened to anyone before? What are some signs to look out for? |
| Question: How do you visit a friend home lives on an island? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 10:55 AM PDT My friend moved to an island and I don't own a boat to float over the water. |
| Question: I think all my friends that I drink with use me? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 10:35 AM PDT well i liked to drink on weekends, and i have certain friends that whenever we hang out we go grab a drink. i don't mind because i obviously like doing it too. however, when real life events go down, they screw me over. also, i realized that when i am being fun and funny with them, they don't take me seriously, and don't realize i completely separate that from work. now that i am looking for jobs, i realized just how bad those friends i drink with are. i think they also gossip and can easily spread rumors that would ruin my reputation and make me look like i'm lazy or bad at work. |
| Question: Is it wrong for me to don't want to hang out with her because I am failing my classes? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 10:27 AM PDT I have a friend I met in the program. So far I am failing my classes and I study everyday which makes me depressed. When we are getting our grades, I am failing and she's getting A's. I feel like that is bringing me down because I used to be an honor roll student and it's depressing for me getting F's in the classes. On lunch time I just want to be alone and don't think about my failures. She wants to hang out with me on lunch time but I don't want. Is it wrong for me to just want to be alone? I am being a sour bitter loser because I am not make it to the end of the semester which scares me I am seeing a therapist for my depression and anxiety |
| Question: I basically have no friends? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 10:23 AM PDT Okay so here is what happened. Me and my two friends at school were hanging out this year with no problem and no drama. This other girl wanted to join our group (lets her maddie) because maddie's old group of friends were fake and didn't want to hang out with her. Maddie was nice but she turned out to be a hypocrite and a liar. Later on two other girls (lets called them witch 1 and witch 2) started hanging out with us and they seemed nice at first also. later on I found out that I didn't even like witch 1 and she was rude. Maddie didn't like witch 1 either because she always talked about sexual stuff at lunch. Later on maddie told witch 1 about all the stuff i said about her saying I didn't like her an then witch 2 found out and told me I couldn't hang out with them even though maddie said that stuff also about witch 1. Now the only person I could hang out with is this girl who is a bad influence (she smokes, she already lost her virginity and blah blah blah). I feel so excluded and I just want to move schools. What should I do? |
| Question: You can't AVOID this topic in the real world, right? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 10:06 AM PDT I recently posted a question about why people judge me for not drinking. Unsurprisingly, I was barraged with answers like: "Why do you you even discuss that topic with people!?!?!" To which I say: Uh, you CAN'T AVOID the topic of drinking—if you're an ADULT. Alcohol is always a possibility in our lives: a simple dinner at a restaurant has the option of alcohol. A PARTY has alcohol, unless you go to CHUCK E CHEESE! Co-workers go out for drinks sometimes. Am I right? You can't avoid the topic of drinking! Sheesh! *I can't believe I have to say this but: I'm NOT the one who brings it up repeatedly in conversation. It's NOT ME. And that's not what this question is about! |
| Question: What do I do for a high school Christmas party? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 09:39 AM PDT I'm a freshman girl. And I want to have a Christmas party this year. But I don't know what to do so people won't get bored. One person I'd invite is my crush. I don't want her to get bored or dislike me. So any ideas? Games? Activities? Food? Thank you! |
| Question: Why do some hang with me when they are alone? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 09:32 AM PDT This has happened many times where people dont want to hang with me but when they are alone or their friends are absent they want to hang with me. Like this one guy talks to me when hes alone or needs something but when hes with his friends he talks bad about me to them. His friends seem to like me and think that im cool but he doesn't. When im talking to my friends he comes over and talks to me and my friends and he doesnt even know them when there are millons of other people in the room he couldve talked too. And these 2 girls in my gym class always laugh and gossip about me but when one of them are absent they ask if they can sit or hang with me. |
| Question: Why am I so insecure ?? Why is that? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 09:16 AM PDT I'm a boy who's about to turn 18, everyday when I go to school, high school, I have the tendency to be so insecure by the people I'm surrounded. Everybody is so good looking, some not so much but even the not okay ones have friends to hang with or speak to. Am I just that ugly or what? I been trying to find solutions to make my face thinner, however it doesn't work since I'm skinny but my face has a little fat. No one comes up to speak to me about how am I doing, but me in the other hand wants to speak to anyone however I know they could care less. Should I work out more?? Should I quit my job and hit the gym to focus on my appearances? I hate having to be looked at like I'm nothing . |
| Question: Why have i never had a good friend? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 08:16 AM PDT i'm 16 and all through primary school i've been by myself, it's not that i'm boring or like super ugly. like i know i'm sorta funny i guess because i used t make people laugh and i think i still can. i don't try too hard or too little. i think i'm kind... i got some change together to go buy sweets with this boy when i was little and afterwards his mum came out and said 'sorry ... he's going to see his girlfriend now' really smug and laughing. i was like 8-9 maybe and that really broke my heart because i just wanted a friend. my "best friend" of 6 years who would abandon me all the time and hit me and use me to for stuff i recently learnt was actually abusive and toxic, and he didn't even care when i told him i didn't wanna be friends instead he tried to guilt trip me and my girlfriend. idk.. i have a friendship group but we don't talk, they don't reply to me i always feel like i'm bothering them and i only go outside like once a week when i see my girlfriend. i'm seeing people make friends at college and have their groups and love it but i don't... i don't know what's wrong with me and i don't know what to do. i have no friends in college what so ever. |
| Question: How do I handle this? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 07:50 AM PDT I am helping taking care of someone with help but no one wants to help and it's been so long I am sick of it. The person being taken care of is extremely difficult to care for and sometimes I think I hate them. I have reached my limits. I can't really do much with my life or make friends partly because I'm too busy helping them, they take up all my time and I never get to go on vacation or anything. They are old but I wish they would die already. I know that sounds horrible but being stuck like this is driving me insane. I have a lot of issues in dealing with personally too and that makes it worse. What should I do? |
| Question: Why is President Trump so wildly popular, beloved and respected all around the world? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 07:14 AM PDT https://www.realclearpolitics.com/epolls/other/president_trump_job_approval-6179.html |
| Question: What kind of woman am I? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 06:47 AM PDT This married man has been flirting with me on Facebook for a long time now. I don't flirt with him at all I know he wants to have sex with me though. I've been talking to another guy on Facebook who I've had sex with before. There is also a guy who I have been friends with for 16 years that wants to date me. Anyway what should I do about this married man? |
| Question: My friends are being mean and I don’t know how to make new ones.? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 06:23 AM PDT Lately they have been doing everything without me and not even giving me an explanation as to why they are leaving me out of everything they do. They didn't include me in homecoming plans and they always hang out without me, which is fine but at school they talk about what they did over the weekend and they say inside jokes that only apply to them. Almost everyday I go to the bathroom and cry because I'm such a nice person and they are being so mean to me and I can't seem to make any new friends. They are being so mean to me and nice to everyone else so they are getting all of these friends and now I have no one. I've tried making friends. I talk to people in my classes but I'm really awkward and have a tough time keeping the conversation going. Even when I do I still don't feel like I'm making friends. Please help! I can't take anymore of this! I'm so used to having a lot of friends and I've never been the one without any. |
| Question: Do lots of people make friends for life in college? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 05:17 AM PDT Just wondering because I don t feel like I have any proper friends and the ones I used to be close with have all made new friends. Will I make good friends in college? |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2017 04:52 AM PDT This is my last year of high school and all the schools I been to are full of bullies and they always want to pick a fight with u and even tho I beat many of them, they still want to fight me. I'm just tired of fighting, i'm tired of getting and giving punches to the face, i'm tired of the heartbeat I have every morning before school. Is college gonna be the same ? I don't want this hell to continue. |
| Question: Who can be my friend?I'm a Chinese boy.Please leave your contact information.? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 04:32 AM PDT |
| Question: What to say in text? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 03:31 AM PDT Hi there! This guy I met in my GED class a year ago has been wanting me to hang out with him. We've seen each other around town several times since then, but we've never actually hung out. The last time he texted me about hanging out was almost 2 months ago. I never responded back, and he hasn't tried to contact me since. The only reason I didn't respond back was because my metal state was really bad at the time... I developed anorexia 7 months ago and it just made me isolate myself in my home. I avoided people like the plaque. I'm currently recovering from this eating disorder, tho and my metal state is slowly improving. I'd like to shoot him a text about hanging out some time, but I don't really know what I should say... Help? Thanks! P.S. I DON'T like him in a romantic/sexual way, I like him only as a friend. |
| Question: How likely is it that someone would forget their own suicide attempt? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 02:48 AM PDT by this i mean, my friend supposedly jumped off 6 stories to try to kill herself, no one is allowed to see her but her boyfriend said she cannot remember what happened... but is embarrassed. of course i understand the embarrassment, but do you think its likely she REALLY doesn t remember or this is a lie to avoid having to talk about it? if it is the latter then its concerning because its just hiding the problem again, i know its none of my business but i just wanted to know an outside view |
| Question: Is it socially wrong to tell friends I'd like to see them more often? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 02:32 AM PDT I have two friends who are dear to me. I haven't seen them in person in nearly 4 years. My mom passed away recently and they've been in touch. I recently wrote a letter and made a point to say I wish I could see them more. I haven't invited myself to see them, I only said I wish I could see them more. Was that a bad thing to do, socially speaking? |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2017 02:11 AM PDT She said they will be friends forever. How does this make a man feel? |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2017 01:44 AM PDT Let me explain. I'm an 18 year old college freshman and living on my own in a strict student apartment complex. I left behind my best friend from high school who smokes weed and sells it every day of his life. I don't condone this, not because it's weed, but because it's taken over his life and personality. He's no fun to hang out with anymore because this is all he does and can't even go to a restaurant without being high. Now he keeps coming to smoke with friends in my college area and staying with me at my apartment. He barely graduated high school and doesn't have a real job. Won't go to school either. He gets me to drive him around because he's too lazy and likes to stay in the bed with me which I hate because I like my bed to myself. He is a good hearted person still and always pays for anything we do together because he's like that, but he's getting in the way of my life here at college. I don't want him to hang out with my school friends and I because he's a loser and I don't want them to realize he's my best friend. He's just changed not so much and I would've never been friends from the beginning had he turned out like this. Yet everyone gives him second chances and his family thinks what he does is okay even though he will likely be arrested again. He can start to tell I'm hating him, because I ignore his calls often and am always irritable around him. Today I yelled at him for bringing weed into my apartment and having it smell. What should I do to end this |
| Question: Is it normal to hate high school? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 12:43 AM PDT i started 9th grade in august (literally like 6-7 weeks ago) and i HATE it. When i entered everyone told me it was gonna be GREAT. and at first it was. i made 3 really close friends so having friends is not the problem. but just everyone else is SO annoying. there is a particular class everyone loves and loves the teacher. i hate both. i cannot STAND friday night lights (i live in america so you already know it is a huge thing everyone does) like it is so boring i just don't even get me started. and just yeah. most things people love about hs i hate. like is this normal?? does it get better? bc i truly hate it so much. and yes, i've tried to like it. i really really did. but i don't want to hate it. Like people are like high scjool is the best four years of your life and it is the last hoorah before you're an adult. And i know it's what you make it, but i just don't like it for some reason like not at all. I make good grades. I'm just trying to make good grades so i can't get out of there and go to a university. Like i cannot wait to leave but it's another four years before i do so i'm gonna have to learn to like it somehow |
| Question: I miss my middle school friends ;( ? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 12:33 AM PDT For some reason whenever i start thinking about my pass when i was in middle school i get really depressed :/ its just i cant stop thinking about the best memories i had with my middle school friends I've always enjoyed it , i had people to hangout with go places and lived close to my middle school and friends in the area sometimes i wish i can go back in the past and enjoy middle school again :( but after middle school ended and i moved away everything left different friends from middle school slowly disappeared loss communications and when i started high school i was just alone.. yeah i had people to talk too during high school but not consider close friends / friends in general high school for me was really shitty so called (loner) in high school, but middle school was the best thing I've ever had i just miss it and whenever i think about it and my old friends it just puts me in a depressing mood like i cant help it to be sad , all i can say is i miss everyone back in middle school and wish i didn't have to move but it wasn't in my control , maybe if i didnt move id still have them in my life. What should i do or help myself stop being depressed when i think of these stuff ? serious please thank you! |
| Question: Am I just a lone high school loser? Posted: 14 Oct 2017 12:15 AM PDT I'm a junior in high school and I really just sit at lunch alone staring at anything to keep me entertained as no one else would want to spend time talking to me, even those i talk to little bit in class. My one friend from the 5th grade is slowly fading going on with his own life, who's to blame him for doing him and living his life? I find it difficult to talk to girls, nothing to really impress a girl with when all you do is swim and stay at home all day everyday. And the rare occasion i get to talking with a girl over a period of time they always fade away or end up distancing self, now i'm no idiot and when they say stuffs going on or it's not me it's them it really is me. So every day since freshman year feels like it is getting lonelier and bland. Occasionally there will be a person who talks to me and I try and be as friendly and open as I can to keep them as a friend but they never really come back to sit with me again. So I spend my free time in school sitting alone watching the wall or people around me walking with friends or standing talking in groups wondering why can't that be me? What did I do wrong? I never really thought of myself as an introvert because i would want to be friends with anyone who would give me the time of day to talk to yet i'm not extroverted....I'm really confused and sad a lot of the time and just don't know what's going to happen with me I have been smoking pot since sophomore year, i go into school stoned a lot because it makes me happier and junior year i started experimenting with LSD, sorta hippying out. I'm not like the kids in school who smoke pot to rap music trying to look cool, i've never taken xanax like a majority of my fellow classmates and i never will, i've only smoked and tripped. I want to stop smoking pot but it's just always there for me when friends are not. |
| Question: Do I have every right to be upset at my friend over this? Posted: 13 Oct 2017 11:57 PM PDT Okay so here's what happened me and my friend had made plans yesterday to go To The Movies and stuff then at the last minute my friend said apparently they didn't want to walk and then 4 Mins later they told me they got called in for work at 2pm but I knew my friend was lying especially because she took a selfie of herself and posted it on Snapchat and it looked like she was at home like what the hell? I'm so mad not because my friend canceled plans but because she had lied to me and This isn't the first time she lies to me. What should I do? Should I confront her about it? I need some advice please help |
| Question: What's wrong with me? Posted: 13 Oct 2017 11:48 PM PDT I am a junior in high school and every day seems to just get more and more bland, I have one friend that has stuck with me since the 5th grade yet he is slowly drifting as well leaving me alone, during school at lunch I sit alone and none of the people i talk to in class seem to want to spend time talking to me. Since this has been happening since freshman year I've been smoking pot and recently have been experimenting with psychedelics yet i feel there is a disconnect with my drug usage and other kids drug usage because they all smoke pot to rap music or popping Xanax trying to look like a gang member or something and I just smoke to be happy and ignore everything bad around me? Yet every day i feel lonelier, after school i never hang out with friends and have strict parents who rarely let me out of the house so i just sit on a bench at school alone for a majority of the day just watching other people walking in groups together wondering why can't I be like that? Keep in mind i'm not some angsty teen who hates his parents, but just really confused as to what i've done to be so lonely in school, i try to be as friendly as i can to anyone who goes out of their way to talk to me for fear they will no longer be interested in being a friend..Man high school is a kick in the balls |
| Question: Ideas for things to put in a care package for this boy at my school? Posted: 13 Oct 2017 11:35 PM PDT There's this boy in my grade (we're juniors in high school so he's most likely either 16 or 17), and he's very very poor. I'm not trying to be mean, but there's really no other way to put it. :( He only owns one pair of jeans, two t-shirts, and one pair of shoes. I know this because I've been going to school with him for two months now, and I've never seen him wear anything other than those few items. Also, I once overheard someone who rides his bus say that he lives in the worst part of town...basically in a shack. I want to help this boy, but I don't want to embarrass him or make him feel like I'm looking down on him by directly handing him gifts, and I don't want to do it for the recognition (I don't want him to know who it came from), so I asked the school secretary if she'd anonymously give him a care package if I were to drop it off in the office, and she said yes. But the problem is, I don't really know what to put in a care package for him. I know he needs clothes, and I could guess his size, but he might not like the clothes I pick out. I could get him a gift card so he could shop for his own clothes, but what store should I get the gift card to? He doesn't stink, he obviously keeps up with his personal hygiene, but should I put things like a toothbrush/toothpaste, deodorant, etc., in the care package or would that insult him? What about food? Obviously I can't put anything that needs to be refrigerated, but I don't know what kind of food I should include. Help? I'm not just suspecting that he's poor based on what I've seen. It's hard to explain how I know, but I know for a fact that he's extremely poor. Like...so poor that he goes hungry sometimes |
| Question: My best friend s mum hates me!!!? Posted: 13 Oct 2017 11:30 PM PDT Me and my best friend used to hate eachother. I was bullied by her best friend and she abandoned me, but I ve forgiven this all now. However, the bully tricked her mum into thinking I was the bully in this situation, and told my best friend s mum.It s complicated... I really want ti be close with my friend s but how can I do that when I can t go to her house and she can t go to mine. She lies about her whereabouts when she leaves because she knows she won t be able to go out. We are both 12 and we can t solve this problem at all... help? |
| Question: A former friend is causing me a lot of emotional pain? Posted: 13 Oct 2017 10:44 PM PDT There is this former friend that has been "joking" around about telling me to die. Sometimes some his friends join in on it too. I've told him to stop because I don't think it's funny. It hurts deeply because I have suicidal thoughts all the time. I honestly don't know what's wrong with me. But I know I am in so much pain. I never specifically told him that it bothers me for that reason because I know he doesn't actually care about my well being. I've told him to stop and if he actually cared about me he would have stopped the first time I told him. I told one of my teachers that I trust very much about how he was bugging me only. I didn't go into specifics like I am now. I should have done that, to begin with. Although, it's hard to admit that I am having these issues with suicidal thoughts. I can't talk about it without crying. That former friend is out for revenge now because I reported him. He keeps bugging me and he thinks he's doing nothing wrong. I don't know what to do. I want to discuss it with the teacher I trust, but I am too afraid to admit that I am having thoughts of suicide. I am too afraid of not knowing what will happen to me. I have been feeling a lot worse because of all this and I desperately want to get better. |
| Question: Is this worth losing my best friends? Posted: 13 Oct 2017 10:39 PM PDT So im 16 and I used to date this guy named Brian, and our relationship ended very bitterly because he was just awful. Anyways, now he's all friendly with my friends, and he sits at my lunch table. He never talks to me but is always annoying, and always hugs my friends, and he stole MY specific seat and no one cared. Anyways he threatened to hit on Thursday, and that day he was testing so he wasn't at lunch. I told my friends and they didn't care at all. Then on Friday I came into the cafeteria late. I saw him sitting at our table and I left, and then one of my friends texted me. I told her how I felt and why I was not there, and she said "Oh I don't wanna choose between you and Brian" because apparently she's just as close to him as she is too me. I told her im not gonna eat lunch with her if she gonna keep talking to my ex, and she started telling me about how she would miss and general lies from the pit of hell. I told her we could still be friends, and she got all emotional and made excuses for Brian, and I just stopped responding. I honestly never wanna see them again, but at the same time they are my best friends. I have other friends but these friends are close to me. What should I do? |
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