He and I broke up 2 months ago and I started going to church and found him staring at me 2 weeks in a row so I texted him but he said he was offended which is why it wouldn't work and why he wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me again. I didn't respond. I've been going to church since then it's been almost a month, and he continues to constantly stare at me to the point that my friends and family notice. What does this mean? does he still have feelings? friends and family say he stares I dont stare at him and have give him a dirty look twice

They have such a good work ethic where do they get it from?

Okay so for a short while we were living together (i'm Living back at home for the time being and we live in different states) anyway.. while I was with him, we had our own place but it was just like... 15 mins away from his mom's.... So like every other day or 3-5 times a week he would go there to his mom's house to just talk to her and whatever, and he always wanted me to go, and I mean like his mom is fine we get along and it's all dandy. But once we're there maybe we get a snack, you know get comfortable but we end up staying there for HOURS. Like... I'm talking 3-4 hours at a time, and it's fine for him to do that but I really hate going there for that amount of time because what ALWAYS happens is, we talk for like 20 mins and then he chills on the couch watching tv or something. And maybe an hour or so in has another short talk with his mom and then tv. And no I haven't gone anything else to do (no other plans I mean) but I mean I'd rather be home or doing something I want to do. Not sit there on the couch for hours. I've told him this and he says he understands yet guilts me into going and later makes me feel weird about not going or that he feels 'rushed' to leave, which I never said or IMPLIED - but I'd rather use that time to do something else. Am I selfish or am I totally normal?! Btw we are both in mid/ late 20's

Ciao, io sono stato con una ragazza di 13 anni per circa un mese poi lei mi ha lasciato perchè pensava che io la tradivo perchè glie lo aveva detto una sua amica. Poi scoprendo che non era vero mi ha richiesto di stare insieme, ma io dato che lei prima di questo fatto aveva avuto anche dei "ripensamenti", non ho voluto continuare. Oggi non so perchè dopo tempo che mi sta dietro ho cominciato a ri innamorarmi di lei. Lei vorrebbe ancora rimetterso con me, ma io sono ancora indeciso perchè non voglio che si ripetino le stesse cose, inoltre i miei amici mi incomincerebbero ad dirmi che ho sbagliato e che lei ha dei comportamenti troppo da bambina vista la sua eta (forse hanno ragione). Ora mi trovo nella situazione di dover segliere e non so proprio cosa fare perchè lei mi piace e lei vuole stare con me, ma come ho detto prima ho paura delle conseguenze.

I pee on my clothes when I scold her and it's an uncontrollable anger, if I scold her while this brava is worse, she goes to the rooms and throws everything away, or whatever she has close to me she throws me in defiance, I opted to stay calm and not paying attention to it and it's the only way to calm down after a certain time

Hello, my wife and I are in the process of scheduling a date, since we have not had one in years. The only problem is that we need to find someone who is responsible and trustworthy enough to watch our two sons, Jason, who is 18 years old, and Brian who is 16 years old. I would be very happy if someone could recommend a credible website. This occasion means so much to me and my wife, we need some time to ourselves. Thank You.

I'm 21, pregnant and obviously not married. My mom's been trying to make me get married because she's "traditional" I haven't see the guy in days, and this month I've come to know that he's a real asshole simply because he said he doesn't like my personality, told me I'm a burden to his friends and family then refused to take me home and left me in his house until I got a ride to pick me up. I have a place to live and a job to support the baby but I'm worried my Mom will take my baby away if he's not around because she's super controlling.

For many years I was in a relationship with a guy and I was very close to his family. We were together on and off for 10 years. We split up back in the beginning of 2005 and I did not see or hear from them again for many years after I was dating my husband (before we got married in 2014). My husband grew up in the same neighborhood with my ex though they were not in the same circles nor were they particularly friends but just knew each other and said hello once in a while. My ex died 3 months before my wedding with my husband and I both attended his wake and me and my family even went to the funeral. Since then, my ex-boyfriend's mother has been doing what she never did when he was alive...reaching out to my mother, seeking her as a source of comfort while bad-mouthing my husband. Additionally, when she sees us on the street she is very nice to me but doesn't even look at my husband, and if she sees him on the street and I am not with him, she ignores him. So does her husband. This, of course, causes tension between my husband and I because he thinks that I am being so nice to someone who is so dismissive and ill-mannered with him. Now, after her son's death 2 years ago, her daughter has developed stage 4 pancreatic cancer so she is losing her only other living daughter that is left. How can I go about dealing with this without being insensitive at a time like this? If I don't say anything, my husband feels disrespected, if I do, I am hurting a grieving mother. :-/

My boyfriend moved in with me a few months ago, but he recently decided to move back home to his mother's to "figure out" what he wants. He claims he wants to spend his life with me but also wants to "figure out" professionally and wants to make enough money to get an apartment where I'd move in with him. Aparently, living with me makes him feel like he's in a rut in "my space". He's miserable with his job and wants big change. Since he's moved out, we still spend time together and plan a lot of things for the future, but how is moving back home with his mother going to help him "figure life out"? We're in our mid 30s -- this is the time to have a stable foundation. I feel like he's sending me mixed signals.

I can't feel anything it's so weird

My friend who is a married woman has a very close relationship with our pastor. She says she feels like he is her brother. They seem to talk in private often. She advises him on his dating life, she recently examined his foot to diagnose a nuroma (she is not a Doctor) and her husband was present for this. She is overly protective of him and prays for him much more than she prays for her own husband. She says I am holding the position of pastor higher than it should be and for her they are equals. I am really struggling with this relationship even though neither her or her husband see anything wrong with it. Help me as I don't want to be criticizing her if she is right

I don't want to turn the heat on in our house until it's absolutely necessary. My roommate is sick with the flu and laringitis. This morning it was 64 in our house and I guess she was cold and decided to turn on the heat. I really don't want to waste money on heat. I've already told her I think we should buy space heaters for her room since she's always cold or a heated blanket she can walk around with. I sweat very easily and get hot at night so it's not fair to me. I can't sleep if it's too hot in the house! Her bf who stayed last night flipped out at me this morning and cussed me out telling me I was an inconsiderate b*tch. Am I in the wrong? I'm just trying to save money!!!

I had sex with my bf. It was the second time I had it and he inserted his 2 fingers in between. It started to pain a lot and I micturated. I felt it will be better. But my pu**y still pains very much. It have been 5 hours by now.

I'm finishing college while caring for my 3 year old . My mother Iives with me half time and pays her portion. She's upset that there's no parking by the time she gets home . She now keeps making statements," since there's no parking for me guess I'll leave. Yup this will be my last month here". Firstly she gets off at 8pm and after 9:30pm there are over 12 spots available for her too choose if she waited. She knows my three year old and I would be homeless . Why would she want us homeless over waiting an extra hour for parking ? My mother is working all the time as a caregiver and is there half time and half time here. Anyway, I forced to d stuff I don't wanna do such as stay with a fwb . It sounds terrible and I've only known him for a month . Family and friends not an option I have none. What to do I have less than a month ?

26 years old, 5'1. I had a girlfriend when i was 16, but it only lasted a month. High school was great, but never went to prom, because no one wanted to go with me. College was a pretty lonely time, because I was very much into my studies.I'am not that good in the looks department. Now I have a good job, and a great income. I've realized that women in their 20's have a hard time getting over my height. I've been good at being single for 26 years, how hard can it be to go for another 26 hahaha?

In need of advice about a roommate situation ..so there is this lady she just moved into the other room ..met her she seemed nice and everything ..I was working from him and needed to wash a load of clothes however she had left her a few items in the washer , it was like a towel and a hat and she had left for work so I took her belonging out of the washer and put in the dryer and washed my load and once her stuff was done drying I put it on top of the dryer and that was that ..when she came home she was upset and knocked on my door and started questioning me about why did I take her belongings out the washer and I should have texted her first I apologized but was I in the wrong I didn't see the big deal ..there have been times when I have left my stuff in the dryer maybe forgot and someone may have needed to use the dryer and he or she may have put my clothes on top of the dryer and I wouldn't even think twice about it so now she has stopped speaking to me and I feel guilty like I did something wrong

I got cheated on a few years ago, my ex and the girl reconciled but for some reason she cares that I'm in a relationship and pregnant. I'm totally out of the way so why should it matter what I'm doing? she has my ex and can keep him.

I live in a nine bedroom apartment and each elevator has a 25 cent gumball machine. My pet lizard put two dollars into the claw machine and poop came out. With the poo, loud sex noises came from our cows out in the stables. My friend suggested that i just wake up my brother and **** him in the *** with a chainsaw because he looks like Mother Theresa. So i did. BUT MY BOYFRIEND WALKED IN AND SAID "WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING?" I told my ftiends savannah and logan it didnt work but all of a sudden my lizard, gumball machine, cows, brother, boyfriend, savannah, and logan started humping she dawson. I dont know what to do. Can someone please help me?

Okay, I know this is really stupid. I get mad when people like the same things as me. It mainly gets to me when it's people I know. Like if I really like this song or movie, it feels like I need to be the only one to like it. I honestly can't help feeling this way towards things, I've tried changing it about myself but nothing works. I feel like I'm the only one in the world that feels this way. If I could change this aspect of me I would in a heartbeat. Every time I think about it, it makes me really upset and my family hates that I do this. Does anyone have any suggestions?

I havent seen my ex in years so I happened to be at a friends house in a parked car in the middle of the block when a car pulls up at the corner with black tinted windows. Thing is i saw them leaning forward and told my friend so we began chattimg again. When the man in the car hops out at the corner and its 45 degrees cold . this is where i need help. He proceeds to walk past us in the car we are starring at him to see if he was her neighbor but when I looked he hid his face behind his hand and walked completely down the block and around the corner while covering his face..my friend says as he walked past he was smiling behind his hand she could see that. And also the crossed the same intersection twice before he got out is something going on . i need help because i believe its my ex and Dont know how to read this situation anyone????

My friend always cancels out on me whenever I make plans so now I don't even make plans anymore. She barley ever makes plans

I know 16 years old is legal there but its not here so I wonder if it applies still?

I have a friend Tom who is 37, while I'm 26. He's married with a family and used to be my boss. We became friends shortly before he got a new job and left our old job. He started inviting me to his church back in late May and I've been going ever since. I don't have a license right now, so we carpooled for a good little while. For a couple months, another friend was joining us, but there were a few Sundays he was unable to join. On those days, Tom's wife insisted their son be in the car with us. She made it seem like she didn't want us riding alone together, although we've ridden alone together before and nothing happened. There was one instance, though, where he had to reach down in between my legs to pick the sunroof opener off the ground (it had fallen off and fell in between my legs) and I'm not sure his son saw or not. After that, the next two times, there were reasons that his wife had to take me home instead. Now my mom and I go to church together and sometimes I see Tom, but his wife is always with him. For the first 4 months, his wife never went to service with us, so it's catching me offguard now that she's going. Also, me and the other friend started attending Bible study a few Wednesday nights. The first Wednesday night, Tom was there (without wife). The next few times, he didn't show up. I am chalking it up to him having to work late, but who knows? Do you think his wife feels threatened by me so now she's keeping Tom on a tight leash or what? It just seems kind of odd that she's suddenly around so much now. It makes me uncomfortable and he never comes over to talk to me and our friend or me and my mother, if his wife is there. I also don't feel comfortable going over to talk to him if she's there. Me and his wife are cool, though. We get along well enough, but I have always sensed she wasn't my biggest fan. I'm not the only female friend he has, though. No, I'm not trying to be a homewrecker. I do have feelings for him, though. Trust me when I say I never intended on having feelings for him, I used to think of him as my enemy. It just happened. I sometimes get this feeling she has an idea, but doesn't want to accuse me of it or make things awkward by bringing it up. I FEEL like he's already pulling away from me, though.

Ok,my husbands brother is very spoiled brat. On facebook ,his family is fb queens they are friends with his brothers ex and new girl . Why would you do that ? They arent friends with me lol dont care but why would you be friends and chat with someone who cheated on your precious baby ??? He is really spoiled . All my husbands mom and dad post about is their brother . You wouldnt know they had 2 other children if you met them by fb . She was around along time but the whole time she had a bf behind his back ,someone explain this to me .

Every guy i meet i try to picture what his thing looks like. Do all women do this or am i weird?

I am ashamed to post this. But I wanted advice. I fell for him when I was in a bad place in my life and I wouldn't even look that way at someone who was married if it were now. But now it has been a few years and I am too deep into this now and it's very difficult to walk out. I am very alone in my life and he is all I have. I love him very much my feelings are strong and true, although it is wrong. And I do believe he feels the same for me. He has a bad relationship with his wife and has considered divorce a few times, but never has gone through with it.. What do I do? I don't want to lose what we have but I don't want to continue a relationship like this and continuing doing a bad thing. What's your advice?

I am so sick of her. They live a few houses down from me. His wife always drives that raggedy loud Honda civic down the road more than ten times, which wakes up my boyfriend and his kids. Really getting on my nerves at this point what should I do?