completely forget were i put thing and stuff at first then it was like a constant buzz in my head i was way to stressed when this all happened and the joint didnt help . i have been out 3 yrs and am going through jobs and having tons of depression and social issues! what the hell im like a piece of crap now or what? i just found out while watching 50 shades with my friend that i yell in my sleep and one time i bit her in my sleep not knowing it. ive been through 12 jobs in the last 2 yrs and **** is effed up for me, idk what to do

Long story short, my emotionally abusive dog of a mother ruined birthdays for me. We need not go into details. My wife knows I hate birthdays but insists on throwing me a party anyway because she loves birthdays. This alwayse leads to a fight ( the only fight we have all year) She says she wants to replace all my bad memories with good ones which is a sweet but futile gesture. My birthday causes so much anxiety that I am an emotional hotpot. I try to control my emotions but I fail. How do I get her to avoid my birthday P.S. I have talked to her about this she ignores me.

My husband and I can t afford counselling right now, we will get it when we have the money. But I m struggling emotionally on getting through it...is there anyone out there who has gone through this?

And why is monogamy becoming less popular?

In relation they are my cousins wife s brothers daughter? Are we even related and if so would it be wrong if we dated?

If you heard your neighbor's wife screaming and crying as her husband jumped on her, calling her all types of obscenities, and striking her with his belt, would you get involved?

I recently told my wife that I watch porn. She was flabbergasted as she thought I didn t watch it. I tried to explain to her that me watching porn did NOT mean I found her less attractive, or that i found other women more attractive, yet she thinks this must be the case. I feel it s more of an escape and private release time for me. I ve never wanted other women because of it and our sex life has never suffered. I only want my wife, nobody else, but what should I do? What should I say?

I am not getting what I need out of my husband and I am going to sound like a terrible person when I say this but I've been secretly on a dating website. I haven't spoken to a single person on the site I've just browsed photographs. I haven't ready any messages from any guys. I'm not getting ANY attention from my husband he only comes home 3 times a week he stays next door at his moms since he wants "space." We haven't been out on a date since August nor had sex in 3 weeks. All he does is complain that he gets nothing done around the house cause I'm "in the way." I feel bad but I called a friend to come over I was so upset I just wanted someone to cuddle with. We've only been married 4 months. He was NEVER like this prior to getting married.

HELP!!! MY HUSBAND DOESN T LOVE ME, DOESN T LOVE OUR 3 KIDS, HIS MENTAL CONDITION IS TORTURING THE FAMILY! We have 3 kids, the oldest is 8 years old, the youngest only a few months. A while ago he left on a business trip for a month, and when he came home he seemed to have lost his mind. Terror nightmares every night - grown man bawling his *** off, it s really ******* scary. Something happened and he wouldn t tell. He leaves the house early and doesn t comes home until 2AM. I don t know what to do. I m scared to death. He s so unstable he might do something to the kids any second. He s not a cold blooded person... What the hell could have happened that made him suddenly stop loving his own children. Please help.

seriously, i am just so sick of it. all she does is tell me what to do. she doesn't like talking with me on the phone. btw we are in long distance, because she is 3000 miles away and fixing her visa while im the US finishing college. anyways she's quite busy now; working everyday now so I guess that's good? it's just, man, it's just not the same man, ya know; like, i just don't feel any love. i mean it's just brutal; i called her a hore and she calls me a baby. there's just no love. deep inside she just hates me. and i hate her. honestly, the only reason i like her is the fact she kinda looks like britney spears. she message me once in awhile, saying I love you, but i doubt it. one i just don't trust her because she cheated on me and fuked some dude. honestly, that shoulda voided our marriage, but my dumbass came back because i think i thought i was in love. now, it's just man, like, i'm here just sitting alone. i seriously, this is no fun at all. all i do is study, play pubg, where in reality, i want to go out and meet other women. honestly, my wife doesn't seem to faking care. she adds guys on facebook, and i can't even add one chick cause i feel bad and it doesn't make sense. i am starting to really really going through divorce, but i am not committed; i just listen to mandy moore songs 247 just to forget how painful my faking marriage is. man, i am at this point, seriously, like, what the hell is the point of this. there is no love, there is no excitement,

If she weighs too much, can he demand she slim down? If she weighs too little, can he demand she eat more?

He and I was in true love to the point he told me "I hate you cause I love you so much". We did get back together and then separated for 20 yrs I searched for him refused to marry cause no one came close. When you truly been fully loved you know if the next one is really love. Well I reached out when I found him which happen yo be the same month he got married. It was a bittersweet moment. I didn t and don t want to cause him problems. I told him I was happy for him. Left him my # after a few unknown calls with none saying anything I figured it may have been his wife. So I blocked him.....I had too outa live and respect and my own imagination....does he hate me? Cause I contacted him because he never called me.

You're involved in an accident in Japan. You awaken to being nursed back to health in a small country farm house by a Japanese woman. You find you have no knowledge of anything prior to this, including your own name. Over a year and half, you gain fluency of the local tongue and grow close as man and woman. It is one day while you are tilling the soil of farm, with your now pregnant lover expecting in the spring, that your memories start to surface. You see flashes of a smiling woman in a wedding dress holding your hand as well as flashes of delivering children from this woman in a room. How do you proceed with this knowledge? Do you let the woman you've been living with know that you're remembering your past and try to get back to this other family or do you simply try to forget?

I have been married 11 years to the first guy I had sex with. Never dated anyone else. I think he dominates me but need someone to judge that. He never lets me go out I have no friends We have three kids I stay at home and look after them. He always puts me down for almost anything I say, calling me a dumb brainless c unt! Which really upsets me. He argues with every thing I suggest I can't have any money for even modest new clothes or a nice hair do. He demands sex all the time just pulling my pants down and mounting me in the kitchen for a few strokes then he comes pulls out and walks off, Sex never lasts for more than 1 minute. From what I read here he has a small penis and comes fast, but what do I know? he forces me to do anal which I hate, I haven't had an orgasm for ten years He drinks heavily benching and farting in front of me and the kids It's hell from where I am sitting is this an abusive marriage ?

Are there really that *few* decent men out there???? Even the independently wealthy women always seem to end up with some slobby semi-abusive self-absorbed loser. What gives? why does everyone keep equating "loser" with "poor"? that's really not at all what it means still, I do like to see selective women with good lives. 5 pts Patricia!

Are there really that *few* decent men out there???? Everywhere I look there's an amazing woman wearing the wedding ring of some slobby semi-abusive self-absorbed loser. What gives? "fine southern gentleman" now there's an oxymoron if I ever heard it 1) who said anything about appearance? there are plenty of handsome slobby losers out there. they're still slobby losers. 2) why do you equate good character with income? ew

They weren t certified but they are signed by him, I received them in my mail box..he states irreconcilable differences but my argument is that he cheated. He put a joint custody schedule in there for our daughter in which I do not agree with the schedule of him having her on EVERY major holiday and he didn t fill out the child support portion. Any advice?

My husband and I got engaged after 2 weeks of knowing each other and married after 4 months. Our marriage is pretty strong, but ever since I realized I found "the one", I just kind of let myself go without realizing it. It wasn't until I felt like my husband didn't want to be intimate with me because of my size (I am 221 lbs, 5'5") that I started thinking something's wrong with me. He says he loves me regardless of how I look, but coming from a family that is in general thin and fit (on his side), I feel he's just saying that to not hurt my feelings. I don't know where to start in fixing myself. I was 160 lbs when we met and blew up in 4 years. I don't take "me time". I have 2 very young boys and don't have the energy to do half of what I want. What should I do? Where should I start? I know I have to lose weight, but the motivation just isn't there.

My husband works 8 hrs a day , and never a set schedule . For example he was just off of work last friday , worked saturday & then had off again sunday. Worked Monday, Tues, Wednesday and off again Thursday & Friday . (if you ask me that is a lot of days off) he takes the car to work and won't let me drive him to work or use the car so I have to stay home all day every day 24/7 . I'm pregnant and only leave the house for doctors appointments. He told me to make my doctor appointment for today since its his day off , and I told him we need to leave in 15 mins to go to my appointment and he got mad at me and told me that I don't care that he works all day every day and that he never gets to stay home and relax & that I just want to leave and that I could never just stay home. So it made me mad because this is a DOCTORS APPOINTMENT. (33 weeks pregnant)I have to go do a blood test and hes mad at me??? I told him that its just a doctors appointment and its not like were going out somewhere? I told him that I sit at home every day 24/7 and never get to leave ever and the only time I get to leave is for a doctors appointment and he tells me that hes not taking me anymore because its his car and he doesnt want me in his car. (Prior to this we only had MY car that we would drive around every single day and I would never complain. I would have him drop me off at work while he just drove around all day going to different friends houses doing different things because he didnt have a job)

...when prompted. It's eating me up and makes me sick to my stomach. I set up special evenings and she doesn't even get excited. It puts me in a position where I'm trying too hard, which make it a losing proposition. I just feel sick to my stomach. She spends so much potential 1 on 1 time looking at clothes online and posting on FB and instagram about how great our marriage and family is. But I'm like Mr. forgotten. What to do?

My husband and i have a 8 month old son who wakes up about 4-6 times every night. I usually take him, also during the weekends and he takes him during a few hours during the weekend at daytime. We re 28. He goes out every 3 weeks and plays basketball 3 times a week. 2 days a week he doesnt see our son because pf basketball. Now he is going on vacation with friends for a weekend and i am so tired and said id like him to stay at home. But he is going anyway. Am i wrong or is he selfish ?

if they see him swishing about in a dress and heels? I should add that he is in great shape and not very big so I now realize many of my size 12 dresses will fit him

I'm a 20 year old male. I got married with an 19 year old female 2 months ago. We love each other very much. We both work and study to make a good future for ourselves. We both study physiotherapy. She works as an English teacher for children under the age of 12 and I work a cashier in a supermarket. Our parents didn't want us to get married because they thought that we're still children! Anyways... Now, we don't contact our parents anymore. They're really angry at us. Now, the problem is that I'm not able to have sex (I didn't know that before marriage). My wife is really angry at me for not telling her my problem. I can't get erected. That's true! But that doesn't mean that I'm a gay! She thinks that I'm a homosexual! I begged her to stay with me, but she keeps saying that she's really unhappy with our relationship. She says that we have a "brother-sister" relationship and not a true "husband and wife" relationship! I don't want to lose her. She thinks that I'm too weak. I can feel that she pities me. Even when, she patts my head or kissed me, she says that she feels sorry for me.

And do they stay faithful and married

To the point you feel this person may just kill you or you kill your self?

Which one? One hunky 6ft manly hairy smoldering sapphire eyes long dark hair sumptuous a$$, small penis and no orgasms as he comes fast. Or scholarly nerdy loving soft thinner guy no bulk but hung like a horse and funny caring giggly as he takes me to the moon with his tongue then STRETCHES me into oblivion Which one? Like em both Women can only have one guy in their heads at once Can't decide

My husband and I have been legally separated for 8 months living in different apartments and living different lives. I started dating this cute guy I knew from college who I met when I was doing fundraising in Nashville. My ex would push me and after the second time he touched me like that I moved out. I was in Nashville visiting some friends when we ran into each other, flirted and he asked me to dinner. Soon we were planning trips to be together since we live several states apart. My boyfriend and I have only been seeing eachother for 2 1/2 months my ex flipped out and started accusing me of cheating. My ex and I live an hour away from eachother and I blocked him from all social media but slipped up and made a post about how excited I was that my boyfriend was in town to meet my family. Long story short someone told my ex and my ex found my boyfriend and attacked him in the parking lot, my boyfriend has a broken rib, bruised ribs, broken elbow and broken leg as well as needing stiches and has a black eye, my boyfriend will stay with me for a few days but I'm worried this might've ruined our future together, his family is already skeptical of me. My ex has been arrested but the damage is already done .How can I make my boyfriend comfortable at my condo and also smooth things over with his mother.